I had a hunch my LTR of several months wasn't being faithful and wasn't still as interested, the red flags were there.

I made a catfish tinder account (had tinder gold left from an earlier period) and, sure enough, she swiped right on it.

The part of me that's read the info on here and tried to absorb it knows the right move: ghost, NC, never let her get closure.

The beta part of me wants to use this to confront her somehow. Make her admit to being unfaithful.

I know there's nothing to gain from the latter. Tell me what I need to hear, TRP. Make it hurt a little if you can.

Edit: thank you, everyone. I'm in a rough place right now, but I know what I need to do (full ghost). I sincerely appreciate every comment, read every one of them.