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Logisticsbigmanpav/r/seduction04/06/21 01:48 PM
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Escalation & Calibrationbigmanpav/r/seduction04/08/21 09:17 AM
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When making the date plans, I say let's meet here (general area) and this time. Then on the day of the date, I give a precise location. For example, in my city, the metro stops have multiple exits. So I first say let's meet at Main Street metro station. Then on the day, I say let's meet at exit #2. That press 2 to cancel is stupid because it gives them the option to cancel. Just assume the date is happening
/r/seduction26/09/24 01:40 PM
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The older I get, the more I realize I'm really just looking for peace. You don't get peace when you're chasing a girl that everyone else wants too
/r/seduction12/08/24 06:04 PM
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Just don't text for 1-2 weeks. See if she reaches out first. If she does, set a date
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:59 PM
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Looking for attention and validation
/r/seduction16/04/24 12:56 PM
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Good advice. How about if you didn't sleep together? I recently had my 3rd date with a cool girl and she came over after dinner but we only made out. She said she has to wake up early for church the next day. I think she's still using dating apps, but I wanna see her when she's back in town in 2 weeks. I have 2 other girls I'm sleeping with, but I want this one the most. I am thinking to just not text until a few days before we could meet and just set up a date
/r/seduction31/01/24 08:31 PM
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There are intelligent people everywhere. I found some smart girls on dating apps and invited them to intellectual first dates such as a museum. Otherwise, go to lectures or seminars and chat with people before and after the event, ask your smart friends if they know any single girls that you could meet
/r/seduction28/01/24 07:59 PM
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Excellent advice! For 8, agreed to never take it personally but if there was a tragedy in her life, she would tell you. Better to just not expect much at the start of dating and be fine if she disappears from your life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:24 AM
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My sister is the best wingwoman. She's beautiful, so when the two of us go for a walk she gets attention from men and women. I have had some of my best approaches going up to a girl after she saw me walk by with my sister
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:54 PM
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You invite girls over then say most girls won't have sex on the first date? Not really strategic advice. Better to have a short low effort date that lasts no more than 2.5 hours, like drinks, coffee, ice cream, bubble tea. Then invite her over for a second meeting
/r/seduction21/05/23 04:34 PM
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How is getting a passport and going abroad paying for sex? Because you have to buy a flight ticket? So if I pay for a bus ride to a date am I also paying for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:33 PM
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Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching. I found where the quote is from (originally in Chinese): Those who were good at being noble in antiquity Were without doubt subtle and profound, mysterious and penetratingly wise. So deep that they cannot be known. ... For this reason we praise them in the following way: Hesitant were they! Like someone crossing a river in winter. Cautious were they! Like someone wary of his four neighbors. Deferential were they! Like guests. Accommodating were they! Like melting ice. Nat…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/23 01:29 PM
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I'm glad you had those experiences with respectful gentlemen. Keep seeking those and maybe you can spot them before they spot you. And tell your girlfriends how to spot them or be receptive to their approaches too!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:29 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you're saying. But I wouldn't blame dating apps for the lack of men approaching you. Young men get bombarded with messages that women don't want to be bothered, harassed or catcalled. They get messages that women don't owe men anything, that patriarchy should be destroyed, that women don't need men, etc I'm not saying that these messages specifically say men shouldn't approach women, but it creates an atmosphere where men are generally less confident about their prospe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:23 PM
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I'm 186 cm and I prefer taller than 165 cm. I don't mind if a girl is taller than me. It's actually kind of hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:02 AM
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Bless you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:52 PM
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You just say the two can't exist at the same time without explaining why 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:52 AM
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Actually not a way to look at it. Most people I know who slept around a lot either have an STI our had an unwanted pregnancy scare. But this is still a " it could be worse" way of thinking
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:15 AM
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Stop body shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:57 PM
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I also considered this, but based on OP's experiences this doesn't always seem to be the case
/r/seduction29/07/22 09:45 AM
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I like Joe Rogan for his interviews, not really a fan of Jordan Peterson, and don't really know the others. Do you have any examples of how their beliefs are harmful? Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:10 PM
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It's okay. Forgive yourself. It happens to us all. But remember the regret so it doesn't happen again and so it's a lesson rather than a habit
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:14 PM
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Dutch women are cold, but Amsterdam is swarming with tourists. Go for them!
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:36 AM
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I've gathered that. Thank you, I agree. But what if 99% of the people I attract seem to be like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:31 PM
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Taking girls out on nice thoughtful dates, remembering details about them (like asking how their family is if someone got sick), communicating directly without playing games. Now when I don't do this and just invite girls over, don't ask or care about their lives outside of our sexual relations, I notice they are much more interested and want to see me more. It's a sad realization. What do you think about all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:38 AM
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It's very difficult to have this mindset. I used to be white pilled like this when I was younger. But when I try to be compassionate, I get played over and over again. I get used, ghosted or let down. But when I act uninterested, like an asshole and like I don't care about the girl I'm dating, she will chase me and treat me well. It's unhealthy, but it works. It's really frustrating because I don't like abusing or manipulating girls I really like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:49 PM
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I usually just go for it, but if I'm unsure I like to flirtingly ask "Would you slap me if I kissed you right now?" and her answer (sarcastic or not) tells me everything.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:47 PM
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It's not common at all to have loads of sex. Check out these studies: New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/nu0204/new_data_from_the_telegraph_indicate_that_levels/
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:41 AM
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Yeah sounds like you're not in a good environment/city for online dating. Just go to where you'd want to meet girls who also like those things. For me, I like meeting girls in parks, museums, botanical gardens, galleries, beaches, and other cultural and nature places. Good luck!
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:05 AM
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Definitely look for dates in other places. Any decent looking girl will have hundreds of matches. They might have a nice date with you but many of them get this mindset of wondering what else is out there, forgetting about you and moving on. Look into cold approach (you would do well since you are definitely good looking if 75 girls agree to dates with you and kiss you on the first meet), growing your social circle, getting new social hobbies
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:53 AM
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I have a similar issue, but I think it's an issue related to showing needy or desperate behavior. It's not a physical attraction thing as they met you and wanted to go out again, but it could be a vibe you may be giving off. A second date is a lot of pressure. See what you can do to turn this pressure down. I'm struggling with this myself, but sometimes it helps to date multiple girls (even on the same night), make a list of your ideal qualities in a partner and notice that these girls aren't pe…
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:55 PM
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I agree with OP. Work on the alcohol issue. I find I have the opposite. I am less coordinated and decisive under the influence. Drinking is fun with the boys but not when sarging
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:49 AM
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I'll just say cold approach is not useless, but you'll face a lot of challenges and rejections until you get the hang of it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:07 AM
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Rejection from a cold approach is fine for me, but it feels bad when we go on a date and she turns down a kiss or writes after "sorry I wasn't feeling it" or something like that. How do you deal with rejection after dates?
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:04 PM
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Good point! Notice how the new president of South Korea ran on an explicitly anti-feminist platform. We may see similar political reactionary movements in the west if this goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:32 AM
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Nothing wrong with them, but it takes a certain dating/seduction skill level to turn it into a successful date. So OP should avoid them until he gets better
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:05 PM
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Don't go on walks. Invite to a cafe or bar near your place and invite them home afterwards or at least kiss and set a second date at home
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:40 AM
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Then you brought this upon yourself. It's ok. Move on and learn from this experience
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:40 AM
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Learn a lesson that this sort of thing happens when you want a break with a girl. If your "friend" knew you were dating this girl, I would say he's no real friend of yours. And of course move on from this girl. Plenty of fish
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:35 AM
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How would you describe how your dates usually go? Like from the meet to ending the night. When you have dates every night of the week like that, do you go to different places or all at the same spot? Any experience with inviting girls on the app straight over or going right over to their place, without meeting in public first?
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:51 AM
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I'm in a similar situation. I've decided to start talking to more girls, but not to burn bridges
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:25 AM
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They don't find you attractive, most likely
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:48 AM
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Very common. Maybe I'm wrong, but girls seem to go out to bars and clubs to enjoy the time with their friends rather than meet guys. They can just go on dating apps if they want to hook up. That's why it's better to meet girls in other places like museums, book stores, gardens, beaches, parks, etc
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:15 PM
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In that case it's polite to write "sorry I don't see our relationship going anywhere. I wish you all the best" so she won't be a ghost herself in the future
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:13 PM
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Very wise advice here
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:08 PM
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Great post. Tell us more about the running date. Seems like it'll be hard to talk on such a date, and you're still getting to know her after a 3-4 hour first date. I prefer a museum, botanic garden, or something like an aquarium followed by drinks. And I think sex can happen on any date and lead to a relationship.
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:30 AM
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3/50 is a good rate but you would indeed do better with black girls! Go for it and update us. A smallish white town doesn't sound the best place for pickup anyway
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:31 AM
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It's not a turn off, probably just going to places with shy men
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:08 PM
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Just be upfront with him what you're looking for. Some people feel very lonely and sad about empty hookups. Maybe he's not emotionally ready for casual sex
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:45 PM
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Not sure. In my experience, saying less and just listening rather than saying something polarizing can be more effective in attracting women
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:35 PM
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If you don't know her relationship status, it's not a bad way to find out. I was chatting with girls on dating apps last night who were saying they're indoors with wine and chocolate :)
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:23 AM
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They're probably in serious relationships or married
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:25 PM
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Show this to someone next time they say TRP is toxic or woman-hating. Very relatable post! Thanks OP
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 06:34 AM
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Can you explain how you went about doing this? When hooking up with a girl, she would notice that I went fishing in the trash for the condom
/r/seduction06/10/21 08:31 AM
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Very sad. Suicide isn't a solution to a problem. It just takes your problem and puts it on your loved ones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:26 AM
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This would provoke a fight. Don't say this
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:24 AM
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The good news is that you learned from your mistake and will be ready for the next one. We've all been there.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 08:18 AM
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If she left you on read, just smile and wave when you see her. If she might be interested, then you can approach and speak with her
/r/seduction17/09/21 08:14 AM
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You never know. Just go with your gut. I've had good short term flings after sex on the first date, I've pushed girls I was really into away because I escalated too fast,l before she was comfortable, and I've had solid results from second date sex. Just learn from your experiences and get back up for the next opportunity
/r/seduction17/09/21 08:07 AM
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Just introduce yourself and ask her out like others have said. The only difference from any other interaction is that she is older than you, so be ready to respond to her shit tests about age. Have some good witty replies, like "Oh I'm actually 100 years old, I'm a vampire." You want her to think that she can have fun with you and it's no big deal that there's an age gap. But be prepared that she may not be interested at all. Most women prefer older guys
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:57 AM
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25M and I'm high status but I'm a foreigner abroad so I have a language barrier which sometimes helps but often hurts. I don't have nerves, women often compliment me on my boldness. I wouldn't consider my success rate low. I only go for girls who are super attractive to me, which often have boyfriends or are picky themselves. I often get numbers from girls but choose not to go out with them because of logistics or I change my mind. How about you? What's your experience been like?
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:19 PM
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Usually 2-5, depending on the weather, my mood, and time spent outside
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:26 PM
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Yes. In lockdown, everything closes when it gets dark. Do you think my success rate is good? I live in a town or 500,000 people. I'm moving to a bigger city soon so I hope to get my numbers up
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:20 AM
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Started at the beginning of this year. Probably around 150 approaches, got about 30 numbers, went out with 7 of those, and hooked up or had multiple dates with 3 of them. It's not the best success rate, but ever since my dating app matches completely dried up and I'm working from home, it's the best way to meet new women. Dating sure is tough in 2021
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:05 AM
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Do you have any advice for forgiving yourself? I also struggle with this. Thanks
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:47 AM
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Truth! And certainly better than online dating for most men!
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:39 PM
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I've noticed a cold approach with "hey you're pretty/cute" only works some of the time, when I'm getting signals from her. Better to go with "hey I like your style" or "you looked interesting"
/r/seduction19/08/21 07:37 PM
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Yes but how do you pull yourself away when you still want to be with her. Sunk costs and a distorted attraction to those who reject us prevent us from just moving on when a girl isn't investing/following my lead.
/r/seduction15/08/21 01:04 PM
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Do you have advice for reattracting a girl after you were pushy/needy/aggressive. I know it's good to move on to new girls, but what if theres still a chance?
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:28 AM
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If you still think there's a chance, give her a call and have a conversation for no longer than 10 minutes. Try to see if you're wasting your time and if you need to move on. It doesn't hurt to just call and see
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:27 AM
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Did you mix up men and women in your post? To attract men, beauty and fertility are important so women are most attractive to them between 18 and 30. For women, status power and wealth are important so men are most attractive between 27 and 45. These are just rough numbers, nothin scientific
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:46 AM
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Thanks! She doesn't want anything casual. She wants to take things slow, and I'm guessing she only has sex in relationships. She knows my needs and can tell I like her. And I'm willing to wait a little until she's comfortable to have sex, but I don't know if I should respect the boundaries she told me about (with the risk that I may emasculate myself doing this) or just continue escalating (with the risk that she will think I don't listen to her and not the right guy for her)
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:34 AM
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You'll have success in major cities like Berlin and London but elsewhere it can be harder, especially if you don't speak the local language
/r/seduction28/07/21 06:37 AM
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Good point. But imagine a man walks by the most beautiful woman who's exactly his type and she's in line for a club. That man better go approach that woman if there's no other chance
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:58 PM
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"Let me tell you/I'll tell you all about that over a drink/coffee/pizza"
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:47 AM
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Game women in line
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:43 AM
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Check out Honest Signalz on YouTube. I think he has some Prague videos
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:41 AM
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Go to Berlin for the foreigners or leave. German women indeed suck
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:02 PM
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Depends on the size of the city. If you only wish English you'll do well in Berlin, but in other cities it seems good to speak German. Germans are generally cold to strangers, and dating apps are popular. Good luck
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:28 AM
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Congrats on meeting your goals! I think relationship compatibility is all a numbers game, but you can try approaching girls in places you would want to meet your partner. Maybe at a book store, museum, or library if you're into intelligent women. Maybe at concerts, music stores, or workshops if you're into creative women.
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:36 AM
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Take baby steps. Say hi but don't have a conversation with 5 girls. Then give yourself permission to initiate conversations
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:32 PM
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Sounds like you don't want to go running with her, so don't go
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:50 AM
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Spot-on wisdom from cockandbaltorture
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:06 AM
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Thanks! I needed this advice
/r/seduction05/06/21 04:55 PM
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Thanks! Yup I think I should just go alone, stay flirty, but just get to know them both and see at the end who shows more interest. It's hard to tell from a 5 min cold approach conversation...
/r/seduction05/06/21 11:25 AM
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One of them now replied and she says she wants to get a drink but together with the other girl! This is my first time something like this happened. Do I go alone, insist on just the two of us, or try to bring a friend?
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:21 AM
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One of them now replied and she says she wants to get a drink but together with the other girl! This is my first time something like this happened. Do I go alone, insist on just the two of us or try to bring a friend?
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:16 AM
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Thanks for the advice! The one I prefer is just better looking, more my type.
/r/seduction04/06/21 03:30 PM
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Well done! Just curious, how many people live in your city? I go out for a few hours when I'm approaching and don't ever approach more than 5 girls I'm interested in. In a town of 500,000
/r/seduction30/05/21 01:46 PM
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Reason #69 to not mess around with women that got kids
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 03:18 PM
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Travel and read more. The world is bigger than you think. There are women out there who get it and know the risks of sleeping around too much. Or don't and settle with those women you're talking about and leave the good ones for us
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:28 AM
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Thank you for this. I hadn't thought of it this way. Very rarely, women will take offense when I approach them. Then I notice the same girl on tinder. I wish I had the opportunities to easily meet potential partners like she has but alas cold approach is my best option
/r/seduction23/05/21 09:00 AM
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Great post!!! Very motivating and realistic. Just my two cents: I've noticed I get zero matches with girls I'd like to go out with. I live in a college town of about 500,000 people and when I walk around the university campus I recognize a lot of women from dating apps! Sometimes they're on their own, sometimes with friends, sometimes with guys on dates! I know this probably means I use the apps too much, but I've actually used it as a tool for my day game. I have approached several women I reco…
/r/seduction23/05/21 08:54 AM
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Well done to you on not using social media or dating apps. A lot of good guys will appreciate that and admire that you want to meet the old fashioned way. I'd recommend hanging out at places where you'd find guys you want to meet. Museums, book stores, coffee shops, galleries, farmers markets, whatever it is for you... And don't feel shy to go up to an attractive guy and introduce yourself! The right guy will love it and it's super romantic
/r/seduction22/05/21 08:17 AM
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Haha doesn't help if you're eating ass. But good advice otherwise!
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:43 AM
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These comments are hilarious. It's your sister bro! If you have a good relationship with her it's way better than if you're in conflict. Just us emotional intelligence, be humble and figure it out without ego. Then you can start dating her friends and having her a wing woman.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:41 AM
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If you truly have no options to meet people besides online dating, then save your energy for something productive and purposeful
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:36 AM
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Don't forget to tell hungry people that steak isn't that great
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:01 AM
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This. Every "problem" is an opportunity. Fuckboy label=more sex
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:21 PM
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This is a problem for that guy. He's 24!!!! and thinks he has to settle so young. It's his fault for not considering moving. There are countries like Georgia (in the Caucasus) that have easy 365 day visas for Americans
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:09 PM
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Definitely agree with you, but it's not to the extremes that our friend from Idaho is experiencing
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:07 PM
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That sucks. You should move out. Everything you talked about is too extreme. Hello from Europe where I'm still able to date young ladies and no pressure to settle
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:54 AM
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How do you feel when you look at a penis?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:31 AM
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Anywhere outside. Dating apps suck
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:09 PM
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Depends on the country and ethnic group. Black people in America are more red pilled on average, and Arab men have a more red pilled view than other countries
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:32 AM
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Yup, it's happened to me. She may not be in the mood, maybe she's hung up on her ex, maybe she just got out of a toxic relationship. You never know
/r/seduction08/05/21 09:36 AM
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Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, Bill Gates, and Jeff Bezos have all been divorced. We al get rejected
/r/seduction08/05/21 09:33 AM
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It all depends on you, her, the time, manner, and place. I usually approach girls who are on their own, not in a rush to go somewhere, not busy (like at work), and not with headphones/earphones on. It may filter out a lot of great girls, but my success rate is much higher than just asking any cute girl. Good luck!
/r/seduction07/05/21 01:49 PM
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Don't give her a second chance if you don't usually do that
/r/askTRP07/05/21 06:18 AM
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Never shit where you eat! Don't go out with those girls, but consider that you'll get a good reputation among their hot friends in other degree programs. Maybe if you see them in the cafe, you can say hi and flirt with their friends (ask what they're studying)
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:11 AM
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I also prefer going out solo, and I agree that I'd rather not run into a girl whose number I already got. The only thing is, I haven't figured out how to interrupt groups or pairs of girls. This would probably be easier with a wing. What do you think about going out to cold approach in bad weather? All of my success has been on sunny and hot days. I went out on a cloudy and cool day yesterday and I didn't see a single girl I wanted to speak to in 2 hours! It was all older folks and busy looking …
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:07 AM
1

Look up Honest Signalz on youtube: bald average looking dude killing it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:55 PM
1

Convert to Islam
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:50 AM
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Try NoFap, join a sport, homegym or homeworkout. You need to get your testosterone up
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:26 AM
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But women have way more options and can reject men in an instant on dating apps. In a bar, women don't often approach men and if they're approached they are usually polite and will have a conversation. Dating apps don't even give most men the chance to say hi (zero matches). Am I being too extreme when I say I would never be exclusive with a girl who uses/used apps? Social media is a notch below apps when it comes to women's options, and then there are bars/clubs below that. But I do agree with …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 09:36 AM
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Am I being too extreme in saying I would never be exclusive with a woman who uses or has used dating apps? Maybe I'm still in the anger stage, but I have female friends and I've seen their apps and it's depressing. I've had fun with girls from apps, but as soon as my frame slips up a little, they drop me and are on to the next man. Whereas if I meet a girl from cold approach, my frame is stronger and the girl sticks around longer since she remembers my confidence when I approached.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 09:33 AM
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Good job! What worked for me was watching cold approach videos like Honest Signalz and Social Animal - check them out on youtube
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:21 AM
1

Just tell her what you want. DON'T say the thing about both: it shows you're unsure. Take the lead and do what you want
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:30 AM
2

Maybe share some tips - how'd you fuck 5 girls in 2 days?
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:26 AM
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Your opening message is good, same as mine actually. I find a mix of serious and joking messages are good. Takes way more messages than online dating to number close, but it's not impossible. It helps to have things in common
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:15 AM
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Remember that we're living through a pandemic which has absolutely fucked all of our social lives. I started coming to reddit to share and hear advice on navigating dating during such a weird time in history. How can girls just come to you naturally if you're stuck at home due to lockdown? This subreddit has been very helpful for answering such questions
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:03 AM
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Your relationship with her is over. Maybe angle for a threesome on your way out
/r/seduction18/04/21 12:24 PM
0

Depends on how close you are. If you can see your friend getting angry, don't tell him
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:16 AM
-4

Excellent list
/r/seduction17/04/21 06:22 AM
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Tell him to read the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:52 AM
7

This. If you don't want to break up and risk her going crazy on you (like if she knows where you live) start acting emotional and needy and it'll be "her idea" to break up with you
/r/askTRP14/04/21 08:30 AM
2

Ignore, change topic, act aloof. I agree with other comments in this thread. As soon as you open up, she will start thinking of leaving. Happened twice to me before I learned
/r/askTRP14/04/21 08:29 AM
7

Approaching gives me better results than dating apps and social circle dating doesn't really exist in covid
/r/seduction11/04/21 04:54 PM
1

Sounds like you don't want to get into a LTR with her. Check out The Talk in the sidebar. Don't worry, plates break
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:10 AM
21

Wear a condom if you're still gonna hit it
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:42 AM
1

Better results than online dating
/r/seduction23/03/21 03:30 PM
3

Criminally underrated facts right here
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 04:58 PM
4

Careful of the baby trap
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:51 PM
0

When my online dating app matches went down to zero, I started DMing on instagram and lemme tell you I went from 0% success on tinder/bumble to 1% success on insta. So I managed to get a few dates but it's much more work and time spent, but it's worth it if you're not getting anything via other methods
/r/seduction16/03/21 01:35 PM
5

You're great looking and tall. Get into cold approach. My self esteem took a hit after all my matches dried up on swiping apps and cold approach really worked for me
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:37 AM
3

Do you really wanna be dating someone who does this to you?
/r/seduction16/03/21 10:10 AM
2

Lol finish your PhD first then think about it. Date students outside of your department
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:33 AM
4

You did the right thing. Don't do a stupid thing like start a fight for a girl. That's a quick way to get hurt, arrested or killed.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:38 PM
16

If she's a plate, you shouldn't worry. U should have just laughed it off. But this is a red flag that she's not LTR material
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:29 AM
3

Forget the girl, get in touch with the no-arm crackhead and ask him what his secret is. Probably laid some good pipe
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:37 AM
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