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| 1 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?I "lie by omission" regularly, and often dont answer questions i think are unproductive to the relationship It's good to see men who maybe have different set of rules than mine, but who are still congruent. I think every man has to decide for himself how he is going to live, and be at peace with it. Seems to be working for you too. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/23 02:25 AM |
| 8 | The importance of your attentionThis should be sidebar. Attention to women is like sex for us men: they need it, like a physical need, every day. They come to their husbands and need their daily attention to vent, to clam down, to heal, to grow. This is at the basis of everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 01:40 PM |
| 13 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?The way I see it: OP is attractive, he meets a lot of girls regularly. Some of them he fucks (always with a condom). He's always honest about everything that he does, he says he has an adventurous life, and when he wants to have sex he does. Since OP is attractive and unashamed, he's fun to be around. Girls stick around, some of them develop feelings for him. They spend months together, until one of them tells him: "hey OP, you know I always knew who you are, I don't want to change you. But just… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 09:17 PM |
| 18 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?Several reasons. Ultimately it doesn't work. Women are better than us at reading social interactions. Sure you'll fool them enough to fuck a bunch of them, but ultimately you'll only end up attracting what you are: a lying woman who is here to use you. Being honest makes you a better man. It makes you a stronger man. You are stronger when you fight for something bigger than you than for yourself. I'll fight harder to defend my kid's life, than for my own life. Being honest clears your head, it r… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 09:02 PM |
| 29 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?Great post OP! I see you're getting some shit in the comments from incredulous people, but I've been in the same situation and everything you say is true. Being a man is being true to yourself AND to others. There are plenty of girls who will love you as you want to be (including monogamous girls who will accept that you fuck other girls) as long as you are honest and always treat them with respect. To me, this is the correct redpill way, the opposite of these dark triads type who believe that i… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 04:23 PM |
| 44 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?Everything OP tells rings true to me. I have been in the same situation as OP. There are girls who want to be your monogamous girlfriend and let you fuck other girls, as long as they always knew you like that, and that you never deceived/lied/manipulated them. Which is actually the core of OP's message: be honest in your masculinity, with yourself and with others. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 04:17 PM |
| 24 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?Yes it's kinda the opposite of OP's core message | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 04:13 PM |
| 0 | What do HVM want? I need a women’s perspective because what is said in those male podcasts is not what I’ve observed in real life.Ok | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/23 12:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themI really think it's a small, unhinged minority of men there. The vast majority of men are not looking for a virgin to marry, come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themYou'd be surprised but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themI don't care about body count at all. I know there are guys here who are unhinged about it. You can check my post history, I always said that racking up a high body count is really easy and not unhealthy if for example you sleep with a new guy every 1-2 months. I do care about possible effect of high body count, which is a lack a pair bonding. But I find that out later, and just leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:40 PM |
| 4 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themI am sure Instagram models are WAY too attractive for you, and since anything less than that is settling in your eyes, yes youre hypergamous So, first a personal attack based on nothing? Nice. Then, second you completely miss my point? Where did I ever say that anything less than an IG model was settling? I said the exact contrary, that except for the boobs I really DISLIKE everything about them. And I'd rather have a normal looking girl -I also date these regularly. Third, that's not what hyper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themWhat is APD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:08 PM |
| 5 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themhypergamous You keep using that word but I'm not sure you know what it means.. How am I being hypergamous exactly? I've never left a girl for somebody better, and I'm not looking for the best girl out there. Just one that fits me, and that's enough. Im also laughing you think IG girls arent hung up about sex and give better sex... Based on your experience knowing and dating several of them? :) The truth is these women, at some point in their life, put all their efforts into improving their sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themNo virtue signalling. I like fake boobs but everything else I dislike: fake lashes, pouted lips, long nails, tattoos. And I absolutely hate the thirst traps they post. I don't follow any girl I haven't met in person. Don't 'like' any thirst traps pictures. we all know Instagram models are the most attractive women The most 'sexually' attractive, in the sense that they advertise good sex. Which was my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themI agree with you on both points. And? This is the equivalent of trying to find the "bad boy" who's also loving and committed lol. The Red Pill advises men to lift and become masculine and socially aware, exactly because of this. Because we can see women go for the bad boy rather than the sweet but spineless good guy. Guys say "regular looking woman" when they actually mean a feminine, fit younger woman who puts effort into her appearance Yes. A fattie is not a 'regular looking woman', contrary t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them“No hymen no Diamond” is a big thing. Not my case, and I've never heard ANY guy I know say anything of this kind. Maybe in the Middle East? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:42 PM |
| -3 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themI think we men go for the IG girls not because we like this look specifically, but at least we know these women are sexual beings, because they advertise themselves as such. They ackowledge that sex is an important part of what men seek. I'm a high-value man, and I'm tired of dating 'regular' women who are so hung-up about sex, or who weaponize sex. At least with the IG girls you know you're getting some quality sex. So I sometimes end up dating IG sluts, trying to find one who is also smart and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:07 PM |
| 31 | The post wall massacre is real.I've spent some time in Poland. Women there are gorgeous up until their mid-thirties, then boom they all hit the wall really hard. They turn from near models to old baba yagas with short hair and a double chin. I don't know why it is so brutal over there... probably food? Also, Poland is really a matriarchy: women completely rule at home. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/23 11:39 PM |
| – | When Rhode Island accidentally legalized prostitution, rape decreased sharplyYou're the one who responded to my sarcasm with a reasoned response at first, nice of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 09:25 PM |
| – | When Rhode Island accidentally legalized prostitution, rape decreased sharplyIf gender is a social construct to you I guess it explains how we view the world differently. There is really no arguing beyond that. Glad you're consistent indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 05:32 PM |
| – | When Rhode Island accidentally legalized prostitution, rape decreased sharplyI'm glad you're consistent. I really believe that men need physical attention the way women need emotional attention. Women are more emotional beings, tend to suffer more in their psyche, whereas for men it's more our bodies and energy levels who suffer. We do need our bodies to be attended to (not just sex but all types of physical intimacy), the same way women need to feel joyful, intellectually connected and playful everyday with their partners. As you said, nobody's entitled to anything. Jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:48 PM |
| – | When Rhode Island accidentally legalized prostitution, rape decreased sharplyWomen don't need attention. They just feel entitled to it. Guys, you don't have to talk to your wives. It's not a "need". Some people have gone months without talking, wHiCh pRovEs iT's Not a nEeD. If she wants to vent, she doesn't really need it. She just feel entitled. Don't talk to your wives, guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:54 PM |
| 10 | Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusiveHe said they were "picky like this", never talked specifically about brushing his teeth. You're the one who reduced everything to this, missing the general point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Single independent women are not really as independent as it seemsI'm not rich enough to send money to all my exes. But we'll always have the kinky memories, u/NothingOrAllLife... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Single independent women are not really as independent as it seemsI'm sending 800 usd every month to my ex of 6 years, for the last 3 years. We weren't married, I'm under no legal obligation to do this. But she's struggling and wouldn't get by without it. She was also a great partner to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:23 PM |
| – | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?1 is exactly as it should be - people only want to have sex when they're horny. #2 is fucking assault. It's a bad look. This is it: the fondamental difference. A relationship is made of small daily sacrifices, a dozen ones, that become a hundred ones when you have kids. You'll also find a lot of testimonials of people -men and women- in happy relationships, who say that it's almost impossible to be horny at the same time, with the right circumstances. So what happy couples do, they try to follow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:11 PM |
| 2 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?Again, why do you assume a sexless man is one who is not helping around the house? Because you see sex as chore, so you have to associate it with another chore? You still have no answer as to why you shouldn't give what he craves the most to the person you love, even if it's a small effort of a few minutes. Because that's all it is, sex. It's a few minutes in your day to show love in the way your man most appreciates it. But no. It must be because men are bad. They don't help around the house. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:32 PM |
| 2 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?If you re-read our comments, you're the one who is putting conditionality in acts of love: you absolutely have to assign some defaults to the husband, like not doing chores, or not taking care of the kids, etc. to justify why he shouldn't get sex from his wife. It HAS to be the guy's fault if you don't desire sex as much as he does. You never think of it as disparate sexual natures, and a positive way to show affection. Me personally, if my partner needs me to do something for her, that she can'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?So in your words, desiring regular sex = shitty behaviour? I raise my case. Also, you didn't get my point. What if we treated women's need to talk everyday like men's need to have sex everyday? Neitheir is 'vital'. However if a husband doesn't talk to his wife for two days, all women will agree he's a bad husband, that talking is a foundation of any couple, blablabla. But sex shouldn't be? Also considering that: You can have conversations outside of your marriage, but you can't have sex enywhere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:09 AM |
| 5 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?It's not like we choose it. You girls have no idea what testosterone is like. Sex is healing for us, literally! We don't crave it because we are perverts, we crave it because it makes us whole, it resets us, it allows us to focus all our energy on other things. I, on the other side, don't understand why so many women discredit sex like that. Sex is the basis of life creation, and it's not far-fetched to say that sex is what pushes the world to move forward. If men weren't in need of constant sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 12:54 AM |
| -1 | What is the big deal about submission?I sometimes say to my friends I'd prefer a submissive woman. I'll say why: I don't actually want a submissive woman, but most women I've been with, at some point in time, lose their mind, maybe once in a few weeks/months. It's not "all women all the time", women are wonderful partners to us, but they are emotional beings, and when shit hits the fan their emotions can lead them to do or say things that can really harm a relationship. Whereas if it's established that if push comes to shove, I get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:18 AM |
| 96 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedI've seen the same things you describe, I know it's all true. Once you get into a certain level of attractiveness, your whole social life changes, and only then do you see genders at their most natural and unhinged. Unfortunately, it all occurs outside of the spotlight and so most people don't even believe it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesYeah no. It's the people. At the end of the day they still have free will and can decide how to feed themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:51 PM |
| 3 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesYeah we agree then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:29 PM |
| 11 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesLet's not shame fat people. Let's not celebrate fat people either. Let's just remind ourselves that the norm should be to be healthy and fit, which makes you more attractive. But also that not everyone will achieve this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:15 PM |
| 5 | The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselvesI agree but I would make a distinction: I don't care about fat or obese individuals, to each his own, and I treat everyone with respect. I don't find fat women attractive, but I won't talk badly about them individually. I know there are men who like them, good for them. But I find obesity as a whole a repulsive trend for society. I hate that we normalize this. Our brain is wired to find healthy people attractive, and I think if we lose that we'll be worst off as a society. The goal should be to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Yup. And we men just want love. Kinda sums it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Same here. If she makes money great that's a plus, but it's completely removed from my equation. If she makes me happy, and accepts to live within my means, I can take care of her. It's not rare for a man in his thirties who hasn't gotten married to have been able to save a little bit. We're not big spenders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | “The Wall” - can it be avoided?How does this newfound invisibility feel like? A relief or a loss? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 01:30 PM |
| 4 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyAmazing read | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 05:45 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?I'm similar to you. I have a lot of success with women, and I have some male friends who are amazing men, who look better than me, have great careers, and by most standards are better men than me. And they can't get women. They just don't get it. They don't read the environment. They don't read a person's reaction. They are still in their childlike bubble where things are what we say they are. They don't understand subtext. They don't know how to be playful with emotions. I really try to help th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:47 AM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?He has to have charisma too. A handsome and tall, but also clueless guy who can be pushed around will remain single. I know a lot of them like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsYeah I'd be interested in what ways she thought she fought for you. Did she organize a lot fun activities? Initiated sex often? Cooked great meals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsAgree on everything, this whole comment thread is very insightful. I would add that although it sounds cliché, I think the saying 'women want to talk about people, men want to talk about things' holds true. And it affects the interaction within the couple because the man is no longer interested in talking about friends and relationships, but would happily talk about some obscure stuff he's interested in, that might not be interesting to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsBeautifully put | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 02:44 PM |
| 39 | "The Hoe Phase"Replying to arguments with a personal attack. Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.You say out of nowhere that women don't enjoy being around me. Just because my ideas differ from yours... And again, you're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.Already down to the attack ad hominem. "I'm unable to respond with arguments so I'll just say that you're unattractive". Sad, although predictable. Btw, not that it matters, but you're completely wrong. I do very well and have no problem finding women for short term fun or ltr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.It's not just the waiting for sex. It's the waiting combined with the shitty attitude. Basically it's no sex and no fun, and they wonder why we don't write back. Meanwhile women in their 20s are more fun to be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually mattersWomen like men with social clout. Now that most women aren't threatened physically or economically, being rich or strong aren't the main attractive traits anymore. Social media and the concept of 'lifestyle' are the new criteria by which women judge happiness, and so being entertaining and having a lot of friends and social presence is the most powerful afrodisiac for them. The dream bachelor is fun and adventurous, knows and is liked by a lot of people. And, as another commenter said, he also h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:12 AM |
| 10 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Yeah women are so horny it makes male prostitution a rampant problem! So tired of all this porn women watch too. Just control your urges, women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenOh yeah, I understand. As more girls do it for materialistic reasons, it's less taboo than ever and makes it even easier for girls who are genuinely attracted to these men. Yeah I'd say so too. Also, crazy how having an onlyfans has become more normalized for women under 30. The younger they are, the more casual they are about it. This and looking for a sugar daddy. Sometimes they are like 20, live with their parents, and are open about looking for an sd, and the parents know about it. Sometimes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenHere I disagree with you. You make it sound like age gaps are mostly due to economic reasons. I think you underestimate how attractive a 40 years old man can be (again, he's then the exception, not the norm). Even without money. I've seen dudes who irradiate such joyful energy, are still looking young and athletic past 40 because they play sports all the time for fun, and on top of that are filled with confidence and life experiences because of their age. Wherever they go, they own the room. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI agree with you on both points. I know I'm an exception. I'm not saying it will happen to all middle aged men. I'm just saying that it CAN happen. You can be more successfull with women as you grow older, if you do things right. I'm proof of that. That's all I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:32 PM |
| 0 | What does it mean to be a masculine man? What does it mean to be a feminine woman?To face the challenges of life, you either go through resistance or adaptation. In our species, each gender does one. Masculinity=resistance Feminity=adaptation Also, men are predators and have developped an acute focus on a sole objective; women are preys and have developped acute senses and reactiveness to their surroundings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Does equality prevent divorce?It's not that men don't want to support their less-earning wife in case of a divorce. It's that they expect that they will amicably agree to an amount that is fair, instead they usually see their ex become a total stranger and demand whatever maximum they can legally get, no matter how bad it leaves you. Also, alimony should be based on how long this woman has stood beside you. I leave when she's 60 for a younger woman? Yeah she's entitled to half the house and a decent pension. But if I leave h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Does equality prevent divorce?The best ones are really good at hiding it until they hit the jackpot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityAgree completely. The key is to both individuals to show themselves as they really are. No manipulation, no false promises. I have trouble bonding to any girl younger than 25 too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityI agree with everything you say, except the voting part: it's a lost battle since long ago. Unless we increase the voting age for everyone, young men included. To be honest I think these posts are more important for other men than to counterargue with bluepill feminists. Men should know that yes you can become more attractive with age, and yes women of all ages will pursue you if you are a good, masculine man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityAlright I guess we agree on this. Let's also agree on not calling every big age-gap relationship predatory (or a fictional redpill 'fantasy') until we have any element that proves otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityI pull hot women of all ages, including mine. I don't think you read my whole post. I don't seek young women, they're the ones that seek me sometimes, and when we click we form a healthy relationship, nothing sugar about it, that's the point of my post. Feel free to try and steal anyone of them though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityIt's weird because your wall of text seems to show you agree with me, as you talk about your older husband who was good by all means, but then your conclusion is that you hope this redpill propafanda stops? I don't see the logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityFair point, maybe it's my bad that I mistake the responses I usually get with every non-redpill opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityIt does sound bad. However, the fact that you said 'men trying to do this to me' kind of means that you smelled it. I'm sure there are girls gullible enough, and I'm truly sorry for them if they get hurt in any way. But I think the girls who end up with old guys who fetishize them are also girls who are in it for something. Like I have one friend my age who's not ugly but is kind of chubby, isn't good with people, but is rich. His tinder 'gold' is basically pics of him in front of expensive stuf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityFair points. It seems like a reasonable assessment on age differences to me. On this sub though, each time I mention that a guy can do well in his 40s and date great and attractive younger women, I don't get this type of response. I get told that it's all a redpill fantasy, or that if these women exist, it's because they are being manipulated by pervy old immature men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityI'm physically not gross. At some point I know I will start to shrink and weaken and smell, but it hasn't happened yet. I don't see how my actitude is gross, as I (almost) never made the first move, never lied nor hid my age, and never put money into the balance. And if anybody feels discomfort I'm always ready to walk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityYeah I believe everybody is worried about the example you mentioned. But then we do agree that a 22 years old girl can have a relationship with 37 old dude, if both of them are honest and genuine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityI've only seen these guys in the movies. In reality, creepy old men don't do well with women. They've been taught since childhood to smell 'creepy' on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityAlso, young women are constantly trained to smell 'creepy' on guys, especially older ones. They've been taught that since they are little girls. You can't fool them, at least not like it's depicted in the movies. In reality, creepy old men don't do well with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realitySorry for your friend. It really does suck. I have a teenage daughter too. But I do believe it's kind of a stretch going from pedo abusive uncle to a normal consensual relationship between two adults who are honests and responsible, and just happen to have a big age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:59 PM |
| 6 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityWell, I had the opposite experience. Also, how about the claim that older guys being successfull with younger, attractive girls is just a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityYour own experiences of dating a few normal women a couple years younger No, they were all between 10 and 15 years younger. Guys like me are the majority in big age difference relationships. Pedos are a small minority. You are the type of bluepiller my post was directed at. Just jump off your high horse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:11 AM |
| 8 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityOk so we all agree then. That hasn't been my experience on this sub though, where any guy dating a girl 15 years younger is both described as an immature pervert and also a liar somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Fembot girlfriends will be a live saver for men, we will live an enlightenment era, second industrial revolution, second renaissance, productivity of men will skyrocketThat's literally the opposite of what I said but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | A boyfriend who flirts with other women is cheating as much as a girlfriend who allows other men to flirt with herYeah honestly I'm baffled at the responses I've read so far in this thread from women. Just because you have plausible deniability doesn't mean it absolves you from accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 02:22 AM |
| 6 | A boyfriend who flirts with other women is cheating as much as a girlfriend who allows other men to flirt with herCompletely agree. I have a couple of young, good-looking married friends, when they go out the husband just shoots the shit with his guys, he would never approach another woman because that would be actively stepping out of line, so since he got married he never actually flirted with anyone. Meanwhile the wife always has some guy come over and flirt with her, sure she will showcase her wedding ring and say she's unavailable, but she stays there and eats that shit up, grinning and blushing, sayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 3 | What do men want?One loving, generous wife with whom to have a lifelong, monogamous relationship, and 3 or 4 kids. She can work or not, I don't care. She should make my happiness one of her priorities, as I will make hers mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Fembot girlfriends will be a live saver for men, we will live an enlightenment era, second industrial revolution, second renaissance, productivity of men will skyrocketFor centuries women gave men what they need: regular sex. Now, because it's only a masculine need, just asking for sex is considered gross and vulgar. Men do want emotional connection and forming a family, but not if our main need is completely disregarded. I think the point is that once fembots are here, women won't have this TERRIBLE BURDEN of giving their loved ones what they crave so bad, and it will be better for everyone, including women themselves. Relationships will be formed without the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Is your “real world outside” different to the real world of others?I'm exactly the guy he's mentioning. My ncount is 116 (I know, it's lame that I keep track, but I do). I don't hate women, I've had great relationships, I have no problem finding casual sex or a ltr. But with my experience I have seen first hand how even the supposedly nice girls will lie to their boyfriend to have a chance at spending the night with me, manipulate them and then laugh about it. I have seen how they accept minimal effort from me but have armies of chumps who listen to them and ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | The basis of gender and different levels of desire.I think it's all relative. Of course I wouldn't want my wife to put out when she's feeling bad. Really depends on how often she feels bad. If I feel she has my best interests at heart, which include sexual satisfaction, I too will have her best interests at heart. And my opinion is that in the case of a high value man, it's an deal that will benefit the woman more than the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The basis of gender and different levels of desire.If you're ok with your man seeing a sex professional because you don't want to make effort to keep him happy, all the power to you! Personally that's too modern for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 09:06 AM |
| 0 | The basis of gender and different levels of desire.If your wife asks you for a 15 minutes back massage are you gonna pout and complain at how terrible that is, or are you gonna be happy and smile because you have a chance to make her happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | The basis of gender and different levels of desire.I totally agree with you on both points. I actually had that kind of relationship, with a woman I loved: Whenever she was in the mood we would have long, sensual sex with the focus being on her Whenever she wasn't in the mood, she would herself ask me if I needed anything, and would be HAPPY to oblige. She loved seeing how she could make me happy and horny with so little. Obviously when sometimes she didn't feel like it, was feeling low of down, I would be the one to tell her don't worry about i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 10:09 PM |
| 0 | The basis of gender and different levels of desire.I never talked about penetrating sex. Most men would be happy with oral sex or a handjob when she's not in the mood. A 15 min handjob with a happy, sexy smile for the person you supposedly LOVE. If my wife had back pain and asked me for a 15 min massage every day, which would be enough to make her happy for the day, I wouldn't hesitate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 10:05 PM |
| -2 | The basis of gender and different levels of desire.What men don't understand is that it's the one thing we can't get outside of an exclusive relationship. And it can be only 10-15 min of daily effort for a woman, which we don't consider to be SUCH a sacrifice. We don't need anything else to be happy basically. For us it's like a daily sickness, and only our partner has the cure. If I could make my wife happy and peaceful with only 15 min of daily effort, that I am the only one able to provide, I wouldn't think twice. I wouldn't think about my pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYes very fair point, I admit. Maybe there is an in-between before he got surgery? Anyway even if Clooney was a poor example, it's not about him but men in general. Since this thread I've asked several women in real life if they thought a man could look better in his 40s, they all said yes. But it's all anecdotal in the end. The only measurement we have is your ability to attract quality mates, and in my experience it's definitely easier in my 40s for me and a few male friends. I agree those are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:17 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men have to get their abundance mentality on the same level of women.Well if it doesn't work it would be indeed silly. But it seems to work for many men -it did work for me. For neutral men reading this: don't trust either me or the other comment, but rather try it for yourself! You'll find out real fast if the redpill is a giant, silly scam, or if it actually helps you get laid regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 04:30 PM |
| 17 | CMV: Men have to get their abundance mentality on the same level of women.One of the core teachings of the redpill is actually the opposite: acting like you have abundance gets you closer to having actual abundance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:19 PM |
| 3 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenI just said that all my posts are truthful, are you crazy? Like everyone else I don't wanna be doxxed, so I'll say a girl was 26 when she was really 25, and I'll change her name. Because some of my stories are pretty specific so I don't want to be found out. Do you even know how to read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenAs we are all anonymous I don't have proof other than my own experience. For me, it absolutely worked. My dating life did a 180. So I can only assume that it's the same for all the other guys that post on TRP. I have no reason to doubt all the success stories that they post, because their stories are identical to mine. Same reactions from women that I have experienced. In my case I have changed ages and names, but I've never posted anything false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 06:19 PM |
| 6 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenSo your argument is that because men are online seeking advice that turns out to work, it can't actually be working because men are online? Sounds difficult to have a discussion then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 03:23 PM |
| 5 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenI don't understand what it has to do one with another. Nobody said feminism didn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 01:38 PM |
| 11 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenIt is different in the sense that men use redpill advice and it works. Redpill wouldn't be popular if it didn't help men get laid. Men are very practical this way. Then they come to this sub, and bluepillers offer no counter-explanation as to why this works, and why all these examples are verified in our lives. Instead, bluepillers say that 'no it doesn't work'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI agree with you that most men look worst as they age. 90% of them. As a general rule everybody looks worst with time. I thought we had already agreed on that. My point is that men have the chance of improving with age that women don't have. For a woman nothing can ever replace the youthful look. But you're right it's pointless because it's all subjective. The only objective thing is if you can attract more hot partners as you age. I know a lot middle-age guys that do, me included. I don't know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenhttps://www.esquiremag.ph/style/grooming/george-clooney-ha-a2162-20190824-src-esquireuk There you get some images of young George Clooney. To me he definitely looks better years later. Maybe not to you. It's a discussion we can have. But it's not a discussion we can have about a woman. No woman is physically more attractive in her 40s than in her 20s (unless there is some drastic weight loss, or plastic surgery, but that's not my point). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThe whole point of this discussion is that it is possible for men to be this exception. Of course most men look worst over time. But 1 in 10 guys will look better, and that's enough to push men to work on themselves and improve. There are plenty of examples of this for men, almost none for women. George Clooney can be more attractive at 40 than at 20, Charlize Theron can't. That's the whole point. Men can improve with time, women can only hold on to what they have as long as they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMy argument wasn't: "meditate one week and you'll look like Brad Pitt". That would indeed be delusional. My argument, and I laid it out precisely, was: "it is absolutely possible for men to look better in their 40s than in their 20s". And its corollary: "your way of life, thoughts, and habits, end up impacting the way you look over a significant period of time". So it's pretty bad faith from their part to just nitpick one thing they disagree with, disregard all the other arguments, and decide I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenAt least I try to provide some kind of arguments. You could try too: You could argue that all sex symbols are 22. Or make statistics of the age of sexiest males alive. But you won't, because your only argument is to clench your little fists and say that NO, it can't be! Either you're a jaded woman or a lazy man who doesn't want to improve. You can litterally browse reddit and find thousands of pictures of very hot guys in their 40s. You can make a list of the hottest men alive right now, and loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMale beauty is not about youth. Just look at the male sex symbols, it's not the youngest ones, but guys with some wrinkles, bodies hardened by decades of sport, and a charming personality that comes from a lot of life experiences. Remember Amy Poehler's joke at the Oscars? 'We found a man who's hotter than young George Clooney.. it's middle-age George Clooney!' It's not my opinion. Everybody tells me so. My female friends call me a 'unicorn'. I litterally spend more time rejecting women that pur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI'm in my 40s and everything is better for me than 20 years ago. Every fucking thing. More money, freedom, better looking, way more success with women, overall happier. I had health issues back in the day so even my dick works better now. Even if I could go back in time I wouldn't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:27 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenWhat women don't realize is how horny we men are. They know we're horny but they really don't realize how much, because without testosterone they are never able to experience what it feels like. Men tolerate so much stuff from women because we want to fuck them. Sex once in a while and we can handle irrationality, self-victimization, arguments based on emotions, etc. Once they lose their attractiveness it's really hard to keep being this patient. Obviously there are some great women out there bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Men in loving ltr or men that want to be in ltr, would you ever leave your partner if they got ill or were in an accident that changed them physically but still didn’t change their personalities?Sure: I'm in my 40s, single (albeit dating) at the moment. I have been in several LTRs, 3 that lasted between 5 and 7 years, one of which I had a kid with. I have my kid 50% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Men in loving ltr or men that want to be in ltr, would you ever leave your partner if they got ill or were in an accident that changed them physically but still didn’t change their personalities?The key is it's not her fault. If she becomes fat because she's not putting effort for me, I won't put effort for her. If she gets a sickness that makes her go obese and she does whatever she can to fight it, I'm sticking with her no matter what, and will happily jerk off for the rest of my life to stay with the woman I love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 12:21 PM |
| 7 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?Happy husband happy life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:29 AM |
| 8 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?Same here. After so much time with me, my wife should be more beautiful than ever (nevermind the age) and we should have an active and fun sex life. Because I should be bringing the best out of her, if she's happy. If by 40 she has let herself go and doesn't fuck me, then we definitely weren't meant one for another. I'll let her go gracefully, hoping she finds a man who knows how to push her buttons better, and makes her enjoy life, instead of turning her into a couch potato. And I'll happily ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenI am one. And at least part of my success with women I credit the redpill. I'm sure there are many of us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved?Yes, sadly. Women love us but it's conditional. It's not like we love them or like they love their kids. It's one of the strongest redpill awakening for a lot of men: when you see a woman change in a couple of weeks from loving you with her soul to going out of her way to hurt you, with no other justifiable reason than being now attracted to another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved?Exactly. There are many things we do for our partner that we don't like. It's just really convenient that sex is off the list of "acceptable sacrifices", because it seems to benefit mostly one gender. There are other sacrifices that men do for their wives, sacrifices that they hate, but they still do it if it's necessary to their wives' mental or physical health. If my partner is horny and I'm not, I'll be HAPPY to provide whatever it is I can give her, like oral sex or anything achievable. I'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | How do we "choose better partners"?I act like him too, but I'll try to express it less crudely: I love being in a relationship. I want a partner, I want laughs, adventures, and meaningful discussions. BUT I'm also a very sexual person, to me it's an uncompromising basis of any relationship. Even more, if I am to be monogamous, the girl better show me that she can and will replace the sex I'm having with the different fwb I have. I have varied, fun sex with different girls, and would trade it for a monogamous relationship, but ple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Women's biological wants are seen as a virtue. Men's biological wants are often seen as bad in the dating worldYes, I admit you're right. It's a bad analogy and it doesn't apply to kids. But I actually think it's not such a bad analogy for adults. Yes you can go days, weeks, or even your whole life without talking to anybody and you won't die. Just like if you don't have sex. That doesn't mean that it's not an important need, and that if you're deprived of it you're gonna feel really bad and be affected physically and psychologically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 12:36 AM |
| -2 | Women's biological wants are seen as a virtue. Men's biological wants are often seen as bad in the dating worldLack of sleep. Irritability. Those are very real. It's the same if you said there are no physical consequences to not interacting socially, and then left your kid stranded alone for a week. If his physical needs are met, do you still think it's ok to prevent him from having any social contact? Also, talking to you SO is not a need, therefore it's ok if you only speak once per week, you will definitely not hold it against them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Women's biological wants are seen as a virtue. Men's biological wants are often seen as bad in the dating worldWell, in my opinion that makes it absolutely a need. Although not a vital one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:00 PM |
| -3 | Women's biological wants are seen as a virtue. Men's biological wants are often seen as bad in the dating worldWe need it the same way you need to talk to someone during the day. Sure you can go 2 days without talking to anyone, but you'll soon start feeling really bad. That's how it feels for most of us. But we're labelled as shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Romance is deadExactly. On the first date I show them who I am. By the second date, if they're not putting clear effort to seduce me, they're out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details.Well you're the one who wrote that anything else besides being friends is 'details'. Whereas sexual compatibility should be priority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?Whoever is best suited to take the reigns, depending on the circumstances, should take them. If she's a bad leader in some aspects, I hope she will have enough wisdom to yield to me. But it's not like I enjoy or need the power. I just do what needs to be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 01:44 AM |
| 8 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsThanks for posting this. This is exactly what I see everywhere too. These pics nail it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:47 AM |
| 13 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsI don't need to see the faces personally. They can have the faces of Margot Robbie for all I care, none of these girls could make my pp hard. They're fat. The guys on the other hand are decent, healthy dudes. That's enough for them to aim higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't?It changes the posture and the line of legs. Girls look better in heels, it's not about the height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't?Thank god for the diversity of tastes. We're not all fighting for the same women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Shows like "Love is Blind" confirm that it's men, not women, who won't commit to a LTR unless she's the more attractive one (or they're the same level).I dated a girl who was gonna be booked for one of those shows (latino version of temptation island). She told me she was gonna be paid a few thousand dollars, had to kiss one guy, and then 'fake-date him' for the media for a few months. The money was little, but girls would still do it to try and benefit from the fame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?Thank you for your thoughtful reply. You seem to have a great relationship with your partner. The fact that you are higher libido than him is not a case that is often talked about. You seem to handle it pretty well. also, I see that you identify as a Red Pill man. Are you one to believe that a man can only find a “good woman” after riding the CC and becoming a single mom to a deadbeat? I'm not sure I understand the question.. Most redpillers would say they want the contrary, they want a traditio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?I think it all comes from a misunderstanding of what male nature is. Men are social by necessity, not by pleasure. You don't see male friends engaging in daily discussions or asking how each other how their day was. Whereas women interact daily, they generally cultivate a network of active social interactions. So when your man flirts with you, asks you about your day, listens to your emotions, he basically focuses his attention on you, in the things that you need. You reciprocate by focusing you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?You can have different sex drives and still make sure your partner is ok. Just as a husband might be tired and want to rest in silence, but he will go and ask his wife how her day was and listen to her for 30 minutes, because he knows she needs it. THAT is the reciprocity we expect from women: we give them what they need to be happy, why can't they try and do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?Yeah, it seems her partner has to work a lot just to maintain a healthy sex life. If he becomes more distant for two days, because he is focused on other stuff, she might reject him. I wonder what sacrifices she makes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 02:28 AM |
| 41 | People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for thatAlso, it's not just the numbers, it's how you get them. This guy still has to win every girl over. Whereas Chad is the prize and almost every girl throws herself at him. They can't help it. I've witnessed it. A friend of mine who would exchange glances with a hot woman in an elevator, just for her to give him her room number. No other word said. And this happened every fucking day. Everywhere. And it makes you see the real nature of women. Normal people have no idea.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Is there a married man that doesn't masturbate or watch porn?Or regular sex from their wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?humans are naturally far more sympathetic to men than women I think you made a typo and meant far more sympathetic to women. If not it doesn't make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 32 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guysYeah, I'm a nice guy and I do well with women. But they don't care that I'm nice. How I treat others is really important to me, and as a rule, I never lie. However women never mention this as an attractive trait of mine. When I talk about how important it is to me to be kind and generous, their response is always polite at best, or clearly they don't care at all. They want to see me taking charge, being a leader, being fun, and being liked by others. Being a nice guy only is valued insofar as it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?A year? Jesus.. I would last maybe a couple of weeks before bailing out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-relatedMost of us have to learn so much about dating and relationships.. Even 'naturals' don't really know why they are so successful. We should encourage dialogue, and above all experimentation: try something new! Like if you're a skinny nerdy dude, it's tempting to abide by the black pill and decide that you'll be forever alone, or you can try and open up to new knowledge. I used to be this nerdy unsuccessful dude, and I started by reading PUA books, which I now agree provide incomplete and flawed ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:56 PM |
| 8 | It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-relatedHabits are not innate. They are formed. You can learn how to read a conversation, how to best showcase who you truly are through speech and actions, learn why things work the way they do in the social world.. And then with time, you integrate those skills, they become part of you are. That's not becoming a dancing monkey. It's improving your mind, just the way you improve your body. I do understand where you're coming from though, at first I hated that some specific actitudes would make women at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Older guys are not dating young girlsNo, I've never seen sugar dating described this way on trp. You'd have to be delusional to believe that sugar dating is anywhere close to a relationship. But there are weirdos everywhere, so for sure there are some on trp too, who believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Older guys are not dating young girlsNo it's not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 03:39 PM |
| 8 | Older guys are not dating young girlsI'm in my 40s and date girls in their 20s all the time. You're right that statistically, this won't happen to an average guy in his 40s. But the message the Redpill conveys is that you can work on yourself, on your social skills, your personality and your body, and become a top 20% guy in his 40s. And then yes, you do get young girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.When she isn't horny and I am, my girfriend will give me oral, a handjob, or will let me use her tits. She's so happy to see me come. Then I'm full of positive energy for the rest of the day. Oh no! What a terrible relationship! So demeaning for the woman! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Why can't it be both? I love my girlfriend and will provide her with sex, emotional support, and protection whenever she needs it, unless there is something preventing me. But I also feel it's my duty to provide her with those things, especially if she can't get them anywhere else. How hard is it really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Yes handjob for example. Doesn't have to be invasive if the woman isn't into it that day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:07 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Yeah because the wife does it reluctantly. The key word in my comment was 'enthusiastically'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.I agree with everything you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.If my gf is horny and I'm not, I'll finger her, I'll give her oral sex, enthusiastically, even if I'm not horny. Not like duty sex. Because, you know, I love her. But apparently this is a concept too hard to understand for women. 15 min of love and care for your significant other turns into 'duty sex'. That's the sad part. No being able to make a small sacrifice with love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:26 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Yeah I agree with your points, and it's a question of proportions really. It would be interesting to see what your boyfriend thinks. I personally find it sad that you'd rather have your boyfriend jerk off than use your body. But that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:25 PM |
| -1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.It shouldn't be duty sex if it's done with love. If my gf is horny and I'm not, I'll finger her, I'll give her oral sex, enthusiastically, even if I'm not horny. Not like duty sex. Because, you know, I love her. But apparently this is a concept too hard to understand for women. 15 min of love and care for your significant other turns into 'duty sex'. That's the sad part. No being able to make a small sacrifice with love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Why do you assume the man doesn't love and cherish her? What I've seen is couples who love each other the same way, do the same amount of efforts, love and cherish each other, look good, but usually the men are hornier, and they only have sex once or twice a week, because that's what the woman is comfortable with. Because god forbid you'd do something you're not comfortable with for 15 min, out of love. To me, saying that "it's not her duty to give him sex" is just a another way of justifying se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Yeah I mean I agree, it's not even daily! My point is, would you let your boyfriend feel sexless? Feel horny? For days? When all it takes is just 15 min of loving effort? It's even less work if you don't have to do it daily... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:06 PM |
| -2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.You're right but isn't it sad that women won't make a 15 min daily effort to make their favorite person happy and healthy? 15 min done not reluctantly, but with love and care, to the 'love of their life', even if they're not into it. Men do way more than 15 min of daily things that they're not into, but they do it happily because it helps the person they love. Also I don't see the male equivalent of denying their loved ones something that they can't get anywhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:56 PM |
| -1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.What upsets me most is that to make their husbands happy, all it would take for women is just 15 min of efforts daily. Just every day, sex or some sexual act like oral, done not reluctantly but with love and care. Because supposedly we, the husbands, are the love of their lives. It's just 15 min. Husbands make daily efforts for way longer than that. Husbands provide emotional support for hours, listening to their wives vent about every little thing that crosses their minds. But no. 15 min of dai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?I work for an international organization, think like the World Bank. It's more high status than high earning, I make around 8k monthly after taxes. I have a couple of properties in my name, I am by no means rich, but yes comfortable. The high status is because I have some privileges associated with my job, and sometimes I work with high ranking public officials. But: I don't disclose my job when I date. I've always kept it off all my dating profiles, and when I meet a woman I just say I'm an acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Excuse me,wtf?Also it's a lot of money for 2 meals! And in China. Must be some fancy restaurant.. Probably has complementary breadsticks. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/05/22 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Wow. No counter-argument whatsoever + Attack ad-hominem Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?I mean it's common to hear that 'fatties give better blowjobs', which can really be interpretated in favour of both our arguments, depending how we understand it. We disagree on how common self-centered behaviour is in women. The fact that I see it often is indeed only anecdotal evidence, but this thread seems to prove that many men have had the same experience than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?I'd say half of the women I meet are like that. And I meet a lot of women. They treat me like a piece of meat, or an atm. The thing is, most of the time they don't realize it themselves. They're so willing to make it work because they see you as a high-value man, and they're naturally so much more socially aware, that it comes naturally to feed the man what he wants to hear. And they're used to have things revolve around them. I'd say there is also a higher percentage of these women among the ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?I definitely don't say that all women are like that. I have been lucky that I've had great women in my life. But there still are a lot of these women, the same way that there are a lot of men who will marry a girl just because she's not crazy and has great tits. Those women are usually not acknowledged at all, less critized. Whereas the whole society is campaigning against the objectification of women by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 11:42 PM |
| 18 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?This guy has a great job, is good-looking, is socially active, and not a weirdo? He will boost my image with my girlfriends, and my self-esteem? Well let's laugh at all his jokes, pretend I'm a huge fan of this indie rock-band I actually barely know, act empathetic when he talks about his father, pretend I like to make love when I'd really like to get rammed. Let him entertain me! Pay for things! He's lucky to have me. If he has some money, and shows any sign of being a willing dad: let's marry … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?I agree with you. I'd stay statistically you are right, in that most redditors lie or grossly exagerate how good they have it. I'd also say that bluepill is right that statistically, an average 40 years old man will not be attractive to hot 20 years old girls. But that's not my point. What we are discussing here is that it's absolutely possible for men in their 40s to have it easier on the dating scene than in their 20s with the same types of girls (i.e., hot, eligible young women). Not most men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?I'm now mid-40s. I'm dating a 28 years old, no kids, independent, nice appartment, smart and hot. In the last year I dated: 30 years old, very hot, good job, no kids 31 years old, good looking, business owner, no kids 48 years old, smart and beautiful, great career, one kid 26 years old, business owner, smart and beautiful, dad is an airline CFO 31 years old semi-famous actress, extremely hot, 2 kids. This one did have a lot of baggage.. Not listing more casual dates.. So yeah I would say they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?There are lots of unsuccessful guys in their 30s too. Oh yeah absolutely. There is no denying that. I'd say maybe 1 out of 10 guys improves and gets better.. But the possibility exists, and it carries on into our fourties too. Charisma makes more of a man's attractiveness than physical beauty, and with age we can gain charisma. And our physical beauty doesn't depend so much on youth and 'freshness', so we don't lose so much of it if we take care of ourselves. But we agree that turning 30 by itse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 10:32 PM |
| 18 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?because he was fat, socially awkward or something else. So most men. Most young men are not in shape and/or are socially awkward. Nerds/smart people have weak bodies. Party and gym bros are usually immature and can't hold an intelligent conversation. In their thirties, men assert who they are, get their life in order, and they have acumulated a bit of life experience that makes their conversations more interesting than just talking about video games, parties or tv shows. Personally I had more su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 09:52 PM |
| 34 | Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receiveIt's not about sex, but about social status. Appearance (and therefore makeup) is one of the key components of social hierarchy for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 03:24 AM |
| 8 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.My case too. I'm 42 and have plenty of success with 20 years old. I have to give it to the BP though, among my friends I'm an exception. But it's not a physical issue or money issue. It's an atttitude and lifestyle issue. I guess we all feel that we are an exception, but in this thread there are a lot of 40 years old redpillers who pop up with the same experience.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.I'm 42. Last year I dated a 26 years old. Beautiful, educated, coming from a wealthy family. I met her parents, they loved me. I would have had babies with that girl, but something was missing...for me. Her and her family still invite me to their house, actually I spent New Year's Eve with them. It's just anecdotal evidence, I know. This is not the reality for most 40 years old. But it happens to me often. Most of my girlfriends are around the 10 years age difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?Both genders are victims of what the media feeds them. Average men expect their girlfriend to have a perfect porn star body and fuck like one, average women expect their boyfriend to lead them to a non-stup fun ride like in instagram, and treat them to lavish gifts. Whereas the truth is that average people go on few dates to regular local joints, have awkward sex then watch series. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 14 | Women in a nutshellNo counter-argument + Attack ad-hominem Nice.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Clearly not mine, but the lesson remains true. Look out for yourself first and foremost.I clicked and did watch the link. It was fast and interesting. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do we push for legalizing prostitution yet denigrate the men who patronize prostitutes?I'm one of those guys: legalize prostitution sugar daddies are idiots My logic is that finding a girl to have sex with shouldn't be hard, if you're red pill you should be doing ok. But I also understand the opportunity cost of sinking a couple of dates and money into a girl you don't want anything more than sex from. So you can be willing to pay this cost for a prostitute. Less than a 100 usd. That's the cost of casual sex. Sugar babies apparently cost from 500 up, more often above 1000 usd. Any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 7 | It is pretty much always wrong to reveal depression or sad thoughts to your wife?I got a lot of grief here for saying that I decided to never lie, and that it's possible. For me it boils down to congruency: you are the man you say you are, from your deeper thoughts to your most external physical appearance. And if you take the position of a leader, then you get all the perks, but also the responsibilities. And one of them is that the leader can't be weaker than the people he leads. | /r/askMRP | 01/06/21 04:59 PM |
| 7 | What is your body count?Too much would be same as for women: when it impedes us to be able to pair bond and believe our partner is unique and amazing. My ncount is over 100 and I still genuinely fall in love. On the contrary I know women who have an n-count of around 30 and they're completely unable to pair bond. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 8 | Most redpilled character you've seen in a movie/series?Sure he chases her, but he doesn't jeopardizes any of his manlihood or freedom doing so. He keeps on banging hotties, living adventures and following his artistic muse. To me he's the best alpha because of that. He has weaknesses but he doesn't sacrifices anything of what he is. Also the way he behaves with women is perfect imo. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 03:39 AM |
| 11 | Most redpilled character you've seen in a movie/series?Nah his wife got him by the balls, and he's can't reduce his lifestyle to match his decreased income. He's a slave | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 26 | Why is being polite mistaken with being a loser?It's also a relief to know that you can be an educated, polite and caring person, while remaining a manly dude worthy of respect. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:03 AM |
| -2 | After 7 years of analyzing my experiences talking with people, here is the most succinct cold approach guide I could come up with. This pretty much guarantees that the people who "want" to talk with you, will.This is brilliant. Spot on and very well explained. You made subtle social cues easily spottable and applicable. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Problems that you only experience as you become more attractive?High SMV problems are basically learning how to qualify people. Everyone wants you, everyone puts on their best face, but not everyone gets to win a spot in your life. That is reserved for the best, those who genuinely love and care about you. Very well put. That must be how some very hot girls feel too, when they will never know if guys would still genuinely love and care about them if they got into an accident and lost their looks. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal ONS?Ideal ONS is with a lot intimate time in bed. Not just fucking, but also talking, learning stuff about somebody you will may never see again, laughing. I'd rather have these conversations in bed than before, at the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?I'm 40. Exactly one week ago I met a 27 years old girl from tinder. Really hot, and smart girl too, coming from a wealthy family. We fucked on the first date, and she confessed she's actually 24, but raises her age because she wants to meet older men. Guys her age are stupid and boring, she says... | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Can you tolerate women lying?1 lie in 15 years is not a proof that everybody lies. Quite the contrary. You absolutely can spend you life being truthful. But you seem more intent on being right than seeking the truth.. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Can you tolerate women lying?I had a good stretch of almost 10 years without lying. Then 3 years ago I lied, by weakness. I'm glad there was a price to pay. Since then, no. Obviously I don't count very small, inconsecuential lies. Also if a woman for example asks me what I want, I won't say straight up "my dick in your mouth". But I'll never say I want something serious if it's not true. So yeah, I stand by what I say. I don't lie. It's actually pretty hard, and also very rewarding. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 11:02 AM |
| 4 | Can you tolerate women lying?A lot of people don't lie. I don't lie. It forces me to address any fault of mine instead of hiding it. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 15 | Want to buy a boat....wife going thermonuclearJust impressed how everyone here is out-amogging each other as to who will shit on you the most. Whereas I believe your situation is honestly presented, and your case is not black or white. Is your wife right to tell you what to do with your money? No. It's your money. But it doesn't mean she's not right. Is buying a boat generally a bad financial decision? Yes. Will you be able to cover these costs and at the same time ensure your kids' future? Can you continue saving? Only you can tell. (Not h… | /r/askMRP | 09/11/20 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Non-married men 40+ years old: how is life? I'm deciding if I should ever get marriedFitness helps a lot, but so does nutrition. I hold the belief that almost anybody can be attractive if they not only exercise well but also eat well. Genetics are a hindrance only for a small minority of people. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone here feel like a sociopath? This is not a diss on the red pill. Trp has changed my life.Same here. My main complaint about it is that since I have everything under control, it becomes hard to feel genuine feelings, for example when the occasional sweet, old-fashioned good-hearted girl comes along and just wants to love and be loved. TRP taught me to deal with all the bullshit and implied contract, but then I kinda lost the magic when a valuable girl comes along. I guess I learned how to be loved, now I gotta relearn how to love. If you notice, love is not in the redpill vocabulary.… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Can Turn You Into Thinking You Can Be An Island But Unfortunately, No Man Is An Island.You're getting a lot of flack, and maybe your idea could be expressed in a different, better way. But I get what you're saying. You're absolutely right. Redpill analyzes the world around us, and it is a great learning tool. But if we do it constantly it becomes harder to enjoy people, because people are all inconsistent and weak, and will never live up to what we expect of them. A happy man, as you say, is the one who interacts freely with and extracts value from everything. You can either rejec… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | The more attractive they are, the less trustworthy they become.Hawt Good hearted Sane head choose two Funny how this used to be a joke, it's actually true. | /r/MGTOW | 28/07/20 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Group of girls force a man to take his shirt off to see his absThis a publicity stunt made for this tiktoker, and a bad one on top of it as the pass isn't denied. The fact that nobody calls this out is astonishing. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you mind if you're lover is bigger/same size and stronger than you?Then I'm genuinely impressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you mind if you're lover is bigger/same size and stronger than you?All big women think they are strong because they can open a pickle jar by themselves, or because they don't realize their male friends hold back when they play wrestle.. Until one day they get into an actual fight with a small, scrawny man who doesn't hold back, and get completely destroyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 09:54 AM |
| 6 | Do you mind if you're lover is bigger/same size and stronger than you?OP probably feels she is stronger than her man. Until one day she has to actually get into a fight with a man, and she will come to the harsh realization than most scrawny, thin guys will easily take down any mountain of a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 09:48 AM |
| 7 | Women literally cant take any responsibility - Mia Khalifa threadThis is all publicity and she's doing it well. Of course she knows her videos will never disappear. If she wanted people to forget her she would have changed her name and her appearance. She's just increasing the visibility of her brand. Hell she even has a mgtow forum talking about her.. | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/20 03:53 PM |
| -7 | How to bring up the ‘no sex before commitment’ to a guy during early dating and not scare him away?Thank you. I also think that yes, if the woman shows that she can deliberately do something to take into account her man's needs, she's a keeper. Be it sex or something else. But I would similarly advocate for men to do things they don't immediately benefit from, for the sole purpose of taking into account the woman's needs. Same thing. Men are not entitled to sex, women are not entitled to commitment, for sure. But giving a bit away, "for free", is the right mindset to show you are willing to w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/20 06:23 PM |
| -4 | How to bring up the ‘no sex before commitment’ to a guy during early dating and not scare him away?You preach that there are different sensibilities regarding sex and intimacy, while at the same time being really sure that only your point of view is right. IF (and only if) OP feels good about oral or handjobs, they are actually a great way to get know somebody sexually while keeping the boundaries she chooses to set. Similar compromises can be made the other way around from the man to the benefit of the woman. Not everything is sexist. Attacking my persona or trying to rally all women to your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/20 05:37 PM |
| -6 | How to bring up the ‘no sex before commitment’ to a guy during early dating and not scare him away?Handjobs and oral are a great way to show this man OP cares about his sexual gratification, to test (to some extent) if there is sexual compatibility, to show that she doesn't hold sex as a negotiating weapon, while at the same time demonstrating she has healthy boundaries and a strong enough will to enforce them. That's a keeper. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 4 | "Transwomen are Women"?It's a great analogy | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/20 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardThat's actually true. Fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardHaha I don't know how this is relevant but I love me some Joe Rogan, this adorable ape-bro. Good for you man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 12:48 PM |
| 10 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardWe are considering your argument, over and over again. Take the highest standard you want, set it up yourself: flawless face? Perfect body? If women were so desperate for sex there would be a prostitution market for it. There would be charming, ripped guys making a fortune by catering to women's sexual needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 12:40 PM |
| 8 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardProbably not. But I shared an appt with a gay dude for years. Most gays I've seen are never on a dry spell, so they don't have to fuck ugly. I guess that's your case too, if you went to several gay orgies (good for you). However ugly, desperate gay men will lower their standards in ways women won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 12:36 PM |
| 4 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardYou contradict yourself. And You attack ad-hominem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 12:10 PM |
| 17 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardIf only a 5 stars meal can satisfy your hunger, and that you'd rather not eat than eat less quality, maybe you weren't that hungry to begin with. Also, saying women fantasize hard about high-value men is not a valid argument. Show a really hot girl to guys and they will fantasize even harder. Being able to have orgasms isn't the reason either: old, drunk, or limp-dick guys fantasize just as hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 12:09 PM |
| 10 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardYes, if it comes to that. Hell, men will even fuck goats if nothing else is available.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Who do you think gets the "best" out of a person? Someone's LTR or their FWB?I agree with you regardindg men and sex. However, I also believe men treat their women better in a relationship, because they care about the person and are hopeless romantics. They'll go buy strawberry ice cream in the middle of the night just to get their ktr to smile... Which makes it evwn sadder that women treat rhem worst once commitment is obtained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Who do you think gets the "best" out of a person? Someone's LTR or their FWB?The point is not whether men like commitment or not. The point is: how comes women are on a worst behaviour when their man commits to them. It should be the opposite. You can choose to agree or disagree with this statement. But that would mean actually addressing it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Who do you think gets the "best" out of a person? Someone's LTR or their FWB?This is not at all the point OP is making and your comment is disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Male privilegeYeah, hopefully mgtow doesn't fall into this trap. Life as a man is a struggle, with bigger responsibilities and possibly bigger rewards. Crying more about it won't make it any easier... The only solution, as for everything for us men, is knowledge. Know what you're up against, and you will find the will to fight. | /r/MGTOW | 03/07/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you guys think men naturally on a biological level are more prone to loneliness?Fair enough, I misunderstood OP then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: Do you guys think men naturally on a biological level are more prone to loneliness?I disagree. I've never lacked sex in my life, nor do I lack friends, and I'm still a loner. If I'm tired I'd rather stay home alone to recharge. Whereas if my gf is tired she'd rather stay home with me by her side, or talk to other girlfriends. Women are social animals, their brains are wired to multi-task and empathize. Men's brains are wired to focus on just one thing and mutlitasking is tiring to us. That's why we like to rest on our own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 7 | This poor SOB...She's clearly making a face for laughs and she actually pulls it off pretty well.. I mean we all agree on mgtow ideas but let's not be gullible. | /r/MGTOW | 03/07/20 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesSame here, I know at least two confirmed cases (because the woman drunkenly confessed to my girl, but we all had doubts since the kids look different). And I suspect a few other cases. It happens more than people think. Also, to say that women 'sneak out' to get pregnant by Chad is disingenuous. That's not how it happens. It's either a casual girlfriend who lets herself get pregnant by a lower value side dick so she can start a family with her dream man. Or it's an affair during marriage and an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?For me it's not really about being shamed or not, in the end you never publicly claim you go to see prostitutes. It's really about accessibility and price. In latin america, prostitutes are both cheap and beautiful (unlike Germany or the US where they are expensive). The price of pussy and dating does take a huge hit, and women are less demanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 08:35 PM |
| 10 | LTR is having a child, what should I know?To continue on these good concrete advices: hormonal changes are a thing to be dealt with for months, if not years. Both man and woman grow apart because of it how will you deal with the body of your ltr changing, her not being so attractive, or her body odor changing? That's where you find out how important was physical connection for your couple in dealing with the kid, both of you will tend to opposite polarities. Her, overprotective. You, over rational. It's good for the kid to have those po… | /r/askMRP | 27/06/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | It used to be that most guys didn’t want to settle down with the slutty girl. That seems to have changed in newer generations. Will guys trend towards becoming more lax in terms of their partner’s sexual histories?Men are bombarded with porn and sexualization of women. Sex is everywhere, and it's easy to get if you're one of the 20%. So the plain jane with saggy tits doesn't do it anymore. And there is less and less plain janes anyway, as society is increasingly divided between hot and fat/ugly people. Given that, men won't commit to less than than a hot girl. In my case, as a relatively high-quality man, I wasn't interested in just average, cute girls, such as the girls I studied with. They had to be haw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/20 02:12 PM |
| 10 | Forgiving Your FatherI (very respectfully) disagree. Life is both completely rational, and subject to forces we don't know about. A couple of anecdotal experiences: when there is a full moon I can't sleep. I always find out the day after that it was a full moon whenever I've fallen hard for a girl, all my exes suddenly call me, without having any way of knowing it. They feel me slipping away from them. Life is twofold: magic and logical. The mistake is only focusing on one aspect. Edit: I just saw your other respons… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/20 06:35 AM |
| 16 | People looking at old pictures are WeIrDoSYeah, no.. You would sound like a guy desperate for attention and without much social skills. So it would be easy for the woman to discard the remark and conveniently brush it under the category: "another loser trying to neg me to get my attention.." So instead what you do is like an old pic, and then only if she asks, you genuinely say she did look really good in it. If it sounds like a sincere compliment it's worst for them, because their ego can't defend itself by rejecting your motives. Inst… | /r/MGTOW | 20/06/20 10:22 PM |
| 4 | What's it like being a Chad?Since I've become more successful, I started to understand more how hot women can develop such a bitchy attitude: when you're attractive, everyone (men and women) wants a piece of you. Some want to fuck you, some just want to be seen with you, some want to be validated by you. At the beginning it's nice, it boosts your ego. But it gets old real quick, and it's hard not to be mean to the 20th person who comes bother you and doesn't get the clear clues that you're not interested. Part of becoming … | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 32 | Women Really Hate Donald TrumpTrump is the safest bet as far as herd mentality. The media hates him, social networks hate him, casual political discussions are always against him. Finally, women have a straightforward tool to gain some points. Just hate Trump and you have some common ground with everyone! Or so they think.. | /r/MGTOW | 07/06/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How do you maintain the "abundance mentality" in a committed relationship?Look good Take care of your body. Eat well, sleep well, dress well. Preserve mystery She should never feel she knows everything about you. For example don't ever tell your n-count. Even if it's a high number, it's better for her to wonder what it is, than to know. Don't tell her about all of your exes. Don't tell her all of your schedule. Be social, be independent You keep on making your own plans, and you go with or without her. Sometimes you're too busy and you don't see her messages right awa… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 68 | How to be Alpha AND likeable?Great answer. As a side-note, I would add that since I've become more successful, I started to understand more how hot women can develop such a bitchy attitude: when you're attractive, everyone (men and women) wants a piece of you. Some want to fuck you, some just want to be seen with you, some want to be validated by you. At the beginning it's nice, it boosts your ego. But it gets old real quick, and it's hard not to be mean to the 20th person who comes bother you and doesn't get the clear clue… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsSex is not a service the woman provides to her man. Sex is a mutually desired bonding event, which is equally enjoyed by both. Lol at counselling. For the rest, yeah a stay at home wife cooks and cleans, and that is hardly enough to compensate for the rent she's not paying. With the price of free housing I could afford 10 maids every month.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsMy edit addresses this. Just accept the conditions, knowing that if my kid wants to live with me at some point, she might have to take a job to fulfill her financial commitment. Just as I would have to. It's just fair really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsIf it's about the kid, and she has really no other income than whatever I'm giving her, then I should get full custody as soon as we split. Or, whatever she wants to receive from me, she should agree to give me when the roles are reversed. Again, it's not relative to income, we're talking about the basic cost of a child. EDIT: also, that's the case generally speaking for men. You are ordered to pay something, and if you don't have the resources, well you just get a job. Anybody can get a job at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsYour points are honest and fair, thanks for replying. Regarding the will: yeah she will probably have to pay taxes on what she gets. It's not ideal, but it is what it is. She still gets the apartment, and even if she has to sell it to pay taxes, she gets money. That's the best I can do to care for her without giving my power away to State laws. Depends on whether or not she has to trust while also investing herself (helping with mortage). As soon as she's investing money, it should be based on m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsWe get 50 50 automatically of the child as far as custody goes. But I trust my partner so I'd give him 100% That´s fair, in these circumstances yes you´re giving your man a child, he gets to have custody, and you should be compensated for the strain on your body. if the man is providing, stay at home moms also care for the internal system Yes but they usually don´t have the same value. Taking care of the house usually amounts to a cleaning lady being paid a few hours per week. You should be comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsI like your spirit. That's a healthy attitude. What do you think of the arrangememt I propose (which is how it works with my ltr): My ltr and I don't marry. However, I put her in my will, so that if I die she is taken care of. If we split, she has to trust I will be fair. Even if she cheats, I would still give her a takeaway package as she's been a good partner along the years. After we've been together for, let's say 10 years, I put an appartment in her name. That way if she's unhappy she can l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsAmen to that. Each couple can have different set of clauses, as long as they are mutually agreed upon. The problem with marriage laws is that men wrongly think that in case of a divorce, their ex will be reasonable and fair. Whereas all the examples I've seen, women take everything they can get. Instead, let's just write down a contract with all possibilities considered, then you always know what will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 02:12 PM |
| 9 | Let's try to create a working relationship where both partners equally give up thingsAlright, if the woman really "gives me" a child, let me have full custody of the child, then I'll undertand how she gets compensated for giving me something. Otherwise, it usually seems like the woman is the one who is given things: a wedding, a child, social status and envy of her friends, and money so that she could decide she never works again. What is the man given? A child he can hardly see, and alimony that is disproportionate regarding the child's needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 02:04 PM |
| 13 | Female solipsism at its finest. ExampleAlthough true, it´s really a weak example of female solipsism. Not worth a post. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/20 01:38 PM |
| 0 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.Are Cucks men? Is porn a substitute for real sex? Are 'sandwich slides' real cheese? So many questions... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Red Pillers what do you have to offer?Everything you list are things that are more valued by men than by women. "Talent" and "potential", even "being a good person" are not things that attract women. They care about the application of these things on the real world: do your abilities translate into any kind of leverage or influence on people? That being said you sound like a cool guy and I hope you keep on growing, to the point where you're recognized for all your qualities, and everything you have achieved with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 15 | Red Pillers what do you have to offer?Red-pill types =\= Chads You can believe in redpill principles and know you're an average guy. You know what is the best type of woman you can attract, and you're ok with it. Redpillers tend to understand the SMP quite well. In my case yeah I'm a fucking catch. I have an exciting career, not rich but enough money to take care of several people, investments, etc; I've lived on 3 different continents. I'm also attractive enough, and have an exciting social life with many friends and connections. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 04:09 PM |
| 18 | My ltr randomly dyed her hair pink and I hate itShe doesn't need his 'permission' but a massive physical change is something that should definitely be discussed with your partner. If she doesn't care whether he finds her attractive, then she doesn't care much about her man... | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 49 | Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamyIt's not about whether it's valid or not. It's a display of instincts. It doesn't matter that the guy is still strong and brave. The same way a guy will say that he is attracted to firm tits, but obviously after a pregnancy those tits will fall. It doesn't matter if the girl is still young, beautiful and fertile. His instinct will be to find her less attractive. Also, don't throw the words 'retard' and 'whiteknighting' around just because you disagree with a comment. He clearly wasn't defending … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 06:57 PM |
| 10 | Whose game are you winning?Amazing post! You're spot on. I would add that if we take a step back, we can see that both genders end up improving each other: The biggest threat to men, who are driven by exploration and conquest, is to become lazy and apathetic. The female imperative of always pushing her man to get the next big thing, and rewarding him for it, helps the man because it does keep him moving, constantly. Similarly the biggest threat to women, who are driven by empathy and connection to their immediate surround… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | The redpill contradictionNot all men age like fine wine. It's not automatic. But: Women do age like milk. At best, with good genes and a lot of work, they can preserve some of their attractiveness as they grow older, and age gracefully. However it is virtually impossible for a woman to be more attractive at peak 35 than she was at peak 25. Men can age like fine wine. A guy at peak 35 can be more attractive than his former self at peak 25, because his body is nowhere close to falling apart yet, and he's added confidence,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsI understand your anger towards women, but I think you're missing the point: I am not making excuses for women. This post, like so many others on TRP, just teaches us to accept their true nature. It isn't good or bad, it is what it is. The human race needs selfishness and short-term thinking from women, just as much as it has needed men to build societies and develop science. The mistake is to judge women by men's standards, because then most women fall short. I do agree with you that men need t… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 11:53 AM |
| 41 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsThis is completely true and most comments seem to miss the point. Women create life They will crawl, flow, to the path of least resistance, to ensure the most immediate accumulation of resources. They are neither good or evil in doing so, they take whatever life gives them. We all exist because of this quality, and should be thankful for it. If women didn't bow to the conquering tribe, so that their children could live, most of us would probably not exist, given how many times our ancestors have… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 01:32 AM |
| 11 | [Q4All] Realistically, what does the future / near future hold for women wanting commitment?If he looks good, not wanting to fuck a landwhale is not being picky. How are we sure of this? Well he can get what he wants (sex with good looking women) whenever he wants. If a landwhale only swipes right on Chads, yeah she is being picky to the point where you marvel at her audacity indeed. How are we sure of this? Well she never gets what she wants (commitment from a high value man). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | How far would you say self-improvement or "working on yourself" helps in becoming more attractive to women?I agree. But I also consider most men to be weak slobs, so if you are in the minority that has some discipline and some drive, it's not so hard to get ahead of 80%. You won't be Chad, but you won't be a reject and you'll be happy. Women are born, but men are made. For men charm is earned, confidence is earned, strength is earned. It's true that a small minority of men won't get ahead even if they try, but to quit before even trying gets no sympathy from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | How far would you say self-improvement or "working on yourself" helps in becoming more attractive to women?You're absolutely right. I don't know what I was thinking. Why even try? Better to keep eating doritos while angrily browsing reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | How far would you say self-improvement or "working on yourself" helps in becoming more attractive to women?Also your new mindset focused on improvement is more attractive, and your personality improves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Question for/about menMy love for my partner and my love for my daughter are way closer than I would have thought. My partner is (willingly) almost like another daughter to me sometimes: she takes refuge in me, I lead her, teach her and protect her. Obviously my partner supports me and stands by my side in a way my daughter doesn't have to, and in the end it will be just me and her. I see it as something positive, in the sense that my daughter grows up with the experience of being around 'a real man', but also with t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | If you are fat and there is nothing stopping you, why aren't you losing the weight?I think you don't necessarily have to stop eating. Imo it's not a good way of doing it. It's better to eat way healthier. If you don't enjoy the process it won't last long.. That being said, I hope you get the results that you want. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Unattractive men have absolutely no idea what the life of an attractive man is likeI'm disappointed this post focuses on ripped guys showing their abs to thots, because of course this happens, but it's not what really matters. The fact is that if you're a high-value, attractive man, you see a totally different side of women, that 90% of the population has never seen, and will never believe. Constant hook-ups, invites to parties. High status girls who suddenly accept to be the side-chick, to fuck on the first date. Happily married, faithful women who suddenly can't resist and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 0 | Is South America really the sensual getaway for men who want feminine women?Yes it does happen often, especially if you're visiting from another country, and if they come from a low socio-economic class. But genders still are more marked, and if you are high value, live there with no intention of leaving, and date high class girls who make way more money than you do, you'll be surprised to see they still treat you like a prince. Like no american fattie would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Is South America really the sensual getaway for men who want feminine women?That's true. You can't have it both ways. If you want a traditional wife who attends to her husband's needs, you better have your shit together, be a strong leader, and be able te deflect constant shit tests. If you have the shoulders for it though, it's a pretty sweet deal, that makes both partners happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Is South America really the sensual getaway for men who want feminine women?Same here. I know South America extensively, speak spanish fluently. -Gender roles are way more respected/appreciated. Man is expected to have his shit together, woman to be empathetic, family-oriented. -Sex is still considered as something that is expected from women, and it is expected to be good, or at least decent (no starfish). -Women aren't as fat yet (except in northern Mexico). They keep in shape. -In some countries such as Colombia, if you're high-value, women literally fight over you, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 8 | Guys in LTRs, have you at any time allowed your girl to see you being "lazy"?Totally agree and I would add: you should proudly be lazy around her when you want to. You can't fake it forever, and if she has a problem with that, better to settle this problem sooner than later. The real issue is all these guys who are afraid of being themselves, who lie to get mommy's approval, etc. When the truth comes out, obviously she looks at them like a kid. Own your shit instead. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be?Ok my bad. You did say that one type might not have better results than the other. But then I don't know what we're discussing? Most people don't change, but guys who come to TRP are expressly encouraged to change and improve. As you said there is no way of making sure that your partner won't change and fall out of love, so the best course of action is to always keep on improving and remain attractive. Focus on what you can control, which is yourself. I guess we agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be?Why? I mean everybody evolves, men and women. What makes you believe that the guy who has had a fulfilling dating life, and has LTRed the girl of his dreams, is less likely to adapt and keep her attracted, than the guy who has been settled for and took what he got? Also, to be honest, if you're an attractive man, your woman's attractiveness will always decrease faster than yours in the long run. Obviously every relationship has a risk of failure. So every relationship is a gamble (thanks to remi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | If you are fat and there is nothing stopping you, why aren't you losing the weight?Because they are children Also look at the responses in this thread. You can sum them up like this: I'm just a bit overweight (hint: they are fat), but I can't lose it because it's too much work/I love eating/it doesn't change anything/I'm healthy. Yes they are children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be?This sub, PPD? Maybe. But the goal of TRP is not to form relationships, it's first to get laid. Men want relationships once this first primal urge is fulfilled. Our brains and our hearts might know that we'll have a better partnership with a wise, experienced, centered woman. But unfortunately, that's not what our dicks want. Our dicks want to fuck the Stacies of the world. I agree it might be stupid, but this desire is also the basis of our species' survival. Now, once in a relationship with St… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSWhat redpillers say =/= redpill concepts. The sub is opened to all, including idiots, or hate-filled boys. You don't teach them if you shut them down. I would stick to discussing redpill canon, which is basically the sidebar. Regarding your couple, I'm glad you found your match. As I wrote in another comment here, there is room for everyone, and increasingly masculine women are better off pairing with increasingly feminine men. Not saying that your fiance is a soyboy, just that you found a good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSI don't think redpillers are really into the domme-slave relationship you describe... My LTR has her own hobbies, she can be her own person, etc. She's also very feminine in the sense that she knows her opinion on things is very responsive to the present circumstances, whereas I am more constant and am better to think long-term and detach myself from the present. We both benefit from each other: she helps me live in the present and not be lost in a constant chase of the future, letting my life p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSI might not know how the world works. I give you that. I do believe that you are wrong if you don't see the difference between frame and boundaries. Frame refers to how our brains are wired, how they process information. Without understanding this difference, it's hard to grasp the redpill concepts... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSA key difference is, once again, 'what we wish for' vs 'how the world/nature works'. The way nature works, opposite attract. If you want a masculine man, you gotta be feminine. Frame is not boundaries. Frame is the notion that you assessment of reality isn't dictated by circumstances or context. Which is the opposite of the feminine sensibility. But there is room for everyone, and more than ever you can find modern couples where hardened, independent women, marry (but don't take the last name of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 05:35 PM |
| -1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSWhat I meant is that FDS teaches women to set their own frame, which has always been a masculine prerogative. More power to you gals, but I think it won't attract high value men, any more than hardcore feminism does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:39 PM |
| -4 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSFDS is actually the true female equivalent to TRP Bullshit. Redpill teaches men how to be desirable. They are told to fake it till they make it, making it being the end goal. FDS strategies of manipulating, witholding sex, etc, are not at all attractive for men, or only desperate low-tier betas. The real equivalent to TRP is actually Redpillwomen: both assume that polarities in the relationship are necessary. TRP teaches to be masculine, RPW to be feminine. FDS teaches women to be masculine and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be?Funny enough, by the time that women mature enough to 'control' their innate attraction to shitty behavior and douchebags, most of the guys HAVE, in fact, killed those traits. So you have women who are then looking for the "good guy" traits but can't find any of them at that point because the guys killed off those traits in order to be attractive to women. Oh yeah, good observation. It's not set in stone, and maybe that's the root of bluepill misunderstanding. This forum seems to be filled with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:41 PM |
| 0 | [q4m] What do you think about high earners ONLY dating other high earners?Sure it'd be nice if she had more money. It's a plus. We're not saying it's not nice. We're just saying that having money doesn't compensate any other trait that we actually vet for. No man is gonna take a less attractive girl just because she has more money. Whereas the contrary is often true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Physical and physiological harm are just about equal in the damage they cause.only one is illegal. Suppressing the emotions of anyone is extremely damagingGreat! Another 'who hurt you' spotted in the wild. They never disappoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Q4men: would you rather be the "sex guy" or the "relationship guy" to women? Show your workAlso sex guy has higher self esteem because he gets laid regularly, he has better social acumen because he mixes up with more people, he is more assertive, he is better at communicating because he doesn't fear rejection, etc. Sex guy will be a better husband, it's not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 02:47 PM |
| 29 | LTR being corrupted by TED talkAgree, except I wouldn't call OP "kid". He passed those shit tests like a man. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Plausible deniability on full displayYeah that's cognitive dissonance, not plausible deniability | /r/MGTOW | 03/01/20 01:05 AM |
| 11 | What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom?Mostly true. But there are girls who think they're hot enough that they shouldn't be bothered to suck their guy or make any effort. They've been adored their own life without having to lift a finger. Even some low smv girls are like that. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 05:03 PM |
| 3 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?That's a fair criticism. Let me put it another way. TRP is amoral the same way the laws of physics are amoral: "if you do X, Y will ensue". If you drop an apple, it will fall to the ground. At no point does it even consider that gravity could be good or bad. It just is. Now, humans can still choose how to use the laws of physics. We can build nuclear bombs and kill everyone or we can produce clean technology: this is our moral choice. It's still the same universal laws of physics though. Moralit… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 12:34 PM |
| 11 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?Sexual strategy is AMORAL It means that, just like a science, it describes the sexual market place. It doesn't tell you what to do with this information. You can be righteous, or an dick, it's your choice. A lot of redpillers misunderstand this and think that you MUST be a dick. That you must lie, cheat, etc. No you don't. A real Alpha is a leader of men, and he's righteous because that the best way to be a leader. Amoral doesn't mean immoral | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:52 PM |
| 16 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?AWALT tendencies: feelz > reason never owning up to her mistakes or taking responsibility for anything bad that she did. It's never her fault doesn't matter what he did for her in the past, the only thing that matters is what he will do in the future (aka Briffault's law) AMALT tendencies: thinks with his dick prone to unnecessary violence and competitiveness focus his brain on one thing and becomes unable to see the big picture or to multitask lack of empathy towards others | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:47 PM |
| 8 | Caught STD. What to tell wife?This. We are men. Cunning, weaselly strategies are for the opposite sex. | /r/askMRP | 09/12/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?And? I'm saying that your answers are not a valid response to OP's question. And that yes, if your hypothetical beta son was to receive this advice, it won't help him and he will continue in his path to inceldom. Nowhere am I attacking you. That's called arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?What?!? I provided rational arguments and never attacked you. Please provide counter-arguments and don't play the vagina card. You're better than this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?Not at all. On the contrary. I believe I'm more important to her education than her mom. Her mom is an amazing mom, and nurtures her in ways I couldn't. I don't know where you're trying to get with that. Maybe just spill it out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?I agree with you, except for OP. His question is not necessarily deferring, but maybe aims at shedding light on how clueless/contradictory women are on this subject? Based on the answers he succeeded... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?All the women in this thread saying that it's the Dad's role... If it's true, it entails that: women should not comment about TRP, neither positively or negatively. Only men are allowed to judge it, based on whether it provides helpful advice or not. conversely, women should stop giving advice to men regarding dating, etc. purplepilldebate should be restricted to men women should not only stop saying, but actively criticize anyone who parrots that 'women don't need men' all women should admit th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?Yes very fair points. Becoming outcome independent is key. However it's kind of a cope out here: "being good with women is not something you can teach, you just have to learn to be yourself". It's a good strategy on the long run, a good principle to raise your kids. But for a teenage boy who is looking for concrete answers, and things he can fix, that's not helping. This discussion summarizes a lot of differences between terps and bloopies. Sometimes, you raised you son the right way, but things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?Yes, a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?Thanks, but I believe it reinforces what I'm saying: 1.) Model healthy relationships That's something you do when you raise your son. It's not an answer when you find out at 17 years old that he can't get a date. 2.) Teach him to cultivate self worth independent of women First, that's not really what she's saying, and even if she did, she's not really saying how. Concretely, how does she teach him to cultivate self worth? Doesn't say. Second, that's kind of similar to the mgtow response: "oh you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Women, if you're son was a beta male who's not successful with women or cheated on often, what would you do?I don't see how that answers OP's question at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Guys who have major confidence and charisma. How often do you notice girls getting intimidated by this?It can be a real problem. If you have too much energy/are too charismatic, this can happen: She starts to think you are out of her league, or She starts to see you as a man with too many options, i.e. a 'player', who will just fuck multiple girls and not commit. As a result she doesn't want to fear rejection, and she disengages. What you do is show her that you are willing to use your dominance to lift others up. That it's not all about you. Like a 'social comfort test'. Don't tone down your cha… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | RP Men of this sub: Are you actually successful and/or experienced romantically and sexually?Are you guys successful romantically? I consider myself very successful romantically. Actually it has gotten to the point where I get tired of unsolicited attention, and I started having a newfound empathy for hot girls, who have to reject guys all the time, and become bitchy because of it. did you become more successful after becoming redpilled? I was always doing ok, because I look good enough (although I'm not 'hawt' by any standards, I guess on a good day I'm an 8 at my very best). So I alwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 08:12 PM |
| 2 | What is the deal with porn hate?Yeah no quality man who has options is gonna put up with 8 dates just to get a make out session. On top of it he has to get hard on cue, if not he's discarded. /r/whereareallthegoodmen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?TIL that being youthful and innocent is being an annoying boys band stan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Will women and men ever see eye to eye on this - not having sex immediately even though she has beforeI propose this solution: Becky tells Brad that although she has had casual encounters in the past, she's not ready for sex with him yet. However, she tells him she knows how sex is important for men, and she wants him to feel that she's not witholding it as a weapon, so she offers to go back to her place and give him a handjob and/or blowjob. That way he knows that she values his sexual happiness. And she doesn't have to take her clothes off, and has time to ease into actual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?A woman who has lost her innocence and youthful ways is less attractive. She's jaded, she has lost her ability to be marvelled by the world, her features are hardened by life and she doesn't have the softness in her face and in her eyes that made her attractive. A man who hasn't lost this softness is, on the other hand, less attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Is it beta or alpha to get another man's girlfriend?Guys like you find this frustrating due to the high amount of time and effort it takes you to get new girls, so instead of improving your SMV, you settle down with one girl You have no idea who I am, how I am doing with women, and what my SMV is. Please stick to providing rational arguments, instead of attacking based on nothing, like a woman would. Also don't bring this amogging bro attitude here, only insecure guys engage in dick competition. If you read me correctly, I never said that you hav… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Do you think red pill tactics work better on certain personality types?Redpill techniques seek a feminine response to attractive masculine behaviour. However, modern women are less and less feminine, and therefore respond less directly to masculine behaviour. Modern women, as they have increasing masculine traits, need a weird mix of masculine and feminine traits from their men as well to be compatible. It's all about polarities. Personally I find less feminine women less attractive. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Is it beta or alpha to get another man's girlfriend?No. There are plenty of married alphas. Alpha is doing what you want, and not letting anything external influence your frame. Beta is acting primarily for external validation, and objectives that have been set by others. Getting married may be a stupid idea (personally I'm never getting married) but it's neither alpha or beta. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?there is only a tiny percentage of women who are open to the plate spinning shit and it isn't any of the healthy undamaged quality women. No. It's very common to see high quality girls repeatedly hooking up with guys they know are not exclusive. They'll string along for months, high on the feelings they get with this guy, and secretly hoping that they can make him exclusive for them. if a girl doesn't fuck on the first date then hard next is the stupidest shit That is the belief of only of a par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?You're mixing up different things. A man can lose his innocence different ways, doesn't mean that he has to have fucked hundreds of women. But you can't deny that a man is more attractive when he loses his innocence. The gullible guy who still sees life with his innocent eyes, doesn't get a clue, believes everything they tell him, can be taken advantage of, etc is repulsive for women. That's why women hate 'boys' and claim they want a real man. A boy doesn't understand the world, doesn't know wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 12:42 PM |
| 6 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.It's also of great diservice to TRP as lurkers believe we actively promote being shitty to others.. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.Sexual strategy is amoral the same way science is amoral. It's just a description of how things are. Doesn't mean you have to be amoral. It's your own choice. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?I think the main point is that more than training to pass the test, it's rather similar to 'untraining'. Women want you to be the boy you were before social conditioning, i.e. the boy who enjoys life without care, speaks his heart without fear of consequence, is playful and lustful, and goes after what he wants without fear of rejection. But the way men are educated nowadays produces exactly the opposite. From a young age, at home and in school, they are taught that their natural urges are wrong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?Yes you're right. It's not accurate. I would say though that men who develop an ability to fuck around get mostly positive results, and are usually able to mitigate negative results with time (namely they get tired of the pussy parade and when they get into a LTR they realize it's hard work too and make changes). I would say women get some positive results at the very beginning of riding the CC, when they feel alive, experience various facets of life, etc. But those are diminishing returns as lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?You don't understand TRP. And I get why you hate it with all your heart, if you understand it the way you do. You seem to imagine that redpillers are wannabe pick up artists who fuck skanks left and right (if they're lucky) and pat each other on the back. Instead of going back and forth endlessly, let's just put it this way. To seduce (not fuck, but seduce) a woman, you have to pass a test. Each test is different, as each woman has varying preferences, but the nature of the test remains the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?So you are assuming many things: that if a guy beds multiple women, they are all low-value bimbos that you are coming after a long line of other guys who have fucked the same girls that, ironically, guys who bed multiple women are 'sex-starved, loser boys'. I guess in your mind the nice guy who marries his fat Becky from high school and get starfish sex is a real man then. that seducing girls is nothing more than a 'basic biological function' which teaches you nothing. I guess we should just say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?Please re-read my comment. I never said that her asset is to 'be with one man', aka be a virgin. I never said a woman has to be a virgin. I talked about 'finding value in one man', which is about pair-bonding. It seems you are either projecting your own pedophile tendencies by talking about 8 years-old, or you're projecting your own intellectual insecurities by attacking this 'dumbest most outdated shit' instead of using arguments. Either way... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?The more a woman spends time on the CC, the more she loses what makes her attractive: her genuineness, her innocence, her ability to find value in one man. She gives away what is most precious about her, without earning anything in return, because opening your legs doesn't entail developping any skills. The more a man spends time plate spinning the more he gains confidence, character, the more he hons his social skills and gets the understanding of the world he missed as a boy, because social in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 10:50 AM |
| 9 | Is it time to let this one go?Spot on, except for one detail: talking about your sore pussy is not what virtue signalling is.. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Where would you place yourself on the 1-10 scale of attractiveness, and why? how does it influence your ideas about TRP?Your mistake is to judge male and female SMV the same way. Male attractiveness is a treshold of physical appearance, then it's status and alpha traits. For women it's mostly just physical. You're maybe a 7 in physical attractiveness, but your swag and/or status make you higher. You must be a 9 if you get 7s or 8s regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?Yes I think so too. It will be interesting to see how far the backlash will go in the upcoming decades. I'm leaning towards a multiplication of Blizerian types, everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?I'm late to the party but this is such a great comment. There is no 'conspiracy' indeed. What I believe happened is that history is like a pendulum, the way Hegel describes it. It goes one way, reaches its limit / breaking point, then swings the other way, etc. After the two World Wars, fascism, the celebration of masculinity and winners, the Wars' death toll and the idea of genocide pushed the swing in the other direction. Now everybody was being nurtured by ideas of love and tolerance, and und… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 06:46 PM |
| 3 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?I agree with everything you say. In this case if you believe I'm really holding his hair too much, take this opportunity to kick him in the balls while he's distracted. Everybody wins. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/19 02:36 PM |
| 4 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?I mean you're probably right on many accounts, you've definitely investigated this dude more than me. I just based my answer on this one post. Look, some men need to be kicked in the balls. Some men need to be empowered (yeah sorry about that term), so that they start believing in their own value, which is really the first step of being a man. I also think the answers here are not only about OP, others read and learn from it. Just repeating to everyone that they're worthless pussies until they m… | /r/askMRP | 20/11/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Her: "Perhaps later you can help me reconcile what you're doing about this in the midst of you having all these adventures without me and enjoying your time with your friends. Maybe you can help my brain understand that." The adventure part comes from this. Doesn't matter if he actually has adventures, the fact that this is her perception is great. Regarding the rest yeah you can look at it your way, he's imperfect and fat, and still acting childish. But he's making progress, and you don't help … | /r/askMRP | 20/11/19 12:33 PM |
| 10 | Do all high HB girls do this?Once you reach a certain point looks don't matter so much. You just need to look good enough, then above this threshold guys compete with frame or status. Good looking guy who is witty and has solid frame will always beat the male model who is just nice and a bit dull. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 06:47 PM |
| 8 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Have a hard stick when she does something bad, but promise and give big rewards when she does something good. The rewards can be emotional, for her it will mean a lot, and for you it won't be difficult. The moment she does something good, flip your attitude and be overly fun and energetic, and loving if you can. More than she deserves. Because if you're pushing and scolding her hard, you need to balance it with good feelings (it's all about feelings) at some point. Eventually, she'll come around… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:24 PM |
| 33 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Regarding communication: I think you're doing great. The fact that she realizes you have all these 'adventures', that she wants to fit in your schedule, etc. is great. Just one thing I would change, is stop asking her to be patient with you. Asking this sets the frame that there is something you're doing wrong and you need mommy's approval. If she asks you why you don't fuck her, just say 'I'm not feeling it'. Which is true. Regarding your attraction to your wife: why aren't you attracted? Is it… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry herWhy the hate? You dislike plastic surgery? Also how did you know I was ugly | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices?The sub has not always been like this, but in the last years it has become toxic, manipulative, and hateful. I agree. Still, it's just because discussions involve a majority of young, frustrated guys. The redpill ideas, at their core, are completely amoral, neutral. It's a shame they're getting mixed up with the later crowd. I might be wrong but I don't recall the sidebar material advocating lying or manipulating. If it tells you to 'fake it', it's always 'until you make it'. And yes, I believe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices?Yeah I jumped on your comment because I usually agree with everything you say, and you're obviously one of the experienced ones. But here we see things differently. I believe it is very important, even essential, to differentiate the redpill concepts, and its users. The concepts are Briffault's law; She doesn't love you like you believe she does; Branch swinging; Women communicate and respond mainly to emotions, etc. All of this is amoral. It doesn't tell you what to do. Then redpillers use this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 06:23 PM |
| 4 | If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices?I disagree. As I wrote above, TRP is amoral the same way science is amoral: morality has no place in the description and analysis of things. How do you bring morality in the description of the laws of physics, or the mating strategy among baboons? It is just what it is. TRP just describes mating mechanics in humans. Then users of this sub are free to use this information as they want, for good or bad. That's what amoral means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices?I disagree. TRP, at its core, is just a description of reality. Just like in the Matrix movie, hence its name: it just shows you how things are, it doesn't make a decision for you. TRP explains what women respond to, how the relationship market works, how the sexual market works. Then, you're free to use this information as you see fit. You feel you've been lied to your whole life? Welcome to the anger phase. We get it. You wanna spin plates and be a player? Here are the tools. You want to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Best thing ever.I agree it shouldn't be encouraged, just because it fits our truth and we believe the message is good. If we let it slide, we're no better than the other side, creating lies for a supposed greater good. | /r/MGTOW | 14/11/19 03:32 PM |
| 7 | If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices?Fair enough, I should take it to OP really. I just think a lot of the debate here is based on inaccurate representations of the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 03:19 PM |
| 13 | If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices?In TRP there is debate on these issues, and as the sub is amoral debate is welcome. But those traits are not taught at all as redpill tenets. Personally I'm full redpill, and I vowed a long time ago to never lie, never cheat, and always be honest and upfront about everything. I advocate for this in each of my posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Being an Interesting and Engaging Person is more Important than being Nice or and AssholeI, on the contrary, see it exactly like Mr_Smoogs described it. Was surprised by his accuracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry herIf she's a good partner, and they got the money, plastic surgery fixes almost any girl. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Is my marriage salvageable?You sound like a caring dad, I hope it all works out. Just remember that you wife will probably respond better to an emotional stimulus than a rational one. Hence my suggestion for divorce, but I get what you're saying. Good luck. | /r/askMRP | 24/10/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?I mean, since you partake, do you feel that when you roll you shouldn't go out and risk hooking up with someone? Because you have no control on what you desire? I feel it's a very nuanced judgement, and if we go in this direction we are basically going a towards a society devoid of any personal responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?It impairs your desire, not your judgement. You know you're making out with a male cross-dresser, you will remember it the next day, etc. Your mind still works just fine, you just choose not to listen to it. Imo it's not the same thing as alcohol, where you can basically hallucinate or plain just forget about what you're doing, lose control of your actions, etc. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out.Fair point. I guess it's not that simple, but at least you have a good head start if you're thin. I'm sure you can fix whatever else needs fixing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 01:52 PM |
| 1 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?Well I hope you're right. But I believe that the judiciary system will side with the woman if there is no proof of anything. I mean the fake rape allegations are proof that you don't need evidence to have your accusations be held in court. #believeallwomen | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?I don't know about the law, you might be right. But at least it's not socially unacceptable to hook up with somebody on molly, like it is to hook up with a drunk girl. Hell when people take molly they mostly expect to hook up. I also believe that molly doesn't impair your judgment, you just get more touchy-feely, but not at all a justification to cheat on your SO. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Is my marriage salvageable?The only chance of her changing is trough a divorce. Do it now, while she hasn't caught on your cheating yet. You can still have an amicable divorce. Once everything is in order, start enjoying life. Fuck hotties. Your wife will realize what she's missing out on, she'll get thin and sexy again, and you take her back. Or she won't, and you continue fucking hotties with your assets safe in the bank. | /r/askMRP | 23/10/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?Your last point is what sucks about the current legal system: if he can't prove it was consensual, she can't prove it was non-consensual, and nobody can't prove anything, the legal system will still side with her, because it takes what a woman says at face value. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?Yeah lmfao at those comments that genuinely believe the law will be of any help. OP has no case at all, if there are other witnesses that confirm she took molly, she can claim she was intoxicated and couldn't consent and he's fucked. As a side note, if you can actually claim that being on molly is like being intoxicated, similar to alcohol, then nightlife is gonna become a lot shittier... | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 12:55 PM |
| 13 | Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out.Yeah, just be thin. How is that a shocking requirement? Being thin literally boils down to eating healthy, which the whole humanity managed to do just well for thousands of years before fast food came along. It's very easy actually. A century ago, 'fat' people exhibited in circus were nothing more than a bit overweight by today's standards. Yeah, just be thin and you win at life. Not that hard. Compared to: be successful, be muscular, be tall, be charismatic, be in control, have your shit togeth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | LTR lied about n-count (expected).. how did I handle it?Everyboy is giving you shit but I think you handled it pretty good. You didn't seem threatened about the n-count, you just displayed that your bullshit-o-meter is strong, which shows you have some experience with women because only betas get lied to so easily. You also didn't provide justification for what you said, you just stated you won't be lied to again. All good by my book, as long as you didn't sound butthurt. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why you should NEVER marry (straight from the whores mouth)First of all, chill. I'm not attacking you, this is a discussion. It's ok to disagree. I do have a very strong code of ethics btw. I never lie, always keep my word, don't fool with the women of guys I know. But I also think that we western men have come too far in making everybody else's problems our own. Being a good person doesn't mean being a sacrificing lamb to other people's problems. If you choose not to sleep with a woman because she's married, while she wants to sleep with you, your sens… | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/19 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why you should NEVER marry (straight from the whores mouth)Why is somebody else's marriage so important to you? I can only think of religion that would make you hold marriage sacred. Marriage is a commitment/contract. It's made between the two persons involved. If you fuck a married woman, you didn't breach any commitment, she did. Why does it matter to you? (unless of course you personally know the dude, but that's not what we are talking about). Why do you take it upon yourself to not do what you really want to do, just to uphold somebody else's commi… | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | I believe wife is attracted to another man in our group.It's normal for 20% of guys. The other 80% of guys have never seen this happen irl and so they are convinced those are made up stories. Also reddit probably consists mostly of guys in the second group.. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why you should NEVER marry (straight from the whores mouth)It's way different to cheat on your spouse, and to have a fling with a person you know is married. Only the cheater is committed to her husband, whereas you don't have any commitment to uphold. If she chooses to cheat, only she is breaking a commitment. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | I believe wife is attracted to another man in our group.It doesn't sound like fantasy at all to me. This is not normal behaviour at all for a girl who is with a beta, but with an alpha they change their ways completely. If you're the alpha, and although you're with a girl, other girls will openly flirt with you in front of your girl, and your girl will openly acknowledge it. This NEVER happens when you're not a Chad, hence why it's hard to believe. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 01:46 PM |
| 0 | How to get out of the little sister/ friend zone?Then I was mistaken. If you can get laid, but don't get a relationship, it could be any of the reasons mentioned in the comment above mine. I'll just add that although all these motives are valid, men are very sexual and if a girl is attractive and sexual enough, they will overlook most of these flaws to be in a relationship with her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/19 03:03 PM |
| 11 | How to get out of the little sister/ friend zone?Not trying to defend the other comment, but I gotta disagree with you. All the reasons you list are valid reasons for OP not to find a relationship. But I'm understanding this post as OP not even getting laid (that's what a friendzone is). If OP was sexually attractive, she wouldn't be friendzoned. At the least, guys would try to fuck her at least one time, or keep her as some sort of friend with benefits (which is a whole other issue for OP). Either OP isn't attractive enough, or is attractive … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Dating someone below your market value in looks.Plastic surgery and a gym membership. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/19 08:52 PM |
| 8 | If traditional gender roles were so good for women, how come it is almost exclusively women who want to abandon them in favor of equality, while it is mainly men who support them?Let's dream of a world with no wars, no thieves, no drugs, no rape, etc Yes! Women can finally achieve that by holding rallies and creating the proper hashtags. We can finally abolish the police, it's not needed anymore. Thanks to women. Yay. Haha silly men who didn't think of it first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Girl opens her legs up for a guy on the first date, is absolutely shocked when he ghosts her afterwards. Alright boys, which one of you was this?I agree with you. Women use lies and manipulation to get what they want, that's their thing. Here we're supposedly raising alphas who don't have to manipulate because they have real high value. A true RP alpha should always speak his mind, and be consistent with his word. The guy in this story is a slimy pickup artist, who didn't have the balls to properly reject the girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | The N-Count and Pairbond debateI'm doing ok myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 04:29 PM |
| 37 | My Insane 3 Year Journey - From Short Hardcase Asian to SlayerWomen are more interested to see how you handle pressure and adversity than success. It's easy to be in control when everything is going your way. That's why, the more successful the man, the more they shit-test him to see how he reacts. But if you display frame in adversity, it's harder for anyone to doubt you. Let's say you're on a date with a girl, and you make a joke that falls flat. Or you trip and fall awkwardly to the ground. Or you get her to bed but can't maintain an erection. Or you ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/19 04:27 PM |
| 2 | The N-Count and Pairbond debateAn n-count of 20 is rather low by my standards -well it depends how old you are. Some party sluts have n-counts in triple figures, I guarantee they can't pair bond for shit. The thousand-cock stare. Anyway your relationship looks healthy, good for you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 03:24 PM |
| 82 | My Insane 3 Year Journey - From Short Hardcase Asian to SlayerThe newbie often focuses all his efforts on coming up with the perfect line for everything the girl says, which is completely wrong. The vast majority of issues in game would be solved by simply maxing out looks and perfecting TONALITY and BODY LANGUAGE. This is extremely hard to explain on text but the basic idea is that women don't really give a fuck what you say. This right here is a key advice. Real frame is hard to assess when you're the wittiest, most successful and energetic guy in the ro… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | 'Chivalry IS dead' (irl pussy pass denial)It's a disservice because it feeds this idea that either we make shit up, or that we're cringy neckbeards who have no social acumen. Whereas the truth is that most of us are normal, healthy men who could attract women, but choose not to. That's why I believe we have to be extra careful with sticking to reality. I'm glad you denied the pussy pass, but the grand declaration at the end is either fake or super cringy. My point is: just tell the truth man, it's on our side. No need to embellish. | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/19 05:09 PM |
| -5 | 'Chivalry IS dead' (irl pussy pass denial)Jordan Peterson talks like this when people are actively listening to him, which allows him to make long propositions that people can follow. I'm pretty sure that when in a social setting with absolute strangers, like picking a pack of beers or being in line to go to the loo, he doesn't make grand declarations. The fact that you take as an example Jordan Peterson, who is a model of long, articulate and somewhat complex thinking, supports my point. This type of speech is totally out of place in a… | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/19 05:04 PM |
| -3 | 'Chivalry IS dead' (irl pussy pass denial)I'm with you on this. This last line is fake, nobody talks like that in real life. Real story is probably OP said no and mumbled some rebuttal, and came here to embellish this with a well-thought, written response. | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/19 03:19 PM |
| 7 | 'Chivalry IS dead' (irl pussy pass denial)Sure rebuttals happen all the time. I was with you until the last line (the one I quoted). But this last line is too cheesy, nobody talks like that in real life, it's a line you've written. If you've embellished it for the sake of the sub, then it's your mistake. In the 1% chance you actually textually said that, then 1. trust me she stopped listening in the middle of it, and 2. it's cringy af and you lack basic social skills. Either way this is a disservice for the sub. | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/19 03:16 PM |
| 14 | 'Chivalry IS dead' (irl pussy pass denial)Me (deadpan): 'If by 'chivalry' you mean men letting women cynically take advantage of their good will and protective instinct while offering nothing in return, then yeah. It's fucking dead. Now get to the back of the line.' Cool story bro | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/19 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Extreme case of AMOGNah man you don't buy shit for a girl you barely know. You look thirstier than the amogging dude. The whole point of TRP is once you try to win or buy a girl's interest, you're already on the losing end. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 01:47 PM |
| 80 | Gillette says it is “shifting the spotlight from social issues to local heroes” after an ad delving into “toxic masculinity” caused a customer backlash.If Gillette loses significant market share this will send a message to other firms: don't try that shit again. It will also send a message to the mainstream media: SJWs is not the most powerful community. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Woman who ruined taxi driver's life with fake rape claim after drunken night out is locked up for three yearsAre you really this naive? | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Woman who ruined taxi driver's life with fake rape claim after drunken night out is locked up for three yearsExactly. It's funny how people still take what she says at face value. We men are so wired to trust everyone... She already lied and she's lying again. The real story is that she got shitfaced, she hooked up with somebody else during the night and conveniently 'lost' her phone so that her boyfriend wouldn't know, and then claimed rape from a stranger to absolve herself. Or she went home alone once again after a night out, and it finally dawned on her she hit the wall and nobody pays attention to… | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it more difficult to grow up as a boy or girl in 2019?I'm late to the party but I found this buried comment very interesting, thanks for sharing. The thing you mentioned about rewards is absolutely true, and it's a very masculine thing. We men don't mind doing the hard work and tackling a task repeatedly, as long as there is a definite reward system, and that basically you know the efforts you put in yield results. With modern women most men have no idea what will yield results (apart from the one obvious answer: money), so at some point they just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Both pills are trueI'm attractive and the world is all red to me. Actually it became redder as I was improving my SMV, because once you're attractive enough you see behavior in women that you wouldn't see otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 01:37 PM |
| 25 | Types Of FlirtingYeah this is old-school TRP, the good stuff: straight to the point, concrete examples and explanation of why they work. We need more of this and less novels about some anecdotal bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Are feminine people inherently postmodernistic?You're absolutely right. It's a great point and it deserves its own post if you have the time to dig into it deeper. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 02:22 PM |
| 9 | [31F] "Is it too hard to find someone I am physically attracted to, emotionally ready, and has the same sexual appetite as I do!?! At times I wonder if I should settle for less, but then I think I'm worth and need someone as special as I think I am 😝" Chugga Chugga CHOO CHOO!Fair point but don't waste my time having me click on pointless pics | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/07/19 01:45 PM |
| 2 | what are the benefits of meditation?Supposedly you should be sitting on the floor with your legs as an indian, but I never managed to do it properly. Truth is, you should find what works best for yourself, the position where your body feels the looser. Could be sitting on a chair. I don't listen to music, it distracts your brain. Listening to mantras can work, as they are very repetitive and can help you. Just find what works best for you. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 02:01 PM |
| 0 | How uncommon do you think guys that meet the typical dude fantasy (sleeping with very very attractive women consistantly) are? Do you think they even exist in a practical sense? What qualities do you think allow them to do so?I'm saying that because it applies to you apparently: you say such guys who constantly hook up with hot chicks don't exist outside of very famous or powerful men. I think you're wrong. Those guys exist, they cover most of the social economic spectrum (i.e. not only rich people), and they 'hook up' with hotties left and right. But yeah, probably you don't see it, just like the vast majority of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How uncommon do you think guys that meet the typical dude fantasy (sleeping with very very attractive women consistantly) are? Do you think they even exist in a practical sense? What qualities do you think allow them to do so?Thing is most people in this thread (and in real life actually) have never seen this happen, not once. So they're sure when they argue that this only concerns rappers and celebrities. To them it's just a fantasy. Meanwhile, once you hang out with the right crowd, and/or you SMV skyrockets, you start to see it a lot. There are guys out there who fuck all the hot girls. I'm talking constant random hookups, n-counts in the hundreds. It's just completely invisible for the average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | How uncommon do you think guys that meet the typical dude fantasy (sleeping with very very attractive women consistantly) are? Do you think they even exist in a practical sense? What qualities do you think allow them to do so?They're not common, but these guys exist. By definition they are the top 20% in genetics, the ones women lust after. Then, we have to skim out those who are just not interested in hooking up (there are a lot of them, since having constant access to sex devalues it), and those who got snatched early into a LTR/marriage. But there are still a lot of them. I've met a few of them, who had a different hot girl on their arm every few weeks, or who regularly had one-night stands with random hot women t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | what are the benefits of meditation?I started hard, under the guidance of a friend who was really into it. For a couple of weeks, he came to stay at my house, made me wake up at 4.30, and then sing mantras for like 30 min, do an hour of yoga, and start meditating just as the sun was rising. It helped a lot with 'opening the paths'. Once this hardcore meditation period was over, it has become easier to just switch off my brain and meditate for 10-15 min at any time of day, just like you do. I do recommend trying to meditate at dawn… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | what are the benefits of meditation?No you're right, actively thinking defeats the purpose of meditation. What meditation does for me is clear the path between who I really am, and how I experience the world. Therefore after meditating, my thoughts are clearer. I responded longer to another comment above if you're interested. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 02:40 PM |
| 3 | what are the benefits of meditation?When you start meditating, what it means is that you erase the outside noise, but also your inner noise, your thoughts. Basically trying to get your mind into a blank space. It's hard at first, but with time it gets easier, and one day you start finding something inside this blank space, something that is absolutely, utterly, you. I guess each person will experience it differently. To me it's your last, ultimate, pulse of life. Not your thoughts, not your heart, something deeper, that is at the … | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 02:30 PM |
| 154 | what are the benefits of meditation?Obvious answer: it clears your mind, helps you relax, focus, it builds your frame. Deeper answer: I don't know how to word this, but I'll try. Modern life subjects us to a lot of outside stimulus, and as we keep on growing, we rely on these outside signals to take a direction to grow. Meditation shows you your inner, real self, and gives you an inner direction for growth. Instead of growing following the flashiest lights and sounds your senses experience, your body now grows following your inner… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Why do some girls feel comfortable being a side piece?Short answer: the hamster. She has all the rational information regarding the fact that she's nothing more than a side-piece, but as she's attracted to the guy, she lets her emotions run the show and she hamsters away believing that he's actually really into her, or that he will eventually come to his senses. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | “Marriage is just a piece of paper. I’m totally committed to you without it” is just a line said by men who want to get their girlfriends to shut up and accept being a forever girlfriend.Them marriage is not the solution either. If the guy you dates goes nowhere, and all you think of is marriage, then you care more about finding security than finding the right partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | It shouldn't be that hard for RP men to spin early 20s plates in their thirties right?TRP - by its definition - attracts men who aren't fundamentally not attractive to women You're wrong. I've read many accounts of RP men who could attract girls but did not understand their irrational behavior, or men who could attract girls but couldn't keep them. TRP has been enlightening for us in this sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Men of PPD, tell me about your unicorns!I agree with you, it's not proof of AWALT either. I mean if my gf is shitty I'm gonna leave her too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, tell me about your unicorns!I didn't see anything in your post that warrants NAWALT. If a conflict arises between her reason and her feelings, won't she choose her feelings first? Because that's what AWALT is. The cheating, dishonesty, are just possible consequences of this main characteristic. The fact that she's loyal doesn't mean that she isn't an emotional being first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 01:55 PM |
| 9 | Men of PPD, tell me about your unicorns!You make it sound like AWALT is just coming to the realization that women can be shitty people too, whereas it's not just that: Feelz before realz, the fact that they'd rather have negative feelings than be bored, don't trust what she says but watch what she does, covert contracts, how they appreciate you more when you're valued by other women, etc. All are those typical female traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 01:50 PM |
| 5 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)To use your metaphor: sex is when your foot is finally completely in the shoe you're trying, and you're actually walking. No way to know which one to buy if you haven't had sex. Dates are just you checking the look and price tag of new sneakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you aspire to be a leader of men or a fucker of women?N-count is around 110 but I got satisfied way before. I kept chasing out of habit, even if I knew I had better things to do... It's hard to rewire the dopamine channels. Also obviously the less you care the easier it gets. Now in a happy ltr and focusing on my mission. How bout you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you aspire to be a leader of men or a fucker of women?Same here. At first my goal was to become a fucker of women, as herein laid my main frustration. With time came a greater understanding of things, and now that I've fucked enough to quench that thirst, I'm less interested in that, and aspire to bigger things. I think you can escalate the male hierarchy, it's just in a totally different level. The only difficulty is really regarding morals, because lying and cunning make it easier to get pussy, whereas male hierarchies value virtue and righteousn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Bored of sex in LTRYou sound like Blackdragon. Which is a compliment. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What's the most alpha thing you've ever done?I can't think of one big thing, but I've spent years not shying away from decisions, always owning up to my shit (and my mistakes), and generally trying to care about others and lift them up. Best compliment I've ever received was from a friend, who told me randomly that if there ever was a war, he hoped I would be the one in command above him. He couldn't think of anybody better to trust his life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:53 PM |
| 8 | What makes men fall out of love for their wives?Man marries hoping that his wife won't change, is disappointed. Woman marries hoping her husband will change, is disappointed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 04:08 AM |
| 6 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?Conspiracy. You keep using that word, but I'm not sure you know what it means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:56 PM |
| 9 | Really bad at sexYeah great advice. A lof of guys (me included) have better erections as they spend more time with the same girl. It's like our dick needs to get used to her.. OP listen to this. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to men randomlyI would rather focus on being myself. I don’t plan to spend any time thinking about how I’m making a girl feel about herself. I absolutely agree with this. We can understand how women function, without having to necessarily pander to it (that's PUA for me). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to men randomlyAttractive guy with weak frame and a mullet in the 80s --> she's attracted. Attractive guy with weak frame and a mullet in 2019 --> she lost attraction. But it's exactly the same guy. He just makes her feel differently depending on the context. That's the example. The guy shouldn't have to develop frame for 2019, if he didn't need it before. She didn't love him for him really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to men randomlyLet's take an example. Girl growing up in the 80s is attracted to a good-looking guy with a mullet. She finds it cool. Suddenly she's transported in time to today's age. She meets the same guy, finds him attractive again. Until everybody else laughs at how ridiculous he looks. Imo most girls lose attraction right there. EDIT: only way she maintains attraction is if the guy displays a big enough frame that he owns up to his mullet and doesn't care what people say. Therefore she feels like she's d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to men randomlyI mean you're right, as all absolute statements, it doesn't apply completely to human interactions, which have many layers of complexity. It's still right in the sense that it's a key component of attraction for women, and imo the main one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 07:56 PM |
| 7 | The red pill is supposed to be about accountability, and transparency of the truth.Surely not. It's still the right thing to do. That's all that matters to me. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is supposed to be about accountability, and transparency of the truth.I hereby call out the mods of TRP to lift the ban on u/Gaylubeoil. It's not about him or his ideas. We shouldn't fall as low as to ban somebody for dissenting opinions (unless it's for doxxing, etc). That's the left and mainstream reddit. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to men randomlyIt's about how the man makes the woman feel about herself. That's why there are so many stories about women who completely fall out of love with a guy once something external happens to him. He loses he jobs, and now she doesn't feel love anymore, not because the guy has changed, but because before she was dating a successful guy, now she's dating a loser. It's not about him really, it's about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 07:36 PM |
| 17 | Good dread game or too far? - Posting group photo with an attractive girl while in an LTRThe fact that you wonder that it could backfire is telling. You should be outcome independent, which means it really has no way of backfiring. Either you guys agree, or you don't agree to the point that she's out, and you find somebody else more compatible with you. The real question is does she post pics like this, are you ok with her doing so? If you post it, it should be ok if she posts a similar pic in the future. Apart from that do what you want. If you post it and she throws a tantrum, be … | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else realized how awful their mother is?This. Some women are pure evil, some are just human beings. But even the not evil ones still display awalt behaviour, and it's eye-opening. My mom is a nice person, but you can't really trust what she says because she'll change her mind 180 a week later. Circumstances get the best of her. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/19 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.I'll try once again. You're saying that sex is not a real need, because you don't need it for survival I point out that then the only things that are needs are food and shelter, and nothing else is a need. No clothes (as long as you're not cold)? No books? I point out that love, although you can live without it for a period of time (so it's not a survival need either), is still very important, especially for kids. But again, by your 'survival' standards, love isn't a need either. You still don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.You're not answering to the questions. How many people pay alimony doesn't have anything to do with the fact that, by your standards, anything that isn't absolutely needed for survival is 'not a need'. I was pointing out the ridiculousness of it. Still, you should know that this % of 'alimony' only refers to alimony after legal proceedings. In real life the majority of men pay something to their ex without having gone through trial. Because going to trial will have the same results (on top of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.By this reasoning, alimony should ONLY cover food and shelter, because those are the only real needs. We could even leave kids go around naked, as clothing is not a "real" need. Also, I've seen studies (too lazy to look for them) that show that babies who don't receive love (like orphans for example) have a higher risk of developing sicknesses. Would you then agree that 'love' is a need? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Honk honkEverything I love about the Coen. So good. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | She was born in '92 and she's loud and obnoxious, but I love her 😎Renault Briffault | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/19 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Handling a Fearful-Avoidant WifeI didn't even know this was a thing, but you described my girl to a t. She loves me so much than when things are too good she feels unworthy of me and that I'll leave her. I've come to the same best responses as you, by trial and error. One thing I learned from you post is that I should always be 'demanding' more. I really don't need anything more but I've noted that she actually enjoys having to improve, it's like it channels her fears. Anyway great post, but it's gonna be wrongly applied by mo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/19 11:42 PM |
| 13 | Tinder first date, end up at my place, everything's going fine, she smokes weed daily and asked to smoke from my bong, next thing you know she's vomiting and shitting on my couch...Yeah I mean definitely you have to learn a lesson here, but at the same time women get away with this shit because we never do anything about it. If the genders were reversed she woulf be calling him out in front of everyone. It's a couch she destroyed, not a fucking towel. I'd be pissed and make her pay. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 11:26 PM |
| 3 | When you think you've landed yourself an Alpha Bucks but he is nothing more than a manipulative Alpha FucksAlso he speaks like a retard. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 18/05/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV Sometimes it really does seem like men have more honor and integrity then women.I disagree. Some men are assholes because they're weak, but they know what they're doing. A lot of women just don't care. As long as the consequences don't affect them they don't even think about what's right or wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 04:51 PM |
| -1 | [Discussion] "Men will date a nice lower class woman"What are your arguments for marriage? What has love to do with all this? Also, sorry to break this to you, but marriage is increasingly a thing of the past, especially for high value guys like me. At least half of my friends are on the same wagon, they will never get married. And still, all these high value girls are chasing us. The hot UMC chick I was dating before would kill to be my gf, rather than being married to a chump, which seems to be the alternative. You are one of these women who put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: you CAN be a very successful woman while being feminine at the same time.Being successful in your career = being focused on the daily goal, no being derailed by empathy, leaving your emotions at the door Not what I look for in a feminine partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 02:33 PM |
| 0 | [Discussion] "Men will date a nice lower class woman"I'm the perfect counter-example for this: I come from relatively good upbringings, and I'm high-value on the SMP. I dated a lot of high-class women and to me, most of them were these strong independent women we redpillers hate. Although they were hot, they hated being appreciated for their looks or, God forbid, for how they treated their man. They felt entitled and never treated me well. They all had careers that paid good money, which in turn helped them fuel their shopping and instagram frenzi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 02:03 PM |
| 17 | Found LTR on tinderGreat comment. Giving women logical reasons and causes for everything is basically giving them the keys to our hearts (they already have the keys to our dicks). It's giving them absolute power. And absolute power corrupts absolutely. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone remembers Bonecrker?Yeah I think I went through all of it. Thing is, most posts are 1 or 2 paragraphs long, so in a quick glance on the topic you know if you should move on to another one or read with interest. There was one gem there (I think I read it there), which was that women treat work as a hobby they do with friends, and they expect to have a good time and get along with everyone, whereas men treat work as a task and a responsibility, and are just trying to get it done. That explains a lot imo. Read the tit… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/19 01:27 PM |
| 11 | Is it worth AMOGing my ex's rebound?Don't AMOG anyone under any circumstances, period. Only exception is when somebody comes at you and shows disrespect or wants to fight, then you respond. But then it's not really amogging, isn't it, you're just standing your ground. If you need to make somebody else look small to appear big, you're not that big. Real Alphas lift others up, they lead by example. You wanna grow from this: be nice to the dude (unless he's a douche), congratulate your ex, and move on. Show her you don't care, you ha… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend says he never wants to get married??You're drawing a lot of conclusions: Nowhere does OP say that she isn't heavily in debt. Nowhere does she talk about what type of career she has, and what major she or her boyfriend will graduate in. Finally, you don't know if she is actually supporting him. Maybe he gets money from his family. Even if she is supporting him, the fact that you put 2-3 years of possible financial burden on the same level as being divorce raped in 10 years and losing more that half your assets shows you don't under… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Great night... and then coke dick. What should I do?She's not a 10 She won't be back because women make really hasty conclusions. You could be the perfect man but God forbid you weren't on top of your game this one night. I understand if you want to prove a point though. I've been there. Then you gotta push a little, fuck her good, then ghost, just to let her know what she's missing by writing you off so fast. Or, you could just move on. You don't have to stroke your ego every time you fail, just to prove something. I came to this conclusion too … | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 04:00 PM |
| 2 | You cannot be pro-male and pro-female. The sexual and relationship market places are a zero sum game. To want better for one sex, is to want things to be worse for the other.TRP is not demanding girls to be subservient. Actually the current state of affairs, although detrimental to society as a whole, heavily favours redpillers over everyone else: we get to have lots of sex without being forced to pay for it with commitment. When we finally decide we want a stable, commited relationship we get it easily. The losers are really women, because yes they get to be free and have fun and later on form a family with a nice beta, but they end up miserable with this beta. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 06:03 PM |
| 4 | You cannot be pro-male and pro-female. The sexual and relationship market places are a zero sum game. To want better for one sex, is to want things to be worse for the other.Exactly. Men wanting women to pair bond at a young age and form a family may sound detrimental to women on the short run (they can't find themselves through many experiences, and they give up part of their independence and power to their man), but is beneficial to everyone (including them) on the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 05:29 PM |
| 50 | Anyone remembers Bonecrker?Not everything is wortwhile, but there are definitely a lot of gems in these posts. Also, the writing is clear and concise, it gets to the point, which is appreciated. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/19 02:07 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Being wanted for youth is like being wanted for moneymales don't follow briffault law. If a woman gives me her best years, she earned my support and loyalty after those years are over. Absolutely, this is a MAJOR difference. If a woman has supported her man and giving him her best, he won't bail just because she got normally old. Women live in the present and mostly choose their best available option at the moment. Then their hamster rationalizes away their choice. On the contrary men live with a very acute sense of duty, and we have a very hard t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 01:38 PM |
| 2 | This cartoon may have been posted before. If so, I apologize. Regardless, the truth of this cartoon is painful.How did you figure out he's 25? Post history? | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Is Joe Rogan a good example of masculinity cuz he blends it with liberal and open minded and sensitive traits too?He's an alpha allright. Not because he fucks bitches all day, but because he has a set of rules he abides by, he thinks for himself, and he doesn't let anyone else tell him what's right or wrong. He's also open to discussion with everyone, but always speaks his mind. He also never forgets to have fun. I disagree with some of his ideas, but if everyone was like him we would be much better off. Also, as a true leader should, he uses his power to lift people up. He gives genuine compliments to all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/19 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever dated a girl who earns more money than you? What was it like?I did. High executive girl who earned 6 figures in her early 30s. When we went out, she would be buying half the time, which was nice, but as she had money she also wanted to go out a lot, and to fancy places. All in all I didn't spend less. She did invite me to a week of caribbean vacation, all costs covered, but I didn't go as I was moving on to another chick. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to get total devotion: Frame Control GuideYeah she will suddenly have a phone charger always on hand, and will cut conversations short with flirting dudes, just so that there is no risk to look bad in your eyes. As it should be. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltrWhatever you choose to do, good luck to you both! | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltrEven if she doesn't get anything in terms of alimony, it still gives her a lot of power in case you guys split up. A friend of mine had to go to great lengths (and spend a lot on lawyers) to convince his wife to sign the divorce paper. And she had been the one cheating. In your case, if you do get married and get the house, in case of divorce she will stay in the house with your kids if you have some, and if there are payments to be made still, you will have to make them. Better own everything e… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:56 PM |
| -4 | Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltrI found a unicorn. Most gorgeous girl I've ever laid my eyes upon, great and caring heart, absolutely trustworthy (I've tested her for years), and will be a great mom when we have kids. Yet I'm never marrying her, and she knows it. Why would you marry? You have nothing to gain (or very little) and so much to lose. Even your perfect girl, once the going gets tough, will have friends telling her to divorce you and get the money and easy life, and it maybe will be the little incentive that will des… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:01 PM |
| 18 | How to get total devotion: Frame Control GuideSticking to your guns when you know you're in the right is absolutely essential, and also a first step. Most men, even knowing they're right, will still apologize to their woman because they're either afraid of losing her, or are too moved by tears (women are so good at crying, it's unfair for us good-hearted men). What's more difficult is sticking to your guns when there is no certainty of who is in the wrong. For example: she said she would call but went dead silent, claiming later that her ph… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolThey don't mean attraction necessarily. They're a test of character. Some girls do it to establish whether you're deserving of her attraction. But for other girls, it's a natural way of acting and they shit-test almost every man. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/19 05:50 PM |
| 15 | Anybody heard of the podcast called Call Her Daddy? I feel like they’re opening confirming red pills as slutsSame here. Also it looks scripted, like it's written by dudes and for dudes, and they get two hot, vapid chicks to deliver the content. For redpillers it's all really basic, nothing to learn. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolIt's good you're at this place where you can see women for what they are but also appreciate them. Good for you man. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever dated or been in a relationship with someone more educated than them?I'm highly educated (several diplomas from famous universities), speak several languages, and I'm dating a girl who just finished high-school and she only speaks her mother tongue. The fact is, it took me a long time to accept this difference. I split up with her for this reason, a few years back. I couldn't imagine not growing apart with such a difference. But the truth is, a big part of it is social programming: your family, friends, and yourself, start feeling like your partner should meet a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolThat's different because it's not a specific trait, it's more of a general assessment of who you are. I don't think there is a comeback for that. Just disregard and move along. If somebody tells you that, you're not gonna convince them with words. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolNah don't get tested for Aspergers. Honestly most guys struggle with this, we don't calibrate well and come off as cringey. I was like that for a long time too. If you struggle with it, try to do less. One mistake we make is trying to think of the perfect comeback, because really we're scared that the comeback is gonna fall flat, and that's it's gonna be awkward. So we overdo it. "Yeah I was a fucking midget in a circus and I was used as a sex slave all dressed in leather and my mom is an ant!".… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolCopying a response I made to another similar comment: Regarding 'you're so old', there are many ways to go about it, just mention you'll tell your Vietnam veteran friends about her, tell her you can't kiss her tonight because you haven't washed your fake teeth mouthpiece (or adult diapers), say your grand-kids will be delighted to meet her, etc. Whatever works for you and doesn't come off as rehearsed. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolI'm not recomending A&A as a go-to response for everything. That wasn't my intention. It's one of the different tools to use in social interaction, I'm just focusing on this one in this post. Regarding wit, that's weird because for me, adding "that's how I paid for college" makes it much funnier than without, because it kinda assumes the sale of the midget of the circus so to say, and adds another element to it. Personally I think things are funnier if they come with a story that you can deliver… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend said she was tired and I really persisted we have sex as it’s been 2 days.Ha thanks man | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend said she was tired and I really persisted we have sex as it’s been 2 days.Maybe you were rash in your way of expressing, but you did express yourself, you didn't bend over to her will. You maintained your frame. More than anything that was said, the most important thing is what she felt. She felt you didn't bend. She felt your frame. She felt you angry. Congrats, you're now more of a man in her eyes. Now, accept the meal and everything else as something that is the right thing for her to do. Do ask for forgiveness, don't say sorry. You're the man of the house now. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 04:45 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend said she was tired and I really persisted we have sex as it’s been 2 days.Cheers man. No, don't apologize. Maybe the delivery was brash, but you did nothing wrong. When you see her, do address the circumstances, because you're the leader. Tell her that, as you're exclusive with her, you expect regular sex from her, and that if she witholds from you it makes you feel like she uses it as a weapon or a bargaining thing. And that this is not what a relationship is based upon. Now, tell her also that as much as she is there for you, you are also here for her, and that if s… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend said she was tired and I really persisted we have sex as it’s been 2 days.Everybody is focused on what you did wrong, but nobody is giving you any proper advice, apart from 'read the sidebar', or don't be in a ltr. I'm in an exclusive ltr so maybe I can help. Let her know that sex has got to be to be a regular thing, always. In my case I do it to the point that sometimes I don't feel like having sex, but I kinda fake it and fuck her just to keep it in her mind that sex gotta be a constant. I'd rather have too much sex than not enough. When, exceptionally, she doesn't … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 03:59 PM |
| 5 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolI agree, social interactions are fluid and relative to goal posts we set. If you move the goal post, there is way less convincing to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | What are some red flags that YOU carry?High n-count Redpiller Already a dad Drugs Frugal with money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/19 03:29 PM |
| 3 | What are some red flags that YOU carry?Haha I like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/19 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important tool"That's weird you would say that, I was the fat kid back home in Somalia" "Thank you, it's a lot of work. I go make myself throw up in the bathroom after every meal. Just like supermodels" or "Thank you are you jealous? I can help you though, just gotta go throw up in the bathroom after every meal" "That's funny my mom says the same thing too. Then she feeds me chocolate. You got chocolate at home?" | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolHell yeah, it's really hard to make people change their opinion of you. The good part is that if they feel the need to tell you these things, it's because you're already ahead of them. They feel threatened, both in their own value and in the group's social hierarchy. Feel good about it and let them spout their childish resentment. As you said, worst case scenario there are always new people to meet who will judge you for who you really are. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolIt's a good thing, it shows that she cares about your validation. There is no go-to response, I think it really depends on the context. Usually, the best is to push-pull: give her a compliment to appease her, then tease her. Or the other way around. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolNo I don't. I think it's really hard to prove TRP by studies, because we're talking about traits that are on a spectrum. What we talk about here are masculine vs feminine traits, and TRP holds true to this. However, obviously both men and women often find themselves with a mix of masculine and feminine traits, so not everything applies all the time. Btw, I think it's equally as hard to disprove TRP with studies, for the same reasons. The best test with all of this is not to fuel empty debates on… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolCopying a response I made to another similar comment: Regarding 'you're so old', there are many ways to go about it, just mention you'll tell your Vietnam veteran friends about her, tell her you can't kiss her tonight because you haven't washed your fake teeth mouthpiece (or adult diapers), say your grand-kids will be delighted to meet her, etc. Whatever works for you and doesn't come off as rehearsed. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolI won't try to convince you on this but I will just say that men and women are actually very different and that generalizations do apply. For example, it's fascinating to look into male hierarchies of power vs female hierarchies of power. How does a group of women choose their leader vs a group of men. Men will clearly evaluate who is the best for the task, and then this guy is assumed to be the leader and no one questions him, unless he makes a mistake. Women will choose a leader more on her so… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolThanks I appreciate | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 12:43 AM |
| -1 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterI see what you're saying, everything is relative and everybody has a price. But I'm pretty sure I'd rather die alone than steal the girl of a good friend of mine. Also, do you have kids? There is no price for this, and that if you had to choose between taking your life or theirs, you'd choose yours. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolSure. Maybe I wasn't clear enough, as you're the second person making this comment. Agree and amplify is just one out of many tools for social communication. It's not to be used always, it really depends on context. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolWe men communicate rationally, so we're really hung up on the meaning of words. Women care way less about the meaning. They care about the reaction these words cause. It doesn't really matter what your comeback is, or how witty it is. It's not what you respond, it's how. So yeah, you can actually laugh and it's ok. It just depends on how the laugh is. It should be a genuine, light-hearted, uncaring laugh. One big mistake is men thinking we need the perfect, witty opener or comeback. But really w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 08:12 PM |
| 23 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterNah man, some of us actually do have a bro code. I've had the opportunity to fuck amazing girls who were some friends' exes, but I never did, it has always been bros before hoes. With money it's the same. One day you will find a few guys who are worthy of your absolute respect. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolI like it | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolshit tests are a good thing! Right on. Once you get it, being shit-tested is like being faced with the easiest challenge possible, with a trophy if you overcome it -which you always do. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolOh yes absolutely. Agree and amplify is one of the tools we use in social interactions, it totally depends on the context. I hope newbies are not interpretating this post as something they have to use all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 07:06 PM |
| 40 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolDude, you're 29. If you talk about adult diapers or the Vietnam war, you're not letting her think she's right. On the contrary you're dismissing her point by giving it no importance, by having fun. If you start taking this seriously, this is how you let her think she's right. Generally speaking the fact that you care about what she thinks of you means you're already in a losing position. She's the one who should care about what you think of her, not the other way around. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolAgree about the first part completely. It's not about the rational meaning of words, it's all about the emotional reaction they elicit. However you're wrong about the second part. Those are tests. If it was just playing around, they would choose other, funnier subjects. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:48 PM |
| 39 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolIt's not really about you being old. She knows how old you are. She doesn't care. It's a test of personality. If you were older, but fat, she would never mention you're old. She would test you over you being fat. The only thing she's assessing is how you react. If you take this seriously you are confirming that: 1. you indeed consider yourself old, because you feel like you have to defend yourself, which gives her opinion credit 2. you have a light skin because you let a small little girlie thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:45 PM |
| 37 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolDo other people have social power over you? If you're stoic, you show her that they don't. You don't care about others' opinion. Good. Now, do you have social power over others? Being stoic doesn't show anything in this regard. You're not engaging. I agree that the stoic response reeks of indifference, but it's not necesarily attractive. As a man you're supposed to be indifferent to the outcome, but not completely disengaged. You're supposed to say what you want, and not care if for whatever rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:39 PM |
| 34 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolYeah they're supposed to be jokes but we all know they aren't. They're testing you. We shouldn't get mad at it, because women are weak little things (both emotionally and physically) so the last thing they want is a weak man. Regarding 'you're so old', there are many ways to go about it, just mention you'll tell your Vietnam veteran friends about her, tell her you can't kiss her tonight because you haven't washed your fake teeth mouthpiece (or adult diapers), say your grand-kids will be delighte… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:29 PM |
| 58 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolTRP is not a guide about having the best comebacks. Maybe your story does suck. Without context it's hard to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 80 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolUsername checks out ha. Not amplifying works too, I guess it depends on what you're trying to achieve. We agree that the most important thing is to be unaffected by any shit test attempt, to not give it any value. Imo, agreeing without amplifying = 'I don't care about your opinion' Whereas agreeing and amplifying = 'I acknowledge your shit test but I can play this game better than you, so be careful' | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners?It is a perfect strategy. I'm actually pretty successful with women. Now in a happy ltr. You must be new to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/19 11:35 AM |
| 1 | To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners?Oh but she still can earn commitment! It's just that it takes more than sex to earn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners?Happy to discuss it if you provide something more than that. What I can say is that if a woman expects commitment because she gave me sex, then she precisely falls into the category of women I try to avoid: the ones who instrumentalize sex as a bargaining asset. I won't ever trust a girl who thinks like that, absolute red flag for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 10:57 PM |
| 0 | To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners?No. I don't see what it has to do with anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 10:03 PM |
| 0 | To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners?I agree with you. Maybe I wasn't clear. I wrote that women should look for a man that doesn't need them. But at the same time usually boys become men way later, in their 30s or even 40s. That's when they're most successfull, and most confident with who they are. I think women are wrong to look for these traits in a 25 years-old dude, because they will only get posers. That's why they end with abusive assholes, etc. If instead they looked for the potential, they could build something. Women's lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners?What I expect from a woman on the first date I wanna know if she's really attracted to me (not faking it). I wanna know if she'll use sex as a weapon or a negotiating asset. And I wanna know if she can pair bond with me. Obviously we must click personality wise, but I'm sticking to the primal, rp stuff. So if she plays along like she really likes me, seems attracted, but then turns down sex, it feels like she's gonna be one of those, one who uses sex as a weapon. It's not always the case, but mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Why do you care if people have double-standards for who they date vs marry?A man marries because he's being lied to: by his girlfriend who gives him regular, enthusiastic sex and eats a healthy diet and tells him she'll love him always with the same passion; by the mainstream culture who makes him believe that women are inherently nice people and that in case of a divorce his partner will look for a fair allocation of resources, and not take everything the law allows her to take (he stupidly believes that these cases of divorce rapes only happen to really rich people o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/19 07:27 PM |
| 10 | Women just want funActually the song was initially sung by a guy, and was meant to be derogatory towards women. Like: 'all these broads want is to have fun, nothing more'. Then Cindy Lauper took the song and turned it into a feminine anthem. A good metaphor of modern society imo.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or is reading MGTOW stories from 10, 16 or 20 something year olds, just doesn't feel right. I can not take any of them seriously. Am I judging too much? (by the way I'm over 40 and divorced)You sound like a 24-years old with a good and mature head on his shoulders. I wish I was half this man when I was your age.. | /r/MGTOW | 03/04/19 09:17 PM |
| 0 | “Polygamy” and open relationships, or “swapping”. How is this not cuckold tier?Mostly I will agree with everyone here: you're a cuck if you agree to an open relationship. Until you hit a certain age. If you're in an open relationship before, say, 40 years-old, chances are your girl has many more options than you. But virtually no girl is really that attractive past 40, whereas there are some guys that can still pull young hotties. What if your ltr, with whom you have kids, is a good partner and mother, takes as much care as she can of her body, but she still can't beat the… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | First real relationship, advice? Settle down, keeping the spark alive.This is from a man, so downvote this if this in not welcome here. I'm older but similar to your bf: redpill, had a lot of fun, and am now settling for family life with my ltr. My advice: your man will specifically judge how you treat him when he's at his lowest. If he does something stupid and his friends make fun of him, do you stand by his side? What about when he's weak? Do you support him in things you dislike, like playing video games or other things you don't get? Sometimes he wants to be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Modern marriage removes the ability for men to "cut and run" while preserving the ability for women to do so.Well, it actually sucks for your friend. Sorry to hear about that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/19 10:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Modern marriage removes the ability for men to "cut and run" while preserving the ability for women to do so.Good on you for providing some evidence, albeit anecdotal. Again, I've never seen it happen in real life. I'm all for this to change though. I want deadbeat men proposing to women, living off of them and then getting alimony in the divorce. If it happens enough maybe people will think about changing marriage rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Modern marriage removes the ability for men to "cut and run" while preserving the ability for women to do so.If it's true then yeah, maybe we are more scared than what reality warrants. Maybe I personally tend to notice the cases where the man gets fucked, rather than the fair cases. What I know is that I've never seen a case where the woman is the one who gets taken advantage of in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 09:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Modern marriage removes the ability for men to "cut and run" while preserving the ability for women to do so.That's not what happens in most cases. In most cases I've seen, the divorced man reaches an agreement to give support to his ex because there is no point in paying legal fees for a judge to tell you to do exactly that. There is no way out for men so they just slump their shoulders and pay. An honest way to be looking at it would be to see, in case of divorces, who receives money from whom, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Women of The PPD? Would you be upset if you're so asked for a praternity test?I'm loving the honey and sweetie pie. They add to how I picture you. I know you're probably not the epitom of the entitled sjw who will turn into a cat lady and hate men, but you're the closest I got on the internet so I don't wanna ruin it. Regarding the argument, we've already been there. You will tell me that nobody should ever do anything that they don't want to do, and I will say that in a relationship (and, god-forbid, with kids), that's exactly what you do a lot of the times. We can do it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Women of The PPD? Would you be upset if you're so asked for a praternity test?Sooo, exactly what I quoted. Your husband doesn't deserve sex. I also remember you stating that if you're tired you don't have to listen to his problems at the end of the day, if you don't feel like cooking ever there is no harm in always ordering takeout, etc. I'm sure I'm forgetting something else. Anyway I really envy the dude who will marry you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Women of The PPD? Would you be upset if you're so asked for a praternity test?I remember her from another thread. She didn't understand why she had trouble finding a deserving man. She also believed she deserves a lot of things, but her would-be husband doesn't (especially not sex). It's fun to see those specimens in the wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Women of The PPD? Would you be upset if you're so asked for a praternity test?It's not accusing. It's the exact same thing: making an inquiry. Only that with the paternity test the inquiry the results of this inquiry are 100% trustworthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 06:41 PM |
| 21 | So she finally cheated [LTR]YOU ARE SO REGRESSIVE AND PATRIARCHAL Are there really people who talk like that in their day-to-day life? I believe that internet warriors write it, but actual students on a college campus? Scary. Jeez. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Marriage after Dread Level 12 (see also “Spin Plates with Caution” or “How to be Happy with What You’ve Got”)Lots of people are giving you shit, and I disagree with some of your choices, but I appreciate your honesty and your openess regarding your flaws. My guess is that most wannabee Alphas calling you a faggot are no better than you. Also, the question you're asking is very valid, and I think is shared by a lot of experienced redpillers: when you break the 'girl code' and can get a virtually endless stream of young and hot pussy, how can you get satisfied by committing to only one, and one that is a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/03/19 02:50 PM |
| 3 | As a man, how would you define a woman pair-bonding to a man? What does it look like?She also changes/morphs to fit the man's need. Not because he asks her to, but naturally it seems. They start to share common interests, but more importantly the same rythm of life. She's happy when he's happy, sad when he's sad, etc. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 02:08 PM |
| 7 | RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotterAmazing that I had to scroll down that much to find this. PPD is really doing its best to water down TRP. Obviously lifting is important, but if it was the only reason TRP worked, it wouldn't exist. Even more, if TRP was wrong the things it teaches would have NEGATIVE effects on your dating skills: watch what she does, not what shes says briffault's law ASD and how to overcome it the lightswitch effect and how women erase all memories of good traits to justify moving on the hamster and how we sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 01:04 PM |
| 21 | How do I make the first move without being creepy when a girl invites me to her home?This is awesome, patient advice. Very helpful for young guys who struggle with this part. You should make it its own post. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 01:25 PM |
| 4 | idk what to title this (19m)Women and society and general shame men for their horniness. Like we should be ashamed of it. Truth is that men aren't materialistic, so if we weren't horny we'd probably be happy to live on our own and following our own little projects. But being horny makes us enter the game and day-to-day struggle, and that's what pushes society forward. Being horny has led me get off my ass and improve in many ways. It's been a blessing. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:00 PM |
| 0 | GF cheated on meUsually I dislike self promotion but this was great stuff about the sex-parties marketplace. I'm experienced so it's not often I learn something new. I'll dig in further. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 03:33 PM |
| 2 | GF cheated on meThe article in the link you provided is great. Are you the author? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone heard of this before? What does it even mean?If you look like this guy you look average, nothing some lifting can't fix. However men's smv is mostly confidence and I can tell by this post that you cruelly lack it. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 08:16 PM |
| -2 | Why women with fake boobs are red flags?Agree. A lot of sluts have fake boobs (and love to display them) but not all fake boobs are attached to sluts. For some girls you don't even notive. I've known several good ltr girls with fake boobs. Also fake boobs are awesome. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | GF cheated on meIf you don't want to break up with her, you should test to see how sorry she is. I would ask for the following: you can fuck another girl on your own, without having to tell her she obviously can't fuck anybody else and it's her responsibility to clear any doubt ever (i.e. she should text you where she is etc) on top of it she owes you a threesome, she has to find a girl for you and the three of you bang Tell her she's on probation for one year and that maybe, if she complies, she's back in your… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 08:07 PM |
| 8 | What are some signs of a good girlfriend?Drama It's hard to find a girl who is not prone to drama once in a while, because in my opinion the more feminine a girl is, the more she is bound by estrogen which feeds the hamster. To me a good girl is not one that has no hamster (try manly women if you want that), but rather one that recognizes that her brain can play tricks on her and will therefore look for a man to lead her. Trust She should know what are the basic rules before you have to lay them down. Even if you've never talked about … | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Hollywood has brainwashed men with false expectations of how easy it is to obtain a high value partnernormal average joe guy (although they have been getting hotter) completes his quest and is awarded 10/10 hottest The important part here is completes his quest. Value for men is a bit about looks, and a lot about status. Completing the quest puts him in the top 5%. The false expectations are rather on the flip side, where average women get the top guy (like in 50 shades). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 06:36 PM |
| 5 | The maturity mythSorry I failed to mention that I started rambling on innocence and compliance after reading the comments that you made that you linked in the OP. I obviously agree wholeheartedly with what you wrote. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 04/03/19 07:38 PM |
| 32 | The maturity mythVery well said. As nature intended, man and woman are polar opposites. Their paths to grow should be opposite too. A teenage boy is insecure, seeks a set of values to follow, an identity. He often is too righteous for his own good, gullible and innocent to a fault. With trials and experiences he becomes a man, defines who he is, and from then on shall refuse to comply to anybody else's rules. He becomes a man when he stops being innocent and compliant. A teenage girl is very quickly aware of the… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 04/03/19 05:34 PM |
| 8 | My brother's own wife tried to cheat with meIt has happened to me (best friend's wife has flirted with me for a long time). Girls have this plausible deniability that allows them to flirt while looking innocent. "Hey I was just having fun talking to you! You're crazy to think I would flirt with you" Meanwhile she will be in your space all the time, touching you when she gets the chance, pulling her hair, giggling, etc. You know what's up. But if you call her up on it, she will deny it and make you look like a fool. So don't address it unl… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Your wife/ girlfriend tried something sexual once with someone else before you got together and HATED it. Do you feel resentful that she won’t do the same thing with you?I agree about deadbedrooms being probably filled with lazy people who have let themselves and their relationships go. But I know at least one couple of friends where both were in love, both were very good-looking, but the wife wouldn't fuck the husband even out of duty, because he was too nice. She was attracted to bad boys. Only when he left her did she genuinely start to desire him. At the end of the day, as reddit is anonymous, we all here talk out of our little anecdotal experience. I myself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Your wife/ girlfriend tried something sexual once with someone else before you got together and HATED it. Do you feel resentful that she won’t do the same thing with you?You're right but love is such a volatile thing that it's like a cherry on top that only a few couples experience. My guess is that most couples feel some kind of attachment for each other but it's not the love that you mention. Definitely not the love that makes wives fuck their husbands even though they don't feel like it. See deadbedrooms with all these wives claiming they love their husbands but won't touch them.. I guess that's why TRP disregards love as we have much less control over it tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Q4Men: Your wife/ girlfriend tried something sexual once with someone else before you got together and HATED it. Do you feel resentful that she won’t do the same thing with you?To be honest I never really experienced it. Before TRP I just had a handful or relationships and was young, and since then I guess I never put myself in this situation. But I've seen it happen to several non-redpill friends who told me about it, and then there are all the other guys who don't talk about their sex lives, but you can tell by the way they talk about their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 08:16 PM |
| 18 | Q4Men: Your wife/ girlfriend tried something sexual once with someone else before you got together and HATED it. Do you feel resentful that she won’t do the same thing with you?It's not about personal preferences of some random dudes on the internet, it's about what TRP preaches. It preaches that women go to great lengths to please the man they really desire, but won't even put half the effort for the poor beta who has committed to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 03:19 PM |
| 55 | Q4Men: Your wife/ girlfriend tried something sexual once with someone else before you got together and HATED it. Do you feel resentful that she won’t do the same thing with you?That's like a very weak strawman of redpill thinking. Of course if she reluctantly tried anal once and hated it, it's ok if she doesn't want to try it again. The problem is with wives who act like prudes, give starfish sex once a month and never give bjs, then you discover they were having theesomes with their Chads back in college and sucking them off every day. Sure they maybe hated giving bj back then too, but the fear of losing Chad was bigger. Now there is no fear of losing beta husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 02:54 PM |
| 3 | LTR Giving me the ultimatumMy LTR tried that shit twice. Once we were the two of us, she told me she wanted to marry. I said I'd never marry, but I was planning to spend the rest of my life with her as long as we were happy. Maybe she thought that peer pressure would work, so a couple of months later the subject came up again, this time in front of her family. Her grandma said that if I didn't marry her, she should find somebody else that would. I looked all the family dead in the eyes and said that yeah, maybe she should… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 12:34 PM |
| 3 | How should i react if the new girlfriend of my friend hitting on me?Yeah and probably as a result of this peacocking and your cool behaviour, his gf gets even more attracted to you... You should talk to him, tell him you don't want anything to do with his girl. Tell him you have his back, but he needs to stop with the snarky comments. He feels threatened and if you don't stop this now he'll resent you. He'll never blame himself or his gf, because he's clueless. Give him time but if he can't understand all this, maybe you need better friends. Be patient though, g… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | How should i react if the new girlfriend of my friend hitting on me?Sorry I don't get it. How is he different when you are the 3 of you? Does he notice his gf flirting with you? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 08:02 PM |
| 13 | How should i react if the new girlfriend of my friend hitting on me?Girls have this plausible deniability that allows them to flirt while looking innocent. "Hey I was just having fun talking to you! You're crazy to think I would flirt with you" Meanwhile she will be in your space all the time, touching you when she gets the chance, pulling her hair, giggling, etc. You know what's up. But if you call her up on it, she will deny it and make you look like a fool. So don't address it unless you have undeniable evidence. If she crosses the line and straight up tells … | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | transexualsIt's actually pretty interesting. When they transition, most of them start taking estrogen to become and feel more feminine. As they take it, their mind starts reacting differently, and their horniness also changes. A biological male who has transitioned and taken estrogen will experience the following: increased mood swings and difficulty to focus on specific tasks much more emotional, for example they become suddenly sad for no reason horniness decreases, and has to be induced slowly by multip… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 03:15 PM |
| 63 | How should i react if the new girlfriend of my friend hitting on me?It has happened to me. First, if he's a real friend you shouldn't fuck her, under any circumstance. If you destroy a friendship over a girl you don't have abundance, and you're a shitty friend. Second, if it happens talk to him. Because if you reject her at some point she could be the one inventing stuff like you were flirting with her. Let him know who he is dating. In my case it happened for a long time, a friend's wife would flirt heavily with me. I discussed it many times with him, he was sa… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of attachment types? Do you think its possible to change your type?I have an insecure-anxious attachment type Some bluepillers claim that redpillers only go after insecure/anxious types of women. And that this is why redpill stuff works on these women (because obviously it couldn't be that AWALT). I had never heard of these types before... And now it pops here. I'm just curious about the responses. (I personnally believe it's bullshit, I've attracted all types of women with redpill knowledge) | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despairWow you're a delight to talk to. Honest question: when I lay eyes on a woman, how do I know she's the anxious-preocupied type? I seem to be lucky, because the ones I find attractive are all like that apparently. Work, social events, tinder, etc. How do I spot them? I want to pass this knowledge about easy girls on to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despairSuccessful with all kinds of women. Respectable, high smv women among them. They all share the same core traits, the same way we men share the same core traits (although I, in particular, will maybe phrase it differently than to say women are mentally retarded). I think the fact that many successful men come up with the same conclusions about women once they have enough experience is pretty damn convincing. Finally you mentioned some studies. I think it depends on how it's formulated, and I'm pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Due to reading on pills, any other guys/girls out there that have just lost interest in romance?Well it's not like he wasn't interested at all before. He had dated you. Girls will go from you don't even exist to me to I will do whatever to be with you the moment you get a gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Due to reading on pills, any other guys/girls out there that have just lost interest in romance?Yet it's curious how we never see this situation in reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despairJust regarding your last paragraph: I completely disagree. Within TRP, we unfortunately don't have measurable surveys it, but I am very successful with women (and was moderately successful before TRP) and was baffled to see all its principles applied in the SMP. You focus on the guys coming to TRP who have no clue and post stupid questions, but fail to see the innumerable successful stories of guys who applied its principles and got the plates or the girlfriend they wanted. So much so than at fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Due to reading on pills, any other guys/girls out there that have just lost interest in romance?There is no rational mainstream/bluepill explanation for this. But for redpillers it's textbook. I'm sure it has happened to all of us.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 07:33 PM |
| 3 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despairI will address whatever you want addressing. Regarding your first point. Please kindly point me towards a few of those comments of mgtow guys who want to be "rescued". Really. Let's look at them together. Regarding the misogyny. If I say women are weaker am I misogynistic? No, because it's the truth. The claims of misogyny make no sense unless you can prove that what TRP teaches is false. The fact that is works so well is its own justification. Once again, you're talking from a moral standpoint … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 04:51 PM |
| 3 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despair10,000+ active users is proved by looking at the top right of the redpill sub. You don't seem to understand the concept of mgtow. Their motto is 'not going back to the plantation' under any circumstance, which is to say they would rather be alone than coming back to their bluepill beliefs. Also the fact that a couple of commenters asks you to convince him of the benefits of being in a relationship is actually a rethorical question. It's like if I was an atheist and asked you to 'convince me of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 04:34 PM |
| 5 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despairAs of right now there are more than 10,000 active users, despite the quarantine. There are way more subscribers than users, because once you've learned you have other things to do than reading the same things. What I'm getting at is that you may see people who react differently (some are crushed, some enter the anger phase, etc) but nobody wishes they hadn't learned it. Regarding what it is: it's the truth, conveyed in sometimes hyperbole or metaphors. It's not hard to grasp. Look, I'm one of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 04:09 PM |
| 6 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despairI see your concept of what an 'insult' is maybe clouds your ability to read my answer. I'm truly sorry and will try again, with nicer words: Hey, you beautiful soul, do you understand that your sample size of a couple of mgtow commenters who live in 'misery' (according to you, not them) is way less representative than the hundreds of thousands of redpillers who, once they have tried it, accept that it works for what it's intended, and who mostly use this knowledge for positive improvements (havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What differences did you notice in the way you were treated after having a big change in SMV?Change in SMV was mostly in attitude/confidence. Suddenly all the girls were ok with me fucking other girls too. Before that they were shocked and would have never accepted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I suspect a girl I'm dating created a fake FB account to see if I would cheat?First: if the girl is real do you want to fuck he? Would you cheat? What I would do is troll the girl, maybe tell her that you're actually gay and each time you fuck your girlfriend you have to think of Mario Lopez to get off. If she's your gf undercover it's gonna be hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | I suspect a girl I'm dating created a fake FB account to see if I would cheat?I suspect He has no proof. You sound just like a girl who gets mad at her boyfriend because she had a dream where he was cheating | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 01:59 PM |
| 10 | The misogyny of the red pill leads men into a hopeless dead end of despairconfuses a few MGTOW commenters with the whole redpill is pissed that people ask him to engage and present arguments proceeds to post a wall of text laying out arguments You're not really good at this internet thing. Look, TRP is so popular because it works. If it was some mysoginistic, stupid advice then people would try it and see it doesn't work, and the sub would be long gone. There would be another sub with other ideas that work, that help people get laid and, above all, understand women. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Does fake it till you make it really work?You start by faking confidence, it gets you more success. Then this increased success, along with the experience that you've gained, makes you more confident naturally. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 01:30 PM |
| 6 | I finally dropped a girl that I liked and it feels so fucking good.Ok now next time you see her don't act all butthurt. Be cool and awesome, and also hardly notice her. It's how it should be naturally but if you're not there yet, fake it. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 08:00 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with a female coworker whose advances I've rejected?Treat her as a kid. If you reject her she will pout and not work. But if you validate her she will jump through hoops for you. Make a friend out of her. Tell her she's not your style but that you get along really well. After the initial deception she will be thrilled to have a man of your caliber as a friend. She will already imagine inviting you to social events and showing you off to her girlfriends. She will then pull more than her load at work to impress you. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Where are all the slutsLook there are two parallel universes: the day world that most people know, that consists of having a regular job and a few friends, going out to bars and the occasional mainstream club, etc. Sometimes you witness a few hot girls that look like instagram models, but they seem unatainable. then there is the night world. The people still have day jobs, but their life revolves around the night. They go out several times a week to bars and clubs that you haven't heard of, take a lot of drugs, are in… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Just a little question regarding attitude towards other women while in a LTRI'm in the same situation: good with women, high n-count, but in a LTR and trying to always act righteously. Also really good at flirting, I guess because as redpillers we've been focused a lot on understanding women, etc, and so it comes naturally. But I don't flirt. Because it's disrespectful to my LTR and I wouldn't approve of her flirting. Also when you flirt with a woman you're giving her something that she craves: attention. We men don't crave it that much. So you're giving women something… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weirdI mean I don't disagree with your overall premise, which is that looks aren't everything and that an average looking guy can still pull good numbers. My comment was about the fact than getting matches on a tinder profile with a few selected pics and a good bio is not indicative of this theory. There is wide disparity between matches and actual fucking. Some women match without putting much thought into it. But overall I agree with you, personality and frame are as important as looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Boys, my friend is going to meet up with 10/10 psycho and I’m worried he is going to get majorly cucked. Advice?He's gonna fuck her. She must be hot and crazy to pull shit like this, she must be fun in the sack. I'd fuck her too. You can insist on a few things: absolutely wear a condom, and wash the sperm afterwards, or keep the used condom with you and throw it away later, or flush it (although I don't like that). don't give any more info (last name, address, etc). Be mysterious haha send a text the morning after implying you'd want to see her again, and ask if last night was good. She will say yes it wa… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 01:12 PM |
| 5 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameShe's already fucked him. if not she wouln't have cried. Also coming over at 8pm instead of Pilates is really an obvious clue. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weirdMatches don't mean much. Maybe it's because the good profile you made him made girls believe he had this amazing personality and life. Or maybe they were bored, or desperate, or looking for validation, etc. Let's see how many of them sent their number and location to fuck (like they do with fake nazi Chad for example). Also from match to meeting there is work, and even if you do it perfectly a lot of those matches fall. And even if some girl would eventually meet him she would be underwhelmed by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 12:42 PM |
| 5 | Hard next after revelation from LTRI dunno man, I think it depends if she knew beforehand what were your limits. The fact that she told about this coffee thing shows that maybe she didn't consider it wrong. Girls are clueless, you gotta train them. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Posting pictures with hot girlsAgree, it's best if they post it. If not, you can still post pics as long as they don't look attention seeking: pic of you and a hot girl, obviously posing, with a big grin on your face --> NO. Clearly attention seeking pic of you and a few friends, including girls, clearly having genuine fun? --> YES. The key is that it has to look like friends always, even if it's just you and a girl. Like even if she's hot, you seem not to notice that she's hot. Women live almost more in the perception of oth… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Can you take abundance too far?It's exactly what happens to young women nowadays. Through tinder and other similar sites they have so many options that they don't put enough effort to keep the best ones. They end up alone. My advice: don't fuck them all. I've done it, and it's not worth it. You only appreciate and remember the ones that really blew your mind away, the ones you were really attracted to. The rest of them, don't fuck them, make friends out of them. Having decent looking female friends is one of the best things: … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?I don't know enough millionaires myself, but I'm in my 30s and I'm worth half a million net (just counted my assets for this thread ha). Nothing shady around here, just controlled spending and wise estate investments (I've flipped a few properties, started little etc). Anyway even if you're right, and most millionaires make their money in shady schemes, that's a very defeatist attitude. Let's not even try on the assumption that rich people have a secret cheat code that we don't have | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:47 PM |
| 1 | She's coming at 5. 9 hours to make a shift.No not necesarily. It's not action by action, it's the overall leading. She's taking the reigns and being decisive and stating 'alright team, this is how we're gonna have fun! And now this is what we're gonna do!' So if she declares what you're watching, it's because that is what she can come up with for you guys to have a fun hangout. But maybe you can come up with something better? Like I don't know a trivia night at a bar for a change, or a fun game for both of you, etc. Doesn't have to be a … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | She's coming at 5. 9 hours to make a shift.A lot of advice her about how you should retake the lead. But the real question is: Are you a better leader than her? Why? You shouldn't lead just out of fear to lose her, but also because you're the best fucking leader there is for your relationship and household. You're more decisive than her, you're more fun, you improve the degree of happiness more than she does. If it's just being the boss for being the boss, it's just childish. You want respect, you gotta earn it. To me it seems that she l… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 06:47 PM |
| 6 | How can I take the Red Pill while being a good hearted dude.Being good hearted doesn't necesarily mean being a little bitch though. You can harness great power and great frame and still abide by moral values. In my case I've fucked plenty of girls since swallowing the pill, but I've also made a point to myself to never lie to any of them -or to myself. I think telling the truth and telling things as they are doesn't make you bad person. Somebody who lies to you under the pretext that's it's not to make you feel bad, is a bad person. If you tell the truth… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 11:54 AM |
| 68 | How do you guys deal with starfish sexIt's only a problem if you worry about her. Direct her, tell her what to do: "stand on all fours; arch you back; alright now turn around, hold your breasts" If she's not making any efforts, you don't have to make efforts for her. Use her like the sex toy she is, enjoy! You'll miss her when you'll be fucking a girl who makes everything about her and feels she's doing a show... | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Does a womans career matter to you when considering LTR?Most of us say it does, when in reality it doesn't. All the guys who are happy with their LTR would still be happy with their LTR if she was a wallmart worker, if all other things were equal. If money isn't a problem, and if her personality is the same, it's not gonna affect your attraction what your LTR does for a career. It can be a major inconvenience (for example if you have to pay for everything) but it has nothing to do with attraction. Whereas if you reverse the situation, no money proble… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 06:46 PM |
| 42 | Is this pairbonding? Something I noticed with LTR of 2 yearsIf a woman is really into you, she'll mimetize into what you are: you have a high libido? She'll turn into a horny little slut for you you have a low libido? She'll turn into your calm partner, giving you support and tenderness you're passionate about something? Suddenly she finds it cool too (seriously how many girls become fans of some weird music just because their man liked it..) you like going to the gym? She'll start going with you etc.. All of this only works when there is real pair bondi… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 06:34 PM |
| 19 | Sick feeling that LTR of 5 years has cheated. How I do I deal with this?Yeah even if she had never cheated (and we all know she probably did), if you respect your ltr you never put yourself in a situation where they could doubt you. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Would you give up The Red Pill for your dream girl?I'm with my dream girl, and without TRP I have less chances to keep her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Unknown dreadgame leads to affair vs open relationship??!maintain the open relationship with your wife. This way you're seeing the other girl and you preserve your family BUT, for it to work, you make sure your relationship improves with your wife. Doesn't mean necessarily more sex, just figure out what gives her the tingles. She will asociate the state of affairs with how she's feeling. If she's feeling happier in an open relarionship, she'll happily maintain it for you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/19 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?Yeah I had the same one-strike policy. I would even warn them beforehand: "don't lie to me. I have experience, I'll know. And don't test me either. I have no tolerance for this.." I would always hope that this one would be good, would be trustworthy. But most of them always ended up lying on trying to manipulate me, it was sad honestly. I do think this policy is good, but it has to come from a place of stoicism, whereas I was kinda pissed off. It's not good like that, you end up being disappoint… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?Completely agree. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 07:18 PM |
| 3 | [16M] Should I quit playing video games entirely?You look at it the wrong way. The only thing that matters is the result. Set goals for yourself (money? girls? passion?), and everything else has to fall in line with these goals. Are video games helping you to achieve your goals because they relax you a lot with little time spent? Or are they consuming more time and energy than whatever relaxation/stimulus they provide? Is there another activity that would be more beneficial? You decide. Just be honest with yourself. Same with everything else: … | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Forrest Gump was redpill afWhy? Is the book more focused on this redpill aspect? | /r/MGTOW | 15/02/19 02:30 PM |
| 7 | What makes young Western women's ego so inflated?Yes but their reaction to that insecurity is opposite: Insecure western men --> shy and introverted, don't approach and stay reclused Insecure western women --> hide insecurities behind fake bravado, and are so afraid to be rejected that they'd rather reject the guy first to preserve their ego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 02:12 PM |
| 13 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?Yes it depends on where you're at regarding patience and how much you're willing to accept. At this point I have zero tolerance for entitled princesses, so at the first display of overinflated ego she's either sorry, or she's out. I would have done the same as you. Others point that this was ASD and you could have defused it, sure. But with real abundance you don't need to fuck them all. Entitled bitch didn't deserve your dick or your time. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 12:42 PM |
| 19 | Chad 🇹🇩 the child molesterNah. Even if it was meant to be funny, any uglier looking guy would be crushed for this type of humor and get no matches. But because he's hot, girls will seek plausable deniability by claiming that probably he was joking that must be it. This example isn't about the 'black pill', in which incels claim that only looks matter, but rather about feelz>realz. If a woman feels the tingles for you, she will disregard any adverse conditions, which may include that she's already married to somebody else… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Honor, Loyalty, and Morality. Use them or throw them away.First, generally speaking the strength you derive from others is bigger than your own. For example, if you have to climb a mountain because at the top there is a medicine that cures your fatal disease, if the mountain is too high, maybe you'll collapse and accept your faith. But if the medicine is for your dying child or brother, it gives extra strength and you might get further. Also, it really depends on how we define righteousness. To me, it's doing both what is fair to be done, and what need… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 01:09 PM |
| 5 | Confusion on No More Mr. Nice Guy and 48 Laws of PowerYou can learn the tools (48 laws) and try to apply them in a way that is honest and congruent with yourself (No More Mr. Nice Guy)? You'll find all types of dudes on TRP, from the dark triads who think that all deception and manipulation is fair to get pussy, to the righteous guys who embrace the role of the patriarch and accept that they have more power and therefore more responsibility. Choose for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys do when you’re feeling down on yourself?Accept that you're down. I believe we go through cycles, just like women with their hormones, but ours vary a bit. In my case I'm going up for three weeks, down for two weeks, more or less. We need those down cycles, just like the heart needs to contract just to be able to expand and beat again, and just like nature needs winter before spring. Maybe down cycles are our way of settling stuff in our bodies/psyches. When you're down, just accept it and live it out. An error would be to look for an … | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 08:23 PM |
| 46 | Honor, Loyalty, and Morality. Use them or throw them away.Righteousness is what differentiate us from women. Don't undervalue it. The strong and righteous will always prevail over only the strong. Some women are righteous, they're akin to unicorns. Usually it's because it's been strongly ingrained in their education, most of the time by their father. A man can become righteous on his own, a woman will be taught to be righteous. Religion was a great tool in the past to keep women from straying. In your ltr you can teach your woman to be righteous. Women… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys pick up the check on first dates?Same here. Will also invite friends/family if they are less well-off, so I don't feel like I'm going out of my way for girls. Also first date should be just one drink or two, no dinner or anything like that. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 02:25 PM |
| 15 | Shit test adviceBy default, the right move is always to say what you think/like, no matter how it may affect your girl. If you want to get fancy, yes there are cheat codes sometimes, but the basics is to be yourself with outcome independence. So yeah it was the right move. Don't worry about her reaction. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:58 PM |
| 6 | Can someone with experience explain why eventually you have to quit drugs/alcoholYeah thanks, I appreciate it. Coke is the only one that scares me a little. It's also the only drug (apart from cigarettes and alcohol) that I feel has absolutely no positive thing about it. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenI agree about what you're saying, with one caveat: most of hot girls tend to fall into the partying category. For example it's really rare to find a HOT 25 years old who doesn't have a big social life and is constantly invited to parties. Now, if this girl goes out 1-2 a week. On top of that she has her orbiters, the guys from work, tinder (because it's fun for her), it's not unreasonable to accept she fucks a new guy every 3 weeks, maybe every month. Give it a few years, like between 18 and 23,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 03:10 PM |
| 15 | It’s immoral of men to have casual sex with women if the effects are as dire as they say.I completely believe that women lose their ability to pair bond if they have too much casual sex, and I live by what I say. Three years ago I met a girl like 14 years younger than me. We went out on a couple of dates but I realized she was kinda old-fashioned and didn't have a lot of experience. I could also see signs of attachment that were beyond mere interest. She desperately wanted to pair-bond with me. So I didn't fuck her, out of a stupid sense of responsibility. Although she was really at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 02:37 PM |
| 7 | Can someone with experience explain why eventually you have to quit drugs/alcoholcoke mdma shrooms lsd pregabalin aprazolam | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 02:26 PM |
| 14 | Can someone with experience explain why eventually you have to quit drugs/alcoholI'm in my late thirties. I'm still a regular drug user. I smoke weed almost every day (although very little), and I do a variety of hard drugs regularly. I'm also in better shape than I've been in the last 10 years, have just been promoted at work, and am in a happy ltr. I think it's different for everyone. The key is to not lie to yourself. I could tell myself that drugs are doing me good, but it can only be true if my improvement is concrete and measurable. I hold myself to that standard. If m… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe having a high N-count effects men and women differently?This. High n-count fucks pair bonding for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenIt's not the sex they're after (like guys). It's the fun and the novelty. Long term they obviously want to hook a high-smv guy but they wait a bit too long. They get caught up in the partying lifestyle and seem to be able to get any guy to fall in love. So they stay single, confident that when the time comes they will get Mr Big. But they wait too long. That's exactly why men are mad and come to these forums: they all have seen the beautiful young girls who get addicted to fun and validation and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenMy sense of hot girls' lives is not overblown. I have seen it myself, for years. What you're right about, is that wanting the hottest girl means a lot of competition and effort. But I guess once guys see redpill principles work so well, they become less interested in the average plain jane that they liked before, and believe that with enough effort they can get the hottest girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenYeah hot girls could lock-up high SMV guys in their youth.. but they don't. They believe they'll lock one up anytime they want, so they just wait a little bit more, maybe try this new guy he looks fun, etc, until they hit the wall and complain that life is unfair. That's kind of one of the main ideas behind the redpill. And according yo my experience, it's mostly true. Some hot girls marry young but most of them don't want to give up a life of endless fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 09:16 PM |
| 4 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenHonestly, a lot of them. Years of partying and social life since my 20s. What I'm recognizing it that there are almost two crouds: the attractive, very social group, and then the plain janes and average bobs. And the first group has n-counts off the roof. They fuck a lot. They're invited to private parties, they go out regularly, you see them a lot. It's not rare to have n-counts above 100. Then the second group have more typical lives. They work, watch Netflix, sleep. The guys have a couple of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 08:01 PM |
| 0 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenIn my experience the high n-count is absolutely true for the girls we are physically attracted to. The hot, beautiful ones. The ones who go out regularly, because they experience the full experience of what it means to be a beautiful young woman. Then there are a lot of plain janes but 1. We don't see them much as they don't go out 2. We're not really attracted to them TRP is for the young guys who go to bars/social events/clubs, see tgese gorgeous women, and wonder how they can get to fuck them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 03:50 PM |
| 8 | She’s not interested in overweight men"Bait weight" That's brillant. "She's too fat and ugly, but would still bang for one night. She probably never gets approached, especially by decent guys like me. It's gonna be a cakewalk!". -every guy she meets- | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/02/19 01:51 PM |
| 7 | Making men fall in love - Your moves?My sister did the same.. Saw the potential in a guy everybody thought was not worthy of her, but who was absolutely crazy about her. She straigthened him up, and now they're the happiest couple, both believing they hit the jackpot. He cut his hair short, removed the nose ring, stopped smoking weed, and created his own successful business. Turns out he's awesome. And she's still his dream girl. That's how women should choose. Nowadays they want the finished product, but they don't realize they ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 05:00 PM |
| 15 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.That's an interesting thought.. How much do student loans prevent girls from doing the whole: get married young - have kids right away - be a SAHM ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Let's have some fun: who are your current plates, FWB, and LTR?I don't think new redpillers are interested about one guy being happy, etc. It comes off as bragging. They want concrete advice on how to improve, which I try to post. Bluepillers are another story: for them we are all fat neckbeards living in basements, fucking a few skanks and calling them hb9. They genuinely don't believe that TRP makes men -and their women- happier. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Married and divorced men of PPD--red, blue or other....It's not so much that we don't know about divorce laws, it's more that we don't know about women. Men are gullible and we believe the divorce rapes we read about only happen when the husband is caught fucking the hot secretary and has been an asshole to his wife and kids. We believe that in real life, if two persons loved each other but ended up not working out, they will try to find a fair agreement, such as all assets split in half, and joint custody. What we don't realize is that once the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Married and divorced men of PPD--red, blue or other....Yeah I want to hug this man too. Bluepillers here are disingenuous as fuck, nitpicking on some little words out of lengthy explanations which they don't take into account. And he, unfazed, continues to respond patiently and provide more details. He must be a great dad to his kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Married and divorced men of PPD--red, blue or other....It's crazy that bluepillers here are nitpicking regarding one or two words of your first message, but refuse to see the overall picture, which you've described perfectly clearly. They want to be right so much, they won't acknowledge what's in front of them, even if you explain in very slowly and clearly, almost counting apples and oranges. I applaud you for your patience, and I hope more men will learn from this and reject the whole concept of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:03 PM |
| 16 | Let's have some fun: who are your current plates, FWB, and LTR?Yeah exactly. After the pill I 100% make girls happier, and no need to tell lies anymore. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 11:37 PM |
| 46 | Let's have some fun: who are your current plates, FWB, and LTR?It's a fun post for a change! Also, petite latinas with fake tits are my thing. I'm now in a LTR, I have mad oneitis for her (guess what: she's a petite latina with fake tits). I've known her for 7 years, we dated a while and I broke up cause I thought she would be too immature for me (she's 10 years younger). Took her back a year ago as I realized I was wrong, she grew up to be responsible and trustworthy. She's a great partner. What I like in her: she totally adores me. She never plays games, … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | TRP made me a Lone Wolfu/lifeisweirdasfuck, this is the right answer. To expand on it: don't fuck all the girls you can. Early redpillers who have improved are tempted to fuck every hot chick they can get. Thing is, if you fuck her, it's really hard to keep her as a friend once it's over. Even as a plate she won't be inviting you to parties, or presenting you to other girls, as she wants you for her only. But if you don't fuck her, she will invite you everywhere as you will improve her social status. Don't fuck them, … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 07:25 PM |
| 24 | How to stop being submissive and start being more dominant?Read the sidebar You won't become dominant overnight. You'll start by faking it, for a long time As you'll be faking it, it will come out as butthurt or disingenuous, and you will get laughed at and rejected many times. Get used to it, accept and learn from it. Get your confidence up by taking care of your body. Lift (I should have started by this), eat right. You'll need abundance. Fuck uggos if you have to. Learn how to be a girl's alpha. Move up the ladder, get better girls as you improve. Be… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 25 | Oh no, Can't do thatDon't apologize, you're right, despite the downvotes. Forced equality of outcome, as liberal and feminists want it, is bullshit. But we must preserve equality of opportunity. Let the small Korean try out for the NBA. | /r/MGTOW | 30/01/19 06:24 PM |
| 12 | What's the most selfish and solipsistic stuff a girl has done to you?Your examples are really no big deal, you should feel really lucky to have only suffered from that. It'll get worse, trust me. An example that happened to a close friend of mine was that he was in a dead bedroom with his wife. She didn't desire him. She asked to go to Australia for 5 months to take a break and 'find herself'. He agreed to the break and even paid for her expenses. He was devastated. She fucked 15 men there (she told me). In the meantime he dated three girls. He wrote to her a few… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Exclusion behavior by groups of womenYeah man I hear you.. There are some crutches more difficult to overcome than others. But you have a healthy attitude about it, so you'll be ok. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Exclusion behavior by groups of womenThis is a sign they consider you low-SMV. Even if they don't have any ground to do so, if they find a male or female with low SMV they will openly treat him/her poorly in front of their friends as a way to give themselves social points ('Look at me, I'm so badass'), and to bond within the group a bit further ('We all agree this dude was lame, right?'). They only do this if it carries no risk, i.e. when they're sure you're low SMV. Improve. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Sex while she is on her period?Only time of the month I trust myself to cum inside. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Grass is Green: Tattoos Are A Slut TellIf we define sluts by women who give it up easily, I don't think it applies. I know a lot of women with fake tits who have a low n-count. Thing is, you only notice the ones who have their huge fake tits on display. Those ones are usually sluts. But fake tits are more widespread than that, it's just that the other ones are more shy about it and we don't notice them. Also, it's very relative regarding to culture. In Europe it's very rare to spot fake tits, although there are a lot of them, but the… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/19 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Grass is Green: Tattoos Are A Slut TellI respect your opinion although I disagree. I wouldn't want to convince you, it leaves the rest of us with more women with awesome boobs! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/19 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Grass is Green: Tattoos Are A Slut TellDisagree about fake tits. Now they're super common, all across social classes. Some classy girls have them too. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How did you get into your ltr?She was my neighbour. I think the first time we dated, she was a plate for like 6 months, then I said I was good being exclusive. I knew she was waiting for it and she beamed when I told her (not asked her). After a couple of years I broke up because I believed she was too immature and wouldn't be a good partner for long term (she's 10 years younger). Broke contact for 3 years. Then saw her again, turns out I was wrong: she had grown to be very responsible and trustworthy. We hit it off very str… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | How did you get into your ltr?Well said about the emotional ride they need. If we can't provide it to them, they'd rather date a complete asshole, or create drama, or cheat, just so that can feel something strong. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:41 PM |
| 0 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeThat was my point. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 11:20 AM |
| 10 | How did you get into your ltr?It's a very valid question: to bond with a girl and develop a ltr that is based on trust and partnership you need to open up and show your true colors, at least to an extent. How do you maintain frame and dominance if you show that? The answer is that in the first phase after swallowing the pill, you fake and progressively improve your alphaness by showing no flaws, by being unshameable, etc. Your frame is solid because it seems to be perfect. But the second phase is when you confidently display… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 03:53 PM |
| 5 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeI wonder how many women would transfer all their boyfriend's money to their own bank account, if it was easy to do and had no risk associated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Lol. I'm actually dictating the words for the nurse to type, lol, I can't type them myself I'm too old. She just changed my diapers. She almost touched my weewee, that proves I'm a baller and I get mad action lol. The other people in the nursing home tell me that I look good for my age, when I put my fake teeth on you almost can't tell the difference. Lol. The other day Brenda smiled at me, she's 80 lol. I still got it. Also, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I should frame this and show it to my friends. You made my day with your witty comments, thank you! You're an inspiration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I'm not sure I understand your comment, but it must have something to do with: "men also claim things and do the opposite". Well, not so much. One of the main tenets of TRP is 'watch what she does, not what she says'. Men are much more consistant between words and actions. Women will claim stuff (like not ever sharing a man), but then it just happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Are you a young guy with ideals that are threatened by my words? A fat feminist who is alone and believes I'm the devil incarnate? Are you a happily married man who has it all 'figured out'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I agree with you, women will compete. Nobody wants to share the man of their dreams. But I believe that if a girl finds a guy that makes fer feel like no other guy made her feel, and she's tried all the other options to have him for herself unsuccessfully, she will at least consider sharing him than losing him completely. I'm not saying it happens a lot. I'm saying that when it does happen, those girls were like the ones in this thread, swearing high and clear that it would never happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I'm curious: why are you so mad? Honest question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I understand. I took this as an example of 'women will do whatever it takes to keep their man if he's worth it', whereas you take it as an example of 'she might pay some price as long as in the end she has him for her alone (since he comes back home to her only)'. That's a fair point. I think my argument was that most women say one thing (I will NEVER share a man!) and then given the right circumtances they will act opposite. I could argue that in my friend's case, she tried this agreement where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Sorry I'm gonna copy my reply to another comment, as it's the same point. To be fair we weren't living together. In one case we dated being exclusive for almost a year (me exclusive with both). I know it's not what OP means, and no it has never happened to me to this extent. But what this anecdotal experience has shown me is that those really were high quality girls (both hot and one worked as a diplomat) with plenty of options, and raised 'traditional'. Yet when the feelz got involved, they bot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?To be fair we weren't living together. In one case we dated being exclusive for almost a year (me exclusive with both). I know it's not what OP means, and no it has never happened to me to this extent. But what this anecdotal experience has shown me is that those really were high quality girls (both hot and one worked as a diplomat) with plenty of options, and raised 'traditional'. Yet when the feelz got involved, they both did what they had swore they would never do. If it's relevant, something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?It's not that they agree to share. These high quality women are fundamentally against sharing, just like you. And they're not lying. Until one day, a guy comes along that rocks their world, and it's funny how fast the same high-quality woman will change her views just to have a piece of this man. The fact that they have options is irrelevant: if he's the one, no other guy exists. I've seen it happen a few times in real life. I also think that these high-quality women may be even more prone to it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Absolutely agree, can confirm first hand. Most women will say that they won't share, and they're not lying, that's how they really feel. Until the right guy comes along, and then all their principles go out the window. It has happened to me twice, and both times they were high-tier girls (good looking, well educated with high diplomas, a good job, etc.) who agreed to share me with another girl (who didn't mind sharing). Both times it didn't work out, and the two posh girls swore they would never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red pill men are not good for womenBased on my limited, personal experience: Me before redpill: didn't have a lot of success (although I looked the same, or better than now), so when I had a chance with a girl I liked, I was afraid of fucking it up and basically tried to please her in any way possible, activities were focused on what would she enjoy to do, etc. When I disagreed with her on something I would voice it very cautiously. didn't know and accept differences between men and women, and so when a woman did something irrati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | If Hypergamy is true, where are all the leftover high value womenApart from a small group of men who are part of the establishment, and need to be married in order to be accepted in their golf club, what purpose does marriage serve for the common man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | HilariousYeah I clicked too. It would have been good to have a decription on why this is funny, so we can decide whether to check it out or not. Turns out it's not that funny. | /r/MGTOW | 02/01/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Why the hell are "escorts" so expensive in America? need some adviceNo. Real quality girls. They treat you like a king, smile, kisses, etc Seriously latinos have the sexual market really developped and there is too much supply, that's why girls are awesome and cheap. | /r/MGTOW | 29/12/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Would you want to surpass 100 sexual partners? (IRL Example)100 isn't so much. It's 1 new person per month for ten years. If you're single it's reasonable to have this rythm. So a high n-count is only reflective of how long you've been single, and if you've had long-lasting relationships. If you're in your thirties, and have had one or two LTRs of 5 years, then a n-count of 100 is totally possible. It's different for girls and guys though, because as we know a guy would have had to work for each of these 100 girls, whereas a girl just had to spread her l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Why the hell are "escorts" so expensive in America? need some adviceLatin america. Amazing girls for 50 USD, a bit more or a bit less depending on the country. | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/18 02:30 PM |
| 9 | Do you prefer to have sex with older women or younger women?Younger girls: fresh body, look and smell good, make you horny just by having them in your arm. But are also a bit clumsy or shy in bed. Older girls: obviously less attractive, even if they took care of themselves their body has lost its 'peachiness'. On the flip side they are more experienced and play to their strengths, they know what positions are good for them, they know what tone of voice sounds good, they know how to get themselves off. They are also better at faking it and pretending, whi… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Why not blanket qualify "hitting on women" as sexual harassment?You're probably right actually. Anyway, whatever your ideas, I'm behind this 'no chasing girls' thing. They should be the ones chasing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/18 08:08 PM |
| 21 | Q4M : How would you react if you have doubts / find out you've been lied about being the biological father of your children?At this point I love my kid too much to walk away from being a dad. But I would fuck the mother up in all ways imaginable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Why not blanket qualify "hitting on women" as sexual harassment?I see what you're doing here, and I like it. Let's criminalize hitting on women. Then grab the popcorn and watch how long it will take for them to come back begging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 01:35 PM |
| 5 | I encountered a social justice warrior - WAHMENNo, that's not what it is. It's "let's throw politically charged themes at him to see how he reacts and how fast he'll yield" | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Older people of this sub, has dating always been this way or have you noticed any changes recently?Way to make men change their opinion about women.. wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 12:35 PM |
| 9 | Can you truly become redpill without having your heart broken by a girl?Great advice, but just one correction: TRP will be there even he is in love. You can know the true nature of women and still fall in love imo. It's hard to keep thinking that awalt, but it's possible, and it's actually the key to make your relationship last. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Going on vacation for two weeks without LTR, worried about her cheatingFirst, you'll see how she texts and talks about what she does, where she is, etc. If she's thorough and honest it should come across in how she communicates. Once you smell something fishy, ask her to send a pic of herself, in an innocent manner. The time she takes to send the pic will be a good indicator. Of course you'll never know for sure, unless you put a spying program in her cell phone, or hire a guy to follow her. But at least you'll see if her phone battery "dies" on friday or saturday … | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 32 | My name is Orbiter, Simp OrbiterHonestly the kid looks good. Great, symetrical face. If he buffed up a little he would be out of her league. The girl looks ok, kind of plane jane type, and her beauty seems to reside only in her youthfullness. Give it a few years and, assuming this little dude grows some balls, she will be the one crawling and begging him to date her. | /r/MGTOW | 14/12/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Going on vacation for two weeks without LTR, worried about her cheatingYup thanks. Edited | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Going on vacation for two weeks without LTR, worried about her cheatingThis is a great opportunity to test her. See if she's commitment worthy. See how she acts when you're not around. But this is a test, if she fails you shouldn't be worried about losing her. You are the prize and you'll get better than her. If she can't figure this out too bad for her. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 02:24 PM |
| 3 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?As it should be! Good for you man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 12:37 PM |
| 2 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?I don't think most people realize when they're being a piece of shit.. Anyway I feel bad about your pops, good to see you're doing better than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?I don't know whether to feel bad for her, or vindicated. Like it's not her fault, she was fed these lies about how she deserves things but doesn't owe shit to anyone, and her parents probably bought into this too. I just hope she doesn't have kids, we could do without another generation of spoiled kids raised to make their partners miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?Agree 100%. Funny how my current ideas, if I voice them, are seen are bad and reactionary, yet the actions that result from these ideas are praised by everyone. Not only am I happier than I ever was, but women in general are happier around me, and love me like never before. Not just my gf, but most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 06:22 PM |
| 3 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?Yup, what she wants isn't what she needs. The current trend of listening more to women is only going to further their unhappiness. Again, same with kids. If you listen to your kid, he'll eat macdonalds every day. Incidently, a lot of single mom think that's how you educate kids, by 'listening to them'. Women are built to be in touch with their emotions and with what is happening at this exact moment, not to think long-term and hold a steady course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 02:54 PM |
| 2 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?Yeah right. giving pleasure/release to the person you love, for 5 minutes --> I'm not doing duty sex! I don't feel like it. Other things that you shouldn't do when you don't feel like it: clean your baby's dirty diaper --> eww gross! Let's get a nanny! cook dinner when you don't feel like it --> just order some takeout kids! exercise when you just feel like having a slice of pizza in front of netflix --> I'm beautiful in all shapes and sizes! listen to your SO open up about what is killing them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 02:47 PM |
| 2 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?Started 7 years ago but we broke up in the middle of it for reasons other than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?So I say this to men. Are you ready to defend your sovereignty at any and all costs? Would you walk from your kids if the ability to do so meant saving your family and ultimately your kids? Exactly. In your woman's mind, it should be clearly ingrained that there is nothing that she can do to make you yield your power and your freedom. Just like your kid should know that it doesn't matter how many hours he cries, he will never make you change your mind. Once you establish that you'll have long-la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Stormy Daniels Is Ordered to Pay Trump $293,000 in Fees and SanctionsAnd I think a big part of it was directly from the dems. That's what secret campaign funds are for. "Hey stormy, breach the contract you've signed with Trump, we will pay you for it". | /r/MGTOW | 12/12/18 01:33 PM |
| 21 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?I'm in a LTR with kids. Yes, it's tiring with the chores and whatnot. Sometimes I don't feel like having sex but I know my girl still needs to get the D so she still feels like a woman, and also to maintain the healthy dynamic of regular sex. So I make a little sacrifice and, uh, have sex. Sometimes it's the opposite. I'm horny and she's tired. But she has specifically told me, many times: "if I'm not in the mood and you want to fuck me, just fuck me. I'll get in the mood". She has this deep fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 01:13 PM |
| 4 | What we can learn from the conga line of female teachers who are having sexual relations with their underaged male students.Calm down. Yeah there is nothing new in this post for experienced redpillers. Maybe you should create an 'Advanced Redpill' sub. I'd definitely subscribe and contribute. But the current sub is flooded by newcomers who have no idea about all this, and although some of them go through the sidebar, most of TRP postings are theoretical posts ('that's how women are') or anecdotal posts ('hey guys so I took this girl home, she gave me some last minute resistance and this is how I overcame it and fucke… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 12:54 PM |
| 8 | What we can learn from the conga line of female teachers who are having sexual relations with their underaged male students.Amazing post. You took your time to describe this interaction, to show that sex between student and teacher is not the passionate romance that we imagine between two horny or loving souls that found each other despite the age difference, but rather it's a psychological coping mechanism for the teacher, and the student just doesn't really care much. It's spot on, you obviously understand women better than most. And I'm baffled that half the comments are negative. What is happening to this sub? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/18 12:58 PM |
| 1 | SituationIf you go with Abbey, you need to be ready for your flatmate to hate you both, and make your life miserable. If you can't manage this, you should consider moving out. But if you really like Abbey (and it looks like she likes you), honestly you shouldn't care about your flatmate. Don't let her dictate who you date. Be a man and take what you want. Also, don't go through your flatmate to reach Abbey: your flatmate will twist the message to make you look like a pussy, and anyway Abbey will be disap… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 09:03 PM |
| 2 | GenesSidebar. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with a clingy plate?Two ways to go: Become extremely bluepill, talk to her about how you're a weak little thing and that you need her embrace to overcome the day. Also hint that you're in huge debt. That should do the trick Or, keep on fucking her, but always wear a condom, and flush your condom after use (or take it with you to drop it somewhere else). Make it clear that you fuck other women, treat her like one more little slut in your harem. Also, careful with fake rape accusations, after you have sex always prov… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:34 PM |
| 32 | My ex falsely accused me of rape and nothing happened of it cause I didn’t. BUTMan I feel you. In my bluepill days I would understand that there were straight up mean bitches out there, who would lie with no remorse. But it wasn't about female nature, it was about bad people. Then at some point it's one of the good girls who does stab you in the back, one who you always trusted, one who you didn't do anything bad to. And then it really hurts, to realize that given the right circumstances, a woman's feels will overcome any sense of righteousness and trust. It'll take time t… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: what does your minimum looks threshold for love and marriage look like?Girl can have imperfect features, it doesn't matter as long as she's thin and healthy. This means that she isn't thin because she's starving, and feeding herself only diet coke and cigarettes. No, she's thin because she eats fruits and veggies, and her skin and body reflect this. Given this, almost any girl looks decent. Doesn't matter if she has a bigger nose, imperfect features, etc. A happy, healthy girl is enough to make her 'average' and thus eligible for a LTR. It's much easier than women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Quality men aren't aloof assholes.You're absolutely right. Real quality men treat everyone with respect, and use their power/influence to lift others up instead of putting them down. I consider myself a high quality man, and I aspire to always be righteous. Righteous and strong. Because that's what differentiates a quality man from a nice guy. A nice guy thinks he has to be a good man all the time, and that it brings him value. If somebody makes fun of him, he shrugs it off and shows the other cheek. If a woman tests him (hey st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 12:48 PM |
| 12 | Are all girls this good at manipulative?More than girls being good, it's usually guys who are really bad at social cues and reading the other person. Because we've never practiced it. With practise you'll become better at this bullshit than a girl like her, and will be able to manipulate girls the way you want. In the meantime, don't start a fight you can't win (i.e. get away from her before she eats you and spits you out). | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 06:30 PM |
| 39 | What was your most brutal firsthand experience of AWALT?I dated a sweet girl who was prude in the bedroom, and who kept telling me about an ex who was 'abusive and only used her as a sex toy'. I understood and was supportive. Still it didn't work and I dumped her after a couple months, then one year later her new guy contacted me, we met and he told me she kept telling him about me, how I was 'abusive and only used her as a sex toy'. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 03:38 AM |
| 12 | What was your most brutal firsthand experience of AWALT?This is fairly common, and terrifying. The woman who loved you and was honest and caring turns into machiavelic psycho the minute she doesn't need you anymore. Ready to lie and stab you in the back for her own interests. Even if you didn't do anything wrong. I have seen it happen so many times (to me and many friends), it's a real eye-opener on the nature of women | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 03:30 AM |
| 3 | What age did you lose your virginity and under what circumstances? 21 year old virgin here and wondering.I lost it when I was about to turn 17, to my first gf. We ended up being together for 4 years. I was clueless at the time and she made all the moves to seduce me. I also pretended it wasn't my first time, if it makes you feel better. I enjoyed it but don't have a specific recollection of it. This night was not special, maybe because I lied about it not being my first time. I know guys who lost it when they were fucking 12 years old, others in their 20s. Honestly it doesnt matter. For reference, … | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:54 PM |
| -6 | Why is she being a massive tease?She doesn't want to be a pump and dump. She wants a long conversation at the bar with you when you both open up and discover points in common, she doesn't want to listen to light banter for an hour than go to your place to gobble your cock. I think she's doing a nice job of showing she likes you without giving up sex for nothing. Do what you want with that info. If you do proceed to fuck her, my opinion is that you should be clear beforehand that you don't want anything serious. But it's up to y… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Tinder match wants me to meet her friends on 1st date - go for it or nah?Probably the sassiest friend will shit-test him the most, not because she doesn't like him but because it asserts her position in her social circle. If OP can destroy that shit-test with a great and light-hearted joke at her expense and a laid-back attitude, the girl (and all her friends) will be all over him. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Question for bluepill: How to find a Non Hypergamous womanI understand, thanks for the effort of putting it into words. I think it's a fruitless discussion then. Basically redpillers say: "when you do x with women, 99% of the time y happens. And we justify this with this global theory". If there is no alternative to this global theory (that seems to work perfectly with all redpillers), and the only rebuttals are that 'things are more complex' then we're not gonna go anywhere. Also, I think that the TBP stance that 'things are more complicated' kinda fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/18 02:53 PM |
| 7 | "This guy hit on me" shit-testThat's not an example of agree & amplify. Other than that good job of not caring. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Question for bluepill: How to find a Non Hypergamous womanSo try to provide a positive definition of TBP (one that doesn't just say "it's opposed to TRP") and let's see how far it falls from my definition. Because you provide no argument apart from disagreement. It's easy to say what something isn't, much harder to say what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 11:18 AM |
| 3 | There will always be plenty of dudes more thirsty than you.Alpha is not that you can control your woman at all time. Alpha is that she can never control you. In this sense, yeah I've been alpha for at least the last 5 years, which is maybe the last time I've been pressured by a woman to do/accept something I didn't want. Now it's either she complies, or I walk away. It's not that hard. | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/18 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Question for bluepill: How to find a Non Hypergamous womanI think bluepill relates to an idea that 'you are what you are, and if you put yourself out there you will find someone who appreciates you'. It comes from a mindset that people don't change. If you weren't born an alpha you won't become one, you'll just be faking it or using PUA tactics. Women, generally speaking, don't change fondamentally the way men do. They don't have to. A man starts as nothing, and he must create his value and identity through change. A woman starts with her own value, sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?Where I see TRP failing is in recognizing the shades of gray. Yeah I agree. Obivously human nature is much more complex than a binary explanation. But I think TRP works better this way. For a young inexperienced guy, it's already complex enough, without adding all these layers that are variations of the main truth. I think it's the same rebuttal that goes for AWALT: young guy learns redpill stuff, it works to a charm with almost all women (and especially works better with more feminine women, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?I agree with you. Masculine women are more interesting, trustworthy, their hamster is more in check, etc.. With the only caveat that they are less attractive. Physically they don't look as good as feminine women, they have less empathy and less ability to nurture, in brief they are less feminine. Hot, feminine girls are a pain in the ass, unless you know about female nature and TRP. Masculine girls are better for the rest of guys, but then those guys still secretly lust after hotter and more fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?Truth for its own sake when a woman doesn't think the issue matters is a non-existent value This is so true. Truth for the sake of truth is a very specifically masculine traits. Women only worry about consequences. If nobody saw anything, and it didn't have any repercusions, did it really happen? No it didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?Feminine or interesting woman. Choose one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?Very well put. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?You have masculine traits. Same way some guys have feminine traits, are more sensitive, able to empathize, are more willing to surrender to a dominant woman, etc. You probably also are less empathetic than a more feminine woman, less 'soft', etc. Not an attack on you, just saying there is a spectrum of masculine and feminine traits in all of us, and that for simplicity TRP presents women as having almost uniquely feminine traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 06:02 PM |
| 56 | Subversive Humor: Nuking the HamsterThat was an awesome line! I think the lesson here is that you came up with this hamster-nuking line not because you rehearsed it before, but because it's so easy to make fun of children: you're one step ahead and don't care about the outcome. That's the mindset for newbies to get into. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/18 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How is it that you all are doing this well with women?But have you agreed to be exclusive, or are you just on the basis of don't ask don't tell? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Just need a good rant... Women making “jokes” calling the young virgin guy at work a “serial rapist”First I wanna say you're a good guy to be considering this. You have nothing to gain besides the fact of being a noble person. How to help: not by dropping redpills, he won't digest them and will reject you. Teach him by example: don't tell him women shouldn't be on a pedestal, let him watch how unimpressed you are when you talk to women; don't tell him that he should be proud of who is he and not take shit, let him listen to you talk about yourself and your weird quirks and ideas in an unapolog… | /r/MGTOW | 12/10/18 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Former feminazi searching for the truth and a better understanding of red pillHoly shit this is spot on. You understand men perfectly. Please keep on teaching. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/18 12:57 PM |
| 18 | How would you spot a virgin male?Don't know if you can really spot a virgin, but you can spot guys with little experience. It's like they're still inside their shell, crouched posture, soft voice, etc. And, above all, a clear reverence towards women, like they're some kind of goddesses. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 06:57 PM |
| 5 | What were your lessons learned from LTR?All girls are crazy by nature, because their hormones make that emotions > reason. Smart girls are the worst, because they have more ammunition to hamster away their crazy moments. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?First, way to not address the main points of my comment and going on a tangent. Second, if you enjoy talking to your partner, good for you, in all honesty. Still, generally speaking, women relax by talking, they talk on average 4 times more words per day than men. Men get tired talking. Usually you don't see single men calling friends every day to chat, etc. A man is happy to be in silence most of the time, a woman needs to talk and vent to recharge batteries. There is no sub for men whose partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?Of course if the woman doesn't feel like it once in a while it's totally understandable. I'm rather talking about little to no sex in the relationship. For men sex is more a vital need than a pleasure. A man who has regular sex is basically a happy man, a sexless man with an otherwise perfect life is generally a miserable man. Men are so easy to please. And all it takes is literally 15 minutes of effort a day. Again, that's way less than the time he provides emotional support. So no, there is no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?Hey it's me, your husband. Guess what, after a long day I'm not in the mood for conversation at all, with anyone. Yet I still talk to you, because I love you and we're married. But don't worry, I'm so glad to know that you're more attracted to me than ever. Even though we don't fuck, it's really comforting. I'm so lucky to have you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?Exactly, these female excuses of "I'm tired" or "I don't feel sexy" are ridiculous. Both man and woman are tired but they still do a lot of things during the day. Man comes from work tired but will listen to his wife vent about her day for a whole fucking hour, but then she can't fuck him for 15 minutes? Making the man of your life happy is not worth 15 minutes of effort a day? Then it's not that she's tired, it's that she's really disgusted by him, because she can't even stand to do such a basi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 12:49 PM |
| 7 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"I'm on your side but to be fair, today a 30 years old woman who has had 15 partners before getting married is almost a virgin. It's 1 new partner per year more or less, not really slutty if you ask me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"As a bi man he should be more redpilled than me! He should have no doubts about female and male nature. That is, if he's a sexually active bi man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"There are a lot of them too, it's true. But I'm talking about the good girl, who's been raised properly in a loving family, who was fed healthy food and grew to be beautiful, got away to university and got a lot of attention, and in just a few years accumulated dozens of lays, getting wilder every year, and becomes totally unimpressed and jaded, and unable to bond. I've met a lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 02:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel""Look at all these war veterans with their thousand cock stares!" -BiggerDthanYou, probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"This sounds like essential oil science. Yep, I don't deny it. That's why I said we don't know much yet about pair bonding, and also that my best argument was empirical evidence. I was raised a liberal just like you, advocating for women to be sexually liberated etc. Now that's I've been around, I will teach my daughter to be cautious, that each lay should have some sort of meaning and that she better tread carefully and make them count, because after a while she will lose an important part of he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"The thousand cock stare is caused by years of childhood sexual abuse I'm not gonna even respond to this because it's a ridiculous claim, which btw shows me that your 'experience' with cc riders is not much. You clearly don't know the scene... May I ask are you a woman or a man? What will you teach your teenage daughter? That she should fuck whoever she fancies as long as she doesn't stare into their eyes and hold hands? What n-count is too much for her? Is 150 guys by age 25 ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:40 PM |
| 8 | One thing is certain from Kavanaugh-Ford "scandal"Whatever Kavannaugh drunk before he allegedly assaulted her is not nearly enough for any man to be attracted to her. | /r/MGTOW | 09/10/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"No. I'm not saying it's fair, it's just the way it is. Sex happens outside of men. We release something to the outside, afterwards it's gone, we don't care. For women sex happens inside. Even without taking into consideration the sperm, they receive this energetical, emotional charge from the outside world, that goes into their most intimate part, and stays inside of them. They connect to each one of these charges on some deep level, until they're not able to connect anymore. As an anecdote, hin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"We're more than just rational beings. Pair bonding is not just an intellectual connection. We pair bond through instincts, energy, scent, hormones, our body's long lasting memory, etc. The thousand cocks stare is what is left when a woman has not enough preserved intimacy to pair bond with a regular man. I know I have no way of convincing you rationally. I don't think we quite understand pair bonding perfectly to be honest. Yet I have enough experience to know what the cock carousel does to wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:13 PM |
| 7 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Not at all. We know you don't want to marry most of those guys. What we say is that women become damaged and are progressively lose their ability to pair bond with a man, when they finally decide to settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Men Cannot LoveI disagree. A man is infatuated by lust pretty quickly, but falls in love slowly. Once he falls in love, he's more likely to love his woman through thick and thin than she is to love him. Men are the true romantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Atlas Shrugged has seven times the frame and 99 times the epeen of all of the married Red Pillers all togetherjust no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 01:04 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to "Do you want to fuck (my friend)?"No. Who upvotes this? You'll never get laid like that. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Terps are HOPELESSLY SquareHow do you become good socially? By practice and by example. If you grow up with a family that talks, if you have friends who you banter with, you learn to navigate this from a young age. Of course all men wish they had that, but about those who don't? Fuck them right? How do they dare improve? That's what you're saying. Look, I've been lucky to grow as a man who's good socially, for lots of reasons (large family, well travelled, sport, etc.) that have more to do with luck than anything else. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Terps are HOPELESSLY SquareShe's not a bimbo but she's clearly attractive, in a non-instagram slut way. She's also thin and healthy. Though you can't judge personality through pics, she doesn't have empty eyes, clearly there is spark behind those, she seems interesting (just a guess of course). Bottom line is that she's 20, healthy and cute, and she goes for a guy who is a whole 16 years older than her (and who is not filthy rich I presume, and also does not look like a hollywood actor). I don't think she's with him becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 12:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: All you BP SJW women would throw up Nazi salutes if you were born in 1920s GermanyAt least for every new trending topic I look at both The_Donald and Politics. Also Worldnews. Outside I make a point to open Breitbart each time I browse mainstream media, although I have to admit I hate it. There might be better sources, the thing is that I won't make up my mind on something unless I've had, detailed, contradictory views from both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 08:57 PM |
| 6 | CMV: All you BP SJW women would throw up Nazi salutes if you were born in 1920s GermanyThat's what I thought. There are a lot sources to learn and understand (and even, dare I say, appreciate) conservative ideas, so that you'd be able to debate them. But of course it's not your fault you don't know about them, it's the conservatives fault. Of course. Just realize that if your sources of information are reddit, the Huf and CNN, you're absolutely guilty of the basic image you have of conservatives. The bottom line is that you have no idea what conservative ideas are, and why they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do women think dating is hard?I think the difference is that bad men and bad women lie purposefully. But good men don't lie, and good women still say things that are not the truth, because they don't know the truth themselves. Good men will say what they really want (like a hot girl with big boobs), and they really are attracted to that. Good women say they want a kind a compasionate man, and they are sincere in saying that, but they end up being attracted to the asshole. Then they have no idea what happened, and they try to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:50 PM |
| 20 | Feminists be likeHahaha, the old "I'm a victim of you being too nice to me!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:38 PM |
| 14 | Feminists be likeOne example: Men are more prone to getting prostate cancer than women getting breast cancer. Yet there is plenty of campaigns and raising awareness for breast cancer, because women, and almost nothing for prostate cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do women think dating is hard?Like what? Like guys saying they want a nice loving girl to open their heart to, but actually dating a mean brainless bimbo? I don't think so. Men are very clear about what they want, from start to finish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:22 PM |
| 15 | CMV: All you BP SJW women would throw up Nazi salutes if you were born in 1920s GermanyYour comment is exactly why I think liberals are simpler than conservatives. I understand liberal ideas -hell, as most teenagers, I used to be a liberal. Accept differences, as they are the soil of growth; there is value in each and every being, and in each and every culture, and as such they all ought to be preserved and cherished; help the others like you would want to be helped, because if you're comfortable in life it has more to do with luck than your own value. etc. See, I understand and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:18 PM |
| 12 | Why do women think dating is hard?I don't think it's entitlment in the sense that, as I wrote, we don't feel bad about the fact that she didn't choose us. If she chose any other normal dude but us it would be ok, but she chooses the one guy that is a total piece of shit. And then women complain about men being liars, that there are no good men, that they only use them for sex, etc. For the record I'm not mad, my love life is awesome. I'm just trying to convey why men feel betrayed by women in general. It's not only one anecdotal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 03:11 PM |
| 10 | Why do women think dating is hard?The parallel with gay dudes is on point. If you're attracted to guys and just vet for a decent person to have sex with, yeah it's the easiest thing in the world. I have a gay friend who in 30 minutes gets a total stranger to come to his house to suck his dick, any day. Women want the top of the pyramid. It doesn't matter if the pyramid consists of great or lame guys. They just want the ones that are above the others. That makes it a very competitive and hard market for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 01:19 PM |
| 15 | Why do women think dating is hard?I think what makes men mad is that all of us, at some point, we have seen the girl we liked, who we really wanted to get to know, fall for a guy who very obviously just uses her and doesn't care about her. A guy who's loud, obnoxious, who maybe drives a great car (but by adding 2 and 2 we know he can't afford it and is crippled with debt), who cheats, etc. Yet, at some point our love interest chooses him instead of us. It doesn't really matter that she didn't choose us though. But it does matter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | TRP Transformed My Entire LifeWhatever she says, she didn't seek justice until there was a political gain from it. Then it's not justice you're seeking, at least in my view. Again we're not talking months, we're talking decades. I guess it all depends how we view the world, and I guess I'm more cynical than you, but I understand that you see this differently. You're right that maybe Trump should've pushed for another candidacy for political reasons, but then it would legitimate these attacks from the left. I also think that … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | TRP Transformed My Entire LifeSo two things as a liberal I don’t want the court to swing further right, I think that’s bad for the future of the country. I can understand this, although I disagree. When you consider the allegations, you have to consider that it’s likely not fabricated. Fabricated claims don’t make it this far. I completely disagree. First everything points out to it being fabricated, so much so that it's ridiculous: like come on, the accuser woke up after decades, if she really had been assaulted this would … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | TRP Transformed My Entire LifeHonest question, what do you think of the whole Kavanaugh accusations? To me, it's so plainly obvious he's being framed it's funny. The accusations make no sense, their timeline makes perfect sense, etc. Yet you don't see any critical voices on reddit from the liberals' side. If I'm wrong please point me towards dissenting voices on the left. That's my issue with liberals (at least the only ones that are vocal): they're not necessary evil, I think most mean well, but they are useful idiots who s… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 01:04 PM |
| 0 | I have an extreme jealousy of red pill men. It’s honestly getting me down.I'm a man, and you're absolutely right. I feel like that myself. I feel that nature has divided our genders between power and knowledge. Men have power, they can do, they can grow, but they're a little gullible about life, a little innocent. Teenage girls already know, men sometimes have to get into their mid-fifties to get it. So that's how the two genders were balanced. But now as a man, I have been granted power and knowledge. I can grow and I know how to grow. I can get any girl (of course n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/18 11:30 PM |
| 2 | TRP Transformed My Entire LifeI don't know. The best would be to vote with our actions, which would be to migrate to a reddit alternative site. But the most popular site, Voat, is populated by overt racists. And I'm pretty sure those are fake, it's actually a sound strategy for liberals: create a lot of alternative sites to reddit and fill them with far-right tropes so you have no option in the middle. You're either on a liberal site or a nazi site, no neutral freedom of speech. At some point the market will correct himself … | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 03:54 PM |
| 28 | Brett Kavanaugh’s hearing has started the Beginning of the End.Long read but totally worth it. Tldr: Keeping our freedom as individuals doesn't mean we cannot fight together against what threatens this freedom. | /r/MGTOW | 28/09/18 01:58 PM |
| 40 | TRP Transformed My Entire LifeI feel you man, same thoughts. The quarantining of TRP has me boiling with anger. Because this sub has allowed me to grow so much, and to become so much happier (and incidently, to make women way happier with me). All of this is so wrong. Fuck SJWs, they deserve no sympathy whatsoever. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 12:53 PM |
| 10 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?It's actually bad advice to delay sex. Guys who bail after they had sex with a girl don't bail because they got what they want. They bail because they realize in bed that the physical chemistry isn't there. If sex shows that we are not compatible, I will bail, doesn't matter if it's the second or the fifth date. So in order not to waste everyone's time, better make it the second date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 10:44 PM |
| 9 | How many extremely high value men are monogamous?Another way to rephrase this question would be to ask: If you had virtually constant, endless opportunities to fuck new girls, would you keep on doing it forever? I don't know any celebrities personally, but I know a few guys who have constant opportunities, and they all take advantage of it for years until they get it out of their system, then they are just happy to settle with a person that gets them or something. At some point you've had/seen it all, you just get bored. By the way, it's also … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 06:56 PM |
| 15 | How to hit up old plate without displaying scarcity?Having abundance is not about not hitting her up. It's hitting her up and not caring much about how she responds. Other than that, I would suggest something like this: "Hey xxx, you appeared on my feed, looking good! How have you been" It's simple, not try hard. Another option would be to tease her: "you appeared on my feed and at first I thought I was looking at the Kardashians", etc. But imo she'll see through it and know she didn't appear on your feed but that you were stalking her, because t… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 01:33 PM |
| 7 | Bouncer Tales: Sasha's WallI liked your post and upvoted it, it's a well written slice of life story. But to be fair it doesn't explain anything about the wall or provides an example of a woman trying tp get around it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/18 03:22 PM |
| 2 | "Guys overlook nice girls for hoes"I think we don't actually want the hoe over the nice hottie girl. It just happens that most hot girls eventually end up as hoes, because they're submitted to constant attention, and a limitless supply of hot dick. So nice hottie girl turns into a hoe. It ends up with society -and women in particular, the judgmental gender- associating any hot girl with a hoe. It's unfortunate to say the least, and a self fullfilling prophecy on top of it. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Ltr is cool with me fucking other women and I have a few questionsExactly, and I would add that girls also get tingles from their bf fucking other girls. It's a constant reminder that their guy is alpha, and ultimately that's what they need to be reassured of, that's why they shit-test so much. If her guy fucks other girls her train of thoughts feelings is: "I'm jealous, which sucks. But it also makes me think of him, this asshole" "it's hot to imagine him as a hunter, he doesn't have to hunt me anymore and I miss seeing this side of him" "if he can sleep easi… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 06:33 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys avoid catching feelings for a girl?It's ok to catch feelings for a girl, it's just that after TRP the nature of these feelings should change. Bluepill me would fall head over heels for a girl, think that because she connected so well with me she was my soulmate, and then develop feelings similar to taking shelter within her nurturing energy. To escape from the harshness of the world, female energy is the best and sweetest refuge. But women don't wanna spare this nurturing energy except for their kids. They grow resentful of a man… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 01:40 PM |
| 3 | That beautiful hypocrisy: this belongs hereObviously you're a lying delusional overweight teenager living in his mom's basement. Whey else would you be on MGTOW? That or you're gay. /s | /r/MGTOW | 05/09/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Question for Blue Pillers - Why do you care?I fully embrace TRP but I value the candidness of your answer. Some people just like debating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Is having the "are we exclusive" talk necessary?Before the redpill, beta me would be the one initiating the exclusivity talk almost always. The thing is that when I found a girl I liked, right away I felt that this happiness was so scarce that I had to preserve it at all costs. So I would jump into a relationship, early. After finding TRP and gaining experience/working on myself, now I feel that you can be really happy with more than just this one person, and that finding a mate is not so hard. So I'm not as inclined to jump into a relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaDon't settle man. Not saying this for the girl, maybe she's the one who will make you happy, but for yourself. If you think you can keep on growing, then you should strive for it. Good luck | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 11:25 AM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaSame happened to me for a while, for more than a year if I recall correctly. I would at the same time desire and hate women. I hated their lying, egocentrical, irresponsible selves. That prompted me to stop dating for a few months: I would still fuck women once in a while but only if they fell on my lap and I had to do minimal effort. But I stopped chasing, delted tinder, and focused on myself and friends. I also made a point of having a few female friends that I did not fuck. After a while I be… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Witholding Sex In a RelationshipI'm super red and I think that fairness, while taking into account actual differences between genders, is the way to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/18 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Witholding Sex In a RelationshipOP, you raise very valid questions, and all your comments are civil and seeking discussion. You're getting a lot of insults back which is unfortunate. Your first point (should a woman withhold sex as a bagaining power?) has been already answered by others: no, it's a bad idea alltogether. Your second point (what bargaining power do women have that it not sex?) is very interesting and deserves more attention. I kinda agree with you that men learn mainly through hardships and loss. But at the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/18 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: What is the worst thing a husband can find in his wife's 10 year old laptop ?I don't care if she was 'the other woman'. She doesn't get the blame, the guy does. If our sex life is shit and she says she has low libido, and then I find the threesome, then I'd be worried. If she's still a good little slut for me, no worries about that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | A woman with a fit body is every man's dream, right?I'm a man and I'm just chiming in to say that I absolutely agree with your premise: obviously we will notice a pretty face, but we'll just think that she looks pretty, and it won't elicit desire. A hot body is what we're after, and in a social setting that's the first thing I'll notice. I don't know if it's a good or bad thing, I guess a good thing since it's easier to change your body than to change your face. In your case when you get fit you'll have both and will be a knockout. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/06/18 12:32 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI responded this to a similar comment: I mean, most people get stuck right there. It's tough to swallow the pill and understand what you got to do, but it's harder to actually put in the work and make it happen. I don't know where you're at but the first things I would advise is to take care of yourself: clean up your diet, go lift, sleep, etc. In short, be prepared and willing to suffer for a while, because you have to improve, and no improvement comes without suffering. Forget about getting nu… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?I am not discounting morality, and I agree with mostly everything you said. As I mentionned, I try to abide by a strong set of morals, and I wish everybody did -not only because it would make the world a better place, but also because there are strong personal benefits from being a good individual. I just think that truth and morals should be taught separately. What we believe is right or wrong is highly subjective, whereas truth or science is objective. If we mix them we give foot to endless ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 01:57 PM |
| 22 | Sluts and the City: A Carousel Rider's RegretsSame boat: as my daughter grows into a beautiful young woman, she increasingly is surrounded by the cool beautiful chicks, the ones who compete for boys' attention, status, etc. Because that's how girls are at the top of the pyramid, when they've been raised with healthy bodies and assertive personalities. My concern is to teach some restrain into her, and not let her get addicted to this ever-increasing attention and validation she's getting. It's gonna be hard, I know. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?I don't think morality has anything to do with truth. Actually they should absolutely be kept separate. For instance, Copernic's discoveries were criticised because they went againt the moral dogma of the time, which was that the earth was the center of the universe. Or the fact that an atomic bomb can be used for evil doesn't make the theory of atom fission less true. I think you mistake the red pill teachings with its users. The red pill is amoral and just explains how male/female attraction w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?AWALT rubs me the wrong way and it seems most RP advice is aimed at getting men laid and keeping emotional investment to a minimum. I don’t know how much the current sub differs from the original RP advice and grounding theory, but it just seems to be too many angry men and too much ‘women are bad’ as a response to ‘women are wonderful’ Obviously you're entitled to your opinion but I can't help but notice that your criticism of TRP is based on moral grounds (AWALT feels bad, angry men just tryin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?Yeah you should definitely write about that. If you don't I might just steal this brilliant idea and write about it myself. Just make sure to not start your post with 'as a woman' and you should be fine. ;) You're right about women being increasingly ashamed of their feminine traits, and it's true that menstruation is hardly talked about outside of families. Which is weird because as we've discussed, accepting each gender's flaws enables it's qualities to shine. For example, we want kind, femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?Got nothing against first wave feminists.. In fact, the way you describe your family, it seems to me like a good model of how a family should be: your dad and your mom both embracing their gender's qualities, without one being worst off because of it. Actually I think that because of that, you weren't raised to be a typical modern woman contrary to what you say. Modern women often grow up without a father figure (either there is no father, or the father's masculinity has been reduced to a metaph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?women I would say are feminine but don’t look very feminine Looks are a tricky thing for women that's for sure. A man who has a masculine mind will end up looking masculine with time, because for men looks are built. For women (again, we work as polarities, opposites), looks are preserved. So a woman can have a very feminine mind but if she lost her looks because of bad luck or bad habits, it's really hard for her to get them back. It's somehwat unfair but it evens out if we consider everything:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?There are two points in this: 1) In my opinion, women are rational beings that sometimes get overrun by their emotions, to the point that they stop being rational. But society doesn't aknowledge that, because it would be sexist apparently, so instead they will negate it and justify their outbursts by inventing reasons (the hamster). The more intelligent the woman, the better she will be at justifying her outbursts to herself and to her SO. Like if a girl cheats in the spur of the moment, the dum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 04:02 PM |
| 3 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?I don't either, but it's not about what you do. It's about how disproportionate the balance of power is in favour of women. Basically all women have the ultimate say in whether they will have a child, and men don't. It's ok that women can decide whether they will be a mom, they shouldn't be able to decide if the man will be a dad. If he wanta out he should be able to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:06 AM |
| 2 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?Yeah I agree with you, single mothers are not the only ones to blame. But I guess the onus falls more on them as they are supposedly the gatekeepers of sex. On the other side of the spectrum if a guy chose to marry a debt-ridden cheater, well the responsibility is more on him because men are the gatekeepers of commitment. As for the rest I'm like you, I trust no one and wear condoms always, even way into a relationship. But it's still kinda sad that you can't trust a girl when she tells you she'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:51 AM |
| 8 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?Well maybe it's not a trap, but it's a poorly formulated question. fathering children does not carry any inherent responsibility to the child solely because 'women can get an abortion' It's a gross simplification, and the comment above mine did well in nuancing it. The fact that women decide alone on abortion obviously does not absolve men of all responsibility. It's still an unfair system that is rigged against men. Imagine if the roles were inverted: you have sex with a guy who wears a condom,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 09:35 PM |
| 7 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?You worded this perfectly, and didn't fall into OP's trap. This is exactly my position as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?Physically: She's gotta be hot and stay hot. I could find the perfect girl, if she doesn't make my dick hard it's not gonna work. Personality wise: I got to be able to trust her. Like if we agree to something she will abide by it. She also has to be nurturing and caring and empathetic, basically have a good and generous heart. Things I don't care about: I don't care if she doesn't have much money, as long as she's not crippled by debt. I don't care if she has diplomas. I don't care if she's smar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI totally agree with what you are saying, especially now that people are less good-looking than before (because of bad nutrition) and that looks are more important than ever (because social media), looking voluntarily ugly is a coping mechanism. Also I think that our society overvalues not being needy, i.e. the one who cares less in a relationship holds the most power. People who don't wanna be attractive unconsciously cater to that, they're sending a message that 'they don't give a fuck', so so… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Why Women Will Benefit Most from Sex DollsGreat ironic post, not everyone is getting it. Brilliant. | /r/MGTOW | 29/05/18 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Why Women Will Benefit Most from Sex DollsI'm pretty sure the whole post is ironic (robo-cats, get it?). So of course there will be almost no men still seeking a relationship, with everything OP described beforehand. | /r/MGTOW | 29/05/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Jared is AWESOME lolTo me it's obviously fake, because of some details. Like how she mentions that her coworker lost his job because of Jared (and you start to feel bad about it) but then she casually says that his girlfriend left him, oh so now we know coworker had a girlfriend, then he's a cheater too and he had it coming. There are several other tidbits like that. It's redpill porn. | /r/MGTOW | 29/05/18 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Girl asked me to add her on Facebook so she can stalk my profile before going out with me.In my case I don't tailor my facebook for girls, I hardly post pics myself, it's just that it happens to reflect some cool parts of my life. I don't even have instagram. I think there is a reasonable difference between being a social media whore and using it to your advantage. It does help me a lot with girls, and it saves time. At this point in my life, girls are the ones chasing me, not the other way around. If you can get to that point it makes a lot of things easier. Of course OP shouldn't t… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked me to add her on Facebook so she can stalk my profile before going out with me.Everybody is telling you that's bad, but it's actually what I do, the other way around. When I chat with a girl on tinder, I straight up ask her what her last name is, because I don't trust tinder pics and I want to check her out on Facebook. My time is precious and I don't wanna waste it with a catfish or a girl who has barely managed to have 4 good pics. Obviously this works wonders in my favour, because it shows the girl that I'm the one vetting her, not the other way around. Obviously her in… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 10:09 PM |
| 13 | Why Women Shouldn't VoteLook, I agree with you, and exactly for the reasons you stated. On the one hand women are emotional creatures (will vote based on feefeels), and on the other hand they have a herd mentality, for them what's right is what the group thinks. I have yet to see in my life one woman who fights for a rebellious idea that is shared by no one she knows. Also women think short-term (let's get in debt to buy these shiny happy things yeehee!) whereas men tend to be frugal and responsible, which translates i… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Does "the wall" include non-physical aspects?No. Ageing is a continuous process that happens to both men and women. The Wall is something different altogether, and it happens only to women. In only a few months, women suddenly stop being young, stop looking fresh. Exactly like a peach, which is fresh, fresh, fresh, then suddenly it's old. And no amount of dieting or working out can change that, it only makes women becoming good-looing middle-age ladies. Whereas for a man, youth can still be present way into our thirties, even forties. Sure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Cheating on your LTRI'm against cheating too because if you're unsatisfied you should have your woman get up to the task, or leave. That being said, with a kid in the middle it becomes hard to leave because of divorce rape, and also bitter moms are bad moms. So I dunno, I'd give OP a pass on this one. Just hope he doesn't get caught. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Should I have sex with girls I'm not super attracted toI made a well received post exactly on this issue. It might help you: https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4eg2pa/pros_and_cons_of_fucking_women_way_below_your_smv/ | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the average man struggles as much romantically as some RPers claim?I agree. It's ingrained in them because they don't value themselves enough and think they have to overdo it, and/or because they are repeating the norms of society, where the female is the prize and the male should pursue her at all costs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Do you think the average man struggles as much romantically as some RPers claim?Yeah sure, most average guys can have sex. But they're really frustrated as to the price they have to pay. To have sex, average guys have to pay for dates, be entertaining, spend time (sometimes weeks) of non-stop efforts with the hope that the girl will choose them over some other dude that does the same, be rejected or even humiliated a few times, listen and laugh to her stupid and long-ass boring stories, etc. And they have to be happy with the girl that they can get. That's not say that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingDude I feel you. It's true location counts for so much, we tend to forget about it. So I guess the only option is to try how dyed pussy tastes? /s | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingStrawman Chadrock is busy fucking and dumping tatooed thots with fake tits and a bit of beer belly. Low-value girls as bluepill has it. Real-life Chadrock went to the gym in the morning after a good night sleep, then he put on a great day of work, and at night after seeing his friends for a beer he has a 2-hours window and so he's seeing which one of his three high-quality plates is up for the task. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingOk I made some quick research. Early humans were big game hunters and were either nomadic (following their preys every few days where they moved) or semi-nomadic (only following their preys for their big annual migration). In this second case the whole tribe wouldn't have been on the road constantly, just a bunch of hunters would have gone out for food. You're right that 4 days seems like a long time for that and is unlikely. They lived in different settings including -but not limited to- caves.… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingYep totally agree. Women having this validation need is good for the reproduction of the species. If they didn't wear sexy clothes or makeup, men would pursue them less. Personally I love it that women look for men's attention. It makes life more entertaining and enticing. And as they don't have physical strength as we do, we can't really judge them for using what other means are available to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI appreciate the effort. I don't claim to be an anthropologist and admittedly there must be many inaccuracies in the post. I still don't think it defeats its purpose, which is to delve into the psyche of the primitive female which functions based on survival and short-term interests. A few answers: Why do you (and many others) only focus on the fact that Chadrock has muscles? I also describe him as being the best hunter (thus forest-smart) and the leader of the tribe. Your comparison wih Brad Pi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingThanks. Yeah I´m not claiming to be an anthropologist and, as others have pointed out, there are many inaccuracies in my post. I still think its message of depicting the primitive female psyche stands. I´ll try and write another one. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI did some research, just not exhaustive to include dental health. And 200,000 years is actually a very reasonable -and unattackable figure. As over have mentioned, it lasted for much more than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingHaha if it had happened it would be funny | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI mean they're not that excruciating. No mention of body fluids, of dilatation, no long description of how the male thrusts in her, etc. Also it's to make a point: that sex could be rough or unwanted, but that Jane's feelings towards it are driven by other factors. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingIf the beta orbiter is a good prospect (good job and coming from a good family, etc) sometimes women are dead-cold calculators. But I think that most of the time, it just boils down to women being creatures moved by validation, and just like a man will flex his muscles just to feel his strength, a women will act seductively to a guy just to feel hers. They need to feel pretty and attractive, they don't think much about consequences for the guy because they live in their own world. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingHuman intelligence allows us to drive the changes of social structure and social rules much faster than the evolution. Evolution is roughly 10-15k years behind that That's very interesting. We're widening the gap between our knowledge and our genes/instincts. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingThat's interesting but I think the title is misleading. The article mentions that it was advantageous for humans to build strongly connected communities where women played a major role. A study has shown that in contemporary hunter-gatherer tribes, men and women tend to have equal influence on where their group lives and who they live with I believe this, but it doesn't mean that women hunted as you suggest. I think it talks more about a more equalitarian social fabric of the group, while I admi… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingMostly, being an entertainer is focusing on reading your audience. You tell a story about you, but what you are really aiming at is to excite the emotions of your audience. Of course, you need to actually have things to say first. So develop a hobby, live, make mistakes, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingThey also assume strong people are retards. Like this brainy caveman is gonna meticulousy create this great trap in which Chadrock is gonna fall. Whereas probably what would happen would be two tribes running into each other in the forest, and the better warriors kill the weak ones. And that's it. Also, I believe that Chadrocks will actually be smarter than Bobnicks, because Chadrocks have to adapt to the main responsibility, which is the survival of the tribe, and they're constantly on the edge… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingNo problem. The type of girls you should go after are: 1) the girls that you like, so you'll learn through rejection and toughen up, and 2) sweet but average-looking girls. They will love you, and hopefully you'll be able to grow into an alpha in their eyes. Once you practice being an alpha you'll become more natural and get better girls. On how to make friends: I'll copy a message I already posted before: Here are a few ideas: accept all invitations if they can help you meet new people, even by… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingApparently you tell it like it is too. That's already a sign that you have a strong mind. For the rest, you already know what to do. Stop being fat. That means lifting and running, but also a healthy diet. Glasses and eurasian thing are non-factors. You won't get girls next month, but you'll get plenty of girls in a couple of years. Just keep at it. If it helps, I was a skinny nerd with bad acne, braces and glasses. Now I'm in my thirties and women throw themselves at me. You have all the time i… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI was being ironic. I'm pretty successfull in all aspects of life, including women. But of course bluepillers assume that a guy who writes on TRP is a fat incel living in a basement.. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 08:54 PM |
| 11 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingPair bonding is one of the big unexplored questions of TRP in my opinion. There is something more to it than just sheer horniness. Male and female polarities are meant to be associated, it's just not working right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 17 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingA true Alpha doesn't hit the guy: that's not his fault, also he kinda did you a favor by exposing the behaviour of your girl. I would personally give him a high five and offer him a beer. A true Alpha doesn't hit the girl either: that would be giving her attention, the opportunity to play the victim, and too much power to use in the legal system. Instead you wipe her out of your mind immediately, turn around and never think about her again. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingWhat I'm saying is that on the long run, all the technological breathroughs end up being shared. If you're teleported at any time in a tribe, the chances that your tribe uses a less advanced technology than the next one are almost null. Sure maybe during a few months the blue tribe who uses bows can kill the red tribe who doesn't, but in the long run either the red tribe adopts the bows, or it is extinguished. During most of those hundreds of thousands of years, blue and red use the same technol… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingOk now I think I get it: it's less about raising our kids in a nuclear home, and more about protecting our quality woman as a scarce resource. Interesting indeed.. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 12 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI agree about the weapons, but the technology breakthroughs were shortlived (a few decades) in comparison to the length of human history. All in all, the best athletes had the best chance for survival up until a few centuries. At first they fought with hands and teeth, then some cavemen learned to do a spear and he had a technological breakthrough but after a while everybody had spears and it was back to who's the strongest. Then again with fire, swords, etc. The post is not to say that only mus… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:18 PM |
| 7 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI had the idea to do another one like that, as you said to illustrate other female traits. As redpillers are seeing it for what it is, and not some alpha porn fantasy, yeah I'll probably do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:12 PM |
| 7 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingHaha fuck you're absolutely right. Thanks. You and imnothingness prompted me to write the female version below his comment.. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:03 PM |
| 133 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingJane wakes up, she sees Bobnick sleeping near the extinguished fire and she throws sticks on it, clearly without females this tribe would go to shit. She squats to relieve herself and Bobnick is watching her, she winks seductively because it's a great day and she feels like it, sure she never found him attractive but today she feels different also it doesn't mean anything. It's all fun and games. The boys aren't back from the hunt well she knew that it was stupid to send only boys and keep the f… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI've never thought about it this way but I guess it could make sense. From a female perspective: if your man is not gonna fight for you, why wouldn't you sleep with another one? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI really appreciate, thanks. I know when I started to think of males and females from an evolutionary perspective it cleared everything up for me too. Glad it wasn't only me. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 06:47 PM |
| 12 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingNot gonna lie, a lot. On my keyboard. And despite the fact that mom was continuously calling for me to get out of the basement. What a bitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI know you're trolling but you're funny I'll give you that. Seriously though: Do you feel that male-female relations for most of human history were fundamentally different from what I described? Do you feel that it doesn't affect our current genes? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 05:24 PM |
| 52 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI have no idea, but if this is well received, I'll write another one like that. I think it's interesting to see how our behaviours are rooted in more primal instincts. Once I started to see women in this light, it became all easier to understand. Glad you appreciated it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 04:58 PM |
| 36 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingThis story is meant to show how the female mind works, and how all these traits that we criticize (hypergamy, use of sexuality as a weapon, lack of accountability, ever-changing mind and feelings based on circumstances) all have a very reasonable and grounded motive from an evolutionary perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 02:43 PM |
| 22 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingNah man, mate-guarding with violence is only a bad choice in modern society, where violence gets you thrown in jail or divorce-raped. In 99% of human history, violence was the way to go and the basis of social hierarchy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 02:31 PM |
| 9 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingNot gonna report him on the basis of this comment alone, but yeah thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 02:12 PM |
| 15 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingCare to explain why? How do you think male-female relations worked for hundreds of thousands of years? By democratic vote? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 01:56 PM |
| 77 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingDidn't know that about the teeth (admittedly I didn't do much research). Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 01:35 PM |
| 90 | Went on a date today. Realised that my date for tomorrow might be her sister.I agree with the other comments. You can be a good guy and do the decent thing to do, or you can close your eyes and play your cards well, and you fuck them both. Obviously it won't last but you'll be a legend. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 09:00 PM |
| 6 | How to increase social circle?I was thinking about writing a post about this. Here are a few ideas: accept all invitations if they can help you meet new people, even by groups that are not cool: a boring person invites you somewhere with their friends? Maybe their friends are cool. Meetup and internations are nice starting points, it worked for me. BUT, don't go out if your energy is low. It's better to not be there than to be dull or boring. Somedays you're not feeling it, my advice is stay home rather than burn your image … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?The difference is the girls who swear they took the pill, when they really didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 06:43 PM |
| 10 | They came to me in flocks when I was a 100kg addict, now that I quit that life and lost 30kgs, I can't score.You're right about all this. And I would add that we see it from a rational standpoint, but women are instinctive creatures, they feel, almost like animals. When you're on drugs they feel this motion within you, they feel this shifting energy. They don't know what it is, but it just moves them. They're attracted even if you're stay there in silence and look like a slob. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?No, it's not about the fact that a good point can only come from someone unattractive. It's not what I said at all. It's just experience in reading people. She could have phrased what she wrote in another way, and I would totally believe she is cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?I'm a man, and for me the basics in a relationship include regular, healthy sex. So I would ask for that in return. And I'm pretty sure 99% of men have the same expectation. Yet her standards include 'saving sex for marriage'. I think it's a pretty bad deal for a man then, expected to commit to this girl without knowing if one of his basics standards will be met. Whereas she'll know she has her standards met before the wedding happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?I mean I agree, I always wear a condom myself. But this is not what happened in these cases, those women know what they wear doing. "honey it's ok we don't need a condom, I'm on the pill, just this one time, I wanna feel you". Poor young dumbasses always fall for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 12:52 PM |
| 0 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?Horniness is to men what emotions are to women. Fair point. But the difference is that men's horniness has been scolded for centuries, and we are constantly reminded to keep it in check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?The 6 month appointment is crazy! Anyway all the examples I've seen are from Latin America, where I've been living lately. Here gender polarity is stronger, maybe because feminism hasn't reached it yet in full force, and I can assure you that those girls knew what they were doing. It's quite an effective strategy too. But yeah maybe in Europe/the US it's less prevalent. There, girls are deluded that they will find a good man past their prime, so they don't take extreme measures like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 12:48 PM |
| 0 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?Wait, I'm curious. Am I sexist because: you believe women are not different at all from men, and by no means emtotional creatures or, you agree that women are more emotional than men, but that it can only be pointed out to bring up something positive about them (nurturing, empathy, etc.)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?Of course it's a minority of men. Still, I believe 5 to be a big number. If 5 of your friends had been murdered, would you say it's a small statistics? Regarding female righteousness, do you believe in the hamster? That is, the fact that sometimes women's brain gets overrun by emotions, and that they are left to find rational explanations for these things they feel, creating storylines that don't make sense? I have yet to know a woman who hasn't, at some specific, brief moment in time, lost her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 03:32 AM |
| 2 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?We have different experiences. In my case it's a high value young kid, usually from a mid to upper class family, socially awkward and a bit repressed, who starts dating an simple, average girl with less prospects in life. This girl knows that this kid has potential, and as he rises in life, in a few years he won't look at her. So one day she doesn't take the pill, but also conveniently convinces herself that she did take it. And then young buck is locked up. Have seen it happen many times, exact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?It's the way she says it. As an afterthought. Sounds like what a chubby girl would say because she has a nice smile from a certain angle. But I admit it's pure speculation and prejudice on my part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 03:16 AM |
| 2 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?I personally know 5 men that had that happen to them. For 4 of them it was when they was teenagers or early 20s and still believed bluepill indoctination that women do no wrong. The 5th one was older, he's an idiot. Apart from those, I've indirectly heard of many more men. I agree that most women will be truthful 90% of the time, but then there is this one convenient oportunity to snatch a good man and they convince themselves that they did take the pill, when they really forgot. Just one time i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 11:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?She responded a bit below: I am nice and kind and gentle and loving and have a good job and have domestic skills and don’t bother people. Oh and I am cute. Do you want more? For some reason I don't believe the 'I'm cute' thing, but that's just me. To be fair she didn't list any physical demands regarding her potential husband, but she fails to realize that men criteria for a partner are vastly different from women criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?Come on. You must have a better argument than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?Yeah I know it doesn't apply to me, I'm saying what is any man gaining from saving sex for marriage? He basically exposes himself to a life of sexual misery if you two don't click. And again, your argument about pregnancy doesn't work: if a man is careful the possibility of him getting a girl pregnant unwantingly is basically null. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?Yeah but sex is a very hormonal thing. Sometimes it clicks, sometimes it doesn't, and there is no way of knowing until you try. So by not trying before marriage, you could end up with a husband with whom it doesn't click in bed. Then what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?It is important to have standards. What do you offer in return? I'm waiting for her to respond to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?Yeah exactly. My n-count is above 100, always used condoms, never had a scare. I don't think this is a good argument to throw to defend saving sex for marriage. What is there to gain for the man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?I have questions: Do you believe sex and physical intimacy are not an important part of any relationship? If you do believe that, do you expect to find a man who thinks alike? A man who doesn't value sex and physical intimacy that much? If you don't believe that, do you expect this intimacy part to resolve itself through sheer persistance and good will after marriage? What happens if you and your husband don't work out in this regard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?Mm you know you can have plenty of sex whilst taking preventive measures to not get your partner pregnant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?I honestly don't see how those things are related to what I said. I'm willing to consider it, but please explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?Fair enough. Then I just hope that OP will be true to her word and stick to these, and be satisfied by a guy who doesn't necesarily gives her the tingles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 07:02 PM |
| 4 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?Nah man. It's the fact that young men (before they get more experienced) are told by their first real girlfriend that 'she's on the pill'. At this point they don't know any better yet, and fall for this. Men grow up trusting each other's word, with women some learn the hard way that you can't trust them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 06:59 PM |
| 11 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?<Reasonable standards> <Save sex for marriage> Choose one. No but seriously how is saving sex for marriage a reasonable standard? A quality woman will know that sex is a big part of the man's necesities. So if she really is quality material she will make sure to show him that she knows that, and that she will be a good partner in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!It's true they self-regulate with time. I like to think that it's because of me trying to be righteous. As girls, like water, take the form of their container, I believe they pick up on this too, they adapt their shape to ours. But could be just confirmation bias from my side. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!Exactly! And it's not about being weak, on the contrary. When I tell girls I won't be exclusive and I don't lie, they hate/love it at the same time. It shows them I don't give a fuck and don't need to pretend to keep them around. All of them, even the high quality good girls, end up fucking me. Then if I become exclusive with one of them, they actually take notice of everything I say, because I've established that my words cannot be bent, and that I mean what I say. If I say something, they know… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Tried to loose my virginity to a hooker, couldn't get an erection to fuck her.Regarding the girl: Get a good-looking one, one that you like. Sex is not only physical, there are also hormones, scent involved. Maybe she wasn't the indicated one. Once you're with her, don't rush it. If she knows what she's doing she should have you laying down, caressing you, learning about your story a little bit, telling you abour hers. Professionals know when to turn on this nurturing female power to get us going. Regarding yourself: if there is something to improve, do it. You should be … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I demand an apology from a plate?It's not true, I get women to apologize all the time. Thing is, I don't convince them to apologize with rational arguments, that indeed doesn't work. But if you change the way she feels, and the frame she's in, she'll apologize all right. They're emotional creatures. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Should I demand an apology from a plate?We all make the same mistake after swallowing the pill, I know I did: we forget about comfort. Apparently you are cold enough and you project this bossy attitude, which is fine. But the more you do it, the more she needs comfort to compensate, in almost equal quantity. When she asks you about what you two are, you don't have to answer rationally and say that you will marry her, or that she's just a hole and that she should just shut up. Just answer emotionally, that's all she needs. Like a puppy… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!Cheers mate. Agree to disagree | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!I mean there is a direct link, since owning everything that you do is basically frame, which is what makes pussy wet. But I see you're flexing your internet muscles so no worry, we don't have to carry on. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!I don't think it's the right analogy for this (most people would be ashamed to shit in public, I won't be ashamed to fuck multiple girls at once), but I get your point. Going further than just cheating, I wish I had the time to explain how righteousness has made me a stronger man, because it erases the option of hiding or lying, so you're only left with owning everything that you do. There is also strength in being good. But I agree that every man does what he wants, I have cheated in the past, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!Those are two different things. I think if you're Alpha you shouldn't need to lie, because your words, desires and actions are perfectly aligned. How do you know you're Alpha? When you do whatever the fuck you want, when you want, without fear of anything. If you have to hide from mommy then you're not that alpha are you? But, as I said, to each his own. Anyway this sub is indeed about slaying pussy, I agree. It's amoral. Lying or being righteous doesn't affect how much pussy you'll get, so each… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 07:34 PM |
| 7 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!It's true, they crave a man who has options, and a man who has constant options is more likely to cheat. Some women even want a cheater, because it's less pressure for them to keep him satisfied. The only thing they really care about is his unfaltered commitment. Still, it's not because some women want it that we should do it. Personnaly I don't cheat because I shouln't have to. I get what I want when I want, I shouldn't be hiding from anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!Not just because of a set of values. Because you train them with punishment and reward, and because they know you hold the power. You should keep reading, maybe you'll learn something. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 06:01 PM |
| 7 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!There isn't a common view regarding morals in TRP. Everybody decides for himself. I personnaly find that righeousness is the corollary to strength, but it's just me. Yes cheating has been around for centuries, that doesn't prove anything for or against. It's not about morals, it's about: 1) practice what you teach: if you can't uphold yourself to standards, you're not legitimate to demand those standards from any girl. If you want your girl to be honest and faithful, but you're unable to do so, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 05:46 PM |
| 6 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!I agree about divorce rape being a real problem, and being the only justification for cheating. It only applies to some specific cases though, and should be addressed as such. In this case, we are glorifying cheating like it makes you cool. No it doesn't, it just shows you're afraid to stand your ground. Also they mentionned it was the third time he cheated, in multiple LTRs, don't think it had anything to do with fear of divorce rape. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 03:37 PM |
| 79 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!I gotta disagree here, but to each his own. Good for him to be getting young pussy, but cheating still denotes low value in my view, like you need to be hiding from your LTR. If your LTR doesn't satisfy you, either: 1) break up with her 2) let her know you're getting pussy on the side to satisfy you No shame in getting your needs taken of, hiding is entering the woman's frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI agree, I personally advocate for righteousness too, but it's a personal stance. The sub is amoral, which allows it to work just fine, between those who just wanna know how to get laid, and those who want to become better people. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/18 02:22 AM |
| 2 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionThis is what you get out of the above examples? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Q4PP: Respectful way to break up a long-term relationship?I made the same mistake of waiting a couple of weeks to break up, to allow for a specific event to occur, or for the other person to be in a "good place" to take it. It seems like a good idea, but it's not. The moment you know you wanna do it, you do it. Best you can do is to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 06:17 PM |
| 0 | How does every person on TRP mingle with HB 7+ women when most people are average?Because we mostly only report about the hot ones, the ones we are proud to seduce. But obviously we also go out with average to ugly chicks. Personally I try to be fair in what I write: Here is a field report I wrote about taking a 5's virginity: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3h0d53/fr_a_30_yearsold_wanted_me_to_be_her_sex_teacher/?ref=share&ref_source=link Here is a post I made about dating 'ugly girls': https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4eg2pa/pros_and_cons_of_fucking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 02:18 PM |
| 3 | LMR or having boundaries?If it was the first time you saw her, it's fair for her to reject sex. That doesn't mean that she's really into you. My advice is take her out on some cheap date/activity (dont start throwing money at her), that you wanna do anyway. Have fun. Also don't get too commited to this girl in particular, game other girls. I can tell by your post that you like her, that might play against you. By second or third date she should put out if she's into you. If not, don't worry about it and move one to one … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 06:41 AM |
| 5 | Husband works to be provider traveling for his job, wife gains weight from pregnancy, sex drops off, fights begin, wife asks for divorce. Husband then finds younger and hotter woman. Now regrets leaving him.That's why we know it's fake. Look at the way it's written: very level headed and recognizing that she failed.. No way it's a true confession. That's redpill porn. Nice story though | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/18 01:00 AM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI was thinking about writing a post about this. Here are a few ideas: accept all invitations if they can help you meet new people, even by groups that are not cool: a boring person invites you somewhere with their friends? Maybe their friends are cool BUT, don't go out if your energy is low. It's better to not be there than to be dull or boring. Somedays you're not feeling it, my advice is stay home rather than burn your image similarly, don't overstay. Stay a couple of hours and have great ener… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaIn my experience yes it is.. I guess it's because it's easier to get enlightened, to swallow the pill, but it's harder to make actual changes to adapt to this new reality. Now is the harder part for you. Channel your anger at all this and start improving and adapting. It gets better from here. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | So this happened at a dance party...I know man, I get it. I dislike that about girls too, that they're not as direct than us men. Still, there is a reason for that. Women are fucking weak so they're evolutionary trained to no piss anyone off. Anyway I'm not saying the girl was classy, I'm saying it happens all the time and it's no big deal, also not comparable in any way with the other stories here of good husbands who are cucked and divorced raped. Life is gonna throw bigger shit at you than this, just take it easy man. | /r/MGTOW | 09/04/18 08:18 PM |
| 8 | So this happened at a dance party...This. I don't understand why OP is being upvoted here. He's pissed because she didn't want to dance with him but with someone else? Are girls obliged to dance with OP, or they are monsters? Was the girl supposed to tell him the truth, that she would like to dance but not with him? If this is a troll post, they are proving their point about this sub. | /r/MGTOW | 09/04/18 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Hitting on girls at the gymGood argument. Well played man | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Hitting on girls at the gymYou're getting a lot of criticism but I really appreciated the writing. I can tell you're legit. Also it's awesome that you talk about your shortcomings or the times you pussied out. All of us go through this. Those who criticize you have no idea what they're talking about. Not all interactions go smoothly, sometimes it doesn't turn out ok and then you just withdraw in the best way you can. That's not cringy, that's life. And that's how you grow. You must be slaying left and right.. Keep it up, … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | The Redpill Delusion of 'Abundance'.I am a redpill man, I have abundance mentality. I will try to argue with you using my example, although I imagine your mind is already made. Anyway: I take care of myself not for women, but for myself. Even if I'd cut my dick off I would still take care of myself, because I feel good this way I approach very rarely. Once every few weeks when I'm in need of a new plate, or when I meet a girl I really want. If it's not clear by the two previous points: my life doesnt revolve at all around women. I… | /r/MGTOW | 27/03/18 03:25 PM |
| 13 | look at this tinder horseshitDude: irony... | /r/MGTOW | 26/03/18 02:00 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI mean, most people get stuck right there. It's tough to swallow the pill and understand what you got to do, but it's harder to actually put in the work and make it happen. I don't know where you're at but the first things I would advise is to take care of yourself: clean up your diet, go lift, sleep, etc. In short, be prepared and willing to suffer for a while, because you have to improve, and no improvement comes without suffering. Forget about getting numerous girls for now. Just focus on tal… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Another attractive girl asking for number when the girlfriend is presentI think it really depends on how you define plates. For me they are more than friends with benefits. I wouldn't mind a FWB taking another guy's number in front of me, after all we're just buddies that fuck, but if a plate does that she's out. I can't demand respect if I can't give it myself. Plates always entertain the idea that they can become something more, and sometimes they become girlfriends after they've shown consistent good behaviour for awhile. But I have to lead by example for this to… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 03:21 PM |
| 15 | Another attractive girl asking for number when the girlfriend is presentIf I'm with a girl, even if she's only a plate not a gf, I believe it's disrespectful to hit on other girls or get their numbers. My plates already put up with a lot (they know I fuck other girls, sometimes I stop contacting them for a while, etc) so at least when I'm with them I'm with them. When I miss out on another girl, well too bad. If I got hung up on it it would show lack of abundance, and it would show my plate that I'm obsessed with pussy. So no, I don't give out my number. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | chicks going on exchangeBetween 5 and 10. Some more, some less. But even the shyest ones will see this as their opportunity to explore the wild side without anybody she knows judging her. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Going to AmsterdamDude, thanks. From the outside TRP looks like a sub filled with hate, but from within it's an amazing community. We have each other's backs | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Going to AmsterdamThis comment was pretty much buried at the end of the thread. I appreciate it made its way to you... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/18 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaHey man. I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you present a different lifestyle and set of ideas with an open mind for discusion. I think the most important thing to ask is whether you're happy, and it seems that you are. Do whatever makes you happy, as long as it's really your desires and not external social programming. Regarding TRP, sure most people here will have a different lifestyle where they fuck a lot of women. But really, TRP is not about that. It's a description of gender mati… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | If a girl sees you and does a quick look away, does she like you or is she repulsed by you?If you're asking this you still have a long way to go. For guys, one look is enough to know you want to fuck the girl or not. For girls, attraction depends on the circumstances and takes longer. She could look at a handsome guy and then be totally put off when he starts acting beta. So one look at her is just an opening, nothing more. You still have to seduce her. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 08:38 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaGood for you man. Also, it's not only the calories, but the type of food. Change your diet completely, i.e. eat A LOT of veggies, and no processed food. The part of the habits is also really important. To remind me that every day counts, I start it with a cold shower. It reminds me that I have to achieve some goals every day before I can chill. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaHahaha, I know you're trolling but that's funny. Have my upvote. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI disagree. I think you're mixing up beta with provider. They're not the same, although they overlap most of the time. For me alpha and beta are rather the way we behave in the spectrum of conformism/individualism. Are you trying to conform to other people's expectation of you, and are you trying to please them first? That's beta. Are you following your own desires first, without caring about people's opinion? That's alpha. Becoming alpha is unlearning the social and mental barriers that you hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 12:58 PM |
| 3 | TRP lessons from business: from ramen noodles to Forbes 30 under 30Great post. Congratulations on your achievements, and thank you for taking time to share your experience. These are some in-depth and detailed advices, very enlightning. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 02:13 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI agree, but sometimes she really tried to build rapport beforehand, but for some reason it's not clicking. And then she knows, because she's smart, that maybe it's time to throw in sex. So yeah it's not all the girls. Most girls' level of effort is reduced to making themselves pretty and giving sex. I don't care much about those ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 01:19 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI don't see it this way. For me when I'm on some sort of date and the girl doesn't wanna have sex, fine. As I wrote sex is not so important in the end. But then she has to compete for my attention with all the other things I could be doing, including having sex with someone else. Sometimes, she does grab my attention and I have a genuine good time. Most of the times it's not the case, and then she'd better have sex with me, because that's the last opportunity to raise my interest. So sometimes t… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaValid points. TheRedPill is a sub on sexual strategy, that rightfully focuses on women. Yet, it teaches that the most efficient way to obtain what you most crave (women) is to achieve a way of life where you follow your passions, are bursting with the energy of what you're capable of, and treat women like an afterthought. But you cannot reach this stage if you are loaded with frustration. So TRP teaches concrete keys to attract women, but with the ultimate goal that at some point you completely … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 03:54 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaDude we're lucky to have found this place. It finally gives us an explanation for these things. Without explanation of why the world is like that and why women treat us the way they do, some guys would become crazy or violent. Even if you don't become Chad at least it gives you peace of mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 03:40 PM |
| 3 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaCongrats on your lifestyle and what you've achieved.. You're doing great, taking care of yourself, free while being able to be a father of 7 and not living in misery because of child support. Kudos man. The example you give is very telling of the difference between male and female ways of thinking. For men, the same information has the same results in different circumstances, so the right thing is to provide the information right away. For women, information changes with circumstances (like with… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaUse this anger to improve, seriously. We need this kind of motivation. Then later when life becomes easier and you have everything you need, it's harder to be motivated. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 01:16 PM |
| 3 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI agree but for many men, the gateway to become themselves is through sex, because it's a very strong and common frustrated desire. In my case the obsession with sex clouded my other passions, and I didn't want to have less desire, I wanted to have enough sex to stop worrying about it and focus on more interesting stuff. Obviously your path is wiser but we're all different. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaNot necesarily disagreeing with you, but just curious: how old are you? How's your diet? In my experience if you hit the gym, the first results appear really fast, and then you get stuck in a second phase.. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 01:09 PM |
| 3 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaYeah, and it's hard no to react by trying to become an amogging asshole yourself. But after a certain time, as you grow, you can see the insecurities behind their bravado persona. If you're strong and righteous, I think you always prevail over only the strong. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 01:02 PM |
| 3 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaRead the sidebar. Explore the sub and don't be put off by the language, it's crude because we're amongst men, but it's still honest and truthful. If you disagree with something provide arguments. Welcome | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaHell yeah. We made mad efforts in the first two stages, we get results, and just like that we wanna stop making efforts instead of recognizing that they were the basis of our success. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 12:57 PM |
| 4 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI have never been more loved and loving than since I took TRP. Women don't just want my cock or my body (which to be honest are nothing exceptional), but they're mostly attracted to my personality because I'm completely me without any barriers or shame, and I'm vibrant with life and energy. I'm happier than I've ever been and my relationships are the deepest I've had, because I can connect with the true nature of women and they recognize it and appreciate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 12:54 PM |
| 3 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaTotally, and it's impossible to imagine this other side of women until you actually witness it. All women, everywhere, treated you 'normally', then something changes, and they put you in a different category and they all treat you differently. You don't understand the nature of women until you witness this. Their whole personality can change with circumstances. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 12:49 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI appreciate your honesty. I disagree in the fact that I don't chase any 'glory': believe me I hate it when my friends' girlfriends hit on me. There is a fine line between being happy with who you are, and wanting to change and to improve to become a better version of yourself. I think it's reasonable to be willing to change and improve, at first for a specific purpose (to understand and adapt to the sexual market) and then because you realize this change is good in itself. Both those steps brin… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 12:43 PM |
| 3 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaApply redpill principles and put the work in and they'll want to fuck you. Only add any kind of average steady job and they will want to marry you | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 10:35 PM |
| 8 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaYour honesty is very good for you. I was the same regarding pussy, always obsessed. What did it for me was to build a small harem of girls beneath my level (6s mostly) and stick with it. So I completely stopped chasing girls and focused on improving, while having a bunch of average girls at my feet that worshipped my Alpha cock (to them I was Uber-Alpha). The fact that I stopped chasing made it that better girls started appearing and replaced the less attractive ones, progressively. You just hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 07:15 PM |
| 8 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaThanks I appreciate. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 07:05 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI agree that value comes from within. But it has to be 'applied' value. It has to translate into actions, and achievements. If not, it's not value, it's potential, and potential doesn't mean shit. So yeah, you should forget everybody else and know that your own value is within yourself, but then you should strive to exercise this value, apply it, give it as a gift to the outside world. If not, you're just one more unused seed in a field of life. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 07:05 PM |
| 9 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaHell yeah. I have a kid and I realize how big of a fuel it has been to me. Also fatherhood is awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:59 PM |
| 5 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaYeah, and to have ages, n-counts of people, etc. Would love to know more about fellow redpillers.. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:37 PM |
| 6 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaDude just the fact that you can look at yourself in the mirror and be honest is enough to know you'll continue to grow. You haven't lost humility despite increasing success. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI can't relate cause I was a shy loser at school. I still think every redpill principle applies to you. Just because you used to get social proof naturally, doesn't mean you can't learn how to obtain it by will and work now. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:35 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaI think you misread me, or I wasn't clear. I'm saying the same, that the risk is, if you don't snap out of it, to become a sociopath. TRP is divided on this, some here say fuck your morals, get your own and forget everybody else, whereas I'm on the side of those who strive for righteousness. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:30 PM |
| 4 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaOf course, not everyhing is real. I actually called out a couple of posters of RP porn, if you care to check my post history. But you know they're fake not because they can't happen, but because the writing is ridiculous. When you start watching Alphas you realize the amount of crazyness is out of reach, anything can happen. One example: I was on ski holidays with a friend (natural alpha, with a very strong positive energy and charisma), we take the elevator for 2 floors, in it there is a very h… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:25 PM |
| 10 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaYou won't believe me but I'm an introvert too. A real one. I spent my youth listening to prog rock alone in my room and doing LAN parties with a few friends, amongst other things. I still get tired socially, I like loneliness. Still, I hated to be limited by my personality so I learned the tools to be social and 'cool', just so I could decide for myself how I wanted my life, not just on the basis of being an introvert. You can do it too. Approach it like a game (like a board game for example), a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaMy favourite quote! It's by Ford if I recall correctly | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:08 PM |
| 5 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaAlso trying and unbetifying your friends is a major mistake, they'll turn against you in no time I tried talking redpill truths directly to some friends, even mentionned the sub to one of them a few years back. Major mistake, it never works and it can get you into trouble. The way I have unbetafied friends is by example. Specifically, what works best is when we are amongst us and I talk about how women are no big deal and how they have to qualify to me, they think I'm just a bro bragging among g… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:08 PM |
| 47 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaIf you actually hit the gym as it is widely recomended around here, the first physical gains show really fast, after only a few weeks. Add this to the fact that you stop acting like a doormat, and it's enough to get laid for most people. To internalize the principles it takes way longer obviously. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 03:43 PM |
| 36 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaSure. You can be redpill and married, you can be redpill and gay, you can be redpill and a woman. I mention these three categories because there are specific subs for those, if you care to look for them (I can't link them due to rules). Redpill is just the knowledge of how the world works in terms of mating dynamics. Obviously subscribers are often pumped with testosterone here, so all they are thinking about is sex, but you will see that more experienced redpillers try to teach that the ultimat… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 03:35 PM |
| 72 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaLife as a man is a struggle, and it never ends. Once I accepted that I became truly happy. I now relish having an obstacle to conquer every day. I wouldn't trade this for being a girl. Sure things are easier for them during the first decades, but when the going gets tough they are powerless and only have the victim card to play. Because they can't really change, whereas we can. Embrace that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 03:21 PM |
| 141 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaNot beta at all. We here advocate that every man should do whatever the fuck he wants. No shaming, no 'you should be this way'. But only as long as you're really happy, not like incels who decide they don't want to get laid because really they can't get laid. What TRP does is explain how the sexual market place works, and how women really function. You're free to use this information the way you see fit. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 03:14 PM |
| 34 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaAgreed. At some point you get all of the grind and the competition out of your system and you kinda go your own way, not because you can't get laid, but because you're not just that interested anymore. I can definitely feel myself tending towards that. The difficulty is trying to remain the best version of yourself without having the motivation to get laid. I guess this is enlightment. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 02:49 PM |
| 20 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaThis is a sexual strategy sub. 99% of men come here because of pussy, and their horniness is the fuel for their growth. However you're right in that pussy is not the end goal, this is why the more Alpha you become, the less you think about pussy. You find your mission and focus your energy on other things. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 12:45 PM |
| 7 | Does jacking off to porn alot instantly beta-ize you?That's a valid question, I don't get why he gets downvoted. As for the answer, porn does you harm because it gives you the release without the work, both mentally and physically. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 01:18 PM |
| 2 | First kiss at 15 (just right now) have some questionsDo you think she will escalate even further, as she is only 15 and is kinda prudish? It's not her role to escalate, it's yours. Up till now you did good and she was visibly receptive. Next time try to escalate, if she rejects you don't take it bad, give her time and try another time. You guys are young, it's ok not to rush. -Do you think other girls will like me more because I kissed her and she liked it, or will she downtalk me a little because of the fact that I didn't have any serious intenti… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 03:44 PM |
| 44 | My experiment with a hickeyOnce I had sex with a plate on her period, she left a blood stain on my pillow. But I didn't notice it because when I checked the bed after sex, the pillow was the other way around. The night after that, another plate comes and we're going at it in my bed, during foreplay we flip the pillow and there it is, a giant blood stain in front of both of us. I thought 'that's it, it's over, she's leaving for sure'. Best way I can describe her reaction is that she didn't say anything but got a really lon… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/18 12:55 PM |
| 4 | thoughts on going to a korean massage parlor?Problems with your LTR and the massage parlor are two completely separate things. It's ok to go to a massage parlor if you want to. It has benefits and drawbacks: you get the good feeling for relatively cheap, but you also lose the incentive to get laid for free. I'm successfull with women and get laid whenever I want, yet every few months I'll go to a massage parlor because I just want something different. Do whatever the fuck you want but don't let it distract you from your end goal which is t… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Fucking ugly (5s-6s) girls in your social circles: yea or nay?No problem with fucking average girls, but pick them outside of your social circle. Don't fuck girls in your social circle, make friends out of them and they will introduce you to more friends, you will expand your social circle. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 06:03 PM |
| 15 | difference between a rock and a emotional tampon?Her: "oh my god Stacy from accounting told Steven from the cafeteria that I should lose weight! What a two-sided bitch" Emotional tampon, with tears in his eyes: "reallly, why would she say that? Tell me all about it. Oh my god Stacy is such a whore. And you're beautiful just the way you are. Oh don't cry, here take a tissue. Life has been so unfair to you" Rock, smiling: "Really? Why do you care? Oooh poor you (teasing her), you want me to call Stacy's mom and we can have a meeting in the princ… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Why do women find businessmen more attractive than programmers?Two reasons. First, the people who go in these lines of work are usually marked: programmers are seen as incel nerds, businessmen as manly sharks. Obviously it's not true for all of them but there is some truth to this prejudice historically. Second, there is also something to be said about the nature of the work. A businessman is a higly-reactive guy working in the concrete world (usually), whereas a programmer essentially writes code for people, and he's kind of stuck in an abstract world. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 08:33 PM |
| 14 | How should i respond to this girl on tinder?Bro, you're visibly new to this. No you don't next her. You have to understand that she will never say that she wants a good dicking or that she's looking for a guy to LTR her. Because: she can't possibly know yet if she's really attracted to you, and for what purpose. She has to meet you, test you for resilience and frame (shit tests etc.), and get a feel of your SMV (social status, looks, money) she will ALWAYS need plausible deniability, because women react to the circumstances and they are n… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Girl I matched with on TinderBro you're doing this wrong. "You seem cool. What're you looking for on here" You seem cool is you giving her a compliment that she hasn't earned yet. A few pics and a bio is not worthy of a compliment. She gets those from betas all day long. Also the compliment is very general and doesn't bring anything to the convo. What're you looking for on here is you failing to create a narrative, and instead asking her to fucking come up with something to talk about. As a man, you should be the one creati… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 06:26 PM |
| 6 | How to divorce your wifeThis is really good. 'Lawyer up' is sound advice, but it's a rational advice. Women are emotional creatures and we can make most of the damage control at the emotional level. They're actually easy to deal with if you speak their language. When I separated from my ex, with no fault of my own, I felt this powerful, devastating anger surge in me as my ex used our kid as a bargaining tool and blamed everything on me. Best friend told me: "say yes to everything. Smile and just think of your kid. This… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/18 01:16 PM |
| 43 | A sobering convo with a feministI stopped reading at the half of it. It's obivously fake. Thing is, we don't need these fake stories, real life is proof enough. | /r/MGTOW | 18/01/18 01:33 PM |
| 3 | How to go from incel to chadA lot of good advices here. Basically read the sidebar, take your time and make small steps, and know that it will be a steep drive but worth it. I just wanna say it's possible. I wasn't technically an incel but at age 22 my n-count was 1. It's now over a 100. The first years you will go after women and they mostly will reject you. You'll still have to do it. But after a few years women will go after you, and you will be the one doing the rejecting. It will get really easy, and then you'll reali… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 08:03 PM |
| 40 | Girl confirms a date with me 36 min before a date proposed over a day ago... I miss it... what to do?She's not that into you. You were option C or D for her. DO NOT APOLOGIZE Say something not butthurt like 'you messaged me too late and I had made other plans'. Do not say what you did. She should wonder if you went out with somebody else. At this point, if you still want to see her (I wouldn't), you propose a time a date, or maybe two options. Like 'alright no worries, I'm free tuesday at 7pm or thursday at 5'. If she doesn't agree but doesn't make a concrete counter-offer (I can't these days b… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 10:55 PM |
| 3 | You're getting played.Same here. I come from TRP and have only seen positive things about MGTOW (as opposed to incels for example). Nobody worships pussy on TRP, they actually advocate to take a break of pussy and focus on yourself | /r/MGTOW | 29/11/17 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for Womenu/5pecial never said that this applies to him or that he can't get girls because he's short. He's making a general point. And, btw, you're right too, your points are valid as general advice. I don't get why you're angry though. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 05:55 PM |
| 8 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for WomenEmm, the same way Macedonians were once related to Alexander the Great? Sure, but it makes no (rational) sense today | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Boob Job Test w 3 Year Field ReportYou're getting flack in the comments for being worried, but if you have kids I see where you're coming from. Your post is well-written and shows you're a smart, tough guy who has overcome some of his weaknesses. I hope it all turns out for the best for you man | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/17 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Not sure if posted already.Is there really an outrage against Makeapp? I haven't seen it.. Links? | /r/MGTOW | 19/11/17 12:41 PM |
| 2 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youWomen are born, men are made. Your advice makes sense from a woman's point of view, because women don't change much. They are what they are from an early age, personality-wise. Men change constantly. When we face a new challenge, either we understand it and overcome it, and we change for the better (become confident), or we can't break it down and we change for the worst (become weak and bitter). This is why we men have to overanalyze everything, and you don't. The charismatic guy that you 'vibe… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 12:57 PM |
| 1 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youI agree wholeheartedly. If TRP is about faking, we're just PUA. The end goal must be to grow as a man and become the guy we needed to fake. Yet, there are different ways to get there. Some guys will find the path on their own, but other will need to fake this feeling so that they know what to seek, what to look for. I know it has been my case. Just like faking your posture: it's gonna hurt to walk straight, but you'll also finally be conscious about the muscle groups that are weak and/or hurting… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 06:03 PM |
| 2 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youSame here. Those cycles have become troublesome: how comes when I'm a carefree party drug user my confidence is up-high, but when I'm focused and in better physical shape I lose the mojo? I don't know why they come when they do, but I've come to think of these low-confidence times as a necessity: we have to feel scared, we have to feel like losers sometimes, because it provides us with another rush that activates 'survival mode' and kicks us forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youFast talkers are usually asociated with peoples who get lost listening to themselves, and lack in their ability to listen. I don't know if it applies to you. If your're fast but collected, and you listen to others and it's fun to have a back and forth conversation with you, then it's all good. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 01:07 PM |
| 3 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youIt's like weed stretches you inward, and MDMA stretches you outward | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 01:01 PM |
| 1 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youThe difference is that we men use this as complementary information. Of course we're gonna notice the body language, but it's not gonna be the primary source of information exchange. For women I believe it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 12:54 PM |
| 3 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youI think we are as oblivious to the world of feelings and perceptions as they are to rationality and reason. Also about energy: once you start feeling it a lot of things start to make sense, for example redpill principles are rooted in opposite polarities between the genders. But yeah, it's just perception so it's difficult to discuss this in a sub that rigthfully promotes male logic and rationality. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youGood trolling | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 02:56 AM |
| 2 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youDefinitely, I imagine most of new redpillers are young guys starving for pussy. It's hard to carry across the message that you should aim to just be the best version of yourself, regardless of pussy. But you're right, it comes after a certain age. As for women, yeah I'd say I got them pretty much figured out. Which doesn't mean that I fuck models, not trying to brag. But it's more about me still having to improve. Not all girls find me good looking, but once I can talk to them I get what I want … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 12:50 AM |
| 4 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youYeah I'm definitely more attractive when I'm high on something. Girls gravitate towards me, and it's not just a false perception. Some here have said that this occurs because you have a IDGAF attitude, but I don't think it's the real reason. I believe that drugs make you vibrate with a higher energy (as long as you use them properly and don't become a couch potato). You're tuned in to a stronger frequency, you're intense, and you have creative energy -although most of the time we don't use it. G… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 12:39 AM |
| 2 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youSo true! Words are way more efficient, and since we've invented them, we have forgotten body language. But it's still what we've used for the major part of our existence as a species, it's in our dna. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youI agree. I'm not specifically advocating for becoming self-conscious of all these covert interactions. I still think it's good to know they exist. The end game for all of us is to be your natural alpha self. But ways to get there vary. Some will learn by rationalizing things and applying techniques, like I did. 'Faking' alphaness helped me get a feel of how it should be, and then I grew into that person. Others, like you, will be better off focusing on themselves from the get go. Knowledge, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 12:26 AM |
| 6 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youYou sound very MGTOW, and it's not a bad thing, I'm tending more and more towards that as well, and I spend more time now rejecting female advances and doing other stuff. But TRP is a place for men to learn about women and the sexual marketplace specifically. With that knowledge, some of us will decide to fuck a thousand women by any means, and some will decide to focus on more interesting stuff, like you and I apparently. Still, their option is as valid as ours, we're not judging. Also and more… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 07:12 PM |
| 12 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youThis is not pussy worshipping. This is learning about pussy. If you don't understand the world around you, you're not able to be free from its constraints. Best part in fake it till you make it is the make it part. If you become the badass, confident man you should be, you won’t have to worry about all this. It will come out naturally. First you understand how women work. Even if you don't want to fuck them, it's pretty interesting. Learning about reality is one thing that men do. Second, you re… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 06:52 PM |
| 3 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youTotally agree with you: Best part in fake it till you make it is the make it part. If you become the badass, confident man you should be, you won’t have to worry about all this. It will come out naturally. Still, it's easier to become ourselves and not give a fuck when we understand the world around us. This is what TRP is. It just shows the reality. Personally, I could only develop the IDGAF attitude once I had women figured out completely. This is why I believe these posts are necessary becaus… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 06:41 PM |
| 33 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youSo many great points, I wish your comment was higher. Men and women are totally different animals, and once we swallow the pill we are baffled to realize that women only fake being rational because this is what school and society has told them, but really they function completely on instincts and feels. The social model, which is indeed based on centuries of 'patriarchy', is founded on rationality, because this is the way of survival, the only thing that works. Women have learned to navigate thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 06:37 PM |
| 6 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youI don't think talking fast is a bad thing in itself. It's just that, usually, it comes with defaults such as complacency with your own discourse, and an inability to pick up on other people's cues. I don't know if it applies to you. But the smart & fast type can definitely be a winner. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 06:22 PM |
| 14 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youI agree completely. Drugs in general offer incredible windows into other forms of perception, and our intelligence is highly dependent on our perception (we can only go so far building abstract models in our heads). Molly in particular helps you increase this female perception. You pick up on many of those things I mention in the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 06:16 PM |
| 113 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youIt's not about the brainpower. You're rationalizing it, just the way I do it in the post. We're translating female-world into our world. In reality, she can be the dumbest of bimbos, she will still read into all this, albeit unconsciously. When girls say 'I was attracted to him, it just happened', what they mean is that they responded unconsciously to a lot of messages indicating a valuable male, and acted upon it. Again, it has nothing to do with being smart. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Being "Chad" Is Overrated (Believe it or not)In defense of OP: Struggle is relative, just like pain. I'm sure OP had other types of struggles only he knows about. The strengths we have almost always come with weaknesses (maybe his were mental, maybe a false sense of self, what do I know), and everybody has their dark side they need to climb out of. Remember the Chads from high-school. In my experience, most of them turned out to be weak losers lost in dead-end jobs trying to relieve their glory days forever, unless they've encountered and … | /r/MGTOW | 10/11/17 02:39 PM |
| 24 | Incels got banned. What does that mean for TRP?people that are successful on TRP come here for pussy and leave hardly caring for it This. When you can get pussy easily (which happens if you swallow the pill), you stop worrying about it and it becomes one thing you could do among many. Should I go play pick-up bball with my buddies? Should I work on my novel/music/motorcycle? Should I get laid? Should I hit the gym? So many fun things to do! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 09:23 PM |
| 41 | Incels got banned. What does that mean for TRP?I agree, this is the real problem with incels. They give up. Men don't give up, actually one of the good things with women is that they make men compete and we become better. Although TRP teaches sexual strategy, it also teaches that we should strive to improve for ourselves, not for women. Even if no woman was to be genuinely attracted to me ever again, I would still strive to be the best I can be. Because that's the best way to live. Also, there are many ways to be happy without the genuine fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Banter or disrespect?Righteousness and generally aspiring to be a good person are one of the things that are still being debated here in TRP. Of course sexual strategy is amoral, but should being Alpha include being righteous? I'm in the minority that thinks it does, and for this reason I appreciate seeing your comments, there are too few examples like these. Apart from a personal moral code, righteousness is also the discipline of the heart, the same way we here advocate the discipline of the body (lifting) and the… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Banter or disrespect?This is great! Thanks for taking the time to write this, it's exactly what I wanted to know about rock band dynamics without knowing how to ask. The part on the importance of the emotional connection for songs to be successful is also very interesting. Btw you seem like a cool dude, not only because you're both slaying on stage and with women, but also because you take care of your more beta friends and band members. Keep it up. If there is any way for you to share your music without taking the … | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Banter or disrespect?Haha cool. Thanks for sharing If you have time, as some point it would be awesome if you did a post on redpill dynamics at work in a band (both within the band regarding chicks). After all being in a rock band is at the top of most male wishlists. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Banter or disrespect?You have definitely the right attitude, and he probably sees you're changing and feels threatened. All in all, it means you're on the right path! Soon when you get stronger in your body and your frame, they won't pull this shit with you anymore. In the meantime, if you have to fight him, do it. Also remember in streetfights, the winner is almost always the one who is more enraged, no the strongest. So if it comes to that, pump yourself up and be ready to fucking destroy him. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Banter or disrespect?Do your introvert band members get laid? In other terms, does the status of being in a band overturns the betaness of some of them? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Banter or disrespect?How are you physically? Socially? I might be wrong, but your post gives off the vibe of a shy, introvert guy. Also, if you guys ended up in a fight, can you take him? Not advocating fighting him, just that it may matter in how he and others view this. I think it's awesome that you confronted him in person, and not through some mail/social media. Also, for all social purposes, the one who loses his cool is the loser -unless you're willing to go all the way and fight and kick his ass. What I'm say… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Bitches be like:This is so accurate.. it's hilarious | /r/MGTOW | 02/11/17 02:07 AM |
| 2 | I like Porn where female dominates guy (femdom). Is that weird?All the haters in the comments jeez.. Doesn't matter what kink you're into. Most guys (including the aforementioned commenters) have weird kinks or watch bizarre porn. What matters is that you don't let porn take over your life. Try looking for girls who are into that (for example make a faceless profile on tinder -I hope you're ripped-, stating you're a sub). | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 03:17 PM |
| 6 | "But, if the roles were reversed..." - A concerning trendThis. OP thinks we're complaining about double standards for ourselves. Obviously we're not, if we're on this forum we know what the true nature of men and women is. These rational complaints about the double standards are for the vast majority of people. By pointing out double standards, you help them realize that: feminism is not about equality the logical response is that there is no double standard because men and women are different So it helps our cause, and wakes normies up. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 01:52 PM |
| 20 | God Can't BleedThis is why hardships should be brought upon guys from a young age, because this is the rite of passage that converts them into men. It used to be like that (and it still is in some primal societies): when a young guy reaches a certain age, you make him go through hell and teach him to overcome. Then he becomes a man. I became a man not when I swallowed a pill, but when life threw the biggest shit at me and I overcame it. After that I know I'll never be broken again. I'm thankful for these hards… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 01:41 PM |
| 4 | God Can't BleedIf it was a big upset in your life - it is normal to have a moment of weakness when you think you can't handle it. This doesn't make you not-Alpha, may be only at that very moment you don't exhibit your usual Alpha behaviour Totally agree with you but women don't think feel like that. A man will know you can be a little bitch for a while and will recover. A woman will see you just were a little bitch at some point, and that's enough for her to lose interest. Even when you're back to your alpha w… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 01:37 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Fucked a girl last night, regretted not watching the game on tv insteadOh my god thanks! I knew something felt.. wrong. Actually now I can put words on it, I do feel violated. I asked nicely for her to keep on sucking me but instead she grabbed my dick and made me fuck her. She GRABBED it!! I wasn't ready to fuck yet but I was in shocked and didn't say anything. I was scared of her reaction so I just did it. Oh my god I feel so dirty I'm crying right now. I'm gonna post on facebook saying I'm a victim but I don't wanna go to the police because I don't feel strong e… | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/17 08:10 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Fucked a girl last night, regretted not watching the game on tv insteadHuh what? | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/17 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Trading rolesWhich is exactly the way it should be in a natural state of things. Men should be alpha and lead, and women should be beta and follow and nurture. I also believe that both genders benefit from this. Aren't your plates happier, now that they have a definite purpose (which is it gain your commitment or at least not lose you) and means to this end (to please you and use their charms)? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/17 03:54 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Fucked a girl last night, regretted not watching the game on tv insteadI don't want to write off pussy altogether. Great sex beats jerking off any day. What I'm aiming at is to focus 100% on myself and achieve my goals, and then hopefully girls will be chasing me and will worship my dick for a chance to be with me. However, if this doesn't happen I'm not changing anything and would rather go celibate than go back to jumping through hoops for girls who aren't worth half of what I am. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/17 03:00 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Fucked a girl last night, regretted not watching the game on tv insteadPreviously I was hoping to have a balance of both (mini-relationships or FWB with women, and still have lots of personal time etc) but that doesn't seem to work as I hoped in practice. Exactly this. I'm in the same spot. At first I was focused on girls and had lots of sex, then I thought I'll dial it down a little, but I realized you still have to invest time in them, which I'm not willing to do anymore as we don't get that much in return. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/17 02:46 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Fucked a girl last night, regretted not watching the game on tv insteadcould have been way worse Yup, this sub is full of horror stories of girls cheating, stealing your money, etc. But even normal sex with an average girl with no drama involved doesn't seem worth everything we have to do to get there. Girls don't take care of themselves physically anymore, and don't have much to talk about. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/17 02:40 PM |
| 28 | Do you guys keep beta male friends?Some of my best friends are beta. With one we've actually discussed this, and he knows how he could improve his ways both in life and with women, but he just 'doesn't have it in him'. It's fine. Almost 80% of men are betas, that's the way things are. There are awesome people in this group, men who are honest, fun, hard-working, funny, noble. Don't discard them. If you only seek 'alphas' you'll probably end up with a bunch of posers. Real alpha treat betas with respect and guide them / lift them … | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Friendship with girl: How to make sexual innuendo to see if she's interested?You have more to gain keeping her as a friend. She'll introduce you to more girls | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | TRP has taught me to hate making any efforts to get laid. Not sure if it's good or bad..I can relate a lot, same happened to me. First phase is I realized I could get laid a lot -and I did. Then in a second phase I got really pissed if I had to do any effort. Either the girl is into me as soon as she knows enough about me, or she can just fuck off. I'm not jumping through hoops again. Anyway I got laid much less, obviously. Now I'm sort of willing to make an effort but not for any basic bitch. Don't know what else to say | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 07:19 PM |
| 28 | What was the Last Straw?Not really a last straw. Kind of on the contrary, TRP made me improve, and I'm not gonna lie, at first I improved for women. Then at some point I 'cracked the women code' so to speak, and just when I figured I could have sex whenever I wanted and get most girls interested in me, I suddenly lost interest. Sex is like drinking water, you think about it all the time if you don't have access to it, but when you do, it's no big deal. No regrets though, the redpill journey has made me a better man, it… | /r/MGTOW | 12/09/17 08:29 PM |
| 13 | 10 priceless lessons after 10 years in the manosphere [5-min read, x-post from r/MensRights]I think what he means is that the blue pill is an ideology which requires obedient faith in some axioms ("difference is always good", "all cultures are equal and worth the same", "except for victims, who are always worth more", etc.) that you can't question or discuss. Once you unplug, you shouldn't take theredpill as another ideology and accept everything just because. On the contrary you should experience, test the red pill principles, and see for yourself before making an opinion. On which I … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 08:38 PM |
| 3 | I hate my wifeWhy do you stay with her? How much you invested in this doesn't matter. Why is she worth staying with moving forward? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/17 11:43 AM |
| 1 | What should I do to have a great senior year?Try to raise one step above where you were in the social hierarchy. You were a lonely nerd? Or you were the average guy with some friends and some scarce contact with girls? Anyway, try to raise above the level you were at. Remember the guys who you thought were accessible to you, but were just cooler. Try to find guys like that, see if you have things in common. Then take it slowly from here. The key is to accept that there is no magic pill, that you will grow slowly and painfully, but you will… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Went on some dates...Yep except if you voice it like that it sounds like you invested time to get sex, and you feel you wasted it. You should be more outcome independent and enjoy the date regardless. Anyway, you can have sex whenever you want, right? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | i work at a grocery store(i don't mind losing the job) i talk to alot of older woman around like 40 ( i'm 21) Some of them i can tell really fancy me but how do i transition the conversation into getting her number to meet up?He can still do it lowkey, like a friendly chat. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid fwb's to fall in love with me?Somes comments make fun of you but I feel you man. Sometimes I reject girls for the only reason of not wanting to crush them. Anyway those are problems we're still lucky to have. One day it will change. In the meantime, let's be grateful we are likeable, and try to be cool to others. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Went on some dates...You're good man. I'm naturally intense myself, and it got better with time and experience. I learned to be more chill. I still put some girls off when I'm ob the edge. We all have some flaws. About the rest you seem to be fine. Try to reframe the interaction with the girl to have her as a friend. She'll introduce you to more people. You'll also be more chill around her, good practice for the next one. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 07:47 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid fwb's to fall in love with me?This happens to me too and I hate it. It's sad to raise hopes in a girl just to crush them and make them feel like shit. Sometimes they try hard, in particular the less jaded ones. So anyway I've tried some things: If I show too many beta traits they won't fuck me -or will slow the process. If I tell them straight up not to fall in love I'm an arrogant asshole. Even if I turn to be right in the end. What does work is to share snippets of my lifestyle, i.e. don't brag but give them hints that you… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Went on some dates...I think she's just not that into you. You seem a bit intense from what you describe of your interactions with her and your train of thoughts. Maybe, as she said, she would like to be with a more relaxed you. Or maybe she just doesn't feel the attraction. Of course it can happen even if you do everything right. Anyway, she didn't give you a straight-up 'no' but rejected you in a subtle, female way. Move on, man. Good on you for genuinely enjoying the dates and not getting sucked into things you d… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Sex BlackpillWhat you really have to offer to a woman, is your capacity to explore, to live on the edge, to be curious. Women are bland, yes they understand and manage multiple emotional and social layers, but each thought is chased by the next one, each emotion replaced by the next stimulation. They don't focus, they don't go deep into things. We do. We don't have to change for women, we just have to be ourselves, with the masculine intensity and focus that come with it. Women will naturally be attracted to… | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/17 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Sex BlackpillSo true.. I get a lot of pussy but if I'm honest with myself they're below what I'm worth. 2-3 points, as you say. But at least having abundance of easy sex gives us some kind of freedom: we don't have to lose time chasing it, and a woman loses her power to manipulate us because we have other options. Seeing the girls you get easily is a great indicator of where you're at. Personnaly it makes me wanna improve, not because I really need hotter girls, but because I don't wanna be complacent when I… | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/17 02:24 AM |
| 17 | Sex BlackpillHaha so true the weed analogy. Let's try another one: For women, life is like a one shot of very pure cocaine: an almost immediate, extatic high (their youth) and then a long and tedious comedown and they don't get another shot. For men, life is like a long day on lsd: if your mindset is good and you're willing to learn, there's gonna be some buildup then the high will be long -lasting and will make you grow. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/17 02:12 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Then and now - the difference a year or two makes.Thanks for taking the time to write. Your examples are great because they are very concrete, and similar to a lot of things men in relationships can relate to. It's crazy to see how little rationality goes into women's reactions. Rather, it's more them responding to the frame you set. Your example of the flooring in particular would be hilarious if it wasn't so true: Let her make decisions on everything and spend as much as she wants, for a great result? She'll be unhappy. Make the decisions you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/17 07:13 PM |
| 11 | "My Woman Seemed To Want Me More When I Was On Drugs. Now That I'm Clean Everything Has Changed. Why???"I think you're missing the main point. Obviously the IDGAF attitude and the man she can fix are important, but you could find all this in a sleazy beta watching tv on his couch. What drugs do to you is that they give you an edge. You're vibrant, and at some level, you're experiencing life at the fullest. You're in the moment. Women are round, constantly shifting things that can't stay constant and focused on one thing. What attracts women in masculinity is the exact opposite, is when men have an… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Ask yourself if any of your ex-girlfriends give a crap about you...ll that shit was REAL...in that moment. but after, its gone. there is no permanency to their feelings. its just a running movie in their head where they are the star, and u are part of the supporting cast, but now that movie is over, and they are already staring in a new movie with a new supporting cast, and its jsut as real to them as their old movie, and it will be just as meaningless to them after that movie ends So beautifully put. | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/17 01:58 PM |
| 8 | When the tables finally turn, it might not be how you expectSounds unbelievable but it's actually true. Same is happening for me, I'm good at getting pussy but I'm losing interest and treating them as second-thoughts, and since then I'm attracting more girls than ever. I erased tinder two months ago because I wanted to go without women, and they litterally approach me a lot (neighbours, colleagues, friends of friends, girls at parties that look me up on facebook). I still think this is no different from the redpill alpha. In both cases it's about a man d… | /r/MGTOW | 15/08/17 06:32 AM |
| 7 | Why you're getting action but not getting laidGreat advice, with concrete examples. Thanks a lot. In my case after years of plate spinning I got a little bit jaded and I don't have the patience to take them on a fun ride. I got options so it's almost as either the girl is right away completely into me, or I lose interest. Your post is a good reminder that you get girls not only because you represent value, but also because you're fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/17 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women don't care if you were a former child rapist on tinder as long as you look like a Chad, AWALT (Social Experiment)They think the guy is real but is trolling pretending to be a child rapist. So the guy is hot and his sense of humour shows he doesn't give a fuck | /r/MGTOW | 11/08/17 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women don't care if you were a former child rapist on tinder as long as you look like a Chad, AWALT (Social Experiment)The profile is too extreme to the point of ridiculousness. So women know it's a guy trolling, and probably trolling because he's hot so he doesn't care. If they had proof he was an actual child rapist, maybe less women would be attracted. | /r/MGTOW | 11/08/17 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Keep a Daily JournalWriting with pen and paper is slow and unpractical. At this point all of us write faster on the keyboard, and you can actually write whatever comes to mind with no problem for erasing it. Once I switched to writing a journal every day at work from my computer (taking 10 min of my time), I haven't missed an entry. It's been almost ten years. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Starting a new wardrobe from scratch?If you're body is not in shape yet, buy just the strict minimum. Once you get leaner and/or more muscular, the same clothes you just bought won't feel right. It's cheaper to make a selection of clothes you already have that you like, take a bunch of them to a cheap small-mall tailor, and have them make measurements to cut them so that they fit perfectly. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | I have a month before living with my ex.If you really can't get out of your oneitis, then move. But you have one month to change, she apparently wasn't a unicorn since you developped feelings late, etc. So I would advise you to try to improve the situation. First, vow to never ever fuck her again. Consider her as a friend from now on. If it could work as a relationship, it would have already. Second, use this month to work on yourself. Work on your body, become more social and make new friends, network if you can. Improve your awesome… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Cant tell if i played this right or pushed too hard too quick?Your messages are bad. i only cuddle naked She says why so late, i tell her to sleepover no cuddles, no sleepover...zzzzz First you're not helping her. She needs plausible deniability (not feeling like a slut), and also she doesn't know if she will fuck you. By making sexual innuendos by texts you are asking her to validate that she's gonna come to your house to fuck you. She doesn't know that yet. She only knows she fancies you in some way, will come to your house, and then see if she feels lik… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 04:40 PM |
| 12 | After recently swallowing the pill, last night I saw for the first time how women use men like objectsI only knew about the existence of 'Briffault's law'. Will read the book, thanks for the recomendation! | /r/MGTOW | 07/08/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Dumb.. corrected the typo. Enjoy what you have man! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 12:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Hell yeah, I had a gf for years that was like that. Even after two years I fantasized only about her. It was magical. She was too dumb though, it was a really tough decision to break up with her... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 12:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.I'm a 7 I guess on pure aestethics. No Brad Pitt. I got status and social proof though (lots of friends and social life) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 04:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Yeah you're totally right! To put on us the pressure of constant success is unsustainable. You grow when you realize failure is a normal step and that you should overcome it. You judge people very well seeing how they react to failure.. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 04:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Great examples.. I also think women tease us the same, with hot and cold, but they do it through sensuality and drama (I believe drama is their unconscious attempt to tease us) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 04:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.I answered in details to a comment above. To summarize, physically strong and unfazed frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.This is very good advice, in particular the thing about no agreeing on a second date. Also, can you provide examples of 'forward / backward' to get her to make more efforts? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Yep definitely. New job, lots of partying, regular drug use is not helping of course. But I'm kinda surprised that half the comments focus on the soft dick part, where I think the interesting part is that you don't have to perform perfectly all the time, but rather that no failure should bring you back down to acting beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Not sure it was the weed tbh. Probably a mix of different factors. I think focusing on performance is a mistake though, girls wanna feel the whole experience and that includes good sex of course (which she got later in the night) but also how she feels around me, physically and mentally. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Yes, it would be good to have some experiences of failure too. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.I answered somebody else as to where I said no. It wasn't in the FR, but basically I said no to her proposals of going out during the ten days, and then picked time and place when I wanted to go out. Also we discussed feminism once and obviously I was strongly opinionated. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Mid thirties. Not really 'good in bed' since the first time we fucked I got soft and didn't finish. I don't think it qualifies as two in a row. I follow a very strict diet though. Eat veggies and eggs for breakfast, lots of fruits, cold showers, meditation, etc | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:12 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Physically I look strong, or at least strong enough. I think it's just a treshold for women, and I clear it. Of course her ex from the military is probably stronger than me. The most important thing is stoicism. I'm calm and composed, if I face a problem I just modify my course of action and take care of the problem. It seems like nothing could faze me -and honestly this is how I feel too. If I'm in an elevator or some closed place with more people, I don't worry about how I look, how I sound li… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 02:52 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Each time we hung out she would propose time and place, and I would change both time and place. Not because I wanted to be a dick, but because it was the only slots I had. So either she complied with my schedule or no go. Also we talked about feminism once so it's easy to see where I disagreed with her | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.always trying hard to live up to this caricature of "Super alpha that never stumbles and does everything perfect", It's very blue pill in it's underlying principle, which is that if you're up to a certain performance, you'll get the girl. About you're other point yeah man, don't put it raw.. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 09:47 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Where does it say no kisses on first date in my post? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 09:35 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Good advice, thanks man. It's not a frequent or big issue for me, but its good to know | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 09:33 PM |
| 14 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.Nah man, you read me wrong. I thought about having her as a friend since third date, ten days before. This is why I didn't contact her, and this is what I told her when she asked me. Then I didn't question her libido, but said the exact opposite, that she was great in bed and that I was wrong to consider her as a friend. You're right about your other point, about her not trying to impress me. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 09:29 PM |
| -2 | 47/M matching with 20 somethings on Tinder...It's not about the car. It's taking her to an unknown environment where you can humbly talk about how awesome you are and she can talk about how she's not like the other girls | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 09:22 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.I don't 'gotta' do anything. I have litterally plenty of plates or ex that I can fuck at any moment. Why would I care about what happens with her? Last time I checked, I slept with other girls for 10 days, contacted her when I wanted to and she was available on the spot, invited her to something I wanted to do, fucked her, and now she's plated. Alpha is not being the most dominant and powerful man possible, it's doing exactly what you want with no negative interference from anyone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 06:52 PM |
| 24 | 47/M matching with 20 somethings on Tinder...Young girls (below 25) should be treated differently than the ones who are a bit older. The younger they are, the more they are disgusted by clingyness. So I think you should: be busy (few but fun messages, you trying to find a slot in your schedule of amazing things) when you meet don't make it a 'date'. Hopefully no bar, and god forbids no restaurant! Best it to take her along to something you were planning to do (check out a new business, a car, go buy something specific, etc.) be unattached … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Paying for dates !?How to recover: make the choice of the restaurant about you. State clearly that you wanted to come eat here and that you like the place. you'll have to pay the bill, I don't think there is escaping that. Compensate by showing alpha traits (abundance, don't give a fuck, etc) after the restaurant you could walk somewhere, like stroll through the streets and stop at a coffee/ice cream place. Something simple and cheap. Make her pay for it, but in a subtle way (don't say 'I paid for the expensive re… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Paying for dates !?I think on date #1 it does set a bad precedent, and it puts you automatically in the same group as bloopies who will try to seduce her by providing things. It's a first date, and you're already providing high value upfront (location of the dinner, price), with nothing in return. The message she will get is that you value yourself below her so that you have to compensate by spending money. Take her there after a few dates when she's earned the privilege of hanging out with you by being awesome an… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | If women are hypergamous only going for the best. Are men not also hypergamous?Care to elaborate? Sounds interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | If women are hypergamous only going for the best. Are men not also hypergamous?Yep, but by rule of thumb the overall SMV of the woman will not exceed that of the man. If the woman is just below the man, then probably they'll be a happy couple, good for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/17 04:38 PM |
| 3 | If women are hypergamous only going for the best. Are men not also hypergamous?You're right but it's the wording that is misunderstood. Men don't date up, in the sense that the man SMV will always be higher than the woman's. Still, you see hot girls dating ugly guys, but those ugly guys have other things going on for them (money, status, social proof) that puts them above the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/17 01:53 PM |
| 56 | Free Drink Hustle Thwarted By Holding FrameIt's either a fake story, or an absolutely ridiculous one. You don't need to tip your fedora and be a gentleman to the women asking you to pay for their drinks. You just say no. Then, there is no need for the bartender to defend you as 'stand-up guys' two times, everybody knows it's the women's tab if they're ordering. But I agree with the message. Tldr: Somebody wants to use you? Just say no EDIT: "classless scoundrels". Love it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Submission is the "Cause", Love is the "Effect"It's not about the quantity of girls, it's about the purpose. Fuck as many girls as you want, I just hope it's not your only goal in life. And if you have other goals, girls end up being less important because they're easy to get once you have them figured them out. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/17 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Submission is the "Cause", Love is the "Effect"This is brilliant, in that it is absolutely true and also manages to be very succint. Especially the point of Chad being an 'uber female frame' is spot on. Yes Chad exudes masculine energy, but he's also very much in the moment (which is a female trait) and acts to always dominate the moment. Real masculinity is more stoic, and based on long-term goals and with minimal time and energy wasted. This isn't to say that Chads are to be criticized. By all means, to fuck girls the best is to become a C… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | On Doxxing and Protecting Your Identityif a BP woman turns down a request its because of "creepy perverts" but if we do it its because we know that we are up against a toxic ideology animated by person vessel Exactly. In my interactions I was nothing but polite and didn't attack the doxxing girls, but uf they had the chance I'm sure they would feel no remorse in ruining my entire life. I don't think I've ever seen redpillers use this kind of tactics against bloopies.. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herLooks like you're young. College freshman? I was angry and bitter too at some point. I think you should keep reading this sub, you might find some things to learn. But cut the attitude, it will get you banned. Which is stupid, we're supposedly on the same team. Also if you wanna discuss your ideas no pb, pm me. Be good young man. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYeah and he's just hitting his stride now.. I agree he's lucky. But obviously he doesn't see it this way. He's a sad mess. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herEither provide some kind of argument or shut the fuck up. Seriously, anything resembling an argument will do. You can do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herWell I do get these things I want actually. How do you think I don't keep my dignity? I do exactly what I want, when I want, all the fucking time. It requires efforts and discipline to get there, but it's not effort to get women, it's effort to grow as a man. Stop being angry. If you wanna go MGTOW, good for you. I'm just saying if you want sex and companionship you can get that too, without necesarily sacrificing who you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herThis is so true. Everything started going to shit when fathers withdrew. Without a father figure, women are wandering in a maze with blindfolds on. They want to find answers, but their only tools are based on external validation. Also even if they find a righteous path, their feelings can make them change their minds after a short time. We men are lucky to be able to decide rationally and stick to something. I think this whole social ordeal will make women yearn to very strong alphas, who take n… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herI had to look up what simp means.. Anyway I disagree. Being Alpha is not about impressing women, it's about having exactly the life you want without any sacrifice. If the life you want doesn't involve sex or companionship, more power to you. But I do like those things, and I can get them from women without sacrificing my worth or self-esteem. I have sympathy for Patricia because at no point, John told her to not fucking go overseas and fuck random guys. He bailed to everything she suggested. He … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYep, and she even chose it for him. Gives you a hint on how beta John was. Can you really blame Patricia for not being attracted to that? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herI understand and it's a very complicated sentiment I get too. If I'm the man and I have the power to run things the right way, to change things that need changing, am I not to blame if I don't do it? If I'm a woman and my feelings overrun my brain at each curve, and nobody corrects me, am I to be blamed? As I wrote somewhere else, in her mind Patricia didn't do anything wrong. She didn't cheat, the trip was agreed by both of them (which gives you a hint on how beta John was, and you can't blame … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herI changed the names and the years of marriage, but everything else is absolutely true. I didn't give the location of 'overseas' for the same doxxing reasons.. In another comment I wrote a follow up on where they are now. It's not perfect, there is still a lof of beta in John, and Patricia is utterly fucked and lost. Still, when I saw it happen I couldn't resist posting the story here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYou'll find a better explanation if you look around, but basically this is the hamster: step 1: woman feels something (for example she feels bad) step 2: there is no available rational explanation for how she feels (husband hasn't treated her badly) step 3: as for women, feels > reasons, her brain must find a justification for how she feels. The brain will create reasons that don't exist just so that the feelings can be linked to something and justified (hubby is smothering me with his attention… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYou're right. But at the same time can you blame Patricia? As I responded somewhere else, John attempted to fix it, he failed. Then Patricia attempted to fix it, and obviously she did it the old Eat-Pray-Love way, like women do. She didn't cheat on him, they took a break as she felt something was wrong with her sexuality. Obviously nothing was wrong, it's just that John was a pushover and she wasn't attracted. Now she comes back and she feels attracted to John. She thinks it's because of her jou… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYeah all fair points. It's just that I decided long ago that I can't really hold a woman responsible for anything more than reacting to my leadership. But I realize it's also a way of giving women a pass when they're married to betas.. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herChill mate. There is another way to look at this. John and Patricia were in love but were having sex trouble. Both tried to address the issue: John got ripped, sex toys and a tattoo, didn't help at all. Once it failed Patricia decided to address the issue the old Eat-Pray-Love way (that's what women do). She also failed, miserably. They both failed at the attempt to fix their sex life. But the only one who had the keys to generate tingles in her was John all along. What he should have done is ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYou'll find a better explanation if you look around, but basically this is the hamster: step 1: woman feels something (for example she feels bad) step 2: there is no available rational explanation for how she feels (husband hasn't treated her badly) step 3: as for women, feels > reasons, her brain must find a justification for how she feels. The brain will create reasons that don't exist just so that the feelings can be linked to something and justified (hubby is smothering me with his attention… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYes exactly. It's gonna be a long year for John, but he'll get there. He's learning obviously. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herI disagree that it was her fault she wasn't attracted. I think it was the husband's fault. He should have done exactly what you said, make her fuck him, or leave her. Women don't control how they feel, they only react. About your other point you're right it's redpill porn, but this story is absolutely true and it was too good not to be shared. Also I honestly think we can learn from how deep-rooted the hamster is, and empathize with how clueless some women are. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herI can't make this up. To be fair she didn't cheat but her behaviour was really disrespectful. Which makes the fact that John is slowly developping alpha traits all the more so satisfying though.. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herCan't really say because of past doxxing attempts, but let's just say it's very alpha in its intent (think sailor or roaring lion) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herIt's a personal story (one of my best friends). Bule pill version is her version basically: they were having problems and they agreed to go their separate ways to find themselves, and she came back a new person ready to love her hubby, but the bastard broke the pact and left her for a younger chick. It's rationnaly bullshit, but emotionnaly it's real. The hamster is real. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:14 PM |
| 10 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herHonestly it's all very recent, lot of things happening. To make a small summary: -John is now living at my place until she moves out, which might take a while. He misses the connection and nurturing of the relationship and he needs company all the time. He started to see his last girlfriend again, but says he doesn't want to rush in another relationship -good for him. -I've ran into Patricia a couple of times, once with John (she was oh-so-sad) and once randomly withouth anybody else around (she… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:10 PM |
| 17 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herYes the more we spend time with women the more we realize we sometimes have to treat them harshly for their own good. I also think that realizing how lost they are is an essential step to start appreciating them again after the anger phase redpillers go through. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:02 PM |
| 39 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herDude is one my best friends, honestly I'm stoked to see him change. He was never Alpha in the first place, which makes it all the more so satisfying to see. But I'm friends with the girl too, and after hating what she was doing to John now I honestly feel sorry for her. She had the perfect husband but he didn't give her the tingles -is that her fault? And she fucked it all up without even realizing it (I insist, her hamster made her think that this trip was a common endeavor for them to find the… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 02:51 PM |
| 40 | On Doxxing and Protecting Your IdentityI've been PMed by two different young hot girls in the past month who wanted to exchange picks with me. One even sent me pics with the instructions I required so I knew it wasnt a troll usin somebody else's pics. They were very insistent and convincing.. Once they realized I wouldn't divulge any info or pics they stopped trying. Obvious attempts at doxxing. Be careful | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 06:41 PM |
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