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Common-law marriage. Predominantly comes into play when you represent yourself as a married couple. Only some states consider it as such but honestly idk how things work out when a chick decides to go get a divorce in another state than the one you live in. Talk to a lawyer, not reddit.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/25 04:56 PM
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So how do we interpret the current trend of women reporting men are not approaching them? They're doing these 'micro-approaches' (which I doubt in the vast majority of cases are anything like asking for a light or fully striking up conversation) with men they're interested in and the men are not taking the hint? Why would they not be taking the hint if that's the natural status quo? Some explanations could be: these men are the best of the best and are already swamped with online options, they'r…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/25 03:39 PM
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I don't follow celebrities so I don't know the following. An elucidative question to ask is whether they have a bunch of tattoos. If not, they went extreme on the body modification not as much in an effort to self-aggrandize (as tattoos indicate) but to please others. Sad that they fucked it up and got caught up in body dysmorphia but it speaks to an underlying mentality that might be quite beneficial to these men.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 02:16 AM
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Ngl our society is not in a state where it is deserving of you volunteering to chase the woman down, presumably having to follow her for a long while on the phone with the police, stepping in to help another group if she attacked, and potentially having them run off on you too to provide no backup as to what transpired when you eventually restrained her. That's a pretty decent amount of risk and effort to accept when for all you knew at the time she got a moment of lucidity when you scared her.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 02:07 AM
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Sounds like a race to the bottom of nonsense would be inevitable. Might even have been an opportunity for a clever guy to upload 'forehanded insults' on himself to better reel them in.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 01:58 AM
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I have a theory that women get neurologically scrambled by the swing shifts. Perhaps even more so by the other stresses of the job. A lot of bad behavior out there reported about nurses, not just on the job. And this coming from a group who definitely had to go through at least some filters to land that occupation. These aren't ratchet hoes off the street.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/25 05:22 PM
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It's just learning skills. If you're looking to squeeze out some extra progress beyond regular, dedicated repetition, look up Andrew Huberman's podcast. There's a bunch of neuroscience dedicated to learning and memory.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/25 08:58 PM
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What about my golf ball through a garden hose talent?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/25 08:56 PM
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“I conclude therefore that, fortune being changeful and mankind steadfast in their ways, so long as the two are in agreement men are successful, but unsuccessful when they fall out. For my part I consider that it is better to be adventurous than cautious, because fortune is a woman, and if you wish to keep her under it is necessary to beat and ill-use her; and it is seen that she allows herself to be mastered by the adventurous rather than by those who go to work more coldly. She is, therefore, …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/25 08:14 PM
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Steroids will just destroy your health both mental and physical. As far as real-life shortcuts, about what should be expected.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/25 08:42 PM
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I performed a club swing exercise while showing my back and shoulders By this I assume you mean golf club swings. If so I think this is an understated part of your approach. Posting you doing an actual workout comes across as more try hard and intending to get attention. The narrative comes across as, "Haha just messing around with the golf club for a few minutes, never mind my awesome physique, it's whatever." Chick crack. Or in nerd speak, Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/25 08:32 PM
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Surprised people don't know this. It's therapy for people who don't realize they need it (at least when people get a ton of them): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1TrINmVOf94
/r/TheRedPill06/12/24 06:46 PM
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As to being a 'reply guy' I don't post because it seems like most has been said already. I often use posts as a springboard for broader insight and points for self improvement. Let me know if that is not wanted. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/24 06:35 PM
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Nothing about learned vs inherent. I would expect the words to be explicitly used if they are the so-called central thrust of the post. If it's the state of affairs one must adapt to, why does the source need to be the takeaway? If someone misinterprets my statement that something can be learned behavior as a call to change the culture rather than change their approach that's on them. Talk about responding to something that wasn't said.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/24 06:22 PM
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Ah. Well I remain unconvinced my comment does not add value to the discussion. Run into any person you want something from and they are a boring person, you'll stand to benefit from entertaining them, because it's one and the same.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/24 06:14 PM
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To be fair you never mentioned inherent nature vs learned behavior in the post. What I got from it was that being entertaining isn't that big of a deal. edit: or rather it isn't that hard and you better get used to it because that expectation isn't going anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/24 06:09 PM
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Boring people are bored - two sides of the same coin. If you didn't want, on a profound level, to get after her flesh, you wouldn't associate with her. Her boredom + boringness is wrought by that profound desire; she doesn't need anything else.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/24 06:01 PM
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We could continue it with your source about the etymology.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/24 05:02 PM
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I think you're ignoring the fact that men absolutely can play a middle of the road game where they will be perceived neither as a creep or as an extraordinary man. TRP is littered with reasoning for why you should not do so and opt to polarize instead, indicating that this is something you may well have to break from your inclinations to do (a far cry from your assertion that you will be inevitably polarize them every time).
/r/TheRedPill05/12/24 04:46 PM
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I doubt it, and regardless if the term came to also mean massive penis, I doubt it would continue to be used as an insult for cowardliness. See: bitch (as insult for cowardliness).
/r/TheRedPill05/12/24 04:05 PM
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None of it is mine. Check out some books from Cal Newport.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/24 03:23 PM
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Part of the reason I despise the modern conceptualization of children is because it's really the modern conceptualization of humans. Never "grow up". Never learn to worry. Exist in the realm of imagination and reject reality.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/24 05:06 PM
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Yeah but if you are a lantern in a dark forest and people gather to you to see by, should you cast them away because they could not already see in the dark themselves? I'm under no illusion that everyone can be influenced but I find it a little lacking to think you have no power of influence and you ought float through life doing your own thing and hoping to come across others on your level.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/24 04:58 PM
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I think a lot of people would do well to heed how distraction flows into clarity. How much infotainment are you consuming on a regular basis? Even if you are pretty good about time management and getting things done, if you spend a lot of time scrolling or having some kind of podcast in your ear throughout the day, it's information your brain has to process and contend with. How much of it has anything to do with your top 1-3 goals? How much do you remember after a few weeks? Treat your brain li…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/24 07:33 PM
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A lot of blackpill analysis does read that way.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/24 06:16 PM
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If you're not where you want to be in life it will help to climb 'up' the 'dopamine ladder'. So obviously replacing video games with tik tok will do nothing for you. It's probably a step back actually.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/24 11:47 PM
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Why do people suck at thinking? Compare the feature on the same guy with and without hair, move on. I do think there are some guys, be it the shape of their head or the look of their face that just don't pull off balding well. It can be a softer type of face that is actually very attractive with hair to frame it that without becomes a blob with nowhere to anchor it. Be realistic about your look so you can find ways to compensate - facial hair style, outfit, jewelry, etc. Having muscle is a given…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/24 02:05 PM
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I'm guessing he's worried he'll lose the abundance frame with the first piece of pussy that put itself on his plate and it might not be a good idea if she is angling for long term commitment. Which is kind of fair. He acknowledges he has a lot of room to grow.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 05:42 PM
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The younger chicks you get with now wouldn't have given you the time of day either. What's the point in a salty mentality? Either she's hot enough now or she's not.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 05:36 PM
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What? Preventing the acne in the first place is the only way to deal with acne scars, which requires cleansing. Also, sunscreen guys. Another one where it's better to prevent than deal with effects later.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 05:22 PM
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Oh but you hear about it from the young guys. And they say shaming is the purview of women. It's kind of funny hearing them admit you must be more mature, advanced, and socially powerful than them to the point it's unethical.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 05:16 PM
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I'm willing to bet the market power differential with young, internet-jacked girls far exceeds older women. Not to mention they have more avenues of meeting people, more free time, and will be less likely to realize the value of money and stability. Older women then would be more manipulable by an attractive and put-together guy. I should probably start taking Ben Franklin's advice.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 05:12 PM
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Kinda true these days, to the chagrin of many Americans.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 05:09 PM
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Posting an AI response as some kind of proof? Getting defensive over a suggestion to vary your approach? Not good signs.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/24 08:19 PM
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"Let's change men's market behavior to win." Not gonna make it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/24 03:56 PM
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People should also be rating such behavior differently between women they haven't slept with yet and women they're already seeing. Naturally to most men if they've already been with a chick, the novelty goes down. The girl has already invested, she should be dialing down the requisite hurdles for continued association (besides trying to lock you down). But a hot chick you haven't been with will and should be looking for reasons to invalidate you. And often shit test aren't even that unpleasant o…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/24 03:54 PM
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Ask yourself how that makes any sense. You're not comparing the ease from unaroused to first vs first to second. It's where you decide to get her with foreplay to first vs first to second. As an aside there are women who will get post nut clarity and second thoughts on sealing the deal. All around not a good approach.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/24 03:20 PM
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I confirmed that was a quote from Mark Manson and is not in the sidebar. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/24 02:36 PM
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It's a Catch 22 and you really just have to figure it out for yourself. Just so are there plenty of people are miserable social outcasts who 'stay true to themselves'. Humans have a litany of desires and needs to pursue and balance and they come in different orders for different people. That's why the sub historically has been good about not telling people how to live.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/24 03:22 PM
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Where does it say that? If it's a description of how you should make decisions based on how other dudes see a value proposition, it's moralizing bullshit. If it's a description of how women make decisions, it's a guideline, one that does hold up for a lot of situations. But you can tell when a woman is waffling on a level that she is stringing you along vs conflicted and you could get it in with persistence and making her feel like you're owning the situation. If you're not good at exception han…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/24 02:51 PM
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Why get her fully off before starting the main course? You're creating an uphill battle trying to make her second orgasm with your first.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/24 04:14 PM
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"One step back, two steps forward." Saying the guy is supposed to feel shame about persistence without hard rejection is pretty much the same as "don't approach women", gillette commercial bs.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/24 03:51 PM
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You're an idiot if you think the leader of any significant group of people challenged his greatest warrior to a contest in front of everyone and lost just to prove that he doesn't have to be the strongest. That shit is left unsaid, and the implication is that the greatest warrior is in his camp, an extension of himself.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/24 03:36 PM
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I'd recommend getting into Cal Newport. His material gets into cutting out distraction and making your mind a garden/temple dedicated to your top goals and aspirations. It's crazy the level of attention engineering going on today, and none of it serves higher purposes or long term goals.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/24 05:42 PM
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I would argue more polite company is less "chill" in that there are a bunch of unwritten rules you have to align with. It can be stifling, but at the same time there's a box inside which you can have confidence and get things done. Relationships with fewer rules are more chaotic and recreational, but less productive and 'aligned'.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/24 05:38 PM
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But if someone is really insecure about something, is it really the same thing to joke about it (not to mention in front of others, especially people that might be directly involved in that insecurity like women) vs. to bring it up in confidence, commiserate, give pointers, etc? If you think ragging on your employee in front of everyone is the same thing as pulling them aside and having a conversation about it you know nothing about management. I think what you're getting at is you'd rather have…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/24 05:26 PM
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Ever notice that the program and exercise selection seems to be an afterthought with these 'guides'? As a newbie, as long as you're not a rail thin 'hardgainer', you probably don't need to pay attention to all that much. So long as you have: an honest goal as to whether you're pursuing muscle vs strength/power, and a good program + exercise selection toward that end. If all you do in the first year is develop a habit of getting in the gym, at least some passion for it, and a solid amount of newb…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/24 03:42 PM
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Part of the issue, I hypothesize, is that the most feminine, impressionable women have been made the bitches of food corporations, drugs, or alcohol. The women capable of keeping themselves together have more masculine drive and independence built into them, which makes them less likely to submit to any but the best men.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/24 03:42 PM
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Looks like you responded to the wrong person idk
/r/TheRedPill11/07/24 01:50 AM
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A lot of these people probably don't appreciate the extent to which they do actually have a spine and expect shit done in return. And they probably turn a blind eye toward the extent to which they disrespect the people who they meet who actually bend backwards and give give give. Nothing sage in that level of ignorance about how things really work.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 09:13 PM
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"Just be normal" = "just be yourself". I'm guessing your concept of game is RSD cringe bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 06:23 PM
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Let me guess, you got your body into shape too. Letting yourself be neutral and in the background doesn't work if you don't look appealing.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 06:20 PM
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My personal take: people like/respect those who they feel like/respect them. Some people are willing to be sycophantic, but I think more often people are stuck in their ego and don't want to be reminded of their shortcomings by others, especially on the touchy subject of sexual success. When you grow in status in relation to them, they will require more affirmations from you that you do not look down on them. It is up to you to put in that effort to maintain those relationships. Think of it like…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 05:29 PM
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If you read something in someone's 'voice', it will go further in helping you connect with their perspective more than a summary. What kind of work/time are you willing to put into an endeavor as difficult as changing some of your fundamental beliefs?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 05:19 PM
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It pisses me off seeing these "neo internet dads", usually older European men, advising men to let go of these angry, misogynist, radical internet beliefs. In the end they always boil down masculinity to "a man who sacrifices for others". Nothing new, just the same old BP bullshit from the mouth of someone who looks and sounds the part of a sage.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 05:13 PM
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This makes me think about how bad things can get when very undeserving people get buoyed from without (think lotto winners). Or anyone who plays TTRPGs knows how much worse things can get from a natural 20 than a natural 1. Think twice before giving in to a savior complex that you are going to turn people around. The true winners in life have to put in the work.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 05:05 PM
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Intergenerational conflict. Both groups want what the other has. Men do it too. And one generation will seamlessly transition into the next and assume their exact dispositions hypocritically because most people just see things through the lens of their own motives.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/24 07:13 PM
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Enjoy being the bitch of clients and customers then. Everyone has a boss. Unless you're going to go TrueAlpha and take what you want as a criminal.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/24 07:04 PM
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I'm sure the number of people who got a snip snip who exit the mortal coil in style is going to explode.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/24 12:46 AM
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If Nashville 2023 proves anything, shooting people only requires the desire for balls.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/24 08:15 PM
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In a similar vein people don't trust the guy who doesn't drink. They want to see you with your hair down.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/24 08:50 PM
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I'll just add that you need to give people crumbs. Too much silence and peoples' imaginations run wild. They won't trust you. Being reserved and neutral is IMO too obviously a good tactical choice, which means people will appraise you as more measured and intelligent. This breaks the Law of Power #21 - basically advising you to play dumb and predictable.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/24 08:49 PM
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The orbiter might put two in your chest. Life is risk. The more you get what you want in this life the more you'll stick out to those who don't, especially if tread on too many orthodoxies all at once.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/24 08:22 PM
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Maybe I'm just being a retard but I don't see a link to theredarchive anywhere on the sub or trp.red. I had to use a search engine to find it. Regardless there will be other retards like me so maybe put a link to in under The Archives in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/24 07:12 PM
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Chicken and egg would be my guess. The kinds of backgrounds that produce poorly socially adjusted kids probably aren't lending themselves to any kind of excellence, physical or otherwise. And the kids that are getting a lot of physical activity probably feel better, have better mental clarity, and feel more confident and strong. Not to mention athletic prowess contributes to social status, at least it did in my school life.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/24 05:17 PM
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I'm curious if you lift intensely or do high intensity cardio. It's a different beast to going through the motions and checking off the list of things you have to do because good for you. There is kind of a chicken and egg aspect to getting yourself to achieve those levels of output and discomfort if you don't feel the reason in the first place, but I'd urge you to get some experience with it if you can get yourself to. It's some spiritual shit when you go beyond what you though was possible. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 06:34 PM
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average of the 5 people you spend your time with I think people put too much stock into this. The people you find yourself physically near do influence you a ton, but you are also influenced by your information environment: books, social media, etc. You are influenced by the version of yourself you know you could be, both bad and good, if you meditate on them often. You're influenced by the type of people you see in your gym, on the sidewalk, etc. You don't control the kinds of people that will …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 04:50 PM
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I hate the advice of telling noobs on this sub to strength train. You want aesthetics and hypertrophy right? You need solid work put in on isolation movements, not an afterthought to compounds. Jeff Nippard's fundamentals hypertrophy program is fine.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/24 11:02 PM
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Funny that you had not committed to her in the legal or spiritual domains and she still conceptualized the house she lived in as hers because she was fucking the guy who owns it. Definitely a case of crowdsourcing her mental framework (other women in long-term cohabitation own their houses...).
/r/TheRedPill12/01/24 05:37 PM
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As do other time preference behaviors that breed degeneracy in the long run. Tradeoffs.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/24 05:34 PM
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Indicators of interest just don't seem that important unless you are in a context that is time-constrained with multiple women to potentially pursue or you feel like there will be some inordinate social fallout of pursuing them. Either way it's a matter of gauging before you've really talked to them, and the signs are obvious like looking at you and getting close to you or less so like fidgeting and touching their hair when you come near. You can feel the difference compared to them acting like …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 04:18 PM
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The simpler reality is that studies involving actual behavior are far more expensive than questionnaires.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/23 03:55 PM
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Breaking rapport is a tactical choice. If you think it's a catchall, knee-jerk reaction every guy should use at any moment of friction, you're the mistaken one.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/23 10:37 PM
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There's going to be a difference written on your face if she's getting to you and you're playing it off vs. she's really bouncing off you like a silly girl. Just like when she crosses a line for you, there will be a difference in being ready to move past her vs. 'calling her out' like an overly-invested little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/23 04:59 PM
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Your numbers are solid dude. You might have other issues like shitty sleep.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/23 10:45 PM
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That's over 700 ng/dL which is good. Free testosterone is a relevant figure too among others, however.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/23 08:06 PM
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It can help right when you walk into a social venue to think of something that reliably makes you laugh. You'll have a bit of a natural smile as you enter. Obviously having a stable of things will help as the same thing won't work over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/23 05:36 PM
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As an aside 6000IU of vitamin d isn't really that much if you're legitimately deficient (which you may be if you don't regularly sunbathe or take thousands of IU's of d a day already). Take 10000 IU and some k2 daily and get some noontime sun on your bare torso every day and you might see benefits in a few weeks to a month.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/23 05:22 PM
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Unless you're over the top physically attractive (much better than top 5%) there's always a higher quality of girl for which better game will help your odds against reasonably attractive guys who might also have game.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/23 05:16 PM
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In my opinion your body should be your backbone. Be muscular, use savy style, and have strong body language. If you have the urge to fidget, do toe pushups inside your shoes. What actually comes out of your mouth should be political, measured, tactful, etc. It's hard to get away with being blunt, 'harshing vibes', etc when it comes to normies. They'll find a way to make your life harder which is the opposite of what you want.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 04:41 PM
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All 10 of the guys taking this advice to the gym are not going to be hitting every muscle group with 10-20 sets because they'll be novice af. They might get marginally better results but their recovery will be shit and they'll be done in a month.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 06:57 PM
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Chances are nobody here needs another basic bitch guide to getting jacked. I've been following Natural Hypertrophy on YouTube (generally pretty based) and he's got some interesting points on the mindset pitfalls novices get themselves into and criticisms of the PED-swamped influencer culture today which doesn't reflect most people.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 06:52 PM
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Tell me how to live harder daddy (read the sidebar).
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 06:46 PM
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Every relationship is an exchange of something. It's up to you if you need every exchange to be multifaceted both ways (you probably don't).
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 06:46 PM
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You can get something or other from people very different from you. When you're in a place of scarcity you will feel pressure to be more like them, however.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 09:39 PM
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My main takeaway: above-average is extreme to the normie perspective. As someone who is on this subreddit, you are not a normie, so don't accept their frame for your life.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 09:34 PM
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Let's note the conflict between: you are the only guy on earth vs you were good enough and available immediately It's the difference between being reasonable and the cringe-worthy dude in "my friend went redpill and became a total sperg" stories. Talking about others dudes isn't a mistake because it shows you aren't a cartoon that legitimately has no idea other men exist. It's a mistake because it could be interpreted as being playful and unconcerned (knowing you were the good-enough guy in the …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 07:51 PM
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Women can read your intent, but you are judged based on the standards of being a man, which means owning your desire and putting yourself out there on a greater level. But you still can't be too forward in a lot of situations unless you're getting very strong interest. You'll be "screening" plenty of girls who just view you as being weird and socially uncalibrated or triggering learned responses that she wants to be viewed as "more than meat" It's as simple as starting with an appearance-based c…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 05:49 PM
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The pure euphoria is strongly related to how often you get off. Porn use is pretty relevant too. Go 2-3 weeks without nutting or watching porn and come back to tell me whether it felt like a spot of flow.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/22 05:07 PM
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You could call it all an experiment if the people responsible were actually responsive to the data resulting from their societal interventions. They aren't. It's more like a ritual to the Cult of Self.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 07:56 PM
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It's not quite that vindictive, but it is highly self-serving. It's positivity and validation for any woman that does not conform to mens' sexual preferences. Female moves away from those standards -> support. She moves toward them -> vitriol.
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/22 01:23 AM
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It's not just about analysis of problems faced by various groups and their intersections in service of macro policy, it's also about how experiences formulate intrinsic being and identity. Certain groups now try to claim moral supremacy and legitimacy based on their group identity resulting from some oppression-determinism. Most people just want a fair playing field and to judge others on their merits.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 07:30 PM
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"Feminists are fighting to get rid of ALL this stuff!" - "Feminists 'aren't about encouraging' THAT."
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 06:51 PM
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I think that is true to some extent, but the shoe is definitely also on the other foot for women. We should all strive to be good to each other regardless.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 06:49 PM
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People with traditional precepts of gender at least have some rational continuity. Feminists want to have their cake and eat it too - all privilege, no responsibility, holding dear their unexamined bigotries and crying out in pain as they strike at others.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 06:47 PM
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I bet she got triggered based on imagined judgment for liking "harsh" cigarettes.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 06:42 PM
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Too bad the frog in boiling water is just a meme.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 08:31 PM
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The rate is hardly relevant if their behavior is deemed unethical where it occurs. Murderers are rare, rapists are rare, etc. IMO by and large most instances where men and women are partitioned are explicit privileges for women, not rights. One partition that makes sense on a basic rights level is however is disallowing "penis-havers" from being held in womens' prisons. You don't get to be treated based on a self-divined identity at that level.
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/22 05:17 PM
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"Women aren't attracted to kindness"
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/22 05:06 PM
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Would you have shut someone down for any sexual innuendo like "Bow chick bow wow" or the like if it made a girl feel uncomfortable? Or was invoking HR the bridge too far here?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 03:56 PM
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If you don't need to talk to anyone then why do you need to rant on here about it? It's a fucking half measure and you know it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 03:24 PM
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The reason this concept is simple to anyone even remotely redpill is because you're not talking about a strategy that "creates value from nothing". This is a simple exchange of value between you and the party host. The value you guys bring is an established relationship with a group of attractive girls who will come out to a party upon your request, ostensibly due to gaming them in the past. The value the host provides is in giving you guys a more ideal environment to have fun and game the girls…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 09:35 PM
3

I'd fine-tune that to: some people don't find virtual conversation rewarding. I'd put myself in the same boat. But there are conversations that produce urgency and take priority that I am sure not to ignore. Seems to me like kinky sex. She might not be that into it herself, but if it's with a high enough value chad, it's a rare girl who's truly not that kind of girl. At the end of the day for many guys having a girl who is low investment at distance is more feature than bug but it comes down to …
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:37 PM
2

Try it for yourself dude. You're just withholding from doing something so it comes at literally no opportunity cost to anything else in your life.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:08 PM
1

Your ability to hold frame and avoid spewing emotionally at a girl is more of a metric than a strategy. If you can't hold yourself back or recognize that there is no value in validating her with your emotional discharge, you know you have a ways to grow or learn.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:01 PM
1

Put the razor to it and see how you like it. Nicking isn't that much of a risk; the inevitable irritation, ingrown hairs, and sandpaper texture within a few days will probably be the deciding factor for you.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:58 PM
1

Don't leave nonsense like this up to an "I think". I'm pretty sure a lot of those laws only apply to 18 year olds with 16-17 year olds.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:34 PM
1

TRP isn't about what you can prove, but about what is most likely given context and intuition. Otherwise you'd never come to a single conclusion a crafty woman doesn't want you to arrive at because of benefit of doubt and plausible deniability. Women don't test the men they respect and want to show loyalty toward with suspicious ass shit like this.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:30 PM
1

If she's genuinely average, you shouldn't feel too ashmamed or disappointed. But considering that internet HB ratings tend to be -2 or so... I wouldn't go there.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:23 PM
2

"I'd rather have my honor than friends." Then be about it. Big talk but ultimately asking an internet forum to tell you what to do is weak person behavior in my book.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:39 PM
3

A girl could be super into the same things as you. It doesn't mean an information/idea heavy conversation with her about any of it will develop a connection. The conversation has to be evocative of emotion and sensation to be seductive.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/21 04:29 AM
-1

There is no authentic self, only tendencies and inclinations which may or may not serve you.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:07 PM
1

I did like 4-6 weekends I think. Only a couple days in open water.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:02 PM
2

It's all in the game, a part of human nature. Reflect on yourself and you'll notice you do it too. We take shit for granted and do not apply more effort than is required of us. We are designed to accomplish things efficiently and pursue our own goals with the resources available. Only in rare circumstances are we particularly altruistic.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:48 PM
1

If it's PADI and is what she is selling it as (primarily a course) she's bullshitting. It shouldn't take nearly that long. But regardless dude 1 month away from a 5 month fledgling relationship? Lol she could be going to a convent for all I care it's over at that point. As for this just being a game or test in the end, idk if that's breakup worthy. Decide for yourself. There's worse things like a pregnancy scare.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:44 PM
11

It's kind of part of the territory. It's the inverse of what we expect for whatever reason. They open up to you and that makes them like you more. You open up to them and it makes you like them more, but makes you less endearing and mysterious, which lessons your power.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 11:03 PM
1

Some solid comments but you asked a question slightly diverging from your experience. But the answer is that intellectual conversations do not move the ball forward to sex whatsoever, and often enough is a complete turn off and signal that you don't "get it" when it comes to being fun, sexually exciting, alpha, etc. If you don't believe me do some testing. Bring up something sciency, abstract, etc with girl you are getting along along with and watch how fast the spark goes out of her eyes. It's …
/r/askTRP10/12/20 06:40 AM
1

There's more at play and to learn from this than "you need to grind to get pussy". Keep in mind his initial interest from her before the grinding which failed because of low initiative and auto-rejection. Now imagine if he had been totally bluepill and simped for a month or two after the initial rejection? I doubt the year would have made the difference to change her perception of him. Some guys report never being able to redefine themselves with girls they went really low for. That's part of wh…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 10:08 PM
2

Your energy might be shit because you are unhealthy. Look at your lifestyle habits. It's pretty shocking what it's like when you dial in piece by piece what you are missing in terms of nutrition, sleep, a properly fit body, etc.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:24 PM
1

Yeah entering a martial arts gym doesn't seem nearly as appropriate as a universal action item #1 compared to lifting for the kind of sorts who end up here to pick up the pieces of their lives.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:17 PM
1

I haven't converted anyone, but there are some tried and true persuasion techniques, none of which involve showing your hand to thoroughly bluepilled men. -Be unapologetically you. Let your results speak for themselves and shrug when people try to tell you what you do is wrong/can't be true. -Intentionally tell stories that occurred to demonstrative of redpill teachings. Let people reach their own conclusions about why these things played out that way. If you have enough of these stories and con…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:40 PM
1

Nobody here is getting at the heart of the matter. You've been conditioned for a long time that the feminine sexual imperative is objectively moral to align with. And yes, the masculine sexual imperative is at odds with the feminine. You really just have to get over the fact that women suck at the game today (or are utterly confused about the win condition) and let go of your conditioning. It might help to keep in mind that these women would drop you like a rock if you weren't up to snuff.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:43 PM
2

I like how people give you shit that this proves what we already know and is stupid to do. But make a chad account and get insane success? Couldn't possibly reveal anything intrinsic about selection of males.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 02:03 AM
1

The opposite of love is not hate/offense, but indifference. Always be polarizing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 01:59 AM
1

I wouldn't call this out as that lost a cause. He basically just fucked up not having an excuse to come back to his place and because he didn't have strong enough player vibes the ASD flared up. Now if she doesn't fuck on the second date it's probably manipulation.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 12:03 AM
1

Why would looking at how to guides give you the desire to start any of their projects? No shit there's no book that can give you a purpose, and frankly if one did I would be very suspicious of ideological manipulation.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:05 PM
1

There are factors beyond your control that matter, height and facial attractiveness rising to the top of the list. But there is still a hell of a lot in your control. Really to believe that it was your "fault" ie the reasons she left were in your control, should be far from depressing but uplifting. Move forward, get better. But you should have always been doing so for yourself, her at your side or not.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:34 PM
1

How well do you treat yourself biologically? Exercise, natural eating, reverse osmosis water system, drugs/alcohol, etc? Your mind is inseparable from your body. I ask because you've not mentioned much about your progress the last two years and for all I know you've just found a mission and made a little money.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:26 PM
1

I've long since intuited that they fucked up their victim orthodoxy with intersectionality. They need women to be the loyal base of victimized people with oh so much to gain from the Church, but now that black women or obese women or whatever qweerdo women can raise higher on the charts, you've schismed that essential female base. White women are critical as patsies in containing white male resistance and now are being catered to less. Not to mention pushing trans issues has absolutely fucked an…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 06:57 PM
3

If she's blonde: "IVANKA! Whew what a doozy."
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 06:43 PM
1

Depends on your goal. If it's living your life as pollutant free as possible, the solution is pretty damn simple. If it's conducting and winning an information war, there's not so much a solution as a contest with no guaranteed outcome.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 06:40 PM
2

I just ask because it seems people with beauty have been conditioned from a young age to believe they passively provide value and don't need to do anything particularly selfless and whatnot prerequisite to true friendship.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:06 PM
1

What are your go-to methods for learning tech skills? Do you ever get paid to pursue them or is it purely on your own time?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:24 PM
1

Buying healthy food to prepare for yourself will never be the splurge plenty of average income earners burn constantly eating out.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:23 PM
1

No More Mr. Nice Guy is a common starter. Eventually get him The Rational Male and some links to Chateau Heartiste, here, etc. But I can imagine getting truly unplugged at that age being akin to some straight up Neo in a vat of goo shit. Maybe give him some preface before he gets into the deep end like, "This is a tough road to go down but I wouldn't have showed you if I didn't think you could handle it and we can do this together."
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:08 PM
1

She has a lot of red flags which you know. There is always some slim chance she isn't a dime a dozen hoe just saying what you want to hear and will actually transform herself in all the ways she has control over... You have to enforce those boundaries and make it clear that pleasing you is going to be her raison d'etre if she is to have any shot. Motivating her to do so and verifying that she is on it will be virtually impossible though with that distance and infrequency of meeting.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:58 PM
2

Please humor me this question. How beautiful is she?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:47 PM
7

Chicken? Egg? These compounds build up like crazy in human fat tissue. Obviously weight loss can never be impossible, but the last 100 years of "development" in this regard is blatantly not a result of behavioral changes.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 01:07 PM
5

There's a good chance environmental estrogenics have a little a lot to do with both (atrazine, parabens, BPA, BPF, APEs, soy, EE2, pthalates, ZEA, and more). Have fun trying to avoid them.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 04:33 AM
4

Cuts both ways, going up and down. Just never gain a reputation with a woman as a needy little bitch. That impression can last and women will fight to keep you in that frame (the reason why spinning plates is the only known cure for oneitis).
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:33 PM
1

I’m sure as fuck not making a girl who never intends to go raw outside of a couple conception fucks and disdains my sperm as forever girl.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:23 PM
2

Not sure but I think a more slender appearance is easier to achieve taller which is ideal for me personally, but I also like feeling bigger despite being average height (which women are probably looking for as well).
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:15 PM
1

Draw boundaries. Withhold attention by severity of infraction of said boundaries.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 04:22 PM
30

Keep it light first like “I never kiss and tell.” Then if she gets serious on you just tell her you don’t ask what she does with other people and she’s not privy to what you do either.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:10 PM
4

Clearly serves as mane to protect against competitors' blows
/r/BlackPillScience07/09/20 02:10 PM
2

You're right. Just can't be fooling yourself that you're king of her universe, best she's ever had, blah blah when "she's not that kind of girl" when you're trying to get kinky.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 10:58 PM
7

The point here is that if you are trying to set a pace that she is unwilling to follow you on what does that honestly say about the state of things? Maybe she's really in the 1% that wouldn't do it for her gigachad ideal but I'm not interested in suffering it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 02:36 PM
2

Life is a series of increasingly large mountains to climb, each one invisible until you've surmounted the one in front of it. Looks like the one in front of you to make more money isn't looking appeasing to you for now. Find a different one.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:17 PM
1

Just know that the worst case of a fight is someone ends up dead. It happens. Is risking that outcome worthwhile, even if it's over your reputation in a large group of peers? Seems like exactly how to go about it depends on the size of the party and whether anyone who had a right to kick you out of the home was actually in the group. If yes just go. If not maybe you can get one of the host's attention and they might diffuse the situation. If the party is too big they might not let you go find a …
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:49 PM
0

If you can't bring yourself to just dip on a fatfish immediately but have the money do this next time. Take them to mcdonalds, order a shit load of food, and then claim you got an emergency text and have to drop her off and just make her take all the food. And block after of course. The message should dawn on her and probably affect behavioral change more effectively than any kind of telling off.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:36 PM
1

I guess being the caller helps a lot. If it gets to screaming and her or someone nearby is likely going to call, may as well be you.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 03:25 PM
41

"Why do girls think I'm a player?" Don't actually put on an offended face. This throws it back at her, qualifies yourself and neither denies or confirms.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 03:18 PM
2

I think we mostly agree. And I'm probably just unfamiliar with the 80/20 to get results with it. Do you tangibly see girls' interest wane in the slower activity periods?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 10:41 PM
1

Pull a Hail Mary
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:10 AM
2

What answer are you looking for? Want to know how to invite a girl back to your place without triggering ASD? You make up an excuse. And you'd be wise to heed not making out before getting to where you can fuck her. It validates her. It removes all sense of uncertainty involved in going home with you. It can also diffuse sexual tension unless you deftly break it off. May as well let her stew until you have her where you want her.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:04 AM
2

Yep. If your LMS isn't sky high, be prepared to dance a little bit, or go sexless. Your choice.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:35 PM
2

I assume this is what you mean, but just because your life appears boring to the majority of women does not mean it is boring for you. Transforming your lifestyle to something far from what you want for more women is probably low ROI. Hell I could see plenty of men who have a lot of what it takes for a good instagram who simply wouldn't get enough out of the endless picture taking and filtering down to the very best selection for posting.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:20 PM
1

We need more crazy tests like this.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 05:41 PM
1

I meant as a result of the coronavirus. When shit looked to be getting real the woke politics suddenly took a back seat and people noticed.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 03:12 PM
1

My assertion was that the rhetoric is not about general police brutality. You have not contradicted that.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 03:12 PM
7

You're giving attractive women too much credit in their ability to manage and market themselves effectively. A lot of them have men behind the scenes unsurprisingly.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:55 PM
4

All sex can provide beyond the same sinking feeling you get after jerking yourself off is either some connection to a girl you care about beyond the nut or validation. A tinder quickie provides neither. Clearly you hunger for a greater feeling of self worth. Obviously the usual lifting, learning, making more money, etc applies but when you want some entertainment actually play the game and seduce hot girls in person. Don't kid yourself that tinder rises much above fapping.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 08:08 PM
1

How do these conversations usually begin for you? Do you just bring shit up, say it how you see it and risk alienating people or do you approach it more tactfully?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 07:47 PM
1

Nice quote
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 07:23 PM
1

I would have cameras running continuously. She could say the event in question happened on another date.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 12:06 AM
4

Some lines that could save your ass one day and the only things you should ever say to police officers beyond pleasantry: "Am I under arrest or am I free to go?" "I do not consent to any searches." "I can't speak without my lawyer present." "What is your badge number?"
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 11:36 PM
1

Anything a man does to enhance himself beyond three core qualities is simply amplification of those core qualities. They are being: handsome, healthy, and physically large. The reason lifting is the central tenet of TRP is because it addresses all three. Being lean improves your handsomeness. Being muscular improves your healthiness and size. Just do it.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:58 PM
27

Dogpill confirmed
/r/BlackPillScience29/06/20 09:23 PM
1

I've been on the "grind" for the last three or so years. It's not that I'm 100% productive at all times of the day, but I'm broke. I cannot facillitate the kinds of activities that will help me level up my social circle and have novel experiences that will shape me as a person. My entertainment is basically free shit like youtube and playing DND with the same old dudes. I do spend a lot of time learning (engineering) and lifting. The result is I lack that which gives a time period the kind of co…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:53 PM
3

I've never understood why this is offered as advice. You're not genuinely going to get there without achieving abundance and getting there is an inevitable byproduct of abundance. It's more like a moralistic brag.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 01:33 PM
6

You go in 90%, she covers the remaining 10%
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:02 PM
1

Do what you want. Just keep in mind having multiple girls on the roster keeps the top shelf on best behavior and keeps the oneitis away.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:16 PM
4

I want a girl to say this to me, and completely drop the bomb on her how pathetic I used to be with a complete DGAF attitude about her knowing the truth - just to test the effortlessness law of power vs the imperfection teaching of pook.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 05:52 PM
2

I think it's pretty clear the coronavirus is the fuel for this fire and the waning influence of the left caused them to take whatever spark they could get for a hail mary. You see people all over the west getting uppity over it, it's insane.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 02:56 PM
0

There are any number of bullshit things you could do to play the status game. In the end, you'll probably never actually do any of it that you don't also get personal value from, at least not for long without becoming miserable. It's up to you: lean toward the things you enjoy that get you denigrated by society like MLP or some shit, or lean toward the things that benefit you and also earn you status like lifting and making money.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:19 PM
4

You may as well just accept the fact that you may well forever have the urges until perhaps you reach a time where you have a different girl to fuck every day of the week (which poses its own difficulties). You'll hopefully always be a healthy male and porn and trivially easy release will always be a click away. You may have to continually remind yourself the reasons why quitting is more worthwhile than giving in. That all being said, you may never be an "ex porn addict".
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:16 PM
2

Relentless by Grover goes a lot into Kobe's work ethic and people like it. Great book because it's not hype motivation. It will probably leave you questioning whether you really even want to live your life like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 04:43 PM
2

Part of the equation is there is a kind of involuntary "you" inside that whispers shit in your ear, often toxic and unhelpful. You can ask yourself, "what would I do if some other person said some shit like that to me?" You at the very least would not validate it with genuine consideration. IGNORE it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 04:40 PM
1

On the point of seeing yourself from a third person perspective, I've experienced this completely involuntarily while tripping on shrooms. It's hard to explain. Your whole concept of "you" becomes transformed and it's like you can see yourself in totality: your flaws and strengths, without the clouding of shame and ambition. You just see what you are doing wrong so clearly, and it makes what you should do in life so clear as well, not just rationally like usual but "yeah that's the obvious choic…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 04:37 PM
3

Do you listen to BLM rhetoric? It is not about police brutality in general. It's chalk full of all the internally-contradicting, statistically-irredeemable, woke, white-blaming bullshit we know well by now on TRP. The police state will not be addressed by such divisive nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 04:11 PM
1

You can't get away being asexual as an ugly dude. You'd be ignored. Being sexually charged and polarizing is different than a desperate energy sync. women can see right through you, they are social psychics, they can smell your thirst from miles away. Even just the way you look at them, they know. So, "Just already be getting laid bro." Good talk.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 12:29 AM
6

This. Ideally you would only need to block a girl because she’s blowing you up while you’re trying to move on, but realistically you need to take what you can get to move past this head space as soon as possible. It’s not about her so why try to send some petty message she probably won’t even notice?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:12 AM
1

But I think with a consistent low level fear, the kind we evolved steeped in over thousands of years, you build a grit that inoculates against summoning all out fight or flight level fear in response to stimuli that it's not warranted for.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 07:46 PM
1

Agree to disagree then. A vision of what could be in both directions, positive and negative, can have a synergistic effect over one or the other. Many people have said that fat shaming was important in them getting their health together, for example. That's fear of social repercussion through and through.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 07:04 PM
1

Do you not think this peace of mind would lead to ignoring the kind of activities someone strictly personally accountable wouldn't that you just mentioned?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 03:32 AM
1

That's probably for the best, but I empathize with people that aren't pleased when that shit happens all the time and you can't chalk it up to a couple bad apples. Women are whack dude.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 06:27 PM
1

She knows you broke once, and that's all it takes. The respect a woman can have for you fantasizing you cannot be broken will always be a glass ceiling relative to a woman who has seen you fall, no matter how well intentioned and adamant she is that she digs empathy and transparency.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 06:22 PM
8

Being dismissed personally for things you have no control over and seeing no repercussions for the offenders will do that.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 06:14 PM
1

I might give it a shot again because I hear so many benefits and it would be difficult to fail to stay lean. Would be nice not to chase energy pickmeups all day by eating too.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 05:46 PM
1

Go full bluepill if you have doubts is my point. You probably won't since the level of effort that requires is unnecessary and you know it.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:52 PM
3

People get it confused but she's talking about something different than the insulin response of fasting, which drives the majority of metabolic changes, which is calorie-dependent. Basically she claims the body activates digestive enzymes in response to even low calorie things like coffee which are most effective for only a portion of the day before degrading.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 06:55 PM
2

I don't know why but OMAD did not work well for me. I was irritable all day and had brain fog. Tried a number of different recommendations and even drastically upped my calorie intake in the one meal just to see if it was OMAD. Nothing worked. This is coming from someone who tolerates IF and strict keto quite well too.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 06:52 PM
3

Idk why you'd bail. The only red flag is too many green flags lol. Keep the usual skepticism, there's no reason to believe she can keep it up long term until you see her do it.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:17 PM
8

Keep putting that effort in for a few more months and you'll know for sure.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:10 PM
1

"Dude why do you let heroine matter to you bro?" Not that porn is heroine, but plenty of things aren't just in your head. There's a spectrum of pleasure seeking activities and porn is objectively past the point of taking more than it gives.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:20 AM
1

It signals to her confidence and thus preselection (hopefully you understand why preselection matters). Basically that you have played it fast and loose in beginning relationships in the past and not been shot down into the mud to the point where you lost your belief in yourself. Otherwise it's just a way of creating an emotional vibe between you without having to get into "deep" subjects that most people don't want to do outside of their very closest relationships if at all. It keeps the focus …
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:04 AM
1

Attraction is not dependent on quality of character by and large, only the actions taken upon it. And most girls you think of as quality have acted in ill-advised ways based on those urges a time or two more than they'll ever be willing to tell you about.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:07 AM
1

It's not, it's Redpill 101. 80/20 rule means the bottom rung of the top 80% of women (say 20th to 40th percentile) have eyes for the bottom rung of the top 20% of men (say the 80th to 85th percentile).
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:35 PM
15

It's not a matter of being higher SMV than her, it's a matter of being higher SMV than her options, which in today's world of tinder...
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:32 PM
1

That's a helpful framework, though a blanket check in once a month doesn't seem adequate.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:51 PM
2

I can see how basic self awareness can go a long way toward mental state type goals, but I think more is needed for driving toward external goals, especially when you have a lot of them competing for your time and attention.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:50 PM
1

How would you describe what you do? Is it like pausing and drawing on a well of emotional strength/clarity? Or are you actively saying things to yourself, repeating a mantra etc?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:39 PM
1

I think I'm talking about a more deliberate practice than you are. I probably should have been more clear on that. Obviously you can practice mindfulness many many times a day, but I doubt you are practicing an active visualization ritual, quantitatively recording your progress on your goals, making lists of things you could have done better, etc 10-200 times a day each.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:29 PM
1

It's natural in this day and age to feel insecure in committing to a girl because cheating is absolutely rife. What is your emotional state like exactly? I assume you don't fear that losing her would mean no pussy and you didn't exactly sell the notion you are in love with this girl. If all you're looking for is a sense of complete trust in your woman but have no expectation that she regularly provide you explicit evidence of her fidelity, you're looking for a bygone era.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:21 PM
1

Emotional experience, high to supranormal preselection, knowing relatively little about them so they can insert a fantasy, and more often than not very physically attractive (if they were selected to become famous). Men don't get off on preselection the same way and our fantasies usually revolve around having a woman devoted to us, not someone we perceive as above us.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:13 PM
1

All of the models have proven to be overestimations. Truth is nobody knows what the fuck is happening.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:07 PM
1

If you're generous with your value at the outset, and then withhold that value when behavior is not to your standards, the asshole is in the withdrawing. If the person is worth your time they will see the boundary and stop crossing it in exchange for continued access to the value you provide. Now what someone considers a transgression can be very out of line with social norms and your own goals as far as being a sociable person. Make sure you're not too far toward beta simp territory where every…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:03 PM
1

About to graduate in ECE. Have any recommendations? So many paths before me and I haven't fallen in love with anything in particular (enjoy programming in general a lot though).
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:09 AM
3

It's a matter of how much value you get. Buying her a concert ticket, going, and then banging her afterward is a very different situation than her guilting you into letting her and her friend take the tickets in your stead. Same amount of money spent.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:06 AM
1

I don't care how much it costs, I don't trust a bitch to take it. If it gives me no peace of mind what's in it for me?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:57 AM
1

We don't know whether op has formally committed to her though.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:56 PM
1

Transactional sex aka beta bucks is sex in exchange for goods/services. Sex in exchange for your time and attention alone is the cost of entry for every man. Or do you really claim to walk in, fuck girls, and leave?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:18 PM
1

I've noticed that the longer you go without eating it the easier it gets. When you cave and eat some, your brain remembers the taste/feeling and ramps up cravings for it. Cut that shit out entirely and take it day by day. Your taste buds will re-adjust.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:10 PM
2

I would argue the opposite. His body is his weak point. He has the most to gain from bulking up, even if getting huge would be very difficult. This is ignoring the fact that "hard gainers" are basically as bullshit as fatties with muh conditions.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 07:15 PM
3

I agree with you but only partially. There are a host of pursuits as a result of our biology that are far more likely to bring lasting satisfaction. Something like developing your physique will bring greater rewards for the vast majority of men than getting their RPG character's strength up, regardless of how many men have "decided" that the latter is more important to them. In a more natural setting, we would only be inclined toward developing in meaningful pursuits, but clever men have learned…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 04:38 PM
1

I never see shit like this. It's possible you live in a location where the marketplace is awfully fucked. Are you in a small town where every attractive girl over the last few decades dipped out as soon as they became old enough? That kind of thing skews things so that 5s become 9s.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:02 PM
2

Roosh says that women would reject him upon hearing his age. His strategy was to basically just dodge the question. Then after fucking them he would tell them his age and watch the hamster go ballistic. Sounds fun. Also claims they would never reject him after investing in fucking him based on age. Says something about their genuine preferences.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:24 PM
12

She could be trying to give you an out to "save face". The only way to know for sure is if she gives you another shot. Just say your memory is hazy too but you promise to remember next time.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:42 PM
1

You don't sound fully redpilled so I would tell her to stop with the full expectation that the relationship is over. See with your own eyes that this girl almost certainly cares more about her recreational activities than you. Then move on.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:37 PM
1

I've heard really good things about approaching girls and if they reject you ask to just be friends. Hot girls tend to have connections to a nightlife-oriented social network.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:36 PM
1

You probably don't need to go insanely hard studying assuming you're in high school. I imagine you're not going to transform your GPA and thus your college prospects at this point. It's not a bad thing to go into college with a real work ethic though, assuming you're going for a sensible degree (engineering, accounting, medicine, and a small handful of others). If I were you I would put somewhat less priority on school and more on a job or starting some kind of simple online business. I'd be sho…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 03:26 PM
1

I think I look worse after gym too. I also perform mentally much worse over the next handful of hours. Just do it at the end of the day because I doubt there's anything that's going to completely transform your body's response to physical activity.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:34 PM
1

Being attractive is brutally critical in being high status as a young man nowadays. Lift and dress well. Also don't fuck around with college unless you know EXACTLY what you are trying to get from it. The only sensible answer is money. And the only sensible paths are engineering, accounting, medicine, and a handful of other STEM fields. Even then you should probably take a few years of community college given how concerned you are with social status and bitches.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:26 PM
5

Basically, I’m lost. Don’t know what I want to do with my life. I have a passion for Literature but no qualifications so not sure I can do anything with that. I don’t know where to go in my life, what to do, what I want. I feel like the situation is more hopeless than it’s ever been before. This paragraph is what tells me he needs a pretty major transformation, which is going to require an equally large transformation in his lifestyle. Reserves may be enough of an improvement for him to return t…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:17 PM
1

Just don't whine when you see men leading "bigger" and "better" lives leading bigger and better lives than you.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:40 PM
27

The military is going to be the fastest track guaranteed. The chances you'll spin your wheels for the next decade without it look pretty high. Note that fast doesn't equate to easy and never will. The benefits: It'll whip you into a basic level of discipline and fitness, force you into relationships with other men via shared hardship, get you off dependence on your parents who DGAF, and will be the financial platform you need to bounce into a higher skill occupation. Progress in all these areas …
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:36 PM
1

You don't need to sell me on it once I get to my mid 30's for health benefits. But doing it even earlier sounds pretty likely to be of help as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 11:38 PM
2

The places where high value people are found often have some form of barrier to entry so use that as a litmus test for the environment. I've heard good things about martial arts gyms. My hand is fucked up so I can't throw a punch but I've been thinking about giving BJJ a shot.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 08:28 PM
1

Glad you got what you needed. And yeah I know, that's why I'm not concerned because I feel alright. I'm sure a total 1150 free 28ng would make a difference for me though. The speculated biological effect on others is an interesting notion. Just one more potential benefit that makes it a hard option to ignore.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 06:07 PM
1

Your before is in the ballpark of mine, though from what I can tell I don't suffer symptoms of low T. Did you have symptoms or was it just for optimization?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 05:55 PM
1

That first beast mode set you do after taking it easy on your re-entry to lifting is incredible.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 03:29 PM
1

What's your before and after free and total if you don't mind my asking?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 03:27 PM
3

Give it some time. Don't worry too much if it doesn't end up working out with you joining them long term. That's life. Get the value you can from associating with them, be it genuine friendship because you actually like them as people, or exposure to confident people behavior and status boost for as long as you can tolerate being around them.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:48 PM
3

I think when you're perceived as higher status you have to do a little more on maintaining rapport and making other men feel like you don't look down on them. Otherwise you passively come across as stand-offish.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:40 PM
2

Vitamin d supplements are iffy imo. I haven't seen anyone else mention vitamin D here, but it is the heart of winter and you probably haven't gotten a solid dose of sunlight in months. I was feeling very similar to you recently and I spent some time in the sun shirtless and it did me some good. Also investing in some high quality animal products: raw grass fed milk, pastured eggs, grass fed beef, etc can make a big difference in several other nutrients modern people are lacking.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:32 PM
5

Because everything that is valuable is scarce. And everything that is scarce is so only because it has significant obstacles to obtain or create. Such is the nature of the universe and entropy. Without scarce things you will not have this "valuable" currency of time (you will be dead). You want scarce goods and services from others, so you must offer scarce goods or service in exchange. The trick is having an edge so it doesn't take all your time. Most never find one, hence most of their life is…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:27 PM
1

Funny because basically your entire comment was blue pill talking points that have been addressed ad nauseum.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:14 PM
3

You need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:03 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hg-2_DDEej0
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:01 PM
0

Ice baths
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:54 PM
2

Psychedelics for a lot of people have lasting effects beyond the experience. Part of the reason is because while you're on them you become open to a world of experience that you implicitly recognize is not particularly far from your normal and it is very inspirational.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:11 PM
1

You have little to lose trying orthotropics. Look up Mike Mew. It's not proven though. Or you can get plastic surgery. Better exhaust all your other options because cost, there's no going back from it, potential complications, and need for followup moving forward in life.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:18 PM
1

Presumably you only give a shit about the ones that are actually fucking these women so it is about sex. And like I said, you can learn the whole suite of behavioral factors that help men get laid in the sidebar. The one thing you probably won’t find recommended there but definitely helps is selling drugs.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 01:15 PM
3

Once you need to throw out an "-ist" you've lost the argument.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 09:00 PM
1

Yeah Japan is just falling apart right now lol
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 08:59 PM
1

Have you read the sidebar? Plenty of material to up your game. I assume since you mentioned nothing about your sexual strategy, you don't have one.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:47 PM
3

I can't help but think that the guys who are actually "too muscly" given they're meeting face to face are maybe 1% of 1% of fit men. Up close she is dwarfed in size and sees their muscles rippling with every movement, sees the respect they instantly get from other guys, and that they aren't actually as intimidating as they look. They also aren't covered in fucking veins for much of the year.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 08:15 PM
1

You can be pretty clear with body language, context, insinuation, etc. Something about straightforward verbal confirmation kills some of the fun and tension. If you don’t recognize it’s a game, you have no game.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:53 PM
1

https://mosaicscience.com/story/gay-cure-experiments/ There seems to be untapped potential in using pleasure stimulation to rewire sexual interests. Look at all the people who get into all kinds of weird shit with their porn addictions for further example. Maybe try jerking it to skinny girls on a consistent basis for a couple of months and see if you can rewire your interests. If the BBW thing has come about from porn use however I would recommend the opposite: quit porn entirely for the better…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:31 PM
1

Any advice to getting started? Gun safety is an obvious must but it seems like the hunting part is hard to get into without knowing people.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:22 PM
1

I was just trying to give some perspective. If you agree then cool.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 05:15 PM
1

Hunting is what's standing out to me. Going out focused on a mission with just the guys for several days. Checks all the boxes.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:18 PM
1

Seems like friendships just starting out are less likely to just get together with nothing to do, especially in the age of somewhat compromised social skills because of cellphones. And I'm not interested in having drinking buddies.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:10 PM
1

Interesting. It's a slightly different situation given that the fingers are there but locked stiff. Can help me grip things of sufficient width but can get in the way of finer tasks. Could they get in the way of the grip you'd need?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:07 PM
1

Immediately rejecting the concept of male bonding as gay is indicative of being caught in feminine-primary thinking. Might want to reflect on that. Or not.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:00 PM
1

Already play. Love it, but assuming differing personas doesn't really facilitate the kind of personal bonding I'm talking about in my experience.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 12:56 PM
1

Ask her to guess. Play offended no matter what she says. Insinuate she must be attracted to whatever type of guy she characterized you as. Segue to next topic.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:27 PM
1

I get things like that while lifting. Not quite like that like wanting to die though. But my gains are slow going, pretty much the majority of people in there are stronger than me. Sometimes when I fail to do the weight I was expecting I get this intense feeling like I am so far from where I want to be in life, do I have what it takes to fulfill my ambitions, and all that. If that resonates with what you experienced it's just you putting yourself to the test and all that insecurity and shit that…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:10 PM
1

That's not it. I go close to if not to failure by the end of every exercise (excluding legs but theyre shaky af at the end of the workout). The progressive overload is just slow going
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:29 AM
1

I think there is biology/physiology involved in that. I see guys lifting with garbage form, violating all the principles who are significantly stronger than me. I've made very slow gains starting from a pretty low place. At the moment I'm cutting, and I got rid of vegetable oil from my diet. Since that specifically I am making strength gains that rival or exceeded what I ever managed while bulking (and I was cutting before that with basically stagnant strength as you would expect on a cut). We'l…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:08 PM
1

If I did pushups every workout as I just described, how would that not be considered a staple exercise? Generally I agree though. The optimal program is a combination of free weights, machines, and bodyweight.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:31 PM
1

To not achieve herculean aesthetics at that height is such a waste of potential.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:02 PM
1

-Do them later in the workout after you've already exhausted your chest, shoulder, and tris -Elevation -Use chains -Put a fucking plate on your back... Your comment basically comes down to "bodyweight exercises are useless" which any legitimate expert would laugh at.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:50 PM
1

You are probably tall too I'm guessing.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:35 PM
2

Their peripheral vision is much better. At my gym there is an upper level with cardio machines that overlooks the lower weight area. Girls down below can immediately sense you checking them out from down there. When I'm down there I can barely make people in general out with my peripheral vision.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:33 PM
2

One thing that might help is gaining a thorough understanding of what you're doing to your body. You're not just eating too much, you are literally poisoning yourself and holding yourself back in every area of your life. Your nutrition, one of the foundations of your entire life, is completely crippled. But there is hope. You're still young. The body is a wonder of nature. Read True Nutrition.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:26 PM
8

A direct approach doesn't have to lead to asking for her number within the next 15 seconds. You can express your interest to display some balls, chat for a bit to build some comfort, and go from there.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 10:25 PM
4

There's no point in denying it. Even if they aren't all actively doing it, they all want to.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 06:22 PM
5

Kissing before isolating reduces plausible deniability. If she already kissed you, what might happen next? If she hasn't, she has that buffer to convince her going home with you won't lead to fucking you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 08:04 PM
2

Have you ever had a dog? That works like ass in getting the dog to do what you want.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 06:39 PM
1

I'm a firm believer that one of the few things we have true control over is our breathing. Inhale for 3-5 seconds, hold for 3-5 seconds, exhale for 3-5 seconds, repeat. I'm serious. It's amazing how you can take hold of your emotional state and get in the driver seat of life with this simple concept.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:44 PM
1

Just so you're clear on this you are asking this forum to dictate what your goals in life should be. You're going to have to figure that out for yourself. Some good ideas based on common regrets (note these are not easy or everyone would do them; pick a couple at a time and go all in on them): you can likely continue to improve your looks: bigger, stronger, better style, etc you can likely continue to improve your social skills spinning plates will help you avoid a oneitis and have your mind fuc…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:32 PM
1

It's more like the top 80% of women have eyes for the top 20% of men. The dregs of that cohort rarely actually fuck those guys, but it only takes one pump and dump to thoroughly delude them that they could get commitment from one.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:43 PM
3

She's probably already fucked someone else, if not it will happen soon. Dumping her now will get you out of this headspace and into having some fun and novelty sooner than later. The only reason not to is if you think you can't weather the SMP or you really want to afford her as comfortable a branch swing as possible. ​ As for how to get a grip, there's nothing anyone can tell you that will make you confident. Seek to double your failures and you will double your successes. Start some keystone h…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:38 PM
2

They want you to be in touch with THEIR emotions. Any behavior that is out of line with the status object she wants in you is the revelation of a defect.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:01 PM
1

I'm not at that age but I've heard plenty of women will weed you out if they ask you early on in meeting them and you give an answer that is above the threshold of their conscious bias. You can tell them after they've invested in you more (ie had sex) but at that point they will just hamster. A few things you can do is just ask her to guess, give her shit for her answer, act play offended, etc, etc but ultimately dodge the question. Or as Roosh does you can just tell her you won't answer that qu…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 07:44 PM
2

You have absolutely nothing to gain from telling her you have zero preselection. If the subject comes up just tell her you don't kiss and tell. Admit she took your virginity afterward if you want to troll her and scope the look on her face lol.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:35 AM
8

Honestly I'd prefer google to get woke. Much better that they are doomed to fail in the hands of sjw queerdos rather than full steam ahead under the control of competent male psychopaths.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 10:30 PM
7

You have a lot to learn. Yes being attracted based on looks is shallow to an extent, but you have to figure in the halo effect to really understand what is going on. By being more masculine in appearance by virtue of muscle mass and low body fat, positive qualities are attributed to you by both shallow and "not shallow" people. You come across as more confident, intelligent, etc because of your physique. Part of the redpill is understanding how this is affected by things beyond your control as w…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:53 PM
1

It's not like I care if other girls see her stuff or whatever. That's probably a good thing tbh. I just don't want bitches getting comfortable.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:46 PM
1

All it takes is a BP guy losing sufficient face due to his woman's brazen behavior or she herself trying to save face upon rejection for drama to be on my doorstep despite doing right on my end.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:08 PM
1

You're her time ho
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:04 PM
1

Sharpe Reality
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:01 PM
2

she just brings the main guy the rapier I like the phallic analogy here.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:58 PM
2

Not looking forward to this getting worse moving forward as exit the early 20's, get my shit together, and build my physique. I guess it's just one of many barriers to staying tight with your old pals after you level up sufficiently enough and they don't.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:42 PM
1

I've never seen it frankly. I'm convinced people are just noticing aging around the eyes as women approach the wall (that's the place where the earliest signs of aging are noticeable). You won't see many 18 year olds in the 1000 cock stare examples despite their full capacity to already be hardened thots.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:35 PM
2

Hold frame. Yours is currently being shaken by her negative emotions which will just feed them even more. You've done nothing wrong so clothe yourself in unshakable positivity and cut through that bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:30 PM
1

You can content yourself that the full half isn't going to that. Most is going toward the incentivization of mediocrity and the creation of brainwashed debt slaves among your fellow countrymen.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:22 PM
1

Don't forget the lighting, filter, and cocky facial expression.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 08:08 PM
2

Getting a haircut optimal for your face's shape, hairline, and hair thickness seems a bit hard to me. I don't know a thing about hair. My barber won't say shit, just keeps asking me what I want (probably because he doesn't want to risk me getting pissed off when it's done).
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 06:49 PM
17

Only thing I'll add is I try to keep all my other products (deodorant, shampoo, soap, etc) as scentless as possible so only the cologne carries and not a hodpodge of smells.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 06:18 PM
5

You're here acknowledging it and that's the first step. Maybe consider going monk mode so you're not shitting on other people while you change your perspective. One thing to keep in mind is that other peoples' success isn't taking anything from you in any real sense. The competition is so low these days there is plenty to go around for the top.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:38 AM
2

I wouldn’t focus on confidence at all at that weight. You’re body deviates far too much from the norm to possibly be considered attractive. It comes across as entirely fale or like you’re delusional to other people. Afterwards you’ll probably still feel like the fat guy. Happens to a lot of people. Once your body is a reasonable shape you can assume attraction like anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 12:04 PM
2

Our understanding of the link between genetics/epigenetics and intelligence is far from complete. And just because both sexes have the one X chromosome available is still a far cry from all the genes on it being expressed the same way for males and females (generally speaking as genes are regulated differently for every individual). And hell if half a woman's brain cells are using one X chromosome and half are using the other who knows exactly what that means for the brain?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:13 PM
1

One X or the other becomes inactivated for gene expression in I believe every cell of the female body. It is called X-inactivation.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:16 PM
2

A team is only as strong as its weakest member.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:13 PM
9

I'd argue a huge factor in the viable dating pool is body fat percentage. Men are viewed relative to peers and have more factors that can lead to attractiveness so the obesity epidemic doesn't affect us as badly. Women on the other hand cannot afford to be fat period. 80% can be fat but a fatty is a fatty to men.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 05:01 PM
1

Interestingly the alphas would eventually fall prey to regret rape much like they would naturally defending the tribe. A new alpha enters to replace him. How Darwinian.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 04:10 PM
3

constantly deflecting friends' wives This is something I'm not looking forward to ramping up from where it is right now for me. Part of it is knowing AWALT and so you can't subconsciously interpret the signals as friendliness. I think that sends a signal back that you know what's going on and "get it" making you even more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 01:37 PM
2

Yep. You see in others what you see in yourself (barring the really obviously fucked up people you see around). Reflect on how people are flawed, but how you waste your energy focusing on it when you have no chance of changing them all. Your mindset will improve when you double down and really put in the work to never stop growing. You will eventually passively change the people around you and attract a higher quality group of peers.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:00 PM
0

It's easiest to connect over emotions because they are so universal. You can tie what you like to what they like by how they make you both feel the same way. In my experience you can have conversations with someone who has very similar interests to you but it is still lacking an emotional connection/validation or whatever (usually happens with guys since men and women have the underlying sexual tension charging the conversation).
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:53 PM
1

Yeah I'm sure there's a time if things get more serious that is appropriate but comes long before it actually comes to trying.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:09 PM
1

I can't help but think most girls who say that are young and just haven't taken a hard enough look at living life 40's and beyond childless. Maybe it would be a fun experiment to see if girls who say that still subconsciously lose attraction after telling them and the risk is no longer there.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:51 PM
1

I personally don't think it's anywhere near that level. Sure a chick might not be stoked to conceive that way but my genetic material would be available. The tie to her and the resulting kids just as absolute. I do feel you though. Who knows maybe a chick who's up to par though would be redpilled enough to understand the minefield I was trying to avoid with this strategy.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:41 PM
-1

You have every right to demand to see her phone if she’s a girlfriend you intend to spend a long time with. Really it’s your perogative but I wouldn’t give a girl that place in my life who wasn’t forthcoming.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:31 PM
1

To be fair I would still be alarmed by that actually happening. You never know if she puts your name on the birth certificate or some shit. I would document her fallacious communications, get retested to be double certain and then contact a lawyer before I revealed anything to her. From then on out I would have no contact with her outside my lawyer being present.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:24 PM
1

Well I have a list of non-negotiable screening factors that all coming together do seem far fetched but are a far cry from unicorn disney land shit.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:46 PM
1

Oh I have. This is more a conversation on when to tell a girl you've had it done. Springing it on her after years of her demonstrating she is a viable candidate seems a little... much is all I'm saying. Like wouldn't it be better if she knew I'd been snipped all that time but never stopped enjoying the sex instead of leaving it up to that moment to see how she responds?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:44 PM
1

It's not that I don't want kids. I would only want them however in a relatively ideal and thus unlikely situation. Having kids outside that arrangement is a fucking nightmare for me. If I didn't want kids under any circumstance I would pay no heed to freezing sperm.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:05 PM
2

It's a fun fantasy to be sure. But at the very least you cut down on any stress related to that ever happening.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:04 PM
1

It's exactly my point that I give zero fucks about telling a girl I don't intend to have kids with. But if it seriously screws with a relationship I am planning to put major investment into (especially in a subtle and gnawing over time kind of way), it's a big problem no?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:10 PM
2

I wouldn't move straight to real life overt dread in response to admiration of far off e celebs. Just agree and amplify. Talk about some entertainer you think is hot too.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:45 PM
0

Pffft. Fathers don't do shit as far as conception is concerned. They orgasm inside an orifice a few times and the swimmers do the rest. A man can find genuine pride in finding a good enough woman and turning his kids into winners, but not in sticking it in repeatedly until it feels really really good.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:58 PM
5

Definitely not unless you have a disorder. Lifeguarding in the summer has given me so much D it actually holds me over through the winter.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:23 PM
8

To be fair they were eating loads of animal products from beasts who were getting sun and eating right unlike modern factory farmed trash meat.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:22 PM
10

You can't make a blanket statement like that. It will depend on where you live, the time of year, your skin pigmentation, and how much of your body is exposed. Plenty of people do live north enough that there is very little radiation and their bodies will be mostly covered up for most of the year, so the conclusion is pretty much the same for most people.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:21 PM
4

Interesting they would automatically assume she left him. I would think he wouldn't tell them that even if it were true. Although in their hypergamous minds the fact that another girl wasn't lined up would indicate he was dumped
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 05:18 PM
1

Care to share the cities you've experienced quality scenes?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:59 PM
9

Could you expand on that? They don't feel the competition because you have no main chick even though there are still multiple side chicks to compete with and an opening for bottom bitch has opened?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 01:59 PM
1

Yeah repairing the collective chill OP disrupted with a laugh at his expense is very different than say a guy failing to disrupt an instance of sexual escalation and being laughed at by the girl in confidence to the guy who seduced her. That is the kind of genuine disdain you never want to gain, especially in pursuit of what you perceive as the good of some chick.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 01:25 AM
3

I'm convinced that all maturity is is a greater understanding and appreciation of value. A pretty girl by default has a warped sense of value as she passively has it starting at puberty and so never matures a bit until hitting the wall. That's when they realize they had value all those years for an explicit reason and with that ship having sailed she has the potential to mature if she isn't delusional.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 08:56 PM
1

You don't have to talk about your job. If she brings it up ask her to guess what your job is. Pounce on her guess and ask her why she thinks you would do that. If it's a beta-y job by societal standards playfully act offended. Topic pretty much avoided. You can deflect again by saying some ridiculous shit like you're an ass or hand model. If she keeps coming back to it for a hard answer she's probably fingered you as a provider anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 03:57 PM
5

Don’t answer your phine on the weekend. Ain’t tryna be a bitches fallback option.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 02:49 AM
3

Keep in mind your ego has a vested interest in believing people better than you are just inherently like that. Your ego is much better at seeing how things stand right now and is much worse at monitoring how far you’ve come bit by bit. That’s why you will have days as you try to implement steady change that it seems so pointless. Rule 30: make your accomplishments seem effortless People will shit test you thinking you haven’t changed and really won’t want to hear proselytizing about how they can…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 01:55 PM
2

I’m colorblind so it might not help much, especially since red is numero uno on the attention grabbing method list and it’s never really been like that in my perception. But hell I’ll give it a shot.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 12:59 PM
1

You do realize a professional shot picture is basically magic for your facial aesthetics? But I’m sure that’s way too expensive and this and that reason why you can’t succeed.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 03:07 PM
27

When your approval is perceived as hard to attain it is much more validating when people get it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 02:53 AM
2

Would you say then that masturbating is fine to do? I am in a strange place regarding my beliefs about nofap. I cannot deny that I have a certain edge to my minute to minute cognition and it feels like I’ve lost something after orgasming. I always likened it to having energy and motivation unleashed by my body’s desire to succeed reproductively. It also seems though like a lot of attention gets eaten up thinking about sex on nofap streaks. Do you think having a lower tier in the hierarchy unsati…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 12:56 PM
1

I wouldn’t totally dismiss it. I do it after I take a plunge in my freezing ass pool and take a cold shower. Feel like a boss.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 03:29 AM
3

Making eye contact with people you see walking around is a strange subject. The thing is you don’t have anything to prove to people who slide past your life for a grand sum of 15 seconds. To me though I am curious and my mind wants to direct it’s attention at people. It makes me feel weird to purposefully keep my eyes averted (and frankly makes it much harder to walk in chaotic crowds because people think they can bowl me over). Really it’s the consequence of standing tall and keeping my eyes le…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 04:27 AM
1

Taking what you want and leaving the rest is not an insignificant part of the red pill. There’s an irrational stigma around suicide. One that predisoses us to thinking every turn in their life must have been the wrong one to end up like that. Would you throw away all of the advice of a theoretical alpha dude who was a smoker and died of cardiac arrest at a younger age than Thompson?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:29 PM
1

It’s been a while since we’ve had a good old BP brigade. Probably indicates something about this post.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:16 PM
2

Yeah you really don't need to have anything interesting to talk about to hook a girl. You can have a playful, basically content free conversation and the more you chase the more you'll know about the inane topics women are interested in anyway. You won't develop any of the relevant skills or knowledge starting a business or participating in a philosophy club.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:50 PM
2

"I would never say that I'm an alpha. All these people out here saying I'm an alpha, but I would never call myself an alpha. No way. It would be plain ridiculous if I said I'm an alpha. But oh well, some people just think I'm an alpha I guess."
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:14 PM
4

That makes sense. I definitely have the redpill halfway swallowed and it's a weird place to be.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:35 PM
7

Best comment in the whole thread, all the way down here lol. It would be helpful if people saw this first before the botched job by the ECs up above.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 01:29 PM
1

It’s a sub about sexual strategy not nitpicking morals. Is your frame really so weak that you interpret everything people recount here as commandments you must also do? It’s your perogative not to do anything you deam immoral. You’ are however sticking your head in the sand if you refuse to recognize that this behavior incites different reactions in the sexes.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:23 PM
1

Low effort comment. Why don't you explain how I've misread? Max said Marx is not worth reading because he was wrong. I said he is worth reading, not because he was right, but because his ideas live on to be massively influential.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:05 AM
9

I'll give him the benefit of the doubt that he adds Marx to the list for understanding his ideas and their influence on others. You don't need to believe him to find his work useful.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:53 PM
1

I apologize if the way I wrote that sentence made me sound like OP but I’m not. I just stated the given facts and refrain from assuming the vantage of a mental health expert over the internet.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:44 PM
6

Grandpa had alzheimer’s not grandma.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 03:04 PM
1

She could also just be saying that to save face.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 03:56 PM
7

I think we’ve reached an inflection point. The pendulum still continues in its current direction but it is decelerating.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 06:22 PM
4

It’s complicated by the fact we are pretty tall today compared to people only a few hundred years ago. Could have to do with superior capacity to take advantage of abundant resources.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 08:37 PM
1

I’m pressed to think of a situation in which you physically comply with the police (advisable even if you think they are breaking the law) and get shot. You contradicted yourself saying the cops will fuck with you if they want to. Shooting the shit and answering their questions no matter how innoquous won’t deter them in that instance don’t you agree?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:46 PM
2

That makes absolutely no sense. Police are going to tread more lightly around someone who has an inkling about the legal process and who instead of proclaiming loudly that they know their rights (and thus likely don't), confidently and calmly demonstrate that knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:26 AM
2

It's one thing to be polite with an officer in a routine encounter, but you enter very different territory the moment they start asking questions and/or start trying to gain access to your person/property. You have nothing to gain and everything to lose using a colloquialism that could be construed as something in court. Use a script with unequivocal meaning and shut your mouth.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:19 AM
5

Going out of your way to make light of other people behind their backs like that is pretty feminine.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 04:57 PM
2

The main factor in op's favor was the girl being from out of town. She was in a far away place for the express purpose of having a good time which cued promiscuous behavior. It was don't fuck it up game and he just didn't fuck it up.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 06:35 PM
6

The slut zone really is synonymous with the friend zone. I wonder if women project that it's ok to friendzone guys because they themselves enjoy being led on...
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 07:54 PM
5

Peterson goes off of what is evidenced empirically in things like attraction. At this stage some of it is fairly redpill (though often viewed through a bluepill lens) and it's not exactly easy to get funding to explore hardcore RP teachings. For example the notion that there is a cluster of traits women universally find attractive is well understood and would have been considered anathema not long ago before the manosphere balanced the skew on gender dynamics from the feminine imperative. So rea…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:06 AM
1

There's this one girl... Put in the time to read the sidebar or you will always have this problem. As with 99% of all questions regarding trying to fix things with an individual girl: make it known you have other options, pursue them, let her simmer a bit before reengaging, and be completely willing to walk away if it doesn't pan out to your expectations.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 01:53 AM
6

It was once illegal for the military to accept anyone of an IQ below 83 (about 1 in 10 people). If the military can't do anything with you, then you're fucking retarded. To be fair, I doubt you've ever taken a legitimate IQ test before.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 08:38 PM
3

That must sting man. To discover that an institution influential to your development has succumbed to a rot is bad enough but to know your own family is at least partially to blame...
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 12:32 AM
8

I actually liked my scout masters. Some of these kids though... I don't know where you're supposed to start if you're not their father.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:32 PM
18

Scouting is seen as a thing for dweebs and social outcasts It's probably not totally undeserved. My scout troop really was like that. It was the main reason I lasted barely a year.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:25 PM
1

It's most important to not let them get a rise out of you and I think the general disinterest goes farther than trying to throw out some lines. If their words have gotten to you despite what you've learned here, it's safe to say it's easier to feign disinterest/distraction than confidently throw out a line.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:12 PM
2

He pretty clearly stated that it all came together for him that she was crazy when she started talking babies after he banged her one time. He did not proceed with associating with her ever again after that.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 08:38 PM
1

That makes sense. To be fair OP had an intuition that it wasn't good to do that but knew he wasn't trying to be with the girl forever.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 04:06 PM
1

What is the practical application of the rule? OP did only stick his dick in his SO.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:30 PM
1

https://youtu.be/yBKA42E3yKc The bluepill example tag cracked me up.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 03:43 PM
3

I suffer from something like this. I've read a lot of high IQ guys feel similarly but at the same time I don't think that's the whole story. I think there's an element of ego protection going on, like you're trying to protect yourself from simply vibing with someone and delving into each other by focusing on the mundane content of the conversation. I think something worth focusing on is staying humble and present in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:37 AM
3

Not really. Maybe they were taken aback that you are starting a conversation unexpectedly (can be mitigated by looking more engaging beforehand) or perhaps they are naturally shy or bad with conversation themselves.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:32 AM
27

bitchtest A better term than shit test. Cuts right to the heart of the matter.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 03:16 PM
1

You met him a long time ago? Would be interesting to pick his brain.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:47 PM
1

I wouldn't look at it as so black and white. Women are fluid creatures. Yes she is there because you are giving her money. But if she sees you're a man with his shit together and looks good, she will enjoy the interaction which will make you enjoy it more. As has been the common theme of the thread, men who cannot get women due to some deficiency not only shouldn't use this service regularly but also won't get the most out it for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:11 PM
1

Well he also went into how your escort experiences are better if they are attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:28 PM
1

I've had a major problem with taking on too much. It's hard to narrow your focus to a couple things when you've got a solid five or six that you know working on will bring you major returns, or are all the stepping stones to others things you want. The problem is those five or six things aren't easy even if taken on individually. But if you burn out you've set yourself back a grip of time and those five or six things become more pressing to accomplish. It's a nasty cycle.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:18 PM
4

Being redpilled means seeing the actual truth of specific matters from a matrix of apparent truth. You can be redpilled in one way and bluepilled in another. Very few are redpilled when it comes to women, attraction, and dominance hierarchies even if they "get it" in things like politics.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 04:38 AM
1

It wasn't hard to deduce that when my suggestion that one use weed for meditational purposes was responded to with casual dismissal as "true weed user talk" that you see it as "beta". Really the beta talk says a lot about your mentality but I doubt you'll listen to anything I have to say because you're already resulting to ad hominem.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 04:15 AM
1

So meditating is BETA to you? lol
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 03:21 PM
-1

Weed has its place, unlike porn. There's a difference between smoking weed in the mountains while meditating once in a blue moon and getting baked every single day to run away from your problems.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 01:44 PM
2

I've fallen off the nofap bandwagon while still maintaining the other positive habits going on in my life (lifting, juicing vegetables, deep breathing exercises). The mental effect is still immediately pronounced and lasts a few days until whatever happens to your reward circuitry adapts/recovers.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 01:41 PM
3

I will preface that porn is the real problem. Quitting fapping may have ancillary benefits beyond quitting porn. I always say try it before you knock it. I've seen fewer people who have tried it and said it wasn't particularly useful compared to people who've never tried it just automatically dismissing it. My actual arguments boil down to a few things from personal experience. You have a general edge to your experience in life while abstaining that quickly recedes if you break down and jerk off…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 01:29 PM
2

I had never thought to do this. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:00 PM
1

I've read some pretty worthwhile books to take notes on although I agree a lot of them have a single central idea that gets pounded in over and over.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 12:59 PM
1

Your call. There's a thrill in bending others to your will. Taming of the shrew and all that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:13 PM
2

You could see how a soft next works. Could turn her around.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 11:48 AM
1

You loved how they made you feel. If that stops you leave. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:20 PM
1

You'll always be ina vicious circle if you think you'll find a woman who loves you for you alone.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:34 PM
3

Yeah what an egotistical dork he is for being cautious with a girl he had a bad oneitis for not long ago. You have a lot to learn.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:32 PM
2

So what are you gonna do about it?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:22 AM
2

I meant to reply to shooter lol
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:41 PM
3

It's intended purpose is simply to be a massage gadget, not specifically a sex toy. Companies often want to maintain their brand over taking the risk and making more money with a rebrand. In this case it's literally THE sex toy so they should just fucking rebrand and get that money.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 03:47 PM
1

I figure developing a skill can be worth poor money provided it's the right skill.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 09:12 PM
3

Seems like your best odds then are gaming in environments where you know nobody and face few consequences from bothering the women there. I've always thought learning game would be one of the best ways to develop charisma but now it just seems like having the balls to do whatever you want is most key. What then is the best way to develop charisma?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 03:17 PM
1

https://youtube.com/watch?v=vn_L4OPU_rg
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:44 PM
1

Pettiness to me is going out of your way to screw someone who has screwed you. To refrain from doing something for another that you genuinely don't want to do, even if it's based on the fact that the person screwed you in the past, is just honesty. It's one thing if OP truly still cares about his father but wants to get one in on him before he dies to get even. It's another if he just deep down doesn't give a shit about the man. You can't blame him if that's the case knowing the guy didn't give …
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:35 PM
1

As far as I know, it's only shepherd which is totally reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 11:38 PM
1

Holy shit that really is so fucking patronizing. Even from the BP perspective, how is it doing anything to promote diversity when you just pump out ethnic rehashes of what already exists? Those characters are white in the mythos of everyones' minds. It's like creating an alternate, segregated reality where the only difference is that some of the characters aren't white.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 11:32 PM
7

The analogy would be more complete if there was zero legal requirement to pay back the $500k loan.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:22 PM
1

I used a personal anecdote?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 03:06 PM
5

You can easily train a dog not to bark at people and beg at the table. Some breeds might be highly energetic, something you cannot change. You can help them expend that energy in healthy ways. Not a good example.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:15 PM
1

How the fuck should we know man? Sounds like you are just asking for permission to approach them and find out. I hereby give you permission to ask them out.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:11 AM
3

Go out to places and strike up conversations with strangers. Coffee shops, bars or whatever scene you want have people in a state fairly open to conversation. Just make chit chat and try to find out as much as you can about them. Make them feel like they matter. In the beginning you will be wrapped up in what they think about you and so you will suck at it. You will get better. edit: Yes this is a selfish thing to do because you might come across as an oddball more than once and cause weird vibe…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 05:34 AM
1

How about something actionable: read Stop Worrying and Start Living. Let's be honest here for a minute. This is a discussion about how to spend your 20's. Some people think using it making money is a waste, others think using it chasing tail is a waste. I'm not going to tell you what to think. I'm just going to tell you to get focused and aggressively pursue one thing at a time and stop worrying about shit. We're on the redpill after all. You can get wait to get bitches in your 30's. You can wai…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 09:59 PM
6

You're right about talking to strangers from a frame of need and want, but don't equivocate cold approaching strangers to that frame of mind. You can seek to add value to others and the world by chatting with them and learning about them (make them feel like they matter). If you suck at small talk, you can purposefully enter these conversations on a regular basis in a selfish way (intending to improve your own skills) knowing that in the long run improving your charisma and DGAF attitude will ad…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 08:55 PM
6

I think being slovenly in terms of keeping things clean is a minus. I can't stand filthy living circumstances and cleaning up another adult male's mess? That isn't me.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:59 PM
1

Chasing bitches at the club at age 60 sounds like a nightmare to a lot of guys too (there is a balance to be had).
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:39 PM
13

It should be a given that anyone on this site espousing prostitutes does so with supplementation in mind. Of course you should become physically attractive, DGAF what other people think, and learn to sell yourself (game). Even if you thoroughly prefer prostitutes based on your time being extremely valuable, you should put yourself in a position to be a player for the widespread benefits.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:35 PM
1

I should mention he asked for book recommendations that might give him a fresh point of view. He knows I'm generally right-leaning.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:32 PM
66

Protip: make guesses about her instead of asking questions. "Let me guess, you work at Starbucks and you love it there." Add eye contact and a shit eating grin. Now you're flirting instead of interviewing and trying not to be awkward.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 05:23 PM
29

There's being aloof and there's being the guy who stands in the corner by himself "holding frame". Seriously guys if you wait for people to approach you, you will never get laid and will make substantially fewer friends in your life. Go after what you want unapologetically. Women have an inflated sense of SMV these days and cannot be bothered to risk rejection. Few if any men here have the SMV required to sit back and reject a variety of hot women. It's a numbers game. If you're in an environmen…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 05:19 PM
2

There's a difference between, "I don't want to do it." and, "It can't work period because it's lame." Nobody is telling you what to do, just understand the principle that you don't have to be stereotypically masculine to get girls (so you're not confused when you see other guys doing it with success). It's just education.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:12 PM
1

I assume your wide net is to cold approach wherever you go?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 05:42 PM
1

Perfect because it is a completely reasonable thing to say and doesn't sound like you are probing because of skepticism.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 11:50 PM
5

Thought you were talking about a boss from the title. A bit of a tangent but it's true. If you are an employee you are not making money for yourself, you are making it for someone else. Some are comfortable with that knowledge, but most just don't have the perspective to see it.
/r/ThankTRP11/02/17 11:49 PM
2

Really easy. Did she go to the police? If not it's made up. There's still a possibility that it's false, but she has a lot more skin in the game if she's found out to be lying so the chances drop. Edit: to make this advice more useful in conversation, say something to the effect of, "That motherfucker better be in prison now," if a girl mentions it. That way you can find out if she went to the police or not.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:04 AM
1

Does the defiance thing apply to strong eye contact from chicks you don't know?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:54 AM
1

Well this isn't the first time I've ever exercised intensely but I've just gotten back into it after a hand injury but thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 03:44 PM
2

I'm struggling to get good sleep currently. Developed restless leg syndrome about a year ago which has been manageable until I began to workout intensely a few weeks ago. The RLS is bad and I wake up feeling like shit which lasts for like a solid 3 hours in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 04:57 AM
1

The sad thing is half the budget will be spent trying to make her look as hot as possible. Makeup, camera angles, filters, lighting, you fucking name it. They'll be caught in the contradiction of trying to make money while peddling a moralistic agenda that doesn't appeal to base human desires.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 05:47 AM
4

To them it's not about deciding what other women feel but it's about forcing you to consider the tiny percent chance that she isn't internally consenting but is going along anyway in every sexual encounter. It's like the transgender nuts who want you to ask someone what they identify as before you address them the wrong way. They don't understand that humans not only aren't trying to waste mental capacity worrying about extremely unlikely things but doing so also frames you as some level of weir…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:35 AM
4

Jimmy gets it. It's good satire as both sides of the belief spectrum can laugh at it.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:03 PM
3

If only it was acceptable to get that real with people. It's nice to have a place like trp at all but damn if a had a core group of a couple of you guys as my friends life would be a blast.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:15 AM
15

But I doubt these guys are getting cucked by hot chicks. They're probably average to slightly below average. Hot girls can attract better quality than this.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 10:40 PM
2

Seems to me like AI will progress too quickly relative to genetic breakthroughs. It will be more efficient to make machines to do any task than more efficient humans. If these AI can actually be kept under control, the elite would probably just modify themselves to live longer and not a lot else. Why mess around with something that isn't broken, particularly if that something is yourself or your children?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:37 PM
1

Kinda leaves you in a precarious situation. Either present a vanilla version of your life and look boring or put up more and risk looking unprofessional. Not to mention idiots tagging you in things best left off the internet.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 07:02 PM
1

People still don't understand that alpha and beta do not correlate to right and wrong. They are merely perceptions within the female brain. OP said the guy has a reputation for trying to get with girls but always fails. His hospitable acts will always be perceived as beta in that context. If his goal is to get laid the beta behavior is the wrong way to go about it. If it's not, then it's whatever. With my personal values, I'm not trying to drop coin and time like that just because. Better return…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 12:17 AM
1

8-10% looks fucking great. I don't think there are many out there that see sub 8% as a sustainable goal. Just for competitions.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 02:49 AM
2

Ive heard that the quality of the picture matters a lot too. I would never advocate against process however. Build up your body, your wealth, your life and then spend your time competing in difficult markets.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 10:04 PM
0

Take initiative by conveying your interest honestly and unashamedly. She reciprocates or doesn't. You move on. Your willingness to do the last comes across as abundance/high value and increases your chances.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 05:13 AM
1

Better yet treat these things like things that take longer than quick fixes and commit. Everything but hygiene tan and teeth whitening will take time to develop.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 02:26 AM
1

The vast majority of people have subtle issues in mobility and stabilization patterns that build into issues over time, including world class athletes. Very few people perform correctly in a rested condition let alone under significant cardiovascular strain.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:39 AM
1

Right, definitely something I need to work on. I love consuming information but if you don't internalize it through action it is lost.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 05:00 AM
2

So better to totally get out of the mind state synonymous with remembering shit you've read. Is this like mindfulness? Or is that a little too formless for trying to sell?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:55 AM
1

Do you recommend having some scripted shit in the back of your head for when you're stumbling? Kind of the opposite to how people like the kid approach things.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:18 AM
3

Or go for the hogs to minimize your "damage" to society. Why not fall on a sword while you're at it?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:51 PM
2

Yeah the value she provides others isn't necessarily equivalent to the value she provides you.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:56 AM
2

Where the fuck are you that the obese aren't a constant eyesore? I live in a state where it's supposed to not be as bad too...
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 03:02 PM
1

How bad do you really think it hurts you to not have social media presence? I am against having my pictures and name out there in the same place. I have a LinkedIn with no pics and an instagram with my photography. Is that enough?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:33 PM
1

Yeah that was an instance of low class women failing to form relationships with high class women when given the chance. The result could be due to anything, differing cultures sticking out the most.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 09:41 PM
2

I'm not so sure. If everyone understood Machiavellianism, they would be less likely to be fooled, even if there were more people trying to fool them. If women understood their role as gatekeepers of sex and men understood their role as gatekeepers of commitment, there would be balance. If people truly understood capitalism, the classes would exist in better harmony. If men understood that mediocrity is the source of their discontent and women understood that denying their evolutionary imperative…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:35 PM
1

That's your preference and I hardly blame you. I guess I wish the guys here were more honest (some are totally honest about it). Some try to act like there is some roadblock that makes it impossible.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:28 PM
1

Everyone who is anyone advocates having the highest quality peers around you. Reading a book is like having its author in proximity to you, not only having a conversation with you, but having a conversation with you about a topic they think is one of the most important topics that can be discussed.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 01:37 AM
1

It just doesn't feel right to them either. She knows deep down that it is extremely unlikely that you are into her with her hot friend around and so showing her any attention is just incongruent, patronizing behavior and makes them more resentful.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:26 AM
1

Rebooting from porn addiction very often takes longer than 2 weeks. A lot of guys go through weird fluctuations in sexual performance. I strongly urge you to stick with it for 90 days. Think about it, your brain has become accustomed to seeing sexual novelty on a level higher than we are evolved for. Your brain on some level has been tricked into thinking you've fucked more girls than our tribal ancestors ever even met. Of course its gonna behave weird when you get off of it. And don't let it ge…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:18 AM
2

There's pain and then there's pain. It's typically easy to tell the difference.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:12 AM
5

You can have 20 options and chose from that number what is optimal for you. Sounds like you prefer the best one. Or you can have one option and delude yourself that she is the best option. Then if that falters you are on the scramble for another one and your game is rusty. This is RP 101 dude. You base your strategy on an imaginary "image" people have of you. It's an illusion assuming you live in a place that has a population large enough to guarantee anonymity in public. If youre living in Assw…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 11:51 PM
0

You don't even know the basic principles of millionaire fast lane if you think it involves trading your time for money (hint you need ownership) which means you need to read the book yourself. Would you have believed that an internet forum could have helped you piece together the principles of sex and relationships a few years ago?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 10:16 PM
1

The only way this guy can add value to your life at this point is if you help him improve. It's either that or leave him behind. Don't help out of a sense of loyalty, you will become extremely frustrated if you fail. Do it solely for the reason to have high quality people in your life. It's practice for helping people you meet in the future even if you fail.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 07:57 PM
1

What do you think of the rise of Trump and reactionary social media content like TRP and on Twitter? Seems like the pendulum is being turned faster than it would organically.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 07:26 PM
7

I think it turns women's stomachs in general to know that low SMV guys are being sexually gratified in any way shape or form. It's a subconscious sense that their commodity is being devalued. You get the same response with these guys getting mail order brides. They rationalize their disgust by focusing on the poor object of these guys' gratification when it's really about the guys getting what they want from someone/something other than her or girls like her.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 07:23 PM
0

The objectification argument is ridiculous to me because it's more or less outlawing a specific perception, a way of seeing the world. Even if using sex robots caused one to objectify humans, that does not inevitably cause him to commit any sort of crime against them even if it increases the likelihood. The crimes themselves are already illegal. It's the same argument with drugs. You might be put into a state where you are more likely to commit a crime by doing drugs, but committing the crime is…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 07:18 PM
1

And at that age parents are solely responsible for what goes down their kids gullets. It's one thing to make them get rigorous exercise, it's another to cut their portions down over time.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:31 PM
1

Oh and how I forget the last step: take action!
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:17 PM
2

Yeah I have no doubt that being an introvert with no self confidence is little worse than being an extrovert with no self confidence (probably better actually). The extrovert though I think just needs to improve on his confidence which is more easily doable than improving his confidence as well as operating out of the bounds of his instincts.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:14 PM
7

You've done nothing to say why being introverted is a gift, just given us platitudes about loving ourselves. In my view introversion is a major liability. It doesn't have as many pluses as it does minuses living in an extravert's world. The problem with being an introverted male is that people in general need to feel liked before they like you. You always have to take the initiative and explore the other person's interests if you want to make connections. You need connections to be successful in…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 06:45 PM
3

Out of every bad situation comes some good. Some peoples' destinies serve only as examples for others to learn from.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 03:13 AM
1

Yeah the level of individuality is frustrating. I feel a little shirty now but I need to stick with it I think to see if I'll adjust.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:54 PM
1

Are you recommending this as a way to compensate for sleeping less or just advocating in general? I'll add that I've been taking theanine and magnesium citrate an hour before bed for my restless leg syndrome and it rocks. My restless legs are gone and I have really long, involved dreams.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:51 PM
1

Damn you'd think people would be unwilling to share this kind of shit. I guess there's no wheat to separate from the chaff in her personality so she has no clue that these are total red flags.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 11:52 PM
5

Read Millionaire Fast lane. Go to the fastlane forums and read the gold posts. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 11:47 PM
2

You don't need to put in 10000 hours to be really good at something, better than the vast majority of people. Maybe it's worth it to master a specific skill for your core, but you will otherwise be better served learning a number of skills to sufficiency and bringing them together.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 09:09 PM
5

Why do you even have to ask us? You need to read the sidebar dude.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:51 PM
1

If he's making six figures he must be providing real value to the venue, which means he has real skills. How can he be completely unable to get another job? I'm also skeptical that one of their dancers is more valuable to them, seeing as you're not being paid as much as him. It sounds like you're more replaceable than he is. Everything points to them bluffing.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:50 PM
2

Yeah it's not entirely about saving someone, just knowing you didn't remain silent when you could have done something for your own peace of mind. There's probanly lessons to be learned too from giving people heads up and observing how they actually proceed. If they don't heed it you know you dodged a bullet saying it anonymously.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 04:06 AM
2

I have apps on my electronics that block the blue light at night.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:14 PM
1

What do you do in the hour or so before bed now? Read books? Still seems stimulating to me.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 09:38 PM
1

You're probably right about injury but I've gotten to a point in the past (mediocre) where I still deal with aches and pains that make me feel like an old fucking man and I know it isn't optimal and can be avoided.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:30 PM
2

Reframe. Who is more selfish? You who wish to live life as you see fit, or those who want to control others to do as they see fit? Don't be afraid to put yourself first... and last.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 04:09 AM
5

Total myth. The increased muscle mass uses negligibly more caloric resources. I'm not saying don't put on muscle, but put on muscle to put on muscle.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:51 AM
3

For sure. At the same time though if someone has put in the footwork to zone in on their exact caloric intake and reduce it to bellow maintanence, they also have the option of just cutting another 200 or so calories. Intense exercise tends to ramp up my appetite which requires additional willpower to stick to my diet, more so imo than cutting more. Factor in that a lot of fat people are out of shape...
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:48 AM
3

I tried to post on another sub that obese people shouldn't be working out to lose weight, only moderately to improve their health. Most downvoted comment I've ever had and not a single person tried to refute it. Fats gonna fat.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:41 AM
1

I'm confused about how getting a lifting coach who knows their shit really works. Seems like you would pay the mark rippetoes of the world for a few seshes to get your act together and then you're on your own. I'd like to get a solid lifting partner who can see if I'm fucking up but I don't have one.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:45 PM
1

Exactly what I meant. Many think that our ancestors success at the expense of their rivals somehow precludes our right to secure a successful existence for ourselves and lineage. I reject the memetic plague undermining my race knowing I have little reach in helping others.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 08:58 PM
3

The pendulum is losing momentum but is still travelling in the same direction.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 08:54 PM
1

Thanks. Should one retract their scapula at all in normal posture?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:50 AM
1

Student but much the same: sitting in front of a computer for a lot of the day.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:19 AM
1

It's weird because they flair up and go away. I get pain in my shoulders, knees, lower back, and neck. My chest gets tight and sometimes I get like a tendonitis in my forearm. I know for sure I have poor range of motion in my hips and I think I have a weakness in my upper back causing the chest tightness. edit: I'll add that I've never been much of an athlete and have mostly swam, run on treadmills, and lifted weights.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:06 AM
2

I don't think it would ever happen. After all she would be wasting a perfectly good drink. You would have to really piss her off which takes knowing her personally already. As for a response... there's no point treating it like a shit test. It's a burned bridge. If you get pissed, get pissed. Or you could reframe it as a massive bullet dodged because it takes some serious mental instability to throw a drink at someone for a distasteful remark.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:02 AM
1

massages I've put a decent amount of time into self myofascial release (getting in there with a massage ball at trigger points not foam rolling nonsense) which introduced me to this world of muscle imbalance and movement quality. I found it's only a bandaid though. Anyway, do you think I should pay for massages on top of my own myofascial release?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:53 AM
3

Anger seems a natural response when considering that your descendants will be a persecuted minority within a country that belonged to their race until said race behaved too selfishly to sustain itself. Not to mention our cultural achievements will be disdained or outright forgotten. The same happened to the native Americans (selfishness contributed to their being divided and conquered). Would any rational person tell one of them to stop being a prissy little bitch about the situation?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 09:05 PM
8

Another case of how victim blaming is ok if it's a man, even for the exact same crime of rape.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:09 PM
1

I find that an excellent question for these types is, "what exactly is it that you want us to do?" Cuts right to the chase that its just around and around on a hamster wheel with not even a single concerted thought on what it is they actually want or how to achieve it.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 02:42 AM
2

You have a point but porn is more extreme in a few ways. There is zero sacrifice, zero opportunity cost; you literally open your computer enter some terms and click a few buttons. With prostitutes you are still forking over some cash and leaving your house to meet somewhere. Then there's the novelty of porn. You can't fuck hundreds of prostitutes in a row like you can at least visually be exposed to with porn. I can see though how to some extent with porn you know it's not real, which becomes re…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 08:28 PM
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For them it's about the rush of temporarily landing a hot guy. It's like a drug to them. Find the most high value guy, trick their hamster they have his commitment for a couple of hours. Followed by the eventual fall Sounds like the relationship men have with porn. Just replace it with abundant hot women and zero commitment.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 05:33 PM
1

You should be okay buying a car. No where near the upkeep of planes, boats, and wives.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 04:16 PM
2

Legit not sure if satire.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:25 AM
3

What kind of reception were you hoping to receive with this story? Oh yeah dude you really got her hur dur. Keep in mind that every girl you get after getting red pilled would have rejected you too when you were a little blue pill bitch.. You gonna get "revenge" on them too?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 12:42 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA
/r/askTRP10/08/16 10:37 PM
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I can't imagine a single reason to talk to the police no matter where you are, unless they're gonna fuck you up. I imagine that type of police is looking for money though, not information.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 12:42 AM
2

Thank you. It's always a treat to run across someone who understands this. All we are as individuals and as a species are a swarm of genes propagating themselves. Our minds/personalities are just a means to that end. Funny how OP couldn't "logic" his way through that one.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:22 PM
1

Discussions on morality used to be tolerated by the mods until they got fed up because they never actually get anywhere. A RP post shames a man in a tolerable manner when that shame is intended to constructively steer a man toward achieving goals the man decided for himself and helps him achieve them. Any discussion on mens' duty to do whatever for whoever else (women, civilization, bro-honor, etc) is fundamentally different in that regard. See the difference? This post could have been received …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:14 PM
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The last point is equally crucial. Don't talk to the police without a lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 02:35 PM
0

Hah, and it tapers off in the negative range where they have to pay to play!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 04:20 PM
1

Yeah as if she could really visualize her husband chadding it up with tons of bitches.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 01:21 AM
1

No they are just in a state of existence that is trying and difficult, which necessitates masculine values in order to survive at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 01:28 PM
3

The Africans will be fucked if they stay in africa... so they won't. They'll leave for greener pastures nearby which sounds an awful lot like europe. Weird that that reasonates with what is already ocurring. They are out breeding because they don't have a feminized culture.. What part about that do you not understand?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:42 AM
1

I think the effeminate spin on lack of effort and diligence is completely unnecessary. People in western culture both male and female are epidemically used to instant gratification made possible by the efforts of our well-meaning ancestors. Women in a more evolutionary context had to work fucking hard, as did men. To be female isn't to focus on instant gratification, it's living in the western world which hits women harder but hits men nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 03:29 PM
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Alpha and beta are purely constructs of the female brain. They exist nowhere else. When we say "alpha" read it as "man whom women interpret as alpha". He had it right that there is something alluring to women in men who put themselves first even if they are objectively losers. Nobody is telling you to become a drug addict to get women, not because that in and of itself is beta (it is), but because you should seek happiness on your own terms
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 03:13 AM
2

It's the difference between opening the door for a "thank you" versus doing it because you want to.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 07:06 PM
8

For real how about make a shit ton of money so you can invest in what you see fit, enrich your mind, become financially independent, and fuck bitches along the way? That's sounds frightfully like a free man.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 12:31 AM
1

Yeah it's crazy that women have such a straightforward path to increased smv and yet are still so resistant to lose weight. You're not valued for your personality first and be thankful it isn't so. It's fucking hard to work on your self internally. Of course so many of them thank their personality is the greatest thing since ghandi revealing that they are far better off with the simple task of losing weight.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 02:19 PM
1

How have you been training your intelligence?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 03:15 PM
11

I'm compelled to wonder about this guy moving in. Would you be down to move into a couple's home and fuck the woman on a regular basis? I can only imagine the guy is a poor thug entering that arrangement.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 03:01 PM
2

Different sexual imperatives buddy. Besides both parties have plenty of options from who they associate with to birth control to abortion. Nobody put a gun to any of these special snowflakes heads.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 02:03 PM
1

Yeah it's a huge injustice, some may even call it slavery. At least you don't have to give her any other facet of relationship (emotional stability, status, etc).
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 01:45 PM
1

Lol dude go read my comments again.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 02:52 PM
1

Lol you're the one contributing your point to my already established point so diverging from what I was talking about is on you.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 02:17 PM
1

I'm convinced the world is going to further segregate fats and humans based on their grossly different needs in the future.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 01:37 PM
3

I was mainly talking about smoking/drinking/drugs above a moderate level. If you're indulging in some activity to the extent that it will take years off your life, you're doing it to an extent that you will be dealing with shitty medical issues years early. All I'm saying is that it's wrong to assume you'll be living fast and awesome and then BOOM you're dead.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 03:00 PM
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Such a fallacy to think like that. Bad behaviors (smoking every now and again isn't even likely a factor) don't just take time off your life but bring upon the shittiness of old age sooner. You will have fewer quality years as a result.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 11:56 PM
1

Here's a new perspective on power and pretty much any human behavior: http://dopamineproject.org/2013/01/why-power-money-and-esteem-addicts-are-more-dangerous-than-junkies/
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 11:55 PM
1

Caveat to 1 is that you get a renewed period to meet new people every year of college and to a lesser extent every semester. 2 and 3 are dead on.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:44 PM
3

Just to be devils' advocate: why is my future deathbed self and my feelings at that specific time more important than my feelings the rest of my life? Regardless, I'd rather focus on cultivating the mindset of knowing that my mind will tend to overvalue alternative decisions and adjust accordingly rather than spending my life trying to cultivate some perfect deathbed scenario where I have no regrets. This is doubly true doing so by following a narrative whose agenda has been repeatedly shown to …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 10:38 PM
1

If you're stuck commuting I recommend listening to a podcast. I'm listening to hardcore history right now which is dope and has a good amount of free content.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 06:22 PM
36

I can't help but see marriages these days as a big sacrificial celebration on the alter of pussy. The groom of course is the offering to be slaughtered.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:18 AM
3

Kind of like guerilla war where you're the superpower and she's the freedom fighter. She wants to fight and you want the resources of the land. If it's not worth it you pull the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:48 PM
6

I was thinking about putting a false birth year in the username too.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 09:40 PM
7

Yeah I've noticed if you ever wanna crack jokes about a group of people they have to be about white people or Asians to be received well. People won't necessarily call you racist when joking about others but they won't find it funny.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:58 PM
2

What is it to be redpilled on government? Knowing that the few control the many and always have? And how about being redpilled on reality itself... that the perception of reality through the human lens is largely an illusion.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 05:39 AM
1

Women will do it for less, like simply protecting their social standing in the eyes of their peers.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 04:37 AM
2

I would argue that in terms of improving your aesthetics, you will get faster tangible results by losing the fat first. Learn what your body needs calorically and build some base level of fitness. Then you can bulk without going overboard on the calories (clean bulk).
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:45 AM
3

Economics explains all behavior. It's hilarious that extending it to human relationships, no matter how powerful the predictive capability, is so taboo.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 02:37 PM
15

They might be shitty gatekeepers but they are nonetheless. They'll probably (depends on how hopelessly beta) deny commitment to a hambeast. Likewise sluts are poor gatekeepers of sex, although they'll probably screen the lowest men.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:40 PM
1

I humored you that many men are weak today. You neglected to respond to my question why that is.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:21 AM
3

The only two groups of people that won't promptly get out of my way are really big guys (makes sense as they are used to everyone getting out of the way for the big alpha) or black chicks. Just another feature of their masculine, combative personalities.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:54 PM
8

This isn't an advice piece on why we should all drop out of the game. It seeks to explain why men are doing it of their own accord as a trend. So these men are weak. Why?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:23 AM
3

The crux of the matter is actually considering the option. From there it's a slippery slope toward action because as you said men have been pushed to the edge. If women were so confident that men wouldn't make that choice when they realize it's there, they wouldn't feel so threatened by the message spreading.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 05:17 PM
1

Let's be real here you never see vicious packs of women of any other race attacking people in public.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 03:09 PM
8

Although it's the discussion of opting out that it the real threat. To spread the concept that men do have the option to disregard the game is an atrocity for women's' interests.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 04:29 AM
2

A good piece of advice which applies to everything a woman says is to add the phrase "Right now I feel like..." to the beginning of the statement.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 02:58 PM
5

Women are better at Machiavellianism and navigating social landscapes, at least insinctually. If you've got that going for you why would you need to be good at anything else? It's practically essential being the weaker and more vulnerable sex to be able to leverage the skills and labor of others.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 01:32 AM
1

Haha yeah. You pay the prostitute leave after all.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 09:14 PM
1

I see the allure of being grateful for a low bar, but I'm not so sure. How much better we could all be if we were thrust into a world with more competition and support for masculine behavior. Instead we have these feminized men who employ feminine crab-bucket strategies and despise men who seek to rise above.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:00 PM
2

The fail-safe you speak of is ongoing, a process called natural selection. The very fact that the genes you describe as beta proliferated in the first place is evidence of their adaptiveness. All this is is a single clever man (set of genes) out competing the others. Nature cares not for "alpha" and "beta".
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 01:57 PM
1

Clearly they were so brainwashed by the patriarchy they don't even know they've been assaulted! We need to do more guys. We need to convince these women that they were raped. /s
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 04:31 PM
2

All she is saying is that sex is on her mind and that if it does happen she isn't accountable because she like totally tried to resist you.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 08:04 PM
2

There is a taboo about being tan in Asia because it indicates field work and thus low status. This taboo does not exist in western culture for whatever reason, perhaps because our skin tone is quite variable before sun exposure.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 02:55 PM
3

Surprised nobody has discussed lycopene here. Juice some tomatoes or beats and that lycopene protects your skin so god damn well. I was out in the sun for hours scrubbing algae from the bottom of a pool without sunscreen and didn't get burned. Also juicing vegetables in general makes your skin look absolutely great. I highly recommend it for that and other reasons.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 02:42 PM
11

Get it cut then if it's that much of an issue. Remember the above points. Feminine energy is good for you in more ways than rubbing out a sexual urge.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:03 PM
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Exactly who really gives a shit about the health of the sexual marketplace while they're trying get laid. If you can get excited for fatties and have no other options, whose place is it to condescend to you about the fate of the marketplace?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:00 PM
2

I'm not so sure how muscle loss works. Everyone pretty much agrees you will lose some muscle on a fat loss diet unless you take steroids so you have to accept that reality. Your weight training will also suffer, or at the least you won't be able to get stronger.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 02:46 PM
3

Your muscle glycogen depletes in a caloric deficit and the water associated with it goes too. Yes you've lost a lot of weight but fat loss only truly begins at that point.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:12 PM
3

Isn't a 10% return on the entirety of your investment portfolio a huge assumption?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 03:17 PM
1

Another good tip from gorilla mindset I'm surprised you didn't mention is to speak to yourself as you would a cherished friend. If your mind comes up with some vile self-deprecating statement, ask whether or not you would put up with a friend whispering something like that in your ear. Is that the kind of person you would keep around in your life? Probably not. Replace that phrase with something a supportive friend would say to help you overcome your mistakes and adversities.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 10:12 PM
5

Of course the accuser got painted as a victim too. Sure she was used as a pawn but she has only herself to blame for impulsively accusing others of rape to dodge scrutiny from cps.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 04:55 AM
0

I'd say she receives value in return, not necessarily resources. The attention and validation from an AF is worth a lot and pays that loan off really quickly. BB's resources aren't really that valuable, and he gets into debt really quickly. He also has to put down more collateral up front.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:13 PM
1

It's hard to say. In terms of raw numbers, which is all the elite care about anyway, I suppose that they could still be a net asset. If it's too widespread though society could collapse. I guess there's always other "markets" to go drain smh.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 05:44 PM
8

This assumes the child grows in a well-adjusted manner and produces for society rather than grows to be a drain or downright criminal. It is well known that the children of single mothers are drastically disadvantaged in pretty much every marker of societal adjustment. The state wishes it could replace fathers but it can't.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:18 PM
2

I'm surprised Zionism isn't discussed more here. It's no exaggeration that the Jews want to see whites completely destroyed. They destroyed our morals and sense of ethnic pride via domination of the media, enslaved us via domination of our financial institutions, and are cuckolding us out of existance via domination of our politics with multiculturalism and mass immigration. It's fucked up how cohesive and persistent they've been in this endeavor. Everyone else is just a useful idiot in the gran…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 05:07 PM
8

Everyone successful today is copying the ideas of great men of the past. That's just the blatantly smart thing to do, man or woman. Very few original ideas anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 03:15 PM
1

Start with the basics. Changing your physiology will bring results faster than extrinsic goals. Lift and do cardio purely for the health effect, it will be a long time before you see results in the mirror. Drink more water. Cut out sugar (especially sugary drinks). Get more sleep. Quit drinking alcohol and smoking if you partake in those things often. Be mindful of your emotions, locate where you feel them in your body. This shows you that you can distance yourself from them. Lastly, something I…
/r/becomeaman20/02/16 07:45 PM
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The "I thought I was texting you!?" lie doesn't sound believable at all to me. How would that be possible? Maybe I'm wrong but any excuse as to why you failed to get back to her will be shit most girls will have heard a hundred times already. As for lowering SMV, "I think I'm in love with you," should do.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 07:17 PM
2

Everybody can take a page out of the Patton playbook
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 02:58 PM
17

The practice isn't sustainable either. How long before we start seeing double, triple, plus hyphenated last names?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 02:24 PM
1

Yes I agree. My generation wasn't put onto the whole smartphone trend until we were about 15. Basic communication surely is fine but I wonder about the fine-tuning of our social skills. I totally agree with you that it's up to us to use technology responsibly, but it's an individual pursuit. Until it is known how this effects communication skills, people will use it mindlessly and potentially harmfully and I can't make choices for anyone but myself.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 02:21 PM
1

Do you think that just has to do with experience or is it a sign of the times? I can't help but wonder at the situations I get into in public where, if it weren't for the ready distraction of smartphones, it would be way too awkward for the people to not talk to each other. I think this is stunting our social development.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:05 AM
1

Add to it that to these people anything less than a policy completely dedicated to women's issues is completely unacceptable. To do nothing is hate because the "pay gap" is "one of the most important issues facing the country".
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 04:53 PM
0

That's actually kind of terrifying. Imagine someone collecting your skin cells or some shit and stealing your genes!
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 11:39 PM
1

There's a bit of a rush when you solve a hard problem. I don't think women get those though, unless that's what you were getting at in your post.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 11:07 PM
2

The elite will find a way. They're already in an angelic realm where money means nothing. The only way they can get their rocks off is by being higher than others in the social hierarchy and they won't let that go without a fight.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 07:24 PM
1

Except science and truth require open mindedness combined with critical thinking. It's a tall order bringing that to the masses. What should be isn't quite what is feasible.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 10:36 PM
1

I think it might be good for some very sensitive trigger points but once they've been worked a bit with the roller you're gonna have to get in there deeper with a ball or cane.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 05:03 AM
3

You would be more correct to compare feminism to religion than vice versa. Feminism is under the umbrella of Marxism which is the religion of modern times. The difference between the religions of old and the religion of today is that the brainwashed used to conform blindly to ideals that reinforced the stability of their societies rather than to ideals that actively destroy them.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 04:24 AM
2

I'm not so sure. The profit margin is minimal compared to birth control pills and I think governments are wising up to falling fertility rates. Nobody will bother to give a shit about men's reproductive rights. They already don't.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:40 PM
3

Quick work around is not to tell her you have it, which is standard procedure if you've had a vasectomy anyway.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:37 PM
30

Don't blame the book when you blatantly applied it's advice incorrectly. Sounds like you were trying to win with arguement. Sounds like you weren't playing the perfect courtier. Sounds like you could have used surrender. Maybe rereading it is the perfect advice for you too.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:30 PM
2

A lot of social psychology research is being proven unreplicable lately. Always take what this field says with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:34 AM
15

A nerdy way to envision it is games with a levelling system where you can choose to level quickly in the early stages while the later stages are much more difficult versus choosing harder earlier levels so the later levels are relatively easier than the first option. Most people just want to get to level 50 and live the easy life so of course the first option looks better while those with the ambition to get to level 100 know the second option is the most efficient way to get there. Betas bitch …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 05:51 PM
1

Well not that it's a new development, it's just now become standard practice.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 04:28 PM
1

That seems like the new modality huh. Once your porn career is over, you stay relevant by bashing the porn scene as abusive to get sympathy.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 05:32 PM
1

It's not just lust. If the conditions are right (desperation and/or wall incoming) you could "click" in that she sees betabux potential and feigns sexual interest to lock you down.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 05:15 PM
1

Your highs get more mature the more you do the drug I think. I don't have thoughts that the next day turn out to be nonsense any more. That's not to say you should smoke weed every day, it's really best when done no more than once a week in meditative conditions.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 01:59 PM
1

I bought the trigger point therapy workbook which has been great for finding the trigger points related to the pains of a given body region but I've never found any specific actionable advice. When do you personally work those trigger points (before workout, after, or at another time of the day entirely)? Do you massage a number of them consistently to prevent problems or only after you start to have pains?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:50 PM
1

I'm just saying they may knock themselves down thinking it's not "real". I understand it takes hella effort and it shows what a huge priority it is for women to look and feel sexy. Makes you wonder why fatasses can go to painstaking efforts to put on makeup but can't get to the gym or put down the cheeseburger.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 09:48 PM
1

Right. Your frame has to be that you can and will approach. However you want to rationalize it is just details.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:51 PM
1

Add in the fact that these chicks know on some level that it's the makeup, clothes, and whatever the hell else they do to add points to their smv on a daily basis that's truly selling the goods. I think their confidence largely stems from the fact that they know you want to sleep with them, that you're predictable and therefore controllable. Not too hard to flip them on their head with abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:39 PM
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A lot of the immigrants are from regions that are not ravaged by conflict. It's called opportunism. And honestly good for them taking advantage of European ignorance and pc culture. They may even reignite sensible views on multiculturalism (what you call islamaphobia) so it's a win win.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:07 PM
3

Of course you wouldn't choose the handicap. You probably don't want to be some master PUA, you just want to put in the least effort to get what you want so you can get on to building your life in other areas. Tough. You didn't get to make that choice. Be thankful for what you do have and enjoy the process.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 03:44 PM
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But then think of the vast majority of the population that the amputee can still outrun. Game isn't where 1st place gets 100% of the victory like a race. Be in the top 20% and get access to the 80%.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 03:25 PM
8

Lol at calling an ice bath "risking hypothermia".
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:53 PM
2

I was cutting after getting chunky on my bulk this summer and I was asking him about ephedrine. Anyway the plan helps with weight loss through brown fat and all that has been discussed here.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 04:28 PM
6

I'm not sure if cold showers or cold weather is enough to make enough of a difference. My doctor gave me a program that I never implemented but is interesting. You essentially work your way up starting with submerging your face in ice water all the way up to full body ice baths. I take cold showers which are dope but that's a whole other level of cold adaptation.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 05:03 AM
3

You meant being nice doesn't help you if they have done nothing for you right?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 10:21 PM
0

Best thing I ever did regarding acne was to stop drinking milk. Shit makes me break out like a motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:27 PM
1

I agree with you on the feminists and whatnot and maybe you are right that dressing good is specifically to look good for men, I can't be sure. I've heard it said here that even the men that women associate with are just another accessory in their everlasting quest for status and recognition among other women. The idea is that women are the endgoal of building status for men while status is the endgoal of men for women.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 04:24 PM
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God I can't believe the white knight paradigm. How do they expect to snag pussy in such situations? It shows a complete lack of understanding about women and social interaction. Also I recommend you use fake names for clarity. A bunch of pronouns kept getting jumbled.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 04:34 PM
1

The counter is that women want to look good to show off to other women which is plausible. Regardless there's no way women don't understand men's automatic uncontrollable reaction to the (fit) female body when there's some skin showing.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 04:15 PM
7

What fucks with me is that he buckles to the ground completely unmoving and nobody tries to help him. I wish movies didn't portray unconsciousness as a condition where you can just wake up hours later after trauma to the head totally fine. If it lasts more than a few seconds it's life threatening.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 04:09 PM
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It's hardly a personal flaw when someone becomes entitled because of somebody else's lavishment (in the case of the boy it's the parents, in the case of women it's society at large). What you provide really has to be kick ass in comparison to be worth reciprocating in any way when they're used to getting so much for so little. Actually bring value before expecting to be able to play hard to get.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 12:20 AM
6

The SMP is different than typical markets in a number of ways. First up is the culture of brainwashing boys into thinking they need women to "complete" them that obfuscates rational decision making. There's the women are wonderful effect. And there's the backlash TRP knows all too well against the male spaces that inevitably reduce the bargaining power of the pussy cartel through honest and feels-free discourse. The internet has helped to negate these factors greatly but we will see if betas gon…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 04:57 AM
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When you both hit the wall no intelligent well off man will put up with you let alone LTR you to marriage. Ah but that's where you're the one hamstering. She's got Bob right there on her leash! She will settle with him. She'll probably be miserable too, but comfortable. She might even get her rocks off every now and again when the opportunity presents itself. That's TRP, not a karmic revenge fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 06:37 PM
2

Cutting fat many will agree is easier than putting on muscle but can take more mental discipline. Your muscles will shrink a bit with less glycogen stores and it looks like you're losing muscle when the fat starts to recede from around them while you still haven't quite reached definition. Keep the deficit moderate, continue to lift, get plenty of healthy fats, and stay the course.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:29 AM
1

In a way I wasn't really talking about the sub though. I'm not sure if it's the elite in a cultural programming conspiracy (maybe to an extent) or if it's just the nature of cultures at large, but you are not supposed to go beyond the sanctioned boundaries, to act in a way that genuinely benefits you. You're supposed to walk in lock step with the plan. Approaching hot girls outside of establishments designed to make profit off of male sexuality, refusing to get married, refusing to watch telelvi…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 05:25 PM
8

You might not care about the Blue Pill but they certainly care about you.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 01:47 PM
2

I think these great achievements are precisely what causes us to bury our heads about women. We believe in some notion of 'progress' of fixing all things we don't like. But you can't fix women, only make a choice as to whether you'll play their game.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:22 AM
1

Nah nothing is like adding 200 pounds except adding 200 pounds.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:05 PM
1

I think in the past becoming an alpha meant becoming the leader of the tribe which meant challenging another and so this carried the possibility of exile or death. People today feel this instinctual danger in contemplating their own rise to alpha stature and so seek to protect their loved ones from such risks they themselves have shied from. Once you've made it of course they'll appreciate you came out the other side victorious. I think too that seeing this transformation creates cognitive disso…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 03:34 AM
2

I would relentlessly shame her ass. I couldn't abide my mother being mentally enslaved to such a corrosive ideology.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 03:25 AM
1

All he can really do is be himself and hope the guy picks up on his sister saying one thing and acting totally differently. Can't force the pill.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:51 AM
3

Sounds like she's becoming insecure as your SMV rises.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 06:53 PM
1

Clearly their interest in baseball created some value to the world because here they are with a paid job discussing what they love. Is the act of jerking off to internet validation ever going to be considered valuable enough to another person to get paid for it? No.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:23 AM
1

Not sure if that fits into the phenomena of behaviors once beneficial for survival now persistent regardless of lack of benefit, at least with the old people. I don't respect old people out of hand. Their existence does not bespeak years of success anymore and it's obvious. Their widespread lack of general cognitive function bespeaks years of television and groupthink heuristics to avoid original thought.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 11:46 PM
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They have no concept of value in the first place. They existed in a realm where things just happened for them more or less. No need to reciprocate because their beauty did so by default. Hell even plenty of us before we found trp didn't really grasp the concept of reciprocity, or at the very least how to tailor what kind value you provide for different kinds of people, ie women want chad not some "sophisticated" neckbeard.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:41 PM
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In the end you've got to want it badly enough to fail repeatedly and do what you want to get what you want. It doesn't help if your biology is working against you however. Get your fundamentals figured out. Push yourself harder in the gym. Feel the pain and you'll realize how much more rewarding the workout is when you really give it your all. Are you compulsively masturbating to porn? Do you have a shit diet full of processed foods and refined sugar? Are you sleeping enough? Have you gotten you…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:50 AM
1

This is for night game. Everyone is drinking and trying to have a good time in that context. You'll mainly be judged for how much fun you're having/providing. Something weird or crazy works only if you're doing it in the context of having fun.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:20 PM
1

Yes but our ancestors certainly benefitted by the actions of noble cuckolds. Could males have evolved such that the least fit are destined to care for the offspring of the more fit?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 11:57 PM
2

The ranks of feminists can be boiled down to individuals who not only are unsuccessful at living up to their gender roles and thus despise those gender roles but also hate the members of their gender that are successful.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:17 PM
4

Law 30: make your accomplishments seem effortless. You have nothing to gain by spoiling the fantasy others create that you naturally live and breathe success.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:40 PM
1

https://youtu.be/0s5RRzPkj3I Just do it dude the rush is incredible. I'm bummed out because I live in a hot place and I can't do cold showers in the summer. I'm thinking of living in a cooler place I miss them so much.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:45 PM
1

In France you can get a civil union with pretty much anyone including family members and reap the tax benefits.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 10:37 PM
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There is no disincentive they could impose upon bachelors stronger than the disencentives placed on marriage. If they want results the marriage laws must change. No way to do that though without admitting marriange is absolutely critical to society and single mothers have fucked up big time.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:42 PM
2

Yeah it's not like humans are animals too who intuitively size each other up much like other social animals. We all make purely rational judgments of each other. Obviously a manly man would let his dog or other people's dogs walk all over him.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 03:59 PM
3

The Wire is on so many levels across the board of civilization. Do yourself a favor and watch it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 03:39 PM
37

This has me thinking that even if the wage gap were real, it would probably be deserved. Men are what make institutions productive and innovative. Women come along for the ride preferably under male supervision.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 02:47 PM
1

Was it not readily obvious after the first visit that she was broken? She couldn't even look him in the eyes! Fuck that noise.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:37 PM
10

Looks, money, status. Words to live by.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:10 PM
3

I was thinking what if he's being forceful (already being a dick) you'd have to be pretty strong to brush him aside. Then I realized nobody would pull this on a jacked guy in the first place. The takeaway advice is to lift. You won't have people invading your space.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 02:12 AM
1

Making progress in one area is better than making progress in none. Too many people get wrapped up in trying to change their life in a million ways at once and then fail to implement any of it in the long term. Developing new habits is a skill in and of itself.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 03:11 PM
6

It may not be 100% of the picture but you can't deny the effectiveness. It all comes back to the fact that game is the marketing for your product. It may be a great product but without the effective marketing you won't sell as well as inferior products with better marketing.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:02 PM
1

Truth. And honestly why would you want to own a depreciating asset with an absurd amount of upkeep and could one day cost you your other assets both mental and material?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 03:07 PM
1

Exactly. The only person I have control over in my life is myself and even that is a tricky subject. To think that our scorn and outrage is doing anyone good is bullshit. This is not some movement to change society but one to change our own lives. Sorry if I don't have the time to etch my discontent over a woman acting like a woman on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:53 PM
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At least that's honest. Instead of ascribing malicious or nefarious intent to an action they are saying it how it is: the guy is unattractive. What riles me up is that women can be so open about the double standard of how they treat men yet we are expected to bury our head in the sand because misojunny
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:57 PM
1

Women definitely interacted with each other extensively. What the he'll else would they do to entertain themselves while they did their monotonous chores while the men were out and about? Language serves as mindless blather or status maneuvering for women while it serves as direct communication of ideas for men.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:08 AM
7

Consider it a blessing. Women start out with set value and must negotiate with it wisely before it runs out. Men can build their fortune to the extent they desire.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:48 AM
8

The point to me is to get to where you brainwash yourself. Our exposure to inputs and ideas drastically impacts us and our biology. You are not a conscious individual imo until you begin actively screening your inputs ruthlessly:friends, food, media, books, even your own thoughts are feedback loops. You can't let the trash in (although well-thought opposing viewpoints should make the cut).
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:52 AM
2

You definitely won't trip as hard if you eat them with food in your stomach. Maybe eat before if you want to pussy foot around but I think we all know what eating 5+ grams in the woods is meant for. Stomach aches are a blip on the radar at that point.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 10:43 PM
1

Stop thinking of yourself as a contiguous identity. Your brain is compartmentalized to a a huge degree and what one area holds to be true can be seen as false by another. Things like rejection and approach anxiety are perfect examples of your higher cognitive processes knowing there is little to no risk or harm done by failing ybadnegative feelings still arise from subconscious processes. Honestly repeated exposure is the only way to train these functions. Get rejected over and over and over aga…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:22 PM
1

What are looks? Facial aesthetics? That is but one meager aspect of one's appearance. Your body, the way you carry it and the way it is adorned are huge. Go walk down the street in rags and a fake limp and see if anyone looks at you twice.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:40 PM
3

Your brain literally has to adapt its circuitry to accommodate the changes you are applying. This is a very energy costly process and too much is simply impossible. It's my opinion that this is a major drawback to TRP and the internet in general. You can rapidly learn a ton of new things to implement into your lifestyle all at once. It is a mistake to try them all immediately. It's difficult enough to phase them in one or two at a time as it is, at least for major changes that actually matter (d…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:29 PM
1

I agree with the premise that dysfunctional behaviors will result from a lifestyle lacking in some or many ways. However, I think it's silly to claim that certain behaviors, at least the very addictive ones such as hard drugs, won't further contribute to said lifestyle issues, likely to a degree far beyond what they were originally. Whether or not fapping to porn is on that level of destructiveness is what is, to me, up for debate. There are a few factors there. I think some people really are ad…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 02:53 PM
14

That just sounds like honesty to me. I don't think grandma is jealous of tatted out people, that's a difference in generations.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 02:28 PM
4

Great job pushing past a social tide designed to keep you weak. Did your family see your progress with disapproval or did they encourage you?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:27 PM
12

Foreign women are just smarter, or at least play their hand based on reality.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:56 PM
1

+1 Slim Charles reference Seriously though I wonder how debased the SJW platform needs to become before it can by commonly held as ridiculous. Have these people ever gotten laid?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:54 PM
2

They have the more accurate opinion, however. They know you aren't anything special, you never started out "gifted". Some probably take it better than others. It's tough to be reminded on a constant basis that you could have become great if you'd spent your time more wisely.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:13 AM
2

Yeah it's a crock of shit. I push myself to excruciating pain in the gym and the soreness is minimal. Perhaps it's the preworkout stuff I take but I digress.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:20 PM
2

Except when it's subsidized by big daddy government, then it's the destruction of wealth.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:16 PM
10

I think women just don't respond to in-group competitiveness. Women will only improve themselves via leadership from men in nearly all cases. All the sexy chicks in the gym are being lugged around by their alpha boyfriend. The highest quality women out there have solid fathers in their lives, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:12 PM
1

It simply takes a non-delusional approach to life to know that sexual attraction starts with appearance. In middle school I was fat and girls wouldn't even look at me. I didn't even exist to them when they were talking to my friends. That was a huge motivator for me to cut the bullshit in highschool. It all comes down to the blank slate being taken way to far. This ideology states that every human behavior, even something so elementary and ancient as physical attraction, has been learned over th…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:20 PM
2

In theory I think he's right. I think any party hard, work harder type is qualitatively different from the overall pool of CT naturals by his capacity for reflection, regardless of his origins. You certainly don't need TRP for self-reflection, but I would wager those types are avid readers or had very solid role models growing up. In any case CT can be applied to either as there is no way of knowing from an outside perspective.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 06:54 PM
9

"Are you guys going to get married?" cue the hamster: -they really are that serious and she realizes she has no business flirting with you (least likely) -she realizes they really aren't that serious, rethinks the relationship and potentially breaks up with him or -shit test passed (no boyfriend in the first place)
/r/askTRP20/04/15 04:46 PM
11

These men and their fetishization of high quality women! How dare they!?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 02:45 PM
1

Thinking less of someone for entering your frame is feminine behavior. Appreciate that she does something for you that she is not 100% into. Put another way: no way in hell she will do anal for beta bux.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:17 PM
3

I fully agree, but never underestimate something that can get a ball rolling in the first place. One can just as easily come from a place of faux abundance and convince themselves they're the shit when they're not. Sometimes you need to be humbled, given perspective on what you are not.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:00 PM
14

I didn't know it was an established cognitive bias but I've heard this one before: "The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt." -Bertand Russell I suppose part of TRP is letting shitty people know that they aren't special snowflakes and the world owes them nothing, while letting the people who have it together know that they could probably use more confidence.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:09 PM
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I disagree. Insecurity is a powerful motivator. The problem is that once you get mediocre/good that reservoir empties out and often people who become great found motivation from within beyond that point. I think it's pointless to tell weak people, people who just need to focus on getting started to just "have abundance and do it for yourself man!" Maslow's hierarchy of needs has social belonging before self-actualization for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 02:59 PM
2

Change the way you think about thinking. It's so fucking easy yet so difficult to do. Just embrace the suck.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:00 PM
2

Yup, amused mastery would have sub-communicated all his points without making him sound butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:32 PM
1

The fact that you're engaging in an argument in the first place implies breach of frame. Women are really good at working men up on an emotional level which is that much more likely when you're in their frame. Patrice has quality fucking frame and the experience to know when things are getting off track, women are trying to manipulate/appeal to emotions, etc. Further, he is trying to educate his fellow man by engaging the hamster and point it out. That is simply not your go to for the aspiring a…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:30 PM
2

Completely wrong. Arguing with logic is buying into her frame. Amused Mastery, agree and amplify, etc is the right way to go. Do you argue with a child every time they need to be put in their place, telling them all the logical reasons why they must do something? If you beat a girl on logical grounds she will simply divert the subject and hen peck you from every angle until you're a mess. They are the masters of that terrain, no point in going there in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 08:42 PM
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Still think refusing to fuck a taken chick or sluts is helping to solve "the Problem"? This is much bigger than us, enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:21 PM
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Marriage is a contract wherein the man is liable to genuinely provide his end until death takes him from the world. The woman is liable only so long as the husband demands it, as her responsibilities are no longer enforced by the contract or society (you aren't entitled to sex, etc). The moment a woman wishes to be free from her duties, she can simply divorce him and continue to collect. It is no wonder that morals come into play as no man could ever reconcile making such an awful economic decis…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:46 PM
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Ask them for a small favor. It plants the seedling of liking you. They'll rationalize that they must like you of they did you that favor when they were really just being courteous.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:33 AM
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Great point, you should all just see the beauty in her mental illness, poor health, and obnoxious behavior! That guy got a real catch, no way they'll ever be divorced.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:56 PM
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And a solid alliance between your houses.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:51 PM
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Good points. By why then are we seeing PTSD, shell shock, etc all of a sudden? If it was around back then, why did it go unnoticed? I refuse to believe that men today just refuse to nut up and handle it when they once did. What is going on in your opinion?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:16 PM
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You ignored my point entirely. Who would be more sane, a man who survived that single battle (a single instance of crushing defeat mind you) or a man who survived weeks of artillery shelling?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:21 PM
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In my opinion it's not just the fear either, it's being put through stimuli so far beyond what a human is evolved to endure. A gun firing is insanely loud, explosions even louder. Men aren't just cut down and put holes through, they are blown to bits in the blink of an eye. I'm not trying to argue that past wars were not brutal terrifying, and traumatizing, but I think more men could handle it without being broken inside.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 02:45 PM
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Isn't the point of what he said is that there is the illusion of determining your fate in such a battle? At the very least there is relative to explosions and seeing men ground to pulp. We're discussing the psychology of battle, not the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:44 AM
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The thing is, I think men of wars past could have handled it. Fighting with melee weapons seems a whole different beast than facing artillery and machine guns. We all conceive of conflict primitively as something our warriors could do something to overcome and achieve excellence in. Today it is just holding on to your sanity while moving forward. We can't conceive of the mental toll that takes, so there is no sympathy for any display of weakness. Something deep within us rejects the possibility …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:00 PM
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Try to refrain from shaming. Either logically refute the possibility that people respond to incentives and punishment much like animals or leave.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 07:49 PM
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All I'll say is give abstinence from porn and masturbation a shot. Try to quit and if it's not an addiction, it shouldn't be too difficult right? If it makes you feel better, stick with it. If not, go back to jerking off. You don't need bro-science to tell you how you feel and you don't need guys getting way over-defensive about their sexual habits to validate yours.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:05 PM
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She isn't yours, it's just your turn. If you think a girl that's considering cheating on her boyfriend wouldn't do it with another guy, you have a lot to learn. It's a case by case basis, but if you don't know the BF, you have little to lose. If you think it's immoral and couldn't live with yourself, then follow your gut, but that doesn't make it true for OP (doesn't sound like it to me).
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:32 PM
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It's like TRP, take what works, leave the rest. You don't need to pay money into a decaying facet of civilization to understand the beauty and wisdom of the bible while being sheltered by the ignorance and outright foolishness of it. Perhaps religion founds a stable community, but I would rather start a community of my own.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:31 PM
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What do you want? The advice guys give you here will be a framework with which to structure your day to day, but you need to decide it is that you want out of life. Above all get disciplined, you don't want to waste your time going through periods of motivation and lack of it, as your hard work will be destroyed. That being said, you will still fall of the roverbial wagon from time to time. Develop the persistence to fall and get back up again as quickly as possible. Oh and read. Read the sideba…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 01:47 PM
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You've just described BP thinking: men programmed to think like women. Be honest, if you were a fulfilled alpha man with a genuine abundance mentality, would you think like that? I would hope not.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:47 PM
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From the mouth of someone more wise than I, "Embrace the suck."
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:21 AM
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Law 9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument It is a guarantee that providing advice, especially if unasked for, of this nature will devolve into a pissing contest. Be the man you want to be; those that find themselves valuable enough to emulate you will join you on your journey of their on accord.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 08:46 PM
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someone to go out with Care to elaborate on this. I'm just a kid, but I've been watching a lot of Mad Men lately and it really does seem a prerequisite in posh society to be married. Have the times changed in your experience? I've heard a lot about women instinctively wanting to keep single women away from their social circles and husbands. Is it similar for guys?
/r/askTRP31/03/15 08:31 PM
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http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/getting-girls-is-a-numbers-game You may not agree with all the points, but in general, if you are a good looking guy and have approached enough women to feel confident, there is very likely a reason unrelated to you or your actions that caused her to reject you. Improve yourself, play the numbers game, stop beating yourself up over it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 06:52 PM
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If she really loves you she won't demand a prenup!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 08:28 PM
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Some solid thoughts, but I don't buy it. Commitment-free sex in general interferes with pair-bonding, which has most certainly been viewed negatively until recently. If prostitution is negative on a societal scale but not on the individual scale, you would see it in societal selection (the societies that allowed it are not around anymore) but societies with prostitution have thrived throughout history. Societies that tolerated female promiscuity, however, are not around anymore. The fact that th…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:46 PM
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I'm not arguing that society does not see prostitution as negative. Society does not view transactions of value in general (true of prostitution until relatively recently) as negative, but when applied to sex it becomes reprehensible. Why, in your opinion, would that be?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 04:25 PM
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I'm not sure what exactly you're disagreeing with. Not only are one-night stands transactions of value, but so are LTR's, marriages, and friendships. Note that value does not have to be monetary: validation, aid in decision making, and reproductive capacity are forms of value that are difficult to put money value to (possible but subjective). If people are uncomfortable with human relationships being broken down as such, it is because they themselves insert morality judgments that TRP does not b…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:57 PM
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I disagree. Little nitpicks like "TRP hates women" or "TRP is just pissed because they can't get laid" are manifestations of the frank language used here. Prostitution is like any other sexual encounter, an exchange of value. TRP is less interested in the morality of promiscuity, prostitution, or sexual relations in general, and more interested in how the dynamics actually work in terms of consistent principles. This is abhorrent to those who wish for the entirety of sexuality to be murky and co…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:30 PM
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This is the ultimate reason TRP is deemed so repulsive. By reframing the discussion of relationships as revolving around transparent principles highly related to economics, men are highly favored whereas when the dialogue is vague and ethereal, women are advantaged.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:15 PM
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Your mentality would be different going in though. Them doing it for a laugh will be viewed as such in the future. You looking back would be looking back on your best option at the time, a shameful thought.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 08:06 PM
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Patently untrue. Rampant hypergamy and lack of other social constraints, the flowing of wealth up the ladder, etc. Society might not overtly pat you on the back but it's like with women: watch what they do, not what they say. Society praises high value men while talking shit about them in jealousy.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 03:53 PM
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Sure, but make the decision immediately and stick to it.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 05:20 PM
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Don't even wait for her to return. One text: "it's over". Boom, done. I wouldn't recommend to do it out of spite, but the longer you wait the more time you have to rationalize. Make your decisions quickly.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 04:41 PM
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This perfect case happens all the time, it just isn't blown up into a media storm because it is not a part of the narrative. The perfect case is the one that can incite as much inter-racial and gender strife as possible so as to shift attention from important matters of real consequence. Think rich white man undeniably slaying a black woman, preferably with sexual connotations, and preferably they know each other.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:03 AM
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Is that what they say the love or is that what you've seen them flock to? Does the average women "love" the guy who is dedicated to her, to the soul-sucking job necessary to provide for her and her progeny? She'll say so, but in actuality he is utilitarian in purpose. Her true love is reserved for the mysterious guy, the guy who doesn't reveal too much, who doesn't yap about how hard he has to try to be who he is, even though it's the truth.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 07:14 PM
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Then don't. It's not your job to raise anyone else up but yourself.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 05:25 AM
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Law 30: make your accomplishments seem effortless. A pretty basic RP concept really. Let people think your muscles, your game, your money, etc simply be facets of how you've always been. It's totally illogical, but like you said, that level of dedication and success do not exist in their reality. If you can do such things so easily, then imagine what you could do if you really tried! The fantasy they construct will always be better than the real thing. Confronting that fantasy is an attack on th…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:21 PM
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The huge majority of your awesome life is going to be completely invisible to everyone. Nobody will notice 99 percent of what you do. Honestly it's better that way anyway. Law 30: make your accomplishments seem effortless. People fixate on the accomplishments and not on the effort taken to earn them. Let them. If you can do such things so easily, then imagine what you could do if you really tried! The fantasy they construct will always be better than the real thing.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 10:47 PM
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It's never too late to change. If you want it badly enough, you'll get it, because your mind will never let you be at ease if you are not working toward that goal.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 06:21 PM
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Read Think and Grow Rich with an open mind and a willingness to do as it tells you to do. That is all.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 06:06 PM
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The most addicting games are the ones that best emulate real life. They give you a sense of accomplishment for achieving moderately difficult challenges and your character improves every step of the way, the challenges becoming harder not only for you but for your stronger character. It's like life with a comparably low barrier of entry. Instead of treating games like life, treat life like a game. I use HabitRPG (which is really more of a to-do list since I have a lot of habits to keep track of)…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 06:01 PM
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Pretty sure pokemon was the catalyst in my desire to learn how to read (I'd been resistant up to that point so I'm told). It's the only thing I distinctly remember not being able to read.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:56 PM
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Rules are for those who wish to be ruled.
/r/becomeaman26/03/15 05:36 PM
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Natural tendencies can be expressed in unnatural ways if we are in an unnatural environment. Humans evolved to crave sex, which happens to cause impregnation. I guess porn isn't pleasurable because it doesn't lead to procreation. I guess having sex with a condom is straight up deviant behavior! gtfo
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:46 AM
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Your points refute one another. How can you start changing things in the first place if we are simply action/reaction? Where does the decision to begin manipulating feedback come from in the first place? You can read on an internet forum all the things you should be doing/thinking/whatever, but you have to make the decision to do it. Thoughts <-> Words <-> Actions <-> Habits <-> Lifestyle <-> Destiny Trying to simply change your destiny without manipulating the earlier stages seems entirely impo…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:34 AM
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Isn't it a little more weird that bitches cheat on their men, get pregnant, and then have the audacity to fail to mention that the kid might not be theirs? Nah, women are infallible angels and men just need to man up. Am I right? In actuality it's not weird at all. This falls right into AF/BB dichotomy and it's pretty natural for men to want to protect their livelihood and sanity from cheating whores.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 06:08 PM
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Being alpha is simply doing what you want. Easier said than done. Ask yourself: how often you sift through the eternity that is your mind and separate what it is that you truly want from what it is that society wants from you. It takes time, consistent action toward your goals, and diligence in self reflection before it is apparent which is which.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:10 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if Westernism is really spreading like some kind of virus, or is it that wealth and comfortable existence rots people to the very core no matter what? Perhaps "progress" is just us spinning our wheels toward an idealistic future that is simply incompatible with our nature.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:44 PM
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I always find too, unsurprisingly, that bringing up topics of any intellectual importance (or any real importance at all for that matter) with them legitimately lowers your value in their eyes. The lights go dim in their eyes and they can only be thinking, "you have the temerity and lack of social calibration to think I would have any interest in discussing anything beyond my immediate feelz?" The only thing going on in a conversation with a woman is the monkey dance going on beneath the convers…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 07:22 PM
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I agree with you. Just installed k-9 on my computer because I couldn't fucking stop myself from looking at porn. I wish I had the determination to white-knuckle it, but I realized I was just stoking my own ego, and porn had to go so other areas of my life could improve. It's very similar with food, too. If you have bad shit hanging around the house, eventually you will be sorta drunk, tired, etc and will eat that shit because it's there.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:38 PM
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I agree up to a point, but did you see the part with the 6 months olds being obsese? That is not a matter of will on the kid's behalf. They are being set up for a life of weakness and sickness due to their environment in the womb. Not that this is necessarily your or my problem, but the fatties will reproduce before they get sick and die and the cycle continues.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:29 PM
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The basis of the video is that sugar impacts the biochemical pathways leading to how sated you feel in response to energy intake. If you let a kid drink a soda and then allow him to eat whatever he pleases afterward, he will consume more calories than if he had not had the soda. This doesn't matter if you count calories, but if you eat until satiety like the vast majority of people do, you will consume more.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:25 PM
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You made a good plan, but have you ever seen a brutal fight going down in person? You instantly get the cocktail of fight or flight chemicals. Add in a group of women behaving so violently toward one another? Such calculated logic will not be much of a factor in your decision making.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 02:45 AM
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Hamstering This. Every... fucking... time. It's always you rationalizing what your higher self knows is bullshit. Treat these thoughts like shit tests, attacks against frame. They aren't to be taken seriously, they are like a child whining for attention.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:01 PM
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Further, how long will it take for this technology to become affordable for young men? There will be plenty of time for being conditioned to the feminine imperative in their youth. Most will not grow up on virtual sex for a while to come.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:25 PM
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It's unfortunate to know there's bullshit in this book. I myself was pondering how of course having loyal followers is great, but to be loyal to them in turn? Shaming language is used in this section as well.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:24 PM
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This guy is on point. It's the difference between long term and short term mating strategies. OP isn't out for a one night stand or FWB, he's a husband, a provider. If she thinks he's going full on alpha that indicates he's on a trajectory to start spreading his seed, unfavorable in an LTR.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 12:35 AM
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Stolen from somewhere: "Are you guys gonna get married?" Hamster on overdrive.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:29 AM
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Most of the slut shaming is done by women against women, not by men. Think about it in terms of economics: if one girl is giving out her services for little to no investment from guys, it lowers the value of every other girl's commodity. Most guys will agree that yes, easy women are awesome for that exact reason. Any guy that demeans sluts in his spare time is probably some undersexed puahate loser who is simply jealous that other people get laid easily compared to him. Contrast this with the ed…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:18 AM
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I wonder if those women knew the brutal reality of that war, would they still have pulled that shit? Propaganda affects both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:21 PM
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