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These are not rights for anyone. Some people are well spoken / have charisma, some don't.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 04:29 PM
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...homelessness
/r/MensRights20/03/26 03:33 PM
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can't say assault without ass! that would be her-ass-mint
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/26 10:43 AM
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not ppd
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/26 11:51 PM
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Judge Paul Curran called her actions 'despicable' and an 'embarrassment to nurses everywhere,' People reported. He also described the former medic's remorse as being 'a mile wide and an inch deep.'
/r/MensRights04/03/26 02:40 AM
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meh, her hormones are wacky and like you said she could be sore or uncomfortable having regular sex. hell, sometimes I'm lazy and would prefer to rub one out instead of warming up the wife. we fuck like 3-4x per week which is fine for me. as with most things, it really comes down to this. you need to figure out what YOU want to do and do that. if you want more fuck and know her schedule, maybe try to initiate during that time like after she puts the kid down or whatever. you could even suggest i…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/26 02:14 PM
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also women are not forced to register selective service..
/r/MensRights22/11/25 11:39 AM
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Dude, you're literally in the wrong subreddit. That said, dating apps are a total shit show for guys. Learn to meet women IRL.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/25 02:00 PM
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From the article in case you don't want to click: Helen Andrews’s essay “The Great Feminization” reached my feed on the same day that photos spread of the East Wing of the White House—the space traditionally reserved for the first lady and her staff—reduced to rubble. The spectacle was almost too on the nose: Here was the nexus of women’s (limited) history within the executive branch, once home to Jacqueline Kennedy’s Rose Garden and Laura Bush’s restored movie theater, now totally demolished. D…
/r/MensRights06/11/25 02:56 PM
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I bet 75% are bots
/r/MensRights23/10/25 06:27 PM
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yeah, and there is a sub for that
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/25 10:46 PM
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And who is taking your money? Seems like high taxes takes the biggest dent. Lets start there with giving money and power back to the people. These trillion dollar deficits are absurd.
/r/MensRights17/08/25 07:39 PM
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sounds like they're tryin a legitimize gold digging and/or sugar relationships
/r/MensRights17/08/25 05:36 PM
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because they went for someone out of their league who was willing to have sex but not have a relationship with them
/r/MensRights24/07/25 01:48 AM
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ok lets do the same thing for breast size now
/r/MensRights29/04/25 08:07 PM
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uh, she is cleaning it His mattress and sheets are stained and I am working to get them out.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 02:03 PM
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that's a different issue
/r/MensRights23/03/25 12:18 PM
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yes, they gave permission when they signed up for the military edit: to clarify, they signed away their own rights so that the military makes all decisions for them
/r/MensRights23/03/25 12:46 AM
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They have gynecological exams on there too, not sure this is a men's issue.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 10:26 PM
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you're just a pig away from a south park episode
/r/MensRights01/02/25 12:53 PM
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bad people often project their own evil thoughts and behavior onto others. for example, liars are the first to call other people liars because it's how they themselves are. if a group of women hate men, it's probably because they think men think/act just like them. they even come up with words for it like misogyny. I even think many women think/feel oppressed by men because they themselves subconsciously want to be oppressors. that saying "every accusation is a confession" is becoming more and m…
/r/MensRights30/01/25 11:15 AM
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skulls of men anus her water tha fuq?
/r/MensRights29/01/25 09:40 AM
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ok how about accidental diarrhea?
/r/MensRights23/11/24 01:13 AM
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reddit is so successful because it's so successful bots make a bunch of stuff you love to read and they make stuff you hate to read.. either way you are reading it and engaging and generating the site some ad revenue other sites try to be like reddit but they don't have enough bots and soon become lifeless
/r/MensRights07/11/24 11:35 PM
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She's probably bluffing but she could falsely report you for some crime. Keep a record all texts and communications with her (don't delete them) because at least she admits that she might try that. If you are really concerned I would consider talking to a lawyer.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 01:02 PM
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so you eat shit sandwiches for breakfast? I can jump to silly conclusions too!
/r/MensRights13/09/24 01:24 PM
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you are also misusing the term. pedophilia is sexual interest in prepubescent children. 17 years old is not prepubescent.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 12:54 PM
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Why are you asking us? How do you feel about it?
/r/askMRP12/08/24 09:55 PM
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be a woman does have positive connotations, women are supposed to be feminine and pretty, they are the fairer sex. "be a man and start doing better" might be compared to "be a woman and stop being fat and ugly.. woman up and be pretty!"
/r/MensRights03/08/24 12:17 PM
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yeah drugs like air and food and water and shelter
/r/MensRights26/07/24 12:55 PM
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good but why no rows and pulldowns?
/r/askMRP22/07/24 07:35 PM
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That's why I said "hardly a thing". Do dangerous misogynists exist? yes, but they are like 1 in one hundred million or something. Women have a better chance of being hit by lightning than attacked because of misogyny. Now, here's an idea I just had. How many men that were murdered by women are misandrist? Perhaps most woman's fear of misogynists is simple projection?
/r/MensRights30/06/24 07:41 PM
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FFS if she's complaining about not cumming then she wants CUMFORT not comfort!
/r/askMRP28/06/24 02:52 PM
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Misogyny is hardly a thing. It's something that was made up so that a victim narrative can be pushed in an attempt to get more resources for their group. I don't know any man that hates women. I've seen a few online but I think they are few and far between and I've never seen any violent ones, they all just whine and sulk and go their own way. If a man kills a woman, it's predominately not because misogyny, it's because he hates that woman.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 11:40 AM
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anger phase... next will be denial, bargaining, depression and acceptance
/r/PussyPassDenied19/06/24 12:32 AM
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meh.. if there is room to share a walkway I will give someone half the room. no reason to be rude about it. but yeah I hate it when idiots think they should take up the whole path, but I won't try to crash into them. when they get close enough I just stop and they can walk to the side. I guess don't be an asshole but don't be a pushover either. Find the middle ground is best.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/24 08:33 PM
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I have a family member that works for the news. She says their primary demographic is middle aged women so of course they will pander to their primary demographic.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 01:58 PM
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projecting much?
/r/MensRights25/03/24 12:27 AM
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This guy explains it pretty well https://therationalmale.com/tag/shit-tests/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:42 PM
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You have no understanding of women my friend. She will simply think you are a controlling try-hard idiot and move on. It's better to understand their nature then to try to change their nature. I'm not saying to be spineless simp. I'm saying you need to learn to control yourself and not get upset just because she does. If your woman gets a little shitty, then take away what she craves the most, your attention and validation. If she gets too shitty, cut her out of your life. I suggest you learn a …
/r/MensRights24/03/24 07:53 PM
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Is it a competition of who can appear the least upset? also you We're the rational, logical ones, not the emotional ones. you sound like a woman
/r/MensRights24/03/24 01:05 PM
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Plot twist, this is actually OP's wife
/r/MensRights24/03/24 12:28 PM
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Check out Amused Mastery. Learn about frame. Don't be meaner, just don't play her game.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 12:23 PM
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No reason to demand an apology. If you allow yourself to get upset every time a woman gets emotional, you're going to have a bad life. Amused Mastery is a pretty old concept but it's always worked best for me. My wife can get bent all she wants and I usually just mostly ignore it and don't let it impact me. She gets over it more quickly if I don't play into it. I don't even bother to bring it up again. There's no reason to go back and demand an apology or anything, just drop it because it isn't …
/r/MensRights24/03/24 12:17 PM
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Ironic how your comment appears more emotionally charged than mine. My observations is that very few people apologize anymore. When big corporations settle a lawsuit, they admit no wrong doing but they agree to pay out millions. So I suggest to most people to be guarded in their apologies. If I accidentally bump into someone, sure I'll apologize. But if I was OP I wouldn't apologize for her getting angry over a dumb mistake. Simply acknowledge the mistake and fix it. If she wants to get bent abo…
/r/MensRights24/03/24 12:01 PM
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I think women never apologize because they feel it shows weakness. Probably a good reason for men to not apologize.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 01:13 AM
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Sounds alot like "fake it until you make it." I've always felt that discipline can be used to build habits. I suppose habits can be part of one's identity. I hated the gym at first but used discipline (and other tricks) to force myself to go. After going for a few weeks it just became a habit and I no longer have to force myself (although sometimes I have to trick myself, if I'm too tired I just tell myself I'll go half the weight today, but funny that once I'm there I end up doing the full work…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 08:27 PM
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he might be trying to avoid the reddit bot brigade radar that searches for certain key words
/r/MensRights11/03/24 12:15 PM
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don't over think it.. do whatever you want to do you could crack a joke about trying to get you into bed you could ignore you could send her a meme but seriously, don't over think it.. do whatever you want to do
/r/askMRP06/03/24 12:49 PM
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It's a nightmare. If you think this you still know nothing about frame. If my wife had a list of questions, I would find it amusing and wouldn't mind answering. I might make a few jokes, etc. but no, I wouldn't mention red pill or anything about books I've read or none of that shit. And here's my frame: If she likes the answer, great. If she doesn't then I don't give much of a shit. I'm the prize in the relationship and she's lucky as hell to have me. It sounds like you might not have much exp d…
/r/askMRP27/02/24 02:24 PM
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So are you saying that its actually good if your wife knows about the red pill No, it's not good or bad if she knows because it won't be something she gives two shits about other than perhaps using it to shit test you. So are you saying If you want to know what the last guy was saying, please re-read his last sentence about two to three thousand times or more until you actually understand why that is the important part.
/r/askMRP27/02/24 11:04 AM
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Women generally talk about how they feel about things. I haven't noticed too much abstract thought. I doubt she is going to ask you to sit down and talk about a bunch of bullet points describing a man's and woman's role in a relationship.
/r/askMRP27/02/24 10:54 AM
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nah, when it's a guy it's called dog-calling
/r/MensRights13/02/24 07:20 PM
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We might be able to agree that those serial killers that killed the prostitutes might be misogyny but more likely it's just crazy mental issues. Hell most murders besides self defense involve crazy mental issues. Do you have examples of misogyny killing anyone? (if hypothetically misogyny is even a thing)
/r/MensRights21/01/24 04:34 PM
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men kill women because of misogyny as much as women kill men for misandry. both would be pretty rare. If someone kills someone, it's usually because he/she hates that person. Not because they hate all ppl of a gender. if you think men kill women because of misogyny, then it's you who just decided/imagined the killers motivation.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 04:24 PM
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I think she is biologically a guy which is why she's trying to convince everyone she's not a guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/24 04:22 AM
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I thought it was the other way around
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/24 02:07 AM
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The Good Samaritan law will normally protect you if you get sued.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 12:15 PM
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“Suzanne Walters,” wrote National Coalition for Men president Harry Crouch, explaining why his group filed the Title IX complaint, Campus Reform reported, “is the chair of their Women Studies’ program, not some random schmuck. Her openly hateful behavior is reprehensible, disgusting and irresponsible. She should not be allowed to promote her misandry in an educational institution with impressionable minds.” The NCFM’s allegation is that Walters’ bias against men is indicative of a larger departm…
/r/MensRights12/07/23 11:25 AM
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I think many boys are circumcised for religious reasons because there are other religions that require it. Since it's hip and trendy to hate on Christians, when someone hears "religious reasons" they automatically assume it's the Christians.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 01:54 PM
1

Find your style DiCarlo Escalation Ladder or Daniel Rose Sex God Method
/r/askMRP11/05/23 01:59 AM
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everyone is selfish
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:09 PM
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This is just general good advice for men or anyone. Do you have a specific issue with this advice or are you just trying to be pedantic?
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:04 PM
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You can still like women, just like/love them for what they are and don't put them on a pedestal like most guys do. And don't allow them into a position where they can ruin your life.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 04:21 PM
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Then why in fucks name would you want to give them more money?
/r/MensRights16/02/23 11:22 AM
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dreams don't pay the bills, nobody will help you but yourself
/r/MensRights16/02/23 01:29 AM
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The government could do this also but they won't, they would rather waste 90% of the money on endless wars and weapons.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 01:25 AM
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Agreed... these people are dreaming of some kind of utopia where things are fair for everyone... I guess I felt that way too when I was a young person. Then one day reality will smack them in the face and they will realize that the government will take as much money as they can and they will squander it and not do anything whatsoever to help the little guy. Oh well, most people have to learn the hard way.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 01:23 AM
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you're just dreaming if you think that the government will actually do anything to help the common man... it's like the 60s all over again
/r/MensRights16/02/23 01:17 AM
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I don't really understand most of your examples as having to do with frame but this line seems that you somewhat agree with me. Coercive power never works in the long term My main point is that frame is not coercive power. My frame has nothing to do with you, my gf, or anyone else. My frame is my beliefs and those beliefs are not generally subject to change. So what's the point of frame without substance? It's because it is where strength begins. It comes from inside you. If you have no inner st…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 07:57 PM
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Rebel against what? The whole fucking world could tell me that grass is purple but it won't change my frame. The substance doesn't come from outside like some narrative. The substance comes from believing what you know.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 07:17 PM
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It sounds more like you are defining leadership, influence and charisma than frame. Frame is the foundation for all three and will inevitably lead to those qualities but it starts with understanding one's beliefs and not allowing outside influences to change those beliefs without due consideration.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 07:11 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with your narrative narrative here but doesn't this article/title assume erroneously that frame means controlling others? My understanding is that frame was short for frame-of-mind which translates into "how strong are my beliefs". For example, my frame is that the grass is green. If anyone in the world, no matter how important, came and told me that grass is purple, I wouldn't really listen to them because my perception is that it is green. That doesn't mean I'm going to try…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/23 05:15 PM
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meetups, volunteering, sign up for a class (art, language, cpr, whatever), starbucks, and yeah, can't hurt to say hi to someone at a store. But just like anywhere, if they are cold with their reply, don't persist.
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/23 12:15 PM
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make fun of her if she's salty.. smile and be condescending.. "awwwwww are you gwumpy? does someone need a hug?" don't let her draw you into her frame
/r/askMRP26/01/23 08:40 PM
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no, no I wouldn't, but it's not the school's fault that society is that way
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/23 01:55 PM
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I don't think rp guys posts about that? some noobs do sometimes when they come in here asking why their wife left them and stuff, is that what he means?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 02:17 PM
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men that will tell you there’s no success in a path of life ?? not sure what you're trying to say here. are you talking about mgtow or something because that is not trp
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 04:20 AM
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why do you keep talking about self respect? a top tier guy is going to respect himself more than a lesser guy. are you confused about something to do with respect and trp?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 03:58 AM
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You idolize a fairy tale. Life is not a disney movie. Can you have a happy family and wife? sure, it's possible. but it aint gonna be easy. You will have to be a top tier man to achieve it.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 02:42 AM
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That's anger phase and it's normal. But you'll come to realize RP is not about women, it's about you and becoming your best self. You need to practice with plates, not because you want to, it's because you won't have the understanding and skills to keep a good women if you can't spin plates Alot of ppl think RP is hateful towards women. Not if you're doing it right. You'll come to learn that women are who they are and we love them for what they are. For alot of guys this means taking them off th…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 02:35 AM
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Check out the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, it's a great start for someone new to escalation.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 04:48 AM
3

or how the majority of men and women were oppressed by circumstances (most people died young, men had to work hard labor to survive leaving the women to work in the home) now we are all oppressed by the elite
/r/MensRights28/10/22 10:42 AM
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"It doesn't happen to me (or several other dad's I know) so everybody else is just paranoid" pretty much I have had to deal with false accusations from my crazy ex wife when she wanted me not to have custody of my kid. Had to pay around $50k in legal fees to get my 50/50 custody. I know several guys that deal with that. Going to the park isn't like that at all.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 09:42 AM
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get the fuck out of here with that bs. who are these shills trying to push this crap.. I've been to many parks, we go 2-3 times per week and I've never had even a sideways glance. You are either quasimodo, or just read too many stories and are paranoid, or you're a troll/shill. so your kind can fuck right off. I'm sure it happens occasionally but this is not common or widespread in any way shape or form.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:02 AM
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these things are quite rare. I'm a dad of a 30 year old and an 8 year old and have never once felt like anyone thought I was a creep. Been to many playgrounds, public pools, beaches, etc and never had a problem. I've even helped little kids that were lost or got hurt right next to me or tried to run out in the parking lot and I was close enough to block them... and still, every mom smiled and was thankful I was looking out for their kids. I'm sure these bad stories we hear happen occasionally, b…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:58 AM
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this is a terrible attitude to have for men and society as a whole. I don't go out of my way to interact with other peoples kids, but if they wave/smile/talk to me I'll do the same to them because it's the normal thing to do. we are not going to change people's attitudes by running away or hiding. If you are following kids around or trying to oogle them, then yeah, you are a creepy fucker. If you are just minding your business and a kid interacts with you and you simply acknowledge it, you are n…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:52 AM
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You are "in love" with a fantasy version of her. She is NOT the woman you think she is. You need to get out of your imaginary land and come back to reality. There is no Disney "happily ever after". She has shown her true colors, all you have to do is open your eyes. It takes time, I know, I was in a very similar position once and felt just like you did. After sadness comes anger. Use that anger to make your life better. Hit the gym, take that anger out on the iron. The best revenge is building a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 11:28 AM
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ugh, it's not a movement
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 12:27 PM
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I went to a lawyer and got a prenup written up. In most states you can specify "what's I earn is mine and what she earns is hers" but some states don't follow that. the nolo site has a ebook on it that goes into pretty good detail and even shows the laws for the different states. It was a good read but in the end, the lawyer did a better job of catching contingencies.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 12:39 PM
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Might be a good opportunity to go for full custody? The court won't do anything to her without a motion. I heard about a motion to admonish or something but I'm not a lawyer.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 11:34 PM
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shit testing?
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:58 PM
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I have to work and make a living for my family. If there is something I can help with in my spare time, hmu but I don't have the energy to organize and manage an additional thing.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 10:11 AM
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If a woman is so paranoid that she can't be in the vicinity of other men, then she should probably stay home until she can get professional help.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 12:03 PM
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My worst ex, (who was worse than Amber Turd which really got me to understand redpill stuff) would start arguments and fights all the time. We had a kid together so I still need to deal with her. She rarely tries to start drama with me anymore, but for awhile I found the best responses to anything negative was to simply not take it seriously and maybe make fun of her a little. Her: Our son deserves so much better than a father like you. Me: you crack me up. Her: You didn't leave any clothes at d…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 07:12 PM
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She has contact info for him. What if she says he raped her.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:28 PM
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It's basic risk vs reward. The guy could get pissed and try to take it out on you. If I felt like I had to tell someone, I'd make sure to do it anonymously.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:26 PM
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TRP isn't a philosophy, it's just tools and advice a guy can use as needed.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:09 PM
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Nah, you just have to love them for who and what they are. Set expectations appropriately and women are great. Don't get lost in the fantasy of "true love" and all that crap.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:07 PM
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No, my point is that definitions can be wrong. NK defines itself as a democracy, therefor the NK's definition is wrong. I suppose we should also make a distinction between feminist ideology (belief in equality) and feminist organizations (political organizations that lobby for/against various rules and laws). Everyone is entitled to believe whatever they want. I also believe that women and men should be given equal opportunities. Unfortunately it's the organizations we need to look out for, beca…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/22 03:29 PM
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how is it different? point is, definitions are useless and can be lies To me, an organization is defined by it's actions, not by it's marketing campaign slogan.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/22 01:47 PM
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The definition of North Korea is Democratic People's Republic of Korea. Guess what?, they are not a democracy.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/22 01:43 PM
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This is a 13 year old boy. He needs to get his parents or trusted adult to help do this stuff. Kinda surprised that kids would need to "change for activities" anyway. Where is this?
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:18 PM
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Atta boy! Tiny, unrelated tip: I workout on vacations too, usually in the morning. Took me several trips to realize I didn't need to pack extra gym clothes except some shorts. I just wake up in the morning and throw on yesterday's tee shirt for my workout and reuse the same pair of shorts (washing them in the sink occasionally if needed).
/r/askMRP13/04/22 03:23 PM
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I can see dodging dicks figuratively but why literally? Do you not like sex? If no then wtf are you doing online dating?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 10:06 PM
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just look around https://www.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/sveb5b/i_smacked_a_womans_ass_on_the_train_and_she_got/
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 08:53 PM
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they don't suck
/r/MensRights31/01/22 12:01 AM
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and here comes the hate speach
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/22 01:43 PM
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dating sites are a cesspool
/r/MensRights31/12/21 02:33 PM
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She might have found someone else but wants a reason to blame it on you. Or she just doesn't find you attractive anymore and there isn't much you can do about that. Also, read the side bar
/r/askMRP26/12/21 11:06 PM
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replied to the wrong thread?
/r/AntiFeminists16/12/21 02:18 PM
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If I see someone about to head-on me I just stop when they get within a couple of feet. They can either crash into me or go around me. Usually they choose to go around. If they crash, it's their fault.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 11:07 PM
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They don't usually take notice until 100k subscribers. It's still small enough to fly under the radar.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/21 03:17 PM
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what he said isn't limited to America
/r/MensRights03/11/21 01:56 PM
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I think the point is that women don't date down. There will be many degree holding cat ladies in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 12:10 PM
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Make yourself into the best man you can be. Not for women, for yourself. Get healthy. Hit the gym. Healthy diet. 15% body fat. If you're having trouble with your business, yeah, get a trade. It doesn't take 4 years. Once you get your finances leveled out, you can try to restart your business on the side. Get a hobby or volunteer or even work on your business. I.E. do something on the side you are passionate about. Women want a strong man who already has a fulfilling and interesting life so make …
/r/MensRights09/10/21 05:21 PM
1

Ever see Boyz n the Hood? It's about a kid who lives with his mom but soon she can't and drops him off with his dad. His dad gives him some pretty good advice about being a man. I think sometimes we just have to sit down, squat down, or otherwise lower ourselves so we are face to face and look our kids in the eye and talk about a few things. I tell my 7 year old he has a choice in his attitude. He keeps saying he doesn't want to go back to school. I tell him he can decide to try to like school a…
/r/RedPillParenting10/08/21 02:31 AM
1

If they don't like being called out on their bullshit then they should stop dishing out a bunch of bullshit.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:12 PM
3

Wtf do mean there's no clear definition of feminism, it's literally in the Oxford dictionary Just because a term is in the dictionary doesn't mean that is what it is. Feminism is not just a belief, it's a political organization. It's actually multiple organizations. I'm not against the stated beliefs that women should have the same rights as men. I'm against the organizations that actively lobby for women to get preferential treatment. NOW actively lobbies against men to get 50/50 custody. The g…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 11:54 AM
1

What Year is This?!?!
/r/MensRights04/08/21 02:03 PM
9

She she she she she she she she she she she. I'm mad and butthurt. She she she she she she she she. Fuck man, you can't change her. You can't change the past. The only thing you can change is yourself. Read the side bar, start your plan, make yourself into someone great. Until you do, life is gonna suck. And then it will get worse and you'll be back her crying again.
/r/askMRP30/07/21 09:30 PM
4

I would file for a restraining order
/r/MensRights13/07/21 02:59 PM
2

lawyers are very expensive
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/21 12:37 PM
1

I would just reply with "haha". If this is excessive I would tease her about it. Every time she says what say what back.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:27 PM
1

what?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:25 PM
9

I know this is hard as a teen but you really need to stop giving a shit what people think. Also, don't "approach girls". Just talk to them. Talk to guys and girls and everyone. Be sociable. Make the other boys jealous that you can talk to whoever you want. In school the best way to get a girl is to be a friend first. A flirty friend. Build a little tension, then invite her to some place you're already going. Worst case you have a friend. Best case she thinks you're hot enough to get sexy with.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:22 PM
15

no srlsy your whole post is "my wife wants this and my sister wants that and my parents want this blah blah... who's frame should i be in my wife's or my sisters?" no where does it really talk about WHAT YOU WANT! He was trying to help you figure this out by asking good questions but you instantly went straight to victim mentality. Here, I'll give you the answer this time. Disregard what everyone else wants for a minute and figure out what YOU want. Then figure out the best plan to achieve that.…
/r/askMRP09/06/21 10:13 AM
0

What do? Read side bar Find a rebound girl or FTOW Next time have stronger frame and draw her into your frame instead of giving hers any merit in your life.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:52 AM
3

Look up the term fornication. It didn't mean sex outside of marriage. It's been twisted into that. During the bible times it specifically meant sex with prostitutes from the temple of the goddess Aphrodite which guys would pay to do so that the goddess would bless their crops or whatever. The Fornix was the entrance to the temple. It was more about idolatry than actual sex. Also, what was marriage back then? There wasn't any government marriage certificates. People didn't go to a church and say …
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:16 AM
3

A chick who is ovulating has a subtle smell that drives my loins wild
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:27 PM
12

I thought they had to stop being fat first
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 07:26 PM
1

You need to start out a little slower and warm her up first. Start slow and increase speed, force, and dirty talk after some minutes. Also, during ovulation she'll want harder and rougher sex. Other times she will want it less hard/rough.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:00 PM
1

because it the past it has always been with jealousy and anger hmm it's happened before? yeah these are red flags I am couple months into the RP and thinking it’s time to kick her to the curb That would be the easy and probably best solution. One thing I notice about this post is it's all about her. You shouldn't be in a relationship unless the context is mostly all about you! Once your life basically revolves around yourself, you don't give much of a shit what she does. Hit them weights. Get so…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:22 PM
3

Good job finding the balance man. Only other thing to be mindful of is don't shit where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 01:31 AM
4

I wonder if you're missing context and some nuances. OP doesn't mean that you should walk up to a girl and call her a dumb bitch (at least not seriously). He doesn't mean go to some chick at your work and tell her that her cloths look stupid. He's saying that, plates and perspective plates love a guy that can put them in their place. BUT you have to have their interest as well. Assholes can be booring or interesting so there is a little more to it then just being an asshole to women.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 01:14 AM
5

I had a couple of eggs this morning for breakfast, cooked over-easy and some toast with butter. I was out of OJ so I had to drink milk with breakfast but I'll hit the store later on.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 05:50 PM
1

cold approach works way better and you'll get much better women that way too
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:25 PM
1

everything you just said is wrong
/r/MensRights03/03/21 12:00 AM
2

Maybe this? https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_sofindings.pdf Table 3 vs Table 4.
/r/MensRights02/03/21 04:40 PM
1

Men and women have different advantages from the start This is a blanket statement and there are many many exceptions to it. A lot of the women seeking shelter have been abused, mentally, physically and sexually, by men, so badly, for such a long time, that they are terrified of men We're talking about men who have been abused, mentally, physically and sexually, by women, so badly, for such a long time, that they are terrified of women. I doubt they would be much of a threat to each other. They …
/r/MensRights02/03/21 04:18 PM
3

If this was a privately funded organization I wouldn't have any problem with it. But they're talking about public funding here. I don't want my tax dollars to go towards a sexist organization that denies male victims when there is ZERO tax dollars going to help victimized men. It's not that hard to let a few men in when they are in need of support.
/r/MensRights02/03/21 03:57 PM
3

I am for equality although there are differences between the sexes that I think always will have to be taken into consideration to reach equality Where is the consideration for male victims? There are 0 shelters and male victims get laughed at or victim-blamed. Maybe more women need shelters, sure, but can't they make a little room in there for the smaller amount of men that need help? This doesn't have to be black and white. All they had to do was be fair about the support. They should have the…
/r/MensRights02/03/21 03:49 PM
3

If the shelter can't be fair and also help men then why should they get public funding? To me the obvious answer is they should have decided to help male victims too, then they would still be getting their funding. This is a consequence of their own bad choice. I'd be very surprised if they didn't have plenty of chances to rectify this but continued to stubbornly deny help for male victims. I blame the shelters bad ethics for this unhappy situation. Hopefully this will be a wake-up call to them.
/r/MensRights02/03/21 03:43 PM
2

I wish I was gay sometimes
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/21 11:48 AM
5

That's just more fear mongering. You are part of the problem. You don't need different hospitals, you don't need different shelters. If it becomes a problem, put up a wall or curtain between the men's and women's areas. But I don't expect it will.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 03:53 PM
8

They could have just started helping men, then their money wouldn't have been pulled.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 03:52 PM
12

Right so the organization was supposed to help both with that money. They refused. What else could they do?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 03:51 PM
2

your mom
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 01:53 PM
16

Why? I don't see gender, I see abused people trying to cope and heal. They don't have separate hospitals for women and men.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 01:52 PM
16

Seems like they simply could change their stance about helping abused men and then they wouldn't have lost their funding? Don't blame justice for this. Blame the women who were denying the male abuse victims.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 01:48 PM
19

The pussypass was that abused women would get shelter/benefits that abused men couldn't get. She got special treatment because of what is between her legs.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 01:46 PM
37

I see your point but aren't those abused women getting a special privilege that abused men couldn't get simply because they were women? And now it's being denied. Seems like PPD.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 01:42 PM
36

Uh, a bunch of women just got denied funding. They thought it would be ok to exclude men because they are an organization run by women for women. How can this not be PPD?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 01:21 PM
35

What do you think PPD means? Why doesn't this fit?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 01:19 PM
2

it's not different
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:14 AM
1

He needs to figure out what it will take for him to forgive himself. Like you said, nobody can change the past. It sounds like he has a good relationship with his sister now. It sounds like he's beaten himself up pretty bad about it. So now there's just one question that remains that only he can answer: What will it take for him to forgive himself?
/r/MensRights12/02/21 04:08 PM
3

That sounds strange to me, you might want to get another opinion. I would think cardio would be harder on the heart then weight lifting. Googling a little says weight lifting is good for people with heart conditions. I would check with another doctor. That said, cardio is better than nothing for lots of health reasons. Sitting around makes one turn into a couch potato.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:35 PM
1

Find out from the doctor what exercise you can do and do it. Even if it's just walks.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:07 PM
57

it's a pussy cat bro, it denied her pass.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/21 03:50 PM
2

Just stay in your own frame and it doesn't matter. Ask her if it's a wig? Say "haha" Say "I need to see it in person" Say "I can't tell you have too many clothes on" Send her a picture of a monkey wearing a wig. Whatever, it doesn't matter, just don't agree and say she looks beautiful.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:32 PM
-1

kinda easy to look up those but I guess you're too lazy, here's one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJcTg6qVJOUre
/r/MensRights08/02/21 07:41 PM
-9

Oh please, look up the sexy Dorritos commercials or the Godaddy ones or the CarlsJr paris hilton ones or whatever.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 01:48 PM
-15

Bikini babes have been in commercials for years. Who the hell cares.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 01:03 PM
7

If this had been reversed he would be looking at 15+ years in prison. Didn't he get some of this on video? "not enough evidence" wtf
/r/MensRights03/02/21 12:02 PM
0

hold your horses there rambo, I agree, but if you don't need your job to eat then who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:15 PM
0

Some waiter at a restaurant isn't going to get a harassment lawsuit because he was trying to pick up a waitress. Worst case scenario, he gets fired and has to go to another restaurant. Harassment lawsuits happen when you're the manager of some chick and are trying to use your power over her to get laid. This is where the don't shit where you eat rule applies. If you're a boss.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:11 PM
1

that only happens to ugly guys
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:56 PM
0

If she gets mad she will cause tons of drama at your job. If you work at a restaurant and it's easy to get another job than who cares? bang away! If you have a job that you need to pay your bills then don't fuck it up.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 03:50 PM
4

nah the whole post was removed
/r/MensRights02/02/21 03:24 PM
16

That post is 11 months old. It was removed after 41k votes (72% upvoted) and 7472 comments. The op posted 1 month later he was committing suicide and hasn't posted anything since. I didn't read all his posts and comments so I don't know what happened or if he was trolling, but the original askreddit thread does appear to be taken down by sjws. There's a bunch of comments about him using the word "female" but I don't see anything else just skimming around they should be mad about.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 03:23 PM
36

they could have at least told me to hit the gym and to stop being such a whiny little bitch
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 12:47 PM
62

And this is why I feel that psychology is bunk. Before red pill I tried a couple of psychologists. I could never understand why they wouldn't give me any good advice about what to do. They asked questions trying to get me to arrive at the conclusion. My problem was I already thought about the conclusions, the problem was I couldn't decide which one to choose. It seemed there were a million ways to fix things but I didn't know what would work and I didn't have time to try them all. If someone had…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 11:46 AM
1

FTOW
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:02 PM
1

dicarlo escalation ladder
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:49 AM
4

That's in the past, I'm into GILFs now
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:05 PM
25

I'd love to be exclusive if I can find a good woman. Keep playing your cards right and we'll see.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 02:25 AM
14

Yeah, alot of posts start with "What do I say when she asks .....?" Dood, if you have to ask you have ALREADY FAILED. Your mindset needs to be: who gives a fuck about her dumb questions or dumb shit tests or whatever. Once you have that mindset it doesn't fucking matter what you say. You might get a few points if you can tease her about it or make her laugh but it's not going to matter much. You can ignore the question, change the subject, pressure flip, a&a, or even just stfu and look at your p…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 05:47 PM
2

Q: Are you a player A: Only on thursdays
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:59 PM
8

it's doomed when you start taking these questions seriously. it doesn't really matter what you say if you maintain frame.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:58 PM
1

sounds like an extra complex shit test. who got time for that shit? ignore the bs and keep working on making yourself awesome.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:28 PM
2

no matter the attraction, women shit tests. Is it safe to say depending on the level of attraction, determines the amount of shit tests and the severity? No. The more attractive a guy is, the fewer shit tests he gets. What are you guys thoughts on Alpha/Beta traits needed to maintain an LTR? The more you focus on trying to maintain an LTR the harder it will be. You are making her the prize and that's going to cause you nothing but grief. If you want to maintain an LTR, it may seem illogical but …
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:24 PM
2

why are you even with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/21 02:21 PM
1

read the side bar and a bunch of posts on the main sub to learn about frame
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:14 PM
2

Not really, you are deep in her frame and your relationship is probably doomed. Do you think a famous rock star would give a fuck what this stupid bitch says to the clerk at a store? Gotta start reading that side bar dude.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:45 AM
1

It wasn't a physical satisfaction, it was an emotional one. I was in a very dry streak for a couple of years and felt pretty badly about myself (this was before RP). When I discovered escorts which gave me the ability to have sex whenever I wanted, somehow gave me an ego boost I needed. I no longer feared talking to women either and could chat them up much easier.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:26 AM
2

I've enjoyed a few some years ago. I think it was positive because it made me realize how little sex maters and how girls are not that big of a deal.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:45 AM
5

he didn't say he did. he said "If you're rich, they let you"
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:41 AM
2

Focus on the main thing you can change: yourself! First, stay healthy. 1 Sleep right 2 Good diet 3 Exo\ercise / lift 4 Get a skill / hobby / sport / martial art / something that you enjoy. Build yourself into someone you respect and love. Be the change you want to see in the world.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:39 PM
5

check out fraternities like moose lodge, elk lodge, freemasons, etc check out groups on meetup dot com volunteering is also a great way to meet people, check out volunteermatch dot com like others have said, the only way to do it is to do it. also there's no magical "just click" moment. friendships require work.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:12 PM
1

yeah they work, check out the bodyweightfitness sub or google the prison workout
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 03:15 PM
2

Every time I see her I literally feel like a beta bitch again and I just want to forget everything and try to make it work. What you've got to realize, and internalize, is you are in love with a fantasy. You have all of these ideas in your head about how wonderful it would be if you guys were a family and building a future together and raising your kid in a beautiful house with rose bushes and white picket fences...... maybe not exactly but hopefully you get my point. If you don't I'll spell it …
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:12 PM
3

Why acting "Dark & Mysterious" makes you look like a beta bitch. The key word is acting. Acting is all about trying to get people to believe you're something that you are not. Most can see right through it which makes you a try-hard. If you act the opposite (light-hearted and outgoing?) it's going to fail too because you are still acting. Bitches love mystery. They love to try to unravel it. But yeah, only if you seem worth unraveling. this is more advanced game however, lets not mix it up with …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 12:24 PM
1

lol you mad. do you even frame bro?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:01 AM
1

Stop paying attention to what they say and focus on what they DO!
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:14 PM
10

If your frame isn't strong enough for questions like this, you have some practice to do. This is simply a shit test. A&A or pressure flip or even change the subject. Anything that shows her question can't possibly be serious. Plenty of good examples further down.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:13 PM
2

This is a very real possibility. If this happens the state will decide it's her money too and she has every right to it.
/r/askMRP14/12/20 01:02 PM
-2

Should I wait for my girlfriend to call me after we had an argument Be a fucking man and decide what you want to do and do it. Sounds like she said some stuff that pissed you off. Ideally her words shouldn't matter enough to piss you off but that's besides the point. So you were pissed. Sounds like you handled it pretty well, but the fact that you're here asking what you should do means you have alot of growing to do. And I did this so that she would feel the strength from me not giving a shit a…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 04:35 PM
15

Yeah good observations, but what's up with the title? What is a thing?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 12:38 AM
3

On hinge, OkCupid and bumble This is the problem. You need to grow some balls and start approaching girls out in the real world.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:49 AM
3

In general women are more socially intelligent than men. Men are generally more academically intelligent.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:12 PM
1

Go read the stuff in the sidebar and a bunch of posts in the main sub. Learn about amused mastery. Then hit the gym for a couple of years and get some big muscles. Women will still be loud and outspoken, but it won't bother you anymore because you will be a fucking man who can handle it.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:31 AM
3

But...but...but he's just trying to explain and just trying to be transparent with her... it's for her families sake!! He's just very safe and wanted to give her a heads up!!! OP, you sound like a little bitch. This is why she's angry, it has nothing to do with the covid.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:22 AM
1

The article says it's because Trump is toxic masculinity and men are realizing it and not voting for him. The whole article is a shit-show tho. Basically indicating men don't have agency.
/r/MensRights11/11/20 03:25 PM
1

Probably did too much chatting. You can't really build rapport this way. Only good way is face to face. This might be one of your mistakes.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:50 PM
3

Ok here's your frame: 1 Hypothetically, if you found the perfect unicorn woman wouldn't you try to LTR her? (This girl isn't perfect so obviously she won't be LTRed) I'm talking rich, 10/10, virgin, never cheats, etc. So IF such a hypothetical woman existed (she doesn't) you would be interested in a relationship. Obviously don't explain it to her like that, just give her enough to keep her happy. Something like: I'm open to a relationship if I could find the right woman. This puts her in a posit…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:48 PM
3

Surprised this would be on msnbc
/r/MensRights10/11/20 06:50 PM
2

Complain to the administrators? Maybe she'll get talked to at least?
/r/MensRights10/11/20 02:39 PM
1

Pistol squats yo
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:01 PM
63

If you can't get to a gym check out the bodyweightfitness sub. Lots of things you can do without weights.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:20 PM
1

No one can decide for you. Be a man and figure it out what you want to do. Maybe just hang out a few times without handing your balls over and being in an LTR. This might help tho -->> The first FAQ in the sidebar There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:13 PM
3

Starbucks
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:08 PM
1

If you're a wimp, don't go places where there are thugs. If you workout and do MMA you can go wherever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:51 PM
1

All not true, I simply talked to her less and gave her less attention because I didn't feel good about the way she was treating me, and I was honest and told her as much. Too much DEER all this verbal abuse Stop being a fucking victim, men can't pull it off make the decision You mean have a tantrum What should I be doing here? Read the sidebar, especially the #1 in the FAQ -->
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:45 PM
5

lol
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:20 PM
5

Yes, turn your anger and emotions into something productive. At the very least it can help you get that extra rep at the gym. Just don't get lost in it.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:17 PM
18

If you outlaw guns than only outlaws will have guns.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/20 05:46 PM
1

Learn about shit-tests and agree-and-amplify
/r/MensRights20/10/20 10:06 PM
5

Sidebar under FAQ ---> "There's this one girl..."
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:34 AM
3

Play hard to get. Woah, do you think I'm some piece of meat put here for your enjoyment? I'm not that easy.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 06:20 PM
3

So if it was Matt Lauer and Al Roker rubbing up on some teenage female gymnast it wouldn't be creepy AF?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 01:54 PM
2

You're probably not a 20something male athlete who normally gets with 20something female athletes getting rubbed down by 50something post-wall cougars.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 12:41 PM
4

/s ?
/r/MensRights16/10/20 12:40 PM
12

Just guessing: Mother I Would Not Like To Fuck
/r/MensRights16/10/20 12:37 PM
5

Wasn't it originally: Mother I'd Like to Fuck
/r/MensRights16/10/20 12:37 PM
5

He looks kinda creeped out to me. He's a 20something boy getting groped by 50something old women on national tv.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 12:31 PM
47

The song would have to be very clever. Just point it out blatantly and he'll seem misogynistic and get mocked for being an incel or whatever. He could lose half the audience and make it harder for him to get gigs. Something...something...slut shaming.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 12:27 PM
13

Read some parenting books, but at this age the kids are just starting to learn about the world. But if you can't hold frame with a 3 year old then that's pretty bad. Focus more on your relationship with their mom. Read the sidebar of this and the married red pill sub, but most of the guys there are pretty jaded so you might want to lurk for awhile before posting anything there. There's a redpillparenting sub too but it's pretty dead. My biggest tips from being a dad is be a good role model and t…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:47 AM
2

How would you explain righteous anger?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 12:39 AM
1

Wow, no one mentioned that OP should focus on what she does, not what she says. Shame on all of you.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 05:25 PM
3

This is your first time it's hard on everyone. You probably worked muscles you don't usually work and they get stiff or sore. After a few days that will go away and you should be fine. The gym I go to at lunch time has a team of roofers that come in while I'm there and get their workout on.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 11:44 AM
3

Glances are fine, staring is creepy.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 03:30 PM
3

Need more info, are the girls jogging too? If so then see if they want some company while jogging. Most probably won't unless you are very attractive because their priority at that moment is to exercise. If the girls are just sunbathing or whatever don't interrupt your jog for them but after your jog is over just walk around a bit to cool down. Then walk over casually and ask them something. They are usually looking at their phone so I usually ask something like "what's so interesting you keep l…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:32 PM
2

Sounds like she's looking for orbiters.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:18 AM
1

Dark triads are often drug dealers, gang members, con men, etc. They don't give a fuck about people but chicks dig them because they have powerful personalities and lots of drama. If that's who you want to be, go do that. Personally I hate drama. I don't feel its necessary to say everything to people. I don't lie but I don't have to confess everything either. The key with women is to have a strong personality. Be decisive and have strong frame. How you do that is up to you. I would suggest you d…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:13 AM
6

"Looking for friends, maybe more" works great. Yeah, go have a couple of drinks first, somewhere close to your place. Helps with inhibitions. She also wants to make sure you're a normal guy, not a creep or axe murderer or anything. Then after a drink or two, invite her back for some more drinks and some netflix or something. Always give her an excuse so it's not just for sex. Then, pour a drink, start the movie, and a little bit into it kino and escalate.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:51 PM
4

haha, you mad
/r/askTRP15/09/20 04:25 PM
4

Do you mean, if I don't get sex for 5 minutes I won't die? Wow, I wish someone would have told me!
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:51 PM
27

Sex is like air. If you can't get any it's bad, otherwise it's no big deal.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 11:22 AM
10

ime "bored" is usually keyword for "dtf"
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 03:08 PM
2

Start with Netflix or something. Also check out the kino escalation ladder by DiCarlo (google it).
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 02:13 PM
7

You're not even sleeping with her, block this crazyness. Don't give her any more satisfaction.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:36 AM
1

Yeah so what? This isn't a morality competition. TRP isn't here to figure out what men do/don't do. It's here so that simps can become men which is what women are looking for.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:19 PM
3

They are paying them not just to fuck, but to LEAVE after.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:42 PM
7

elaborate
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:08 PM
27

It feels better to understand reality than it does to pine for a unfulfilled fantasy. A woman will never fulfill you, and even if one does, she may leave on a dime. Gotta look out for number 1. You can't really trust a woman because her emotions change more often than her underwear. It's not a sad thing really. It's simply understanding the nature of things. I'm not sad because dogs bark, snakes bite, and water can drown you. That's just their nature. Just like women will probably branch swing i…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:16 PM
4

just think that you loved someone so much No, you didn't love her, you loved your fantasy of her. You let your imagination run away with itself that she was someone who would love you and take care of you. This might be your biggest flaw. You let your fantasies blind you to seeing reality. Sorry man but it's time to kill the puppy. A woman will never love you the way you want her to.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:25 AM
9

Check out the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder for once you meet in person.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 06:05 PM
6

who watches the watchmen
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:23 PM
20

These are a bit cringy and sound try-hard. If she won't meet then she's an attention whore, cut her lose.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:34 PM
24

Her: "I barely know you" Me: "Duh, that's why we are meeting"
/r/askTRP12/07/20 08:59 PM
28

Alot of guys start out as thirsty simps and put pussy on the pedestal. Pining for a pretty girl to give them the time of day. Then, after finding red pill, many have mastered cold approach and closing the deal but find their life is still meaningless. That's because sex and women will never fulfill you. I agree, sex and women are fun and great for r&r, but that shouldn't be a man's primary purpose.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 04:05 PM
3

There's been many submissions on this, take a look
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 12:10 PM
1

yeah NP, I had the same issue a few years back
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:10 PM
6

You're not in love with her, you're in love with your fantasy of who you thought she was. Once you realize that your mind is playing tricks on you, you can start to grow out of it. You need to stop letting your imagination run away with you and choose reality over fantasy.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:25 PM
1

Need to draw the line somewhere, cops are getting too big for their britches. Not just about BLM, it's about cops thinking they can get away with abusing people.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:55 PM
3

how can she sell her own photos without her permission lol
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/20 08:36 PM
5

TIL boyfriends are gender neutral
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/20 08:28 PM
3

Red pill is not an ideology or a philosophy or any of the shit you mentioned. It's just a bunch of tools a guy can use as he sees fit.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:21 PM
5

Choice 1 is right. You may be able to influence them a little, slowly, and help them through their problems. Loser mentality isn't that contagious. It also sounds like you need to stop judging people so much and focus more on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 11:24 AM
3

He was in love with a fantasy, not the woman. The fantasy was that she was the perfect woman. The reality is she wasn't. We need to stop letting our imagination get us in these predicaments.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:36 PM
3

same story we hear day in and day out you got the oneitis Listen carefully: You don't want to start a family with her, you want to start a family with your ideal image of her. You are imagining she is something that she is not. You have this vision of her that she's the perfect women to mother your kids. Your illusion just got shattered be reality. She was not the woman you thought she was. You were in love with a fantasy. I have been through this as have many of the other guys here. Nothing muc…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:30 PM
1

Narrator: And just like that, MRA's became red pilled.
/r/MensRights28/05/20 10:29 AM
1

That's an earnings gap, not a wage gap
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 12:41 AM
1

Most people and daycares do this, but girls and boys naturally gravitate to certain toys.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/05/20 11:33 PM
2

I see what you’re saying with this. I’d normally categorize despair, depression, and guilt as types of emotions. Emotions are usually mixed up with other emotions. I'm fucking pissed off Joe at the office took credit for my work and got a promotion; is anger with a side of depression. I'm so fucking pissed at myself I crashed into someones car today and totaled it. Anger with a side of guilt. Fuck, the neighbor's dog barks all night and I can't get any sleep and I'm not sure what to do about it.…
/r/askMRP23/05/20 12:41 PM
2

Anger is great in the gym. Actually it's fine anywhere. Besides that any emotion can be expressed but oak frame needs to be solid and outcome independence is crucial. Any hint of despair, depression, giving up, indecisiveness , or guilt can dry her up quickly and start some nuclear shit testing.
/r/askMRP23/05/20 02:35 AM
1

Welcome, glad you found this. It does have contradictions because it is not a "movement", it's not a doctrine, it's not a belief system, etc. It's just a bunch of articles that various guys have written that contain tools you can use. Which ones you decide to use, and how you use them are up to you. You posted a link about accepting yourself, that's important for frame. If you're a guy with zero or negative self confidence then that article may be for you. It might get you to stop worrying so mu…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:05 AM
12

she's got you right were you want her... wondering if she likes you or not. you're in her frame and you text emogees like a little bitch. yeah, be more busy, don't invest so much, make her wonder where you are and if you like her. be the prize.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:03 AM
3

Women are attracted to famous well groomed guys, news at 11
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:59 AM
5

no
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:12 AM
1

INVEST THAT SHIT, STOCK PRICES ARE MUCH LOWER THAN USUAL AND WILL (eventually) GO HIGHER. If you don't have one go get a Vanguard Roth IRA and start putting some money in. Buy into an ETF, they have a huge list. Personally I like the technology ones but there are several other good choices. If you want to make some extra cash into the next year or two, go get an Ameritrade account. They have tons of tutorials that teach newbies how to invest.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 11:00 AM
1

Get some dumbbells and find a good workout program, also bodyweightfitness sub
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 01:02 AM
0

sex god method
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:16 PM
2

ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer you want SPECIFIC points but you don't ask specific questions. We don't know anything about you or your ex yet you want someone to give you the perfect answers for your specific situation. we don't know your specifics but it looks like the same old story we get here multiple times per day. some lazy fucker comes in here looking for someone to give them all the answers because they don't want to spend any effort reading the material and understanding it …
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:23 AM
10

if you have to ask, you can't plate her... go lift faggot
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:01 AM
7

Read the side bar ->> there's this one girl...
/r/askTRP08/03/20 09:52 AM
4

I am known for being pretty open and straightforward in my opinions yeah you need to stop that, especially with women You should probably read the 48 laws of power and start to apply them.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:36 AM
56

if you want to keep this job you'll have to humor her a bit... not saying to screw her or anything, but you'll have to smile and pretend you don't mind her flirting. hopefully if you don't flirt back, she might get bored and find someone else. Pretend you're a hooter waitress dealing with fat guy customers.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 01:59 AM
11

I found a nice enough woman who gives me no drama. After a few years I let her move in and now she pays half the bills and fucks me whenever I want so far the only down side is she snores.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 11:35 AM
3

Disney has lots of single dads. Little Mermaid's dad, Princess Jasmin's dad from Aladin, maybe Pinocchio, Pocahontas dad, Finding Nemo's dad, etc.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 02:07 AM
1

take the anger out on the iron, use it for good
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:42 AM
9

nope you have it backwards, you must be new here. beta is creepy and rapey... alpha and maintaining frame will draw her into his frame and she'll forget all about it. alpha gets away with whatever he wants. beta has to live by the rules.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 11:09 PM
3

My LTR did the same thing a couple of years ago. We got drunk. She came over to my place, puked all over the bathroom, then brushed her teeth and got ready for bed. She reached over and grabbed me by the dick and it was on. Next morning she asked if we fucked. I said yeah. She said oh, I don't remember it, thats really weird and got quiet. I figured out instantly where her hamster was going with it and shrugged and went back to whatever I was doing. A few minutes later she comes in back to her b…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 10:05 PM
12

DO NOT DO THIS... This will make you look weak and REINFORCE her idea that you raped her. Treat it like a nuclear shit test. See the sidebar. Whatever you do DON'T DROP FRAME. In your mind this was just normal sex and she's just being weird.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:40 PM
2

no
/r/askTRP23/02/20 05:46 PM
1

Beans are cheap as fuck, soak them, drain, and cook them. Go fishing Get a better job.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:01 PM
1

You're doing exactly what you blame your father of doing. Complaining and blaming someone else for your problems. Yeah it's a bit different but do you see the correlation? You need to save up some money and move away and define who you want to be. Make attainable goals and work towards them every day.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:13 AM
2

A co worker lost his son a couple of years ago, he died in his sleep with no explanation of how. I also have a son and can't imagine what you guys are going through and know that there isn't anything I can say to help. I can tell you my co-worker was devastated for over a year and now seems to be getting things back on track. He goes on vacations with his wife, talks about his hobbies, etc. There isn't much you can do at this point but go on and know that he would want you to live the best life …
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:47 PM
1

kino. read the kino escalation ladder if you haven't yet.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 12:21 AM
1

Why ask for a number? Just ask her to meet you somewhere. If she will, great. If she won't, say I understand and move on.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 01:05 AM
2

Except you need to keep raising the dose for it to keep working until it eventually kills you
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:09 PM
1

I started at about 25% body fat and was getting no attention from women. After about 3 months of working out I was starting to get the double-take, i.e. women were starting to check me out. I only lost maybe 15 pounds. Down to maybe 20%. The point of working out makes you look better aesthetically, but women are also very attracted to confidence. Feeling better, getting healthier, and looking better have a huge affect on your confidence so SMV goes up. They can see it in the way you hold yoursel…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:38 PM
2

A lot of subs have a weekly "stupid questions" thread. Would that help with this kind of crap?
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:35 AM
1

Sidebar -> there's this one girl...
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:32 AM
2

I think that every day before I go to the gym. Some days I have to lie to myself and tell myself I'm just gonna walk on the treadmill for 10 minutes while I drink my pre-workout. Once I get there the pre-workout kicks in and I work out hard. Every time I leave the gym, I leave tired but feeling fucking awesome and am so happy I went and worked out. Give it a try for 30 days, once it becomes a habit you won't regret it. Your body will feel so much better. You will have more energy to do fun shit.…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:31 AM
1

Why? You won't gain anything by that and you will sound butthurt (which you are). Very unattractive. You have to appear like you are above all this bs, she is a small part of your life, and you have better things to think about.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:25 AM
6

It's possible. I did it but it cost me alot of money and directly telling my lawyer I would settle for nothing less. I ended up having to pay her lawyer too but I got 50/50. Pretty sure her lawyer turned on her and advised her to settle because it was the only way he would get paid.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:18 AM
14

You say he wasn't feeling well, but why not pick him up anyway? Can't you take care of him as good as she can? If not, you may want to work on that. Another idea would be to leave after he was asleep. Don't try to hold her accountable, she will never feel like she is wrong about anything. It's like teaching rocket science to a monkey. You will wear yourself out trying and you will annoy the monkey. Lastly, yeah, take all that anger and negative energy and use it to make yourself better. If nothi…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:03 AM
4

You are pining for your fantasy version of your ex. Your feelings are not for the real her, they are for your imaginary version. You think about the times where you felt that she was loyal, good company and were blinded by her looks. The real girl was pretty screwed up inside and completely undependable, unpredictable, and wasn't actually who you thought she was. The sooner you come to terms with the fact that you don't miss her, you miss a fantasy of her, the quicker you can put it behind you.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:59 PM
2

Yeah, he is pining for his fantasy version of her, not her.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:54 PM
1

It's about keeping frame. See "What is Frame" in the side bar. It's simply a tool to help you master shit tests, etc. It mostly helps guys who pedestalize women from doing that. If you imagine her emotional commentary as that of a child, it makes it easier not to get sucked into her frame and maintain your own. When she's insulting you in a shit test (also covered in the side bar), imagine it's a child calling you a poopy head. You don't get mad at them because what they are saying is the absurd…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:38 AM
1

You should have hobbies, sports, and activities you're into that should keep you interesting.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:38 AM
1

check out that ladyboners subreddit. tldr shredded chipendales type which does require lifting so go lift
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:38 PM
2

"yes" to what? he asked an open ended question
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:41 PM
1

soy lecithin raises testosterone which can aromatize and cause high estrogen... but not significantly. this whole story sounds quite fishy to me, there is likely much more to the story.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 11:45 PM
75

phytoestrogens are not used in the human body like estradiol. Stop posting bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 09:50 AM
5

You tell the difference by how much you care what other people think. If you give a fuck then you lose.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:52 AM
1

focus on your breathing
/r/askMRP21/12/19 04:20 AM
1

Tough love time. You have a choice to make. You can either sit around and cry or do something about it. No one can/will save you except you. Live is tough. Get tough... or don't.. doesn't affect me. The only one who can do anything about this is you. So just do it.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:30 PM
1

There is no escape as long as you are focusing on it. This sounds overly simplistic but it's true. Focus on your goals, focus on making your life better, focus on the positive things you are doing, and your life will turn in a positive direction. Focus on the negative, on prisoners dilemmas and other introspective bs will keep your life going in a negative directions. Think of your body like a car and turn the wheel in the direction you want to go and step on the gas. Also, learn amused mastery.…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:15 PM
0

They're gonna fuck somebody, might as well be me.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:34 PM
0

it's not in contrast to men... we don't talk about men except how it helps them get women.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:09 AM
1

what about noob gains? if someone is fat enough they already have lots of muscle just from carrying themselves around, lifting while dieting will help them preserve their muscle. every cutting routine i've heard of advises that one should continue to lift.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:07 AM
1

How is anyone manipulating or treating women like shit? Sounds like you have no idea what trp even is.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:00 AM
0

It violates rule zero. We're not here to psychoanalyze men.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:56 AM
0

We're not here to discuss men or get men. We're here to get women. No one denies that men don't have biological predispositions, but we are not here to discuss that. Go over to alttrp or whatever if you're into that.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:21 AM
19

agree and amplify also, search for amog
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:01 PM
2

Meet someone else, then tell her she's a nice girl but you met someone else.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:25 AM
1

gftow
/r/askTRP02/12/19 02:09 PM
1

Yeah, the protein suggestions there come from old bro science that's been debunked. This is a much better resource with several linked studies: https://muscleevo.net/how-much-protein-build-muscle/ While protein plays an important role in helping your muscles recover and grow, there’s an upper limit on the amount that your body can use to synthesize new muscle tissue. And most research points to that upper limit being around 0.7 grams per pound, or 1.6 grams per kilogram, of bodyweight per day. T…
/r/askMRP27/11/19 08:31 PM
1

Recomp will take longer than bulking and cutting cycles. Twice as long or more. Your muscle doesn't get built in the gym, the muscle gets built when you're resting. The gym tears your muscle up. Then your body heals it bigger/stronger while you're resting. Check out the nSuns routine on reddit. Even if you choose another routine, check out their calorie spreadsheet they use, they have a pretty good way of calculating your calorie requirements.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:27 PM
1

It's 1.5g/kg protein not 1.5/lb. His protein should be 120g per day.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:19 PM
3

first problem is you are deep in their frame which is why you want a quick retort. you care too much or you wouldn't have made this post. second, you need to study amused mastery. once mastered it won't matter what you say. third, once you are in the right mindset it will all look like a big joke to you so comments will come naturally and your frame will dominate. I would probably just tell them to stop acting butthurt with a sly grin. you won't be able to pull this off unless you have strong fr…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:12 PM
2

People get better at LTRs by being in LTRs Uh no, your hamster is getting the best of you. Been there, done it all, plate spinning is the best way to develop everything needed to find and keep a good girl.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:47 PM
2

about 50 ppl asked this and he answer this like 5 times, read the comments, sheesh people
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:39 PM
4

yeah it's like bizarreo world today. the comment was removed, now it's back and getting upvotes again
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:20 PM
8

You still have a bit of white-knighting to get over. You don't know anything about this chick except the few sentences that OP wrote. Let her down easy; Indeed! lol
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:34 PM
1

It's one of the mantras around here "She's not yours, it's just your turn" It helps guys remember not to put her on a pedestal and obsess about a woman because loyalty isn't something young women are known for.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:31 PM
5

How you going to vet them if you don't understand them? How are you going to understand them if you don't have experience with enough of them? How are you going to get experience with them without fucking them? How are you ever going to find a good woman and vet her if you don't even know how to attract her? All guys should spin plates for years before even thinking about getting into an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:20 PM
6

The wrongthink wasn't that this comment was made by someone who supported LTRs. It was because the comment was attempting to shame (moralize) the OP for not committing, while shitting on his post (which was a great example of holding frame) and white-knighting the girl (who we know nothing about except what op says). The comment sounded like a blue-pill guy living his blue-pill fantasy and a bunch of other blue-pill people upvoted (brigade?) him to the top. TRP doesn't say not to do relationship…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:14 PM
4

everyone has their personal preferences, I prefer ltr to be honest, but I don't go around telling others that it is the best way. i've done the plate spinning and it taught me what I need to know about how to handle a woman in an ltr. Without it I would still be bumbling around wondering why I couldn't find my soul-mate or whatever. now I have a chick that bangs me every night, gives me almost zero drama, and pays half the bills... That said, if things change, she will be out on her ass in a sec…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:27 PM
5

I haven't read that lately, but my strategy for this usually pressure-flip. I start with just joking a little about those kind of questions. I act startled then grin and say something like "too soon!!!!!!!" if she keeps pressuring my next go-to is "I'm having so much fun with you and really enjoy our time together, I wouldn't want to ruin it by rushing things too quickly." She'll ask if I even want a relationship, my answer is of course I do, we're all looking for the perfect person that can ful…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:49 PM
1

he should have read the side bar there is alot of ways to handle this without breaking the plate
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 11:39 AM
7

he's said it like 4 times, don't you read the comments? I'm still wondering what was in the bra tho
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 11:38 AM
5

that's dumb.. it's ok to text first occasionally... very occasionally... I look at it as a replacement for "getting her flowers just because". Push/pull you also need to pull a little.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 11:37 AM
21

lol, I can't believe this is the top comment, this place has turned purple. edit: it's removed now, it said something like how OPs mindset was wrong, he probably threw away the best thing that ever happened to him, blah blah blha or something like that... and it had like 100 upvotes... pretty shocking
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 11:13 AM
1

creatine, beta-alanine, citrulline malate, caffeine, yohimbine hcl and baking soda make up my pre-workout
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:53 AM
-5

I had eggs and potatoes for breakfast with a side of bacon. The bacon was pretty crispy and a little salty. The jam I put on the bread rounded it out nicely.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:11 PM
6

Give the viagra a break mabye 2x per week max for now. Hold frame better. Stop paying attention to what she says so much. You're changing too fast and it's spooking her out. Give the trt time to work. And no, don't come clean with anything. Stop telling her all your weaknesses, this does nothing to help your relationship. And stop with the DEER. You do that too much.
/r/askMRP02/11/19 05:04 PM
2

shit, that place is nothing next to gender critical lol. but yeah, let their own toxic behavior be their downfall.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 01:47 AM
2

That book named bang by rooshv is easy to find on amazon or whatever walks you step by step. it's a little dated but it will get you started. yeah, start by going and saying hi, then ask her some questions like what does she do for fun and stuff. at some point take her by the hand and dance with her, some other time take her by the hand outside to get some air and chat and kino. get used to taking her by the hand and pulling her places. whats the worst that can happen? she tells you to fuck off?…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:12 PM
110

Doesn't the police get tired of absolutely every single ex-girlfriend calling them to tell them how horrible her ex-bf was? some do, but most live to be white knights so love every moment of it
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:12 AM
1

lol all the mgtow guys came here today. Bees sting, snakes bite, skunks stink, women are fickle, lie, and are often emotionally unstable. If you next every woman who acts like this sometimes, you're gonna be alone your whole life. Yeah, withdraw attention. Find other plates, etc. No need to next. You know she does this, you know women do this, so fucking what. Hit her up for some action and send her on her way.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:12 PM
1

Creatine used to make me overly emotional. You taking supps like that?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:06 PM
1

MTP is a bad term. It's passive voice. We need a one-word active verb. Enveloped?
/r/MensRights18/10/19 12:32 AM
1

You poked a bee's nest and got stung.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 11:40 AM
3

Sounds like you trolled and got trolled. Then you got all defensive and whiny. Is there a point to all this?
/r/MensRights12/10/19 03:18 AM
3

Just keep reading a little each day. Took me more than a year for everything to just click. It's not a bad thing to understand that women and men are different mentally just like they are physically. Their version of love is different than yours. Once you ditch your disney fantasies and start seeing the world as it is, you will be much happier.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:32 AM
1

I really like "one" condoms (from amazon) they feel better than all the other suggestions. You can also buy a sampler pack with different brands, that's how I found I liked these best. Feels almost like you're not wearing one.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:56 AM
3

They should have arrested the flight attendant for hitting him in the head.
/r/MensRights05/10/19 12:49 AM
3

And in other news: water is wet
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/19 10:22 AM
2

check the sidebar under Network
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:50 PM
3

They don't want us to comply so why would they help us. They want to ban it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:41 PM
2

Sausage is tasty but nobody likes to see how the sausage being made. They want natural alpha. Not guys that are pretending.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:31 PM
2

It's a phase
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:28 AM
3

It's not black and white. I enjoy things and my gf. I would even say that they bring be joy. It doesn't mean I'm a slave to them. I also produce joy by myself with hobbies, motorcycling, music (singing and learning guitar), but I can also enjoy my gf and my dogs and even my phone occasionally. It sounds like you want everyone to go become a hermit. Go read some Emerson or something heh.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 01:29 PM
1

Just go. If you're concerned someone expects you to pay, than don't order anything for yourself that you can't pay for. Order a drink or something and say you already ate and just nurse it all night or whatever. When it's time to pay, just pull out your 5$ for your share.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:09 AM
1

Telling what you want or what you'll have is fine. Telling someone else to make you something or get you something is rude and off-putting. "Make me some coffee" - rude "I'll have coffee" or "would you get/make me a coffee" are fine If she asks what you want and you just reply "coffee" is fine too.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:52 AM
797

Now you have two exs you mean. Don't put up with crazy shit from a girl. Ghost this bitch.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 12:16 AM
2

Try leaving the house when she does that. Disappear for a bit. Go to the gym or whatever. When she asks where you went, don't tell her. Let her hamster spin. Read the dread levels and implement them.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:21 PM
-2

You missed the point. Use the vibe while he's fucking you so you can both get the stimulation you want. ugh why do I bother. my girl and I both cum every time so why listen to me heh.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 03:59 AM
-8

Ugh, get a vibrator
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:23 AM
1

You give too much of a fuck about everything. You need to calm down. Wanna talk to a chick with headphones, say "hey, what are you listening to?" then just ask enough questions that she starts to talk. Chicks love to yak. If she doesn't start yakking, she's not that interested in you; so say "have a nice day then" and move on. Also, no compliments in the first couple of minutes, and never any on looks. Compliments on things she's wearing, holding, etc are ok occasionally. Like anything else, it …
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:54 PM
3

She's not mad at you she's mad because she doesn't have bigger tits or something. This will only work in your favor. Don't sweat it. If she ever brings it up play dumb like you didn't even notice, or A&A "Yeah, women can't help themselves around me haha" and smirk.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:51 PM
8

eat more and check out the nSuns routine
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:06 AM
1

Sounds like you have the right attitude. Keep at it. Someday you won't even think about this stuff anymore because you'll have enough cute women around that you won't even notice one like this. Also, don't mess with girls at work, aka shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:06 PM
1

Uh, be a little proactive and search the main sub? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/search/?q=voice+exercise&include_over_18=on&restrict_sr=on&t=all&sort=relevance
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:53 AM
1

Sounds like you have ADD or depression or something. Get screened. Then read the f'in sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 12:01 AM
5

Lol, they also say they like nice guys who buy them flowers and presents and do all the housework. When they say they don't like muscles, why would that be any different. I'm pretty sure the perfect body type women find attractive would be chipendales, magic mike, male model type of bodies. If you've seen any they are muscular with low percentage of body fat. That said there probably is a place of diminished returns but you're talking the roided out bodybuilders that literally look like incredib…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:59 PM
3

Yep, and lawyers aint cheap. OP has a point and has the moral high ground, but cops don't give a shit and lawyers gotta make that dough.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/19 09:24 AM
1

More like a purple pilled little brother
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:07 PM
2

Google Nick Vujicic and his smokin hot wife. If he can do it you can too. The dude has no arms or legs.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:11 PM
5

Search for LMR in the main sub. Basically you had the right approach, ignore her and she will either come around or she won't. What you did seemed butthurt... never seem butthurt!
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:12 PM
14

Ugh can I have that 30 seconds of my life back. Who gives a fuck about this kind of minutia. Make a choice and move on.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:43 PM
2

Read up on covert contracts. You had expectations of her that she didn't live up to. She didn't disrespect you, she was oblivious to your expectations. If you next every girl for acting like a girl than you might as well try to start liking dick and turn homo, because, newsflash, AWALT. Yes you want to maintain frame, yes you want to ngaf, but it's ok to be curious and ask "what did that guy say to you." It's ok to tell her that it's rude to not translate what others are saying. If she contacts …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:40 PM
27

You can talk to her, sure, but make sure you know what the age of consent is and if she's old enough before you do anything more than talk.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:52 AM
4

Soft next... wait for her to come around... this is a power move. turn beta now and she will string you along for awhile then dump your ass for the next chad that comes along. and stop mentioning other women. show her, don't tell her oh and FTOW
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:02 PM
1

You think alot. You need to guide your thoughts to what is helpful and what is not. Yes relationships have tons of pros and cons and nuances. Will worrying about them help anything? or are you just mentally masturbating? Focus your mind and your thoughts on things that can improve your life and stop worrying about things you cannot change. Getting sad about this stuff will just drive depression and hopelessness. When you have thoughts like this, acknowledge them, or even use them to your advanta…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 08:40 PM
1

A: Make up for it in other areas. Also, I didn't see anything about lifting in there. Get strong. Keep in mind some guys will always be better than you. Try to look for guys that you are better than if you are so trapped in ego.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:47 AM
8

Here's the deal... strippers are twice as crazy as average girls. Great in the sack, but drama everywhere else. Most are drug addicts. They often have burner phones that they give out their number to clients trying to get more business. They are professionals at sucking in beta orbiters. They'll give them their "real name" and their number and will usually ask them to meet her at the club where she can get some more money and free drinks from them. Like everyone says, other than that they're pre…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:53 PM
2

I'll be dammed, there's a sub called redpillbooks
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:33 PM
11

Read the sidebar under Frequently AskTRPd Questions. Looks like you've got the first 2 links down with this one. You need to read the Plates, How do I define, choose and maintain them and the Are we exclusive links.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 01:40 PM
1

sometimes it's hard to be funny on the spot so if I don't have a witty comeback I'll default to what you do or I'll pressure flip and answer her question with a question. "why do you want to know" "you got something against that" "that's a great idea, maybe I should", etc
/r/askTRP18/07/19 11:03 PM
7

If they are on tinder and they matched you they want you for one of two things. They are attracted to you. They want you to be a beta orbiter. If they are attracted to you, you pretty much just need to generate enough comfort that they don't think you'll murder them or something. A few booring questions, seen any good movies lately? etc and then meet for a drink. When you meet them, don't do anything stupid and they will go home with you for another drink and to watch some Netflix or whatever. I…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 06:45 PM
1

lol its in the sidebar dumbass
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:29 AM
-1

lying to cover up shit is beta and makes you look weak. this is why chicks get mad about "cheating" not because of the cheating, it's because you didn't have the balls to own it.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 11:21 PM
2

I'm not going to sugar coat this, gonna just be real. Judging by your other comments in this thread you have terrible frame. Whenever someone tells you something you instantly go on the defensive and start to DEER. If you do that with her, that is what is causing the shit tests. It makes you looks weak and needy. The answer is don't answer this kind of question. Make her hamster go crazy. Tease her, respond with questions of your own like "Why do you want to know?", "I don't kiss and tell", "Why…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:04 PM
1

We don't have enough info, there could be many reasons. Perhaps she felt like he was the best she could do. Perhaps she felt embarrassed that other people knew about it and thought it would hurt her social standing. Maybe she thought she thought he would get obsessed with the other girl and she would lose his resources. Maybe she realized she didn't have the power and control over him that she thought she had.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 11:10 AM
3

I doubt she even went to one or is greatly exaggerating what she said.
/r/askMRP11/07/19 08:19 AM
1

Drunk and completely caught off guard by this, I froze like a noob, before saying "I don't want you to do anything you don't want to do, but I'm not concerned at all with the possibility of anyone hearing something in my house." oops, DEERed I knew it was over the minute I engaged in this discussion. I lost the game, and didn't want to continue playing. Sounds like you already know where you fucked up and entered her frame. Sure, you've got legit excuses, drinking, etc, but they are still excuse…
/r/askMRP07/07/19 11:08 AM
1

Whenever you start to feel the urge immediately go do something else. Put that energy into something constructive. Clean something, go for a run, learn to play guitar, anything...
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:08 PM
1

She's too young to know much of anything yet except mom is soothing. Keep at it, don't give up. A few months from now when she learns to smile she will be your little girl. If someone else tries to hold her, she will reach back for you or mom.
/r/RedPillParenting28/06/19 03:05 AM
2

people that paranoid cant deal with normal life and shoudnt go outside
/r/MensRights24/06/19 11:16 AM
3

Anything that doesn't put women on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 12:19 AM
2

Check out a book called No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP22/06/19 01:29 PM
2

Getting on the scale every day can be quite deceiving due to water retention. A tall glass of water is a pound, hell I can pee out a pound. The body retains water based on how much salt is in our diets along with other things that are diuretic in nature such as coffee. Creatine also causes water retention. My daily ups/downs on the scale are usually a couple of pounds at a time, even when I'm on a calorie deficit I can still gain weight (water).
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 01:24 PM
3

Add hot broth to your list. I found 15 calories of broth can make me feel full for hours.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 01:19 PM
2

Not sure where you are getting your information. It takes a little longer than 1-2 years in a gym to get better results. Try 5-10. You also might want to check out Hannibal for king, Frank Medrano, Bar Brothers, etc on youtube to see what bodyweight can do.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:14 PM
2

Check out prison workout or gymnast bodyweight workout programs. Pullups, muscleups, decline pushups, pistol squats, dips; Get some bands or dumbells and do some rows and goblet squats, find some way to do roman chair (someone hold your legs down as you bend over the side of a bed or monkey bars on a play ground?) and that should get you most of it. You can do alot of stuff if you can set up some rings. See if you have a local park that has some workout equipment. Check out Hannibal for king, Fr…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:27 AM
1

Guys like this might disagree. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRLUhBldu9A
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:48 PM
-2

we'll see how it goes
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:50 PM
1

No only the girls I see on Fridays. Just laugh it off.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 03:47 PM
0

If you're unhappy just fucking end it. Why purposely fail shit tests. Seems a little weak, borderline passive aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 03:39 PM
5

I wish someone told me that when I was a kid. I kept wondering why I kept failing at life until I realized that no one was going to help me but me and I needed to just suck it up and go on. If someone had told me that years ago I wonder how many years I wouldn't have wasted trying to figure out wtf was wrong with me. Turns out I was just a wimp and needed to get stronger.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:10 PM
53

It is a pretty simple combination actually. If she's talking to you on tinder she wants one of two things. She wants you or she wants an orbiter. If she wants you, all you have to do is spend a few sentences over a couple of days with boring questions to generate a little comfort that you are not going to murder her out back in the ally. Seen any good movies lately? etc. After that she should be willing to meet for a drink to see if you two click. Here is where the game begins, not before. If sh…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:50 PM
10

"Friends, maybe more" Don't overthink it. Read the Omlala link on the sidebar. There is only 2 purposes of talking to them on tinder. 1.) You need to communicate that you are a normal friendly guy and not a creepy wierdo serial killer, etc. and 2.) You need to set a time and place to meet in person to get to know each other. Occasionally you'll find a girl horny enough to come over for some netflix but this is less common. Usually she will want to meet for a drink or something first. Any other d…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:44 PM
1

haha we get douche bags like op in here every day who won't bother to read the side bar which clearly tells him how to help himself out of these situations. They are all addressed there. I'm not going to re-explain it to every little pussy who comes in here that won't spend a few minutes trying to help himself. The problem with him (and probably you) is that you want everything handed to you in life on a silver platter. You won't lift a damn finger to help yourselves. The irony is all you guys h…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:18 PM
10

read the fuckin side bar
/r/askTRP13/05/19 11:44 PM
4

I can easily think of 3 things. I'll put them in order of highest to lowest. It's a nuclear shit test. You are not attractive enough to be an alpha fucks You don't give her enough validation and shit to be a beta bucks. What should I do? Read the damn side bar, sheesh, why is this so hard for most of the guys that come here.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:54 AM
5

late night wink
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:32 PM
3

Read the side bar, every guy feels like this until he realizes that women are not magical beings that will make him happy. We see naive guys in asktrp daily saying this stuff. They're basically all lying to themselves that someone else is going to come along and love them and complete them. But life isn't like a disney movie, and the only female who may be able to love you like that is your mom. Once a boy realizes (hopefully sooner than later) that this fantasy comes from perspective of youthfu…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 11:29 AM
4

you know that hate and annoyance are different things right?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:21 AM
1

One hand washes the other. Give her some of what she wants so you get what you want. You don't need to go down for 2 hours. I give her about 5-10 mins of foreplay and that seems to be enough for most chicks. They gotta warm up and lube up. They don't go 0-60 like we do.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:37 PM
1

Dominant, attractive men who know what they want from her One of these words is 100x more important than the others.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:35 PM
1

First, you're over thinking it, knock it off, you sound like a woman. Second, it's good to leave her guessing, never answer her question. Third, you blow it when you start explaining it, just keep up the amused mastery. Forth, she doesn't need comfort, she is shit testing you, and you're walking the line to failure. You're so deep in her frame you can't even see it. She will not stay around very long if you don't start making yourself your mission instead of her.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 06:08 PM
2

The higher your SMV the hotter women you'll be able to pull. You will never be perfect, no one is. Just do the best you can with what you got.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:02 PM
1

The Redpill doesn't focus on good or bad, it focuses on how to help men be better. Isn't TRP overly biased to negativity in this aspect? Isn't there also a lot of selectivity bias? This is you projecting and your own selectivity bias.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:38 PM
1

how do I keep my SO happy You keep her happy by being a masculine man. Keep yourself in shape. Have hobbies. Learn and keep frame. Become a metaphorical rock-star. Stop being a beta cuck.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:39 PM
3

You'll do whatever you decide to do. You have a long life ahead of you kid. Sounds like you're putting effort into improving. That makes you better than 50% of the guys out there. Keep it up and you will get better and better. Maybe volunteer for something or go to meetup.com groups to meet people and learn some social skills.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:42 PM
1

you need to stop giving a shit abut how you seem. make yourself awsome, be awsome, stop giving a shit about what others think. or in this case, what you're projecting they think.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:26 AM
3

Nothing to gain by arguing on the internet, yeah it makes you look dumb. Nothing to gain by arguing with a girl, it makes you look weak. And never try to teach rocket science to a monkey, it will just give you a headache, and it will annoy the monkey.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:42 AM
3

First, be a good role model. Get your shit together, etc. Next, praise them and/or reward them when they put effort into something. Be their cheerleader. This is probably the best way to avoid most discipline problems. They want attention, give them good attention when they deserve it. Next, pick your battles. Show patience. Use alot of amused mastery and frame. My kid trusts me and respects me because of those first few things. All I generally have to do is raise my voice to him if he's crossed…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:14 PM
1

Eat some carbs before your workout. Diet is all about CICO. Keto is a trick to make you feel less hungry but will also lower energy output. I stay pretty low carb but right before my workout I'll eat some cheereos or a banana or a granola bar or something which gives my workout a huge boost.
/r/askMRP04/12/18 08:23 PM
1

Search for LMR in the main sub. Nowhere does it say to persist after a no. If a girl says no, the strategy is to be indifferent to her and withdraw attention until she either leaves or changes her mind.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:46 PM
3

I think if you face your fears and start forcing yourself to be social it will come easily now that you look better. But yeah, lifting and being healthy is only 80% of it. You also have to develop some social skills.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:06 PM
9

you mad? lol it wasn't a shit test, it was an emotional reaction. you two are arguing like a couple of little kids. go re-read your post and look at how whiny you sound. do you think a grown ass man should come in here bitching about his wife watching tv? she has an excuse, you don't. go read the sidebar material and don't come in here bitching or asking dumb questions until you know about frame, deer, am, fogging and have been to the gym 15 times (in the last 30 days)
/r/askMRP13/11/18 10:28 AM
2

Then it's their loss, oh well
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:00 PM
1

Sprinkle in a little goofyness or joke or something to make them smile and lighten the mood. Pretend like you're talking to someone you wouldn't be interested in (a grandma, a tranny hooker, whatever) so that you won't come across as needy. Get them talking about themselves and you're in like Flynn.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:39 PM
4

lol.. if you have to ask the internet what to do, what kind of man are you
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:53 AM
21

Some of these things are common sense. Others sound somewhat paranoid, this girl should get help. Men are more likely to be the victim of violent crime and logically should be more afraid then women... but they're not because reasons...
/r/MensRights10/10/18 10:43 AM
3

You'll prolly need to pay her if you want the art.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:16 AM
4

When my ex tried to get a restraining order, my lawyer advised me to file one against her (she was the violent one). In court it became "he said - she said" and it was thrown out. Going forward you should obviously video tape all interactions with her and communicate mostly through email so it's recorded.
/r/MensRights09/10/18 04:28 PM
7

She might just want you to orbit her. Don't let her distract you from your goals. If you can slam, great. If not, ignore her.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:35 AM
1

Then just keep practicing, don't get discouraged. You don't have much experience yet and it takes time to get into the swing of things. Be thankful for your experience with this chick because it's one step closer to the goal. Right now you're in the mindset of "pussy is the prize" and that is going to turn all girls off. You need to build yourself up with a good body and a good hobby so that you become the prize. But it won't be instantaneous. It's going to take lots of time and bad experiences …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:11 AM
1

sidebar, lift, hobbies, build attraction, https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5gmafv/how_to_open_and_close_a_guide_for_beginners_long/ use the DiCarlo escalation ladder https://www.slideshare.net/vhie130501/16768511-vindicarloescalationladder
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:56 AM
0

lol, quit being a soyboy and go lift faggot
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:41 PM
2

Or even a table dance
/r/askMRP27/09/18 10:15 AM
18

It's another shit test to see if you are genuine or not. A&A to absurdity. Start singing or something if you have to: I'm Slim Shady, yes I'm the real Shady All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating So won't the real Slim Shady, please stand up
/r/askMRP27/09/18 07:35 AM
2

surely when you say you "love steak", you really mean you really like it? It's not really the same definition or context you would use for your wife? She loves me like a steak. If there is a better steak on the menu then she will order that one instead of me. Men tend to love sacrificially. Women do not love men sacrificially. They (sometimes) love children this way, but not men. Check out the 6 different words for love that the greeks use. There was also a book on "love languages" where some gu…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 02:26 PM
6

I love steak. Doesn't mean I need it. I could survive on other food and never eat a steak again. You can't just go around redefining words. Yeah, sometimes love is needy. And yeah, if you give a woman too much, she will look down on you for it. But all love isn't need.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 10:22 AM
3

"hey"
/r/askTRP23/09/18 12:20 PM
3

Almost all guys go for hot girls. We are instinctively drawn to healthy, fit women because natural selection, they, in the past, were more likely to survive childbirth.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:17 AM
1

Yeah, they should put that in the side bar or something
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:57 AM
1

Your fucking up by giving them too much attention and caring about what they say. Just ignore them or, at worst, just roll your eyes.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:47 AM
1

talk to them all you want, but if you try to fuck them then beware of drama and shit-tests in class to come.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 08:14 AM
1

stop paying attention to what she says... watch what she does... also ----> sidebar there's this one girl...
/r/askTRP14/09/18 08:11 AM
2

demote to plate and find more girls
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:45 PM
2

not much diff. you're going to find a girl 2-3 points lower then you would if you go meet them face to face.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:43 PM
6

don't neg on tinder. just talk casually a little, then meet up. gaming in text is dumb and won't get you anywhere
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:24 PM
22

Guess who's frame you are in? Hers or yours? Ignore her, stop giving a shit about stupid stuff
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:45 PM
16

It's a vicious cycle: You eat sugar and carbs Sugar and carbs raise your insulin Your insulin lowers your blood sugar When your blood sugar gets low you crave sweets, so you eat sweets and the cycle continues. You're going to have to wake up one morning and decide to strictly limit carbs. I wake up and eat a couple of eggs and no toast. Sometimes I'll mix some vegetables and cheese in them. Morning snack I'll have a protein shake. Lunch I'll have a sandwich with a bunch of meat in it. Another sh…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:27 PM
2

What is the end goal? What is it we truly want? The answers to your questions are different for different guys. Is what we do just to "defeat women"? No, if anything its more to learn what they want so we can give it to them. Many guys come here realizing they've been lied to their whole life and want to learn how to even the playing field. Men come here who want to have sex but can't figure out how to make it happen. Other men come here who sacrificed everything for a woman and she cheated on h…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:54 PM
2

No reason to ever escalate an argument with a woman. The shit she's arguing about is probably something absurd that doesn't need to be argued about. Learn frame.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 11:46 AM
4

Amused mastery. She doesn't respect you? lol who gives a fuck, you don't need her anyway. You don't need some card games. She wants to bitch and yell, walk away. Go do something else. Doesn't take that much effort. Take the kids to the park or something. Sounds like you are working out too much if anything. 1.5 hours per day should be enough. Holding frame, in-and-of-itself takes no effort. You basically ignore things that are not in your frame. You don't give them any weight. Your wife yelling …
/r/askMRP08/09/18 11:01 PM
3

"I want to see if it's safe to go in the water without getting bit by a shark" yeah, don't ask this next time
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:21 AM
24

95% chance she doesn't find you attractive. 5% chance there is really something wrong with her hormones. Your best option is to find another woman who does. She probably won't even care.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 09:46 AM
1

Stop listening to what they say and watch what they do. Just say "ok" and keep escalating until you get a hard no.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:33 AM
2

I use it daily in my work. It works great with both subordinates and the executives that are above me. It allows me manage them all effectively while keeping them happy at the same time. I discovered it about 3 years ago and I would say it's helped tremendously in interactions with a conflicting nature. May have even gotten me promoted. Boss: Our servers are having issues, they are under too much load. Me: There is a crappy piece of software that's causing it. Boss: no, it's because they are und…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:55 PM
2

Oh, one more thing. If you know someone is wrong about something, instead of arguing about it: ask questions. Try to figure out the right questions to ask to get them to find the error of their ways. If they get mad then stop, but if they have any intelligence then you might just get them to understand why they are wrong. This can be very hard to do, but if you can master it, you will achieve an important life skill: diplomacy. Google the Socratic method for more info
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:24 PM
3

Life's a bitch. Man up and do what you have to do. Even if it involves obeying your mother for 3 years. Learn what you can from her. She knows some shit that you don't. Yeah she might be wrong about some stuff, you'll have to figure that out as you go, but try it her way anyway. The truth will come out in the end. Once she sees that you can follow her direction, she will slowly start to ease up and trust you more. I find that most women will argue with you until they think you agree with them. T…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:16 PM
7

I tried AM. She was getting upset because I wasn’t taking it seriously. omg, so fucking what if she gets upset. upset=shit test Stop taking her bs seriously. Stop going somewhere private to talk. She wants to say something? Fine, out with it. No? Must not be that important, I got shit to do.
/r/askMRP03/09/18 07:27 PM
3

I would consider a PPL routine. /r/fitness has some. Google has some more. Go for 8-10 reps instead of the normal 5.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 02:38 PM
2

What's your goal(s)? Put these in order: Strength, size, weightloss/gain
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:19 PM
28

TRP says wake up and be a man. Here's some tools to help. Now go make your own damn choices like a man.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:38 AM
1

Don't give her an answer, keep her wondering. Answering yes or no will put you directly in her frame. I don't talk about who I've had sex with.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 08:50 PM
2

I used to think about this shit alot when I was younger. Yeah, society is a crazy bunch of bullshit, but thinking that way didn't help me at all, it didn't help society, it's a dead-end street and it wastes alot of time. It's good you realize this stuff, but dwelling on it won't do any good. You need to focus on what makes you and your life better. Here's your real question: What do you need to do to prosper in society the way it is? How can you better equip yourself to take advantage of every o…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:14 AM
1

If you look good/strong/ripped you won't need to fight, no one will want to fight you. That said, fighting requires alot of cardio and endurance. Go for higher rep ranges 12-20 reps. This will mean lower weight. Also, google high intensity cardio. I know low-carb is big right now, and it makes it easier to cut, but eat some oats or something before your workout, it will help you get through it.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 02:20 AM
3

Working out may burn a few hundred calories. That's about a slice of pizza. Is it easier to work out for an hour or just deny yourself a slice of pizza? Cutting fat is not about the gym, it's about diet. At 21% body fat you should be cutting and lifting at the same time. Get the MyFitnessPal app and start tracking all food that goes into your mouth. You can go on their website and set up goals and it will tell you how many calories you should be eating. With your stats you should make sure to be…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 02:01 AM
1

Not the other guy but low vs high reps don't make much difference. If your goal is strength, lower reps higher weight may be slightly better. If your goal is hypertrophy, 8-12 reps may be slightly better. 15-20 reps is still ok, but is generally more for a goal of better endurance. It will still increase strength and hypertrophy. Some programs have you mix days of higher reps with days of higher weight. I wouldn't worry too much about these until you have a year or more of lifting under your bel…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:52 PM
1

no, it's best to allow 1-2 days recovery between working a major muscle group. PPL is one simple way to do that while still working out each group 2x per week which is optimal for most people.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:40 PM
1

Sidebar: --> Everything OmLaLa ever wrote Check out his online dating posts.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:52 PM
1

If you can, excuse yourself because you have shit to do. If you need to be there, then just smile and nod. Learn how to be patient and humor people. You may be managing people like this sometime in your career.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:23 PM
1

Super likes only gives girls validation, this will not get you laid. If anything it will only make you creepier. On the side bar read the Omlala stuff on dating sites.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:39 AM
2

What's funny is a lot of the natural 9's are bad or ghost fathers They have billy beta to be daddy, all they need from the natural 9's is their strong dna seed.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:29 AM
2

They don't think 50% would be better because 30% of those guys are fake alphas and they can't tell the real ones from the fake ones and now they have to work harder to find the true alphas to breed (or pretend to) with.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:26 AM
1

tits or gtfo
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:17 AM
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Because, in their opinion, we're cheating. A beta should be a beta and an alpha should be an alpha. Here we teach betas how to be alpha. They are instinctively attracted to alpha because they supposedly have stronger genes to produce alpha offspring. If a beta cheats and becomes alpha, it seems dangerous and creepy. Another analogy is sausage is tasty, but no one wants to see it being made. No one wants or cares about a weak man because men are utilitarian or disposable.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:03 PM
2

Too much creatine makes me all emotional. The other day I accidently took two doses and then watched forest gump later and cried like a little bitch. Moral: If you're taking alot of creatine, cut back or even stop for a few days and see if it helps.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:14 AM
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Sidebar ---> Are we exclusive Handling the talk Basically you shouldn't explain shit to her. ANYTHING you explain to a woman makes you look weak and will make her like you less. Remain mysterious. Maintain frame. Don't let her drag you into talks like this. Never give her a serious answer. You can take our advice or learn yourself the hard way, up to you.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:51 PM
2

If you find this rude as fuck you're already in her frame. This is a playful banter shit test. You should look at it as a flirty game. Keep things easy in text though, you shouldn't really be texting much, but here's a couple that come to mind: "No, you're buying!" "lol" "nice try!" "You poor?"
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:04 AM
2

Q: "Why do you have secrets?" A: "It's a secret" wry gryn and smack her on the ass
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:56 AM
3

Learn how to invest in a retirement plan (roth ira, etc) when you turn 18. Even if you only invest 10% of what you earn, that shit adds up. You'll have a couple of million by age 60. Open an account and learn how to do it. Do it right and retire young while you can still enjoy your money.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:39 PM
3

Start disciplining yourself to go to bed earlier. I find that melatonin pills and/or magnesium supplements before bed help me get tired. Use alarms to wake up earlier. After a few weeks it gets easier as your body gets adjusted to the schedule. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. Your body will thank you.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:57 PM
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Forget the hierarchy, just don't give her too many reasons not to fuck you True if you are already attractive/alpha and have your shit together. If not, don't delude yourself. We talk about Alpha and Beta for a reason. Someone who is naturally Alpha / attractive wouldn't understand why we talk about this shit. The reason is this: most beta's go through life thinking they need to buy shit for the girl and suplicate to their every whim. Women see guys like this as low value and will instinctually …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 11:11 PM
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Search for LMR on the main sub and sort by top. Basically when she backs off you should back off more. Start withdrawing attention, play with your phone, whatever, until she gets the point that if she wants attention then she needs to give you attention.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:35 PM
2

You missed the point.
/r/RedPillParenting24/07/18 03:11 PM
3

Having a good life is all about confidence. The rest is hamstering. There are butt-ugly rockstars that get more pussy then they can handle. There's short fat movie stars like Danny Divito. Check out this guy's wife and family and he doesn't have any arms or legs. You're probably not nearly as ugly as you think. If you have < 18% body fat and a year of lifting, you are in the top 20%. That said, this world is pretty fucked up so it's hard to say if bringing another kid into the world is a good mo…
/r/RedPillParenting24/07/18 02:12 PM
1

um.. Because men want to get in their pants?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:19 AM
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It's like you're asking how to bench press 315 when you can only bench 45. Basically you are in over your head and you probably can't fix it. Throw away the smokes, stop drinking, work on YOU. Ignore her, give her dread. Stop worrying about comforting her, that's not necessary. Accusing you of cheating is just another shit test. Getting mad when you laugh at her is just another shit test. The only way to fix this is to realize that you are #1 and you need to work on your mission. Everything else…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 05:49 PM
2

Practice practice practice, its the only way to get good at anything. Check out meetup groups, go to social events whenever possible, start speaking more. When you're alone, talk out loud to yourself. Sing karaoke on youtube, look up other ways to have a stronger voice such as breathing from the diaphragm and projecting your voice.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:04 PM
2

Fogging
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:58 PM
1

a lot of you hate women lol, seriously?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:39 PM
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If a plate dreads you, you have to dread harder. What other option do you have that doesn't seam like a clingy beta? Soft next
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:39 PM
1

There's a ton of stuff on youtube about this, look up the RSD guys or just search for pickup techniques. But you have to be fit and confident, thats most important.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:33 AM
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First of all, be attractive. Not? Go to step 2. Lift, have hobbies, go do fun stuff. Learn some interesting questions to ask her. Get her talking. This is the key to it. Once a girl starts talking, all is good. If you do have to talk a little, talk about your hobbies and fun stuff. If this doesn't work you're not attractive enough, go back to step 2 and start again.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:19 PM
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You shouldn't have told them Now that you did, A&A. Tell them that you have 16 hours to live and they need to come over for a booty call one last time. Then do it again 2 days later. If you do get sick from treatments then just tell them you're busy and you'll hit them up later. Don't ever let them see you sick. If you don't hear from them occasionally text them asking what's up or send them a fun picture or something so they don't forget you.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:09 PM
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Girlfriends in highschool are basically fwbs. I say this because they are usually short-term. You need to chat them up, become friends, take them on a few dates, start making out, drive somewhere quiet in your car, make out some more and go from there. Make sure to wrap it up.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:03 PM
1

I'm 6 inches tall
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:35 AM
2

She's probably looking to cheat. Either that or it's a shit test. Either way A&A
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:26 AM
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Amused mastery. They are acting like a child. Don't take it seriously. What would you do if a 4 year old kid called you a "poopy pants". Do the same thing. (hint, you wouldn't try to kick their ass)
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:35 PM
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Are shit-test tactics passive agressive against males? Nope, they are directly aggressive. Now he comes back with 'I know' then what? Then nothing, he's in your frame. Just roll your eyes and move on. Don't get mad and fight, because then you're in his frame. He apparently touched a nerve with you and is using that to control you. Women will do the same. Don't allow people to control your emotions for you.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:21 PM
2

you don't need to lie, but you shouldn't tell her because it enters her frame
/r/askTRP07/07/18 11:57 AM
1

If you are thinking about women at the gym you're not lifting hard enough.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:08 PM
1

Is she trying to fuck with me and betatize me or does she genuinly need to feel like somebody cares betatize you.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 10:12 PM
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Alot of good replies here, but I think one thing got missed. So I’m sure it adds to the constant need of comfort Don't mistake this stuff for a comfort tests. These are shit tests that you are failing by jumping into her frame. Bottom line is that it sounds like you are pretty sick of her and she is too. Your "good times with her" is you hamstering. Unless you have some really good reason to stick with this chick, I would move on if it were me.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 09:52 PM
10

Maybe he's red pill, maybe he's a natural Chad. Maybe he's just got old-school values. Does it matter? Time to become closer to dad and start learning from him. Not many men have a good role model now days.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 07:10 PM
1

There is a RedPillParenting reddit sub but it's mostly dead. I'm also a divorced dad in my 40s. I was spinning plates. Now I have a ltr that isn't very serious, been 3 years but don't plan on having her move in. If she ever starts drama I'll ghost her. I'm pretty happy with my life now. Spinning plates is probably best for the beginning until you get some more practice with women.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 06:58 PM
1

You can't. It's best to assume that friendly exchanges are signs of sexual interest but escalate carefully. Invite them for drinks, invite them back to your place for more drinks and to watch netflix or something. Escalate from there until you get a hard no. You will get denied sometimes, who cares, we all do. Sometimes you won't. Better to try and fail then not try!
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:55 PM
3

I get that you don't want to seem needy but it's kinda dumb to ignore her if you want to get in her pants. When she said she was busy this week, you should have asked her when would be good?. What do you have to lose? Nothing. She is probably looking for an orbiter, but it can't hurt to try a couple of times to meet her. She might flake, but she might not. You miss every opportunity you don't take.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 05:48 PM
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You make her feel safe by being strong (been lifting right?) and by having strong frame. If she is attracted to you she will feel safe with you. If you are weak, have weak frame, etc, you will seem creepy and she will not feel safe with you. Yeah, it's not really logical, but that seems to be how it works. It has nothing to do with saving her from something.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 05:32 PM
1

You lost frame when you "owned up to it". I think I would have just left her guessing with a "I'll never tell.", A&A, etc.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:05 PM
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You may want to rethink marrying this chick. Not saying you should kick her to the curb just yet, but it's often more difficult to fix a dead bedroom then it is to find a new chick and start things off on the right path.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 03:54 PM
4

It starts with the attitude that school is dumb, and in many ways it is dumb, but go to a poor country where they don't have a school system like ours and kids think school is great because most kids don't get the chance to go to school. He's specifically talking about the idiot young people who would never read a book unless they are forced to. The young people who don't bother to learn to spell or use punctuation. Right now it's cool and trendy to be a dumb stoner. That's his audience, not you…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 10:59 AM
1

Rent a motel room, pretend to be from out of town
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:04 AM
2

I like to meet people first and see where it goes. I play a little blackjack.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:02 AM
1

Read Day Bang by Roosh But yeah, start talking to people and learn how to have conversations
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:51 AM
2

He's probably from Vegas where strippers make up like 25% of the population. Not random town that only has a couple of small clubs. There are some things you can learn there, like how to say no to a girl.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:42 AM
2

It's better to google things then bother others with your questions. Go to the fitness sub and read the sidebar for workout advice Go to a barber and get a good haircut, maybe a fade or a crew cut. go see a dentist google 2018 fashion for men, click on images, and find dudes that look like you
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:26 AM
1

Generally carbs are higher GI which cause someone who eats them to get hungry more quickly. Low carb foods help keep away the hunger which ends up in fewer calories being consumed. Doesn't work for everyone tho.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:22 AM
1

not sure if trolling... men don't vent
/r/askTRP20/06/18 12:50 AM
1

Volunteering is great, helps you meet people, gives you a purpose and a good cause. Make sure it doesn't interfere with your lifting, diet, sleep, etc.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:10 PM
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Just man up. From what I read I would want to break up with you too. Men do actions. Women talk. You need less talking and more doing.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:06 PM
1

Sounds like a smart chick with low sex drive putting you in orbit.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:06 PM
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Yep. See a chick stopped looking at her phone: "whatcha looking at?" Girl gives you a smile, put out your hand: "hi, my name is __" Girl is walking: "excuse me, can you tell me where the __ is?" then try to guess where she is from or something.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:52 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with approaching and talking to anyone anywhere. Just use common sense. Start a convo. See where it goes. This is not scarcity, this is the abundance. But yeah, don't shit where you eat. Don't try to bed the chicks at work and do anything that will cause you unnecessary drama.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:33 PM
1

I didn't mean football training every day. Be smart about it. Something that elevates your heart rate for at least 10 minutes will energize you and will help get you life on track. Yeah, don't overtrain one muscle group. PPL might be good for weight training. You could start by lifting 3 days per week and do walking or biking on the other days. Just do something. Decide for yourself about how you want to limit screen time. If you want to dedicate x hours for programming, great. You can even play…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:12 PM
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Ok, here's your priorities 1. Get a sleep schedule. Set an alarm for when it's time to go to bed. Try to get 8 hours. Why? Bad sleep makes you feel like shit, lazy, and hungry. This is the most important fucking thing you can do, get the right amount of sleep. 2. You need to discipline yourself to workout every day (except one rest day). Once you make yourself do it for a few weeks, it will become a habit and it will be easy. Start with an easy workout that you don't mind doing and work up slowl…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:29 PM
2

Have you checked out the ketogains sub?
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:48 PM
3

I don't get all the approach anxiety people have. Just go over to someone and say hi. If a conversation develops, cool, go from there. If someone isn't receptive to talking to you, "have a good one" and go talk to someone else. edit: another one I've been using lately, chicks are always looking on their phone, I ask them "anything interesting on there?" usually starts a nice convo.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:42 PM
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unsubscribe from nsfw subreddits so you don't see stuff while browsing turn on google safe search the biggest thing though is whenever you are at the computer and start feeling an urge, simply force yourself to get up, walk away from the computer, and go do something else. go to the gym. go clean something. go do something productive with that extra energy. worst case, you can't focus because you're too horny, jack off without the porn.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:40 AM
2

She's angry because she thought she had you hooked on the pussy but she didn't and shes obsessive or something. Whatever, next
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:14 AM
1

Lift, also Check out the book When I Say No I Feel Guilty also, What happens when you drink alcohol?
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:05 AM
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Boxing, mma, any martial arts would be good
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:50 AM
3

do you even frame brah
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:53 PM
8

You won't be an asshole if you keep a smile in your eyes and the mood light. If she keeps pushing after humor, I generally revert to questions (pressure-flip), and finally to broken-record. Her: What's your count? Me: Today? Her: Seriously Me: haha, I'm not telling! Her: blah blah, there is nothing wrong with telling, tell me! Me: haha, never! Her: Come on! Me: Why do you want to know so bad? Her: I'm curious, I want to know Me: Need a better answer than that! Her: blah blah Me: lol no Her: (kee…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:49 PM
1

Do you even frame bro? And deep down I know it’ll crush her if she finds out what I’m doing You're projecting, stop pretending you know how she feels. Do whatever you want, but own that shit. Don't throw it in her face, but if she asks about it don't deny it either. In my opinion, your biggest problem is your guilt. You keep talking about not caring, but then why do you keep talking about it? Because you do care, duh. Alphas don't need to lie. They do what they fucking want to do. When you try t…
/r/askMRP06/06/18 12:07 PM
1

Check out the book "Day Bang" by Roosh. Then go to Starbucks, Chipotle, Panera, etc.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:46 AM
12

It gives you health and strength which give you confidence which is 90% of your game. It gives a reason for girls to look at you and notice you and give you IOI's which gives you confidence which is 90% of your game. Basically it turns you from a nobody into a somebody.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:39 AM
1

You want to be a hero? Do some volunteer work. There are websites like https://www.volunteermatch.org/ and such where you can find opportunities. You may want to start with United Way or Jaycees or something on here: https://charity.lovetoknow.com/Top_100_Charities This is also a great way to socialize and it could develop into a job or look great on your resume. Also, do some sports, even bowling or kick ball or frisbee golf. Also, get a hobby that doesn't revolve around computers or gaming con…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:01 AM
5

Fogging. Let her say her piece then say "I understand" then do whatever you want anyway.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:24 AM
3

Paralysis by analysis something something. A man will not be able to get/keep an high value woman unless he has enough experience with multiple women to understand them. But remember, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I've been in LTRs and I've been the player. When in and LTR I usually get bored of her and want out. When a player, I think I want companionship and go for an LTR. It all comes down to fantasy vs reality. We could think/fantasize about this shit all day wh…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:19 AM
1

Why not all 3? But I suggest you first do the one that will make you the most money quickly. Once you have some bank you can pick up the other things at your leisure.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:05 AM
5

Stoicism is often suggested here for those who are overly emotional and can't control themselves or their mouth. Historic philosophy is generally not discussed so much here because it's a never ending rabbit hole. The goals here are not to sit around and read and discuss. The goal is to just read and learn enough basics to get off your ass and make something of yourself.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:01 AM
0

I don't kiss and tell
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:56 PM
2

except you missed: start being decisive stop giving a shit about what other people think fogging = basically agree with them or pretend to so they'll shut up about it
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 11:21 PM
2

Yep, read the side bar. They use tactics like these to filter out weak men.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:00 PM
1

What about self validation? Don't you want to be nice to yourself? NMMNG is abou others. Do you want people to be nice to you? What do you want to see when you look in the mirror? A dirty fat guy? A lazy good-for-nothing? Raising your smv isn't about others, it's about you. It's about growing up and becoming a mature man. For you. It will give you opportunities that you never had before. Other people will respect you more and will tend to defer to your judgement and help you get what you want. Y…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 11:25 AM
1

Need more details. Why did she say this? Out of the blue? Did you ask for a booty call? She is explaining her feelings right now. That's why you should never ask for sex. She needs to be turned on before she wants sex. Text isn't going to cut it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:35 PM
1

This is the answer. For me my goals are prioritized like this: Low Bodyfat. Bigger muscles (hypertrophy). Be stronger.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 02:40 AM
1

Disinterested, change the subject. They're either clueless or its a shit test.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:28 PM
1

Water is toxic if you drink too much. Everything is. You might get hit by a bus tomorrow and dead. #yolo
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:18 PM
1

forskolin, preworkout with beta alanine, caffeine, betaine, creatine, yohimbine hci, phosphatidic acid from soy lecithin
/r/askTRP27/05/18 12:46 AM
1

Someday you'll understand that any man that has to ask is weird.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:50 PM
1

maybe you can do some stuff with straps? bent over rows, lat pulldowns, etc? machines for legs, pullovers, tricep extention, flys, etc. elbow planks, romanian chair for back Just do real light weight. Don't do anything that hurts, but something is better than nothing. Eat lots of protein to help avoid losing more muscle.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:55 AM
1

Texting too much, too much comfort, = beta. If you have stunning looks = alpha. If you just met someone and don't have stunning looks, yeah, text a little, you need a little comfort or she won't even meet you. Too little texting might be creepy for her. Beta gets success too, but she's not going to be as submissive to you, she will likely get bored of you, will likely make you wait a few dates for sex, and all the other problems that come from being beta-ish.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:08 PM
1

Read the sidebar and search for stuff on frame and shit tests. Use amused mastery more than A&A with your parents unless you are ready to leave. Every instinct in you at this age wants to be independent and to prove you're a man and can handle anything, and to cut all ties with them. You need to realize this is a phase that everyone older than you went through. You need to realize that, as smart as you feel you are, as strong as you are, as cool as you are, and despite anything good you think ab…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:52 PM
2

Search for the Levels of Dread in this and the marriedredpill sub
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 07:38 PM
1

checkout the sub for Testosterone. lots of info in the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 07:25 PM
2

either hold frame, or if you can't, then next
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 07:22 PM
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Why do you ask? Why do you care what other ppl do?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 06:26 PM
2

ugh, you might be a lost cause
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:17 PM
1

Why did you say this?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:23 AM
3

You have issues. Your wife has issues. Guess which issues you can work on? Only yours. Get yourself together. Stop living in her frame. Stop DEERing. Even when you do get yourself together, she probably won't. This relationship is basically over. She will always use sex as a weapon. If it were me, I would put 100% into losing fat, getting in shape, and getting everything else worked out for you. If she comes around, cool, but she probably won't. Tolerate her as long as you can. You will do bette…
/r/askMRP26/04/18 01:02 PM
1

I've been married to two of them.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:26 PM
1

Frame and AM will cover this, but only if you are truly a master. If a chick becomes too much drama or a pain in the ass, fucking get rid of her. It's not that hard.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:43 AM
2

Day bang is all about day game, not clubs. You might want to try Ashwagandha or look into alpha blockers. Also get blood tests run. hyperthyroid and other stuff could cause this.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:36 PM
1

The only way to get better is practice. Start small. Start asking yourself "What is the worst thing that could happen?" Someone might not like you? Someone might say "Leave me alone"? who cares, there's a million other people to talk to. Check out the book "Day Bang" by Roosh. It helps teach you how to have conversations.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:40 PM
1

Lift for a couple of years, get healthy, then you will understand.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 03:05 AM
1

Many studies have been done ranging from 69% - 80% of divorces are filed by women. http://www.divorcemag.com/blog/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:03 PM
4

You talking old people? Yeah, women used to be raised to be loyal and the guys were raised more alpha. You talking younger people? Beta guys in marriage are either with fat/ugly chicks who can do no better; with cute chicks who are seeing Chad on the side; or cute chicks that are still "in-love" which will fade after a year or two and then she will leave him for Chad or someone else. Most marriages don't work out. Most divorces are initiated by the woman. Most men are beta.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:57 AM
1

I go to the gym 6 times per week. But be careful what you call bs https://skinnyfattransformation.com/2-phases-skinny-fat-transformation/
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 06:27 PM
1

A guy who lifts and is healthy will have 80% more confidence than one who doesn't. So if your your normal confidence is extremely low, yeah it will only be slightly better. But it's still better.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:23 AM
1

even 3 months will give health benefits, confidence, and even some iois. yeah it takes a couple of years to build a great body, but it doesn't take that long to see rewards.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:15 AM
0

depends on what you mean. jumping jacks? not so much. chinups, pullups, pistol squats, handstands, rings, etc? yeah those are better.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:13 AM
2

once you make it a habit it becomes easier
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:10 AM
3

lol, try having a shitty unhealthy body, you'll be way worse. If you've been doing it all your life you have nothing to compare it to.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:08 AM
2

So buy some weights and a bench and put it in your yard. Also, bodyweight fitness, flipping tires, sledgehammer training, swimming, rock climbing.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:03 AM
2

it's not you it's me... aka I need to focus on some other stuff right now and I want to be fair to you so I think we should end things for now.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:38 PM
3

You don't have to be married to be here. There are plenty of guys here that love to hear themselves talk and give advice to anyone who will listen. Figure out what is useful for you and do it.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 06:07 PM
2

Lawyer up asap. If she was stalking you and causing violence, consider filing a injunction / restraining order. Something like this will help destroy her credibility. Document everything. Print out your text messages and anything on social media about you guys. You may or may not lose the battle. there is no way to magically just make it end. You are in the biggest chess battle of your life.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:06 AM
1

Please read the top FAQ link on the side bar.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:36 PM
1

Lifting makes you strong which gives you confidence which is 88.3% responsible for positive interactions with women and everyone else.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:25 PM
3

Life sucks for you and these other fag commentators because you're all weak. Go be weak somewhere else or stop being such a whiny little bitch and hit the gym. Life is hard. Being the man that women want is hard. Lifting is hard. Making money is hard. Making a good life is hard. Learning shit is hard. Wa wa wa wa wa. No one ever promised you it would be easy. The only way shit becomes easy is when you become strong. So get strong and get your shit together. Or don't, idgaf
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:38 PM
1

blah, she's upset because you have shit frame and sounded guilty. You framed it like what you are doing is a bad thing. If you had framed it like "yeah, I see other girls too, but I like you so I keep it on the d/l." you would probably have been better off. If you have good frame she will come around to her natural instincts in that you are attractive man and attractive men do this. Although she might have a little jealousy, deep down she won't be upset unless you turn into a weak little bitch a…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:28 PM
2

The only way to stop getting hurt by oneits is to stop getting emotionally invested in women. You thought she was different, she wasn't. Learn and move on, do better with the next one. Take your frustrations out at the gym. Get stronger to stop being a bitch. There are no perfect answers, only things you can do to make the pain less.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:14 PM
1

What's your goal? Hypertrophy? = PPL Strength? = nSuns
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:07 AM
1

The comfort test was mixed with a shit test. You should have teased her instead. Why are you talking about who's paying for what. Just ask her if she got her ticket. I wouldn't pay for the meal either unless she can't, but either way, don't talk about it ahead of time. Don't offer to come over and cuddle, that sounds lame as fuck. Make it something else.. watch a movie or something.. she'd rather sleep because you're not attractive to her. Yea, she sees you as beta bux and you're not being a goo…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:19 AM
2

Do they not have asian restaurants where you live? sheesh
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:44 PM
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This will likely bring you drama, you can cut it off now or see how it plays out, up to you. I suggest ghosting ex's next time if possible so this doesn't happen. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:38 PM
1

I was on pp debate for about a year, most of them seem like Chads that just don't understand why some guys can't get pussy whenever they want, hence my reply.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:48 PM
2

The men claim to be naturals i.e. chads. They have natural frame and are probably somewhat naturally attractive. They think that TRP has extreme advice because they are coming from a different world. For example, if you tell a effeminate man he needs to be more masculine, then he would become a moderately masculine man that can get some women. If you tell a masculine man he needs to be more masculine, then you have a overly cocky asshole that no one wants be around. TRP is for men that are gener…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:53 PM
1

Go to a doctor and get your blood checks. You might just be FTT.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:10 PM
1

Seems like you're in her frame a bit. You might do better if you didn't tell her about fucking other girls and just let her live her little fantasies. Not saying lie and call her girlfriend or anything, but there's no reason to tell her you don't trust her and that she's a side bitch and whatever. Just tease her when she says that shit. Uh oh, someone's getting feelz, time to run haha. If she asks why you won't be her bf just tell her you're focusing on work or something and you don't have time …
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:06 PM
1

Read Day Bang by Roosh V
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:24 PM
2

Life's tough kid. Here's some tough love. It takes you alot of energy to get things done and talk to people because you are weak. You need to get strong. How? Sleep. Google how to get good sleep and do it. Diet. Eat your meat and vegetables. Gym. Just do it. No excuses. You know what to do. You can either whine about how hard everything is and live a shitty life, or you can do something about it. No one is going to save you but you.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:11 PM
2

--> Sidebar : Read the top Frequently Askedtrp'd Question
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:24 AM
3

check out meetup groups
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:14 PM
1

I lie to myself like "I'll go to the gym and just do 1 exercise or half the weight because something is better than nothing" Then when I get to the gym, once I get started, I end up doing the full workout. Same with anything. The most difficult part of doing something, when you feel like that, is getting started. So tell yourself whatever you have to. "I'll just wash 2 dishes" (then I end up washing the whole sink) "I'll just vacuum one room" (then I end up doing the whole house) "I'll just run …
/r/askTRP16/03/18 06:56 PM
3

biggest drama queen this week, sheesh, stop worrying about every little thing and work on building the life you want.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:18 PM
1

social anxiety, only good solution is practice with people until you get better. it might take anxiety drugs (watch out very addictive) or alcohol (somewhat addictive) to get you started.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:37 AM
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She won't shit test if: She finds you attractive enough She doesn't find you attractive and is using you for beta bux other reasons... who gives a fuck, stay in your own frame
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:56 PM
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Do you have any idea how many guys try to msg her? Its alot. You can try but you probably won't get anywhere. In person opening is what separates you from all the lazy dudes who try to do everything through the safety of text. Other texting tips: Make her wait as long as you wait for your reply. Make her wait anyway. You should be too busy doing awesome things instead of looking at your phone all the time like a girl (and most guys now too) You're not going to generate any tingles or attraction …
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:21 AM
0

Sir Sean Connery
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:03 AM
2

Find a way to make this into a good thing. It will give you practice learning to control your emotions. Learn about stoicism. Best way is to act bored. They are being childish so give them as much attention as you would give a bratty 4 year old. Also deadpan humor. Just look at them confused for a second then be like "Oh, that's funny because I'm (fat/skinny/weird looking/whatever). I get it" but don't smile or laugh. They are doing it to entertain themselves. Take the entertainment away and the…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:38 AM
2

I can't think of a single good reason to do this. At first I thought, if you're rolling in money this might be a good way to practice with women, but on second thought, no, she will be completely fake with you and pretend to like you so you keep paying her so never mind. Nothing good can come from this, better to get an escort because at least you get laid.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:25 AM
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Don't ask her on a date, just ask her to meet you for a drink. Then invite her back to your place for a second drink and to watch some netflix or whatever. Then kino and escellate. If she makes you work too hard to get her, she's probably not that attracted to you, find someone else.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:17 AM
1

I always carry different denominations of cash so I can just put my half on the check then hand it to her. If its time to go and she still hasn't gotten any money out I'll ask her "Do you need me to get yours?" This is gold because a girl is all about show and doesn't want to look like a charity case so she'll either pony up, shit test, or be embarrassed because she didn't bring money.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:01 AM
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Why not both? "poor baby, do you need some cuddles?" She's acting like a child, call her out on it in a fun way.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:38 PM
1

idk, I'd have to see you first. you didn't get fat or something did you?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 01:09 AM
1

What programs have you tried? 5-3-1? nSuns? Building the Monolith? Generally once you get to a certain level the only way to continue to make progress is with periodization training. Also, you probably need to eat more and get enough protein. The monolith one actually has you eat a dozen eggs and 1.5 lbs of beef every day. Also check out /r/weightroom
/r/askTRP10/03/18 12:31 AM
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You shouldn't generally use pickup lines. Just introduce yourself.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:37 PM
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I mean, instead of getting a number, just invite her somewhere. Say I'm going to be at x, you should come.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:29 PM
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Girls flake, keep trying. It doesn't hurt to get a date without a phone number. Go straight for a meet for drinks.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 04:41 PM
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Only you can answer that. It won't lower your objective smv. The only thing that matters is how you feel about it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 04:40 PM
1

I usually chuckle at them when they try to argue. If they become too annoying I tell them to leave or I leave.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 02:51 AM
2

Meet for a drink first, make sure she's not a psycho / land whale / creepy / whatever and that gives her the opportunity to do the same thing. After the drink and a little kino, invite her back for more drinks at your place and to watch a movie. Once there, more drinks, more kino, take her by the hand and lead her to the bedroom or just start licking her pussy right on the couch.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:48 AM
2

Let me paraphrase You broke frame by asking her to make decisions and giving her caveats instead of simply leading her. She shit tested you You got confused. Read the sidebar and look into dread game and the other red pill subs designed for married guys.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 11:05 AM
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--> sidebar There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP04/03/18 11:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with it, they are generally more athletic and eager to please then most women. Usually great in the sack. The cons are that they will try to pump you for any money they can and possibly steal your shit if they come to your house. Many are addicts and many are crazy off their rocker.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 11:22 PM
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turn your text notifications off, only look at your phone occasionally
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:38 PM
3

Stop being a whiny little bitch and get some new friends, sheesh, who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:39 PM
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Read Bang and Day Bang by Roosh. Get an escort, it helped me have confidence before I found trp. It will help you realize that sex with a woman really isn't that big of a deal so you can stop stressing out about it and relax. Your problem is, understandably, the concept of sex with a woman is intimidating to you. Women can sense this about you and notice that something is off so it makes them nervous about you. Get comfortable with sex, women will get comfortable with you, bamn, problem solved.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:37 PM
1

I explained what I would do in this situation. Don't take her threat seriously, treat it as a joke, it's a shit test. Joke back, add a little pressure flip, imply that you have other options, get her hamster running a little. Go do awesome things, make her wonder what you're doing. Dread game. Try to seduce her later. Tease the fuck out of her, make her horny. Close the deal. If she still says no, go back to number 1. Repeat as necessary. If she behaves like this often enough it's time to re-eva…
/r/askMRP04/03/18 12:25 PM
1

I just chat on tinder until I meet her and see if she's worth putting in my phone.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:19 PM
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meetup groups
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:24 AM
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I'm guessing english isn't your native language 1) awalt - not every girl will break up with you when you show weakness - you will look more like a human, everybody has some weakness or better put - it doesn't matter what your weakness is, just your reaction matters.. You get points for strength and points for weakness. If your weakness points are greater than your strength points then she will leave you. 2) if she doesn't wanna fuck you in short time, she is not worth it - it is also very hard …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:11 AM
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Why did you ask for her number? I never ask for a number until after I meet a chick. I don't need my phone filled up with useless numbers.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 09:47 PM
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The biggest rule is that you need to appear unphased like Red-Curious. When my last gf tried this I would treat it as if she was joking and "joke" back with her. You have to have a solid frame and be higher in the dread levels for this to work. "Well, I guess I'll have to get it somewhere else then...<smirk>" and leave the house. Kiss her on the cheek or forehead and smile before you go. If she addresses it later smirk again, "a gentleman never tells", flirt with her and escalate. Shut down agai…
/r/askMRP02/03/18 09:43 PM
1

Most women are pretty narcissistic. All the standard advice applies. Push pull, etc. Also, sidebar --> There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:12 AM
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Unless you're sure something is a test just ignore it. Rule #1 stay in your frame. You can pass a shit test by ignoring it. You won't ace it but you can pass it. Read up on amused mastery.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 10:16 PM
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Nothing wrong with that video, good perspective. You can lead a woman in a way she will be happy, but she has to choose to follow that lead. Nothing profound there. If my gf sent me that I would send her a thumbs up emoji or something similar and stfu. Amused mastery, fogging, etc if she wants to go into it. Overall you sound like you're still way to invested in how she is feeling. You DEER too much and need to work on outcome independence. When she was going on and on about the carpool or whate…
/r/askMRP22/02/18 08:51 PM
1

turn gay
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:58 PM
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But I know plenty of guys in bad situations that still get girlfriends This. Make yourself into the best you that you can be. Get your life together and be the man that is worth something.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:09 AM
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Don't go digging through the trash. Go meet new girls. If you can't handle meeting new girls, then you can't handle her.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:02 PM
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--> Sidebar: There's this one girl... She is not different, women are all redpilled but many are not introspective about it. You're letting your hamster run away with you.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:20 PM
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I haven't been able to find a magic answer, it just takes practice. Sounds like you're on the right track. When you fuck up, pay careful attention to how you were feeling. Learn to recognize those feelings when they first start and pause them long enough to think before you speak. It's not easy, but the more you do it, the easier it gets. It took me a couple of years to stop letting my emotions run my mouth.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:12 PM
1

Because text is just words on a screen, just like all the other texts she gets. Texting a little is necessary so you don't seem weird or strange. But the real attraction will come from in-person communication. A very powerful attraction point for women (or anyone actually) is mystery. Why is mystery so awesome? Because it involves her imagination! If she is attracted to you, whatever she doesn't know about you will be filled in automatically by her imagination in the best way possible. This mean…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 05:11 PM
1

read this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7x13zc/get_hard_when_you_hear_the_word_no_the_truth/
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:48 PM
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Depends on the girl. You need to figure out why she is asking. Is she looking for comfort? OR is she looking to not get too serious? The bottom line is that you need to keep her on her toes, but give her enough comfort that she won't think she's going to be pumped-and-dumped. But your frame needs to come from the fact that it's dumb to just jump into a relationship. Even if you did find the perfect unicorn woman, how would you know she was a unicorn before you get to know her? Hell, you may neve…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:51 PM
1

you're right, I literally wrote it with my asshole
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:01 PM
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No don't tell them fwb. I've had good luck with these: "I'm searching for a great girl, why, do you know somebody?" "Looking for a woman who can't keep her hands off me" "Searching for a woman who can make a great sammich" "A lady on the streets but a freak in the bed" ok this one might be too old now.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:56 AM
1

Care to make an intelligent reply or do you just like to go around shitting on things?
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:28 AM
1

Greyskull LP
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:24 AM
1

Check out the Navy bf calculator, it's the most accurate way without a dexa. http://bmi-calories.com/body-fat-percentage-calculator.html
/r/askTRP12/02/18 01:21 AM
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Ask youself What's your mission in life? What are your goals? If those answers involve other people then they may be misguided. At 18 your education and career should be among the top. Hobbies and sports should be second. Everything else should be third. If you are focused on building yourself into something great, other people will get lower on your priorities and you'll stop trying to be such a pleaser.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:12 PM
1

My first reply would have been one of these: LOL (honestly it would have been this one, I would have laughed at her until she gave up or broke up with me haha) It's your birthday?!? oh damn I forgot (just keep fucking with her until she gives up) You're right, I'm a horrible abusive, awful boyfriend. I guess I need to start wearing wife-beaters and move to a trailer park.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:03 PM
1

Because it's a pointless waste of energy at best, and a crutch at worst. Put that energy into improving your life. Don't let your views on society become an excuse as to why your life sucks. Weak men will point to problems in society and say "Society sucks, why even try?". Strong men will say "Fuck society, I'm going to a goddam force to be reckoned with."
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:54 PM
1

Your arguments are full of strawmen implying all kinds of things I didn't say. Men should strengthen their frame to be able to handle all kinds of people. Amused mastery and A&A are the best tools for this. Have a nice day.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:48 PM
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Funny, only people who say that are newbs because I'm not all edgy and dramatic like them. I used to be like that when I was a kid too, it's a phase, you'll grow out of it.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:09 AM
0

Products are junk but pheromones are real. I personally shower when i wake up, don't wear anything that smells, and don't shower after the gym. The chicks seem to dig my natural smell if it's fresh. (Don't skip the morning shower, by the 2nd day it's nasty)
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:19 AM
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Chicks are generally more attracted to outsiders then they are to locals. Play on your exoticisim. Be a little eccentric and over the top but friendly and funny. Ask for directions and advice and stuff from the girls. Then just keep the convo going. Invite them for a drink and go from there.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:16 AM
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Personally, in my 40s, I kinda wish I had studied law. Oh well I don't do too bad. No reason to despise the system or society. That's just a cop out. Learn to work within it and manipulate it for your own good. Don't be cynical or have hope. Learn stoicism, live in the moment. If you want something deeper check out buddhism. If nothing else, at least get into meditation. Every weekend or two, try something new. Sports, extreme sports, I strongly suggest martial arts. Try some magic mushrooms som…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:11 AM
1

not unless the next branch breaks it off, even then, in her mind, nothing is her fault. who cares, women are fickle, be glad you're not one
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:56 AM
1

My first 2 wives and my daughter (who is now in her 20s) are BPD. I'm not making this shit up. The shit tests are the same only bigger and more dramatic. A&A works perfectly. Learn from my exp or keep making excuses for your shitty frame.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:42 AM
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First, You can't diagnose this shit over the internet. Second, you need to be strong enough to lead someone where you want them to go. You reframe it and draw her into your frame instead of following her down her crazy path. A&A works perfectly with this stuff. What do you think a shit test is?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:33 AM
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that would have been my response, i would have laughed at her until she gave up her bs or left,
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:29 AM
1

Good luck, they all pretty much get that way
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:28 AM
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LOL
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:16 AM
3

A&A to absurdity
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:15 AM
0

Its both. Shit tests are cray.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:08 AM
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It's a shit test, you jumped instantly into her frame when you should have A&A.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:25 PM
2

If you want to bang ugly chicks it's great. Otherwise man up and go approach.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:14 PM
1

Good looking body helps, but stronger charisma and confidence will get you IOIs. Lifting isn't just for muscles. It makes you feel stronger which will translate to confidence.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:58 AM
1

A few months will help your posture, make you feel stronger and better, and best of all it will give you some confidence. Guess which one will get you noticed? I'm not saying you'll get women or get fucked after lifting for a couple of months, but I guarantee you'll get an IOI or two from at least an SMV 5. You'll get more than you were getting before.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:54 AM
2

Honestly, don't game a chick on tinder. She matched you which means she already either wants to fuck you or wants validation. Validation is easy to rule out I'll explain later. If she wants to fuck you then you're good unless you come across as too-dangerous or retarded. Just make a little convo, what are you up to, etc. Don't reply too quickly. After a 2-3 questions/answers, ignore her for a day. Then ask her what night is is available to meet for a drink. If she balks at the question, she's a …
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:48 PM
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it was cringy as fuck
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:23 PM
3

Not a model but you need to lift for a few months and not be fat or have bad hygiene. It's not that hard to look better then most guys and get a few IOI's.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:22 PM
3

Don't talk about other matches or other girls, it comes across as try-hard.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:19 PM
1

military combat
/r/MensRights08/02/18 12:36 AM
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ASkTRP, What is the best way to say this? The best way is not to say anything because it will trigger ASD. Just do it. Escalate with her. If she doesn't want sex then next her.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:58 PM
5

You forgot to amplify.
/r/askMRP03/02/18 05:59 PM
3

To play devil's advocate you seem to be dismissing chromosomes as if they are fairly insignificant which isn't true. DNA pairs have been proven to cause a vast number of characteristics of a child. Everything from eye/hair color to major genetic disorders and syndromes have been traced to DNA. They haven't traced all of them yet, who's to say some particular recessive gene can't cause homosexuality? I don't know one way or the other, I see arguments for both sides. There could even be a mixture …
/r/askTRP20/01/18 01:34 AM
1

There's only one way to get better at anything: practice Workout more, study more, and practice confidence until it comes naturally. Start talking to people as much as possible and eventually it will become easy, even talking to girls.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 01:31 AM
1

I text someone when I damn well please.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 07:19 PM
1

Life is tough. Things are not like we wanted them to be. Women are not who we thought they are. Yeah it's sad. It sucks. But it's real. So you have two choices. Live in a real world or a fake one. Guess which one will get you further in life and make you happier in the long run? The real one. If you don't accept the truth you will live in nothing but continual heartbreak.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:01 AM
1

Put away the game console for a week (or get rid of it). Go do shit outside. The hardest part of achieving your goals is GETTING STARTED
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:15 PM
1

trolloolol
/r/askTRP07/01/18 02:30 AM
1

I'm explaining that your assumptions are wrong. Alpha bucks is indeed a concept that's been talked about here for years. It's the ultimate goal for a woman to nail one down. They are generally celebrities and very powerful men.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 11:12 PM
1

Alpha bucks are rock stars and movie stars and wealthy CEOs. Women do want these guys, but they are out of most girls' league.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:38 PM
1

"Do you need me to get yours?" She will respond one of three ways: Pony up fast. Girls don't want to seem like a charity case. They are all about the brands and looking good. They don't have money with them. That's ok, they can get it next time. Shit test, something like "Can't buy a girl a drink?" Proper response agree "I can if you need me to." or A&A "Oh sure, want me to buy you a new outfit while I'm at it? Maybe I should go wash your car for you too? " etc.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 02:52 AM
2

He looks like these guys /r/LadyBoners/
/r/askTRP03/01/18 11:38 AM
3

And.. I'm officially done with this sub. Happy new year to all the sex geeks in here!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 04:08 PM
1

--> sidebar There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP29/12/17 03:00 PM
1

Here's what you need to do in order. fix your sleep habits. get 8 hours every night. this will fix alot of shit. fix your diet. avoid sugar and carbs. eat some fucking vegetables instead of fapping go for a walk instead. start jogging and then running do strength training figure out some other goals and do them
/r/askTRP28/12/17 11:54 AM
1

Check out the book "When I Say No I Feel Guilty"
/r/askTRP28/12/17 11:34 AM
3

and neither does yours
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 10:16 PM
1

I found it easier to just go for a meetup. Tell her "We should meet for a drink, when are you available". If you still like her after meeting her, that's the time to ask for a #.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 10:13 PM
3

Reading this just reminded me of another reason a woman will apologize. Sometimes she will apologize, not because she is actually sorry, but because her hamster is running and she wants to vet your feelings. It often comes a little bit after she had an emotional outburst of some sort. She'll say something like "Sorry for xx earlier". She's not saying this because she is owning her shit, she's saying this because she want to feel you out to see how mad you are at her. (and how much you are in her…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/17 09:28 PM
1

If you spent 1-2 minutes listening to her problem then you did your job. You should respond with something like "That really sucks babe, you need a hug." and give her a hug. If you then hear "You don't care about my problems" it is a shit test. Answer something like "Huh? What problems?" "When did you tell me about that?" "Nah, you never told me, if you did I'm sure I totally would have cared!" Just be silly with it until she gives up and laughs.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 08:03 PM
9

OYS is a personal private thing. Apologies only make someone appear weak. This goes 2x for women. If you haven't noticed, women rarely apologize unless they are desperate, groveling, or in fear of something. Even then they are insincere.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/17 07:52 PM
3

black pill is basically incel mgtow
/r/askTRP22/12/17 02:46 PM
1

first dates should be cheap... a drink or coffee at the most. the point is they need to see you're not a creep, then invite them over to watch some netflix or whatever. kino and escalate.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 12:05 AM
0

usually fogging is the correct answer
/r/askTRP07/12/17 01:09 AM
2

This one is difficult in text because you can't see if she's nervous or shit testing. It is either a shit test or ASD and you can't tell which through text. Non committal answer but still "in charge" answer is best. Throw in a bit of humor too. Something like "We can play it by ear. Personally thinking we should drop acid and go night skydiving but we might want to make it an early night. Let's see how we feel."
/r/askTRP04/12/17 09:36 PM
3

Read this and the rest of this guys submitted posts https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP04/12/17 09:00 PM
2

Because the OP didn't include the actual definitions TRP uses for dread. Passive dread is everything 5 and below. Active dread is only used as a last-resort in a dead bedroom relationship after nothing else works. It's a final "hail mary" to save the relationship. And yeah, it only works with certain people. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:57 PM
1

The lower stages of Dread (lifting, looking nice) are good advice for anything. The higher stages are for LTRs that have turned into dead bedrooms and are only to be used if the lower levels (see above) have no impact. The higher stages are a LAST DITCH effort to save a failing relationship. At that point there is nothing to lose anyway. Everything else should have already been tried. Edit: Here's the definition and levels of dread since OP neglected to include them https://www.reddit.com/r/TheR…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:09 PM
3

Looks matter, but how you look to yourself is what drives confidence, and confidence matters more than anything. Look at someone like Nick Vujicic. He's got a hot wife and doesn't even have arms or legs.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 02:59 PM
1

Are you a smoking hot walking definition of an Alpha? - Probably not; most men aren't. I do alright. I used to be kinda fat but I've been lifting a couple of years and have cut to about 15% body fat. Will eventually get down to ~10. Fat is the #1 thing that makes people ugly imo. The women I get IOIs from seem to agree. Are you the living pillar of self-confidence? - Probably not; most men aren't. I'm pretty confident but I haven't always been. Lifting made a big difference. Practicing with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:16 AM
1

The basic advice still applies and will help you with almost anything. Lift, eat right, sleep good, etc. There is no magical way to get over something. You just gotta realize that assholes are assholes and let it go.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:27 AM
1

I don't know anything about this personal situation, but you should learn to be a little cynical, this is very very common.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:50 PM
15

Yeah you probably shouldn't do that while they're around.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:32 PM
1

I find logic has a much higher influence in men. Men generally learn to repress their feelings as they mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 07:31 PM
15

Having raised a daughter myself, something like amused mastery was what I used the most with her. You will catch more flies with honey during teenage years. They will respect you more as a "wise old friend" then they will if you are overly authoritarian with them. Make sure the pathways of communication are open. Let them know they are free to discuss anything with you. Girls are generally less embarrassed to talk about sexual matters, birth control, etc, then boys are. Let them know you are alw…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:28 PM
3

They walk like they own the fucking place
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:19 PM
4

Pretty much every woman I know has claimed to be assaulted at some point. Pretty sure most just like the attention it gets them.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:18 PM
7

I'm wondering what the long term effects will be. I think there will be a backlash. Many of these men are fairly powerful and influential. I wonder if women are digging their own grave with this crying wolf mentality. Eventually no one is going to take them seriously even when serious misconduct does happen. I'm curious to see what will happen then.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:16 PM
1

Generally I find women are pretty easy to figure out. Most are emotionally driven. Emotionally driven people are easy to understand and predict just as children are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 07:04 PM
2

Who cares if some people think its creepy. Go do it anyway. Coffee shops, book stores, etc. Check out the book Day Bang by Roosh. It shows you how to start cold conversations without seeming creepy. Some women will give you extra points for having the balls to break social norms. Another option would be to attend some easy classes and meet women there.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:39 PM
1

When I was using tinder 3 years ago. I met about 3-4 women per week and had sex with almost half of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 08:24 PM
26

ignore it, it's a plea for attention and nothing more. if you want this crazy chick you're going to have to man up and get her to meet you somewhere.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 01:44 PM
1

Little kid throws a temper tantrum because she can't have candy before dinner. She's gonna hold her breath until she turns blue and beat on the floor with her feet and fists. It's kinda funny to watch such a spectacle. Don't take life so seriously, nobody gets out alive.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 05:23 PM
1

Sidebar --> What are Shit Tests and how do I handle them
/r/askTRP25/11/17 01:16 AM
1

An apology never helps anything. I can't think of a single thing its useful for.
/r/askMRP25/11/17 12:23 AM
1

AWALT is about basic biological differences between women and men. All women want strong masculine powerful men (assuming she isn't biologically gay, this is pretty rare). All women want the best man they can get and will be inclined to branch swing to a better man if she can.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 03:59 PM
1

Hi, my name is...
/r/askTRP22/11/17 03:44 PM
6

Yep. Crazy ex fights with everyone including her dad. I have a decent relationship with her dad. He's a good guy, but we mostly maintain it so that he can have a relationship with his grandson. Family is important so I do my part to maintain that relationship and so does he.
/r/askMRP22/11/17 05:19 AM
1

A date needs to be planning and logistics and usually money. I'm sure it's great for the girl, but for the guy it's generally more drudgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 05:15 AM
2

I'm sure it happens, but it certainly isn't common in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:55 AM
2

If only... my ex wives always found reasons to quit their jobs and contribute as little as possible. Why would you need a date to have sex anyway? Again, sounds like a transaction. Ideally sex would be something two people would just enjoy with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:54 AM
5

Surprised no one else has said this. When RP says that women generally only bring sex to the table, it's not because he doesn't want her partnership, financial and other contributions, quality time, etc. It's because most good looking girls have been so coddled and made to feel like a princess all of their life, that they don't think they have to contribute any other way. In their mind, the men should always pay, they should do all the housework, the men should do all planning, and the man shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:45 AM
3

sounds transactional again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:35 AM
3

Stay at home men are quite rare. Women rarely have a relationship with a man that makes less than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:23 AM
3

Be strong enough to pick up your wife and fuck with your son. Um.. shouldn't you be picking up your son and fucking with your wife?
/r/askMRP22/11/17 02:18 AM
5

hahahaha, chicks fucking love attention. They practically live for it. If you are cool and confident (and attractive) this will be her moment to shine. The only reason a girl will be embarrassed or creeped out is if she doesn't find you attractive. That said, if you're just being cool and having a conversation, which is what you should be doing, why would anyone care? Just chat with her for a couple of minutes between sets, then tell her you enjoyed the chat and ask for her number or snapchat or…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:14 AM
1

I usually go with something like "I've got too much going on in my life right now and I need some space to work things out. I know it's hard but this will be better for us both in the long run. I wish you the best and know you will meet someone great."
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:26 AM
1

Your biggest fuckup is you have no frame. You DEER'd like a little bitch. Here's your major fuck-ups in order. I explained to my gf the best way humanly fucking possible Don't explain shit. It only makes you look worse. I've admitted that I was completely wrong and looked like a psychotic tit She didn't really think this until you cemented it into her mind. She's not putting herself into my shoes and understanding Women don't do this, know why? she has frame and you don't. I think the issue is h…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:11 PM
2

First you need to be attractive. Then you need to get a girlfriend, don't worry about plates for now. High school girlfriends don't usually last long anyway. Then you need to take her somewhere private and start making out with her and get her in the mood and keep going from there. Make sure to wrap it up, don't ruin your life with having a baby so young.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:47 PM
1

you're killin me smalls
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:20 PM
2

idgaf what she is thinking about, by the time she's getting plowed she knows who is doing the wreckin
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:20 PM
1

Yeah, being direct works sometimes, depends on the girl. Being subtle works way way better. I've been doing this for years and have tried pretty much everything. Now I'm here trying to help the newbs get some trim. If you want to up your game you might want to give it a try. If you're happy with how you are then great.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:36 PM
3

hahaha, direct with women? go ahead and see how that works out for you. act like a faggot your mom
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:54 PM
4

Definitely more then 500 women, and you talk like you're about 12.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:47 PM
5

Are you a teenager or something? Who gives a fuck what an ex said, if it makes you mad you have shit frame. Do you even lift bro?
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:38 PM
1

Yeah you're over thinking it. nobody gives a fuck about who you add on facebook. But yeah. You are obsessed over someone. That's a problem. Get your life together man. If you need some sex, go practice on some escorts or something but don't get stuck here, it would just be a stepping stone to get some abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:33 PM
0

I usually put on a movie with a hot actor. Not sure if it helps get her in the mood bit it might. Borne Identity movies, etc.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:28 PM
9

No you should not be clear about it. That's what starts ASD. Putting on a movie gives the girl an excuse to have things "just happen".
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:27 PM
5

Never apologize, it doesn't help anything, it just makes you look weak. Why would you marry someone like this? Is she your only choice? If you want to stay out late, fucking do it, it's not her choice to make. She can take it or leave it. If she doesn't like it, there's the door. Don't tolerate nagging, bitching, whatever. If she wants to be pissed she can go do that somewhere else. If you marry her with these attitudes, you are going to have a shit marriage and she will divorce you and fuck you…
/r/askMRP17/11/17 03:38 PM
4

Ease off a little but not too much. She really likes you which means she likes what you are doing. You want to keep her a little off balance, but not crazy off balance.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:36 PM
2

I don't give a fuck if he's real or not, it's entertainment
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:01 AM
2

You obviously want to keep your identity private, but can you at least give some information? Whats your age range? Are you mostly tv or movies? Married? Kids? What lead you to TRP? How long have you been in TRP? Do you lift? How many degrees are you from Kevin Bacon? How do you feel about dark triad?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:30 PM
8

Only thing I can think of is when there is a couple that has been married for 50 years. I guess they don't make women like they used to.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:30 AM
1

trollolol
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:18 AM
2

So you have the strength to lift that much but not the strength to dismiss the ramblings of a girl?
/r/askTRP11/11/17 11:40 AM
0

you are a weak whiny little bitch that needs to hit the gym for a year or two, no offense
/r/askTRP11/11/17 12:38 AM
1

You took a tinder girl to dinner?
/r/askTRP11/11/17 12:03 AM
3

Not sure exactly what you mean by screen tests but if you mean compliance tests, when I'm talking to a new girl and if I'm getting a good vibe from her, one thing I like to do is take her by the hand and lead her somewhere. I might say "come over here I want to show you something" or something to that affect. If she follows without hesitation that's a good sign that she's into you. If she pulls away or hesitates or whatever then it's an indicator I'm wasting my time.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:19 PM
5

This will usually trigger ASD. They want it to "just happen"
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:56 PM
2

Yeah the boogyman is everywhere, zomg.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 01:38 PM
1

Ad hominems and strawmen will get you nowhere. Bring up a specific issue or quit your whining. Life's a bitch, no one promised you it would be a rose garden. If you can't handle being around strong men then maybe you should go back and live with your mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 01:38 PM
2

Best strawman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 11:37 PM
3

If a bunch of people want to go jump off a bridge and I don't then my idea is right and theirs are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:33 PM
7

Don't go there if you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:29 PM
2

Such women must be easily amused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:16 PM
3

Nice try at a strawman but I don't think of other beings as objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:16 PM
5

Glad someone got the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:13 PM
19

TRP is men talking the way men talk to each other. Sometimes it's called locker room talk. Women have made it very clear, especially in the last several decades, that they are too sensitive to hear that talk so we all filter our speech when we are around women, children, and white knights. Just because it's different then the way you talk doesn't make it wrong. No one is forcing you to read those things. TRP is our safe space to talk like men. Don't go there if you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 11:56 AM
-1

It would have been better to A&A or turn this into a joke instead of being harsh with her. Even if you just laugh at her like she was joking or even A&A with a big smirk like "oh sure, want me to get you a coffee while I'm at it? maybe I can go wash your car for you too!" They would have laughed, you laugh while you walk away, everyone saves face. Now this bitch is gonna be out to get you. The drama begins.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:48 AM
1

It means that you are outcome independent. It means that you don't really care if a particular woman likes you or not. It means you don't start buying some woman flowers and candy because you want her to like you. It means you don't start texting her like crazy just because you got her number. It means you use push and pull on her, acting a little interested sometimes but aloof others.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 11:37 AM
1

Depends on what you're doing at the gym. If you're working different muscles it's fine.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 11:24 AM
2

NMMNG is not red pill. It is a very good book and gives you many good tools, but it isn't trp gospel. If you want a woman to be attracted to you, you should not show her any weakness. Also, positive emotions: excitement, passion, humor, happiness, etc are fine to share. Anger is good too in the right context (generally righteous anger, not butthurt anger.)
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:49 AM
1

How do you guys cope with having professional goals, personal standards, and obligations to loved ones and manage not to cave under the stress with the knowledge that if you fail, nobody is responsible but you? You work every day to get a little bit stronger, a little bit richer and a little bit closer to your other goals. Goals are achieved one day at a time. Also, risk management. At the most basic level you can write down all the worst things that can happen to you and rate them 1-10 on how b…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:49 PM
6

Analogies go right over your head sometimes don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 11:33 PM
2

100% Stronger then having no man around. men who left their sons behind Most divorces are initiated by women and women get higher custody percentages so I wouldn't blame this on "men leaving their sons behind".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:52 PM
2

It's just a giant shit test. A&A and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:49 PM
1

define normal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:30 PM
6

Too many boys being raised without a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 12:30 PM
1

This is pretty old but it will give you a little insight. After you watch that also find the ebook Sex God Method which is better. NSFW https://www.xvideos.com/video7752083/dvd-04_1993_lover_s_sex_guide_-_better_orgasms_for_women
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:27 PM
1

If it were me and I had to do it all over again I would take my kid and leave. Move him to a new school. File papers asking for full custody. Make her fight to get joint custody. Worry about the house and shit later. If you have joint finances open a new account first and make sure your money is going into it. Leave her high and dry as possible. She will not have mercy on you. Don't give her mercy either. Do what's best for your kid!
/r/askMRP02/11/17 06:20 PM
3

You have to date a bunch of women to find a good one. You have to have experience from dating a bunch of women to keep a good one (once you find one)
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:09 PM
1

When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Great for frame!
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:46 PM
19

I bet you lock the door on your house and car when you don't want your shit stolen too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 01:45 PM
2

If you say it like she needs charity you will trigger her strong-independent-woman reflex.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:14 PM
8

They are acting childish, treat them like they are a 5 year old calling you a poopy head. Would you hit a 5 year old? no, you laugh at them because they are no threat to you. Learn amused mastery.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:18 PM
2

Lifting, HIIT, I.F., eat eggs, red meat, proper rest all together will help maybe 10%.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:16 PM
8

Simply ask her if she needs you to get hers. Girls are all about show and will do one of 3 things. 1) Pony up fast. 2) Lame excuse why she doesn't have any money but will make it up to you. or 3) Shit-test something like "What, can't buy a girl a drink?" to which you respond "Sure if you need me to." which will usually get her money out.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:52 PM
1

She will chase you when become a rock star, famous actor, or give her mind blowing orgasms.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:41 PM
3

Check out the book Day Bang by Roosh. It takes you through how to start conversations, what to talk about and what not to talk about. Keep things light at first by talking about something they are holding or ask for some general advice. Get them talking about themselves. Then say you have to go but you enjoyed the conversation and ask for a phone number or ask to meet them for a drink/coffee/tea/snack/walk/whatever so you can continue the conversation. That's when you get flirty, kino, etc. But …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:37 PM
5

It's only cringe if you care what people think. I think you missed the point.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:28 PM
2

"I'm busy"
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:50 PM
1

First of all you are overly self absorbed. That was way too long, we don't really want to read your life story, just get to the fucking point. So she's talking and I told her what I would do in her shitty life situation. Don't do this, just pretend to empathise. "Yeah that sucks" "What a bunch of bullshit" pretend to almost care about what she says. Girls talk, at first, to get comfortable with you. Sharing their experiences makes them feel comfortable and more open to intimacy which is good. Bu…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:49 PM
2

The ability change your instinctual emotions only comes from experience. You have to train yourself to laugh when you start to feel the anger in your body. The only shortcut I can think of would be to get involved in martial arts where you spar with people, take some hits and don't get emotional about it.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:29 PM
1

Here's something you might like: https://www.superbetter.com/
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:56 PM
3

There's Big&Tall. Is the term huskey still used?
/r/MensRights26/10/17 12:05 PM
1

Are you talking about other girls you are fucking? You shouldn't do that. The dread is too high, her head will explode.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:03 PM
1

There's plenty of guys that skip leg day haha, look around at the gym. I don't advocate it but you gotta do what you gotta do. Can you at least do stationary bike or something?
/r/askMRP26/10/17 11:57 AM
3

She's teasing you, quit getting butthurt, laugh at it, make it worse That's magnificent boy to you! Damn straight I'm a good boy and don't you forget it. It's so cute when you do that. Don't get used to it Yeah I'm so good I deserve a BJ Just spank her ass btw, you never told us why she says it. maybe you just need to quit whatever you're doing to make her say it.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:06 AM
2

I used to feel like that. It's the anger phase. You'll get over it in a year or so. Keep lifting. Keep bettering yourself. I suggest you keep dating, some women are better then others, who knows, maybe you'll find someone you'll date for several years and she won't piss you off. I found one. Almost zero drama. That said, I'm not sure I will ever have her move in, but who knows what will happen in a few years, I am getting older.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:58 AM
2

People can comment anything. I'm reading her actual tweet from the article. It doesn't say anywhere he did anything of a sexual nature to her other than possibly telling her vaguely described "dirty joke"
/r/MensRights26/10/17 12:33 AM
7

Maybe she backed into his shoulder and touched him with her butt
/r/MensRights25/10/17 08:21 PM
4

Touching someone from behind is automatically sexual assault? She didn't say he actually touched her ass. Looks like they were huddled up for a picture. Maybe she touched his shoulder with her butt and shouldn't have stood so close?
/r/MensRights25/10/17 08:19 PM
2

My response is "sure, you certainly are not my enemy." I would assume she means fwb and keep escalating. Ignore what she says (unless it's a hard no), and watch what she does. If it becomes clear that she is not attracted to me, yeah I soft next.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:03 PM
1

Not sure which part you are referring to so I guess I will answer both. He'll do much better online because the women there are somewhat prequalified, i.e. they're probably single and ready to date. The quality goes down because high quality women rarely need to resort to online dating so there are fewer of them. The ones that do go there are flooded with matches and probably won't get around to mine. The lower quality women will have fewer matches and therefor my chances increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 02:53 PM
4

Getting a new hot girl into bed once a month is pretty impressive. The reason for cold approach isn't high numbers, it's the quality of the women. Probably 50% of those women are not a single lay, they become plates which hook up once a week or so. After a few months you get a rotation going and a good TRP guy will be getting laid 3-4 times per week with different hot women every night of the week. If a TRP guy just wants to get laid he'll do much better on tinder or bumble or whatever, but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 02:22 PM
1

"Manage your bitches" is a link to a thread where the author uses a writing style filled with hyperbole and locker-room talk to help pushover/doormat/manboys understand how to stop their lame behavior and manage their romantic life. I wouldn't really expect you to understand it as you are not the target audience. If there is some part in there you have a question about I would be happy to clarify if I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:54 PM
2

This is a huge difference for men and women. Even attractive men can't get laid as easily as an ugly woman can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:46 PM
2

Ok, well how is "managing your bitches" a life goal? Can you provide some context for your question? I'm not familiar with anything saying "manage your bitches"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:45 PM
2

check your privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:43 PM
1

You completely misunderstand the terms and you're projecting your own emotions onto them which makes it basically impossible to have a rational conversation with you. Either that or your "debate" techniques involve ad-hominems and gaslighting. But to answer your question, I don't support some abstract "TRP". What I do is help other men in the forums achieve their goals, in life and in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:41 PM
2

But I've got a neighbor even uglier than me and two more around the corner uglier than us and they'd all drop their trousers just out of boredom. This is a huge difference for men and women. Even attractive men can't get laid as easily as an ugly woman can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:30 PM
1

I actually wish I was gay but unfortunately I'm not attracted to men. I wish that the women I meet were not selfish and we could have a relationship where we support each other equally, but that hasn't happened yet and I've dated quite a few. I wish life was puppies and rainbows. I can wish all day and it won't make a bit of difference. Women are what they are. The world is what it is. Wishing won't make it any different. Why date somebody who's company you don't like? How can you want to lie do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:24 PM
2

Your premise is wrong because no one is attacking anyone. TRP teaches a man how to attract women and even helps with how to keep one if the man chooses. It's generally considered by TRP that women are more machiavellian and less of a team player then a man is. Most men want an intimate, team like, relationship but finding a loyal woman is almost impossible anymore so why bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 04:03 PM
1

Personally, if I come across something that isn't relevant to me, I ignore it. I don't really give a fuck what others do/think unless it somehow affects me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:04 PM
3

It's creepy because it means you are weak and need help. Maybe creepy is a strong word, but it means that it's a huge turn off. They find it unattractive. I do have female friends but I do not use their advice. Here's why. Women don't know what they want. (They say they want a nice guy but then fuck assholes because the assholes turn them on and the nice guys don't) Women communicate differently then men. (They say they want a nice guy but they mean a nice guy who looks like magic mike) Asking o…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 02:39 PM
3

Read the book Day Bang, it's easy to find or cheap on amazon. Day game is a very subdued version of night game. You start out with "hi" and maybe a smile. At first, read her body language and if she seems like she doesn't want to talk to you, then don't talk to her further. If she seems ok, ask simple, non-threatening questions. Do you know what time it is? (This can be funny if you have a watch on) Do you know how to get to X? (some place interesting). You should be able to tell if she is getti…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 11:33 AM
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There's different kinds of love. I love a good juicy burger that is cooked to perfection. This is how a woman loves a man. (I call it a taking love) Men will take care of and protect their woman, provide for her, and maybe even die for her. (I call it a giving love)
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:10 PM
2

We can't decide for you, figure out what is most important to you and go for that.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:59 PM
1

You're not doing it right, get more attractive
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:47 PM
1

I haven't paid for any of their material but the stuff I've seen on youtube is quite good. Good looking body is difficult to make up for in game. Gym is hard but it's easier then changing your personality. (and gym will change your personality for the better as well!)
/r/askTRP17/10/17 08:36 PM
6

once I tell them I'm from XYZ in India, they'll usually say, "oh, you are a FOB(Fresh Off the Boat)? Hmmm... what could be changed to have a different outcome... Oh, I know, you could not tell them you are from XYZ!
/r/askTRP17/10/17 08:31 PM
1

I know this sounds harsh but you are in dire need of some tough love. You have basically become a drug addict but for the relationship. This happens sometimes to people who have no self confidence. Deep down they feel like they don't deserve someone. So first of all you need to quit drugs (i.e. the relationship), yes it will be hard. Yes you will try to keep justifying your behaviour to get a little bit more. Sorry bud, but you need to quit. Next you need to rebuild your life. Hit the gym, get h…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:45 AM
1

Yes, you will get much higher quality women then online dating
/r/askTRP15/10/17 11:32 PM
1

You should do more interesting things so you have interesting things to talk about. Get a hobby man.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 11:17 PM
15

Stop texting her and asking her for pics, that's lame as fuck. Spend time with her in person instead.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 11:11 PM
5

hmm lets see normal is boring and unmemorable normal words are easy to use in conversation. talking with a girl about how she's being gamed (sorry, woo'ed) kills the vibe. using code words makes it easier to keep that it inside for the aspergers types that find it hard to keep quiet. men talk differently then women, it doesn't make it wrong I don't complain about how women talk and have to yap yap yap about everything.., oh wait, sometimes I do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 05:59 PM
1

kno, u will dead if u bike & lift
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:26 PM
1

Came to write this.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 06:24 PM
1

can I have that 90 seconds of my life back please most of this stuff doesn't make sense starting with: she mad because you asked if she was okay. I suggest you read book "When I say no I feel guilty"
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:07 PM
2

The only person you can change is you. If you don't like something in your life, figure out what you can change to improve it. Maybe you need to start hanging out with different people. Join meetup.com and find some new groups. Be bubbly and friendly with people and initiate conversations. Make new friends.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:17 AM
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Your biggest mistake here is that you are expecting her to tell you the truth to your face. She can't and won't. The other guy had shit game, need looks + game.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:53 PM
4

Why are you even here wasting other peoples time with this?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:08 AM
9

Low SMV girls don't like bodybuilders but it's because they know they can't get them. Most women find Dwayne Johnson, Magic Mike, Chimpindales, etc. attractive. Think they don't fit your description?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:01 AM
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Read the side bar. You are not special. Lift, watch your diet, get good sleep. Yeah life's hard. Tough shit.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 09:58 AM
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I would go ahead and guess she doesn't want to date (i.e. beta relationship) She's either messing with you for attention (probably) Or she just wants you to take her hand and lead her to the bedroom.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 02:12 PM
1

If you want to pick up girls in the gym you're not lifting heavy enough. Otherwise, it's just like any place else. I like to hold out my hand and say "Hi, my name is..."
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:35 PM
1

So what's your long term plan? She is upset and if you do nothing but let her fester she will continue to change tactics until she finds one that works. Good on you for getting the basics down, but don't think what you're doing is enough. Managing your own frame is step 1, but at some point you're going to have to manage her's as well. Right now, as captain, you may be weathering the storm but at some point you will need to turn things into a positive direction... away from that storm.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 02:55 PM
2

Did you do full panel of blood tests? How's your thyroid? T? I find that doing some kind of workout every day helps. Even if it's just walking or backpacking a mile. Some pushups, etc. What's your bmi? Need to lose weight? Eating meat and vegetables every day? Getting enough protein? Omega 3? You talk about focus, are you ADD? Do you need medication for that? How's your dental health? Up to date on cleanings, etc? Making sure I'm active in some way every day makes the most difference for me. Die…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:00 PM
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"Do you need me to get yours?" Women are all about show. She will either pony up fast or will have some excuse. The response will help decide if she is even worthwhile. Also, first date should be drinks or a walk or something cheap.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 06:15 PM
1

You would respond by being aloof but there is no one-size-fits-all answer. You need to learn the material in the side bar. Read the top posts on the main thread. Check out some of the recommended books. You need to start working on learning the right skills.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:49 PM
3

Allow me to interpret: Her: Is everything ok? (do you have a strong frame? are you worth my time? my hamster is running because you haven't tried to fuck me yet) You: Of course, why? (yes I'm in your frame and am not worth your time) Her: You just seem off (that was a bad answer and now I'm pretty sure you're not worth my time) You: You haven't seen me on then. (this wasn't to bad, you reframed it) Her: I would like to (stop being such a beta fag and try to fuck me already) You are way too stuck…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:18 PM
1

Ignore or give a "Uhm... anyway" like she's not worth your time.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:37 PM
3

There is an old saying. "Never fall in love with a girl because she will grow up and break you're heart."
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:26 AM
1

Don't get all beta because she cries. Comfort tests should not break your frame. Yeah, give her a hug, yeah tell her something nice, then stfu or change the subject.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 02:15 PM
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Dude, it's been 3 months. That is too short of a time. It might take a year or more but it will fade with time. The funny thing is you don't miss her, you miss how she made you feel. It might help to realize that those feelings were created by your brain, basically your imagination, in response to what you saw in her. As you found out, she really wasn't anything special. Give yourself time, you'll get over her eventually.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 12:23 PM
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Just continue to leave her alone. If she talks to you just be polite. This is why you don't mess with girls you have to work with.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:27 AM
1

"Maybe if the right person comes along. It's not something I jump into quickly.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 02:12 PM
2

Check out this and other posts by this guy https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP26/08/17 12:43 PM
2

Pornhub comes out with some wierd stats that sound like bs to me. How the hell do they know the age of someone watching porn or even if they are male / female.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 12:25 AM
1

So what's the question?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:55 AM
5

Yes you should re-post the problem here. My first advice is not to let-on that her going on this trip bothers you in any way. It shows weakness and nothing is a bigger turn-off for women. Check out the levels of Dread. What level would you say you are? Be aware that women often give you trickle truth. That virgin you fucked a long time ago was no virgin and your wife has done more kinky stuff then she's let on. If she's telling you she's talked to these guys on the phone, I doubt it has stopped …
/r/askMRP22/08/17 03:40 PM
3

It sounds like things are not too bad for you yet. All the help you need is in the side bar. You need to man up and do your own research and learn to be patient. Greatness is not built "soon". Learn to look for your own answers. Asking questions here should be more of a last resort when you are having trouble understanding something. When you ask, try be as specific as possible. Don't just say you need help. Help with what?
/r/askMRP22/08/17 03:16 PM
1

How satisfied are you with your relationship on a scale from 1-10? 6.5 Is there anything you wish you could change about either the relationship? I wish I could trust her but my experience has shown that AWALT. What's your favorite thing about your SO? What's their biggest flaw? I like that she's interesting, educated, has hobbies, etc. I don't like that she is somewhat lazy and doesn't appear to have much empathy. But it's to be expected. I've had some influence in this area so perhaps it will …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 01:57 PM
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They had good genetics and/or were raised differently
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:38 PM
2

examples please
/r/askTRP21/08/17 08:43 AM
1

no, just go sort by top. you'll find them https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/top/
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:15 PM
1

I haven't seen any but there are some side effects listed on the bottles. Some people get anxiety and if you take too much it could raise your blood pressure. To me one pill feels about like a cup of coffee after not drinking coffee for awhile, but with better focus. Google it a bit and see if you want to try it.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:12 PM
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It's a magic cure for most people that are not in shape (which is most people). Is your diet good? That can help too. Yeah, sorry you got the short end of the stick on some things, but it could be alot worse.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:42 PM
1

I've never tried phentermine.. I'm currently cutting and taking yohimbine hcl 2.5mg stacked with a bit of caffeine. I find it helps with energy and mood, especially when fasting. Others say it makes them feel worse so ymmv, but it's pretty cheap over on amazon and such. Might be worth a shot.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:39 PM
1

There are many many many of those on the main sub.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:31 PM
1

Cutting is hard on your body. Yeah emotions are extra rough. Are you taking any stacks or supplements to help?
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:30 PM
1

I'm sorry to hear it, but you are in a minority. Is there something else wrong with you?
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:28 PM
9

Lift, Lift, Lift Get strong and healthy and your whole outlook will get better.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:13 PM
1

You need to figure out all of the reasons you are upset and figure out how to address them. They all boil down to weakness in some way, so you will have to get stronger to overcome those weaknesses. Here's some examples to get you started. You expected women to be a certain way and found out you were lied to. This upsets you. Only way to get over this kind of frustration is to forgive the people that lied to you. No it isn't easy, but by not forgiving people you are only hurting yourself. You fi…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:31 PM
1

CICO. You can eat whatever you want and still lose weight as long as you are on a calorie deficit. Downside: If you eat like shit you will feel like shit.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 06:27 PM
2

Voice coach. I had a friend who used to stutter. Now he talks like a radio announcer.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 06:24 PM
1

Learn how to do things you can't stand. It will make you a better person. People usually can't stand things they are unfamiliar with. Get used to talking to women and it will become easier.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 01:54 PM
2

Took a shit, there was corn in it
/r/askTRP16/08/17 11:55 PM
1

I want you to sweep me off my feet and make us live happily ever after! Oh and a sandwich. It's a bar she will never attain, but she doesn't know that.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 11:52 PM
1

Anything outside your frame is either amusing, intriguing, or funny. When I first read this I missed the importance of "outside of your frame". Anger and other emotions are perfectly reasonable within your frame. They should not be influenced by the frame of others. Actions can be a different story.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 03:43 PM
1

Do you understand the difference between blaming and warning?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 02:54 PM
2

What'd you do? Beat her? Nope, false accusation and the jury saw through it. You forgot, obviously about the laws of power I guess we can't all be born Chad's like you. I was bp once and paid dearly for it. so is acting like a bitch I got your little bitch right here, lol
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 11:46 AM
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There are plenty of statistics on this. There are plenty of websites that teach women how to use the silver bullet. There are plenty of stories on the trp forums about personal divorce rape. It happens, there is no dispute. I'm not actually bitter and jaded. I'm much stronger for having to go through what I did. I simply think it's wrong to assume that this couldn't happen to you. I especially think it's wrong that you are giving some general pointers to other guys and telling them it will prote…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 06:56 PM
5

I wouldn't say checkmate. They don't take men's domestic abuse claims very seriously. It might help, it might not. YMMV
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 06:39 PM
1

Other people have other experiences. It's not a bogeyman, it fucking happened to me and a friend of mine. We fought for years and had to dump 10s of thousands. I was arrested and almost sent to prison. No, what happened to me doesn't happen to everyone. But don't think for a minute that it couldn't happen to you. Be prepared. Be knowledgeable. Be ready for anything. Don't be blue pill and pretend divorce rape doesn't exist.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 06:20 PM
6

Piss off, you're being naive. It happened to me and a friend of mine. Don't tell me it's a fuckin myth. It was hell and I went through it. No priors, nothing to back her up. All she has to do is say she's afraid and most judges will avoid the risk. They error on the side of caution. They don't want to be wrong and have some maniac go back and kill his wife just because they didn't think there was proof enough for an injunction. You guys need to watch your back, this shit is real.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 06:09 PM
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All that goes out the window with a false allegation of domestic violence and resulting injunction (restraining order). She doesn't need proof, they will take her word and here's why: If she's lying, so what, at least nobody gets physically hurt. Everyone is protected. The legal system looks good. If she's not lying, the injunction is put in place for good reason. Everyone is (supposedly) protected. The legal system looks good. They don't give a shit about justice, they give a shit about looking…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 11:02 AM
1

Do what you want. TRP is not moral police. Why should your real age matter to a plate?
/r/askTRP13/08/17 01:21 PM
2

You may want to consider slightly lower weight but adding reps. I personally prefer 3x8 because there are fewer rest times and some studies have shown that 8 is better for hypertrophy then 5. I also try for a 9th rep, and don't add 5lbs until I can do 3x9 with good form.
/r/askMRP13/08/17 11:31 AM
1

Make yourself workout before you masturbate. Usually once you've worked out you won't want to anymore. Don't get me wrong, masturbation is healthy, like everything else, in moderation.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 10:52 AM
1

It happens when eyes meet, which in the wild is an aggressive behavior. A downward nod signifies "I respect you and mean you no harm". An upward nod to someone unfamiliar is somewhat aggressive. Cats will often close their eyes if they accidently lock eyes with another cat or even a person to show they have no wish to fight. Women are not generally prone to aggression so, in theory, have no need to indicate they don't wish to fight. Edit: Question: Do you nod to other women or generally only to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 02:20 AM
0

I see that occasionally, but some women I talk to don't feel the inclination to nod. I theorize it's instinctual for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 01:24 AM
1

it's magnificent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 01:22 AM
1

Women don't nod much, I think that's more of a man thing but they often smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 12:23 AM
1

How's your 👃🏻? What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 12:19 AM
1

I'm mysterious, mischievous, and very charming in person. Think Owen Wilson but with a better body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 11:26 PM
3

Less weight, more reps = less injuries. Find a weight you can do 15 reps on. Then don't increase it until you can do 20.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 08:35 PM
1

If she's annoying you and making you angry then your frame is weak and she's sensed it. Dread or next. Whatever you do don't explain your feelings. Nothing breaks frame as bad as that does. Look up DEER (defend, excuse, explain, rationalize) and don't do it.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 01:44 PM
17

that's lame as fuck, go away
/r/askTRP06/08/17 01:34 AM
17

she forgot about you, a couple of days is probably too long
/r/askTRP06/08/17 01:31 AM
6

Anyone who's been here awhile has seen the same lazy questions over and over. Guys put forth zero effort and expect easy answers to their questions. If someone doesn't want to be called a lazy retard then they should stop acting like a lazy retard.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:11 PM
2

Have you read this and other posts by him? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:02 PM
1

or narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 05:54 PM
1

Apparently not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:34 AM
1

Some men say they're oompa loompas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:07 AM
2

You don't see the difference between feeling entitled to shit and describing one's self with vague terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:06 AM
2

you have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:00 AM
0

Gentlemen and Gentlewomen are the archaic terms for Lords and Ladies, yes. and I'm not referring to one's acting ability. Chicks sometimes say they want to be called a lady, especially if I call them a chick. It's not that uncommon which is why I came up with this trope in the first place. Man you people from this sub really like to debate things, shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 12:56 AM
3

indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 12:45 AM
4

hahaha, the irony is palpable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 12:21 AM
3

Water is wet. Fire is hot. Delusional people love delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 12:20 AM
1

Lords and Ladies are high ranking people in monarchies. No, Gentle Sir/Man would not work. I don't even care to be called Lord, I'm not one, I'm simply making a point. The point is that unless she is a Baroness, Dutchess, or Princess, etc, she's not a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 12:15 AM
1

People don't just go into the army as a General. People don't enter a career as CEO. One has to start at the bottom and work their way up. It takes hard work, learning experiences, and dedication. Nobody deserves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 12:09 AM
7

You wrote: so not everyone deserves to be confident and have high self esteem???? Why should someone who sucks have high self esteem? They suck. They don't deserve a high self-esteem. The people who deserve a high self-esteem are the people that work for it and achieve the merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 10:36 PM
3

Are you being sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 10:24 PM
2

As a man, I don't think I would base my self esteem on my looks. I would base it on my abilities and power. Looks are quite secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 10:22 PM
5

Shouldn't a view of one's self be realistic, not artificially inflated?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 10:19 PM
6

Women have higher self confidence. Women say things like "I deserve it". Call themselves princesses. They think being spoiled is a good thing. There's whole subs dedicated to calling out the pussy pass. They all want to be called ladies, etc. Women are quite surprised when I tell her I'll call her lady when she calls me the male equivalent: Lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 10:16 PM
2

I do this quite a bit. If I'm too busy to think of a A&A, "You're damn right / straight!" works pretty well too. "You look good today." "Damn right I do!" Generally gets a smile or a fake punch on the arm or whatever.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 09:58 PM
1

Just man up and ask her directly. "Hey, I want to stop over at a friends house for another drink, come with me." With women I don't know I like to make it a command that sounds like it might be a question. After I fuck her I'll boss her around all day but before I do, she may be too skittish for a full on command. While heading over there, pretend to get a text from your buddy "Mike says everyone just left and he's gonna crash, let's just go to my place for that drink, we can watch some Netflix …
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:30 PM
1

she's fishing to see how you feel about her. keep her guessing. maybe respond to her texts once or twice in the morning, and once or twice at night. if she asks about it, tell her that you're not really a texter so don't look at your phone too much.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:39 PM
1

It's not that they lie it's that they leave out alot of the information. Also they are generally non-confrontational so they will offer white lies to avoid confrontation. When a woman says she wants a nice guy that makes her laugh she doesn't mean a fat clown no matter how sweet he is. She means she wants a physically fit, socially charismatic, tall dark handsome guy who is also nice and makes her laugh. Even that is not enough sometimes. My current LTR never found Brad Pitt attractive, but goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 11:41 AM
3

You're attracting all of them, but tomboy athletic women do prefer a fit partner so probably never gave you ioi's before.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 06:01 PM
1

Please read: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP30/07/17 01:37 PM
1

No it can't be faked but it can be learned. "Fake it until you make it" is just learning how to be confident through experience. Also lifting, getting fit, good looking clothes and making oneself look their best will add loads of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 03:33 PM
1

Things I learned from my crazy divorce: Many friends and websites and sometimes even lawyers for women suggest false accusations of abuse and calling the police and getting a restraining order. If there is a slight chance this could happen, strike first. Yeah the judge will throw out your restraining order but it will cause serious questions for hers if she tries to file one. Also, file for divorce first, even if you don't get a lawyer. You will then always be the petitioner and she will be the …
/r/askMRP28/07/17 04:14 PM
9

I agree with pretty much everything you said except this: The Red Pill and parenting simply do not mix and I still hold that position. However this is a very different thing from being a red pill aware parent. TRP is sexual strategy TRP is a bunch of tools that can help in many situations, not just sexual strategy. To me its more about my identity and who I am. TRP suggests things like lift, be fit, hold frame, dress well, take charge, amused mastery, a&a, and embrace your masculinity. These are…
/r/RedPillParenting28/07/17 10:52 AM
5

being called an asshole and giving her a little drama isn't a bad thing, most girls will find you even more attractive this way. keep doing what you are doing. she will probably come around. if not, you have other girls to hang out with.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 10:21 AM
3

"he has a big dick" It's a joke asshole, treat it as such and it doesn't even matter what your reply is. "No, it's a tiny tiny dick hahaha" "How would you know homo? haha" "You know a blind chick once told me that but I think she was pulling my leg!"
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:56 PM
2

You have to be a man. Men do their own research before asking dumbass questions. Sidebar -->
/r/askTRP25/07/17 12:28 AM
1

Don't be a dumbass, wear a condom
/r/askTRP23/07/17 10:13 PM
1

I'll be at X at Y oclock. You should stop by.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 10:11 PM
2

I grew up with two indian guys. They were both alpha and had no problem picking up white girls. Their parents came over from India and were doctors or something. I only met the parents a few times but remember them having a thick accent. Since the boys were raised here, they acted like american boys. They hit gym, they took kung-fu, and played sports. They got any girl they wanted. They were more alpha then me at the time and they both had a crew of guys and girls that followed them. Girls don't…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 11:50 PM
1

So, at the time of the post you were feeling that someone should mansplain it to her, that means you are a mad misogynist neckbeard that thinks that mansplaining and manspreading is some kind of joke when they're actually some of the most serious issues in the world. I don't think you understand the gravity of the situation. If you're not careful, you might do anything from causing minor annoyance to putting an eye out!
/r/MensRights20/07/17 05:33 PM
2

Ignoring you for 10-29 seconds is a shit test. Ignoring you for a minute or so is lack of attraction that is probably insurmountable. Try a different girl after that. Preferably one that didn't see you crash and burn with the first one. But, back to your original question: how can you really maintain frame when it appears like you are unwanted You need to stop giving a fuck. How do you do that? Practice practice practice. Go approach 100 women then come here and tell me that you give a fuck if s…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 02:28 PM
1

you're mad, do I need to mansplain it to you?
/r/MensRights20/07/17 02:14 PM
6

I've had one who was a chronic liar. One who cheated on me a couple of times. But the worst one tried to send me to prison. To try to be brief, she had extremely low self esteem and would get very jealous if any other woman if child bearing years came within 20 feet of me. I thought that if I loved her enough eventually she would grow out of it, but no, it just got worse. It got to a point where we were fighting 5+ days per week. If I tried to leave, she would chase me. If I tried to lock myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:11 AM
2

I think it would depend on why you want to manipulate someone's opinion. If you're doing it because you're afraid they won't like you as much, it's beta. If you're doing it because you are a con man and are deliberately manipulating someone, that's something else.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:03 AM
1

Most of this is her trying to come to terms with the new you. She sees your hugs and kisses for what they are: an attempt to manipulate her. She also sees your kino as that. This sounds like a beta stuff you still need to work on. Might need another go through NMMNG. My guess is that you are misinterpreting shit tests as comfort tests. Also sounds like you need to slow it down a little. If she's like this one chick I dated, she used to pick fights and anger me to try to see where things really s…
/r/askMRP18/07/17 11:43 PM
11

That book doesn't teach you how to be RP, it teaches you about weak codependent behavior and how to avoid it. It's suggesting that a manly man should be genuine enough that he shouldn't have to hide his weakness. He can talk about it openly without fear because he should want to address his weakness instead of hiding from it. That said, I wouldn't bitch or talk to my girl about my weaknesses. For example, lets say I had a weakness with X. Unless I was asked directly about X, I wouldn't bring it …
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:50 PM
1

Did you get it backwards? OP says the book says it's BP to HIDE weakness.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:29 PM
3

Intimacy is a fantasy. What you feel is intimate isn't the same as what she does so it's basically you deluding yourself. If she catches wind of your fantasy, she can use it to manipulate you and once she does that her pussy will dry up quicker than a shamwow.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 01:30 AM
2

cut her loose, hit the gym, play the field
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:08 AM
1

Look up the phone number to the local whorehouse, time/weather, proctologist, whatever and give that as your number.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:34 PM
1

In general, I find if I deload by 10% for a week or two, cut back on caffiene for a bit, then go back on it, it generally helps be get through a platau. Also make sure your eating enough calories and take 1g/lb protein and getting enough sleep.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:04 PM
6

Shit happens, block her number on your phone and go take your anger out at the gym. Next time don't let on that she upset you (through your friend) Go fuck some other women to get her out of your system.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:00 PM
3

Kids learn through play. Play with them in the way boys should play. Wrestling, running, sports, being loud and mildly obnoxious. Don't let them be quitters. Get the 8 year old into martial arts.
/r/askMRP08/07/17 11:36 PM
1

Put them in orbit and use them to go to parties and meet better dudes.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:33 PM
1

How about bicycling?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:25 PM
1

This thread re-enforces my theory that the women in here are not the average woman I see IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 08:15 PM
8

and if I don't? shrug your loss
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:59 PM
1

Yep cat-called, groped, etc. More prevalent with older women, especially when they are drinking but sometimes by younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:57 PM
4

This sounds like me when I was your age. Everything in your instincts is telling you that you are a man and it's time to do your own thing. You are irritated by your family and you feel like they are holding you back. Calm down, it's just a phase. It will pass. You would be wise to realize your parents have sacrificed alot for you. Try to be nice to them even if you don't want to. The more you become a man, the more you will realize that life is hard. You're going to have to do a bunch of shitty…
/r/askTRP05/07/17 02:41 PM
3

that wasn't the point, no birth control is 100%. The point is you can't "get the sperm out" once it's in there. Yeah you can get some of it out, but there is no way to get all of it out.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 09:16 AM
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um, that's not how it works, and she has an iud
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:23 PM
3

Women should do what's best for her. I'm not an expert on it, but if she wants to find a better guy she needs to learn to be a better woman. Better cooking, housework, socializing, fitness, etc are all desirable traits. Yeah, I know women want to go do careers but the grass is always greener on the other side. Go do that if that's what makes you happy, but if you want a good guy then you need to be good for him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 11:08 PM
1

Strawmen... strawmen... everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:51 PM
1

If you are like me, you will feel so good to overcome this and just start talking to girls / people. Even if she says no, you will feel good because at least you tried. And every no brings you closer to a yes.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 10:41 PM
1

Just go for it, stop worrying so much Yeah get in shape Get some hobbies that are social. Go to meetup.com and stuff to meet people / make friends. Learn about day game. Get a cube job until you find something better to do. There's other apps, but day game is better. Starbucks and coffee shops are gold mines. Research day game. Rooshv has a pretty good starter book called Day Bang, it's pretty cheap I think. You're going to have to suck it up at some point and do some approaches. It gets easy pr…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:43 PM
3

Don't acknowledge the social media, you're too busy (important) to worry about such silliness. Maybe she'll come back around, maybe shoe won't. Sounds like a drama queen, you might want to dodge this bullet completely.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:07 AM
0

Everyone's a badass on the internet
/r/askTRP27/06/17 10:43 PM
0

yeah, right into the friendzone. most people smile because it's subtle manipulation. i.e. female tactics
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:23 PM
1

There's lots of youtube videos on how to dance. Once you find the correct beat (the hi hats or snare (tic sound), not the kick/base drum(boom sound)) then it's pretty easy to get into the rhythm.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 06:46 PM
5

There have been several studies done that I will quickly paraphrase for you: Serious men are more attractive to women then happy men. Think James Bond, etc. Most women look away when I catch them looking at me, especially low SMV women. Occasionally a woman won't break eye contact with me and I've noticed that it's mostly higher SMV women who have the guts to do this. I'll generally give them a friendly wink but still won't smile. If she responds positively I will go talk to her right away and g…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 10:38 AM
1

Someone needs to learn something about frame
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:45 AM
2

Here's some possibilities He's just a orbiter He has shit looks but great game You have shit game She's trying to make you jelly He's her cousin or something A bunch of other reasons that don't really matter. Who cares. Work on yourself and go get other girls.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:26 AM
3

Let's see if any op in asktrp reads the sidebar or the top posts on the main page... hmm.. still waiting.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:17 AM
1

it's like you don't even have a valid point. nobody of intelligence will take a gossipy woman seriously.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:12 AM
1

it's not that hard to let a girl down easy. shit man
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:02 AM
1

if I take too much creatine I get like that
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:58 AM
1

women talk shit, get over it. you're never going to get anywhere in life if you care about the bs that women say. ignore it, it's not worth your time. a man might be different if he is a high value man. if he's just some nerd then ignore him too.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 05:00 PM
0

women talk shit, get over it. you're never going to get anywhere in life if you care about the bs that women say. ignore it, it's not worth your time.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:59 PM
0

omg who the hell cares. are you in high school or something?! stop paying attention to what women say. the only thing that matters is what they do. focus on making yourself better instead of worrying about what random people think.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 08:32 PM
3

"How to win friends and influence people" is good for developing those skills but it's not RP.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 09:14 PM
1

Ask the staff to show you around. Watch (but don't stare) at what the other guys do and do it yourself. Most people don' t mind answering questions so don't be afraid to ask. StrongLifts is good if you have someone to show you how to squat and deadlift. If you don't, stick to the machines until you have someone help you. If you do try alone, make sure you keep your back straight. Personally I have to tilt my head back slightly to do this. Watch yourself in the mirror to see if it's straight.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:01 AM
1

should I go and disappoint her? No, you should go and impress the hell out of her with your mad fucking skills. Give it all you got man. What do you have to lose? If she's disappointed that's her problem. Just go have fun and don't worry about shit.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 11:19 PM
1

She's at work so be friendly but politely to the point. After buying something tell her that you guys should get a drink/coffee/snack/whatever after her shift. Then ask her what time she gets off. She may say no or she may tell you what time. Either is fine. Reply with "cool, see you after work" or "cool, have a nice afternoon"
/r/askTRP20/06/17 11:15 PM
0

How do you guys even find this place if you can't bother to read anything...
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:29 AM
3

because I was assuming you were being earnest and not trolling, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 10:17 PM
2

The feeling is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:50 PM
3

It sounds like you're projecting. I don't think I've ever thought of a woman like that, even the ons. To me a ons is two people enjoying each other in the moment. It's beautiful to connect with someone like this. I've never heard it called "dump a fuck", not sure why you're so bitter about this. But yeah, try being invisable for a few years with no human contact and very little interaction out side of work. It sounds like you have no idea what its like to be completely invisible. Back in my ince…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:48 PM
1

I didn't say it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:41 PM
1

I would have looked at her like she just told me a joke, said "ha ha", and went on my way. Any further comments would be met with A&A. "Oh sure, anything else I can do for you? Want me to go wash your car while I'm at it? Maybe I should just run up to starbucks because this coffee isn't good enough? etc. It sounds like you also handled it fine. It's that you let it get under your skin that you need to work on. Something silly like this shouldn't phase you.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:34 PM
1

Sounds like you know very little about turning a woman on or maybe you've watched too much porn. Foreplay is usually needed. You probably should have gotten on top of her but just kissed and grinded against her for a bit. Started kissing and nibbling her neck and ears and working your way down. Give her oral until she's begging for it. Then give her the business. Sex needs to be mutually enjoyable. It's not all about you. (But don't make it all about her either. Find a good balance).
/r/askMRP18/06/17 11:44 AM
6

Because at least someone wants to be with you in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:45 AM
0

because sex feels good?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:39 AM
5

I think he was making up a new name for casual sex which, can confirm, many women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:39 AM
2

Ok, let me spell it out for you, you lost F-R-A-M-E. You are totally overlooking something here: we are at work! I'm not overlooking it at all. Me telling these women to "fuck off"... This is also the wrong solution. Again, you are in their frame. Until you are out of it, everything you say makes you sound like a whiny bitch. Have you not heard of Amused Mastery? That is the solution here and to most silly things like this. You are confusing "getting under your skin" with "impotence", which are …
/r/askTRP17/06/17 10:11 PM
1

why shouldn't I feel annoyed? Because an alpha wouldn't care or give a shit about some bitches playing stupid games. It's what they do so get over it. The fact that they annoyed you and got under your skin means you still have work to do.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 06:18 PM
1

I had to rewire myself to use amused mastery. It took awhile. Before, when I got angry, I usually had a quick flush of rage then an urge to retaliate. I learned to recognize that flash of rage and forced myself to laugh (sometimes just laugh to myself) instead. I get a little flush of pride now that I manage myself in a way that many can't. It's great to see people get pissed and angry while I'm just sitting there laughing to myself about how foolish they are to let their emotions get the best o…
/r/askMRP17/06/17 11:36 AM
1

Check this out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdlRmWd_R7A Also, sidebar ->> The Talk
/r/askTRP17/06/17 11:25 AM
1

Amused Mastery is your friend, I suggest you research it.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 10:51 AM
7

Do you care?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:10 PM
7

A&A: "That's fine, we probably should never have sex again! I don't even like sex. I always prefer to just cuddle." Pressure flip: "My girl would never turn me down for sex" (Let her figure out what My girl means) Fog: "Um whatever" then kino and escelate anyway. If she resists use LMR techniques. Nuclear: The sex is only mediocre anyway, let's just be friends. (Soft next or let her back peddle) Procrastinate let her hamster: "Sorry, I'm busy that night"
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:15 PM
1

Alot of good comments here, you also have to remember that most men are not mature alphas.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:40 PM
3

Women have very strong emotions, even love, but their feelings change like the weather. If a woman says she will love you forever, she might actually feel that way at the moment. But the next day/week/month she may feel differently.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:50 PM
25

Treat every firearm as if it is loaded
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:46 PM
1

or they just haven't told you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 11:40 PM
2

It feels like a need just like food. I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman who is closed minded and unempathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 11:08 PM
4

It's still a shit test. A&A. "Do you think I'm shit testing you?" YES of course you are! That's what women do! Didn't you read the redpill stuff?!? sheesh. I might need to go get my boots if it gets any deeper! <wry smile> Be amused by her questions. Let her get as mad as she wants and just laugh it off like it's nothing. Stop letting her drag you into her frame.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 09:00 PM
1

I think, for men, sex is more like food. A delectable home cooked meal cooked by someone who loves you is always preferable But if you're starving and the only option is to buy a sandwich from the gas station, then a sandwich it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 08:00 PM
3

I don't see a difference between a woman on the CC vs a prostitute. I might actually respect the prostitute more because at least she made some money off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 06:59 PM
1

Getting a number doesn't mean you're going to get a date. Probably about half. Out of that a few won't even show up. Some guys will book dates back-to-back. SB9 at 7pm, SB8 at 8pm. IF (big if) SB9 arrives, have a drink, if things go well, change venues and text SB8 that you can't make it. If SB9 blows you off, no biggie, SB8 is (hopefully) on her way.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 11:12 AM
2

You did good kid for a first time. You still got put into orbit but that's ok, it's better to try and fail then not try at all. Keep up the good work, keep trying. search for LMR in the main sub and study up on that.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 11:04 AM
3

He said he's doing it for practice
/r/askTRP12/06/17 11:02 AM
8

A real man(tm) wouldn't care if he meets a woman who has a high n-count by riding the C.C. because that was in the past. But it's different for a man that paid money for sex... That's unforgivable lol. It's icky and he might have caught an STD!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 10:59 AM
1

I've seen some pretty ugly guys get decent women. It can happen. Being healthy and strong will increase those chances, but a man still has to have some confidence and personality. Usually those go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 10:46 AM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:11 PM
1

Wooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:29 PM
4

So stop making girls your mission. Work on yourself so you don't feel the need for external validation.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:02 PM
1

Sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:57 PM
1

Are you confusing starfish sex with ATM? hahahhahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:34 PM
9

Initially a man improves himself to get women. Once he gets with some women he realizes that women can't fulfill him. Then the man gets upset again because what he realizes that everything he worked for is a lie. When the man calms down again he realizes what people have been telling him all along. A man should find his fulfillment within himself. He should be improving himself, not to get women, but because it makes him feel better. He needs to live a life that makes him happy. Somewhere along …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:27 PM
1

It can work on a jury but generally won't on anyone else. I have gone through my share of legal battles and am speaking form experience, not some "idealized view".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 02:21 PM
1

I've seen female lawyers in court several times and never saw them win anything. The ones I've seen kinda suck because they inject their emotions into everything and the law really has no place for anyone's emotions or opinions. It's all about evidence and fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 11:22 PM
4

Don't shit where you eat
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:59 AM
1

Also, they want to look like they have empathy and they will even show great empathy if it will benefit them in some way. They love the attention and validation they get from showing empathy. They love to be called brave and told to stay strong. They don't want anyone to know the true bitch they really are because it would hurt their image and their prospects. I suspect this even applies to nurses and mothers.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 01:25 AM
9

Young guys have been feminized so much that they have no idea what they are doing. They don't initiate. Women certainly aren't going to initiate. So no initiation, no dates, no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 10:30 PM
2

Start looking better Start socializing with other people, you might need to practice this with groups on meetup.com or something. Start talking to women, invite them over to watch some netflix, have drinks ready, kino and escalate
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:05 PM
6

I wouldn't worry too much about it. Soft next.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:24 PM
1

They were average guys, who wanted more. So they lost weight, went to the gym, and started standing up for themselves. This describes me pretty well. And of course, plenty of them deliberately practiced being misogynistic assholes, Not sure if I consider myself a misogynistic asshole but bloops might. I don't hate women, I love women for what they are. I do treat women like children and they eat it up. I've never been seriously called an asshole on it in real life. Only playfully. or started hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:25 PM
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