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| 2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>currency Purportedly wood is one of the rarest materials in the known universe. Personally, I prefer precious metals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:27 AM |
| 3 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>the fiction both men and women consume. It is not hypocritical. What one consumes however does contributes to one’s worldview. The noble and wise king. The valiant, honourable knight. The villain. Stories are crucial to messaging. If the media one consumes perpetuates a certain message? For instance that there is a wage gap? Whether fictional or not, if an individual does not have the critical thinking skills to discern the difference? That media will impact their worldview. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Media couldn’t have lied to you if you can’t name the media that you consumed.>Don’t be a Menace Message! Haha! Just a shout out to one of my favourite flicks of all time hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:45 AM |
| -10 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant>maternity Is a conscious choice. Not only that, it is entirely dependent upon significant biological differences. For instance breastfeeding. Objectively, we cannot compare two very different parenting roles. Primarily because I cannot breastfeed our children, nor objectively facilitate all the positives from that processes that directly involve a biology imperative. A far more egalitarian comparison would leave out maternity as a factor. Instead strictly compare ‘work’ for ‘work’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantmaternity Is a conscious choice. Not only that, it is a choice that is dependent upon significant biological differences. For instance breastfeeding. Objectively, we cannot compare two very different parenting roles. Primarily because I cannot breastfeed our children, nor objectively facilitate all the positives from that processes that directly involve a biology imperative. A far more egalitarian comparison would leave out maternity as a factor. Instead strictly compare ‘work’ for ‘work’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:52 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.>you should do some complaining before you “fix” anything Genuine question; why? For instance I am a black and white thinker. Objectively, when facing any choice or adversity there are only two potential outcomes; the best possible outcome, and every other outcome subsequent to it. All the way down, to the worst potential outcome. Complaining means focusing on the problem, as opposed to the solution. Moreover, it is far more efficient to be solutions oriented. Which means the faster one can move… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Would you date someone you met in person who didn’t match with you on a dating app?>If I have options I agree with this take. Initial reciprocity for most normal folk is preferred. Additionally, OP objectively either did not see her partner, or his profile did not sufficiently stand out enough to warrant her matching with him. Which means she either did not vet through all her options extensively enough, or did not view her partner’s profile as a viable or even memorable option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:04 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>abundant red Fanta Man this triggered a core memory. I remember my first time travelling to Asia as a kid, and getting a red Fanta. I had never seen one before in my life, and thought Fanta was exclusively orange. That was one of the best experiences of my life. It is always just appreciating the little things that contributes to so much fun in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:39 AM |
| -1 | Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts.>does sex adopt that property because it can be monetized? Yes. Primarily because gold is only as valuable as one’s access to it. A fact that is directly analogous to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts.>it’s an activity, not a resource If it can be monetised, it adopts the exact same properties as any other commodity or resource. Which makes it analogous to every other commodity or resource that can be traded. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 12:10 AM |
| 2 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?>Legally this means nothing Good point. Objectively then should we as a society not consider the welfare of the child or children involved? That, to you, is a reasonable point of view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 11:55 PM |
| 2 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?>deliberate concealment Genuine question; for the child or children involved; what difference does it make to them if false paternity is discovered? Specifically in context to secure attachment? Arguably newborns are far more dependent upon their mothers than fathers, at least initially. There is however an argument that newborns do bond with fathers. For instance with our first, I was instructed to go ‘skin to skin’ with her. Immediately after birth. That is the sort of core memory that bonds a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.how is easy Simple; one starts with the basics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.Im sorry I cannot explain this further. Again, no need for apologies my friend. It is clear that we simply cannot agree as to what level of objectivity is not only practically applicable, but necessary. For instance your own point was that your partner in his decision making must take into account what is best for both of you. The question is by what rationale? Emotional? Practical? A combination of both? Is sacrificing one for the other an objectively good choice in any big life decision? If so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:28 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.the point of being useless So what you’re saying is bringing Descartes Ian’s philosophy is useless? In context to relationship advice? If not; then what is it applicability? For instance my primary point is that I do not need obedience from my partner. That I use objectivity primarily because it is the simplest and most efficient tool to make any big life decision. How one feels about eating is irrelevant to eating. Now, if your retort is that philosophy is applicable to objective reality, becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:11 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.This is the same deal My friend, the primary reason this is not a prerequisite unit for a tertiary level course is because this is reddit. That said, there definitely are similarities. For instance; I enjoy asking questions. As above; I ask you if Descartes first conclusion from his studies was; “I do not think, there I do not exist”. There is only one, clear, logical answer? Correct? Now, you could have answered the question directly. Which leads to good faith debating. You, almost at every tur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:03 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.not that simple Okay. I will ask you, simply; was Descartes first conclusion to affirming his existence; ‘I think; therefore I am.” Presumably, there is only one answer to this question? Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>5ft10 This was what I learned. Objectively 5’9/5’10 is only a few inches off 6ft. Which to the eye, is only slightly noticeable. If that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Damn! 2/4 again! Thus, my obligatory acceptance of only 50% of your greeting haha! Salutations and best wishes for your day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh my hahaha! That is too good. Thanks for the chuckle! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:15 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I find this sub so entertaining. It is fantastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.My friend, do not apologise. You have tried your best. For which I am grateful. It is true not all can be like Descartes and truly simplify their points down to one sentence; “I think; therefore I am.” Definitely, cannot be simple can it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.My friend, do not apologise. You have tried your best. For which I am grateful. Cheers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.Let us try a different tack. Where am I wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.Ontology Again, I have a simple answer; faith. As a Christian, there are simply two modes in which my worldview informed; that which can be reasonably explained, and that which cannot. For instance Maths. Science. Engineering. For Metaphysics? The science maths only goes so far. Which is where not only your ability to explain yourself or your argument ends, but the objective limit of our entire understanding of physics as a body of knowledge is currently limited to. Which limits the applicabilit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:57 PM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.it is clear Explain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:40 PM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.My friend, the issue with debating higher order thinking is if one cannot explain it simply, then their point is moot. For instance there’s a theory that we are all just brains in a glass jar. If true, one’s worldview is still impacted by this fact. Regardless if one is cognisant of the fact, or not. Which is the basis of my point of view. Your relationship would be objectively impacted by your partner’s earning capacity. Obedience is secondary to this fact, unless it is simply blind obedience. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.My friend, the issue with debating higher order thinking is if one cannot explain it simply, then their point is moot. For instance there’s a theory that we are all just brains in a glass jar. If true, one’s worldview is still impacted by this fact. Regardless if one is cognisant of the fact, or not. Which is the basis of my point of view. Your relationship would be objectively impacted by your partner’s earning capacity. Obedience is secondary to this fact, unless it is simply blind obedience. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Passport broing should unironically be illegal>the difference Scale. For instance I do okay in the western country I live in. When I go back home to my third world country? I’d live like a king if I was allowed to. The currency is 2:1. Conversely when I travel stateside I essentially am halving my buying power. This premise is exactly applicable to the financial circumstances for individuals in developing nations. If they shack up with a guy from the states? They’re doubling their buying power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.My friend, Descartes, Socrates, Epictetus and the entire pantheon of ancient philosophers where all subject to objective reality. To necessity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:00 AM |
| 2 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.>Descartes I am fairly confident for Descartes to think, he first had to eat. Though I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:59 PM |
| – | I would be happy if hypergamy was real>if hypergamy was real The key factor objectively that drives hypergamy is necessity dictates. For instance is it more attractive to be skinny? Or muscular? Socially inept? Or socially adept? Poor? Or wealthy? As soon as the simplest form of objective reasoning is applied, why hypergamy not only exists but underpins the basic foundations of life is clear. It is literally as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:23 PM |
| 1 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.>take a philosophy course The issue with philosophy is it can only exist in context to objective reality. The meaning of life. Morality. Spirituality. Topics of luxury. As opposed to necessity. For instance if a couple cannot feed themselves? How they feel about it is secondary to objective fact. Which is the foundation from which all higher order thinking progresses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:09 PM |
| 2 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.>He cant pull this final say terribly often Why not? Objectively, in any big decision there are only two outcomes; yes, or no. Arriving to this directly? Negates all bickering. Compromising. Negotiating. Or variables. Primarily because if one uses objective reasoning there is only going to be one objectively optimal answer. Especially in context to big decisions. Thus if I simply find the objectively beneficial answer? Or what often happens is my wife finds the objectively beneficial answer? The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:05 PM |
| 4 | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.>you have to show her It is far more efficient, and beneficial to prove to oneself first, what caliber of person they are. Primarily because one’s outcomes not only shows one potential partner who they are, those outcomes show everyone the level an individual is operating at. For instance if my wife of 11 years left me today? Yes, it would be hard. At least initially. Yet I also know if so inclined I would be fine attracting a new partner tomorrow. Which negates my need for my wife to be obedien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Women only feel anxious and unsafe because they have no survival instincts, and don’t learn until something bad happens.First, I agree with this post. Thank you [u/Spicy_take](u/Spicy_take). Just few questions if you’re up for it. I have a 17 year old that weight trains. 3 day split. She runs a 25 minute 5km. Plays rugby. Knows a few kicks, punches, and wrestling techniques. Knows if shits the fan the only first choice is run and call for help. Outside of weapons and formal martial training, what else can I do to up-skill her? She’s good socially. Fairly responsible and lets us know where she is and what she is d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:40 PM |
| 11 | Women will never be stuck alone.>elderly This is what I find tragic about Western culture. In my culture and many similar cultures in The East our elderly are venerated. A key part of one’s ‘village’ thus for the most are treasured and respected. Multi generational homes are the social norm. Not nursing homes. By all appearances it is just a very sad fate for those who end up there. Not to mention those elderly who live alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:20 PM |
| – | it is acceptible for women to dress in revealing outfits only because of male-dominated psyops>the only things that can considered attractive Yeah this was a bit of an eye opener for me. When younger I did okay dating so never put much thought into it. After my first divorce though I was a little more intentional. Paid attention to women complimenting me. Weird ones I’d never thought of; nice almond eyes. Nice lashes. Hands. Forearms. There was the usual too; nice arms. Nice legs. Nice butt. Yet women notice so many little things that I for the life of me would never have guessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:15 PM |
| – | it is acceptible for women to dress in revealing outfits only because of male-dominated psyops>short shorts As a rugby player I can confirm. Great for summer. Even better in winter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:04 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?how My friend, it is the simplest thing in the world; start with yourself. For instance; can you perceive the world around you? If so; how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?simply dead wrong Okay. Let’s try a different tack. Objectively, how do you thin an individual perceives the world around them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?unfalsifiable My friend, it is widely accepted that the nurture versus nature debate is a pivotal factor in the objective outcomes of every single human on the planet. If you do not agree, that is fine. I cannot simplify the point further for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:35 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?>not testing my point Primarily because your point is subsequent to mine. You’re fixated on statistics. Which is fine. My point is however is rooted in objective reasoning. Specifically, the objective reality of every single human being on the planet. From which all your statistics, information and data is derived. Thus, if you cannot retort the fact that physiology, then external stimuli are the two primary factors that inform the worldview of every single human on the planet? We can move a ste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:27 PM |
| 0 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?>Unknowable. Interesting point. Let’s test it. Objectively. For instance for every single human being on the planet; does their physiology impact how they view the world? Genetics. Physical stature. Facial features. Mental capacity. Skin colour. Biological sex. Objectively, the answer for most reasonable people is straightforward. Or do you disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:11 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?>the distribution Okay. Let’s simplify the point using objectivity. For instance objectively are nature and nurture not the two primary factors that influence an individual’s worldview? If not, why not? If so, in what way? For instance, in how an individual exercises their agency? Is this not the objective reality of every single human being on the planet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:02 PM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?>so heavily correlated The root cause of how one views the world comes down to two factors; first nature, then nurture. Objectively these two factors determine how much agency an individual can exercise in response to external stimuli. For instance take political affiliation. Say an individual is a third generation democrat. Are they more likely to stay voting for the democrats? Or not? Conversely say an individual is a third generation capitalist. So the party may not be as important as the pol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:46 PM |
| 12 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?>married This is a good point. I’m 11 years removed from dating to, thus I have to keep a very open mind when it comes to the realities of dating in the current SMP. That said, regardless of the spread of any ideology, be it Feminism or TRP the key factor has always been and will always be individual agency. It underpins how one chooses to view the world, irrespective of their objective reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠First, I’m sorry to hear that you were at that stage. If this topic hits too close please tell me straight up and we can stop. Your well being is the priority my guy. Not talking debating about struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>Sell your computer, challenge yourself more. Oddly enough, I recently just taught myself how to replace a broken screen on my old MacBook Pro. So I’m slowly learning the hardware side of things. My next challenge will be to better understand the software/coding side. To better understand it, then better understand the machinations behind complex systems like A.I. and algorithms. Eventually teach myself a little coding. Yet that’s quite a while down the track. >preach inviting challenge Genuine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:45 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Who is she? Did Norway even progress? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:44 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My favourite thing about moving is going through all the boxes that were stuck in the attic. Or the back of the garage. Old photos. Music instruments. Toys. Hell even forgotten about Christmas decorations. It’s like your own personal time capsule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>Preaching what you refuse to practice I agree. Roughly 9 years straight of 75+ hours weeks, plus one failed marriage was not too big a deal. Nor the six figures+ I dropped in legal fees fighting for the 3 years following that divorce. Just to earn the same legal right to parent my child. In terms of adversity? No struggle at all. That said, currently? I’m chasing far bigger goals. So even if my wife left me today? Tried to take the kids? Took ownership of all our joint assets? I’d still chase t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>The poverty and homelessness will make food and shelter so much sweeter Agreed. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠didn’t really care if I was around or not Genuine question; do you think if that was true; you’d still be alive? Objectively, if an individual is drowning; what is their first response? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠some kind of relief Agreed. Perhaps even happy? Blessed? Fortunate? Maybe even grateful? To be alive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>I remember feeling like a stupid moron That’s understandable. If you can’t remember too well, could you guess what that very first breath after almost drowning felt like? The primary reason for this question is to establish sufficient perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠First, commiserations my guy for the loss of your friend. That’s hard to go through. Hope you have some good memories to treasure him by. >almost drowned Do you remember how you felt immediately after? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠Okay. Let’s try a different tack. Do you know how to swim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>I don’t understand why Okay. Let’s see if we can help understand each other better. Is there something that you excel at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:56 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>resort to personal insults Objectively, if an individual has to resort to insults, trolling or rage baiting does that say more about me? Or them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman provides>you have a perfect scenario in your head Not quite. The primary reason I ask though is because I am a perfectionist. So when it came time for our kids, I had a solid plan in place. As such whilst our pregnancies and maternity leave were both reasonably straightforward, I’m always thinking about what we could have done better. Hence gaining the views of what others view as optimal. Then comparing their viewpoints objectively. For instance we can both view our own set ups as ‘great’. Or ‘solid’. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman provides>12 weeks >blessed to have a hybrid job >pump in the HR supply closet Objectively do you think your set up was optimal? If so, how? If not, what is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>There’s really no point I disagree. The primary I post or comment is because I want my viewpoints challenged. Thus white knights, angry women and anyone else who disagrees with my points is who I am looking for. Primarily because if they too debate in good faith, we can often find common ground to broaden both our perspectives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>no, nothing Interesting point. Objectively I’d imagine if one were say struggling to breathe? You’d agree there would be substantial benefit in overcoming that set of circumstances. The exact same premise is applicable to drinking water. Eating. Making bank. Conversely, say one is just given money. Given food. Your easy wins. What level of appreciation would they have? More importantly, objectively what skillsets would one master if they’re given everything? What direct experience in acquiring … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Talking to women is impossible.>a Star Trek gal As an aspiring ‘Trekky’ I’m going hit the next girl up I see with a Star Trek shirt on with ‘Live long and prosper’. It’s one of my favourites! Also why can’t cold approaching be fun? Stars Wars. Pokémon. If I see someone who has made a conscious choice to wear merchandise from a fandom I share? I love chatting to them about it. It’s exactly the same when I see fellow Cowboys fans out in the wild. I can’t help myself and usually just joke in my best ‘Jimmy Johnson’ impersonation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:29 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Interesting conclusion. I agree it’s highly likely you’re correct. I get downvoted a bit and don’t know who does it, so just presume those people cannot debate sufficiently to retort my viewpoints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:19 PM |
| 0 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman provides>it’s a great set up Genuine question; postpartum what was your timeframe for returning work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>glorify struggle Genuine question; in your view is there anything beneficial about struggle? About adversity? If so, what? If not, why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:11 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How can you tell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:10 PM |
| 7 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.I just want to say I’m sorry your experiences were like that. We’ve been lucky enough to experience both an intervention free home birth, and a c-section. So my wife has had experience at both extremes. Medical intervention whilst a wonder of modern technology has its place, and rightfully so. The home birth however was one of the most powerful experiences I ever got to witness. Just awe inspiring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.Hehe! My grandfather had two wives, but no. I know my limitations. Whilst my partner is my second wife, I prefer my partners one at a time haha! Also, as to funding maternity our government does subsidise 6 months of paid maternity leave and 12 months job protection leave. Though I can’t recall if she used it. Additionally, there’s been periods where she’s taken time off(a few months here and there) where I’ve covered that as well. Then just changed jobs. So I can’t recall if she was eligible fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:13 PM |
| -2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>dating/attention dispensers Genuine question; if most women see an individual primarily as a dating/attention dispenser? Who is responsible for this fact? Additionally, who is solely responsible for addressing it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.>she had to fund her own maternity leave She could afford to fund her own maternity leave. Plus a privately engaged midwife. Plus private hospital fees. The point being we we’re blessed enough to be in a position where funding was not an issue, so the first thing we both prioritized was time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Most women are attracted to dominant men, and most women want to be in control>want to be in control I have the opposite view; most people regardless of gender by default cede control. Primarily because most humans by nature are lazy. For instance we have our food delivered to us. Cars drive us around. Autonomously. A.I. Conversely, there are those who limit their use of tools like A.I. Like the GPS. Primarily because they prefer to control the fact if the GPS goes out, they’ve already memorised the route. Or retained to memory pertinent information, making A.I. mostly su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:27 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵2/4 so I’ll only accept 50% of your greetings hehe! Good morning! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:17 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why not both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:15 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Little man Syndrome. Takes less strength to pull someone or something down, than it does to lift them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:13 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hehe! Nice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:10 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>shopping at Target We’re moving soon and my wife is throwing out most of our towels. She really likes the ‘grandeur’ towels and bath sheets. Just a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:26 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Non worker chiming in! Though I’m my advice is aimed at helping, it also is for my own benefit as well. I like to test my worldview often, just so my perspective does not lose its width. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:22 PM |
| 6 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.>a six pack This is a good thing. Primarily because if the vast majority of women do not know a man with a six pack, most men have the ability to become one of those rare men that do. It’s not even complicated either. Simply eat a deficit for 24 months and move daily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:19 PM |
| -2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠>There is no point where people will tell a man “Actually, you’re good enough as you are”. One of the biggest flaws in this viewpoint is it frames adversity as a negative. When adversity is the spice that gives success a far more satisfying flavour. For instance objectively, what is more fulfilling; when one has competed, struggled against a truly testing battle and won through? Or an easy victory? This is an ancient perspective too. Camus’s taught us we must imagine Sisyphus happy. Socrate’s la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.>massive financial hit This is the key differentiating factor. For instance during my first marriage, I worked 80+ hour weeks. So whilst we were good financially even as a single income family, there was just no substitute for time. Conversely prior to my second marriage, I knew I had to change. So set things up so I didn’t have to work. The difference? Was night and day. It also helped that I chose a partner that owned a few assets too. So when she went on maternity leave she had 24 months off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:53 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Moving houses soon. Very exciting times. Our kids have only ever lived in our current house, so whilst our 10 year old was initially really sad, she is now really excited. We keep driving past our new house, primarily because we’re moving from one house to another, in the same street hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:46 PM |
| – | A question regarding chores and sexual altruism of men>how my husband operated The key also is not only how one’s potential partner currently operates, but anticipating and preparing well for how an ideally realistic lifestyle will operate together. When my wife and I were doing pre marriage counselling it was a great exercise, because of the two of us I prefer order. A place for everything, and everything in its place. For instance my wife likes cleanliness, but she’s okay with just dumping the shoes in a shoe basket. Conversely I built a custom s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked aboutNo worries. Just want to say thank you for debating in good faith. Cheers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked aboutIt’s clear it cannot be Okay. Let’s pull this apart. Again, using a modern, progressive democracy where birth control is easily accessible and encouraged. Is there clear legislation governing parental and financial obligations pre-birth? Even pre-sex? Objectively, to me the answer is straightforward. Do you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked aboutLegislation can equally applied post childbirth This is a good point. Can it then be equally applied pre-birth? For instance you state the child gains rights after 4 months? In utero? Or at 4 months old? Additionally, what rights? Right to financial support from the father? Does this then mean the father has financial responsibility, but no other legal responsibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:28 PM |
| 1 | In regards to Akash Singh situation.if you treat your wife well in public. The primary lens I view the Akash situation is with objectivity. For instance who benefits from this story going viral? Conversely, who is the target audience? From there, it’s a little easier to discern what the motivations of those involved are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked aboutAgreed. Now, objectively is legislation more effective at the point of childbirth; or beforehand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked aboutparent child obligation and rights? Okay. Let’s see if we can find some common ground to work from. First, for most jurisdictions legally a child attains rights only at childbirth. This a reasonably accurate view of reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>off topic How so? The topic is about how objectively, financial abortions are not legally feasible. To recap my first viewpoint; they are. We simply legislate them as the default legal footing. The primary rationale being, objectively they empower men to proactively invest in their potential offspring because they have to consciously choose to do so. Whilst also empowering women by default with information about the calibre of man who chooses not to. Which objectively in context to the choice t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>You can’t legislate a solution The primary reason default financial abortions can be effective is because it serves two purposes; first it empowers men to consciously choose to be an active parent. By giving them legally recognised agency, to make that choice. Second, it draws a clear line in the sand for women. Thus by default women are far better informed, as to whether to proceed from conception to childbirth with any man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I always assumed most people on dating apps don’t want commitment due to COL, not being “trash”>COL One maxim I was taught very early on is this; it’s not a pricing problem; it’s an income problem. I’m a little removed by when I was a teenager, my father sold me his old car. Made a couple hundred bucks off me. I learned right there, that it’s not the price, but what I do with my money that matters. Sure, stuff is expensive. We can always make more money though. It’s why I never sweat the small stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>wouldn’t fly in any court Whilst I agree the current system is flawed, the aim should be to establish equality to the extent it is applicable. For instance take rape. If a man is a victim and subsequently a father due to rape? What level of child support should he be liable for? What about if a woman sabotages the condom? Or lies about being on birth control? What level of victimhood should absolve a man of his financial obligation? Now, a more common scenario; if contraception fails? Objective… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>a child’s mom doesn’t have the right to terminate a child’s rights to resources from it’s father. Genuine question; when does a child attain the right to resources from their father? At conception? First trimester? At birth? A child’s right to resources is dependent upon them existing in the first place. Removing the ambiguity by default ensures that those men who actually want to provide for their potential offspring, have to make a conscious effort to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:00 PM |
| -1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>punish The point is not about punishment. It is about agency. For instance when both parties agree to partake in safe sex by using contraception; is their primary goal to have a baby? Or just sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>It doesn’t have needs Genuine question; does a man then have a financial obligation to that clump of potential cells? If so, to what degree can and should a man have the right to advocate for that clump of cells? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 09:28 PM |
| -2 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>establish financial and material support since the start The most efficient solution is to make financial abortions the default legal footing. Then have men opt in. Thus children minded men can simply opt in prior to conception even happening, and women have all the information they need to make a better informed decision. Before the clothes even come off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:32 PM |
| -1 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about>potential life trumps the mothers The primary issue however is agency. Objectively a potential mother consciously chose to have sex. Conception occurring does not absolve her of her choice to have sex with that specific man. So if she chose well by say having sex with her husband? There is little issue. Conversely if she chose to engage in casual sex with a stranger? How is she considering the needs of the fetus making a decision like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:11 PM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCROSSPOST FROM AFRAIDTOASK SUB Had threesome 2 years ago and it's ruining me, help please? Hello, I (27F) had threesome with 2 guys 2 years ago and the situation is so fucked up. I agreed to this, then the guys spread rumours about it and I'm from small town so everyone heard it. I got depressed actually and had suicidal thoughts. Last year I met my soon to be fiance. He asked me about this rumour and I love him so much that I lied to him and said that it's just a rumour. Oh and the thing is tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:02 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>They run a hustle I wonder if they can see what they’re doing is what poor people do. Have they no pride? Shame? Or do young people not think like that anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:05 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Poor things. I pity women like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 08:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 08:29 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵As someone sober for the last 8 years, I don’t know either. Just kidding. I’m happy enough without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 07:59 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That’s enough internet for me today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 07:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hehe! Love it! I think they actually make the playoffs. Big Caleb and Ben fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 07:56 PM |
| 0 | How do the conversations about women willing to do naughtier things with past partners come up?This is anecdotal but I do it directly. The key is setting. Straight after sex? Probably not the best setting. Conversely at a resort during digestif? Have been far more.. Fruitful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 12:48 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I’m right there with you. Snakes fascinate and terrify me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 12:32 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>Guy got multiple dates I agree with this take. He’s attractive enough to get positive responses. Cold approach is not dead, it just takes a little more skill. I’m confident if he had said ‘Hey those shoes look cute on you’ or highlighted something that she put effort into? The compliment would have been far more positively received. Or, she was just having that sort of day. So no amount of random positivity was going to disrupt whatever issues she was going through at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.>Most women have an endless sea of options I wonder how many women would agree with this viewpoint. Especially if they use social media which can and purportedly does skew perception. >Its just a description ‘Endless seas’ as an adjective is emotive language, which whether by design or unintentionally elicits an emotional response. Conversely rephrased neutrally as ‘men face rejection’ is a far more objective description. The primary point being that readers have no other point of context than t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Circle of life, but no. One of my wife’s besties has three albino pythons. Whilst the kids are fascinated when we hang out there, I will not leave her beer garden or tv room. No hate for snake people, it’s just not for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 11:34 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵La.. Laveeto.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 11:31 PM |
| -1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>her description I did not need to. All I needed to read was; >my mind is so messed up right now. Anything preceding or after that admission is secondary to the primary issue; which is his reaction. For instance my marriage of 11 years could end tomorrow. Yes. It would be hard. At least initially. I however have enough perspective to know eventually we will all be okay. So that would be my primary focus. Not on how ‘messed up’ things were, because I understand and accept all relationships end. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 11:23 PM |
| 3 | People are too in love with social media validation to give it up for a partner who doesn’t beat that attention>posting thirst traps The bigger issue is not the posting, it’s the consuming. We live in an attention economy. Objectively if an individual is spending a significant amount of their time online, they are consciously choosing to be part of a captured audience. Me included. Bleacher Report. Reddit. Pinterest. All my guilty pleasures. Which I have to make a conscious effort to direct my attention away from. Especially in my downtime. For instance my wife and I after the kids are asleep will just s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>Tom Cruise His all time favourite scene of mine was when he was jumping up and down on Oprah’s couch. Best. Acting. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:16 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵His response justified her decision. He could’ve thanked her for her honestly, then kept it moving. He chose.. Poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Who cares about men being expected to pay on dates? Why care?>I dont sweat the small stuff once I love someone Agreed. I however think it is even more beneficial to apply this viewpoint to strangers. Primarily because objectively the smaller one can minimise the emotional impact the decisions others have on themselves? The easier one can traverse adverse situations. Regardless of who has contributed to them. Take for instance the women who told unprompted that they went spans without paying for a meal. Does that say more about the men who paid? Or those w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.>helps them build character First great points. Say one lacks character. Lacks discipline and resilience. Lacks motivation. Whether it’s the military or marriage, objectively if a catalyst spurs one to build these facets of their lives? Is it more beneficial to them? Or less? The most efficient way socially awkward and unattractive men can attain solid outcomes? Is if they first acknowledge their limitations, then work directly at mitigating them. Then focus on building upon their strengths. Whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A RELATIONSHIP ADVICE SUB Help! My son's (20M) GF (19F) wears inappropriate/very revealing clothing with us in public. I'd like to address it before an upcoming family vacation. How can I tactfully handle this? TLDR at the end. My family (my husband, my mother, our son, his girlfriend, and I) were just on vacation together in a pretty fancy location. We're taking a vacation again together later this summer with similar vibes. We are in the US. My son's girlfriend is lovely and we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:16 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵He must’ve got a better offer from Blackrock.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Who cares about men being expected to pay on dates? Why care?>I’m not worth less than her I’ve always viewed it the opposite way; she’s only worth a dinner. If a woman thinks a free dinner is all she wants from me? Then ghosts me? I’ve always thought it hilarious, because she never really ‘tapped the well’. Conversely when my wife and I were doing our pre marriage counselling and pre-nups agreed all properties acquired during the marriage would have a single owner. So she owns outright our current ppr, despite me solely putting down a sizeable down paymen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.>did i say it was a negative? When rejection is framed as >the endless sea of rejections Is the implication more positive? Or more negative? I might be alone in my interpretation but reading the comment it would appear your intent was to frame dating and rejection as an ‘endless sea’ a man has to navigate. When in reality adversity is the spice that gives success a far more satisfying flavour. Especially in context to dating, rejection and relationships in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:30 AM |
| -1 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.>the endless sea of rejections that have to be persevered through Why is this always framed so negatively? Is resilience not beneficial? Perseverance? What about learning to handle rejection with grace and maturity? Through sheer volume? Conversely what is lost? The attention of a woman who was not interested anyway? Dating, for men is by far more beneficial than it is detrimental. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Being single is the result of mainly systematic forcesthe power of social forces This is a good point. Genuine question; was it the power of social forces that forced you and your classmates into that class that day? Or, if not forced at the very least influenced your decision making? Your tastes? Goals? Dreams? Desires? Conversely, what impact does individual agency have to the same questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Being single is the result of mainly systematic forcesI’m a big believer in systemic forces The primary issue with shifting blame is it also shifts agency. Objectively if one attributes their own individual outcomes to any external factor? That factor then determines their outcomes. Take loneliness. How does one take control of addressing it? Facebook? Insta? Concerts? Boozed up weekends away with the boys once a month? Horse riding with besties? Lots of holidays with family? Before looking externally, one should focus internally. First on what lon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Would people view Forrest Gump differently if genders were swapped?>Not really Okay. Let’s say you’re right. Jenny is not really disabled. Does sexual assault create trauma? Specifically; to children as their brains develop? If not, why not? If so, how? Psychologically? Physiologically? Are these conditions debilitating? >can be worked on Now, I agree that those conditions can and should be worked on. That said, if the hypothetical is staying true to the movie? Jenny did not appear to make very good decisions. Which leads us as viewers to the conclusion she did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:25 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Happy Summer Solstice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:14 PM |
| -2 | Would people view Forrest Gump differently if genders were swapped?>Forrest Gump is mentally impaired So was Jenny. The only difference was degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:55 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Phird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:27 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Poor guy. I hope he found happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:02 AM |
| 16 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement>legitimate screening choices Agreed. When I was dating as soon as a woman rejected my coffee and walk date? I’d keep it moving. It wasn’t even about the money. For both of us, it was a great first date because it was low pressure, got us both out and moving and most importantly; was in a public place. Often early morning. Thus far safer than a dinner in the evening, that potentially could move into late night. Ideal for meeting a stranger, even if that person was a potential partner. It was gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:58 AM |
| 3 | There’s a difference between being vulnerable and having a victim complex.>crying over your dog of 17 years dying Whilst I understand and accept emotions are inherent, to what degree should we enable them? Take for instance a beloved pet dying. Why is the focus primarily on the loss? Why not the memories of all the good? Of gratitude? For instance there was a great comment on reddit a while ago about how to view grief. Paraphrasing it said grief comes in waves. At first, it is like a tsunami. It hits. One is swept away in an emotional storm. Drowns. A week later anoth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:17 AM |
| – | The Line Between Caring and Controlling Is InconsistentAny decision that’s considered a ‘life’ decision. For instance we both attended private schools. I presumed that was going to be the same for our kids. After deliberating, due to where we leave the public school had a really great reputation. So my partner wanted to try it out. I was against it initially, but she made the point that we’d save a significant amount of money. Plus the private school I was planning on sending the kids to was out of area. So objectively she was right, and that’s the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | The rise of semi-segregated online spaces and their consequences have been a disaster for gender relations.>semi-segregated online spaces and their consequences The pivotal factor is not online, but the lack of critical thinking applied to objective reality. For instance if an individual simply heads outside, they will observe that the myriad of other human beings on the planet are more similar to them than different. They breathe. Eat. Sleep. Think. Struggle. Find joy. Applying objectivity is the most efficient and arguably effective lens to gain sufficient perspective. So one is not hindered by the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Men dating downthe amount effort you are putting into a relationship is not what determines how healthy it is. Interesting take. So objectively you think relationships should feel almost effortless? That, to you, is realistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:39 PM |
| – | The Line Between Caring and Controlling Is Inconsistent>the line you and your partner Solely establish. Inconsistency only exists due to uncertainty. For instance my wife knows my primary rationale for life decisions is objectivity. She hates the word. Yet for our decade plus together whenever we’ve disagreed, if a decision is an objectively poor one she only has two choices; accept my rationale, or end the relationship. It’s impossible to be inconsistent nor entertain inconsistency when one builds their entire worldview upon objectivity. It is lite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a "reverse orgasm gap*?>How would you feel Currently with little kids during the week we mostly just have vanilla quickies. On weekends though we get a little more experimental. I train a lot and my wife is in our home gym fairly consistently. So Friday or Saturdays when our eldest is out partying, we’ll mix it up. We usually have a few orgasms between us, but the focus is more on the experience. Playing around and trying new things. Not counting orgasms. If my wife was getting there more times than me? It would not c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Men dating down>Make it make sense The key difference is this; >very little effort Let’s adopt your point of view. One couple are putting ‘very little effort’ into their relationship to make it work. Say the basic minimum. Conversely, another couple prioritize high effort and investment in their relationship. Objectively, which dynamic is more likely to lead to a healthier relationship? Additionally, what is more attractive; a high effort individual? Or a low effort individual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Men dating down>worth the effort All relationships require effort. At the least healthy ones. If an individual views a potential partner as ‘not worth the effort’ because that person is ‘too’ high value? That says more about the individual than the high value people they attract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Men dating down>a man who is tall, attractive, and/or a high earner The key difference is objectively once a man attains a reasonably decent status, there is a plethora of younger, more beautiful women available to them. Conversely for high caliber women? There is not an abundance of taller, richer and more attractive men available. Arguably too, that pool of high caliber men only gets smaller as youth and beauty diminishes in comparison to their competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Men dating down>rather than marry down or risk the losses that can come with divorce. In my experience it’s the other way; most men prefer being married. For instance though my friends and I are not rich we do okay. 3/4 of us are on our second marriages. Additionally, almost all the fairly affluent folk I know are on their second or third marriages. One my bestie’s former father-in-law is ‘home office’ wealthy. He’s on his fourth. Divorce is not that bad. If anything, I’m grateful for it. Though it cost a fair… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Men dating down>A high value woman thinks Not only that she is owed something, but that her value in The SMP is the same as a high caliber man’s. Objectively, it is not. Women in general are valued for their youth and beauty. Whilst men, in addition to surpassing a minimum threshold of appearance? Are also vetted by what they can provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 01:59 PM |
| 3 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"There is very little to admire about the leaders you have mentioned. If anything at all. The line, for me, as stated above is reasonableness. As soon as anyone’s actions surpasses reason, their actions are no longer open to admiration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:32 AM |
| 7 | A date asks "what woman do you admire">where the line is For me it’s reasonableness. My preference is towards democracy and capitalism, but I am an advocate of the benefits of uplifting the disadvantaged too. So lean more centrist than not. It’s why I volunteer a ton because having race days and black tie events a great, but I derive a great deal of joy and fulfilment from actually helping folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:32 AM |
| 10 | A date asks "what woman do you admire">Margaret Thatcher I admire Thatcher. Regardless of her politics it takes a tremendous amount of ability to hold the Prime Ministership for as long as she did. Angela Merkel is another I admire for the same reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Ex-wife's boyfriend causing problems.>been trying for a while Genuine question; say you escalate. Get what you want. Then what? Focus on your kids? Enjoy your time with your partner? Build memories? A future? If you want to lower yourself in front of your children and loved ones, no one can stop you. If you want to model for them what patience, self control and strength looks like in a healthy adult? That choice too is yours. Choose wisely. Godspeed and good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Being confident doesn’t matter if you’re not seen as competent.>refusing to learn Good point. Objectively what role does self belief and self confidence play in the process of learning? For instance, if one has no self belief or self confidence that they can learn? Is that beneficial? Or, is encouraging self belief and self confidence that one can learn a more beneficial approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:27 PM |
| – | How Common is it For Male Relationship Partners to Misbehave So As to Cause Lasting Emotional Harm>l learned some lessons Objectively, have those lessons been beneficial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Being confident doesn’t matter if you’re not seen as competent.>missing fundamental things The issue is objectively self belief and self confidence precedes all the fundamental things. For instance acquiring social skill. As a volunteer to young guys with Autism the first thing I encourage is that self belief. That self confidence. To start with their internal dialogue. Can that lead to overcompensation? Certainly. In my decade of experience with these young men though it is far more beneficial to aim high and fail upwards, than be mired in negative thought… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How Common is it For Male Relationship Partners to Misbehave So As to Cause Lasting Emotional Harm>not how it effected me. Genuine question; how does it affect you now? Not at all? If so; how did you get to this point? If it still affects you; to what extent? Also, if you do not want to answer by all means please do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How Common is it For Male Relationship Partners to Misbehave So As to Cause Lasting Emotional Harmlasting mental harm Genuine question; when does The Victimhood Mentality end? Can it? Objectively, an individual is a victim. Is that then it for them? They are beholden to that identity forever? If not, why not? How does one sufficiently address first the harm, then the lasting impact? If so, what level of victimhood then is irreconcilable? Rape? Torture? Short of death, what experience is it reasonable to say; that is unforgivable? For instance I teach all my kids that Forgiveness is not about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:51 AM |
| 4 | How Common is it For Male Relationship Partners to Misbehave So As to Cause Lasting Emotional Harm>lasting mental harm Genuine question; when does The Victimhood Mentality end? Can it? Objectively, an individual is a victim. Is that then it for them? They are beholden to that identity forever? If not, why not? How does one sufficiently address first the harm, then the lasting impact? If so, what level of victimhood then is irreconcilable? Rape? Torture? Short of death, what experience is it reasonable to say; that is unforgivable? For instance I teach all my kids that Forgiveness is not abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:40 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Haha! Too true. Got to think outside the box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 06:51 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hehe! That’s true. Some special folk here at PPD(myself included haha!). Any suggestions to try and help people come together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:46 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>chatting with a real person This is a fantastic point. What about instead of revealing a pic, it auto generated a date? Say, ice skating. Or bowling. Or something that they both have in common. Take the pressure off, whilst still facilitating depth of connection? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:06 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵HYPOTHETICAL4ALL: How beneficial would a dating app be with no pics? For instance one builds a profile, likes, dislikes, core values, hobbies and interests. Once they match with another person then pics are released. Any merit? Or am I being a hopeless romantic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 09:55 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A FEMINISM SUB Is this subreddit sex worker positive? Or does it not take an official stance on sex work? TOP COMMENT Sex worker positive, yes. Sex work positive, no. SECOND COMMENT What do you mean by "sex worker positive"? Most feminists do not label sex work as a particularly feminist endeavor for many reasons, but wouldn't say that sex workers inherently can't be feminist because obviously that isn't true. As for my piece, I don't think we should encourage young women to becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Work on yourself is useless advice>I think the belief everything can be solved gives us hope The issue with this viewpoint is it objectively limits one’s worldview. Before they can even test that belief, as one’s internal dialogue is fundamental in how one faces adversity. That is not to say being realistic is detrimental. It is fundamental. Yet how does one spur themselves to action without Hope? >our doomed existences For instance look up Dr David Sinclair out of Harvard(great episode on The Modern Wisdom Podcast). His lab is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵traditional in the south to show up with food Or if told to bring nothing, a bottle of something. We keep a few bottles of Veuve and red and always bring a bottle of both. I just love to reciprocate the generosity. Fills my cup, and is a beautiful tradition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 09:08 PM |
| 13 | What do abusive men bring to the table?a lot of women are insecure/anxious I agree with this. One common factor I found was how subtly pervasive Fear is for women. Which is understandable. One thing however I taught my 17 year old was to be cautious, but as fearless as possible. It’s why she weight trains. Runs a reasonable 5km. Plays rugby. So if push comes to shove and she finds herself in abusive or dangerous situation? She has at least some tools at her disposal. I obviously cannot relate to a woman’s attraction to abuse. I do ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:13 AM |
| 6 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsmight find it difficult The most efficient system is to delineate between if one is objectively independent, or possesses some form of disability. Take for instance mental health issues. Whether physiological or psychological, having such a disability presumably precludes one from attaining their desired outcome. So addressing the underlying cause is the most direct route to empowering change. Conversely, an objectively independent individual? Needs little to no protection, because they are suff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:58 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yep. Hard no from me too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:35 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I stripper I dated had a similar designed bathroom. All pink with anime characters. A padded toilet seat. I should not have entertained that relationship as long as I did, but the memories were worth it hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:35 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sorry to hear my friend. Wishing you a speedy recovery and solid dental cover. Also regular cleans are free with most good plans. I go quarterly which for me seems to work well. Best wishes with getting it sorted! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:32 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A DATING ADVICE SUB Would you date the sibling of someone you’ve previously dated? It was causal. Didn’t sleep together and only dated for a couple of months. Too weird? The sibling liked me on hinge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:24 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I volunteer a ton and am currently the assistant manager of my middle kid’s soccer team. Had a tournament yesterday, coach was out sick and ask me to step in as interim coach. So was essentially coaching a bunch of 12 year old girls. What an experience. As an extrovert the thing that fascinates me most was regardless of age was how they interpret and respond to external stimuli. Furthermore, my own responses when investing my time, energy and effort into others with sole intention of helping the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronpatriarchy normalizes power imbalance between men and women; men have weaponized their power against women and other men. The primary issue with viewing social hierarchies at any scale or timeframe as ‘a patriarchy’? Is it does not reflect reality. For instance what is the primary method a society uses to establish boundaries and exercise power? Even today? It is not politics. It is not the law. It is the threat of violence. Even at a point in history societies are the most civilised they have e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 10:48 PM |
| 16 | Men and women do not live the same lifeother then using her for her own body Genuine question; during casual relationships is she not using men for their own bodies too? Sounds a lot like equality to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 09:25 PM |
| – | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.>try to find people you have things in common with The *primary* factor for most normal folk ‘find in common’ is reciprocal attraction. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenwe kinda do that already How so? For instance if a company hires one cohort of people due to *inherent biological* differences over another? Is that not discrimination? It doesn’t matter who made the decision for the child to be born. Okay. Let’s say I agree. Conception occurs. The man says we’re keeping the child *regardless* if the woman does not want kids or is even just filled with doubt. This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:36 AM |
| – | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.>Many women dont have those things as their primary attractors The issue is that cohort is *a minority.* Arguably too an extreme minority. The reason being is humans are primarily visual creatures. So basing one’s dating strategy upon an extreme minority is *not* advisable. >there’s a lot of variance Objectively variance occurs *on a scale*. So converse to focusing on a minority of women it is far more beneficial to focus one’s dating strategy on maximising as broad a span of women on that scale… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenThe law doesn’t need to make biology equal Interesting point. Should we then pay based on capability? If say one group of people are *biologically* bigger, stronger and faster, society can pay them *more*? That reasonable? once the child is born Good point. Who is **solely responsible for decision to proceed from conception to childbirth**? Furthermore, is deciding to proceed with an uninvested or even doubt filled man an **objectively smart decision?** | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 10:39 PM |
| – | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.>but its the system that is complex Agreed. Objectively, can one understand the complexity of a system if they do not *first* understand the simple? For instance; does being physically fit, financially comfortable and socially adept make dating easier? The answer is straightforward. In other words; *simple*. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenYes why not? Agreed. Which means *after* a man ejaculates a woman *still* has the power to decide whether to make that man a father. Thus, if a man *does not* want kids? Is proceeding with the decision to make that man a father an objectively smart decision? The answer is straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenThat’s on him Agreed. Does that then mean post conception a woman not have the power to decide to proceed to childbirth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:49 PM |
| – | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.they always know what another person thinks It might be the opacity, or it might be the fact observable patterns of behaviour are repeatedly experienced. Furthermore, these patterns transcend locality, culture and are consistently observed globally. Contributing to reasonably accurate theories and strategies. Which is certainly akin to.. Child’s play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.Smart people Would not lower themselves to implying others are simple. That, thankfully is not the topic of debate. That said, those who can rub two brain cells together would understand even complex systems start with simple parts. For instance if one is physically fit, socially adept and financially comfortable? Those factors make dating easier. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenabortion needs to be allowed no matter what. Agreed. The pivotal point is post-conception. Plan B. Other forms of post conception birth control. All should be reasonably accessible in the case of unwanted pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 09:50 AM |
| – | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.Smart people Would not lower themselves to implying others are simple. That, thankfully is not the topic of debate. That said, those who can rub two brain cells together would understand even complex systems start with simple parts. For instance if one is physically fit, socially adept and financially comfortable? Those factors make dating easier. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 09:42 AM |
| – | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.they do not know each other at all Women are simple; if one is attractive enough? That will make dating easy for you. It really is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womensociety as a whole isn’t sociopathic enough to let kids starve. This is a good point. If a man does not want kids, is it sociopathic for a woman to decide to make that man a father? If not, is it a good decision? Or even just a reasonable one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenactual abortion was free Agreed. The only way paper abortions make sense is when women have equal agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameAgreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenmen have reproductive rights and can decide for themselves if they will become parents, just like women can. The simplest method is to enact paper abortions as the default legislation. Then give men the option to ‘opt in’. Pre coitus. Post conception. Men who want to provide simply sign on to their reproductive rights at any time. For instance husbands can sign on at marriage, or de facto relationships when they start trying for a baby. Tie it to the man’s taxes/income and when he signs on he si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamemarried men won’t financially abort. Not only do they, it is common enough. Let’s look at it logically. For instance say a married couple has kids already. They fall pregnant. Man does not want financial responsibility for the newborn? What happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameWhich if they deem it the objectively smart decision for them? I agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamedespite years of financial and social commitment. Yes. It’s called divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameWhich if they deem as the objectively smart decision is their prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:09 PM |
| -2 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenopting out should be costly Okay. Let’s say I agree; opting out should be costly. Let’s spitball a figure; $5k? Too much? $50? Too little? $500k? The issue with monetising procreation is it primarily focuses on the fiscal facet of child rearing, and not what is actually most beneficial for the child. Which purportedly is a two parent household. Conversely if paper abortions are the default, as soon as a man opts in that is a clear cut commitment. At the very least financially, but more commonly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenNot only that but have registered. I posited a simpler solution; just make it the default legal stance. Then give men the option to ‘opt in’. Pre coitus. Post conception. Men who want to provide simply sign on at any time. For instance husbands can sign on at marriage. Or defacto relationships when they start trying for a baby. Tie it to the man’s taxes/income. No need for extra bureaucratic expenditure; same outcome. More importantly; it empowers women to only consider having children with men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:17 PM |
| – | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.more important than the desire for sex. This is a good point. Which raises the question; if one has all the sex they desire; what would they do? That is the most efficient way to determine what motivates someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 11:00 PM |
| – | Men feel more comfortable opening up to other men.First, sorry I forgot to reply. talk therapy I’m not the smartest so I simplify things down; I found the key is Objectivity. Whether that’s derived through Tetris or talking, the goal is the same; to hone a system of emotional regulation that allows one to acknowledge, accept and ultimately let go of detrimental emotions. To prevent making poor choices. For instance I had to do a ton of counselling, to better understand how I processed my emotional reactions. Primarily because I was raised in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A WHATDO SUB I slept with my girlfriend’s sister years ago and she just found out. What do I do? I’m 27M and have been with my girlfriend (26F) for almost 3 years. We were talking about random stories from our past with her family a few nights ago when something came up that I thought would never matter again. Before I met my girlfriend, I had a brief hookup with her older sister. It happened once at a party years ago. There were no feelings involved, we never dated, and we never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameWhich is the objectively smart decision. If they have any doubt in the man’s commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameeven after significant investment, men can still get a financial abortion If a man has invested significantly in a relationship, such as getting married, buying a house, cars and other strong indicators of commitment? It’s not financial abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.why desire her sexually? Whilst I agree the primary reason is because Testosterone is a hell of drug, the key is how much self control a man possesses over their sex drive. That determines if they ‘need’ to masturbate or have sex daily or just consistently. That is not to deride the social benefits of being sexually desirable. Objectively however it behooves one to keep that fact in perspective. Though fundamental, sex is still only one facet of a full and happy life. Balance pivotal in how one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameMen lie. Hence women waiting for significant investment in the relationship first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamehow do you expect a woman to know? As soon as a man says he does not want to be father. It is at that point or as mentioned upthread when a man has not invested significantly in the relationship e.g. got married, bought a house, built a life together etc.. Even then, a woman should plan carefully about giving that man the blessing of a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:26 PM |
| 2 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.Emotional connection is dependent upon emotional stability. If one or both parties have poor emotional regulation? How healthy can the emotional connection be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:03 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>more than once a month Same. Yet we take what we can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:38 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Love ya right back my guy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:15 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>don’t have time to hang My besties and I meet once a month for weekend away. Usually dinner, drinks and gambling but sometimes the occasional game of whatever sportsball we can get tickets to. If you cherish the friendship, you’ll find the time to nurture it. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamereprimanding women How is acknowledging women who choose not to make objectively smart decisions reprimanding them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameTo clarify; you think all men are bad? This, to you, is the objective reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Men feel more comfortable opening up to other men.>I have an antedote. Genuine question; male or female, who is ultimately responsible for their own emotional regulation? Getting support is fine. Seeking help or an objective point of view can be beneficial. The most efficient method however? Is honing internal strategies that negate emotionally driven actions. For instance hitting the heavy bag when angry. Running. Or journalling when sad. Painting. Sketching. Lifting weights. Cycling. A great tip I adopted was to have several email addresses. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameMy friend, I am the first to acknowledge there are a screeching men. Low calibre men. Horrible men. Bad men. That does not change the fact that women who choose to have relations with these men are making objectively poor decisions. Furthermore, if they then choose to make these type men fathers? Are choosing to make their own lives harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameAll the more reason for women to focus on themselves, making those objectively smart decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamemen who screech Let them. The point is women making objectively smart decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamemorally against abortion Again, no issue there. If however if a woman chooses to partake in relations with a low calibre man, who is solely responsible for making that decision? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameabandoning their kids That would mean the woman made an objectively poor choice. For instance conception occurs. The man says yep, he’s in. Child is born. Man dips. Two months in. Two years in. The did the woman choose well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameHow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameTo clarify; you think men can force women into single motherhood? That, you believe to be true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameby putting them with the baby daddy. If a father steps up I’m all for that, but prevention is the best medicine. If a woman knows the man does not want to be a father, forcing him to become one is not an objectively poor decision. As opposed to not making him a baby daddy in the first place. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamewomen should Are women prohibited from giving up newborns? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameFinancial abortion is NOT equal to biological abortion My friend, post conception a woman has the choice to proceed to childbirth and subsequently a financial burden. Does the man have the same choice? Can he say; “we are going to proceed to childbirth and create this financial burden?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameviews biological abortion as a sin Which is fine. Financial abortions do not prohibit women from exercising their agency. It simply gives men an equal choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamedon’t advocate The primary purpose of financial abortions is to encourage women to make objectively smart decisions. For instance conception occurs. If a man does not want to be a father, for a woman is the objectively smart decision to proceed to childbirth? The answer is straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameabortion is not the same thing Agreed. Morally my faith demands I view abortion as a sin. Does that mean I should force my morals on every woman that considers abortion a legitimate choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | 🔵BP/Feminists can't get their story straight about whether men's attractiveness is innate (looks) or built (wealth+status+looks)First, thank you for the genuine response. It is appreciated. this take is bonkers Okay. Let’s look at it objectively. Specifically; she’s constantly comparing Leave out other men for the moment. Is it a norm to compare how one feels during their relationship? If not; why not? If so; how? Daily? Monthly? Biannually? Furthermore by what metrics? Fulfilment? Resentment? Objective contributions? Subjective factors? Emotional connection? Emotional dependence? For instance is it normal if one does no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 01:24 AM |
| 3 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.>exchange Genuine question; objectively is a relationship an exchange? If not; why not? If so; how? The premise falls apart as soon as one acknowledges objective reality; relationships are an exchange. Time. Energy. Effort. All quantifiable metrics almost all normal folk use to gauge their relationships by. Furthermore; sex and money? Are purportedly two of the biggest factors in relationship breakdown. It is literally as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulative>the core of the manosphere I second this. My experience was through all the self improvement stuff. Focusing on agency. Sure, there was The Anger Phase but that didn’t last long. What happened was all the effective advice contributed to me actualising my dream. So I can’t fault it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:27 PM |
| 2 | 🔵BP/Feminists can't get their story straight about whether men's attractiveness is innate (looks) or built (wealth+status+looks)You made a good point my guy. It is solid, common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>doesn’t want his baby mama My friend if there is no baby, then there is no baby mama drama. As soon as a man says he does not want the child, the objectively smart decision is for a woman not to proceed to childbirth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameMen should be empowered My friend, I wholeheartedly agree. Ideally, men would only have relations with women in long term relationships such as marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:13 PM |
| 1 | 🔵BP/Feminists can't get their story straight about whether men's attractiveness is innate (looks) or built (wealth+status+looks)Apologies. You’re right. That said to your point let’s flip the question; how accurate is one’s worldview without comparing current experiences to previous ones? For instance the gaslighting and love-bombing analogy above? Objectively comparison as a tool towards forming a well informed worldview is fundamental. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | 🔵BP/Feminists can't get their story straight about whether men's attractiveness is innate (looks) or built (wealth+status+looks)>identical No. Your viewpoint is too narrow because your original comment states; >I never even think about other men when I’m with a boyfriend. Which omits the most critical part; the process involved for that man to become your boyfriend in the first place. For instance prior to finding a boyfriend, if one had never experienced gaslighting, or love-bombing? Objectively one would not be too well equipped to spot those factors. Conversely, if one had previously experienced those red flags? They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | 🔵BP/Feminists can't get their story straight about whether men's attractiveness is innate (looks) or built (wealth+status+looks)>I didn’t think that’s what most people do. Let’s look at it objectively; how does an individual form their worldview? For instance from birth, every single interaction with another human influences how an individual perceives the world around them. Their mother. Father. Siblings and extended family. Friends. Agreed? Now, apply that same premise to dating. Prior to any individual’s first date; what has primarily influenced their perception of the opposite sex? It will be the members of the oppos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:32 PM |
| 1 | 🔵BP/Feminists can't get their story straight about whether men's attractiveness is innate (looks) or built (wealth+status+looks)>I never think about other men The issue however is prior to becoming your boyfriend that man was an unknown quantity to you. So your primary frame of reference was your previous relationship experience with other men. Or even if one has no previous relationship experience, one would compare the relationships of other men in their lives. Fathers. Uncles. Friend’s dads. All directly or indirectly informing one’s worldview of ‘a man’ and subsequent vetting process. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameif men want to dump their kids The point is not dumping kids, it’s empowering women to make objectively smart decisions beforehand. So when conception occurs both parties are invested, or they choose not to proceed beyond conception. The outcome being that no kids get ‘dumped’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>Maybe she doesn’t want to abort That is fine. She should then consider only having relations with men that do want kids. Again, if a man does not want kids and has sex with understanding that will not happen? Then a woman is making not making an objectively smart decision proceeding to childbirth with that man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Your social circle is not a representative sample of either gender>what’s normal around you is never normal to everybody The primary retort is when one’s subjective observations objectively scale out. For instance if one is physically strong and capable in Rome, they’re going to be just as physically strong and capable in Vegas. If they’re financially comfortable in Miami, they’re going to be reasonably comfortable in London. If enough subjective observations are repeatedly observed across a multitude of differing circumstances? A reasonably accurate pattern c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 11:41 PM |
| 0 | So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context?>focus on how to get women Whilst I agree that narrowing options down is beneficial, for those struggling the most effective strategy is to acquire as many options as possible first. Hence broadening one’s worldview and dating strategies sufficiently, that one is as attractive to as broad a pool of potential partners as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>If a doesn’t want to be mother Why proceed beyond conception? It is illogical and is the antithesis of objectively smart decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 11:09 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men enjoy the chase is completely made up.>not describing the “chase”. This is a good point. Does that mean your definition is limited to just people toying with others? Or people chasing others for years? For a decade plus. Being persistent. Akin to The Notebook. Is that chasing? Or at the other end; striking up a casual conversation, then asking for a number. If that is not chasing, not pursuing another person with romantic interest; what is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>a human right Not quite. For me as a Christian, life begins at conception. However as a realist, I accept an individual should have the right to decide. Hence making objectively smart decisions. Furthermore, my faith allows me the grace to ‘love my neighbour’ regardless. It’s not my job to judge others, but to support them to make better decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context?>focus so much on the behaviours of low quality women The primary reason is to establish an objective range. For instance who is the lowest quality woman you have ever had relations with? Who is the highest? Can we compare an altruistic, empathetic heiress, to a prostitute in Thailand? What do they have in common? What are the differences? Establishing that range as objectively as possible means we can then build a far more accurate worldview. Between what works meeting a woman on a beach Thaila… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 10:53 AM |
| – | Women supporting Isabel Rose proves that feminism is a cult and doesn't care about justice>all men It however benefits a woman to accept that all men pose that potential risk. The same premise applies for men accepting that all women pose the same potential risk of making a false allegation. It is a pragmatic mindset regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>Why My primary focus is preventing children from being brought into the world in less than ideal circumstances. By empowering women to make better decisions. Which brings us again to decisions; if a man does not want to be a father, is an objectively smart decision to continue from conception to childbirth and make that man a father? For reasonable folk, the answer is straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>it’s more moral to keep the kid As a Christian I do too. Our shared morality however does not make that decision objectively smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameMy friend, preventing kids from potentially being born into a suboptimal dynamics contributes towards addresses the need for foster placements. Significantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>Biological abortion is not the same thing as abandoning your kid. Agreed. If say one has the choice to proceed to childbirth with the intent to abandon that child once born or; Plan B? Which is the objectively smarter choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameYes. The reason being there is a critical point post conception, where a woman solely decides to proceed to childbirth. Or not. For instance conception occurs. A man does not want the child. Or is reluctant. Is it a smart decision to proceed making that man a father? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 10:21 PM |
| -1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>Two people are consenting to the possibility Not if both parties are in agreement that childbirth is not an option. Then proceed to take all reasonable precaution. Which is the most common agreement if not norm prior to entering into a typical casual arrangement, hookup or one night stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>Why should I care? You should only care if you are an active, contributing member to your community and society in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>paper abortions are ridiculous The issue is post conception, only the woman is solely responsible for the decision to see conception through to childbirth. Which is fine. She possesses the right to her bodily autonomy post conception. The man however does not. For instance rape is bad. If a man is raped, presumably most would agree he should not be held accountable for any decision a woman makes post conception. Continuing to childbirth. Or not. Most would agree her bodily autonomy should not i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum game>your genes are out there in the wild and to be a biological success This is anecdotal but I’ve volunteered in a few programs that help support youth homelessness. A significant amount of that cohort comes from the foster system/adoption breakdown cycle. It is truly heartbreaking for those kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵they As in my wife and her friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:07 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>I don’t see any problems I don’t either. Once a month my wife flies to her bestie’s farm and bunch of them ride horses all weekend. God knows what they get up to but the kids and I set up mattress forts and have ‘sleepovers’ downstairs. Eat pop corn and all sorts of wicked treats whilst watching movies. Makes the highest reel for my memories every time which is a win-win in my books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:54 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Apologies my guy, I was making a joke. In poor taste. I didn’t mean to offend. Again, my apologies. As to your question, I think virginity and purity can be viewed two ways; objectively and subjectively. The first clear cut. The second? Open to translation. Hence my joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The idea that men enjoy the chase is completely made up.>I feel like I am a moron if I have to chase I’m the other way inclined; I love the ‘chase’. As an extrovert I love meeting people. Just the interaction is a source of joy, thrill and excitement. Even if the outcome is not, I can focus on and be grateful for the fact that we had a pleasant exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:34 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I agree. Wife and I do a lot of shopping together. Mostly during school hours. Which is her browsing her favourite shops, and me sitting at a pub or café watching The NBA finals. We then meet for lunch and drinks, school run then extra curricular’s. Usually squeeze in a day time ‘cuddle’ too which is nice. Love day dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:30 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Born again virgin. As of today. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility.>Sorry to the people Genuine question; why should society feel sorry for those people who choose poorly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:23 AM |
| 18 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)>it has never been a healthy way to look at sex Agreed. Ultimately, sex is only one facet of a full and healthy life. It can be a positive part, but objectively there are also individuals that live a full and healthy life forgoing their basest of desires. Now most do not need to adopt such an extreme mindset, but keeping the importance of sex in appropriate perspective is a beneficial worldview to adopt. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:15 AM |
| – | Women’s mating strategy (Hard to get) ruining our societal civilization, thus women need to change their tactic from Hard to get to Fair to get>Having children reduces women’s opportunities Until the opportunity to have children is reduced to zero. It is imperative that women have the freedom to choose. If however they choose poorly, they are responsible for that choice. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Abortion should be legal but the women who unalive their children aren't good>catholic As a Christian this is my belief. I also support the right to choose, because my faith also allows me the capacity to ‘love my neighbour’ regardless of the decisions they make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:59 PM |
| -1 | Abortion should be legal but the women who unalive their children aren't goodIt’s a pivotal factor to both dating and society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:54 PM |
| – | I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed>preferences should be allowed Preferences are allowed, but only in context to choice. Objectively limited choice equals limited capacity for preference. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?>ask their sex partners to do acts I agree with the is take. The OP is framed poorly because the comparison is asking about a woman’s sexual history, as opposed to focusing on the comparison between current sexual acts against potential future ones with their current partner. Two individuals meet. They have never had sex together previously. Once intimate, the most accurate comparison for a sexual act is between the sexual experiences they have shared, and potential future ones. Primarily becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:37 PM |
| 3 | The proxy for wealth.>penalizes Genuine question; why frame it as a penalty? Objectively if any individual cannot contribute or can only contribute in a limited capacity; should their compensation not reflect their reality? For instance where I live we get roughly 26 weeks maternity leave and 52 weeks of job protection leave. So for my bestie who’s a c suite exec one of his biggest expenses is not only covering some of that maternity leave without the production, but still having to produce at a similar level of out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:11 PM |
| 4 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.>she gets these high quality genes for her offspring and that’s it. Whilst having money is beneficial, the key issue is what is best for the child. Which, purportedly, is being raised in a two parent household. That is not to deride single parents. However there is a reason why having both a mother and father is the optimal family dynamic. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partner>drives so much of the pain men go through Genuine question; objectively, who is solely responsible for acknowledging, processing and ultimately addressing one’s emotional needs? I understand the importance of a sense of belonging. Of support. The onus however is still primarily on the individual. To first recognise and acknowledge their own emotions and emotional responses. Then take the necessary steps to address the factors they can, and accept the reality of those they have no power over. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 12:43 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Happy Anniversary! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:53 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Best wishes with it my guy! Hope they help! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Man. Patience of a saint. Happy for those two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Bad men more likely to cheat and sleep around because they are bad duh!First, if you’re not comfortable answering please don’t. Genuine question; what level of education did you acquire to fill your niche? Bachelor’s? Masters? Doctorate? I ask because my wife has a background in psychology, and is considering a new thesis surrounding trauma. Which I find absolutely fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:45 PM |
| 7 | Red pill isn't as manipulative as I thought>using said knowledge to your advantage……or not. This a great take that I agree with. Ultimately, TRP is simply sexual strategy. Can one use it be malicious, deceitful and disingenuous? Certainly. Conversely can one use it to be genuine, honest and positive? That’s possible too. The difference just like using any other strategy is how a person employs it. TRP, just like a hammer can build or destroy. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesthink that a lady in leggings and tee is free game. Good point. Where does this thinking take place where it affects a woman dressed in leggings and a tee? In private? Where these type of men are all alone? Or, in public? Where they may actually encounter a woman dressed… Say… In leggings and a tee? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvestwisting my words Okay. Let’s clarify; did you not state monsters and loons can perceive women who dress in leggings and a tee sexually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesLet’s say this is true. That means objectively no one can view someone who dresses in leggings and a tee sexually. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvescommunicates that you’re even more casual Agreed. Which is better than being perceived by monsters, loons and society in general sexually. Which, again, is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.>emotional vulnerability Genuine question; what is more attractive; emotional vulnerability, or emotional resilience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesChanging your dress doesn’t make them less likely to be weird. Agreed. Wearing baggy sweats and a hoodie as opposed to leggings and a tee however does change not only what loons and monsters see. It changes the how everyone perceives a person. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>there’s also a lot of beauty and enjoyment in bonding Personally, the thing I enjoy most about being married is the growth. Which often requires challenges. Not to deride the beauty and pure fulfilment a relationship can contribute, but it takes work. Often too, painful, humbling and truly honest, self reflection to really ‘plumb the depths’ of one’s relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 02:16 PM |
| 2 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.>men could use some more self esteem The key is self esteem, for men, should be derived primarily from the confidence in their own ability. For instance if one is physically strong. Emotionally. Fiscally and socially. Being adept in these facets contributes significantly to one’s sense of self efficacy. Without the delusions of entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.X ei8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesGood point. To clarify; you think encountering monsters and loons in general public does not happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesnot overtly sexy To loons and monsters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesIn the context of a t shirt and leggings Yet the context you put forth however are loons and monsters. Which leads right back to question; is she better off preparing for the possibility she might encounter these type of people? By being intentional and thinking critically about how she presents herself to the world? Or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool>a man being confident and approaching a woman means he is a bad option or must be an asshole. Especially if a man just genuinely likes people. As an extrovert I love meeting random people. Old guys. Moms with kids(love kids). Anyone. It wasn’t until after I found TRP that I missed a ton of signs women were reciprocating my interest. To some things I am absolutely oblivious hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesDid I say that she isn’t preparing herself by dressing a certain way Objectively, if this is true how she dresses does has no bearing on how the public perceived her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesshe isn’t preparing herself by dressing a certain way. So, in your point of view how a person dresses themselves does not affect the public’s perception of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesbetter to see the person for for who he is Good point. So in your point of view it is better she is not prepared? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesa loon This is a good point. Is it better to encounter a loon and be prepared for it? Or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Hypothetical choice (I think these are fun!)A. Sex, plus none of the negatives of a relationship? Non contest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesisn’t going to negatively impact her It could. Which is what makes the thinking on her part even more critical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesmental gymnastics Fun, isn’t it? Just kidding. Look, it’s simple. Regardless of what decisions my daughter makes, her attire will affect the general public’s perception of her. That, is the point. You can use whatever example you like. Jeggings. Leggings. Dfyne gym shorts. Meat. Your point of view cannot change reality. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesthinking nothing I am in agreement with you. Just because the people surrounding my child are not thinking, does not mean should include herself in the vast majority of them. How an individual does the small things, is how they do everything. Which, is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves>it’s the language Agreed. The exact words were “if you dress like a piece of meat people will see you as a piece of meat.” Additionally, we both took the time to clearly communicate with each other about the topic. So it was actually a very constructive conversation. Now, has she made changes I approve? Definitely. Would I want to hold herself to my standards? There’s room for improvement. The issue is my directness in language. Could I have used more empathetic language? Possibly. I however co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesthink absolutely nothing Which is the difference. I want my daughter thinking every single time she walks out the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:24 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hehe! No it’s actually the other way around. I stopped working a few years ago because I wanted to be a stay at home dad. Except I’m a workaholic. I’ve always volunteered, so I just filled up my schedule with volunteering instead. Also have a ton of hobbies, but neither are quite as challenging as actual work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesMy friend, for the most you and every single other woman can wear whatever you like, to wherever you like. This choice however affects how others perceive you. That, is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves>I don’t make them feel bad for going to the grocery store in a pair of shorts or leggings. This is a good point. Okay. Let’s see if we can find some common ground. To establish where we agree. What standard of dress is reasonable in public, in general? For instance straight up nudity. If a daughter wanted to go grocery shopping in the nude, it would be reasonable for a parent to say something about. Or do you disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesaren’t appropriate Exactly. For instance there is a standard one should hold themselves to when appearing in public. Again for the gym, I have no issue and encourage it. For ice cream? She needs to be more intentional because regardless of her intention, the general public will form an opinion of her. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves>every time Every time. Primarily because everyone regardless of what they are wearing are subject to public perception. For instance if a woman wears shorts so small everyone can see what she had for breakfast? That fact leaves an impression. She may be a marine biologist, and have a great physique. She also either intentionally or unintentionally decided to wear those shorts. As opposed to jeans. Or sweats. Or more reasonable clothing. That does not parade her physique around, like a piece of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 09:37 PM |
| 0 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesnot a board meeting Agreed. Presumably then we agree leggings and t shirt would not be reasonable attire for a board meeting. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Young boys with disabilities. Youth homelessness. Also a workshop program for retired guys(I’m technically not allowed to join but I wiggled my way in as a visitor’ to help out). Also a Christian community charity attached to my church. I’ve been doing a bread and veggie run where we pick up unsold baked goods from bakeries and veggies from grocers and drop it off to needy families. Been doing that run with my mother since my early teens. So coming up on 20 years. Also will probably do a little … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:50 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>Helping others Love this one. It’s why I’ve volunteered since my early teens. One of my proudest possessions is a little glass award I was gifted recognising 10 years of volunteering from one of my charities. Love that little thing because of all the wonderful memories it brings. One of my favourite quotes by Churchill; “We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give”. Is too true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvescomparing leggings and t shirt to a thong Okay. We can change the example, because the underlying premise is the same. What type of leggings are appropriate for what context? Take your Dfyne leggings and t shirt and try and wearing them to a board meeting. That reasonable? For most normal people, the answer is straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesThere is no common ground Okay. Then to clarify your point of view; You think going out for ice cream in ‘just a thong’ is a reasonable choice for a teenager to make? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Marriage rates declining is a good thing>Your wife changing her name strips her away from all her family identity and connection. This is a good point. If my wife’s sense of identity and connection is stripped away by her taking my surname, then how secure was she in that identity or with that connection in the first place? In my more traditional culture, marriage as an institution is considered a union of two families. A daughter may lose her surname, but alongside all the previous connections and sense of identity she retains with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvescomparing a regular outfit with nudity Yes. To establish common ground. For instance you would agree that if you as a teenager wanted to go out for ice cream in a thong? Your dad presumably would say something about it. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Marriage rates declining is a good thing>class-based The biggest social advantage marriage brings is a communal identity that by default, all family members belong to. Especially when we all share the commonality of a surname. For instance we are all known as The Rippers. As are all my brothers. Uncles. Cousins. So when others meet me, they ask are you related to ‘such and such’ Ripper? Which having a massive family I almost always am. Which is not only a bonus level of vetting. Now, that’s not to say a couple cannot both legally just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesExcept for it isn’t “just a thong” or a “birthday suit”. Perfect. So just to confirm; you agree that “just a thong” or “birthday suit” would warrant a comment from a parent. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 08:14 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST from a Relationship Advice Sub I [20F] havent told my new BF [20F] that I had a threesome with my best friend [20f] and her bf [24M] before we started dating. We are now a tight group of friends - how do it bring it up? I broke up with my ex boyfriend several months ago after being with him for literally years. I let my hair down a bit for a couple of months after that after having been in a relationship for so long. During that time I was hanging round with my friend and her bf at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesDefyne gym shorts. Which she still wears. To the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesWhy That wasn’t the first comparison; it was a ‘birthday’ suit. Aka a being naked. The primary reason being to find common ground. For instance as teenager if you wanted to go for ice cream in ‘just a thong’? I’m confident your father would have said something? Correct? If so; using your point of view is that hatred? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves>describing your daughter as dressing like a piece of meat Not quite. I told her directly, to her face; “if you dress like a piece of meat, people will see you as a piece of meat”. Exact words. Not from a place of hatred. Not out of spite. Or jealousy. The primary reason was to highlight to her that her decisions have consequences. Even when she is unintentional in making them. That said let’s assume your point of view; a father should let their child wear whatever they like out in public, becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesMy friend if you could elaborate your point it might have credibility. Which I am open to hearing because it is entertaining. Unfortunately saying something is hatred without rationalising why? Is, certainly, a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:52 AM |
| -2 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves>hate women My friend, if your retort is to imply I hate women perhaps re-reading the comment might help you better understand my point of view. Or if you need simplified; it was not the outfit I was critical of; it was the habit of her decision making in context to how she presents herself on a daily or consistent basis. That I want her to be intentional in her habits. That, is not the hatred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:47 AM |
| -9 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves>call me a piece of meat First, the difference between calling anyone a name and stating that they look like that thing is the focus is not on the insult, but on the choice to appear like that thing. For instance your father may not have cared about your appearance enough to talk to you about it. Or did care, but cared more about you exercising your autonomy. So said nothing. Which is fine. You have the agency to appear in public as you wish. As does my eldest. The point is I want my daughter th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:30 AM |
| – | Long-term relationship success is almost always driven by maintaining polarity, not "compatbility">always driven by maintaining polarity Habit. In general we as humans do not rise to the level of our aspirations, we fall to the level of our habits. So if one is pessimistic, anxious and fearful? That will permeate through. Just as much as being disciplined, ambitious and optimistic will too. Additionally, purportedly the two biggest factors that contribute to relationship breakdown are finances and sex. Both best addressed by strong communication skills from both parties. Polarity it could be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:00 AM |
| – | If "bluepillers" basically all agree that there are no valid criticisms of leftist gender ideology, then you all are far more unified than you like to pretend.>as long as you ignore the bad stuff First, I agree the negatives of TRP may not contribute to either an individual’s outcomes nor The Manosphere as a whole. Acknowledging the positives however does not mean one must agree with all of TRP’s negatives. One can entertain the idea of two extremes if they so choose to. TRP even encourages its subscribers to take what is useful, and discard the rest. Furthermore, TRP is simply sexual strategy. The operative word being strategy. Or tool. If an individ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:15 AM |
| – | If "bluepillers" basically all agree that there are no valid criticisms of leftist gender ideology, then you all are far more unified than you like to pretend.>the same arguments they were 15 years ago and even earlier The primary reason is because the core tenets of TRP are timeless. The onus is on an individual to take control of their own outcomes. Objectively, if an individual becomes physically, emotionally and financially strong? They are going to increase their options. Add to that grooming and honing social skills? One is only going to benefit. That is all TRP is. Yes, there is The Anger Phase. Misogyny. These factors however do not negate the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 12:38 AM |
| -7 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves>being visible to men is advertising Objectively, first impressions matter. For instance my eldest loves Defyne. She plays rugby and weight trains three days a week too on top of that. So I have no issue with that attire in the gym. Outside of the gym? Going for ice cream? Or just shopping? I tell her to be more discerning. Primarily because if she dresses like a piece of meat, that is the impression she is consciously choosing to give other people. Not just men, but everyone. She’s better at it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them>we’re talking about discrimination Agreed. Which is why the example is a poor one. For instance if you used how DEI can both help and hinder profitability as an example? It would be pertinent. Going directly to the highest office in the land as an example for discrimination? Is of little value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 10:04 PM |
| 11 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them>not a single one of them Extending the privilege a minuscule, exclusive subset of people possess within a larger group is a poor example. It is similar to saying attractive women regularly experience The Halo Effect, thus by the same logic all women share that same privilege. Conversely it is far more beneficial, and realistic to acknowledge there is a disparity in privilege. That some men do possess an uneven level of privilege, that the vast majority of men do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 09:39 PM |
| – | Guys, if your girl goes clubbing, is that a dealbreaker?>no matter if she goes clubbing or hiking I agree with this, and made a post about it a while back. For instance my wife holidays regularly at her best friend’s farm to ride horses. She usually flies out Fridays and is back Mondays. I trust her implicitly. If she cheats? I do not know, nor am I affected by information I do not have. If she remains faithful? I’m good too. TRP’s advice is to trust but verify. I’ve honed that advice to prepare to trust. Which simply means acknowledging and acceptin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win">True confidence The pivotal factor is it takes significant self awareness, self confidence and ultimately sense of self belief to even approach in the first place. So an individual who is approaching consistently already possesses a decent level of self respect. It’s retaining that self respect regardless of outcome that is the key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 07:15 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>take things online personally? I’ve put in a ton of work to check my emotions ‘at the door’ both in reality, and online. Ultimately, I don’t know anyone else’s full story. Not my wife’s. Not my kids. For instance I don’t see who my wife is when she’s riding horses at her best friend’s farm. Or my kids when they’re at school. Or hanging out with their friends after school. So whilst I have a decent idea, I am always quick to default my perspective to objectivity. As it not only takes out the emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone?>used to a solitude Agreed. I’ve had two significant periods where I went without sex. The first when I was training hard to get selected into a rugby team. So it was school, work and rugby. That lasted roughly a year. Second was just after my first divorce. Took sometime to get counselling, and realign my mentality. Probably around the same timeframe. Sex is wonderful but I’m confident if forced I’d adapt to being alone. Plus think of all the free time. Currently with two little kids and an alm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a myth>put in the work I agree with this. Primarily, physical health. Nutrition is huge. Hydration. Sleep. In context to training my two main maxims are strength and VO2 max output. When I’m not running a specific program I run a simple 3 day bro split. Superset everything so it’s a decently HIIT regime. My default sessions are now under 45 minutes, so I’m done before breakfast because I train at 5am every morning. These factors are not gendered too. I’d encourage everyone to really hone their trainin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 08:42 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Too true. Perspective does change. I always find it reaffirming to lean upon tried and tested strategies such as re-reading well loved books, to stay grounded. It always helps me realign my worldview anew. Which is always a blessing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:28 PM |
| 2 | We need to stop the men vs women framing. It's toxic and pointless.>I don’t have to be fair to you if you are not fair to me. So according to you; reciprocating fairness is contingent on the fairness you receive? As a Christian I view it the other way; my primary job is to love my neighbour. If someone is unfair to me, that fact does not mean I should lower myself to their level. In fact, it is far more beneficial for both of us if I do not lower myself. Primarily because not only am I treating another person fairly, I am holding myself to a higher standard in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:25 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The beautiful thing about books is they never change, whilst we do. Just starting a re-read of Magician by Feist. Which I haven’t read since high school. I was instantly transported not just back into the story, but also all my fond memories of reading it as a young teen. It’s such a beautiful feeling. I think there will always be a place for books. That said I’ve re-read Fahrenheit 451 recently too. So I try to keep my optimism tempered hehehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 12:47 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>sex is no better This was it for me. I learned pretty early on that after enough random hookups, they all start to blur in meaninglessness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 12:43 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Happy Holidays! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsOnly when a couple are ill prepared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 12:38 PM |
| – | Where does this myth that men age like fine wine come from?Men are not “born” attractive, they have to build their attraction. This, I think is both the biggest challenge and a blessing for a man. To build something of ‘value’ takes work. For instance building a strong physique. Or amassing a fortune. What one gains beyond the objective value is a broadening of their perspective, and a better understanding and appreciation for that value. If one is given a million dollars? They may not truly understand nor appreciate the objective value of that gift. Co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 04:07 PM |
| 16 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidskids ruin relationships That are poorly structured. It is why necessities aside the hierarchy of priorities in a solid family dynamic is this; A healthy, hale and whole individual on their own. Two individuals; healthy, hale and whole together as a couple. Finally; two individuals and their children healthy, hale and whole together as a family. Any issue in a fundamental tier of the hierarchy directly affects every subsequent tier. This is the optimal framing towards building the healthiest fami… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 07:36 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The Count of Monte Cristo. Timeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 07:23 AM |
| 6 | How will we convince the next generation to have kids, even though almost none of us want to have any?>state of the economy Whilst I agree that the current situation is unsustainable, the primary reason is instability. Which is only ever followed by change. Now that change can be rapid and dramatic, or as I am leaning towards slow and gradual. Those in power don’t live forever. Change happens to all of us, and birthrates are a lagging indicator. I’m hopeful. Information is widely accessible. As is the ability to hone one’s critical thinking. Those two factors alone if encouraged in future genera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather have primary custody or 50/50 and pay child support?Which are you picking After my first divorce, my ex was granted full custody. It took me roughly 2 years, and 150k+ to gain 50-50 custody. As a result my eldest is 17 years old, works 2 jobs, plays rugby, weight trains 3 days a week on top of rugby, and is doing decently with her grades at school. I’m not saying I am the only factor(my wife is the epitome of step mom material), but as a result of me having 50-50 custody she has only ever lived in one home. Has attended the same school for all of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 11:56 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>problems before you are married No relationship is perfect. If anything, at any stage of a relationship problems that aren’t dealbreakers are opportunities. For the relationship to grow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 11:11 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵‘It’s the age of Aquarius…’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 01:05 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sorry to hear my guy. Hope you get it sorted soon. Best wishes for a speedy recovery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | What is wife material, and why women should want to be wife material?> I say soul mate And I say whole mate. Just kidding. No one’s perfect, but someone that aims up everyday like I do is someone I can work with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 04:43 AM |
| – | The desire for romance cannot be replaced by a strong social circle>treat romantic love as a luxury Romantic love is a luxury because regardless of duration or reason, all relationships end. Understanding and accepting this fact prior to even entering a relationship, means one does not mistake; >the things you took for granted as a child Primarily because one accepts the finite reality of relationships. So by default, one views the importance of relationships in a far more realistic perspective. Which does not downplay the importance of a romantic relationship,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Society taught women to avoid accountability like it taught men to avoid household chores>You might heal physical and psychological wounds Agreed. The question then is to what extent? For instance could one use their traumatic experiences to become better? Elizabeth Smart. Malala Yousefzai. Objectively, they would not possess their platforms without the trauma they endured. When googled, the term ‘victim’ does not appear first. The word ‘activist’ does. Which label do they identify more with? Additionally, which label is more beneficial for any victim to adopt moving forward? If hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Society taught women to avoid accountability like it taught men to avoid household chores>victim blaming Genuine question; at what point is a victim no longer a victim? Blame aside, identifying as a victim means one has been injured in some way. Thus, remedying that injury would then remove the need to identify as a victim. Accountability being fundamental to this process. This unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:12 AM |
| – | Young men should consider alternative options if failure looms>feel the euphoria Being complimented for having nice arms and a nice butt is a pretty heady feeling. Maybe not euphoric, but I’d take it every day of the week over the routine my wife undertakes daily. Not to mention the cost. Coincidentally I just watched Freya India on The Modern Wisdom Podcast talking about the crisis of young women. How the commodification of women has become a domain for corporations. Very interesting stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 01:42 AM |
| – | Young men should consider alternative options if failure loomsOh my that is hilarious hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependency>Men need a purpose. If it’s not a family then what is it? Simple; *the process is the purpose*. The most efficient way to derive purpose is to *define* it. For instance I define my purpose and the fulfilment I derive from it between two extremes; my experience in objective reality, and how I experience an event subjectively/spirituality/internally. Thus **every single life experience** falls on the scale. From there, I can better my perspective on my life experience. For instance fixing my brok… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 01:07 AM |
| 1 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.>Debating online doesn’t help Maybe not, but it helps me somewhat sate my argumentative streak so I don’t debate everything my wife says. So that’s a plus hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 12:57 AM |
| 7 | There is literally no alternative to red pill.>redpill has answers. TRP however is not the only way to acquire these answers. For instance I grew up around rugby. From an early age, I saw what life was like for a jacked, semi pro athlete. So acquired the same outcomes for myself. TRP is a great font of knowledge. It however is not literally the only alternative. Join any group of people, and you’ll see *a hierarchy*. Join *enough* groups or societies? You’ll see enough to draw fairly accurate conclusions. Without even touching your phone sc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 12:53 AM |
| -1 | There is literally no alternative to red pill.>My goal is to find my soul mate. First, if your soul mate is *not* a woman? TRP will be of little benefit. Conversely, if your desired soul mate *is* a woman? Is it more beneficial to be attractive to as many women as possible? Or less? Objectively, dating whether it’s for casual sex or a soulmate *is* a number’s game. Which is core to TRP. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 12:46 AM |
| – | If you've only had sex with a condom on, you're still a virgin>you would still be a virgin since your dick never made contact with the vagina. Regardless of how much sex I have had I go the other way; I just *identify as* a born-again virgin. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 12:20 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵>a guru? a teacher who inspires I’ve got a ton. When younger though it was an eldest cousin specifically. He was very successful. Rhode’s Scholar. Built his own firm from the ground up. It wasn’t really until I stopped working that I realised it’s all well and good to pull 80+ hour weeks, if you don’t care about anything else. I love him for that but I think the best kinds of guru’s and teachers are the ones who show you *their* way, but allow you the freedom to make your own. My cousin viewed a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:08 PM |
| – | What is Love to you?Absolute banger if of a jam! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:49 AM |
| – | Going dutch on dates is a good strategy.>pretending to go to the washroom and instead pay the full bill This is the same in my culture. We often have parties/dinners almost every second week(big family). So whoever’s child is having the gathering is either cooking for everyone or hosting(and paying) for everything at a restaurant. It’s good though cause we all get to spend a ton of time together regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:47 AM |
| – | Men do not understand when women are not attracted to them and deploy ego-protective mechanisms>to avoid the reality of a woman’s disinterest Without *force*, how can any man avoid *reality?* Common sense dictates that regardless of their internal dialogue or ego, most normal men cannot and do not avoid the fact a woman has rejected them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:40 AM |
| 10 | Men love and respect pick mesthis place is depressing For some. For others? Best entertainment money can buy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My friend, in all genuineness my intention is not to upset you. If so, again I am sorry. All the best! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:26 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵First, I can only apologise for my part in the miscommunication. If you choose to view it as a diss? You’re free to do so. makes my initial point look bad Okay. How do you make your point look good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:20 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵a sneak diss First, I apologise if you think it was a diss. I meant no disrespect. If you want to continue, I’d love to better understand your point of view*, primarily because it is the direct opposite of mine. For instance as optimist I view all scenarios as having positives; even if the only positive is surviving. As that means there is Hope. Now, if Nihilism is the way to unlock being right, that means I cannot view all the bad shit that happens to me with Hope. Hence why I am interested in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Your comment Is taking on your point of view. let’s say I agree. Nihilism is the only method to unlock an accurate worldview. nihilism unlocks the ability to be right That, is your point of view which you are critical of. As am I. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 10:49 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hola! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So, you think your own point of view is mumbo jumbo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesWhy should we as a species in any way consider the social structure of animals Here’s a question; how can we as a species fully understand ourselves if we do not consider not only the social structures of the animals that preceded us, but our history in totality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵will be subject to cope and various other forms of delusion. Okay. Let’s say I agree. Nihilism is the only method to unlock an accurate worldview. Say one continuously fails at dating. To view these outcomes realistically, they can only view these outcomes nihilistically. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 09:22 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵nihilism unlocks the ability to be right Nihilism does not unlock the ability to be right. It is a viewpoint. Objectivity is the viewpoint that unlocks accuracy. At least in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:33 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵how pathetic On a scale of 1-10 it is not even a 1 my friend. The last concert I took my wife to I paid 2k per ticket for VVIP entry. All you can eat. All you can drink. I’m a teetotaller. You’re fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:31 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵your own daughter Yeah that’s crazy work. My eldest just got her license. So proud of her. I could never think like that. Absolutely atrocious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsIt’s still a human rights violation What purpose does a right serve if a society cannot enforce it? Or protect it? For instance if country or individual FEELS they can violate a human rights unhindered? Then proceeds to do so? Objective reality is the basis upon which all rights are upheld and ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:56 AM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> Shots.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: What women-focused media to you engage with?Books I second this. Wheel of Time. Mistborn. Game of Thrones to a lesser extent. All have strong female characters well written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsI consider men who cheat high value Unfortunately, dozens if not hundreds of women do not share your viewpoint. Which is the key difference between subjectivity and objectivity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:51 AM |
| 2 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesWhat system Instead of looking forward; look back. Objectively our closest genetic relations still practice Polygamy. There’s purportedly a ‘civil war’ involving 200 animals going on in that species right now. When we were in caves, if a tribe had enough dominant males to overcome other tribes? They thrived. Even when we became ‘civilised’ and enforced monogamy. One king started his own church because his pope forbade him from marrying another woman. A Khan reportedly has spread his genes into a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthssubjectivity of value There is an objective difference. Between the dating and relationships outcomes of a prisoner, and an NBA player. So we can subjectively compare the two scenarios as we have done, and see where the merit lies objectively. For instance is the subjective value of a prisoner receiving fan mail the same or similar to an NBA cheating on his girlfriend? Presumably an argument can be made that it is. Are their outcomes objectively the same or similar? Not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menhuman connection is much more nuanced. Agreed. Objectively however there is both a starting point, and an end point that encompasses all nuance? For instance before one meets their future partner, they are objectively strangers. Conversely regardless of duration, depth or every other single variable or nuance, every single relationship ends. Thus, in context to dating and relationships one can objectively view every kind of nuance between these two objective parameters. For instance two stranger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsThe key difference is this; Prisoners Are subject to enforcement. Conversely Klay is only subject to his own conscience. Besides that limitation he has a myriad of choice. To most, an objectively valuable distinction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menone foot in one foot out If they are in, they are subject to The SMP objectively determining their value. Regardless of where their other foot is. For instance if an individual values their peace, and puts more effort into retaining that than acquiring a partner? The SMP will let that individual know what type of partner is willing to tolerate that type of behaviour. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsYou have a lot of feelings about the value of other people My friend, my feelings do not change objective reality. Objectively if one country wants to destroy a minority group and has the power to do so? Or an NBA star wants to cheat? My feelings or the feelings of anyone else has little bearing on either of these facts. Now morally, ethically and spiritually I can view the above scenarios as wrong. My viewpoint however is of little help to that persecuted minority. Or the women who decide to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthswhich lives you personally feel to have value and which lives do not. Acknowledging objective reality is the exact opposite of holding a personal viewpoint. Second, as a Christian all life to me is sacred. Irrespective of objective value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 12:08 PM |
| -4 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsyou want your value determined externally that’s your prerogative. The primary reason this is inaccurate is because objectively for every single human; from birth their value by default is defined in context to their direct external environment first. For instance if a human has little to no value; say a child in a born in Gaza, or a Rohingya Muslim in Burma. Their ‘value’ is entirely dependent upon the external circumstances they are born into. This viewpoint is objective reality. Now, we as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsSorry my guy, both those references are over my head. The Warriors dynasty that I was referring to was The Golden State Warriors in The NBA. That Klay was a part of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsWAP song Love that song. Didn’t know she sung it. Yeah The NBA isn’t that big globally, so I can understand how an entertainer would be far more famous than Klay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 04:35 AM |
| -2 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsMen who cheat aren’t “high value”. Whilst I agree value can both be subjective and objective. I, like you and most normal folk view it as reasonable to assign a level of morality to one’s choices. Yet that doesn’t change the fact that objectively, Klay could have a dozen women sliding into his DM’s tonight if he so chooses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 04:31 AM |
| -1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsI’m the other way around; everyone knows The Warriors Dynasty. I was confusing Megan with Nicki Minaj. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsHilarious pivot hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 04:25 AM |
| 0 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthscalling Klay high value Broaden your perspective beyond this sub; is Klay only known as The Stallion Tamer? Or for other endeavours? Even more objectively; if he was just tall, decently fit, rich, and still a guy who sleeps around? How much action is he getting? Objective value is determined externally. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 04:19 AM |
| -1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthshave an understanding This. It’s why discretion is a premium. Especially in this digital age. Everyone is making content, except for those who don’t need to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menthe ‘no man’ option. The premise excludes anyone who consciously chooses not to participate in The Sexual Marketplace. If someone chooses pets over partners? More power to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menMy dear, if you cannot understand a simple premise; that in dating as in life if something is not working, then something needs to change no amount of ‘circles’ can help you. You either understand and accept this simple premise; or you do not. Objectively speaking that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menMy pov is that your questions are objectively vague and unreasonable. My friend, if an individual is doing something unsuccessfully, they need to change something. What is either vague, or unreasonable about this concept? I am happy to meet you at your level of comprehension, just point out what is vague or unreasonable about the above and we’ll go from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menobjectively too vague To clarify; that an individual should make not changes if their current dating strategy is unsuccessful is too vague? That, is your point of view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:33 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵crazy line to Headline with too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menthey should keep looking With no change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:17 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵good at lying That’s a good point. That means at least three of these women including OP’s mom probably aren’t good at picking up on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 01:21 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That’s true. This man is soon to have five kids. With at least three different women. The decision making from the women? To procreate with such a man? Certainly questionable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menI don’t know what you’re referring to Okay. Let’s simplify; objectively if an individual is looking for a partner and does not secure one, their only option is to change their standards and processes, or remain single. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 01:07 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM AN AM I AN ASSHOLE SUB AITAH for telling my dad's pregnant girlfriend that he already has three kids I have nothing to do with and her baby will be no different? I (17M) grew up with my mom. I only ever saw my dad one day a month and that has not changed after all this time. My mom and I tried to end that visitation but the judge said since dad never skipped a day it made sense to continue until my 18th birthday, which is in October. My dad has dated a few women over the years and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menStill expecting the same outcome So, to you, if one retains the same standards and processes, whilst expecting a different outcome? That, is reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than mencontinuing to look Without realigning their standards, yet expecting different outcome? Is certainty.. A strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:56 PM |
| – | Question for bluepilers . At a base level Is self improvement just to get some 🐱 bad , in any way? If yes please explain.No. This is entirely anecdotal but as a perfectionist, tying any process solely to an outcome can be detrimental. In that the outcome can outweigh the value derived from the process. For instance weightlifting just to get some. Conversely focusing on embracing the process, whilst accepting the outcome may or may not be a direct result of it? Is far more beneficial. As one derives value from the process regardless of the outcome. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldthe cost of understanding what’s actually out there First, men should discern for themselves, what they should and should not do. Want to play the field? Focus on becoming attractive enough to have options. Want to get married young? Better become attractive enough and hone solid vetting skills. There’s benefits to playing the field. Confirming one’s desirability. New experiences. Freedom of choice. Just as there are benefits to long term monogamy. The key is become attractive enough to have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menBeing single is not being in a relationship. Agreed. Which means in context to getting into a relationship, one has not attained their desired outcomes. Subsequently, their only option is to realign their standards or remain single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:14 PM |
| -1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than mensingle Regardless if one is happy single, if their desired outcome is a relationship? In this context, being single is by default choosing to be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than mennever take that advice My point is not gendered. It is equally applicable. Which is what makes objectivity so valuable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menWho rates value? Objectively? The Sexual Marketplace does. For instance if a woman rates herself highly? Yet her sexual history is littered with casual encounters and situationships? Sure her subjective viewpoint is a factor, but so too are her objective outcomes thus far. Exactly the same if she’s been married to one guy for the last decade. Ultimately in dating and relationships, subjective self determination of value can only be established in context to objective reality first. It is that si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 10:50 PM |
| 0 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menyou, objectively, don’t get to determine my worth Agreed. The SMP does. If one’s standards preclude them from attaining their desired outcome? Their only choice is to either realign their standards to their reality, or choose loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menobjective The primary reason I contextualise almost all my posts with objectivity, is because it then aligns one’s worldview as close as possible to reality. the only person who can determine someone’s worth is themselves. Okay. Let’s say I agree. One self determines that their objective net worth is 6 million dollars. Or that one is 6’2. Does that self determination accurately align with reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 09:39 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Dudes can wear whatever they want. Whilst true, appearance is fundamental. Makeup for men though, to me, is a little too superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 09:35 PM |
| -2 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menwho gets to determine someone’s worth? There’s two ends of the scale; objective value in content to one’s external environment, and one’s subjective value driven by one’s internal dialogue. For instance one can be objectively poor, yet internally derive a great deal of appreciation and fulfilment from the little they have. Or be objectively successful and attractive, yet allow their internal dialogue to sow doubt, anxiety and fear. Almost all humans form their worldviews between these two extrem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵clavicular and his friends are all on livestreams giving men tutorials on how to put on makeup Man, I feel sorry for these guys. Imagine being so insecure they resort to using makeup. Mastering self acceptance is much more beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 08:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵if she was a woman In context to gender presentation how critical is biological sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:59 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵deconstruct her idea of gender norms Genuine question; why? For instance when she met her husband, the way he presented was the norm. Which means if she’s was attracted to him under that pretence, his choices currently should then warrant her changing? Especially in context to attraction? An individual presents as a woman. Down the line she ‘reveals’ herself to be a man. Does her husband then have to deconstruct his idea of gender norms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:33 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A TRUE OFF MY CHEST SUB I'm having a hard time being attracted to my husband When I met my husband he was a masc male, assigned male at birth, and dressed as such. He dressed this way our entire dating relationship. Gradually he grew his hair out. It didn't concern me. We got married a year and a half into our relationship. Since then he's been a different person. He started wearing feminine clothes. He says they're neutral. They're not. They're very feminine. Think blouses and co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | “Men gave women rights”you could take women’s rights away Like.. Abortion rights? It is not that ‘men’ specifically can or cannot take away rights. The key factor is enforcing rights. If an individual or group within a society has no recourse to enforce their rights? They may as well not exist. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circleit’s HOW you ask I second this. TRP calls it Plausible Deniability. e.g. ”He just asked if I wanted to come over and see his Pokémon Card Collection. Next minute, I’m upside down on his kitchen counter with Banana everywhere..” Most women prefer covert communication. As it doesn’t put them on the spot. It is possible to be discreetly direct, which is a beneficial skill to hone in any social setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 09:42 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Love does not exist I view love on a scale. The heights being an emotional and physical connection that has no equal. The other extreme? Apathy. From the viewpoint I can better regulate my emotions, and better understand those of my partners. Nothing in life stays the same. Being adaptable, and moving with the ebbs and flows of life is the best way to flourish. Especially in context to love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A TWO HOT TAKES SUB I (29F) chose a stable marriage over my “bad boy” ex (31M), but I still think about him sometimes-why? I (29F) am married to my husband (32M). We’ve been together for 4 years, married for 2. Before him, I was in an on-and-off relationship for 6 years with my ex (31M). My ex was my first everything. That kind of connection doesn’t fully disappear, even years later. He’s also a very specific type motorcycle, tattoos, cigarettes, alcohol, emotionally intense, a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeThey are not untrustworthy Yet if a man only agrees to sex with a woman that if conception occurs it won’t end in childbirth, in your view she cannot be accountable for keeping her word. Objectively, if any individual does not keep their word; are they trustworthy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:48 PM |
| 6 | What’s your opinion on the friend zone?opinion on the friend zone Love it. I consider everyone I meet an acquaintance first, a friend next, and something more tangible when applicable. The primary reason being is when meeting new women I lead with flirting. So if they rebuff my advances, they automatically go into the acquaintance bucket. Simple and effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeNope. Okay. So even if a man takes all reasonable precaution, he should treat all women he encounters as untrustworthy? This, to you, is reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeIf a ma chooses to sleep with someone who is untrustworthy about pregnancy, who is responsible for that choice. He certainly is responsible. Especially if he takes all reasonable precautions up to and including only agreeing to sex if no childbirth occurs. For instance if conception occurs, can a man force a woman to keep her word and take Plan B? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makebut it is their choice My friend, again this is the point. If a woman chooses to sleep with an untrustworthy man, who is responsible for that choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeNo one is pissed off. you do not get to choose whether a baby is born or not. Mothers do Which is the point. If a mother chooses to proceed beyond conception, with a man who has made it clear he does not want a child, objectively she does not care about doing what is best for the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeI am concerned that the baby had parents. Who care about them. If this is true; you then must agree that if a woman consciously chooses to proceed from conception to childbirth with a man who does not want a baby, they are not prioritising the quality of life of that baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 01:21 AM |
| -1 | Men are not capable of romantic love.All anecdotes only need other anecdotes to be immediately disproven. This is why it’s far better to rely on Objectivity. For instance is sex fundamental to all relationships? Objectively? The answer is straightforward. Or is sex fundamental to most relationships? Again, objectively the answer is simple. That is not to deride fantasy. Or romance. The most holistic approach however involves balance. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makea child’s quality of life is at stake Genuine question; to you, is there an objective difference between conception and *childbirth? Just clarifying, because you appear to gloss over the fact there is a clear difference between the two states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeYou have sex and pregnancy results, you can blame women Again, no one is blaming women. The point is who is responsible for the decision to go from conception, to childbirth. This, is the pivot against which all subsequent outcomes are weighed. Acknowledging this fact is not blame. It is objective reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Stop gaslighting men into Therapymight not work exactly the same The primary reason this is false is simplified down, the key to retaining a healthy worldview is maintaining sufficient Perspective. This fact is not gendered and is exactly the same for all humans. Those naturally inclined. Those anxious or fearful. Objectivity coupled with a broad enough perspective? Allows one’s worldview the scope to better accept their own circumstances in context to the ‘bigger’ picture. The only difference in acquiring sufficient perspectiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeall men are untrustworthy That, is the current default. Thus, if a woman entrusts her body to an untrustworthy man? Who is responsible for that decision? Furthermore, it the woman chooses to progress beyond conception? To that same untrustworthy man? Is she not responsible for that choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeYes, it is reasonable Okay. This means in your view, all women are untrustworthy and that it is reasonable all men can take unreasonable precautions to protect themselves. For instance lying. As opposed to say empowering a high trust society. Where men can trust that if they enter into relations with women, they will honour their word. That, is your viewpoint? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 07:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men aren’t “afraid of commitment” anymore, we’re just more selective than previous generationsthought you had some more information Sorry not as yet, but always open to learning. It is fascinating that we have a certain gene that programs us to procreate outside our family. There’s interesting history like The Hapsburgs and to a lesser extent The Ashkenazi Jews that affected their subsequent generations. Additionally, the more we learn about genetics the more interesting our history becomes. Was listening to the Dr David Sinclair and David Friedberg episodes on The Modern Wisdom Podcast … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 06:42 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men aren’t “afraid of commitment” anymore, we’re just more selective than previous generationsAs far as I know prehistoric people had no concept of monogamy and they didn’t understand how children happened I’m admit my ignorance upfront in that I know very little about our early ancestors. Additionally, how valid evolutionary psychology and biology theories are if untestable. That said objectively there must have been a level of organised collaboration between tribe/family members. Especially in context to procreation because overly inbreeding would kill off a tribe within a few generati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeIt is not about who said what. It is about the child. This is a good point. So regardless of whatever a woman says, a man should not trust her? More importantly, to protect himself should take unreasonable precautions? This, to you, is reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeYou make a decision to have sex This, again is the pivotal point. A man can take all reasonable precautions including eliciting an agreement that childbirth is not an option from the woman pre-coitus. Post conception, is she responsible for honouring her part of that agreement? If your answer is anything other yes, your point of view means that what a woman agrees to pre-conception is absolutely worthless post conception. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:27 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵old childless woman Whilst I agree family comes in many forms, there is objectively a fundamental difference belonging to a big family of relations. For instance I have a decent sized family(4 siblings). We’re currently at 20 grandkids for my parents. Which means birthdays. Graduations. A billion basketball, netball and soccer games. A few rugby ones too(thankfully). Not to mention my extended family. In year if we didn’t holiday as often as we do, there’d be a party 40 off weekends out of the y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:15 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Great job baking that my guy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:05 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵already in the more defensive position This is key. Personally my first step is to adopt the point of view I’m opposing. So my default position is always one of agreement. Couple that with Objectivity, and it’s fairly easy to discern the merit of most arguments here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeHow old are you? Old enough to discern inequality when I see it. If you do not want babies do not do it. That, is the point. If a man takes every single precaution up to including a vasectomy, is direct in communicating with a woman prior that childbirth is not an option for him, and she agrees to just sex under these circumstances? Is she responsible for that choice? Especially if conception occurs and she knew his stance prior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeyou made the choice to have sex. This is a good point. The issue is when both parties agreeing just to sex, but not to childbirth. The premise being that if there was no agreement, there would be no sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:12 PM |
| 5 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.doesn’t make it rage bait It makes little sense too. Objectively in a majority of endeavours, having more options is almost always more beneficial than having less options. As Heinlein so eloquently posits; ’specialization is for insects.’ It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 09:58 PM |
| 0 | There has never been a better time to be a mandivorce lawyer They’ll also tell you this in six minute increments. Just kidding. Ultimately marriage on a pragmatic level isn’t an issue of love, it’s an issue of income. For instance my besties and I are all on our second marriages. The higher up the ladder one goes, the more common it is to have multiple marriages. Once an individual is sufficiently insulated, marriage is not overly onerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeconsensual My friend, it doesn’t bother me either way. I am interested in your logic though. Primarily because if a man would consents to sex with the expressed agreement that kids are not an option, and takes all necessary precautions leading up having a vasectomy? To you, that objectively means his consent is worthless. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeWhether your intended to create it is irrelevant Except for Rape correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeJust as responsible Okay. So if neither party would have agreed to sex, objectively that express agreement does not absolve a man of his responsibility? Okay. Let’s say I agree. A man is just as responsible. Does that then mean every single man should take sufficient precaution to protect himself from this outcome? Say, lie? This, to you, is reasonable? If not, what level of precaution is? If full contraception and fully trusting the woman is insufficient? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makean accident or contraceptive failure. This is a good point. Let’s then separate accident or contractive failure from degree of victimhood. For instance both parties use contraception. The pill. Condoms. Throw in Vasectomies too. Both parties are only entering into relations with the express agreement of sex, but no kids. That without that express agreement, neither party would have agreed to sex. Conception occurs. Upon learning this fact, the woman is free to change her mind and continue till h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:03 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makedon’t see a man choosing not to wear a condom as a victim no. Okay. So if a condom is used? Is a victim of that level of deceit still responsible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeyou should still be responsible So, to you, at this level of victimhood the victim is responsible? Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 10:27 AM |
| -1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeBe specific about the kind of deceit Certainly. All deceit that results in half the ingredients being acquired. Take your example of lying about being on the pill. How responsible is a victim of that level deceit? Objectively are they a victim; or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeMost men are not deceived Let’s try and remain objective. Thus, if half the ingredients were acquired through deceit, how responsible should that victim of deceit be? Again, an objectively simple question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 09:43 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makePretty sure the topic of discussion here is Responsibility. So, to you, there should be no obligation on the victim’s behalf. Thus, no responsibility. I agree. The next logical question then is degree of victimhood. For instance; acquiring half the ingredients through deceit. To you, how responsible is a victim of deceit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 09:33 AM |
| 0 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makerelevant To you, are the circumstances under how half the ingredients were acquired relevant? Or not? It is an objectively simple question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 09:01 AM |
| -1 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makemore specific Certainly. Objectively there are only two ends of the range of consent a man can give prior to engaging in sex. At one end; full and enthusiastic consent to sex and all it entails. For instance a married couple trying for a baby. The other extreme; no consent. For instance Rape. Every other circumstance occurs between these two extremes. Is this unreasonable? Primarily because the next step is to walk the reasoning back, to a point where you and I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:53 AM |
| -4 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makegives up control Do you hold this view for both ends of the range of consent? For instance, a man enthusiastically and fully consents to leave his half of the ingredients in the oven. Or at the other extreme; half the ingredients were acquired without his consent. Is your answer the same for both these circumstances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:48 AM |
| -11 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeObjectively, half the ingredients can only be acquired from a man with his full, enthusiastic consent; or none at all. Every single other circumstance falls between these two extremes. At either end, does a man have 50% control over the decision as to whether those ingredients get ‘fully baked’? Or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:10 AM |
| -10 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makesupply half the ingredients By this logic then men have 50% control of the decision as to whether those ingredients get fully cooked, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:02 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Cheers friend! Worst comes to worst I’ll pop it on the MacBook and keep an AirPod in haha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:44 AM |
| 1 | If the redpill is actually amoral, they wouldn’t be insulting women.their behaviour could be encapsulated into simple rules like that. It can not only be simplified down to simple rules, it is pragmatic to do so. For instance one half of a sexually dimorphic species finds physical strength attractive. Social acumen. Or the ability to accumulate resources. For the opposite half of that species observing and acknowledging these trends, then strategically capitalising on them? Is not only beneficial, it’s efficient. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:35 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My biggest takeaway from TRP was to ensure it doesn’t determine my outcomes. There’s a lot of criticism of the misogynistic aspects of The Manosphere, and rightfully so. There are also a lot of guys who simply want better outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵majority if the time taken actually consists of playing the sport I agree with this. That said as a former rugby player I was drawn to the level of speed, physicality and strength NFL players do exhibit when actually playing. So though commercialism definitely affects game play, the performance on the field is certainly entertaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:42 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵She had horses growing up, so usually she’ll fly to her bestie’s horse farm and rides all weekend. Her bestie is a barrister though so it’s hard to align their calendars. Every other holiday is either as a family or just us two. She’s one of those ‘difficult to buy for’ people because she just buys things for herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:35 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵whether or not bear would pick them Got it. So become the bear. Just kidding. My wife says I’m hairy enough hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sykkuno Okay, as a self identifying ‘normie’ I’ll bite; what is Sykkuno? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:12 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵fake sport Interesting take. What, to you, is a ‘real’ sport? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:11 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah I’m down to pull it apart. Both Vrabel and Russini putting their reputations on the line is crazy work. Poor ass Op Sec from both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:11 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I’m trying to convince my wife to have a weekend away next weekend so I can just watch The Draft and have a blast! Love Draft season! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:08 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵not his responsibility to stay or leave As someone who’s dealt with this issue postpartum twice; the key factor is communication. For instance the cause is an either a small change or a significant one. Say a hormone imbalance. Dietary shift. Or childbirth. Understanding, acknowledging then addressing this fact improves every facet of sexual intimacy subsequent to it. Which takes patience, empathy and solid communication from both parties to effectively resolve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 09:58 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵paying for a date Damn. So my wife paying for our first few dates was her shooting her shot.. Just kidding. Women in your league won’t ask Nor would they have to. Hospitality in my culture is fundamental, so money is of little value compared to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?The advice targets patterns because patterns produce results. I agree with this. I grew up around a few pro and semi pro athletes. So from a young age, my ‘blueprint’ for finding success with women was straightforward. A blueprint that when I found TRP nearly a decade later confirmed was not only simple, but repeatable, scalable and widely applicable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 09:43 PM |
| 3 | If the redpill is actually amoral, they wouldn’t be insulting women.the redpill is actually amoral Objectively, a strategy being amoral does not preclude it from being used morally or immorally. Or even maliciously. For instance one can use TRP to try and justify misogyny. Or improve their outcomes. TRP is amoral. How one applies it? Is up to the individual. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 08:15 PM |
| 2 | If the redpill is actually amoral, they wouldn’t be insulting women.Oh my that is hilarious. A little excessive, but entertaining nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 08:10 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Haha! I’m borrowing this for my kids. I used to refer to them as biracial angels, but my goto now is to be superior fried rice. When asked about it I’ll say to them you guys are like plain rice, but better; like superior fried rice.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 12:35 PM |
| – | Men are non chalant bc of womenyou should always put your partner before yourself. Let’s test this theory; objectively if an individual is physically unhealthy; should they prioritise their partner’s health first? Or mentally unwell? How about emotionally? Or, let’s test the theory prior to partnering up. How effective can one be attracting a partner if they are unhealthy and do not prioritise any of the above, for themselves first? Conversely, how affective can a long term partner be, if they always put their partner before … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:02 AM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.the economic model is no longer sufficient to actually to actually explain or understand these relationships. This is a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 12:37 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Congrats to your nephew and your family! Many happy blessings for the newly official fiancés! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:33 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵why engage at all? Entertainment. I don’t do TV. Or social media outside of reddit. Here though the text element is right in my wheelhouse, so I enjoy engaging here purely because it entertains me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:32 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵his memorial Whilst I agree it’s not ideal that grief arguably hits differently when it’s a child one has lost. True tragedy. Hope they’re doing okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:30 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just get an accountant. I’m not even rich and it’s the best money I’ve ever spent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:27 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That was hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:25 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My guy, don’t lower yourself by calling people names. It is beneath you. This was a mistake, but it is also an opportunity. Keep business about business. Don’t engage in office gossip, but if to have to keep it general and conciliatory. It’s also an opportunity for you to rebuild those networks with the peers you think you may have put offside by your comment. Anyone who’s successful knows how important relationships are. So rebuilding those you may have strained is not only beneficial, it’s a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:18 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROMA RELATIONSHIP ADVICE SUB Me 23M has just found out that my girlfriend 24M has had a threesome with two of her best friends 22M and 26M a month before we started dating Me and my girlfriend have been dating for little over a month, I really do love her as she has a lot of traumas but I've managed to help her get her life back on track. As the title says, a little backstory is that we were 5 people in a jacuzzi drinking wine at 2 am playing never have I ever and one of the friends [… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Men are non chalant bc of womenputting your partner before yourself The primary flaw with this viewpoint is it creates an unhealthy dynamic. One must by default always prioritise themselves first. For instance objectively the hierarchy of needs in a relationship is this; First, a healthy, hale individual self sufficient whole on their own. Second, two individuals, healthy, hale and whole together as a couple. Finally, two individuals and their kids, healthy, hale and whole together as a family. Any damage in the chain creates… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 09:04 PM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.doesn’t take away from my position First, I agree with you. There is a level of subjective experience that should not quantified. That said objectively that subjective facet of relationships can only occur in context to objective reality. Which means the basis of all bonds are subject to objective quantifying measuring. For instance do we define differences healthy and unhealthy bonds? If so, how? Objectively? Or subjectively? If not, why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 08:13 PM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.its tiring for me I do sincerely appreciate the effort. It is both exemplary of and an indication to the astoundingly confounding dedication you have to your position. However tiring it is for you though I still am grateful to you, for the levity your contributions bring. Additionally, it is important to continue repeating the same statement. Primarily because positive affirmations are beneficial. spend time in a place idling, waiting, or socialising without a specific purpose. So, simplifying y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Men are non chalant bc of womenstruggle with women None. Though we’re all on our second or third wives. My father has had multiple partners since divorcing my mother. So the ‘long’ in long term relationships is somewhat of a fluidly applicable term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Men are non chalant bc of womenyou don’t have That is a bold statement. It isn’t accurate, but it is entertaining if nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 11:36 AM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.I said Okay. I can use the exact same verbiage; the premise of your post is that family trauma or trauma in general aside, good people do not hang around or be with bad. This is objectively false. Good people hang around or are with bad people out of necessity. Or because they are objectively ignorant of the terrible people around them. This, unfortunately for your OP, is objective reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 11:32 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just had the best ‘sleepover downstairs’ with my two youngest. Too much fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Happy birthday to your bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.Im reluctant My friend, the premise of your post is that trauma aside, good people do not socialise with bad. This is objectively false. Good people socialise with bad people out of necessity. Or because they are objectively ignorant of the terrible people around them. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 08:47 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What do you do? Let her know. Then she can make a better informed decision as to how she wants to proceed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 08:39 PM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.they can still not see a problem So, you are saying they are objectively ignorant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 08:31 PM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.family trauma is an exception Whether it’s family trauma or trauma in general is irrelevant to the fact good people do socialise with bad. By necessity. Or because they are objectively ignorant. Additionally, people change. Bad people included. So acknowledging this fact is far more beneficial than presuming that good people who socialise with bad are inherently bad too. Unless you prefer looking at the world through a narrow worldview, retaining as broad a perspective as possible is far more be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.family trauma Okay. Let’s say I agree; the exception is family trauma. This would mean that objectively if an entire family dynamic is bad, a good person cannot exist within that family. Correct? If not, again, the entire core of your post does not align with objective reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | The recent Sophie Rain situation proves that the sexual revolution only benefits elite men, and does not empower womenrules or restrictions have to be enforced I agree with this. This is the foundation not only of society, but of civilisation itself. Thus is always a solid foundation to base one’s worldview on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Men are non chalant bc of womenGuys are simply adapting to external stimuli Guys who are truly nonchalant are usually nonchalant from a young age. Arguably too are predisposed to it. For instance my father is the epitome of narcissism. Super intelligent. Super successful. So naturally some of that rubbed off. My wife often jokes that my supreme confidence comes from being told since birth that ‘the sun shines out of my arse’. That’s not to discount that men who are not confident and have to learn it. If they are doing so in r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 02:01 PM |
| 2 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.more than just that sentence Your point is that with the exception of Trauma, good people do not hang around bad people. Correct? Which means objectively if an entire society is fundamentally bad, good people cannot exist in that society. Primarily because trauma aside, good people do not socialise with bad. Correct? If not, then the entire core of your post does not align with objective reality. Conversely, acknowledging that human behaviour exists on a scale that spans not only differing value… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.Ignorant as in unaware Objectively ignorant. For instance most people can recognise terrible behaviour. Thus the OP being applicable. The only exception being Trauma however? Objectively? Is unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.makes you complicit Agreed. One however cannot be objectively complicit if they are objectively ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 01:03 PM |
| 2 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.if you are around obviously bad people, you are a bad person as well The primary flaw in this viewpoint is if an entire society is fundamentally bad. Objectively, the choices of the good in those societies are limited because of the society itself. A prime example found in the book I am Malala. The secondary flaw in this viewpoint is ignorance. Objectively an individual is either ignorant of, or responsible for addressing issues. One can be a good human, and still be utterly ignorant of the terr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:37 PM |
| 2 | The recent Sophie Rain situation proves that the sexual revolution only benefits elite men, and does not empower womenThere will always be a small group of elite men. The Angela Merkels and Margaret Thatchers of the world didn’t sleep their way to the top. Additionally, monetising sex can be fiscally savvy. For instance Kim K will always be Ray J’s ex. This did not prevent her leveraging this infamy from scandal, into a billion dollar brand. Objectively, power goes to those capable first of attaining it. Then, ultimately retaining it. A fact that is not gendered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:14 PM |
| 1 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?she does nothing It doesn’t. The post says she tries to support herself for two months, then; she realises she no longer wants to live like that. She makes a conscious decision of her own volition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 08:01 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵making new recipes is kinda expensive When I was in college I used to buy bulk protein, and grow a ton of my own vegetables. Also my meal prep was locked in tight, where I rotated the through a few solid options like spaghetti bolognaise, curries, and wraps. Also, it was easier to tweak and change recipes. Cook bulk ground beef. Make spaghetti bolognaise, lasagne and shepherds pie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?sci fi One key aspect is what type of human would artificial wombs produce? If fully functional, healthy humans are the outcome? Does the role of mother become obsolete? Or, is this simply the next step of our evolution as a species? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?the current legal basis for supporting abortion goes away This is a good point. Another factor is what happens to the pregnancy if both parties are split about proceeding to child birth. For instance dad wants the child, but mom doesn’t. What happens? Which also highlights the current inequality of in reproductive legislation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:48 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A RELATIONSHIP SUB Husband (26m) found out some things about my (24f) past at a party. Now he wants a divorce. I started dating my husband when I was two months away from 20. I had only one real relationship before him, at 16, in which I was blindly obsessed and heartbroken when it ended. In the long run, I used intimacy to heal from it. Over 3 yrs, I saw about 30 ppl. I’m not here to make excuses. That is a higher amount than most my age and it can be off putting for some, I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Replying to Meekzzy... My primary goal is to be a life long learner. There’s just so much to see and do in one lifetime. Currently I’m semi retired because I wanted to be a stay at home parent. My youngest however just started formal education this year, so I have a ton of free time. My wife took last month and this month off, so we’ve been going on a lot of lunch/shopping dates which has been a nice change of pace. Also about begin studying a new degree in an entirely new field that isn’t a str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:25 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵owe us Okay boo.. Just kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Aside from it being morally wrong, there’s no logical reason to be against recognizing the pay gap between genderswhy is it a woman’s responsibility to take a pay cut It isn’t. That is a choice all adults make. One, purportedly women are making in droves as per your own point about birth rates. Additionally, I’d even go one step further and say if you can’t afford kids, it is a fiscally poor decision to have them. That a woman who decides to take ‘a pay cut’ is making an objectively poor decision, if they cannot account for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:08 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Best wishes my guy and good luck to the people of Hungary! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Aside from it being morally wrong, there’s no logical reason to be against recognizing the pay gap between gendersMen can’t have it both ways. Objectively, why is it an employer’s responsibility to facilitate an employee’s reproductive choices? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Aside from it being morally wrong, there’s no logical reason to be against recognizing the pay gap between genderspay gap exists If it did, my bestie who’s a c suite exec would be flocking to hire all the women. A group of people willingly taking less for the doing the exact same job? He’d love that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Aside from it being morally wrong, there’s no logical reason to be against recognizing the pay gap between genderscaring responsibilities How much should an employer subsidise an employee’s caring responsibilities? If that is the rationale wage gap enthusiasts use, then at what point is an employee a liability rather than an asset? For instance my bestie is a C suite exec. Guess what his most expensive outlay is? Human Resources. Specifically; maternity leave. Now it’s a great organisation, and his built a great culture there. Yet paid maternity leave is literally subsidising caring responsibilities. Do tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Aside from it being morally wrong, there’s no logical reason to be against recognizing the pay gap between gendersthere’s no logical reason to be against recognizing the pay gap between genders. Whenever this issue arises, my first question is always this; which organisation pays men more than women based solely on their sex? Objectively, if one group of people will do the exact same job for less money? Companies would be flocking to outsource their work to that group. Exclusively. If there was one company that legally pays women less than men because of their sex, there might be validity to the wage gap ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:18 PM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?There is no “simple” argument My friend, for this to be true there by default must be an objective baseline from which all context is formed. For instance if an individual is fully ignorant, or fully aware. Every single objective outcome resides on this scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:42 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?assuming your audience is stupid My friend, no one assuming anything. If you cannot see the reasoning even when simplified further? Is unfortunately an issue I cannot fix. not simplifying anything here The point is that from birth, bar the context of their immediate environment an individual is *objectively ignorant of any context beyond that. They have no frame of reference. This fact can persist all the way up to being objectively ignorant, or the malicious intent of others. The objective igno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:20 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?some sort of mechanical process you’ve decide makes sense m in your head Okay. Again, I’ll simplify the reasoning for you. A child, from birth, bar their immediate surroundings is objectively ignorant of their physical environment beyond that. Let alone social context. For instance a newborn’s only frame of reference is food, sleep and the direct humans who interact with them. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?Objectively your argument makes no sense Okay. I’ll simplify the premise for you; and you show us the flaw in the reasoning. A child from birth, bar their immediate surroundings is objectively ignorant of their physical environment beyond that. Let alone social context. For instance a newborn’s only frame of reference is food, sleep and the direct humans who interact with them. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:31 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?My friend, if you still want to get to the objective facts? Let’s do it. For instance professional intervention the only foolproof way to diagnose a malicious person? Or are there more accessible for one to leverage numerous tools to mitigate risk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 01:54 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?communicate through text for a while before meeting you have some failsafe way to predetermine dark personality traits before the first date. This is probably the biggest difference I find with dating in a modern democracy, than how dating and relationships are valued in my society. In my culture and a ton of other less developed nations, relationships are viewed far more holistically. By necessity. Thus, it is not only beneficial for one’s family to be involved, it is optimal. One even modern d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 01:41 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?not an accessible option So, in your view it is an unreasonable strategy to use one’s family or networks? For most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:58 AM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.like saying the relationship is the same as what you have with your best friend Objectively it is. The only difference is degree of intimacy. For instance objectively there was a point where my best friend and I were strangers(halfway through Year 1 to be exact). From that point onwards however, the depth of our relationship only increased. The exact same premise is not only applicable to romantic relationships, it is the norm. To measure. To gauge. To establish definitions. Parameters. To ask ‘… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?How This is a good question. The step is establishing if it’s possible. If so, what are the parameters that differentiate a malicious person from a genuine one? For instance; relationships. What type of relationships does a malicious person hold? Close with their mom? Dad? Estranged? Long term bestie? None? What other parameters? Their previous choices and actions? Their current circumstances and outcomes? If an individual is so good at lying, what facets of their lives are genuine? What is a fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 11:37 PM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?Okay. We are in agreement. When then is it reasonable for society to expect a woman to ‘figure it out’? Only after professional help? Or prior to a first date? Objectively, is it reasonable for a society to expect a woman is sufficiently self aware prior to a first date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 10:09 PM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?blame children Not at all. Objectively they are innocent in their ignorance. That fact changes however when they become sufficiently self aware, because regardless of agency the very first thing they will try to do is resolve the issue. Until then? Objectively? They suffer in their ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 09:56 PM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?My friend, I am not even in The United States. At least not currently hehe! That said I arguably out of most here try hard to understand the perspectives of others. For no other reason than the fact I enjoy challenging my own worldview. For instance if you can retort my point, let’s debate it. Let’s work out, together, where my worldview is flawed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 09:49 PM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?what if The premise remains. For instance if a child is sufficiently aware of their victimization, they will use whatever agency they possess to resolve their issues. Older siblings shielding younger ones. Or running away and escaping. Objective solutions. Not ideal, but presumably the best they can attain with limited agency. Any individual that has sufficient awareness will seek to resolve their issues. The rest? Objectively? Suffer the consequences of their ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 09:39 PM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?Children are responsible for their own Ignorance. For instance regardless of age a child who is not ignorant of issues will seek to address it. Fairness for example. A child who is ignorant has no frame of reference. Children as soon as they’re aware of the concept of fairness, apply it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 09:10 PM |
| -1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?Should we blame ‘all men’ because they were victims who made poor choices? Objectively all victims are responsible for either their ignorance, or their solutions. For instance children. Objectively ignorant. At the other end of the scale? Those who resolve their issues and move forward. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 08:42 PM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.we know there are hormones involved in the bonding process Okay. Let’s say I agree, that we are uncertain the hormones or any physiological factors of ‘love’ are ‘quantifiable’. For instance we could not run experiments to objectively measure brain activity of people in ‘love’ and against single people. That reasonable? irl relationships move Using objective reality to quantify the stages relationships ‘moves’ through is the prime example objectively quantifying or measuring a relationship. You’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Men are not protectors. Women are.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:50 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵sudden urge More important than the sudden urge is to identify the core value driving it. Is it vanity? Strength? Practicality? A combination? For instance I got into strength training because I wanted to play rugby. What happened was I developed the habit. Which as I’ve matured has evolved with me. Urges are good, but fleeting. Build your habits around your values. They’ll last longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"internally contradictory and practically untenable. There’s nothing contradictory or untenable with a woman vetting well, being intimate early on and retaining a low body count. The common factor is time. For instance the time between Alex and Trevor she’s hopefully learned a thing or two. About herself and what she wants. How to get it. So by the time she’s met Trev, she’s far better informed in how to vet for and build a long term relationship. She cannot control Trev’s decision making. Yet if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Men are not protectors. Women are.My friend, the two examples I have used are objective. Unfortunately just replying with ‘no’ does little to change this fact. Though if you have a solid argument as to why my viewpoint is not how objective reality works? I am open to listening to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:28 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵possibilities feel endless I’m the other way inclined. Love my kids. Would have more at the drop of a hat. My possibilities are immeasurable. Plus, I will most likely have a decently large family to share my future with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:31 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵an addict and Jenna’s probably using That is a key detail. That impairment though does not absolve responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:28 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵most useless looksmaxxing modality It is the most beneficial because in context to time, functional strength is fundamental to health. Thus subsequently appearance. Additionally, any cosmetic decisions beyond the reasonable is indicative of deeper seeded issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:20 PM |
| 2 | What is that guy supposed to do in the video - genuine discussion for both genders, no blaming each otherhow would you handle this situation Objectively there’s only two outcomes; first they work it out and he let’s it go. Or they do not, and they go their separate ways. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though.primarily see women as sex objects This is a good point. For women who partake in sex work if they do not objectify their own sexuality; how do they earn money? Furthermore women who partake in casual sex; is it not primarily for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:01 AM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openyou have to become This, is the key principle that first confirmed just how practically applicable TRP was. Ultimately, an individual is solely responsible for their outcomes. This objective fact is daunting. It is also empowering. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Being honest about adultery is a good thing, not a bad thing.brakes It’s a theory espoused in the book Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski. In theory there are ‘brakes’ that inhibit sexual intimacy, and ‘accelerators’ that empower it. These may be different for ever couple, but the premise is to establish open and honest dialogue that is collaborative in establishing these ‘levers’ to build towards a healthier sex love and subsequent love life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Men are not protectors. Women are.extraordinary levels of sexual violence The primary reason sexual violence is a tool of war is because of the objective fact that might equals right. For instance if a man is bigger, stronger and better trained than a woman? His intentions nefarious? For most women? The objective outcome is likely detrimental. At the other end of the scale; a defence force is bigger, stronger and better trained. Every other nation must by default account for this fact. Sexual violence and violence in general is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though.you REDUCE yourself to a body This, is the crux of the issue. Objectively whether it is casual sex or sex work, as soon as a woman chooses to partake in either? They are fundamentally separating who they are as a person, from who they are as a sexual being. For either pleasure or money. A choice that has consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:23 PM |
| 1 | AskTRP Megathreada lot of symptoms match The solution is to accurately diagnose the problem. For instance there’s only two causes; physiological or psychological. Physiologically, see a doctor to explain your symptoms, then go from there. Psychologically counselling is the most efficient way to gain objectivity. Get recommendations for quality therapists/counsellors. Talk to others who have had solid outcomes. Work out what worked for them managing their anxiety and internal dialogue. Which is fundamental. The k… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/26 08:31 PM |
| 1 | AskTRP MegathreadI don’t know how First, you’ve got great self awareness. So you’ve already taken the first step. The second step is to start with the end. What do you want your life to look like in 10 years? 20? Own a home? Wife? Kids? Travel? Nice car? Then plan backwards from there. Be detailed. Then break your plan up. Into 5 year plans. Then yearly. Then quarterly. Then monthly. Then weekly. All the way down to daily. Then execute. Your main issue is Habit. For instance porn. You did 4 days straight! That’s… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/26 09:19 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP Megathreadmore fulfilling What we find more fulfilling might not be what you find more fulfilling. If you’re not certain do the harder one first and spin plates. It’s easier to acquire the skills to go from having multiple options to one, then one to many. Godspeed and good luck! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/26 09:02 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵the moment you finish As a perfectionist I’m the other way inclined. When I was in the private sector, even if objectively I knew a project was completed I always felt like there was more ‘left on the table’. Irked me to no end, because hindsight is always 20/20. I’m better at accepting subpar outcomes these days. Anyone though who knows how good it feels to be in a competitive cauldron and come out the other side, will attest their is nothing quite like that feeling. I call it The Brady Mentali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 11:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Good luck for tomorrow bud! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 11:31 PM |
| 6 | Romance dramas or movies targeted at women are harmful to societyharmful to society The primary flaw in this viewpoint is that objectively, the level of harm pivots on the level of critical thinking a society possesses. For instance if a politician has documented, public viewpoints that are quite extreme? An uneducated or less critical society might vote that candidate into their highest office. Conversely an individual with sufficient critical thinking skills, can delineate the difference between fictional dramas and their own realistic outcomes. Mitigating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Politically Misogynist Men Should Just Move to Theocratic Countriesusually live where their extended families and jobs are. The other side of the OP is theocracies existing within democratic societies. For instance reportedly in England the NHS has directives to inform and dissuade certain minority groups from partaking first cousin marriages. Due to the influx in genetic issues arising from these unions. What happens if these ‘extended’ families grow into ‘extended’ voting majorities? It’s an interesting premise to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 10:30 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hehe! Love it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 09:45 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onhow much of masculinity and femininity is actually biologically real, and how much we just build over thousands of years as the norm. The primary flaw in this viewpoint is that objectively, civilisation can survive with far fewer males than females. This factor has been pivotal since we were huddled in caves, right up to modern day Japan or South Korea. Thus regardless of social role, biology supersedes it as a factor from an individual level, right up to a global scale. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 09:43 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of a relationship that is purely transactional?If you didn’t pay her, she wouldn’t go Sounds like wife material to me. Just kidding. The key to the quote is simply that the value of sex is finite, and not valued as much as the temporary nature of a transactional relationship. It is from the movie Four Brothers. The film uses it as analogy for hiring assassins from out of town, as opposed to local assassins. The comparison being that it is not just the service the client values, but the ability to leave or ‘get the hell out of town’ that is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:34 PM |
| – | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.you did it you make a decision to live a lie they lived an objectively happy life These are all black and white outcomes. As is; you decide to stay All your examples are clear cut absolutes. will that revelation be beneficial The primary reason breaking this issue into objective absolutes is beneficial? It establishes an objective range between two opposite outcomes. For instance objectively if an individual is unaware of the infidelity? As in your first example they literally will continue on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?men still care about genuine attraction Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:23 PM |
| – | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.you did it you make a decision to live a lie they lived an objectively happy life These are all black and white outcomes. As is; you decide to stay will that revelation be beneficial The primary reason breaking this issue absolutes are beneficial is because it establishes an objective range between two opposite outcomes. For instance objectively if an individual is unaware of the infidelity? As in your first example, they literally will continue on as if nothing happened changed. Conversely the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:09 PM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.certain hormones such as oxytocin and vasopressin. Do these hormones not exist in objective reality? Thus can be objectively quantified? Relationships are not purely transactional. TRP however uses these analogies of economics to illustrate the objective reality of love. For instance before love can exist two people must meet. This can only occur in objective reality. This is indisputable. Love is a subjective experience. I agree. This experience however can only exist in context to objective re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 07:58 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of a relationship that is purely transactional?want to have sex he get to pay amount You don’t pay a hoe for sex, you pay a hoe to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 10:16 AM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.Like there is no way love can exist is we can’t measure it objectively Not at all. Love can exist, but the pivotal factor is how it exists. For instance say love exists between two individuals. The only way this love is both acknowledged and reciprocated? Is through interacting in objective reality. If you disagree, you would have to explain how the bond of love is shared between two individuals without the use of objective reality. Say telepathically. Spiritually etc.. You need a rationale of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:53 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentfucking a machine This is the core the issue; are machines tools? Or the next step of our evolution? As an optimist I think we will course correct, and future generations will realign their priorities closer towards their humanity. That said we also need to push the boundaries of what is possible, to attain what is impossible. So it certainly is an exciting time to be alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:25 PM |
| 2 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.attraction isn’t the foundation of a healthy relationship Let’s see if we can find some common ground on this point; first I’ll agree with it. Say attraction is not the foundation of a healthy relationship. In your view, how foundational is attraction to a healthy relationship? Say, no mutual attraction. That a solid foundation for a healthy relationship? Or the other end of the scale; full mutual attraction? What is more conducive to the foundations of a healthy relationship in your view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:09 PM |
| 0 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.scope means the extent of I’m saying they don’t understand the full extent Let’s say I agree. TRP does not understand the full scope of how relationships are formed. Does this mean there is no objective framework that can be used to quantify relationships? Say, depth of connection. It cannot be objectively quantified. This reasonable? Bonding transcends the transactional nature of relationships on purpose I agree with you that bonding is a transcendent, ethereal and subjective experience. This e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Being a SAHM is idiotic for both the partners.SAHM is sooooo hard. As stay a home parent for most of last decade, my experience has been the opposite. Life’s pretty good. Additionally, my wife resigned from her job a few weeks ago and is taking a few months off work. Plus our youngest just started formal education this year. So we’ve both been very fortunate these last few weeks hanging out together between school runs. If one has the time, staying at home is no issue at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:00 PM |
| 0 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.The RP doesn’t actually hold any deep truth about human relationships it just doesn’t consider the full scope of how humans form relationships. The reason economic frameworks are helpful is because relationships can be viewed on an objective scale. For instance framing relationships from dependence, to independence. Objectively, every single relationship can be quantified on this scale. This is not limited to TRP, and is an oft utilised process across numerous fields of study. I am a romantic at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:05 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You’ll get there my guy! I’m rooting for ya! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:12 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵there aren’t enough cute 20yo girls The only single guy in my bestie group has a saying; a new one turns 20 every single day. Objectively, he’s right. That’s not to deride partnering young and building a life together. As a Christian I think that’s far more fulfilling than ‘having fun’. If a young guy however is willing to put in the work? His options will only increase. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:10 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Or I’m just happy for both of them. They’re beautiful together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:06 AM |
| 3 | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.Man. That, was a rabbit hole haha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:56 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Good buddy! Happy Easter! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:47 AM |
| 15 | The biggest thing right now we can do to help men is to teach boys as young as possible, to drop as much as possible, any and all need for female validationemulate modern women behaviour The primary reason this is poor advice, is because normal men do not enjoy the same privileges as modern women. Conversely a far more tried and tested method is to lean more heavily into masculinity. Primarily Strength. Physical strength. Emotional. Fiscal and practical. These tenets are not only realistically beneficial, but empower men at an individual level. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:46 AM |
| 0 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?weak from the start Agreed. It doesn’t even specify how attractive the wives are. Land whales? ”All hands to battle stations!” Hotties? ”What’s for dinner hun?” It’s not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:28 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So I was just in the chemist, and the young assistant says to me; ”you talk like a fictional character..” Then follows it up with ”that’s a good thing..” Just because I was sharing a bit of fun, flirty banter with the chemist. I’m proud of her that she spoke her mind, but man maybe a little less fictional characters, and interacting with real life ones might be a little more beneficial for her. She seemed like a good kid though, so I hope she works it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy suckscut off and ignore the full comment and context. My friend, the pivotal flaw in your point of view is that *no amount of context can change the objective reality.** For instance objectively when I drop my kids off to school, I have no direct responsibility over their potential outcomes. So my kid can say dad beats me, Children services whips them off. Objectively, how much responsibility do I have over this outcome? The exact same premise is applicable for your dog. If your dog is mortally wound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy suckswe are talking in circles Sorry, that image didn’t load so I’ll take your word for it. That said, the baseline of my argument is based on an objective point you agree with; that at the point of seminal discharge, responsibility is relinquished. For instance once you have relinquished responsibility for your dog, regardless if it’s to a dog groomer or puppy farmer you have no direct responsibility for what happens beyond that point. This is objective reality. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksFirst, don’t be sorry. I am thoroughly entertained. So I am grateful to you. cut off your point Objectively, there are only two outcomes; both parties enter into an ‘agreement’, and both parties honour it. For instance you drop off your dog to the groomer, relinquishing your responsibility only with an ‘agreement’ in place. Again, objectively if there was no prior agreement, you would not relinquish the responsibility of your dog. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksI have relinquished responsibility Finally. This is the point. If an individual has relinquished responsibility, that is where the inequality occurs. For instance your dog groomer kills your dog. Accidentally or otherwise. You, have no responsibility over that outcome. You dropped your dog off in good faith. Which is the entire point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksthis logical leap Objectively, if no child exists at the point of seminal fluid discharge; no responsibility exits at the same point. Logically that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksNo. So then a man is free at this point? No child at discharge of seminal fluid equals no responsibility. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksActually you’ve raised a good of point about the definition of bodily. If we incorporated it in alongside your other point; during the creation and deposit of seminal fluid. At this point, a child exists? Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 02:11 AM |
| 1 | We need more anti SIMP musicWhilst like Louie Theroux I don’t mind a bit of drill, I can appreciate the numerous genres of widely diverse music. Additionally, music is not just about the artist’s intentions. Key for every individual is how a song is interpreted, and what meaning they derive. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 02:03 AM |
| – | Bisexual Men should hold themselves to higher standards and reject homophobic straight womenhomophobic Genuine question; how is it homophobic? Objectively; if one is turned off at the thought of a man having sex with another man, is that not a reasonable metric? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksdictionary source autonomy noun the quality or state of being autonomous: the quality or state of being independent, free, and self-directing Your ‘bodily’ autonomy cannot exist without this part of the definition. So objectively, it is within the scope of your definition to focus on the independent, free and *self directing aspects of autonomy? Furthermore, focus on where equality maybe better applied. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksobjective definition The primary reason it is objective is because it is as broad as possible. Which when defining anything is beneficial. Now you as you have attempted can limit how you use definitions, but that is your choice. Which again, when they exist I agree with this. Until that point then a man then is free? Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy suckswhen they exist I agree with this. Until that point a man then is free? Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:50 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFleave your comments on I do not how to turn them off hehe! we never made that claim Okay. So, to you, it is okay for a bisexual woman to be turned off at the thought of a man having sex with another man? Objectively, you accept this premise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFeven if there’s preference of this bi woman to not date bi men obviously not being the same one This is the point. Does the bi woman have to find the act of a man having sex with another man attractive? This, to you, is reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksI disagree with that definition Okay. If you disagree with the objective the definition and want to make your own definition up to rationalise your own point of view? That’s fine. I’ll indulge it because it’s entertaining. a man paying for his own children is not a violation of his actual body. Okay. Let’s say I agree. A man paying for his own children is not a violation of his actual body. At what point exactly is the man responsible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy suckschange definitions This is the definition; Bodily autonomy is the fundamental human right to make decisions about one’s own body, life, and future without coercion, violence, or external control Agreed? So if in one’s future, no prexisting agreement supersedes this bodily autonomy? Both parties, ARE EQUALLY FREE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:41 PM |
| 1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFtwist my argument Okay. Let’s see if can agree on objective reality. Okay? A bi man is a man who is attracted to both men, and women. Correct? A bi woman is a woman who is attracted to both men and women. Now, I’ll come some of the way to meeting you by stating that these are similar. no issue there. That said, objectively are they the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksseperate the word That’s fine. Either is objectively applicable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:19 PM |
| 2 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFIt would be hypocritical This is a good point. So in your view, a woman being attracted to both men and women, is exactly the same as a man being attracted to both men and women? This, presumably is the cause of your hypocrisy? This, to you, is objective reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksnot contracts that override bodily autonomy. This is a good point. If so, either party can exercise their own autonomy in whatever way they deem fit. That objectively, would be equality of rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:17 PM |
| 3 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFSo presumably if the reason is that a bisexual woman does not find a bisexual man unattractive because they are bisexual, that would be okay too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:24 AM |
| 10 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from them”they should be I agree. Expectations on a partner who is struggling makes it hard. For instance my wife and I struggled to rekindle our sex life postpartum twice. The first time was rough. She even said if I wanted I could find ‘it’ elsewhere. I told her we’d just have to be patient with each other, and we’d get through it. It was testing. Yet because we were both on board with open and honest communication, we managed to workshop our way through it. The second time was not as testing, but stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:21 AM |
| 3 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFThis is you Oddly enough it is. I am black, but I was sent to a private school in The West. So my preference for what I am primarily attracted to are white women. I do not discriminate against black women. I do not fear dating them. I just am more attracted to white women. Does this make me racist? If so, how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:11 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFSo you disagree with the OP too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:46 AM |
| 17 | It's cruel to deprive your spouse of sex and also expect monogamy from theminterest in sex is generally about physiological and psychological issues. I agree with this. The healthiest remedy being open, honest and proactive communication. It is only cruel when one party is denying the other the opportunity to work through the issue together and hopefully come out the other side stronger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:43 AM |
| 2 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFshares your sexuality has no other explanation other than biphobia. This is the crux of the OP. If a woman is seeing a man, and she knows he has had relations with other men and turned off by this revelation? To you and OP, equate that to a fear of bisexuals? Exactly if a fat person does not want to date another fattie? That, would be fatphobia? This, to you, is reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksheld liable This is a good point. Say two individuals enter into an agreement. One party after the fact makes a decision contrary to that previously made agreement. Should they be held liable for that decision? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksMy friend, surely you would agree that objectively if a man is raped his autonomy has been removed. The exact same premise applies to a man who enters into relations with a woman under the pretext children are not going to be an outcome. As no relations would have occurred otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksMen can already choose The pivot point though is conception. For instance two adults consent to sex, but agree that if conception occurs proceeding to childbirth is not going to happen. They take all possible precaution. If conception occurs, objectively what recourse should the man then have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksevery man would by default not to be a legally recognized father Okay. Let’s say I agree. That a default paper abortion is directly inconsistent with a ‘biological proclivity’ for filial connection. How important do you think is it, to men, to choose how and when they decide to procreate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksMy friend, it is laid out pretty simply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksNo. First, thank you. For directly replying. To answer just as directly; if filial connection is fundamental then how is forcing one party to participate fiscally or otherwise benefit the child? Objectively, does the amount of money child support fulfil the need for filial connection and a healthy sense of belonging? If so, how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksDisagreement Okay. So you disagree that filial connection and a healthy sense of belonging is inherent to the human condition. Just for clarity; this is your position? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksanother, more frequently presented opinion of yours. Okay. Got it. For you to best understand the logical progression, you would have to join me in how I view the world. Do you possess the ability to see the world as those with opposing views do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksMy friend, the entire premise of my initial point is that filial connection and a healthy sense of belonging is inherent to the human condition. Objectively. If you can refute this; please lay out your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksframing something as “a huge aspect of my biological and psychological makup” Okay. Let’s simplify the point and attack the issue from a place of common ground. How fundamental do you think filial connection and a healthy sense of belonging is to the human condition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksadditional roadblocks I fail to see how equality of choice is a roadblock. Furthermore, ‘the paper abortions’ I presume you allude to as a roadblock I think would empower both parties with concrete, default information. An objectively better position to be in rather than not having concrete, default position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksMy friend, the premise is simple; not all males but the vast majority of them possess from birth an inherent desire of filial connection. Through the process of maturation, this desire again for the vast majority of men evolves too. This is objective reality is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksnot invoking biology Apologies, I made an edit. If that helps clarify my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy sucksyou lose me Okay. Let’s pull it apart further; objectively, are all physical males born the same? I posit that whilst all physical males are nearly universally similar, they are objectively not the same. Hence, no existing monolith. Is this illogical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 02:34 AM |
| – | Monogamy sucksbiological ties Happy to point out the reasoning for your critique. First, just because an aspect is a huge part of an individual’s makeup, does not make it universally applicable to all individuals. Objectivity demanding we acknowledge and incorporate this fact. Hence no existing monolith. That established, the vast majority of males do subscribe to societal norms and have done since we as a species worked out fairly early on that we are stronger together, than we are apart. Hence the importanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 01:24 AM |
| – | Monogamy sucksa huge aspect My friend, is not all aspects. A slight, yet very key distinction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 01:00 AM |
| – | Monogamy sucksThat really doesn’t make sense. Agreed. It only makes sense when you understand and accept that men are not a monolith. Nor are they a static concept. For instance a man can be a womanising dead beat dad one day. Then ‘find Jesus’ the next and spend the rest of his days trying to make amends. Or the opposite. Walk away from 20 years of a wholesome marriage and family, and start swinging in sex dungeons. Monogamy as a practice is not for everyone, all the time. It’s beneficial to understand, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 12:55 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFHilarious! It’s almost as those that agree with the OP do not understand that sexuality can be and often is a preference, at least in context to attraction. Crudely put, just because a woman finds other women attractive, does not mean they have to find men who like penises attractive. It’s not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFwe’re done My friend, I apologise if you think I am not debating in good faith. I directly equate sexual preference with sexuality. So objectively if another person is attracted to someone with a certain sexual preference, I respect that fact regardless of reason. Solely because regardless of my or even society’s morals, they are free to rationalise their attraction however they deem fit. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 12:40 AM |
| 0 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFcause such a reaction My friend, my goal is only to break down the OP objective reality. For instance you have already conceded that one is free to leave a relationship for whatever reason. Subjective or objective. Which is the crux of my viewpoint. For instance as a black man in a predominantly white community, I would not hold it against any potential partner regardless of their colour, if they were not attracted to someone with mine. Even if they had never even seen me, and all they had to go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 12:08 AM |
| -1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFMy friend, does the OP make sense to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:58 PM |
| 0 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFsubjective in nature. Agreed. So if an individual is subjectively attracted to an immutable trait, that is okay? For instance two people connect online in a game. Grow feelings for each other. FaceTime. The lot. Meet in real life for the first time. There is no subjective attraction. Objectively, is this revelation insufficient reason to end the relationship? If not, why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:56 PM |
| 0 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFdefend what they wrote? They wrote; it’s dumb and makes no sense To which I questioned; if the OP uses say, fat people as a direct example and the comment agrees with it, then surely the same applies to fit people. Agreed? The goal being to ‘make sense’ of both the OP, and the comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:49 PM |
| 2 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFthe most objective way possible Preference. For instance if one is attracted to potential partners with an immutable trait, it is well within one’s rights pursue only those that possess that trait. Sexuality. Height. Skin colour etc.. Regardless if one does or does not possess this trait. Objectively, is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:44 PM |
| 0 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFthey completely possess the right. Agreed. Objectively then what bearing does the reason have on one’s ability to exercise this right? For instance say it is not a preference but discrimination, or any of the rationales you’ve listed above. Should this fact impact one’s right to choose to leave a relationship? For whatever reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:28 PM |
| 3 | If women want to be hit on less, they should care about good deliberate dating outlets existing.women would like masses of men attempting this This is a good point. So in your opinion most women do not or would not appreciate fun banter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:22 PM |
| -1 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFyou would literally never know. This is a good point. Let’s say I agree, that the information about one’s sexual history is inconsequential. For instance, two bi people date. Get married. Have kids. Retire. The information comes out. Is one not entitled to their feelings about this revelation? Furthermore, do they not possess the right to choose to end the relationship over this fact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:17 PM |
| 0 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFBisexuality and physical fitness aren’t connected Yet in the OP fatness is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:09 PM |
| – | Monogamy suckssquare this belief Easily. All independent individuals are free to choose how they fulfil their need for belonging. For instance a man can choose to be a present and active father. Conversely his identical twin brother can be a dead beat dad, and leave a slew of baby momma’s in his wake. Both these outcomes objectively, are not an indictment on the practice of monogamy. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:07 PM |
| 2 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsgot into sex work instead of getting a degree in sex therapy (takes way too long and I don’t have that kind of time to heal people). First, I just want to acknowledge and say thank you for the work you do. As a ‘centre aligned’ conservative I can see and appreciate the value you and others in your profession contribute to society. That said the key difference is exactly what you said; a degree. Objectively, if sex workers in totality were required to hold a tertiary level of education to fill th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:02 PM |
| 6 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsSex work is a form of social work. My wife as a former psychologist has a ton of experience in nonprofits working with social workers. I will ask her, but I would not think the social workers in her networks would consider the work they do as comparable to that of sex work. That said there are family and relationship counsellors, sex therapists and other healthcare professionals that have a ton of qualifications. Those professionals however are subject to ethics and the upholding of professional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:36 PM |
| 0 | If women want to be hit on less, they should care about good deliberate dating outlets existing.good deliberate dating outlets The key retort to the OP is shifting the responsibility of dating not just to women’s active participation, but to dating ‘outlets’ in general. For instance prior to TRP I did okay with girls. At bars. Community events. A ton through mutual networks(mostly family). Just randomly meeting(how I met my ex wife). Post TRP? I now view the entire world is one massive ‘dating outlet’. So I just started flirting with everyone. Everywhere. Almost all of it was just a bit of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:22 PM |
| – | Monogamy sucksMonogamy sucks because too many people act like dramatic insecure teenagers. This is a criticism of an individual’s choices, not monogamy. All your examples are of the actions of individuals, not the practice of monogamy. Conversely, the primary benefit and arguably timeless advantage of monogamy and more specifically the institution of marriage is the concentration of wealth, resources and most importantly filial identity. For instance humans are herd animals. Belonging is a huge aspect of our … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:08 PM |
| – | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.simply opted out fully Let’s take this premise to its natural conclusion; when would men then re-enter The SMP? Presumably it would be advantageous to get back into the market again before one’s competition. Additionally, the ‘non-invisible’ men would not have left in the first place. So for the invisible men re-enter The SMP there would be a level of competition already established too. Which leads to the question; when would it be optimal for invisible men to rejoin the dating marketplace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:55 PM |
| 5 | If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AFmakes no sense no different from a fat person turning down a fat person So as a decently fit person that means I can only date other fit people? How does that make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:51 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵son or daughter I have both. Would love more of each. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 08:49 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A TOP COMMENT NOR. Withholding important info in order to get sex is a type of sexual assault/rape I believe. If you wouldn't have consented given the truth, it may fall under the label of rape by deception. It's unlikely that she didn't know what she was doing when lying about it. I do think this is a massive red flag that would be worthy of a breakup but whether it's feasible, safe, convenient at the time etc to break up with someone will very much depend on your specific situation, though giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:06 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A OVERREACTION SUB AIO for wanting to break up with my GF? Hi all. My girlfriend, 18F, and I, 20M, have been together for about 3 weeks now. Over time, we’ve gotten more physical with each other, and have held hands, kissed, and very recently, been intimate with each other. Now this would be fine, but she lied to me about something very important. The first time we had sex, I wasn’t expecting to as we were just driving around in my car, and so I didn’t bring condoms, so I said we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:04 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵barbarian king Is not the current message du jour though no Kings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Would you be a Single FatherI am one I was not a full time single father, but I did have 50-50 custody. After my first divorce, I spent a significant sum chasing 50-50 custody. The process took me roughly 2 years. My eldest is now 17. We’re working on assignments, presentations and getting ready for her next steps into a good university. I just want to acknowledge the work you’re putting in. Your little ones do appreciate it. Best wishes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 10:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.cherry pick The premise of your point is that something negative impacts an individual. e.g. cancer. My retort addresses your point directly. Using your own analogy. Which is not cherry picking. Unaware is Not the same as being unaffected. This is a good point. Let’s say I agree, being unaware is not the same as being unaffected. For instance an individual lives their entire life without ever being aware that they have a nail in their head. Passes peacefully in their sleep. How has the nail nega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.pressure accumulation This is a great analogy. For instance objectively at what point does the pressure come to bear on the innocent party? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 08:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.not knowing about your cancer is bliss, then yes. This is a good analogy. For instance say an individual has cancer but is both unaware and unaffected by it. Right up into they pass away, peacefully in their sleep. Objectively, how has the cancer affected their worldview for the entirety of their life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 08:32 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.infertility Infertility caused by STD’s would fall under becoming aware of the infidelity. At which point one’s decision making would be better informed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.excuse abuse This is a good analogy. One that is closest to the OP. For instance say one’s partner is abusive. Yet one is unaware that it is abuse. Objectively a negative scenario. How does ignorance of the negativity impact their perception of the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.why does objectivity even matter here It is the fundamental premise upon which a functioning worldview operates. Universally. They’re not “unharmed”, they’re uniformed. This is a good point. Let’s say I agree, that being unaware is harmful. Say something negative is happening, but an individual is unaware because they are unaffected. How does that negativity impact them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 08:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.you’d be dying with a shaky conscience. This is a good point. Yet, objectively, the innocent party would remain both unaware, and ultimately unharmed. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:38 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.raising another man’s child This is a good point. If a man is unaware of the real paternity of his child, does this fact change his perception or relationship with said child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.telling him isn’t going to make his life any better. This is a good point. Let’s say I agree, that with 3 months left to live revealing the truth is not going to make one’s life better. This would mean that the opportunity to learn the truth, process the betrayal, forgive it and let it go would not be beneficial. Even with only 3 months to go. This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.”Objectively” is not a cop out phrase here. Okay. Let’s simplify the point of OP further, to negate the influence of morality. For instance say an individual is unaware of something negative their partner is partaking in. Can be as small or as large a negative as you deem necessary. Whatever negative the partner is involved in, the individual is unaware of it. Objectively, how is the individual negatively affected? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:27 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.areas in America That’s not good. Terrible times to be stateside. STIs can be fatal Presumably at that point an individual would be aware of the infidelity. Thus would be able to make better informed decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.I just know it’s a possible reality my partner is cheating on me now. I deliberately choose to trust my partners This is my point of view as well. For instance if my partner cheats and I do not know? How am I affected? The only way I am affected is when I become aware of the cheating. Upon which my decision making will be better informed. Until then however? The trust remains intact. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.she found out. divorce happened So, objectively her finding was beneficial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:02 PM |
| -2 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.Yeah not the best at it. If something did pop up as long as it wasn’t too serious? It would not be a big issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:01 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.Bill and Miranda Sorry, I’m out of the loop? Did she pass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.Agreed. It’s the most efficient way to approach a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:52 PM |
| -3 | CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if they find out, this revelation is beneficial. Change this view.exposed to STDs This is a good point. Let’s say I agree, that they are unaware of potential STD’s. Objectively, does this fact change their perception of the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:51 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How reasonable is cycling as an alternative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵it devalues their experience vs their entire existence This is a good point. Let’s define ‘their entire existence’. For instance from dating to marriage. Kids. Retirement and beyond. Right up until the end. One has amassed this entire history blissfully unaware. Does the fact they are ignorant change their worldview? Or how they view their entire history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:51 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵two different outcomes Only in context to being better informed. Which directly informs my preference to knowing or not knowing. a. If I know? The outcome is still the same as it was always going to be. b. If I do not know? The trust remains intact, and the outcome again is still the same as it was always going to be. For the entirety of the relationship. So my preference for knowing or not knowing becomes irrelevant. To the fact I’ve already accounted for and accepted that regardless of variabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:33 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If your wife cheats on you, would you prefer to know or be ignorant Objectively it makes no difference because for me, the outcome is the same. For instance my wife holidays frequently. Mostly to her best friend’s farm to ride horses, and to see family. Ample opportunity. If she cheats? I would have no idea, and the trust remains intact. Quite a blissful state. If I found out? The relationship ends, because I’m better informed. There is very little downside. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:28 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Okay. Let’s lay out the logic and you pick it apart. For instance your point is that if one’s partner chooses to cheat, the ignorance that one lives in from this fact is not really ‘bliss’. Following this logic if one lives their entire life in this false ‘bliss’? That fact would devalue their entire existence. From dating to marriage. To kids. To retirement and beyond. Their entire worldview. Right up until the end. This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:18 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵if they are immediately aware or not. This is a good point. If an individual lives their entire existence unaware, does this fact then devalue their entire existence? This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:04 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ignorance is only bliss if you choose it yourself. This is a good point. If an individual lives their entire existence unaware, does that mean that fact then devalue their entire existence? This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:00 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No one should have their ignorance chosen for them This is a good point. If an individual lives their entire existence unaware, does that mean that fact then devalue their entire existence? This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:59 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵you can’t prove objectivity This is a good point. Let’s say I agree, that objectivity cannot be proven. What is the next best rationale? Let’s say reasonability. For instance if an individual is unaware of something negative, does it impact them negatively? Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:56 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CMV: Objectively if one does not know their partner is cheating, ignorance is bliss. Conversely if one finds out their partner is cheating, this information is beneficial. Towards making better informed decisions moving forward. Change this view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 10:36 PM |
| -2 | The Preeminence of Place in Pursuing a Partneryou’ve “done the work” This is the key. If an individual has done the work, objectively their outcomes will reflect this. If the outcomes do not reflect the output? The work ‘done’ is insufficient. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just replaced my first ever MacBook Pro screen yesterday. The world we have created is a fascinating place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 09:21 PM |
| 2 | If you as a Women have delusional Requirements for a Dating Partner, and you can achieve them, its not your Fault, its the systems Fault. Those Women cant be criticized. The Market decides. Those Women do nothing wrong.marrying a 4 with 4 baby daddys If a woman has 4 babies to 4 different men, objectively the responsibility of this outcome is not on the 5th man. Hell, if she goes 5/5 from the field it’s not the responsibility of the 6th husband either. Objectively if a 7th man marries her, he’s not responsible for the numerous poor decisions that preceded him. If anything, he’s doing the lord’s work. It that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think women are hypergamous?the egg is pickier The odds are purportedly millions to one. Insane odds for one human being to start their life, as opposed to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicI’m happy for you guys I second this. I’m a little biased but I love seeing not just young guys but both guy and girls getting in the gym. Dressing well. For instance I have a 17 year old that plays rugby. The community around her is focused on playing well. On nutrition. Weight training. Hydration. Sleep. Time management. Healthy and wholesome interactions between sexes. There’s just so much benefit and positivity to derive from a community like that. Self improvement en masse is the rising tid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Quattro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 08:31 PM |
| 7 | Egalitarian relationships are inherently skewed in favour of womenthey only really work when both people can walk easily Why should a lack of options force anyone to stay in a relationship? For instance is Desperation the primary factor keeping your cousin’s partner in the relationship? Objectively, both parties have agency. As soon as another factor supersedes her desperation, what is going to motivate your cousin’s partner to stay? Conversely a far more beneficial mindset is to acknowledge and accept all relationships end. Regardless of reason. Which not onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive.in no way unique or particular to feminism. Agreed. The OP falls into the same trap it is attempting to critique. For instance just because some feminists cherry pick stats to support their arguments, neither confirms nor negates their validity. The most beneficial response when faced with cherry picking is to apply objectivity. Then focus on the merit of the argument. Not who is making it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 09:00 PM |
| 10 | Men here misinterpret "personality matter" and overlook social skills.Most men understand attraction is the primary factor, that precedes both social skill and personality. Additionally, most men understand and accept that personality is often irrelevant to both attractiveness and social skill. For instance almost all women have a story about a ‘bad’ guy. Often, numerous examples. Hence the ‘nice’ guys finishing last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 08:53 PM |
| 2 | If your bf/husband died how would you react? How would it impact your life and how long would you wait before moving on?I don’t eve want to think about it. Genuine question; if your partner lost you in a tragic, unforeseen way; how would you want them to continue on living? In grief? Sadness? Misery and loneliness? Or cherish your memory, but move on? Why is there always an overwhelming focus on just one aspect of death, but little thought to living? Even boldly claiming one doesn’t even want to think about it, as though there is only one way to cherish and honour the dead? I have never understood this way of thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 08:45 PM |
| 1 | If your bf/husband died how would you react? How would it impact your life and how long would you wait before moving on?triggered This is the key. If an individual is self aware enough? Then has healthy strategies in place? They can first sufficiently acknowledge their emotions and accept them. Finally, better process them both effectively and efficiently. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?unfalsifiable Okay. Let’s say I agree. How do we perceive sensory experience? Do we have the ability to perceive it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?So there is no consciousness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?there is consciousness Okay. Let’s clarify then; can we prove consciousness? Awareness. Sentience etc.. If so how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:53 AM |
| – | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?This is a good point. So experience is separate to consciousness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:45 AM |
| – | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?unfalsifiable This is a good point. Say I agree. We cannot prove consciousness. This would mean that we cannot prove that we have emerged from physical structures. As everything pivots on an unprovable premise. This more reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:40 AM |
| – | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?Yes. Okay. Let’s lay out the logic and you point out the flaw. Does stuff/life have sentience? Awareness? Consciousness? I am of the camp that yes, we are a living, sentient, consciously aware amalgamation of stuff/atoms/molecules/chemicals. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:21 AM |
| – | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?made of stuff Of course. This ‘stuff’ has however evolved to attain sentience. Which responds to stimuli. This fact is observed from the most simple of organisms(stuff), to the most complex. Or do you disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:12 AM |
| – | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?your actions are determined by your neurochemistry This is a good point. Say I agree, that every outcome is a direct result of biology. This would mean identical twins have no ‘free will’ to determine their own outcomes independent of, and from each other. This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:10 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵what circumstances As many as reasonably applicable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:25 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Love you too bud! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Nightclubs are never coming backketo Or ket? Cause I love me some keto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:18 PM |
| – | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?don’t believe free will exists How so? I’ve read a little about Sapolsky, but really do not understand enough to form an informed opinion. Conversely, in my anecdotal experience, almost all my outcomes have come by conscious decision. So cannot relate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:11 PM |
| – | The only real way to fix the dating market is to globalize itis the issue mostly individual (self-improvement) An individual is not entitled to anything. For instance say a government subsidises travel, access and ‘globalises’ The SMP. An individual still fails to secure a partner. What is the next step? Objectively, an individual is responsible for their own outcomes. It is far more beneficial to take personal responsibility for one’s outcomes, then relying on external sources of aid. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 09:12 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wishing you the best my guy. Hope you can ease your anxiety, and get a good night’s rest tonight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How far If it was implanted into another biological human. I’d consider it, but even then I’d be reticent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?shits expensive This, ultimately is key. Objectively one’s resources determines one’s outcomes. For instance it was a pivotal factor driving me after college, and when I was re-partnering. So if we were divorce tomorrow? We’d both be fine. Being aligned financially is one of the biggest vetting decisions an individual can make. Especially long term. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 07:26 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Good luck with the search! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 07:04 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wishing you a speedy recovery my guy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 07:04 AM |
| 0 | Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women?they are small spaces The key though is understanding how the sexes are socially divided from an individual level, right up to a global level. For instance globally any elite arm of a defence force is exclusively male. Presumably because the physical requirements are so extreme. Is it pragmatic to sacrifice that extremism for equality? Conversely, at an individual level should society eliminate gendered bathrooms? So a bunch of my very big rugby bros and I can use one bathroom, right alongside o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women?you can’t separate women from men If that was the case, women only spaces would not exist. Objectively, through out history there has always been a clear delineation between the sexes. Even right up to today. For instance change rooms. Sports. The military. The aforementioned women only spaces. Divisive between the sexes. Which is fine. It is pragmatic to align social systems and structures to objective reality. What the digital age has contributed to is an over representation of the extremes. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 11:07 PM |
| -1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What’s the point Personally? There is no equivalent to first creating life, then nurturing that life to maturity. I’m biased because I have a 17 year old soon turning 18. She works. Plays rugby. Trains a 3 day split. Isn’t a straight A student, but got a B+ on a recent assignment to which my reply was being proud. Nothing is equal to parenthood in my experience. Additionally, if one plans well it’s not that hard to setup a solid work-life balance(or no work at all hehe!). I worked very hard duri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 11:56 AM |
| 2 | What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro?Not living in the 5th world is really nice, actually. As someone who frequently travels between a modern democracy and developing nations, I agree with this. I also think that it is incumbent on every individual to expand their worldview as broadly as possible, to encompass what is happening in the world. refuse to condemn these attacks Objectively, acknowledging it is ‘not all men’ is not the same as refusing to condemn the heinous acts happening in Nigeria. Additionally, there are at least som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 11:30 AM |
| 9 | The courting process never ends for men.if a guy falls off in habits Life, not just relationships takes work. A habit will only ‘fall off’ if it is not ingrained. For instance one’s eating habits. Work habits. Training habits. I wake up almost automatically at 5am, and am straight into my home gym for a workout daily. A habit for roughly 15 years. Objectively, healthy relationships are subject to the same process. For instance Trust. Communication. Values, expectations and goals. Traditions. Daily routines and rituals that reaffirm lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 11:14 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵At 5’10 I wouldn’t know. I do know however that I push the scales at around 230lbs. A little dad bod ‘ish’, sure. Yet mostly muscle. So there’s that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:27 AM |
| -1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A TRUE OFF MY CHEST SUB I now know what it’s like to be a hot girl (I’m a guy). Out of the blue in November, I just decided based on absolutely nothing to be an adult streamer. Since then I’ve come to realize that to someone who is into a guy with a certain build and look, I’m quite popular. I don’t have tons of fans, but the ones I have are die hard. And as such, I have hundreds of guys constantly hitting me up (I’m straight) and tens of girls, and I’ve got to tell ya, you always… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:17 PM |
| 3 | What is your take on Louis Theroux's new documentary "Inside the Manosphere"?Male status is getting truly FUCKED up I have not watched the documentary, but status is contextual. For instance one’s status in context to society objectively? Is the same as it has been since the dawn of time; one is either capable of attaining what they want, or they are not. It is literally that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:09 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵far harder Yet in context to physique, very simple. Time and consistent discipline the only necessities. Additionally, in context to grooming for young guys there’s a wealth of information readily accessible. Again, simple and straightforward to apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Politics absolutely do matter with who you’re dating. Not so much the content of it, but rather, alignment between yourself and your partner(s)inextricable concepts This is a good point. Let’s say I agree. Values cannot be separated from politics. For instance say one values freedom of choice, and the equality of opportunity. Regardless of policy, these values dictate one votes for ‘their’ party over another. Even if another party or candidate runs on a platform that better aligns with these values. This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Politics absolutely do matter with who you’re dating. Not so much the content of it, but rather, alignment between yourself and your partner(s)your partner aligning with you enough Is not a matter of politics, but values. Objectively, framing values through politics is only one facet of a person’s worldview. For instance one could frame their values through religion. Or through their level of education. Their values formed and framed through their family dynamic, or relationship history. In context to dating, Politics as a way to frame values if not irrelevant, at the very least is a secondary consideration. To the values themselves. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:53 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It carries the same energy I disagree. Unless inherited it takes a ton of work to own one property, let alone several. Getting dick in this day and age? She wouldn’t even need to leave the wedding venue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵response to serious suspicion of breaking trust Yep. My litmus test is simple; Doubt. I have never had reason to doubt in my current relationship, but if I did I’d just ask. If I still had doubts, and heaven and earth was not moved to assuage that doubt? I would just leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:10 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Too funny! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 3 | There's no fundamental difference between red pill influencers and porn stars like Bonnie Bluethey’re not Agreed. Grifters regardless of what they’re pushing presumably have an agenda. Most likely money. The main TRP sub and The Manosphere in general however is free. So if a young guy wastes their hard earned on either Grifters or Bonnie Blue? That’s a lesson they’ll hopefully learn from. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys.not following your lead or not being able to reach a compromise The primary retort is that if one’s partner loves them enough? There is nothing they will not do for them. They will sacrifice anything and everything. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 12:26 PM |
| 1 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.a pointless distinction The key distinction in context to force as mentioned above is in national defence. Again, not a field exclusively for men, but one overwhelmingly dominated by them. For instance a smaller society was once a part of a bigger neighbour. The neighbour begins marshalling forces along the border. Invades. What are the only two choices that smaller society has? Surrender. Or fight. Now, this is fine if a society has sufficient fighters. What happens if a society runs out of fig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:59 AM |
| 2 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.the political and elite class Whilst I agree, this perspective is too narrow. If scaling out perspective as objectively as possible, the entire premise of civility pivots on the mobility of force. If a society or country cannot or chooses not to protect its ‘elites’? For instance Khamenei or Maduro? What happens? Conversely if an ‘elite’ can mobilise enough voters to vote in force? In a progressive democracy there’s very little the minority can do, other than to mobilise en masse in reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:37 AM |
| 2 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.how this relates Objectively, we are a sexually dimorphic species. Granted between the sexes we are more similar than we are different. Yet those differences manifest in widely observable patterns. That transcend both time, and location. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:15 AM |
| 2 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.literally have no power as a class of people. Regardless of reason the defence of any society has been, and currently still is a field dominated by men. Additionally, it is reported that even in some of the most egalitarian of societies in Scandinavia women overwhelmingly still choose not to pursue certain STEM careers. Again, in fields dominated by men. Yes, objectively these facets of society are not exclusive to the male ‘class’. They do however indicate a widely observable pattern, across bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 07:58 AM |
| 2 | There's no fundamental difference between red pill influencers and porn stars like Bonnie Bluemaking money Someone is. I have not watched the documentary but I would imagine Myron, Tate and whoever else is labeled as ‘redpilled’ are assuming the labelling for a reason like money. Or maybe they enjoy the infamy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 06:33 AM |
| 12 | There's no fundamental difference between red pill influencers and porn stars like Bonnie BlueIf someone is willing to do or say anything tone famous and make money, what difference is it The key difference between pornstars and TRP grifters is the product. Objectively sex sells. Pornstars sell it directly as content. Grifters sell it as a potential outcome. TRP as a sub or The Manosphere as an ideology in general? Gives it away. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"it’s okay to end a relationship if a man wants something a woman doesn’t and not having that thing is a true dealbreaker This is a good point. This would then mean the act and the reason is irrelevant because the sole factor is whether a man wants something a woman doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"She’s tried it before and it hurt a lot and she never wants to do it again. This is a good point. Let’s say I agree. The pain of an act is too great to ever contemplate undertaking that act again. A mother refuses to have a child with her new or current partner, not because she did not want more kids but because she had terribly painful births would be a reasonable dealbreaker. If so, objectively refusing to share an experience or partake in an act regardless a woman’s history of performing that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Too true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Agreed. Which is why I stated: persevering until these feelings are fulfilled. It is the first option, and personally the only one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:58 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You got it my guy! One thing at a time, the first thing is being kinder to yourself. You got this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:48 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Haha! I have never thought of that! Too funny! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵speedos I love Budgie Smugglers. Matter of fact with summer coming I’m going to buy another pair. They’re the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:45 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵As someone married to an individual of Irish descent, sunscreen is a necessity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:43 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.accept being a worthless loser An individual accepting their current circumstances does not make them a loser. It is not only pragmatic, it is objectively the first step to addressing the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.she has the same two choices Agreed. Which is the most efficient system of emotional regulation. Acknowledging and accepting that which cannot be changed, then persevering with things that can be changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Islam/Qur'an respects women myth debunked.Remaining all of the good verses you will see are oral copied from Bible and Torah As a Christian I simplify my interpretation of faith right down to one tenet; Love thy neighbour. For me, this tenet supersedes any other interpretation, and guides my decision making regarding of who I am interacting with. It presumably too is the bedrock of the other branches of the Abrahamic faiths, and when underpinning one’s worldview focuses on unity. On what brings us together. As opposed to what drives us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:26 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.an internal feeling Agreed. Which objectively can only be healthily processed two ways; through persevering until these feelings are fulfilled, or acceptance they remain currently unfulfilled. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | There's absolutely no point in marriage, for both genders.if you want kids, marriage makes name change easier I agree with this. Marriage is key to one’s sense of identity. For instance identifying and being identified as belonging to a certain family has been and is a powerful social tool. As a somewhat ‘nepo baby’ I know that I wouldn’t enjoy my current lifestyle, if my cousin did not hire me to his firm straight out of college. Sharing a surname and subsequent lineage is hugely advantageous. In almost all cases of success, relationships are a pivota… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"It’s literally none of his business what sex she has done before. Whilst I disagree, this is a good point because it takes history out of the equation. For instance say one desires a certain act. Their partner is well within their rights to refuse it. For whatever reason. From this refusal alone, one can decide how prioritised their desires are in a relationship. Then based solely on this refusal, decide if it is a dealbreaker. Is this unreasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Patriarchy is like footbinding in that it is an ugly deformity; it is like an accent in that it is hard to see your own.convinces its carriers that these arrangements are natural rather than inherited. Human beings have never lived in a Patriarchy. Since the dawn of time, all living organisms have been and are still subject to The Meritocracy of Life. For instance it can be beneficial to compare niche practices such as footbinding to social dynamics. Objectively however all social structures are subject to that society’s ability to enforce it’s way of life. If a society wants to outlaw a practice, be it footbindi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.Anytime my guy. Godspeed and good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:02 PM |
| – | Men who were abused as children are treated like broken goodsnevet been abused and I mean actually based on a daily basis Objectively there are only two methods to process Trauma; effectively or ineffectively. For instance my siblings and I were beaten regularly. My siblings still have issues around it. Conversely I have forgiven my parents. I understand their views, accept them and more importantly look upon our current relationship including history with love and gratitude. If an individual has effectively processed their Trauma, it is no longer an issu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.Solutions Stick with Objectivity, then learn to temper it with social skills and emotional intuition. That is far more beneficial than to sacrifice objectivity to accommodate emotion. Primarily because change, but Objectivity is constant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 10:07 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> What a wild take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 10:22 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nookie Cookie! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.We are absolutely free to say that they experienced abuse. Agreed. You however are the only one assuming that a critique of their choices is negative. When objectively, a victim questioning their own role in their responses is the first step to understanding it. Again, an external party is free to say a victim is experiencing abuse, but nothing happens until the victim sees it that way too. The danger is equal, no matter the intent. Agreed. It is why I stated; Unless necessary a plumber should n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 08:37 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Flying abroad tomorrow for a few nights with the wife for a quick concert. The first she’s already planned is which shops she wants to hit after we check in. Going to be a nice little holiday for us before the Easter holidays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:12 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sexth! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 10:49 AM |
| 12 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.stop caring as much It is okay to care deeply about others. Potential partners included. It is however detrimental to allow these emotions to overly impact one’s outcomes. A far more beneficial approach is to master Acceptance. Care a little. Care deeply. However do so with as broad a perspective as possible. With as much objectivity as feasible. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.We have no place in that process This is a good point. Unless necessary a plumber should not administer chemo. That is more important; who administers the chemo? Or the chemo being administered? Objectively, a victim’s safety is the first priority. To that end, the very first step is for the victim to question their circumstances. No amount of qualified or unqualified support will help, can a victim be a victim, if the do ninth For instance it is beneficial to have access to Oncologist. If howev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 08:53 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵the first-born Or last. It is fantastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Has manosphere content gotten you laid?Redpill gave me some success Leaving the redpill gave me twenty times more My outcomes were the opposite; did well enough dating pre-TRP. Post TRP dating was much easier. For instance I had all the ingredients. TRP simply was the recipe book I used to cook up a bunch of deliciousness. It was that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 04:23 AM |
| – | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.so they can “learn for next time”. Should a victim not learn for next time? To you, this is reasonable? If not, questioning all actions and decisions especially around when best to leave an abusive situation? Objectively? Is valuable information to learn. Or do you disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 04:05 AM |
| 9 | Most Men Don't Have Preferences. They Have Fearlet’s not pretend your preferences are anything but that, being scared. Whilst I agree fear can be a motivating yet more often limiting factor, objectively preferences are not solely shaped by it. For instance Fear does not solely compel an individual to lift weights, nor prefer the same or even opposite trait in others. Emotional regulation and sexual preferences are two coexisting, yet separate factors. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 01:59 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵understood more That’s positive. There are so many creative geniuses out there. It’s nice to hear that this show has been beneficial for you. Hope you’re doing well my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 01:44 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Bo Jack? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentwhat would he sign on on? Paternity is already tied to income and tax. It wouldn’t be straightforward as an add on. Especially in circumstances such as de-facto relationships and marriages. explained why his rights being surrendered wouldn’t work Your explanation of a ‘one off’ document however is still an inferior system. At least objectively. I do however appreciate the attempt, and acknowledge the good faith with which you have debated your points. So I thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentFirst, I agree it would not take one law, but numerous amendments to existing laws. I simplified it for brevity, but the point remains. there should be a way for the man to stop it no? This is a good point. For instances where both parties are enthusiastic about children, like sex in a long term relationship or marriage? The man simply signs on beforehand. That would cover the only two outcomes; a man wants to be legally or financially responsible, or by default his rights are surrendered. Is th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 01:18 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentone document for one woman should suffice This is a good point. That would then mean one law, covering both parties in all circumstances would better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 12:53 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentthe man is 59% responsible for his child existing. Remember that objectivity I mentioned earlier? A man is not 50% responsible for a child existing. A man is 50% responsible for conception occurring. Remember, objectively(again so useful) we both agreed too; The woman is fully responsible for proceeding to childbirth. Small detail. Yet in context to something as important as children? Details matter. she can decide about it with this in mind. Agreed. What then is more efficient towards this goal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentshe can decide about it with this in mind. Agreed. What then is more efficient towards this goal not just for the woman but for both parties; a single document presented every single time prior to sex? Or, a default legal status? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 12:38 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentWhat was education like We use objectivity. Heavily. The woman is fully responsible for proceeding to give birth. Agreed. Is then having a default legal and financial status recognising this fact for both parties more efficient(and effective)? Or, to you, is the ‘one and done’ system you propose more reasonable? If so, how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentconsidering miscarriages exists, not a lot. This is a good point. Miscarriages aside, post conception what level of bodily autonomy is a woman responsible for when deciding to proceed to childbirth? Zero responsibility? Or 100% responsibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutit’s a direct response Objectively one individual is not responsible for the response of another. At least initially too the more attractive an individual is, the less their financial situation is factor. For either gender. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutYou’re very welcome my friend. Wishing you nothing but the best! Godspeed and good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 11:04 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentbasically telling her that he’s aware she’s taking a risk This is a good point. Objectively, currently is this not the default level of awareness? If not, what percentage of men are unaware of the risk of pregnancy to women? Most? A handful? If so, could the process of ‘paper’ abortions be simplified further? To encompass not just most men, but all men? So a woman regardless of who the man is and whatever he says, she knows exactly what his legal obligation is. Prior to even meeting him. A defau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.Getting jacked is probably not worth the effort This is an interesting point. Say I agree, getting jacked is not worth the effort. Objectively how pivotal is physical strength to quality of life? Unnecessary? Or fundamental? I’m of the view physical strength is fundamental. Thus not only worth pursuing but as Socrates posits worth truly testing to the limit, what one is capable of. Grooming and social skills complimenting this foundation. This reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutmen don’t have the same issue Objectively, an individual’s outcomes reflects their level of decisiveness. This fact is not gendered. It is universal fact. For instance if an individual is doggedly determined? If they do not give up, the only other factor is Time. It is literally that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:35 PM |
| – | Men need to adapt to a world where they may permanently fail romantically. Any method to survive that eventuality is fair gamelife is not about how you long you live but experience of living it. First, love Dr K. That said does life give us meaning? Or do we give meaning to our lives? Objectively, relationships are only one facet of life. Key, sure. Yet one could absolutely become so immersed in other domains that it not only fulfils every other aspect of life; it can complete it. The key is balance. It is beneficial to experience wholesome relationships. It is however far more beneficial to keep this fact in perspecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:26 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentput an unequally large respond on women This is a good point. Post conception, objectively how much of the responsibility do women have for the choice to proceed to childbirth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:17 PM |
| 12 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.but I’m not Objectively your point of view is an exception. genuine attraction The key is simple; get jacked, groom well and hone social skills. These facets will significantly improve most average guys outcomes. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:12 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentMen get a free pass This is a good point. Say I agree. That default legislation gives men a free pass. Would it better if men just had a stack of these “paper abortions” readily available? So when needed he just signs away and off they go. That more reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:04 PM |
| -4 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentI’m up for “paper abortions” if and only if they are agreed on before sex. The simplest solution is to make this stance the default legislation. Then at any point post conception, a man can just sign on to be legally and financially responsible. For instances where both parties are enthusiastic prior to sex, the man signs on beforehand. Men gain autonomy, and women retain it. It is the simplest and most effective solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 10:24 PM |
| 2 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentpro-choice I’ve just realised I made a mistake. I read pro-choice as pro-life. My apologies. That said, let’s pull it apart to see what the objective reality is. the individual desire to have a child should not affect the choice of another person This is a good point. At what point should this decision be legally binding? For instance two parties agree pre-coitus that children are not an option. Conception occurs. Objectively, should the woman be legally bound to the agreement she made prior to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 10:12 PM |
| 2 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentDon’t have a baby with someone who isn’t enthusiastic about it if you can avoid it. The issue is post conception, only the woman decides the level of enthusiasm required. For instance two people can be fully on board about not having kids. Plan B. Abortion if necessary(and a legal option). As soon as conception occurs? Enthusiasm is only applicable to one party. Conversely as a Christian, I interpret the pro-choice movement more akin demonstrating to enthusiasm for kids pre-conception. For insta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?hurting other people This is an interesting point. Say I agree, that seeking love hurts others. Is this for every relationship? Or just some relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.We cannot know if our bright ideas would’ve been catastrophic This is a good point. Let’s say I agree. We cannot know for certain the outcome of our ‘bright’ ideas. Objectively, does this uncertainty then mean a victim should be encouraged to stay? Additionally, due to this uncertainty only a qualified mental health professional can encourage and support a victim to leave? This, to you, is reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?It wasn’t given to me So objectively, if one is not given something is that it? They cannot attain it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?most men’s dating lives are over before they started because of a unanimous decision that they have no power to influence. This is the crux. Let’s assume this is true. One has no power to influence their own outcomes. Objectively then, should one give up? Additionally, at what point? In their twenties? Teens? From birth? If an individual chooses a self defeating worldview then they immediately handicap their potential. For change. For growth. Conversely, accepting objective reality for what it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.That was your answer, to the question of objectivity being beneficial. That few abusers will let everyone know of the abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.let everyone know Agreed. Does this then mean Objectivity is useless to the victim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.you aren’t qualified Agreed. I simply apply common sense. For instance is it beneficial to the victim, to understand the earliest possible point when and where they could have and should have left an abusive situation? Not just during, but just as importantly for their future? Objectively? Common sense dictates. Which is the point. Or do you disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.The first step is to verify This is a good point. I agree. Operating on the premise that a victim is a victim, is objectivity beneficial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.The implication It is not an implication to focus directly on objective fact. Nor were the terms ‘should’ or ‘could’ used. The term used was opportunity. Therapy is something she gets to utilize Whilst I did not ascribe a sex to my comment, I agree. Professional help is fantastic for attaining an objective point of view. Through questioning. Through working through personal circumstances as objectively as possible. Which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don’t know much about mine other than it’s a sea goat which I like, and we are purportedly stubborn(which in my case is true). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵a third date? Yes. It’s a nothing burger and she took appropriate action to remedy the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:47 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵your own actions I’m a selfish person, so despite my attempts to address this a lot of my actions are still driven by this fact. That said, seeing my wife happy, seeing my kids and family thrive also contributes to my own selfish sense of fulfilment. So it’s a win-win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever been in love?So many times. I don’t view love as a static, rigid thing. More so a fluid, changing dynamic. It ebbs and flows. Much like the beating of a heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:37 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵there are only individual rankings The context of these rankings though is attractiveness to women is it not? Thus, the more attractive you are, the larger the market share of potential partners will find you attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.Literally the post Okay. Let’s say I agree. That good men would understand abuse victims. How? Just listening to them? Believing them? Not questioning them? That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:33 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Interesting. So how do you frame the dating landscape in your mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.it’s her family’s Agreed. So her family tells her about the abuse, and tries to help her. Her church. Her whole community tries to help. If she doesn’t want to leave, what happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Men spend a lot of time trying to humble women, and then claim women are overvaluedwhich is it? Neither. Objectively, women are not a monolith. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:10 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Did what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.a lot of work has been done. That’s good. So there was no long lasting negative impact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:02 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵commented on a different topic Was your comment not about men listening to men, or women listening to men in context to the different leagues within The SMP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:58 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵mem don’t get to decide everyone’s leagues. Agreed. Your ‘leagues’ exist in The SMP. In which objectively, supply dictates demand. That is not a manipulation tactic. It directly supports your point. Men do not dictate. Neither do women. Collectively, the market does. Attractiveness the scale. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.I accept that. So overall than the relationship has had a negative impact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:42 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵women don’t want to agree with that. Which is their prerogative. Objectively The SMP is based on supply and demand. If one is attractive enough? There will be demand. The advice, from either gender is secondary to this fact. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.I truly feel that could have done without it. That’s understandable. Do you think you would be the same, better person you are now if you had not experienced that adversity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.Be better So presumably the impact of that relationship overall has been positive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.just a real description That’s reasonable. If it is not empowering, does there exist a framing that is more empowering? Would that individual be relegated to just an ex? With issues, granted. Yet just an ex. This framing means you did not survive anything, merely experienced the ups and downs of a relationship. You would no longer need the term ‘survivor’. Again not to diminish your experience, but to better understand your perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.its process of emotional unlearning c and flexing new emotional muscles Is this process not subject to objective framework? This is anecdotal but my entire therapeutic experience was geared towards Objectivity. Towards understanding, acknowledging, and accepting emotions. Then letting them go. Towards separating out emotions from pragmatic decision making. Towards broadening one’s perspective. In this context an objective framework was the scale against which all emotions, emotionally based deci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.a survivor not a victim That’s reasonable. Is the identity of a survivor empowering? If so how? Conversely, would you be more empowered if you did not identify as a survivor? Is that even possible? Again, please feel free not to answer if you wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.better mental, physical and financial shape That’s good. Are you far enough removed that you no longer identify as a survivor of abuse? Is such an outcome possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:41 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A but more muscle and my guy could be a model. That look is unique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:37 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Too true! Got a rare sneaky nap in with my 4 year old this morning. Pure bliss. It really is the simple things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.we have a big wide objective scale made up a vast list of subjective circumstances. This is a good point. Is there a subjective circumstance that does not land on this scale? If so, please share it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.YOU established My friend; We now agree that there are two objective parameters between which an individual ultimately responsible, or has no responsibility. Your reply; I mean sure, I guess? If you are not sure, let us pull apart where it is wrong. Primarily because I can assure you that all your nuance, all your external factors fall somewhere on this objective scale. If however YOU want to stand on WHAT YOU AGREED to, we’ll continue. responsibility and blame are not the same Agreed. Which is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.none of my business, or yours So you’d agree then, behind ‘closed doors’ it’s anyone’s game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.actually helps I’ll demonstrate it. Take victim blaming. Objectively we’ve established the limit of responsibility where objectively a victim cannot be blamed. Conversely, we have established the limit where an individual is ultimately responsible. Now, of the two extremes; which viewpoint is objectively more beneficial for a victim to adopt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.I don’t see how this relevant I’ll walk you through my logic and you point out the flaws, okay. precent abuse, stop abusers We now agree that there a two objective parameters between which an individual is ultimately responsible, or has no responsibility. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.The primary goal is establish who is responsible Objectively. For instance you agree what a disabled individual with little to no cognitive function has no responsibility for abuse perpetrated on them. The exact same premise can be applied to minors. Agreed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.Victim mentality is a crutch This is a good point. How responsible then is an individual for freeing themselves of this mentality? Additionally, how free are you from your experiences at the hands of your ex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.Why How else can one gain sufficient perspective? We’ve established that an individual ultimately, is responsible for freeing themselves from abuse. What is more beneficial? Looking at their circumstances subjectively? Or objectively? Additionally, what does Therapy provide? A subjective point of view? Or an objective one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.The primary benefit is it gives an individual an objective framework to operate from. Is this not beneficial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.What functional role To establish the objective limit of responsibility. For instance is a severely disabled individual who possess little to no cognitive capacity, ultimately responsible for their own outcomes? If not, then that is the objective limit. You, and I have established an objective limit. Against which we can then compare all other subjective nuance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.right back to the ‘disabled’ bit. Okay. Let’s try a different tactic to see if we can agree; To you; is there an objective limit where an individual has no responsibility over their outcomes? If so, to you, what is that objective limit? If not, by default you must agree that objectively every single individual bears some responsibility for their outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.demolish the role of human complexity This is a good point. So the application of my framework does not encompass all nuance? For instance we agree at one objective end of ultimate responsibility. Can we find agreement at the opposite end? For instance objectively how responsible is an individual who is disabled? The capacity you mentioned earlier. Objectively if an individual has limited capacity, so too is their responsibility for their outcomes. Is that unreasonable? What variance/nuance exis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.What do we achieve by saying “yes objectively the ultimate decision goes to the individual” does it solve anything? The primary goal at least for me is to find an objective consensus that is reasonable. For instance we agree about the ultimate responsibility. The next logical step is to then establish objectively, when and where a victim has no responsibility. For instance a minor. Or as exampled above the disabled. The benefit being that establishes objective parameters within which all nuance … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.let alone am understood Genuine question; does that experience impact you currently? If so, is that impact positive? Or negative? Additionally, how much of that experience have you processed? Please feel free not to answer too, if you wish not to share. I mean no disrespect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.free will This is a solid point. Would it then be more beneficial to view victims as disabled? They do not possess sufficient critical thought nor perspective to better inform their decision making? Thus they are without full agency? If so, should be treated as such? For instance your emotionally and mentally trapped individual. Do external parties view those individuals as without agency? How far does this framing extend? From the individual? To a cult? To a religion? Objectively, if we accept … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.by focusing solely on this you’re also ignoring the capacity and will one has to be able to leave. This is a good point. So without the capacity or will to leave, external aid is moot? For instance the emotionally and mentally trapped victim. If that person does not have the capacity or will to leave the abusive situation? No amount of external aid will benefit them, until they consciously decide to make a change. Additionally, is that not how Therapy works? To empower agency objectively? If so,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.Themselves primarily Agreed. Is focusing on this fact victim blaming? Or empowering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.someone would have told her about him, and someone would have helped her too Genuine question; what if she did not want to leave the abusive situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.First, my friend no one is holding victims responsible for staying. Your point was; a reasonable fear To which my question was; does that then mean a victim should stay in an abusive situation? To you, that is reasonable? answered by researchers Okay. Let’s say I agree. There is a myriad of statistics and data that establishes who is ultimately responsible for freeing an individual from an abusive situation. What is your view? Can you simplify your argument succinctly so everyone can better unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.instead of victim blaming How is objectively asking questions blaming? The question posed is very simple; who is ultimately responsible from freeing an individual from an abusive situation? I’ll ask again; who is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:25 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Actively choosing to spend free time together. My wife loves holidays. Once or twice a month we try and get away, and we really love those moments together. It’s great as a family too, but we prioritise the health of the relationship over that of the family. Primarily because a healthy family dynamic cannot be built upon an unhealthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.a very reasonable fear Agreed. Objectively then does this mean a victim should stay in their abusive circumstances? redpill being about facts This is a good point. Let’s see if we can agree on just one fact; objectively who is ultimately responsible for freeing an individual from an abusive situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.rooted in “I told you so” I agree with this. Any advice given with the intent to belittle or diminish others is harmful. emotionally and mentally trapping them. This is a good point. Say a victim is emotionally and mentally trapped. Objectively who is ultimately responsible for freeing them from that trap? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.do that WITHOUT VICTIM BLAMING Agreed. Is then asking a victim what their decisions and actions were, and why they made those choices victim blaming? OJ Should fear of an outcome, stop an individual from making an objectively better decision? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming Objectively, the first step to understanding abuse is to question it. Not just the actions and reactions of the abuser, but the decisions and responses of the abused too. For instance to point out all the opportunities an individual had to end the relationship? Is not victim blaming, but beneficial information towards moving forward. This is the process of Therapy; to highlight agency. It is the most efficient way to not only better un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:38 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Purple Pill & BP are the only two logical destinations you can arrive to I see it slightly differently; that the logical culmination of the discussion here is agreement. What tends to cause division is debating the subjective extremes, couched as ‘nuance’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 10:07 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵the satisfaction and dopamine of buying This.. Is certainly a sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.acts of casual sexism The key is not the casual sexism, but whether the acts are objectively suited to one gender as opposed to the other. Breastfeeding for example. Technology has advanced where formula is a decent substitute, yet purportedly the benefits of breastfeeding is by far the optimal system. Conversely, personal safety means the capability men on average possess advantages them over women in general. Thus if an intruder enters one’s home, it is common sense to use whatever advantages … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Typical workday hours are just as bad for men as they are for womenWorking 8 hours 5 days a week is cruel What is the alternative? Objectively, necessity dictates. Almost all organisms come into existence fighting for life, and must continue to do so if they wish to enjoy the duration of it. Homo Sapiens are no exception. This fact is neither cruel, nor is it gendered. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:15 PM |
| 0 | If women need men to survive, all heterosexual sex is unethicalI rarely see men rallying Primarily because your perspective is too narrow. For instance say a society has a school. Some men decide to bomb the country where that school is located. 150 schoolgirls purportedly die. Objectively if a society cannot protect its sovereign borders, a domain nearly universally dominated by the rallying of men? The rallying around of women and children is subject to this fact. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Most can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction just from hearsayobserving pigeons The key difference is applicability. For instance pigeons are observed. Theories drawn. Theories tested. Say from a group of peers. Theories either passed scrutiny, or not. Leading back to more observations. More theories. More testing. Until one has a reasonably accurate view of the world. TRP is exactly the same. We have observed a bunch of pigeons. Almost all pigeons like Strength. Physically. Emotionally. Financially and practically. So to get a ton of pigeons ‘spinning in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | If women need men to survive, all heterosexual sex is unethical100 The key here is scale. If we broaden the hypothetical slightly; say 100 men to 1000 women. It would more accurately reflect the current reality. The question would be how genetic variation would be passed down in such a scenario. For instance my heritage is from a tiny developing nation. Traditionally, propagating genetic variance is passed down through arranged marriages. Where lineage is a primary factor. Necessity dictates because the area parents were born in is so remote, that the only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Why do men “neg” women?Negging is so old Plus outdated. Joking around is fine, but to purposefully point out negatives to cause emotional volatility or prey on insecurities is a low status move. It an individual is attractive enough, negging is unnecessary. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Women defend lesbian relationship instability and it exposes the whole narrativehow The first step is to be as objectively self reflective as possible, as one can only effectively improve in context to their environment. So understanding as objectively as possible where one is currently is the foundation of all future outcomes. Key being an individual’s capacity for critical thought. It informs one’s worldview. The the more objective it is, the better informed their decision making is. Second, PLAN. For instance I currently have what I call My 2048 Plan. It has some really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Men are the prize.Most men don’t become more attractive Agreed. This still does not negate the objective fact a man’s runway to become more attractive is significantly longer than his female counterpart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Men are the prize.a prize worth wanting So you agree. Primarily because when an individual becomes attractive enough, their desirability increases. Hence they become a prize worth ‘wanting’. It is literally that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:41 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Phird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Men think that men are predatorstheoretical ideal Okay. Let’s say I agree. Sole responsibility of personal safety is only a theoretical ideal. That would mean there are no realistic, practical precautions an individual can solely take to significantly mitigate risk to their personal safety. That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ?driving a car(manual) for the first time. This is a solid analogy because a common mistake is to stall a manual transmission when first learning. Finding the friction point for smooth gear changing takes honing. Like any other skill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:28 AM |
| -2 | Men are the prize.men are Men are. Primarily because the bar is simply becoming attractive enough. So in this context, objectively a man has a significantly larger runway than his female counterpart. That is the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:01 AM |
| 0 | There is no evidence that double standards pushed on men are less "real" than the ones pushed on women.men often feel pressured Why though? Is it Anxiety? Stress? Fear? I’ve always looked at it the opposite way; I love the chase. The flirting. The butterflies. Love it all. Have I been rejected? Probably a million times. Had it been fun? Very single time, because I think fondly upon all those instances as part of my journey that have led me to where I am today. Dating. Approaching. Escalating. Is not something that is cause for fear. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:56 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵dated for over a decade Ah got it. So more the wife than the fling. Good for both of them regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:32 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Interesting. In your digging did it say whether she benefitted from the deceased’s estate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Men think that men are predatorswomen are held to expectations of preparation that men are not This is a good point. Objectively, are men and women the same? Thus, should the expectations, regulations or any social hierarchy or structure be a blanket rules for all? Say, every individual is responsible for taking reasonable precautions for their own safety. That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Men think that men are predatorsobjectively true Let’s pull it apart to see. For instance upon reaching adulthood(or even prior), objectively how responsible is an individual for their own personal safety? Not at all? As an adult, one bears zero responsibility for their own personal safety? That reasonable? If not, what is reasonable? 50% responsibility? That more reasonable? What is the most reasonable amount of responsibility that an individual can take over their own personal safety? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 11:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That is a reasonable take. I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 11:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵the billions If that’s the case, I wonder how many 22 year old ‘girlfriends’ he can afford.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 11:44 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> This man does not look like much of a ‘prize’ hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Men are the prize.Men are not the prize. They do not at all peak at 50. Whilst I agree for most men it is not pragmatic to expect to ‘peak at 50’ objectively, if a man is valuable enough? 50? 60? Even 70 is just an age. Prime examples being De Niro and Pacino. Who were fathers again at the spritely age of 80 and 83 years old. The prime example however are not these two; it is Leo. His choices and outcomes? Objectively? Prove that if an individual’s value is high enough? He has all the choice. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Men think that men are predatorstreat men like they are predators Is not the same as; prepare as one best can for ‘bad weather’ Yet let’s pull apart the OP and see if we can agree. For instance I agree with you that women do not need to treat men(and hopefully not me either hehe!) as inherently dangerous, sadistic predators. Instead, they should prepare as best they can for that potential outcome. From anyone. Say, at least initially by limiting the level of trust and kindness they show everyone. That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Men are the prize.yet the men have to accumulate resources Most men. Objectively the key difference is high value men can re-partner and have a new family several times over. Depending on level too, this fact has little to no bearing physically or fiscally on a man. Ask me how I know. Just kidding. It is correct that for most men, at any age dating is going to be a challenge. Conversely if a man is valuable enough, life and by default dating comes easily. Leo the ultimate example of this end of the objective scal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Men think that men are predatorspreviously I argued that men are not analogous to weather Yet objectively, this does not negate an one’s choice to prepare for both good and bad weather. This viewpoint is not only reasonable, it is smart. unless one assumes any and every man to be a predator Again, objectively an individual is responsible for their personal well being. Physically. Emotionally, mentally and financially. Fundamentally. It not only makes sense to prepare as one best can for ‘bad weather’ by assuming the potential … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADisn’t same as feeling horny Agreed. She however had the choice to pull the pin at any time. Yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Good/Terrible news! People are doing their best!Okay. Let’s say one systematically overestimates their own contribution. Objectively there are numerous individuals who in similar positions or worse, but are still performing. Some even over-performing. Which means in comparison if one is dissatisfied or feeling exhausted objectively there is room for improvement. Which would negate any cause for complaint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:38 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Never! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Good/Terrible news! People are doing their best!systematically overestimate our own contribution I view it the other way; we all share the same 24 hours a day. This means objectively, an individual either maximises how they use of their time; or they do not. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:20 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADValidation That validation however was sexually driven was it not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 11:09 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADego involved I agree with this. In what form was her ego motivating her? For instance is it reasonable to presume that the casual sex she had previously was a factor? Arguably, the primary factor in feeding her ego? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 11:07 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADtesting to see if she could still get his attention and that came at a cost Okay. So in your view it was not boredom, but attention she felt she was missing? That drove her to reply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 11:02 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADthis last time she clearly did not feel horny Let’s say I agree. She replied purely out of boredom. If so, that would mean she had no sexual intent, and that the casual nature of their previous relationship had no bearing on her decision to reply. For instance to alleviate her boredom she could’ve chosen to text a friend. Read a book. Gone for walk. A myriad of choices. Yet her choice was to reply to a person with whom she previously shared casual relations with. That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 10:42 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADengage in sexual intimacy when their brains aren’t actually craving sexual intimacy This is a good point. How intimate can a casual relationship be? Objectively, the very nature of ‘casual’ means the primary motivating factor is the use of each other’s bodies. As pointed out by the top comment. Thus intimacy, at least sexually is a secondary consideration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 10:22 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵children if politicians Try growing up as one. Just kidding. My father wasn’t a politician, he just had a ton of friends who were. Great for connections, but geez the competitiveness when comparing us kids was horrendous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Women defend lesbian relationship instability and it exposes the whole narrativeDick isn’t a valuable commodity. Most dick. The key is becoming so valuable, one’s dick becomes valuable because of who it is attached to. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 09:11 AM |
| – | r/PurplePillDebate comes down to this...it’s still a matter of men becoming selectable and women selecting well The key factor the OP misses is social status in relation to group. Objectively, the men at the top have the freedom of choice. The biggest cavemen. The smartest ones. Chiefs. Kings. In today’s world; CEO’s. Founders and owners. The famous etc.. This fact is both timeless and near universally applicable. TRP’s sole purpose is to empower normal men, to as similar a level of choice as an individual is capable of attaining. Blu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 08:56 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADTOP COMMENT You used him out of boredom, he used you out of ease. Not worth bothering yourself over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 08:25 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCROSSPOST FROM A VENT SUB Gave bj to my casual partner and regrets it after he said something I had a casual relationship with a guy whom I stopped talking to 6 months back. He often used to text me and I used to ignore him but recently I was bored and thought of replying him. So eventually today, he ended up coming at my flat and we made out for the first time in a while but we took in on the next level where I gave him a bj and he rubbed his penis on my clitoris (not inserted)and i didn't feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 08:25 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That is a terrible set of circumstances to find oneself in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 07:57 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵At what point When dating I had The Second Date Rule. If the first date went well from the second date onwards I was always direct that I would be seeing her exclusively, and all that entails. For me, it is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 08:00 PM |
| 11 | Externalizing blame is necessary and healthy for keeping your sanity as an unsuccesful man.all that different Okay. Say I agree. Blame is not all that different from acceptance. What is a more beneficial view towards dating; to blame women for having preferences? Or accept that women have preferences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 12:10 PM |
| 11 | Externalizing blame is necessary and healthy for keeping your sanity as an unsuccesful man.First, love the healthy gamer. Watched a few of Dr. K’s long form interviews on The Modern Wisdom and DOAC Podcasts. Well worth watching. There is a healthy step there, some degree of allowing yourself to blame Acceptance. Attributing blame is rarely beneficial because it focuses upon the actions of others. As opposed to focusing on oneself. Acknowledging and accepting one’s history means one can better refocus their attention from the past, towards the future. Do not externalise blame. Instead … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Know any guys that have stopped paying for dates?Good jeans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 08:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵stopping dating That’s fine but make sure you don’t stop socialising. Especially with intent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 05:29 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵more than 2 drinks Yeah I’m with you. My middle kid has a soccer tournament Saturday so I’m taking her and one of her teammates. One of the wife’s besties is treating her to lunch and bottomless margaritas. She’ll have a blast but drinking like that is just not for me anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 01:25 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵most awkward/weird way I was at a nephew’s wedding with my then girlfriend. This girl just kept following me around. Inserting herself into conversations. Joining in when I was paying my respects to all the elders. Dancing with me. I am generally clueless because I just presume people are out to have fun like me. I was just being polite engaging with her, so thought nothing of it. My wife the next day pointed out that girl was hitting on me all night. She pointed all the little instances(and I m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 01:21 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My 17 year old and her bestie of roughy 11 years were sitting on my couch between classes(last year before college/uni), talking about careers/work. I was trying to give them advice and my daughter’s bestie replied with “yeah but Uncle Rip you haven’t worked for like a decade” and I was in shock hahaha! My eldest did point out that I do volunteer a ton, but they’re cluey enough to know it’s not the same. On the flip side my youngest just started formal education. So my Monday-Thursdays have a to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | People belive Men have not done everything to justify hating on themthe metric is The outcome. Objectively, in any endeavour it is the primary measure of success. For instance in the endeavour to acquire a partner. One falls short. What is the next step? Give up? Realign expectations or goals? Keep going? This is where the divide in viewpoint arises. Between those who perceive failure as a reason to give up, and those who perceive falling short as an opportunity to do more. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 09:18 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵you will be hungry, you will be bored That is a choice. Personally I love the simplicity when cutting. Eggs and bacon for breakfast. Tuna salad lunch. Steak and vegetables for dinner. Rinse and repeat. Nutrition does not have to be unfulfilling, bland or boring. My eldest and are currently in a competition to cut before summer. Healthy decision making around food can be framed in a positive, beneficial way. If one is so inclined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nice! Always pay yourself first was something I learned early on. It is a sure fire way to get ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:48 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Objectively physical exercise helps. For instance personally weightlifting, going for a run or even just a walk helps me reset. Hopefully you can put in strategies to help you combat those emotions when they arise. Hope you’re feeling better soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵politicians, powerful folk As someone who grew up around power, it is not the avoidance of accountability but public perception that dictates messaging. One can be accountable privately, yet claim no responsibility publicly. Additionally, it is impossible to acquire power without exercising some degree accountability. Objectively it is nearly impossible to rise in any system without a little self awareness, because it is fundamental when working with others. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:41 PM |
| 2 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?look at every player and copy everything Is better to have every tool without need for it? Or, have the need, but not the tool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?First, thank you for the good faith in which you’ve attempted to defend your point of view. I acknowledge, and appreciate it. Apologies too if I tired you out. All the best! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?women need certain rights associated with their biology Objectively, women have survived without these rights for a very long period of time prior to acquiring them. Additionally, some women currently do not enjoy the luxury of these rights. Therefore, these ‘rights’ are not a necessity. If we are going to face things, let us call it what it is; privilege. Men deserve a fair dating market and fair economy Why? When has dating ever been fair? When has the economy? Objectively, it is far more prag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?forced at all Your first statement was to mock the might equals right argument. Correct? I’m interested in why you hold this view. Hence my line of inquiry. Women, just like Men are subject to the forces of nature. Human or otherwise. Do you disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?full scale macro society model No need my friend. Common sense will suffice. If you do not view force, or at least the threat of it as the governing factor of all life, I’m interested in pulling your worldview apart. To understand why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?case by case That’s reasonable. Again let’s say I agree. Objectively, it would then be impossible to conclude that one sex, has a physical size therefore force advantage over the other sex. For instance female over males in some species of spiders. Nor conclude this objective framework or its inverse occurs or is applicable to other species. We must weigh everything on a case by case basis. To you, this take reasonable too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?There is no catch all This is a decent point. Say I agree. There is no ‘catch all’. That would mean there is no objective framework one could apply to the use of force in context to individuals, communities, nations and even interspecies as well. To you, is this take reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?LIMITED This is a reasonable point. Objectively, how is this limit set? Rule of law a reasonable limiting factor? Subsequently if these are exceeded, objectively what is the outcome? Say one country has a large, effective fighting force. How does the rule of law limit this country from using their force? For instance; to start a war? How effective are the mechanisms for limiting force? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:27 PM |
| 1 | The MAIN thing women wantalways come back to Purpose The only issue with this is it cannot be attained from a place of scarcity. Objectively, the first building block of all life is Strength. Not just physically but mentally. Emotionally. Intellectually and practically. Financially. If lost, the first thing an individual should focus upon is building strength in the above domains. Only then will they have the resources to build their amusement park. It is that simple. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/26 09:18 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP Megathreadtake action Personally, I love marriage. Currently on my second one. I have a third woman lined up who is super keen(she flew herself in last weekend she’s that keen). The key for me was making all the traits women find attractive habit. So when my current relationship ends, I know I’ll have very little issue re-partnering. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP Megathreadget out of my mentals The key is broadening one’s perspective sufficiently through objectivity. For instance what is better; ejaculating too fast or not ejaculating at all? Acknowledging an issue is the first step to addressing it. Next is accepting factors you cannot change, then finally pouring your mental energy into the factors you can change. Medical advice. Diet. Pelvic floor exercises(kegels). Viagra. Meditation. There is a myriad of options to address this specific issue. The first step … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/26 08:40 PM |
| 5 | AskTRP Megathreadsomething else I second choosing your own long term outcome as defined by you. As someone who’s been divorced and is currently married to me it wasn’t too bad. Yes, the cost ran into the six figures. I also acquired experience, insight and knowledge. Which is invaluable. Personally, when this marriage ends I’ll most likely do it again(even have one already lined up). I’d even be open to having more kids. You just have to determine what will bring you happiness and fulfilment. A family and kids? … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/26 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?No eyes on the rich please. Just kidding. As someone who’s benefitted from Nepotism it’s clear that corruption is a feature, not a bug. If an individual is capable enough, they can say and do the most heinous of things and still end up in a very cushy office. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?protect peace How? What is the primary tool that protects peace, justice and the freedoms an individual or society enjoys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 12:19 PM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?men haven’t built a body positivity movement Primarily because it is unnecessary. Objectively, most guys from boyhood onwards understand that societies operate on hierarchies. One’s capacity in any domain will determine how far up that hierarchy they can go. Body positivity directly contradicts this fact, by espousing that being fat is ‘positive’ when in reality being slim to jacked is far more beneficial. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 12:13 PM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?as the male of any species in this kingdom one of our major goals is to be chosen Is to survive via adaptive reproduction. Objectively this is the basis for all species, and being ‘chosen’ is still a fairly recent adaptation in context to body positivity. Hence why height, muscles, and being physically capable is still a very attractive trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you find maintaining interpersonal relationships to be easy? Hard? Necessary? Unimportant?They’re work I’ll probably be in the minority but as an extrovert I love planning, accepting invitations or even just the idea of a get together. Parties. Celebrations. Even just dinner. Love it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 02:10 AM |
| 0 | What do you value?Option 1 As an extrovert I derive a ton of emotional and social fulfilment outside of a relationship. My besties I’ve had since age 5 and I meet at least once a month. Usually for drinks, dinner and a little debauchery. If my partner and I do not or connect at even a minimum level, I’m good. Additionally, hypothetically if money was a factor that would be primary determining factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Bad men are not analogous to the weatherPeople should mitigate risk as much as possible Should people not mitigate risk? This, to you, is reasonable? Additionally, how is viewing the OP as objectively as possible viewing it either nonsensically or in a ‘vacuum’? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Bad men are not analogous to the weatherit’s moved to an extreme that’s outside the scope of the post. Then the scope of the post is subjectively too narrow. That lacks the objectivity necessary for practical application. For instance women specifically are not the only ones to build their lives around preventing instances of assault. Almost all humans by default build their lives to negate the risk of not only assault, but as many negative outcomes as foreseeable. This fact scales too. From an individual, to a family, to a nation. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Bad men are not analogous to the weatherthe only way to guarantee you never get assaulted This is a solid point. Let’s say I agree. By this logic no one has ever been, or will ever be assaulted in their own home. This reasonable? If not, what is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 03:05 AM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADif he lowers his standards enough This is purportedly the issue men complain about; regardless of their standards they are not getting laid. Let alone getting laid a bunch. Purportedly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 02:23 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵core traits will remain the same That’s reasonable. I struggle with empathy. As much as I’d like and try to change this fact, I accept it is probably core trait too. Again, thank you for the honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 02:18 AM |
| 23 | Know any guys that have stopped paying for dates?ask women to pay for dates Whilst I never asked for women to pay, my default first date invite was always either a morning coffee date with a walk, or a training ‘date’ and coffee after. Low investment. Low pressure. Worked a charm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:58 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵tempermental and personality trait Do you view these traits as immutable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Bad men are not analogous to the weathersadistic actions forced upon them This is a good point. Objectively, if an individual can take reasonable to extreme precautions to prevent anyone from forcing any actions upon them; should they be responsible for doing so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:47 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵First, thank you for your candor. Please if you don’t want to answer the next few questions don’t. I am curious because I come from the compete opposite end of the spectrum. So love learning about other viewpoints. Do you think you can or will get to the point of having no anxiety? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:40 AM |
| 9 | Bad men are not analogous to the weatherwomen should not be told to “take responsibility”. Agreed. They should just take responsibility. Objectively, an individual is responsible for their personal well being. Physically. Emotionally. Fiscally. Fundamentally. Analogies are fine, but this is the reality. It is the most pragmatic basis upon which to build one’s worldview. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:29 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵not as much Are you at a stage where it has no impact at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:21 AM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵disciplined Simplicity is key. In any endeavour, simply break it down into steps you know you will complete. Even if that first step is just putting your runners on. Rinse and repeat, then build from there. Discipline is skill. That can become habit. It really is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:18 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That’s interesting. If I may ask, is it still an issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That’s beautiful. Boys, buns and bonding hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵her anxieties Genuine question; how much do you allow the anxiety of others to impact your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:11 AM |
| – | Women who don’t get approached by men aren’t “too intimidating” or “too pretty”certified ugly who has struggled so much with dating Genuine question; objectively, how many men do you think you could attract for a one night stand? 5 different guys? One? Zero? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:09 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵CROSSPOST FROM A WHAT SHOULD I DO SUB My boyfriend told me he used to be a pornstar I (23f) have been with my boyfriend (27m) for around 3 months. Everything is going great he’s physically the ideal man for me but last night he said “I don’t know how you will react to this but I used to be a pornstar” I laughed and thought he was joking at first but he said he was being serious he started off making amateur videos with his ex girlfriend and then they started “collabing” with other pornstars and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Normal adults accept that their fantasies will rarely become reality.it depends on the cost This is a good point. Say an individual pursues an endeavour, with the hope and belief that they’ll potentially achieve a certain outcome. Dedicates their entire life to it. They fall short. Objectively, have they misused or wasted their time? Was the cost too great? winning the lottery This is the perfect example. Does an individual regardless of the odds, buy a lottery ticket with the hopes of winning? Or refuse to buy a ticket, because of those same odds? There in lies … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Normal adults accept that their fantasies will rarely become reality.more likely that you won’t have enough time in your lifetime to achieve it. This is a good point. Does this then mean that one should not be open to the possibility? That if time is the only limitation, that one should not pursue an endeavour because it is nearly impossible it will be achieved within one’s lifetime? That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 01:21 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Life is good. That is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengea lot of guys here are genuinely interested in getting laid. If so, then their outcomes will reflect just how genuine their interest actually is in that endeavour. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Normal adults accept that their fantasies will rarely become reality.it’s a scale Agreed. Objectively though your scale by default must have two extreme, opposing ends. Hence the binary premise. not open to EVERYTHING Why not? Take cancer research. Or travelling at the speed of light. At what point should an individual not be open to everything? Objectively at what point does reality and belief, does reality and hope intersect? After the fact? Or beforehand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Normal adults accept that their fantasies will rarely become reality.It sets people to disappointment and bitching Okay. Let’s say I agree. That being open to what is possible sets people to bitching and disappointment. Is that the only outcome? If not, what is the alternative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Normal adults accept that their fantasies will rarely become reality.Whilst I agree being realistic is important, being open to what is possible? However unlikely? Is just as beneficial. One must live in hope, lest life becomes a living hell. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeit is already arguably correctly perceived as creepy to attend these primarily to make romantic connections If the interest is genuine, then the connections will follow. Romantic and otherwise. Whilst I’m always a proponent for being direct with intent, socialising in general is about broadening not only depth but breadth of connection. So any event where people gather of a purpose other than ‘dating’ should be the focus. From there, one picks up cues and information as to how best to proceed. D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:17 PM |
| – | Do you as a man want a financial equal partner?financial equal I’ll be in the minority but financial assets were a key factor in me choosing my wife. She owned a few apartments(one outright), so had at least some semblance of a portfolio. Which to me was important, because all the women previous to her had mortgages and whilst financially sound were not at as far ahead as her. That said we do not commingle finances. Though we do share an accountant who is great. She has sole ownership of all marital assets which at the moment is just our cur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:29 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I’m in my ‘polo shirt’ era this decade. It’s fantastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵ain’t like we are choosing to be a sub Yet do you not have choice as to how you adapt to your circumstances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:13 PM |
| 4 | “Men will treat you as well or as poor as you let them” is a mindset that absolves men of accountability.victim blaming accountability Objectively, whilst boundaries matter what is far more fundamental is one’s ability to enforce them. For instance a person makes up their mind. Say Tit size. Or Rape. If another individual does not possess the ability to enforce their own boundaries in response? The outcome is going to be.. Unpalatable. That is not victim blaming. It is objective reality. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?require compromise on both sides Agreed. This is the key. Of all my mentors, the best have always been effective, attuned listeners. The absolute best? Intuitively so. Additionally, good leaders actively encourage objective criticism. As it is the most effective tool to test the veracity of a choice before committing to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵what makes you think wine have ever shown me interest like this. Nothing. Which is why I did not bring it up your past. Instead, focused on helping you out with your future outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 10:34 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵the way I look Is subject to conscious effort too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 10:23 PM |
| – | How to Tell If You Have a Fragile Masculinity - A Guide for Glass MenThe drive to dominate is a good quality in a litigator The post does not read this way. Russel makes decisions without consultation(nor it appears oversight). Is driven to reassert his position regardless of relevance. Appears to lack a modicum of humility. Conversely almost all the lawyers I know are shrewdly discreet. Thus if attributing good qualities to litigating? Dominance, at least overtly, would appear to be a somewhat risqué factor. being conscious of your own behaviour is a helpful ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nah. Even the ugliest man in the world pulls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 09:16 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don’t think people change that much in ten years Without effort. Every decade my life has only gotten better. Primarily because I’m a planner and have it all worked out beforehand. Current goals for 2031 are to complete a masters in an entirely new field, hitting new pbs, learning watchmaking and a ton more. Life really is too short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵extracting resources from men My wife is an ace at this. We settled our most recent lease two years ago. We’re upgrading again. We’re also in the market for a hobby farm, because she had horses growing up and wants them for our kids. She’s worth every dollar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:39 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵entitled to the continuation of that system Objectively, all systems are subject to their ability to retain autonomy. Entitlement is a secondary factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:18 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵looks Whilst looks are fundamental, objectively there’s a ton that can be done to negate flaws and maximise strengths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵it’s Monday Love Mondays. One of my favourite podcasts is Eric Thomas The HipHop Preacher, who does TGIM’s on his show. Always grateful. Even on Mondays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵an effective way to get a second look There are billions of women on the face of planet. No man needs to settle for a ‘second’ look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵flirting has been in person The key is Plausible Deniability. e.g. ‘We were just hanging out after work’. ‘ ‘We went for a few drinks’. ‘He just wanted me to check out his outfit/socks/plausible reason to head back to the room.’ ‘I don’t know what happened.’ Practice escalating to sex with other women. So by the time you meet this one again, you’ll have your process dialled in. Godspeed and good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:09 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh my hehehe! My pride gets in the way of my stooping.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Who would be better at Dating, a good or Bad person?I feel attacked. Just kidding. I know a neurosurgeon, and for the most he’s quite a humble guy. Does a ton of pro bono stuff through his foundation. You raise a good point though; every narcissist is some charming manipulative CEO If we presume Twin 1 is right at the most extreme end on a scale of narcissism, then he is not only going to get more dates but he’s going to burn through relationships. Until he no longer has options, or settles on a relationship that feeds his narcissism and ego. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Many men and women basically operate as a hivemind.The details of the contest can vary. Agreed. Equally true though is that there are some details that stay the same. For instance the status of Kings. Their outcomes regardless of context are almost identical to that of other kings. In different cultures, nations and even different eras of history. Today? CEO’s and owners. Comparably similar statuses. Almost identical outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 01:43 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Best wishes my guy! Hope you get what you need out of reconnecting! Godspeed and good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 01:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵post history Checking out someone’s post history is wild! That’s a lot of investment in random internet strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:58 PM |
| – | If you are fine with having casual sex, then claiming “I feel love through sex” is a lie. You just want sex and wont admit it.But it’s mainly men Objectively, gender is irrelevant to your point. If an individual devalues the meaning of sex by partaking in or just desiring the act casually, they by default cannot ‘feel love through sex’. You, by the rationale of your own post must agree with this statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Many men and women basically operate as a hivemind.modernity has turned this into a male status contest It is not hard to say; objectively, there has always been male status contests. Just because some perceive the current dynamic as harder, does not negate the competition our ancestors endured to successfully procreate. Additionally, I’d take all the ‘hardships’ of today over any other period of time in human history. As with it comes all modern privileges as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:31 PM |
| – | If you are fine with having casual sex, then claiming “I feel love through sex” is a lie. You just want sex and wont admit it.I don’t understand how guys don’t under they’re devaluing the meaning of sex by wanting casual sex I agree with this point 100%. It is also not gendered. For instance say a woman devalues the meaning of sex because she partakes in casual sex. Does that then mean she cannot ‘feel love through sex’? That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Common dating advice straight up doesn’t work for the average guy struggling with datingI have never seen a behaviour or “dating tip” that works on 99% of ALL women Then scrap that number. Say it’s 51% and call it most women. One thing I do know that has a near 100% strike rate is genuine curiosity. This is entirely anecdotal but I love people. Genuinely. Love introducing myself, then asking a ton of questions. It’s funny. Once the attraction threshold is met, most women are very often more than happy to talk about themselves. Which works I know works for hood rats, socialites and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:12 PM |
| 9 | If TRP wasn’t true, there wouldn’t be such immediate resistance to and censorship of itunprecedented levels of difficulty Why is this a bad thing? As a species we either adapt, or die. This fact scales right down too. Additionally, TRP is not censored. Objectively an individual is free to espouse whatever view they wish. If they’re willing to bear the consequences. One can ‘grab em by the pussy’ and state so publicly, yet still find themselves sitting in a very comfy office. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines is right that Selective Service creates an unfair responsiblity balanceon a lowest possible scale This is a good example. Let’s pull it apart to see if we can agree. Say an individual broke into your car, but left it exactly as you did so you were unaware. Objectively does your ignorance negate their power to enter or exit your car as they wish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 11:33 PM |
| – | Patriarchy endures because women go full psycho on each other without men to leash them.Social systems aren’t “built upon merit” they’re hammered out by winners This is a good point. Objectively, does the merit of the actions these winners take not produce their outcome? Hence your winners only win by the merit of their ‘hammering’? Furthermore objectively, is this fact not widely accepted as the case since prehistoric times? Pertinent still, today? Additionally, are scheming and plotting not tools? Or do you discount soft power too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Women's Preferences Are Fine. Fetishes Disguised as Standards Are Not.That is a good point. My error. Interchange it with childless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines is right that Selective Service creates an unfair responsiblity balanceHumankind has ascended from animals The primary reason this is false is because it is not civility, nor the rule of law that governs individuals or our species at a global scale; it is the implied threat of violence. Of force. Hence the term enforcement. For instance mutually assured destruction. Morality is not a factor. That is the reality. The only thing that has ascended are the tools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Myron Gaines is right that Selective Service creates an unfair responsiblity balanceUkraine I agree with this take. The issue is not the draft. The issue is not even Feminism. If a society cannot defend it’s borders? Objectively it is subject to the force of a nation that can. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 08:12 PM |
| 3 | I Don’t Agree That Men are Invisible to Women.every person you walk past COULD be a possibility, leading to Opportunity. There are two sides to every coin. If one is always looking at a glass half empty? It will rarely be seen as full. Which is quite a pessimistic mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Patriarchy endures because women go full psycho on each other without men to leash them.staring back from sixty years The Patriarchy does not endure because we do not live in a patriarchy, and have not since we were huddled together in caves. It has been, is, and always will be a meritocracy. Objectively, all social systems are built upon the merit of the actions of that society. Which is not gendered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Women's Preferences Are Fine. Fetishes Disguised as Standards Are Not.I prefer women without children, because I am childfree After my first divorce, I presumed being a single dad wood preclude me from dating single, childfree women. I was wrong. I’m now confident when my marriage ends, I won’t struggle to find another childfree woman. Possibly have even more(love kids). So that is and will be my ‘preference’ from here on out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 07:04 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I look at it a little more holistically. Do more women want a man to be good because he is a husband? Or before he is one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Which protein In college I used to do roughly 150-200gms through eggs, canned tuna, ground beef, frozen bulk fish and chicken(also towards the end could afford bulk porterhouse). My meal prep was 6-8 eggs fo breakfast. 2 tins of tuna in a salad(kewpie mayo, lettuce and cucumbers). Then whatever fish or meat with dinner. It hit 175gms easy and was reasonably inexpensive. Also depending if I was bulking I used to have a bean mix(chick peas, lentils, four bean mix mixed in with a can baked beans fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 06:47 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Enjoy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 06:34 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nope. Being a good person is my priority. A husband is only one hat I wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADwork-zipping Sorry buzz/shave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:05 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADto try find a woman In context to workable strategies the goal should be to broaden one’s options, not narrow them down. A bald, skinny guy should work zip his head and get bigger. Hone social skill. Make bank. Then once he’s got options think about vetting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 07:04 PM |
| 4 | QFW: Do you care if the guy doesn’t dress or prepare all that well for a date, if he still picks you up and takes you there, pays for everything, and tries to treat you in a special way?Hola my fellow rugby player hehe! I wouldn’t call myself a sewer. I’ve only done some hems, tried to bring in the leg on an old pair of dress pants, and tried to make some pocket squares. Will have to check out Modish Rugger for sure! Thanks for the tip! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid admitting that women objectify themselves whenever it's convenient, and would rather demonize male sexuality instead.I look at it as empowering. Fail or succeed? Not many, if any care. Which I find liberating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid admitting that women objectify themselves whenever it's convenient, and would rather demonize male sexuality instead.Damn. That is an interesting take. I don’t really relate to victimhood but the rationale that it is rooted in selfishness makes senses. So too though is the remedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.posting more BS Looking at these posts objectively the core theme appears the relationship between attraction and sex. Which is valid. The issue is these posts only seem to look at the issue from one standpoint. As opposed to be open to other perspectives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 10:00 PM |
| 5 | QFW: Do you care if the guy doesn’t dress or prepare all that well for a date, if he still picks you up and takes you there, pays for everything, and tries to treat you in a special way?prefer a man who has a fashion sense For the longest I didn’t really bother with this, because Monday to Friday it was standard business attire, and weekends played rugby so rugby shorts were(and still are) my ‘comfy’ clothes. My ex wife never commented on my clothes so I presumed fashion wise I was doing okay. I was not. My now wife hated that I wore rugby shorts and singlets everywhere. That I only had formalwear and suits, and one pair of jeans. So she started filling out my wardrobe. Tangelo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 08:55 PM |
| 2 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?time with family This I found is a very common factor; tight knit family. For instance I have a bigger family. As a result we’re always together. So babysitting isn’t an issue. Moving. Employment. Sense of belonging. We have birthdays/weddings/anniversaries/gatherings pretty much every weekend. So most weekends it’s a party not just for the adults but all the kids too. For me, it was a key factor right after attraction and compatibility. My wife is beloved by her sister and brothers. We are both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 08:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I’m conflicted on whether to get therapy Confronting oneself is an extremely painful and hard experience. It is also objectively one of the most liberating processes one can undertake. Your post speaks of jadedness. Of limitation. Of the least of what you currently are. Yet nothing of what you aspire to be. Therapy. Counselling. Faith. Are all just tools to towards building the type of life you want to lead. You are not confused. You just don’t want to change. Make a plan. Then execute. It is th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 07:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵way lower than I would’ve guessed I might be totally wrong. The black figure of crime too obscures accuracy too. Though on the balance of probabilities I’d err on the side of what is more probable. That there is only a handful of people stupid enough to risk their livelihoods and liberty. Yet I again I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is extremely dangerousthat’s not nuanced and it lacks adequate explanation The issue is nuance is only beneficial when it provides objective context. e.g. “Did you consent to going to his place?” “Did you consent to going to bed?” “At any point during coitus did you say stop?” “Say no?” Objective ‘nuance’ that aids credibility. As opposed to a catchy slogan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 10:20 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵useless to listen to women Whilst not useless to listen, watching for the commonalities in the actions of most women? Is far more useful. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:56 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵abandoned bank monkey I saw a video of a chimp eating the babies of a defeated rival. Live. For all our civility we are yet still savage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is extremely dangerouswomen need to be more articulate Direct. Here or in general; if one cannot simplify their point right down to the base facts? No amount of articulation will aid their argument. For instance if Feminism is the empowerment of women towards equality, that is the primary context in which all discourse is framed. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.one big headache I look at it the other way; with curiosity. For instance how fundamental is sex to a healthy relationship? If it has no bearing, then men’s desire for it to feel ‘loved’ is irrelevant. If it is fundamental, then to what extent? It kills relationships? Destroys love? Or perhaps it is a boiling frog factor. Where the temperature keeps rising and rising, until one or both parties get burnt. I find it fascinating, because asking these questions helps me clarify my own perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:37 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵spend their free time here Have you seen some of the comments here? It is not only hilarious, but much too entertaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Whilst sad two individual who cannot or choose not to acquire sufficient self awareness, should not be having kids together. That poor baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:29 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵go to the comments I rarely go to the comments and when I have it’s for links to stuff. People sticking their business right out there is no business of mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:20 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hope you’re doing okay and getting the rest you need. Take care! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:18 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What percentage This is just a guess but I’d say less than 1%. The key is perspective. For instance how many corrections officers would there be in The UK? Let’s say 20,000. How many of those officers would make similarly poor decisions? 1,000 of them? 2,000? Though possible, it is highly improbable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:16 PM |
| -1 | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.”Choose better” and “watch what they do The luxury of choice sets up a dilemma; if a woman matches with a man who is attractive enough and wants to make him wait? He is not going to be bothered by it. Conversely if she sleeps with him, she is still subject to his continuing on the relationship in any context. Presumably an undesirable outcome too. Women have the right to choose either way. This however does not negate the dilemma of that choice. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations?interfere with basic functioning This is the key; objectively outcomes supersede accommodations. This is primarily in the private sector, but if an individual cannot perform ultimately they don’t last long. If basic functioning is compromised, then presumably so too is one’s higher functioning. Which is rarely profitable. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 02:17 AM |
| -1 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.if she doesn’t sleep with you on the first date she’s not into you Unfortunately it is a lose-lose for women. For instance if a man is attractive enough and a woman wants to make him ‘wait’? That is not going to bother him. Conversely if she sleeps with him, she is still subject to his desire to continue on the relationship in any context. Which I would imagine is not an ideal outcome for most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How Can We Hold Space for Male Victims of Violence While Acknowledging Women’s Safety Concerns in Dating?Okay. Let’s say I agree. A victim is st an advance age, with trauma stemming from experiences decades past. Does that then mean there is no possibility of rehabilitation? If not, what is the outcome? Medicate the symptoms away? That vet resigned to being a perpetual victim? Conversely if there is a possibility of rehabilitation, what does the process of returning that vet back to or as close to full function entail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How Can We Hold Space for Male Victims of Violence While Acknowledging Women’s Safety Concerns in Dating?some never resolve at all This is a good point. What is an example of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How Can We Hold Space for Male Victims of Violence While Acknowledging Women’s Safety Concerns in Dating?Hold Space for Male Victims Genuine question; why? At what point is one no longer a victim? Objectively can one reconcile their trauma sufficiently that they no longer identify as a victim? Or is that impossible? Once one experiences trauma, are they are perpetually a victim? If not, what is the difference between a victim and someone who is no longer a victim? I’m all for supporting those who suffer, but to what end? Holding space is only beneficial if it is in pursuit of an individual no longe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 08:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 12:07 PM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeOkay then. At the very least, I appreciate the honesty my guy hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 03:06 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeOkay. Then what is your point? Life is life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:20 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeOkay. Let’s see if we can simplify your point further. Presumably your point is life is not designed, and this fact makes the randomness that occurs in life a defining factor. Is that an accurate summary of your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:08 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeClueless Okay. Let’s recap; Your point was life is not designed. My point was agreeing with you. Life is not designed. We through our agency ‘design’ our lives and subsequent outcomes. That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:00 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeits useless comment Yet you agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:55 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeit is perfectly reasonable Then why not just agree? Instead, you chose to call my comment an ‘irrelevant tangent’. Then, call it useless. Which to me, makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:50 AM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeMy friend, if you think debating your point useless? That is fine. Thank you though. For the attempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:44 AM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeOkay. Let’s pull it apart and see where you and are disagree? You stated life is not ‘designed’. I agreed. That one’s life by default is not designed, and that instead one must exercise their agency to ‘design’ and attain the life they desire. That reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 12:45 AM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeentirely irrelevant How so? The existence of ‘a bar’ by default establishes a parameter by which an individual can view the world. For instance below ‘the bar’ or above it. Is that not a direct use of one’s agency? Hence, by their own ‘design’ one views the world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.if the differential between the sexes were nullified I agree with this take. I made a similar point above; objectively it is reasonable that for most normal women, sex is not overly difficult to acquire. Conversely for most normal men? It is somewhat more difficult to attain. Hence the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 10:50 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeLife was not designed Agreed. It is designed. By you. Objectively, whilst some factors are immutable there also a ton of factors that are. Hence the importance of agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 10:39 PM |
| 0 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.worth less as a person Whilst morally a noble ideal, objectively all lives differ in value. For instance how hard is it for an average woman to have sex? It is reasonable that for most normal women, sex is not overly difficult to acquire. Conversely for a normal man? Again, reasonable to conclude sex is somewhat more difficult to acquire. Hence the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 08:48 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I need a nap My youngest just started school, so I no longer have a ‘day nap’ buddy. Which whilst sad does means I do get my king bed back to myself hehe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 07:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Losing the weight First, good work almost 150lbs. That is over a 1/3 of who you used to be! A ton of people will try to diminish you as a person, do not be one of them. Second, you self aware enough to change. Not want. Not hope. Actually change. As you’ve already achieved so much. You’ve done a fantastic job so far. Keep being kind to yourself, and keep going. You’re killing it! Godspeed and good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 07:44 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Happy Lunar New Year y’all! Wishing good fortune to you all! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 07:35 PM |
| 2 | WDYT about S.I.G.N. language? (Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right)I came across the viewpoint via Kevin Samuels, because I never paid much attention to it previously. As my process in viewing most things is to simplify everything down to the root cause. So rarely noticed S.I.G.N. language because my goal is always to simplify down to base fact. I suspect people who use that kind of language have issues. I’m not perfect, but I know myself well enough not to react emotionally because it is a waste of effort. It is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:06 PM |
| 2 | WDYT about S.I.G.N. language? (Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right)Rest in Power K.S.! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:00 PM |
| 1 | If you want kids, why?Love that quote! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 01:55 PM |
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