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| 1 | Is it a good idea to ask: What are you looking for? When is the right time to ask this?you aren't looking for anything serious right now, but enjoy what you two have going on rn... I'm interpreting this as I can still openly date whoever I want and have sex with them. Same goes for you, woman. Am I wrong to think this? I'm just a little confused in today's dating world as there's also online dating. An endless supply for women to find other potentials. If she does not ask or steps a foot down for some commitment play, even early on, even on the 3rd date, does this mean we both or … | /r/newTRP | 01/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What's up with the Jesus reference in online dating?Can you link me the video? | /r/newTRP | 04/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I suck at texting, can you help me write or share a template for these situation types?There's many great topics, which one do you recommend the most? | /r/newTRP | 05/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I suck at texting, can you help me write or share a template for these situation types?I agree. This works well but what about phone calls and at least building rapport? 80% of the time I mention a place, I end up just going alone lol | /r/newTRP | 05/08/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully "up-dated?". My dates r older, more successful. How do I deal with this?So the ones I'm finding have status as the second most important SMV so what you're saying is up dating is an uphill battle? Lol? | /r/newTRP | 27/07/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully "up-dated?". My dates r older, more successful. How do I deal with this?Fuck I still can't find it bro | /r/newTRP | 27/07/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | What's up with the increased rudeness from lower SMV women, since my SMV has increased?Neat | /r/askTRP | 27/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully "up-dated?". My dates r older, more successful. How do I deal with this?LMS, the SMV pie chart Which or where can I find the most accurate chart? | /r/newTRP | 27/07/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully "up-dated?". My dates r older, more successful. How do I deal with this?With exception to money, what's usually a good trade? Perhaps a skill? | /r/newTRP | 26/07/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | We joked about the idea of OLTR but says she'd never explore it, yet...Before feminism, if a woman found out her husband was cheating she stayed with him if he was a good husband and father. Nowadays it's instant divorce, fatherless families, transfer of wealth, all that. Then this gives me a thought, what if then, you can trp her thinking into this? Generally, women have options, a lot but if you're being a good dick, is it possible to have them tolerate it? What if you don't have status to back it up, and just you? | /r/askTRP | 25/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | We joked about the idea of OLTR but says she'd never explore it, yet...That's an awesome life anyone could ask for nowadays | /r/askTRP | 23/06/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | We joked about the idea of OLTR but says she'd never explore it, yet...My wife and I have a don't ask, don't tell policy. Yes, she's aware I randomly fuck whores and no, I would never leave her for a whore. So it's not really even a problem unless I'm a dumbass and her parents find out. Did you communicate or train yourselves for this? I've had plates and they're great but it feels like I'm either immature or they are, because even emotionally investing in my self, the freaking gym, seems like I'm ignoring her. She's probably a little immature but I guess like you … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | As the average American woman is a whopping 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 135lbs and a size 4 to 6 now considered "high standards"?Same goes for women wanting a seven foot dude who looks bigger than their dad for some fucked up reason lol | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Can Someone Explain Why Women Are So Hellbent On Deflecting Responsibility?so you think degrading the sport began with him? lol. and FTR, sonny liston took a dive vs ali… and so did tyson vs buster douglas. it’s been about money. You are really jaded especially when it came to the last bit. Everyone knew Tyson was on the down, he didn't have a good corner with him too. Are you this mainstream? This is what makes me dislike Floyd, it's because of him people just scratch over surface level and call it this and that. Granted, I can be a little elitest, but taking a dive i… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 08:47 PM |
| – | Has anyone turned their plates or LTRs to lifelong family friend types? Or far orbiters always down for you?personally i don't take offense to this. i see it as a rational thing to be insecure over. why would this dude want to think about me doing nasty things to a younger version of his gf? I think a little overreaction. I'd let anyone talk to anyone but if it's to a point of getting manipulated, or knowingly taking her away from her guy? Then it's something to be concerned about. Otherwise, I'd like open communication on how this goes. I just don't want any guys disrespecting me especially when he k… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Can Someone Explain Why Women Are So Hellbent On Deflecting Responsibility?if you hate him, just say so. but he's not a dirty fighter and is probably considered the greatest defensive fighter to ever live. A lot of people dislike him. I do hate him but I don't disapprove of his technical abilities. But it really irks me to say that he's the best defensive fighter to ever live. There're plenty, but for record wise? I see how mainstream people get fed that word. but for him to use his talents and influence to make money (in America) is literally the 'American way.' It's … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 07:08 PM |
| – | Has anyone turned their plates or LTRs to lifelong family friend types? Or far orbiters always down for you?or cut off our friendship becuz their bf doesn't like it or whatever.. I always find this as a sign of insecurity from the guy's part and a little immature. Cutting off, what is this, a divorce? It's as if she's gotten pure control and dictation. I feel sorry for the woman... There's a saying that you'd always see anyone in the world so this is a good thought to apply | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Can Someone Explain Why Women Are So Hellbent On Deflecting Responsibility?recruit difficulty thanks to cuck society. A what?? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:39 AM |
| 4 | Can Someone Explain Why Women Are So Hellbent On Deflecting Responsibility?You're right to use Floyd as an example because no other defensive fighter is as dirty or dishonorable to his sport than him, we can talk about the other great defensive like J Toney, or Holyfield they're way better than Floyd and actually took challenges on their prime, past their prime. The former started to duck and cherry pick, rig pre fights and now just scams idiots to make more $ to serve his disgusting purpose and if you want the nail the coffin, he only fought in Vegas. So it's probably… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 06:38 AM |
| 0 | We joked about the idea of OLTR but says she'd never explore it, yet...If you want that go for it. I don't think those things work, but that's just my opinion. LOL thanks the first shroom hit. But yes, that's basically the question. I want to be primary and I've been reading about this all over this forum too.. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone turned their plates or LTRs to lifelong family friend types? Or far orbiters always down for you?but if i feel like holding onto friendly relations with a girl like that for some reason then i will keep the door open. How do you even do a friendly status with exes? I know from my experience the women I've done adamantly say they don't ever even keep men as friends. How and what is this? I'll probably have to guess younger introverted women? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | What is a dark triad? Can anyone share the experience with it, any good reads of it?Nice! Aren't all successful RP a sociopath to some degree anyway | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it our job to make it easier for them, leave them better? Howcome I feel somewhat responsibleDon't have the time machine, what can I do now? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What is a dark triad? Can anyone share the experience with it, any good reads of it?Sociopaths are cool, psychopaths are evil, Give me two examples of these in the real world | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What is a dark triad? Can anyone share the experience with it, any good reads of it?Absolutely false. Dark Triad evil psychopaths do very well for themselves in the sexual market place, that being said it robs them of their soul so it's not a positive thing for them. It just means they're sexually attractive because they're giving off signs of sexual prowess. But what do you even need soul for if this world is utterly soulless anyway? Lol Seriously, would you need soul if your house or rent is charged 20% up???? Answer this huh | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What is a dark triad? Can anyone share the experience with it, any good reads of it?This sounds like a manual from an adventure game lol Keep in mind that this isn't a comment on the morality but rather a comment on how attractive they are perceived. Doesn't really work in my opinion unless if you're actually really smart and successful. Daddy money or not, have your own apartment in a young and fast moving community | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone turned their plates or LTRs to lifelong family friend types? Or far orbiters always down for you?An “LTR type of plate” is just an OLTR. Is there any difference to this compared to just ORs? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How to start going to the gym?Doing cardio right before you lift is horrible advice. Tell me why again, I'm open to being corrected but most of the time, it's to warm up muscles, again, why no cardio? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 0 | How to start going to the gym?Go to one, wear a mask so no one bothers you and do cardio first then get lifting second. Then just keep eating and keep lifting | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it our job to make it easier for them, leave them better? Howcome I feel somewhat responsibleI want to make the world a better place! LMFAO | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it our job to make it easier for them, leave them better? Howcome I feel somewhat responsibleI’ve helped women with financial advice, how to save their money, how to land a husband (I always set my expectations with them), Sort of similar situation I've had with a current plate. How did you even manage the last part, isn't that a type of chucking? How awkward would that be lol It costs me nothing to share my experience with them and that’s just a benefit of fucking me - it’s up to them if they want to use the advice / experience. What I've come to issues with is that they see the compan… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 0 | Is it our job to make it easier for them, leave them better? Howcome I feel somewhat responsibleWhen it comes to LTRs I've come across women who completely just surrender their lives, everything, down to their expenses to me. I find that super immature and just really fear for them, the next guy would abuse the fuck out of that and I've seen it happen. So this is what I think I'm getting confused about. When they're completely wet all the time and surrender to you, you feel like king, everything you can do, and get depending on the context you and her have but realizing that some women jus… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to gain cocaine confidence without the main ingredient?to the instant crash after you finish that 8 ball. But then again you can minimize that instant crash with a healthy lifestyle WITH the stimulants. I remember on our stim days for weights, we would take some types of tea, other off the counter supplements like vitamin b etc to make that dip easier So it's not like a one off thing, ofcourse, stims are never healthy but what would you say to people who need coffee daily then? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it our job to make it easier for them, leave them better? Howcome I feel somewhat responsibleWhat if that breakup flares up some sort of depression or mental issue to that person? Or you know she's crazy after months in but you somehow failed to fix it and are scared she might just blow things up after ward? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it our job to make it easier for them, leave them better? Howcome I feel somewhat responsibleBP upbringing we get A what? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else find it a major turnoff when girls play hard to get when they have no business doing so?Anyway I just want to add there will be 50% of the women you'd come across online dating playing hard to get especially if you're average and just want to have another average person, a 5/10 average would think she's a 10/10 it's super interesting | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What is a dark triad? Can anyone share the experience with it, any good reads of it?and be uncompromising in what YOU define as your needs in a relationship (not just LTRs, but all types of relationships) This is very weird if you're an average guy, juggling minimum wage but I'm not being pessimistic here. Men at this point are just at the start of something great but again, if the woman have more of a leverage, you're left out. Forget about this mentality, if you're in a young man, older woman whose successful fling, and you try to plate her? How's that going to work out? She'… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | What is a dark triad? Can anyone share the experience with it, any good reads of it?What do you think defines the best lover then? TRP in a general context about relationships mean plates, having options, how can you be a lover if you're essentially being a man whore. I'm not saying it's bad but yea this world has kind of left men like this sometimes. I think a good example is that a “dark triad” person may cheat frequently and uncaringly, which maximizing sex obviously but has other major consequences. In the sense of plates, what if they know you do and have accepted it becau… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What is a dark triad? Can anyone share the experience with it, any good reads of it?Lmfao you know what I meant | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What would you suggest to a person who doesn't need money, women or any kind of relationship?What are your thoughts about women being girls inside, like some still has that inner kid connected strongly, as most would say here. Have they truly not grown? Is it a job for you to leave them mature and better if they're not? What about those who are prone to be homewrecker, I know it's a bit out of context but since we're talking about growing, I've met my fair share of women who act like they're kids but when it's all time to go they break and feel lost. Leaving women at a bad taste and imm… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What's the general reason for leads who can't have the time to either "voice" or videocall, is this a big next?If you can show them over text that you are charming then they will accept. There's only so much you can do until things fizzle and even then there are more chances of social awkwardness through app texting. So I'm not sure how you mean by charming lol Interesting approach you have, did you always do this? I thought asking for the # is the social norm since 2018 lol | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What's the general reason for leads who can't have the time to either "voice" or videocall, is this a big next?No it does not separate you from the other tinder dudes. I always just use tinder to setup dates, and if they turn into plates I will get their social media/number. Interesting input, I consider myself average looking so the ghosting chances are higher (in my opinion) if I just stay in dating app What do you do if you get ghosted? How are you even sure if she's serious? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What's the general reason for leads who can't have the time to either "voice" or videocall, is this a big next?If she refuses to video chat or even speak on the phone that would be a major red flag to me. As a matter of fact for me I want at least even a brief telephone call just to make sure the persons vibe is acceptable to me. How do you even text this in a non desperate, but clear and short way? Like mentioned, I think at least 70% of my longterms who just text and not voice or video are just shy introverts, I say longterm because the 70% actually changed to FWB types, but I think it's just a quick l… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Does it get better?It really also depends on how you can swing your limping self towards something because it's fucking hard to do anything when you're stuck in tar. Maybe going to the lake alone for at least a week can help? Maybe a video game can do, no matter what you do, you need that type of "off" switch to shut your mind up. Truth be told, women are people but then people are also assholes and women are women. Growing is hitting rock bottom, just make sure you change the community or society for the better t… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to get sad about them?“I do what I want, have my cake and eat it too” mentality that probably caused more issues than they’d care to admit Is it a sin to try to teach them better ways of finding or communicating their wants? Most girls who have bad past relationships are like this, is there a way to at least help them? Or it's a lost cause | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to get sad about them?What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to get sad about them?They have other girls for that. Whenever this happens, almost always I'll have to fight off a counsel in anyway, plating would give me less time to be their emotional tampon anyway but there's always a risk of them being told the most silliest reasons. A girl once broke up with me because I was not working a good job, she got convinced by her friends | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | "I don't really know you". What, but I just basically told you what I do, what I like etc...??Happy bday! | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps soft "threatening" that she's talking to other guys or have other prospects, what's a perfect response?I'm gunning more for an open long term relationship, this doesn't sound possible but I've had a plate where I basically call her a family friend lol. Even if they're a needle in a haystack, I still want to see if I can direct our narrative, and we both know (her and I) that I'm the prize, she can see other guys anyone has the right to. But I don't want her to keep bitching at me just because I pay less attention to her | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps soft "threatening" that she's talking to other guys or have other prospects, what's a perfect response?My minor is in writing and literature but I suck at maneuvering the pen on a seduction level. It's an interesting approach though. I'm used to being the vague type, I rarely ever define a "relationship" even when she asks what we even are, and that's why I'm here | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps soft "threatening" that she's talking to other guys or have other prospects, what's a perfect response?I certainly don't even want to get it under my skin. I don't think I'm insecure enough to know or see that she talks to other guys, when she starts banging them, I don't know. I'm also not deep in trp to see what the "end game" really is, is it a harem of long term relationships or what? Anyway, there's something about favoritism. I'm the prize and don't really want to overextend, in fact, she spent a good dime on bringing me gifts, and even lending me her car for a time that I feel like I'm now… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps soft "threatening" that she's talking to other guys or have other prospects, what's a perfect response?what does this mean I just let the flow go during our first meets, I didn't really advance, just hung out because of the sights. She went on to me For the projects, I'm actually super busy, as anyone should be. Her assumptions are always me talking to other women, lol yes but I actually have self projects on the works. Prospecting, working out, so I can get a better HB, she did say that she does feel like an accessory that I just call up whenever I want, not quite an equal thing If she has a his… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How to not fall into oneitis?How do you find that? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How to not fall into oneitis?But truth be told, red pill too, with covid into play, it's really fucking hard to get a constant influx. It's even worse for men who are below average, I know I sound like a broken record but that's the truth. TRP isn't a good path for men who are in the minority (looks, physique, status) and even in this covid age things will get very sparse. Because if they find one, they're stuck on relying on one because they can't find any other at least not for a good while because the playing field is a … | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Possible to turn a plate to bring a third in?Don’t be that guy. Plenty of nice other bisexual women who are great at taking birth control out there who won’t ruin your life. Just super difficult right now with all the lockdown stuff and my scars (would get surgery) from a disaster makes it hard to really socialize lol Her history was interesting, essentially a "alpha" but beta like guy got so insecure that in five years he kept her literally brain washed, thus single mother | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | A plate, tells me she's putting herself back into online dating?What about people who have far side orbiters that they can just call around in any given moment? Are those even possible? I'd need to reread, this makes me feel like I'm doing polyamory lol | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | A plate, tells me she's putting herself back into online dating?Sorry, I meant the woman, not us | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | A plate, tells me she's putting herself back into online dating?When do you demand or show hints for exclusivity? In my experience, most women start asking this after sex lol but I also don't want to get murdered in their bed | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | A plate, tells me she's putting herself back into online dating?Why would you drive hours to meet a plate just to have sex? Lol For the record, I've only done it a few times compared to her. Thought it was just a little good to give a little back, felt weird having stuff spent on me Why are you offended AT ALL that she wants to get back online to find more guys to have sex with? Did you develop feelings for this woman you claim to only be a plate Due to the fact that her reason was constant connection. Plates are never meant for long runs (not talking LTR) I… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | A plate, tells me she's putting herself back into online dating?I think I may be having scarcity mindset. Most of my plates, I really do not vibe with now. It is just very weird to see her online profile and her pictures are now more "exposed" than when I have met her, I try not to let it affect me | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | A plate, tells me she's putting herself back into online dating?Yes I do, but none of them are as "clingy" as she is. There are a few, but none of them require this constant need for calls or texts I normally don't even respond to anyone for a week. It's just not me, unless if I'm really prospecting. The majority of my plates are somewhat in a sleeper state, but its one I can always bring on At the same time, its kind of difficult trying to branch out with all these lockdown happening, and online dating is really a hit in a miss, especially when you're getti… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | A plate, tells me she's putting herself back into online dating?It wasn't really going anywhere but I liked how I was able to keep my wits about because she's a long distance. At the same time, her constant need for texting or attention frustrated me. Though she's a bit of a nympho and would do anything I ask, her saying this kind of makes me feel like she's upped her value or makes me question. Yea, I thought we were done, but why am I getting a sudden urge to keep her back into close orbit? I already know I just don't have time for her thing | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I comfort her after a bad day at work? Or will this just validate her even more?That has to be tolling in the mind to just keep yoyoing like that but then again, I've yet to come across a girl who can be independent and know what's up. I like it better when I empathize but also help build some self skills, sometimes it can backfire but sometimes it can grow this connection that I'm not here to baby sit her. And that we're grown ups, what do you thin about this approach? | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Is my ex-LTR trying to thirst trap me?may also depend on the context where you two met each other, is it online? or is it from mutual friends or setting? | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:24 AM |
| 1 | On remembering past lays, reoccurring thoughts, or infatuations. Is it oneitis?Any primer or starter content I should look into first? It's a mix of pain and shame, but more on the regret and blame side. I regret not just looking into the signs and just giving what they wanted, like sex and I happen to replay the good ones right after waking up | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:31 PM |
| -2 | Plate screenshots me when video calling, but she might suspect that I've recorded?She's a plate, comes and visits my place a week per month | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What to do when plates are extremely needy?Or am I just bored because I don't have much variety as I had before? And me wanting to harbor is something I'm wasting my time by chasing? Wouldn't disagree that (for example) her attention alone made me seek out further potentials, she doesn't know, but she's also quite needy | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | What to do when plates are extremely needy?I might just be a bigger beta bux, I want to collect and develop relationships that is long term but she's a different case compared to my other long term plates. I see some potential but definitely not long term, there's no other way unless if she could have been as open as she was with my ideas, plate's broken anyway. It might be idiocy to salvage | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | What to do when plates are extremely needy?Could also almost be certainly about fucking up communication. Seeing other plates is making it hard because of her clinginess. She says she's never done anything casual, but she bores me to death. At the same time, she's highly receptive and was able to reschedule on behalf of my requests. I just don't think I haven't made the point across that I like self-growth and self-time as much as she wants time spending. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 10:00 PM |
| 2 | What to do when plates are extremely needy?You being with her probably has to do more with her beta bux strategy rather than her alpha fux one. Could be wrong here, but either way, it's not good. Great point and you're not wrong. For the sake of my context though, she was always able to make time for me whenever I request it, always down to even send the daughter to hang out with her friends when we want to spend the night together. I think this could have been a case of pre-cougar (with post wall) lol only because she's the one who sati… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 16 | How how to handle insults from other menIt's also good to tone down on the caffeine, I find that I get more agitated in the workplace and need to sometimes just take a walk and reframe | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Is e-dating really in the up spike because of all the lockdown?fact remains that 99% of them have no intention of meeting up, just as usual and why do you think that's the case??? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Did I mentally screw myself up by having a relationship with an older woman?Get out and gather some abundance and you will feel great again. Well what's your abundance care to share? | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Are these low confidence couples or am I an asshole for thinking so?You got a lot of time in your hands, what a fag | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Are these low confidence couples or am I an asshole for thinking so?Goes back to you faggot. I'm fishing for personal experience so I can discuss and find what I might be missing. Believe it or not, doing this also gave me good insight that I've shared and implemented successfully. And for the record, I'm not asking for answers on HOW to HELP HIM. Did you even see a question? Did I even say how can I help him? Your book suggestion is noted. Now be a good bitch and shut your warrior's fingers, you're good at it. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Are these low confidence couples or am I an asshole for thinking so?No more Mr. nice guy by who exactly? Also, it seems like he did hit low points, several and I'm afraid he thinks she's the reason he got out of it. I'm not saying that she is or she isn't but it's kind of ridiculous. Guy also had a month-long of depression when they didn't talk. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Feeling guilty using career to lay, plates, why?The answer also is being smart about it when they (clients) certainly displays fronting behaviour | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Feeling guilty using career to lay, plates, why?Interesting answers here, so we're all at 50/50. What's the answer? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone tried super religious/Christian women? Should you stick with these types?Howcome? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 10:48 PM |
| 2 | D. Driver up until 1:30 AM, how do you guys come up what to say under loud club music and she just smiles?Forgetting to always do this, but obstacles usually are... 1 - The venue doesn't really have a private place or a corner to just talk to 2 - Not only her groupies will be surrounded by dudes, but the groupies are intent on having her stick there 3 - She doesn't feel like it After opening, asking her a simple question, it falls flat. Want to dance? No I'm good, but she keeps smiling haha | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Heirlooms, special places, meant for one another kind of thing from plates?can either love them or understand them but not both This is so much true that I'm just a bit saddened as to why can't both be the case? Just like I'm good with planning, I'd love to help her put in some skills or share how and why I do it (I'm putting this as an example) but then the majority, if not all the women I've met suck at planning and I'd have to pull in 80-90 percent, which can be tiring at times but really, I'd also want to understand. I'm sure there are women who can (again as an ex… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Advice welcome, the plates have left- was it my blunt skills?Doesn't it make things just mundane and a bit monotonous in a sense that plates/relationships feel a bit superficial because they're in any way just fleeting? I'm becoming a beta when I realized that the only shop in that town of her was named after me, and my name is super hard to come by, it was one of those special moments. Such a stupid thing to say, but then why do things still have to make sense or have any feelings of specialty when they're just temporary? Suppressing emotions is just not… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice welcome, the plates have left- was it my blunt skills?Good point, I went into other developments. How to develop new plates while juggling all others is extreme, are there any other ways? Once I lost plate primary (one that's super local) all the others just cascaded one by one, until I realized how much of a f' up I've been with the remainder ones | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Stupid question/theory Q. What kind of man or archetype is Robert Downey, his schtick and his Iron Man?Exactly so. You just made it more clearer to define him, good point. I didn't see him as a bad boy type, his flamboyancy just throws me off. I guess that's boyish charm but he damn looks well in his 40's (or may just be too old for it) | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Stupid question/theory Q. What kind of man or archetype is Robert Downey, his schtick and his Iron Man?He's one of my archetypes but some of his mannerisms or I have no fucking idea are quite effeminate, I haven't found anyone like him funny enough | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 07:12 AM |
| 1 | [Question] What are some of the shit tests that caught you off-guard and what did you respond with? I'm always asked about "what I do" but I don't know how to answer it any other waywhat kind of status m8 | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | [Question] What are some of the shit tests that caught you off-guard and what did you respond with? I'm always asked about "what I do" but I don't know how to answer it any other wayThat's why I'm asking | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | [Question] What are some of the shit tests that caught you off-guard and what did you respond with? I'm always asked about "what I do" but I don't know how to answer it any other wayPeople will sense your level of intelligence when talking to you, and will try to find out your education level out of curiosity I think. When people do ask and figure out, is it necessary, to tell the truth? I've had shuns when I mention, it's almost as if they say that I don't contend because I'm not at their highest level. How then do you turn this around? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Are we limited to what we can do based on our income? Dates, networking, freedom?Where do you live man? | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | My boss likes to brag about hard work, he's a true believer in hard work and working for your own money. I think it's bullshitGreat post. It really becomes ironic and I've experienced this with several bosses, they'd rather fight the employee and or shoo them away when there's an issue. Like how am I suppose to report this problem without getting screamed at, aren't you aware that you're getting the TPS report and not just having it subtly slip by because your co-workers despise your guts? He's an asshole but he's our asshole, sometimes it's just difficult to work with these types though | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | My boss likes to brag about hard work, he's a true believer in hard work and working for your own money. I think it's bullshitI'm a non-conformist but anyone can take and learn a little from someone if they're savvy and very flexible with their ego. I have this natural ego that makes me want to just shut my ears off so it definitely takes skill | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I don't mind daygaming, getting rejected but there's a shame where people would remember meIn that case, people would re-consider their career choices. I wouldn't want to be a judge just because I have heavy party history lol Key is to just not give a fuck... the strong abundance frame is extremely powerful... Can you tell us about abundance frame? What and which draws the line...? I think the key here is having a purpose or objective during a night out. pre-selection Can you tell us more about this? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How can I get rid of the "I'm waiting for the one" mindset?DON'T UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE FALL FOR A WOMAN! What do you exactly mean by this? There are great women, some have great flavor, some have awesome personalities but from those who stood out, it seems like the self is painting them as the one who got away. Why did they get away? We could have had more fun but I will evolve time and time again. Go out and get burned you will soon learn very quickly why this sub exists. We get burned, go out again and get better. Everytime. Is the goal to get better… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How can I get rid of the "I'm waiting for the one" mindset?For one, she won't make me feel lonely. Having woman hands caress and hug you when you're all alone makes it a bit different though | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/18 11:30 AM |
| -2 | Why You Need To Get HugeI mean that's cool and all but the game is in extreme difficult mode if you're a man under 5'9- Make it men under 5'5. And I've seen fellow gents at bars under this height that are balls out armor, how do you get large or huge at that part? No. This is a damn hypocritical scenario. Where men in the U.S. (strictly speaking) also want to lose "weight" but can't see pass through their genetic lottery that they've hit a jackpot. Losing weight is a challenge, yes. But is gaining height even a possibi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I don't really mind about online dating, I have accounts as auxiliary but it's killing meTrue, /u/vandaalen it could also save you a lot of time, I know I take at least more than half an hour to browse. But Tinder is cut throat in terms of dating chances | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Learning and picking back up is great but how do I bounce back from embarrassment?You're right. Not embarassed. We gonna make it brah | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | My quick realization after mingling with an older woman at the barShe was down to earth. She made it feel like she was actually 20 years older, but she was not. You're right about the latter part, this is why I find millennial women to be off-putting. You just need to be brought down 200 notches so you can realize the 300 notches and up you can compensate and work hard for | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Hard lines for initiating meeting up, over text/online, anyone have additional advice or experience to share?What about an already planned meeting but no response because the reply was I guess too specific? I wrote that I'm very flexible at that day anyhow I find that the bar isn't working for me. Usually the women I associate with are the low energy level types so coffee spots are okay. I think fun activities are for a second date but what else is fun except from bars? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you about her problems: "I don't like cooking because..." or "I'm crying because" is it suggested tobut you reduce the concerns of a woman she'll note that I'm only starting to realize. No wonder we've had such a difficult time. I'll give you an example, sis wants a pick-up and drop, out of the blue. I said okay, then while on the road just out of the blue drops the drop me off there I want to get so and so. I just lost it and said we're going to this place because you said so. Such an inconvenience really. This is why I say pre-plan before hand at least 2-3 days. But I asides from this, I don… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 02:38 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you about her problems: "I don't like cooking because..." or "I'm crying because" is it suggested toTrying to "fix" that is essentially robbing a woman of a core thing that makes her a woman . she'll get bored which for many women and most relationships is worse than her occasionally grumbling over petty bullshit that sticks in her mind. It's just so stupid and mind boggling at the same time. No wonder I just find the things that, for example, my sister and mother say very stupid and ridiculous. It's as if they're thinking on their feet all the time, like a 12 year old. They're good at cooking… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 02:04 AM |
| 0 | When a woman tells you about her problems: "I don't like cooking because..." or "I'm crying because" is it suggested toText is also good | /r/askTRP | 03/06/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you about her problems: "I don't like cooking because..." or "I'm crying because" is it suggested toOnly in person, not over text. What should I have said if it was in person? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/17 11:40 PM |
| 2 | When a woman tells you about her problems: "I don't like cooking because..." or "I'm crying because" is it suggested toYou tried to fix a problem for her that wasn't actually a problem . She was venting , let her vent . Women generally complain about everything trying to fix her problems will stress you out and it's a never ending cycle. This is a good answer. Still trying to figure out cues. When women vent, they just vent. Unless if it's in a professional setting, I don't think anything can be fixed. BUT How do you get her to keep venting and use that as a platform for a better relationship? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/17 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What can we practice infront of a camera/mirror? Facial expressions?How do you exactly smile with your eyes, I've read this before, but is this just another term for lightly squinting...? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Is it always common to shake her hand after opening?and then let her hand Let her hand do what..? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?Yea, but I'm a bit desperate, I'm old too and wouldn't be getting younger. Plus I have always fancied older women, they just cut the bs and get to the point | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?Twenties, older side | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?How is she fat, she has convincing top area though no? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?I did bother, always insightful though and this sub has been great | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?What about this encounter would be empowering? I'm not sure why it has to be empowering, I never thought anything about it giving me empowerment. However, thinking about it now, I guess the experience and the long awaited goal would eliminate some worries or due date thinking I've had. Plus, it's also sort of a "fantasy" of mine to mingle with an older women, because from what I read and also past experiences, they're more experienced, have more of a nurturing vibe in which I think it's somethin… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?Why not just get something over with? I'm older than I should be in terms of this league and I think my stint or lack thereof experience has been dragging me my other plans in life down. Getting it over with will give experience, and I can use it later on. Isn't that the purpose? Learn and move? I had this thing infront of me, why not just do something about it? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?No? Go for the 18-23 prime chicks I mean, why can't I go out for something that's available infront of me than just go on and suffering again for as how long. Might as well get over it with and then just work on my dreams. I think my virginity has been a stint because I've never got to experience the sort of things that most normal dudes have had. I'm always up for improvement but this shouldn't really be a big of a deal, why not just lose it, get a great massage. Move on and carry that experien… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 07:41 PM |
| -1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?Not even for a free massage? I may be naive, but a free massage is free! | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?a) If you start settling for post wall chicks so early - you will always be complacent and never go for the hot girls I've really had bad/tough experiences with hot girls, like in online dating, I've never even gotten as far as to closing a conversation and to the ones that go far, they're usually really not my type b) you get one fatty your entire life - ONE - do you really want to use it right now? She's apparently taller than I am, albeit "bigger" she categorizes herself as BBW and I actually… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a 49 year old woman?Why not, and ok. But she seems to be right up my alley and fantasy, isn't it not that big of a deal? Should I lose it and then still go? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 07:10 PM |
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