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Perhaps but women voted as most sexy (Scarlett Johansson) had one thing in common. Their proportions were almost perfectly average. While women with exagarated sexual traits have to be marketed and hyped as attractive. So pre selection kicks in... "throphy wife".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:33 AM
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I don't consider myself obsessed about it, but... Well, one of my last dates told me "No, no... I go fast and passionate for hook-ups, relationships have to go sloooow". That just made me feel bad about the whole relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:27 AM
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I'm on the same boat with you on this one. There should be more talk about the 90% of us and less holy crusades about the top 10%, 1% and superstar problems. I find it so cringe when PPD members use superstars and bilionares as examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:19 AM
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I know, but also more men will enter the workforce faster and without student debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:15 AM
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Virtually all of them. For me average looking people are most attractive. To me most of these "sex symbols" look like... caricatures 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:43 PM
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It's like being treated like a mistress. I loved my wife, and had provided for her, and the kids, took her skying... etc. Sex with you is great, I bought you a pair of cheap boots, see you when I get horny again. On the dating market there is a surplus of two things. Women looking for a provider, and men looking for another woman (either a mistress or a MFF thresome). So OBVIOUSLY these two roles are unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:39 PM
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Fine, I'll just post it on allpilldebates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:28 PM
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Great. What if your income was 50K?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:25 PM
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You answered this better then I would 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:10 PM
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Hey, I need to feel good about my relationship. Good luck using reasons and logic to make me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:09 PM
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More women claiming they do not need a... In my experience people usually virtue signal the exact opposite of what they actually need. Just as "MGTOW's" would die for a relationship, yet they say "I'm a strong independent man and I aint need a woman in my life"... Women chanting "I'm a strong independant woman which ain't need a man in her life"... needs a damn man in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:05 PM
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True. I'm just trying to make men and women understand how the other side is feeling. For a married guy getting a worse sexual treatment then previous partner, feels like... Kinda like being a mistress to a married guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:00 PM
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Nope I got this one 100% right, it's the opposite. For woman being treated just as a housewife is the same as for guys being treated just as a sex object. It's still bad but not as much. And if you think that guys feel great for being used just for sex, plenty of FWB guys which felt butthurt when their relationship proposal got turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:55 PM
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There are shitty assasains and they have feelings too. Stop the shaming of shitty assasains!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:41 PM
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Can I rub my cock against my friends while I rub them too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:39 PM
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When it comes to how BB or husband material feels, we cannot draw a direct comparison to women, they just can't understand it. But we can draw an equivalent feeling. Being considered a BB material feels like women being considered as pump and dump material. For men beeing seen like provider material and getting treated like a BB feels like woman being objectified as sex material and being treated like a sex toy. Rationalization, logic... doesn't mater, if it means you feel like shit then it's ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:39 PM
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Even today local men are taler and have heavier build. But the biggest difference is with local women, they look like amazonians in comparison with tourists. I do agree it's not just about the earning potential. Women which are good with "resources" are gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:32 PM
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The problem that we are having is that it takes a long time (generations) for cultural changes to establish themselves. And we have these economic and technological changes thrown at us at much faster pace... Parents are preparing their children for a world which is already a history. We are basically living in a constant cultural revolution which is going on since before any of the living people has been alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:28 PM
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The problem that we are having is that it takes a long time (generations) for cultural changes to establish themselves. And we have these economic and technological changes thrown at us at much faster pace... Parents are preparing their children for a world which is already a history. We are basically living in a constant cultural revolution which is going on since before any of the living people has been alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:27 PM
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Nope. I was loved by my family and by my dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:43 AM
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With time looks fade. Some think that looks are the only important thing, so when looks fade woman is post wall. I think that for people which only have their looks, post wall is when they lose their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:33 AM
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That misogynistic butthurt exists because boys get coddled. And then they get butthurt. If boys grow up knowing this, they won't feel bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:11 PM
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The secret is to learn how to suck your own cock. And never get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:06 PM
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Afraid of neddles! I demand a death by snu-snu!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:03 PM
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IRL people talk all kinds off stuff when there are no women around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:01 PM
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I already made the 3rd one 😬 Well, OK no preference, delete whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:59 PM
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I also know people in real life you know 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:54 PM
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Well you can't "fix" my entire gender by explaining to me what we are doing wrong. I do not do the whole "I'm always rational" thing... like seriously, we are just kids cosplaying as grownups. I can't force myself to stay concentrated for too long if it's not stimulating. Like... that's biological. More men are diagnosed with ADHD because by default our ability to stay concentrated on something we do not find interesting is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:53 PM
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I prefer you leave both of them and let me make a third one 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:21 PM
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I don't do it myself, and 90% of my dating life being such a 💩💩💩 experience was due to women being deceitfull. But let's be real here... if we tell people to stop doing it because it's a bad thing. Will they listen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:21 PM
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Option A - I can simply divorce her, and I have a chance to find another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:18 PM
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Mods, can I make my third post today? I got nothing to do (electricity out) and I feel inspired 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:15 PM
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Guys with guns?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:13 PM
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Mediocre actor, but also in first Witcher season his text was mostly "mphm" which made him even more bland. Second season was better though, because he insisted on more lines of conherent talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:12 PM
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I identify as an Alpha Fuck, and being misgendered as Beta Buck hurts my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:10 PM
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It's a big thing for guys which sucked on the Disney story that everything is romantic and beautiful. Women being hypergamous is not a bad thing... just being realistic. I bet your career choice was also being realistic? I wanted to go to the arts school, but I was realistic. My buddy wanted to be a big soccer star. He wasn't being realistic 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:05 PM
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I'm mainsplaining how women can communicate better 😁 Yes, we can't/won't focus for long on something we find boring, when we do it's just to avoid hurting you. So you don't hurt us 😃 People don't ignore me when I tell a story because I tell them in a stimulative way. See the "snuggle and fuck" part is super stimulating. But there are many ways to add stimulation to the talk. As fpr the rationality and logic... yup we arealso deeply emotional creatures... we just use rationality and logic to full…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:56 PM
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"add stuff that appeal to emotions into talk". Gotcha 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:23 PM
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It would, but you can forget about that. Both genders lie and deceive in the gender market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:20 PM
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Women do tend to speak very "wide", telling a whole story with a lot of details. That takes time, can't stay focused that long. So yeah, we filter out a lot of unimportant stuff. Sometimes important content gets lost 😬 Try communicating your needs like this " I need loving treatment", ape heard, ape gives loving treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:06 PM
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LOL why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:57 PM
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Ahahahahaha! A jebemu :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:57 PM
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I say dude to everybody 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:55 PM
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Found a guy which has to go to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:56 PM
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So our communication skills were just fine 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:55 PM
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When you start fingering her and feel a condom inside 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:50 PM
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I managed to block that fact from my mind for a couple of years 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:35 PM
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But those should degrade much faster since they are so tiny?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:33 PM
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If you feel dumb, some people still can't figure out what is their gender. You are fine dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:32 PM
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It really depends on who you marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:21 PM
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Happy cake day 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:15 PM
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Can't hear you over all the suntanning I'm getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:11 PM
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AHAHAHAHAAAA!!! She got me good! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:05 PM
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21°C here, but this is not ocean. Gulf stream heats up whole Mediteranian sea, without it whole Europe would get frozen solid during the winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:03 PM
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I think that... if people know that remote work is pernament they are going to start moving out from towns. If it's just a temporary solution, then no 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:01 PM
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Awwwww, you can always fake a jellyfish sting 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:56 PM
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I heard a lot of guys saying that her degree, job and earning do not matter, all that matters is her looks. So post wall women are supposed to be trash. To top it off it's usually the low income men saying that. So... yup some people do not realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:55 PM
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Oh but I do. And I am enjoying these long summers and mild winters a lot. Keep that CO2 comming!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:45 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. Remote work would create some volatility and problems, but long term... so many issues gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:44 PM
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Nah, I tried doing that! I held the freezer door opened, watched for 16 hours and it didn't turn into the ice! Somehow THEY replace the water with ice while the doors are closed 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:31 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:27 PM
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I was swimming in the sea an hour ago. Tell me how the climate change is not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:25 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:13 PM
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We can respond with gifs now 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:11 PM
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Nope. Badly lit city parks at night are the best places to meet new women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:10 PM
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1960 Median home price (unadjusted): $11,900. Median home price (inflation-adjusted to 2020 dollars): $104,166 The median home sales price is $428,700 as of the first quarter of 2022. My bad, that's ONLY 4 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:08 PM
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Because we were born long time ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:22 PM
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This! I have a bunch of friends do go outside and socialize a lot, but I'm actually introverted. I get my energy from alone time 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:20 PM
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50 years ago average price of a house was 10 times lower then now, and thats in relation to average wages. The cost of necessities (housing) has increased, the cost of luxuries (HBO) has decreased.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:09 PM
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Spending those extra 10 years single does have an impact on pairing up, other then bitternes. Our libido goes down, we learn to be self sufficient, we get used to being single. Less motivation and time and energy to go around and chase women. Also our preference for partners which have their shit sorted out grows. Because nobody has time for teenage dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:05 PM
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I think you are spot on. 50 years ago, average man with a trade job could start working at 18, own a house at 21, have no debt and earn enough to support a family. I met those goals at 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:08 AM
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LOL I had no idea 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:54 AM
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Expresing preference for low-N women or virgins is not shaming high-N and non-virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:54 AM
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I have to add that it's a local saying, and we have very high bridges. There are bodies floating in the water. No I will not jump, I will investigate 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:52 AM
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Little traitors! 😆 I'm glad he got exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:54 PM
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Haven't seen anyone shaming a woman for not being a virgin since 1993.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:53 PM
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Genetic pool naturally gets cleansed of genes with reduce fitness, and genes which increase fitness thrive. But there are problems with this. Like hemophilia decreases the fitness of male offspring, but increases the fitness of female offspring, so it keeps lingering in the pool although... well I think we can agree that's a gene we would like to get rid off. Also humans are low on dimorphism, most genes we have are not gender specific. So if... .eg blonde women are more fit, and blond guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:50 PM
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Well, civilization collapse of gene editing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:42 PM
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Yup. And I find this very cringe because. Well there is a saying in my country for... when you do a stupid thing because you saw somebody else do it. "if people were jumping off the bride, you would jump too?". Because that's preselection. My ex date which tried giving me a BB treatment saw me with GF and now she want's to get back, and is giving me AF vibes. Really? Other hot woman wants me and just that makes me hot? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:40 PM
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I hate when people say that some men need to die out so the gene pool gets cleaned. Because that's... not how things work. In order for the gene pool cleaned both genders have to be under evolutionary pressure. In nature males and females do not manage to procreate because of their reduced fitness. Leys say that 50% of men get to procreate but all women get to procreate? Some of these women have bad genes and all of them make new generation of men and women. Very few bad genes have left the gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:33 PM
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Some men have tits too... we are evolving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:18 PM
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Because it's is a challenge and we have to keep winning. The orgasm gap is the last thing we have!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:15 PM
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Yup. I had shortened it a bit too much... let's try again. "So when you say entitled to sex you actually mean entitled to sex on demand?" There is a huge difference between these two. I feel entitled to sex. I don't feel entitled to sex on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:14 PM
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Physical pain is easy. Sure it sucks while you have to endure, and it can last a whole day, but then it's over. And I get a little copy of me, to raise and shape into another damaged individual? Totaly worth it! Emotional pain can lasts for years 😬 Yup I'm BI.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:34 PM
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Love is when you damage her emotionaly and you feel all warm and fuzzy. Because now she will remember you for the rest of her life. You didn't fix anything, you just ruined someone elses love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:27 PM
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Only if he washes his hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:24 PM
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My sister has a delicate skin, once... we were older, I goofed around 🤪and started wrestling and tickling her. She got covered with bruises... had to stay home because it looked like someone beat her up. I stayed home too. So I had to be real careful not to bruise her. On the other hand I only bruised a couple of times, and I got hit a lot, +40 stiches so far. Nah I'm not a manipulative kind of person. Knowing how men think, I would be able to avoid all manipulative ones. Also knowing how men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:18 PM
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Re-read my comment. I said I'm not entitled to sex on demand, and that I'm fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:02 PM
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Dear grandchildren, come sit here and let me tell you a story about your brave old man not getting vaccinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:01 PM
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I do like to experience new things and to broaden my horizons and this would certainly be such an experience. Even if it is for life, OK. I would miss my physical strenght and build very, very much 🥺 would have to be more careful... would get bruises when I hit myself. Also menstruation cramps and pains 🤢 My existing priviledges would be replaced by your priviledges. Discriminations would get swaped too. It would be super interesting discovering these 😁 because our own priviledges are invisible …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:56 PM
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I would Also if I could snap my fingers and become a very hot woman, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:30 PM
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He is obviously not a Chad then. Real Chad is sitting on the back seat while his plate acts like a chaufer, driving him to his other bitchez.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:29 PM
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Did you ask for his consent? If you didn't that's a fantasy sexual assault, for which you can get fantasy court, and fantasy jail time young lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:28 PM
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Oh so, I am not entitled to sex on demand? Yes in my relationship I am not entitled to that, and I don't feel the need for that. I'm still entitled to sex though. Also some people do have freeuse relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:10 PM
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Yup. Doesn't mean I'm fat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:36 PM
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Yes. They can be so cringe 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:28 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:27 PM
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Well to tell you honestly. I heard a lot about Chad, but I don't really know the guy. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:19 PM
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That's why every here and then I go to the shooting range 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:16 PM
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All of them? All of fat people were saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:15 PM
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Most arent. Don't be a single guy looking for a relationship past the 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:14 PM
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Can't, raise anything right now... my blood sugar and insulin are both trying to kill me at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:13 PM
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Oh, no. My relationship with the pizza guy is based on mutual respect and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:11 PM
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You aren't entitled to decide what we are entitled to 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:09 PM
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Listen lady, I think you have set your bar for bad boys waay too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:07 PM
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I often buy jumbo sized bags of kit kats, and other similar jumbo sized stuff. I skip meals because I suck at planing. So when I work physically I like to have small chockolates for quick energy boosts. No problems with weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:04 PM
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Secret desire to be fat and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:59 PM
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Nooo, don't take away from my evilnes! I was a bad, bad boy 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:59 PM
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Or if you like indulging your filthy urges from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:58 PM
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Chocolate lava cake. Bought it in pastry shop, I lied it was for my kids... Now I feel like some evil villain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:56 PM
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True. But I had been skipping meals for some time now, and I need some of that weight back. So zero regrets 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:51 PM
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No cake for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:50 PM
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You should try doing it when not depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:49 PM
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I'm having trouble finding mature thinking women of my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:43 PM
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He was getting another billionares to invest in buying off Twit. His valuation, and how much he can actually cash out are two entirely different things. For instance most of his value is in inflated Tesla stocks, if he starts selling those off other stock owners lose confidence, the value of stocks go down, Musk value goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:41 PM
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That makes perfect sense. But I met a lot of people which had a shitty parent, and then ended up with a very similar shitty partner. Like, alcoholic abusive father, and alcoholic abusive husband...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:38 PM
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Today I realized I am old enough to walk into the store, buy a cake then eat it on my own. So I did that. Zero fucks given for all the problems in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:35 PM
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Psychologysts say we are attracted to people similar to our parents... But I'm on this train with you guys. I need almost the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:27 PM
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And as you had pointed out too low birth rates = shitloads of other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:24 PM
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Yes, Tesla was hyper-overvalued because people were hoping on the hype train. The hype is pretty much over, other competitors had entered the market and Tesla bran has seen it's first serious critiques pulling them torward just another carmaker. Musk hymself doesn't really have that fresh novelity to create hypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:23 PM
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I think that Twatter and FB are significantly overvalued. Remember Myspace? That could be FB in two years time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:57 PM
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Guns do keep rural families safe. Rural houses are a hard target just because rursl house owners do have guns. But the point is a good one, buying a gun and not buying a proper gun case with a lock is increasing the risk for kids, not keeping them safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:55 PM
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But if they didn't had a gun they would have to end their lives using a hammer or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:52 PM
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Yup, trying to "debate" by shaming and defacing to devaluate "opponents" opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:49 PM
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Maybe the real treasure is all the shitposting we made along the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:47 PM
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Shitposting is the glue holding us all together 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:45 PM
1

Running away is an underrated street "fight" skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:44 PM
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exBouncer here, yes most men can't fight for shit but believe they can. Learn to wrestle and throw punches, you are in top 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:42 PM
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It's only horrifying for the first couple of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:40 PM
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I talk with myself all the time. Helps me concentrate and memorize things. I don't see why people should be ashamed of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:39 PM
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Yes. Blisfully ignorant. The only problem I have with this, is that women say "well I can simply lie about it". Yet I know too many cases where man found out about her past because her sexual past is public knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:35 PM
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Yes, expecially if you also get up from the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:32 PM
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Nope. People being more aware and calling ths BS out is a great achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:26 PM
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Abolishing poverty or world hunger for more then one generation requires population control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:22 PM
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I think that AF/BB women know very well what they are, although it is the outside giving them this label. Good luck finding one which can tell you honestly though, because AF/BB is inherently deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:17 PM
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Women also need sexual validation. Just try telling a woman she is bad at sex. But women find it easier to find sexual validation. Men also need security validation. We need stable partners which do not cheat. But generally we find it easier to secure resources for ourselves. And yes, there is this great divide in which some women think they do not need to provide any validation, yet need validatipn themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:13 PM
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AF/BB women do the same thing, devaluing a person to a cock or a provider. Treating them differently based on some generalized value. You don't get to whine about the dehumanizing, sexists standards being applied to yourself if you apply them to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:09 PM
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Yes. I don't have to hold the "frame", I can just be who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:02 PM
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But I am entitled to sex, if my GF stops having sex with me I will dump her. Our entitlements are our own things and outside of laws, the society and you don't get to decide what we are entitled to and what we are not. You pick your own entitlements for your own relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:01 PM
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I myself am not a bitter man. The thing is that we need validation from our partners. I couldn't feel validated in an AF/BB relationship except if my wife was leagues above me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:55 PM
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And we get those idealls in Disney movies. But when we feel entitled to them in real life... we end up feeling like settling. For instance I would want an idealized wife, a virgin which is also a complete animal in bed. But I know that's just an ideal, I do not expect that from IRL women, and I do not feel like settling when I do not get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:51 PM
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True, men tend to mix up gasligjting and strawman arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:41 PM
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I was making a joke out of it, but yeah... NEXT!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:27 PM
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Joke's on you. She is sucking me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:01 PM
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Altering serotonin levels changes monkey behaviour and status. I myself had a heritably low serotoning levels, which ended up causing anxiety, emotional imbalance, depression episodes. If I tell you what differences raising serotonin to normal levels with SSRI made, you will call me out for being a bullshiter. Mental checkup, then gym. Trust me on this one. Edir: Yes I am a monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:53 AM
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Of woman pointing out a flaw in logic! You go girl! (no joke, you go girl!).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:11 AM
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The tribes which did play battle royal got viped out by tribes which teamplayed. The guy is arguing that "battle royal" tribe has better genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:09 AM
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Except if she is one of those which can't make up her mind. One day she is sucking you, next day she is flaking you... then sucking again... Make up your mind woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:08 AM
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I hate when people see me as a person, therby subjectifying me. I want to be objectified as a sex simbol I am 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:06 AM
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Yes, it's hard to quantify emotions. For instance a single compliment is easy to give, yet can hold a great value... how do you quantify that? In my personal observation, people expect more and more and are willing to give less and less. Also even when they are in favorable position they tend to feel like settling because they feel like they deserve more. I also do not see an easy fix to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:02 AM
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Many don't and many do. Phrase "All men are X" is quite common, and I wasn't even thinking about it as sexism, until women accused RPillers as sexists for doing the same damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:43 AM
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That's why I said things can get complicated when we have multiple different "resources". Wife was financially parasitic, but husband may be parasitic in other ways. I can have a wife which is financially parasitic and feel like the luckies guy with her... or not. Gets complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:39 AM
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The inherent problem with RP and AF/BB which are just acting is... How long can you act to be someone else in a relationship before you become bitter? They set themselves and their partners for an unhappy relatipnship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:33 AM
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Sexism in it's negative form is applying a negative stereotype on the entire gender. When woman says "all men are like that" because she .eg got pumped and dumped. She is being sexist. Also misgony and misandy often go hand to hand with sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:31 AM
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For me the simplest explanation of abusive is to take away from someone's happines, or value and add to ones own. In a relationship, couple should elevate each other. In an abusive relationship one is a parasite. Things can get tricky when there is happines, money, children. But in some cases things are blatantly obvious. A RedPill guy can play the dread game to get what he wants while making his partner less confident, anxious and less happy. Women can play the same fame. Heck blue pillers ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:27 AM
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Well if I solve all of my internal insecurities, and all of my problems on my own. Sure woman doesn't need to take care of any of my needs. But... I don't NEED a woman then anymore do I? That's the problem with such modern women, they want a guy which doesn't need anything from them to need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:15 AM
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True. But I would argue if you are single past a certain age, either you got red pilled by the reality around you. Or you are an idiot 😁 Exception for people which got divorced. And then it's pretty much, who became abusive due to taking the pill, and who just uses it defensively. In my experience in the thirties women which were openly red pilled were honest, and non abusive. Those which gave the blue pill act were the abusive ones. I can only guess the same goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:11 AM
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Because women which can't provide sexual validation to their partners keep chanting "you are not entitled to sexual validation, or anything really". But mutual validation is super important part of the relationship, and has a huge correlation with the divorce rate. Both genders need it, to be validated by their partners, sexually and otherwise. To feel wanted, needed, appreciated. Otherwise relationship is just a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:02 AM
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Yes. But I can be aware of the RedPill, yet chose not to use it's manipulative strategies. I can just use it's knowledge to avoid those strategies being used on me. (as I IRL do). Woman can also be aware of the AF/BB but chose not to go down that road. As many do. Knowledge doesn't make us assholes. Behaving like one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:50 AM
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Ummm... I got bored of you. Lets just ignore each other. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:45 AM
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I'm a guy. But I will stil answer if you do not mind. If woman brings very little to the table, then she needs to inflate her perceived value like a puffer-fish to get some gulible guy to simp for her. And these AF/BB women I kow... their every second word is inflating their value. There is no wall, they are wanted, attractive, they can pick, guys chase after them... also "you are not entitled to X"... because they can't provide X. But in normal relationships women provide X.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:44 AM
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Love is not clearly defined, different people have different meaning for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:36 AM
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Dude you had "simp" in your user flare which you just changed...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:32 AM
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Yup. Dunno a lot of women keep switching depending on the guy they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:30 AM
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Dude, I'm 37... I was young enough to know your games. You were luckly not old enough to know mine. Enjoy your youth. Stop being edgy on the internet, it serves no purpose. Also I never said I was a Chad... dunno where you picked that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:29 AM
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Oh but you are so interesting! Another simp trying to play the edgelord role. Hihihihi... so teenager, so original. Make sue you evolve your game, it gets boring to women quite fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:23 AM
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You should learn the meaning of words before debating... Relationship does not mean I have commited myself 😁 My sweet vurnerable prince
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:17 AM
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A woman which has one night stands, hookups, FWB's... Then she meets a "husband material" guy, starts acting up like a decent housewife and makes him wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:14 AM
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Sure my sweet little simpy. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:14 AM
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Huh? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:11 AM
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Currently am.Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:08 AM
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Not at all. A woman which has one night stands, hookups, FWB's... Then she meets a "husband material" guy, starts acting up like a decent housewife and makes him wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:08 AM
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But my vurnerable little prince... you don't tell me what to do oh you sweet little innocent angel. Also this is PPD chat, I shitpost here... want to debate, make a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:05 AM
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Yes... you are vulnerable, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:00 AM
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Italians would be so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:00 AM
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I do fully agree, I do not need anyones approval to have dating preferences. So no arguments against AF/BB being the same as RedPillers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:59 AM
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You are a vulnerable person which doesn't give a fuck what women think? This kind of doubletalk... check your estrogen levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:57 AM
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I chose to eat pasta with coco powder and sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:54 AM
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They spent their indurance money on luxurious life, then one of them got diharea and healthcare costs destroyed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:53 AM
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A liar would also say they never lie 😁 But I was talking as a whole gender, not as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:50 AM
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Share your true fellings honestly with a woman, and let us know how it went.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:48 AM
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One thing where we men usually hold an edge over women, is that we are usually more honest. This hypocrisy is bothering me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:36 AM
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This! So much! We have all these groups fighting for their selfish goals, not giving a fuck about the big picture. And nobody really gives a fuck about that. But when a disfranchised group which has the least to lose decides to just go with the flow... well they can't do that! That's illegal!? Quickly someone accuse them or something! And if they were fighting for something they would still be accused of some -ism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:49 AM
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I'm a bit sick of this whole age gap thing 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:32 AM
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LOLOLOLOL I'm just teasing you bro 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:30 AM
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Not my proudest fap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:28 AM
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Not having plans for future is off-puting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:28 AM
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When I saw your profile pic I thought you were a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:27 AM
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I just think that couples should split their children among themselves. And if there is the odd number of children, things will get messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:26 AM
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Who's been a good girl? 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:22 AM
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I just posted a song from Monthy Python... you started the whole religion thing... By the way I do notice that you are disagreable with men and agreeable with women. GJ women get so wet for that kind of character 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:20 AM
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Men have dicks and balls, so they are better because they have more parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:18 AM
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My book? i haven't read a bible in... 26 six years. Then again I'm an agnostic, fuck if I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:17 AM
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Plenty of 20yo's looking for suggar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:15 AM
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It also says that we should kill a killer. But if we kill a killer then we are a killer and we should be killed too. So should our killer. Bible also says we shouldn't kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:13 AM
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Fascinating eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:10 AM
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I thought that women virtue signal a lot. But PPD taught me they virtue signal all the time! Even when completly anonymous!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:10 AM
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Most people who have dicks are men. Some of them are women. Weird times to live in eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:06 AM
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There are Jews in the world. There are Buddhists. There are Hindus and Mormons, and then There are those that follow Mohammed, but I’ve never been one of them. I’m a Roman Catholic, And have been since before I was born, And the one thing they say about Catholics is: They’ll take you as soon as you’re warm. You don’t have to be a six-footer. You don’t have to have a great brain. You don’t have to have any clothes on. You’re A Catholic the moment Dad came, Because Every sperm is sacred. Every spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:05 AM
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If it goes against the ideology, it's not the truth.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/22 06:57 AM
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Seems perfectly reasonable to me. Some people are going to disagree though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:05 PM
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No! You take care of them! *Runs away...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:19 PM
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I don't think that women are bad. I just think that in modern society there is an excess of shitty women. Which would also get me villified, but fuck it! That's my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:16 PM
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It doesn't. I know I'm insane 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:14 PM
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Lots of dense areas in Europe, without death stampedes. So I think culture does play an i.portant part 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:12 PM
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I identify as a woman. You should stop listening to Hip-Hop because it's a shitty music. I identify as a hot male again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:09 PM
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I'm working on making men and women understand each other better. This is bad for PPD business so if my body is found, it was one of the PPD mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:08 PM
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I expand my social circle with cold approaching. Touche.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:06 PM
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They are not going to reveal data which hurts their business. Like Tinder having 90% male users in Italy. That had to be a leak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:05 PM
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I do have a very strong preference for weird women. And I dated 3 psychologists so far. Do I need too add anything to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:04 PM
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Raises hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:02 PM
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Just raise your sons as feminists. I'm sure that will work a-OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:01 PM
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I'm impressed still being alive with all the shit I draged to deadlines 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:07 PM
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Typical. I simply used 7 alarm clocks to remember 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:46 PM
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People are selling their souls in McDonalds and I don't see anyone giving a fuck. People selling buttpics for $5 + attention are not victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:45 PM
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Bitchez love aerodinamic guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:43 PM
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Meh, I will write a post about it tomorow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:36 PM
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She is probably racking up her N count and making you wait to inflate her value 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:36 PM
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I think they get initial attraction, but nothing more off puting then a guy with a stick up his ass 😁 That sounds like ADHD but you need to get tested to know if it is clinical, because it is a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:34 PM
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Break up. Not because she is a virgin, but because she lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:31 PM
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Wellcome to the male world 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:30 PM
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I spoon against you, press my hips into yours, and I whisper into your ear... "dicks out for Harambe". The End
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:29 PM
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Yup. Things that go "under the radar" make the biggest impacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:23 PM
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Men often say that women like strong, mysterious, stoic quiet men. For initial attraction, yes, perhaps. But this is what gets the relationship going. And this is what breaks relationship for peple with ADHD (like me). We are easily distracted and can appear like we don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:21 PM
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Pretty much. I had it on my mind for some time now... the thing which made relationships great. But I couldn't word it correctly. This is it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:19 PM
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Validating each other is SUPER important in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:17 PM
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Deal 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:00 PM
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Nobody would fight me in person. When I write things, people get offended and shit. But when I say those same things, it's more like a stand up comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:45 PM
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I finnaly got it! All of those people talking shit about validation are full of shit. Men and women need it, and it is the most reliable predictor of a divorce. Im writing a post about this tomorrow. As Gottman studied the interactions of each couple, he began to notice a pattern. Throughout the day, partners would make small, seemingly insignificant requests for connection from each other. For example, a husband would look out the window and say, “Wow, check out that car!” He wasn’t just commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:42 PM
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God picked up his trashcan and started looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:34 PM
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I thought she was an evil woman, egomaniac, narcissist. But RP made me realize she was just insecure and a dumbass. This sounds awfull but... it's much easier to love a dumbass then an asshole 😁 So I trained my dumbass mother a bit to improve her behaviour. I gave her compliments when she was good and told her she was a dumbass when she was naughty. She became more confident and just dumb. And now we are more like friends then a parent and a kid 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:33 PM
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Porn industry is oppresive! All male pornstars are victims!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:38 PM
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I thought she was a POS. However after the Pill I understood her perspective. We are friends now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:53 PM
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Cmon CimZim, lets launch our poo into neighbors lawn 👿
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:51 PM
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It's a longer story and a vent, if this could cause you any negative emotions, just skip this one. While cleaning the attic I found 13 Kodak film roles, which had French labels on them. This got me super excited because my wife, a photographer said to me that one of her biggest regrets was losing film roles from her time living in Paris. The thought about the invasion of privacy hasn't even occured to me, because the anniversary was around the corner and how cool would it be to print these in A4…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:50 PM
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I know, I know. But I don't think he is... I mean a guy feels angry and he takes some time with his son to process his emotions. That sounds like a healthy mindset. He exploded for being gaslighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:14 PM
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IRL MGTOW =/= online MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:53 PM
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What do you mean? Scat play with the neighbors and a little balista in the back yard sounds super fun to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:49 PM
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Yup. Some of these guys are so fucking mental! The thing he wanted to do with photos is so adorable. I fucking want to marry this guy myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:46 PM
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Exactly!!! 10 years of putting up with this shit? I hate saying this but she doesn't deserve the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:43 PM
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I hope he will divorce. I don't think the counceling can fix this. Everybody deserves to feel loved and appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:33 PM
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Yes. I really hope that there will be a "second wave" of TRP. Where the pill will focus more on mental health, and avoiding the whole bitter spiral. It's great to vent and feel validated. But also there is a big risk in getting stuck in that perpetuate circle of self pitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:31 PM
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Wow, that's an excelent point. I myself never thought about it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:28 PM
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TRPers don't complain, they addapt. And they fully acknowledge that these issues are a byproduct of male behaviour. Male behaviour which existed before the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:24 PM
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Women in 20's are most attractive. Some women have mature personalities at ~22, some never get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:22 PM
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I(38m) found out about my wife's(36f) sexual history and dealt with it. However wife's reaction is making me think about divorce. Holy shit 😐 This doesn't sound like a LARP to me And the bias in the comments is mindboggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:20 PM
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Don't be folled by women flexing "you are not entitled to validation". They demand to be validated just as much, if not more. "Do I look fat" is not a question, it's a demand for validation. They make a LTR candidate wait, because they want to feel more valuable/validated in a relationship. When women are "wondering" why guys need sex validation it's just another flex because... have you ever told a woman she is bad at sex? We have to very carefully tip-toe around that issue because their ego is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:20 AM
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Because if you get approached, simply pick the best ones right? When doing the approaching there is an social and emotional rejection cost. So better pick someone in your own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:44 AM
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Circlejerkophob!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:36 AM
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Offcourse we can! Because we carry pocket sand everywhere we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:34 AM
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Businesses are promoting it as a lack of workers, because they think that everything revolves around the economy. But actually it's an over-supply of shitty jobs. Once some of those shitty jobs become good jobs, and other ones close down, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:21 PM
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It doesn't work like that though. "taking the pill" is basically acknowledging just how shitty this world is. One can despair about it. But one can also learn to accept it, and be optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:43 PM
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Yup. As an example this summer there was this great looking guy on the beach doing some work around the speedboat. Women started eyeing him, duh. My brother and two of his friend immediately started trashing the guy. Saying those are artificial muscles, steroid, it's not healthy. But guy is not some roid monster, his body looks proportional and natural. They were so obviously envious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:30 PM
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ATM all over the Western world there is a lack of workers for shitty jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:18 PM
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That's just gross. Anyhow I sent you a PM, rate me 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:17 PM
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WTF is the matter with people spaming dick pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:07 PM
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I learned to not care about anyone expectations. I can't possible measure up to double standards set up by narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:06 PM
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Because poor could riot and break stuff 🤕
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:03 PM
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Disagree. With less socialization going on there are lots of awesome people on OLD mainly living in remote, rural low density areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:01 PM
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LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:59 PM
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On dating platforms yes. IRL I take itbwith a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:09 PM
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Answer - Because feminists keep blaming us for their issues and they keep telling us what to do to fix their issues. At the same time they refuse to acknowledge their own part in causing those issues and god forbid change women bahaviour. And it does feel frustrating. Like... how do women react on Kevin Samuels telling them how they should behave? They feel outraged. We know women don't give a fuck about our issues. So, stop spaming us with endless whining and fix your own damn issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:53 AM
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A group of hot sweedish tourists was passing by and I virtue signaled my gains like a shameless slut I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:30 AM
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My bodybuilding plan for the past week: Day 1 Upper body routine - Sledgehamer 8 hours Day 2 Upper body routine - Sledgehamer 8 hours Day 3 Upper body routine - Sledgehamer 8 hours Day 4 Pains, horrible pains rest day! Day 5 Upper body routine - Sledgehamer 8 hours Day 6 Upper body routine - Sledgehamer 8 hours Day 7 Upper body routine - Sledgehamer 8 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:26 AM
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One of those things which make life worth living 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:22 AM
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Good luck mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:21 AM
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Exactly. And that is different from low height which makes one less attractive for hook ups or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:07 AM
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Off I Iike them hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:06 PM
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Blame market regulations, taxes, feds printing money and interrupting free market!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:05 PM
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So what you are really trying to say is that... Jews run the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:00 PM
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LOL! I love that sudden turn in tone!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:58 PM
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Are you a dem or a republican?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:57 PM
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Do use the showerhead in that way 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:56 PM
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Kayne West is the most talented artist of all times. source: Kayne West
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:22 PM
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Some sluts do end up being good mothers. Not wives, just good single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:18 PM
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Society literaly means a group of people living together. American are the society. Well american society. Influental people are powerful. Musk is worth 100 bill, Biden is worth 8 mil. Biden is incredibly more powerful then Musk, he can nuke half the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:15 PM
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Dude... all of us define the high society. Not my fault that americans value money over everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:05 PM
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Tssss if you want to define rich people as high society go right ahead. For me, no ammount of bling bling will ever make me consider a turd to be anything more then a turd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:59 PM
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Social class is not about the money. You can be poor and be a high class citizen. You can be rich trash as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:53 PM
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Psst, say it's the low pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:43 PM
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Destroying the planet and taking a huge pleasure doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:38 PM
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WTF? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:31 PM
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For you or him? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:30 PM
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Avocados are too expensive. So a man gotta do what a man gotta do. Nom, nom, nom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:28 PM
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I heard so much shit about "nice guys" that when I do a genuinelly nice thing, and woman tells me I'm nice... I kill a bunny to make things whole again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:27 PM
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Sometimes, rarely they do. But it instantly turns them low class. Universe has a thing for keeping things in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:24 PM
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Some "people" like to lick feet 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:24 PM
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No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:21 PM
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OK so don't expect guys to ever actually be nice to women because they don't want to be labeled as nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:14 PM
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He had a cannon. Bitchez loved cannons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:09 PM
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He had a cannon. Bitchez loved cannons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:09 PM
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Holy shit that's so romantic. I'm stealing this!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:08 PM
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I am BI.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:02 PM
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Well some people refer themselves as High Value Men. Why give them the satisfaction? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:00 PM
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Yup, I love that part!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:59 PM
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No more like... "You mean I have been eating your ass for the past 30 minutes? Why does this keep happening to me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:58 PM
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You just described a narcissist. Maybe we shouldn't describe assholes as "nice" people, although ironical I think it is damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:56 PM
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Buttholes are eeewww, and every time I ate one it was by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:54 PM
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Males have cloaca too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:53 PM
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I'd prefer a trunk. Those lucky elephants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:52 PM
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Ooooh... I'd do that to, so yeah makes perfect sense. Mods delete PPD, we found out everything worth knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:51 PM
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We should just extinct all birds and reptiles to end their miserable existence 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah, and half of those are on my feet. Nice job 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:48 PM
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Is it weird if I say a thank you prayer before eating her ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:43 PM
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Well the only reason why you have a sexually compatible partner is because of your self-fulfilling prophecy! Ha! Enjoy having a bunch of great compatible sex as a punishment sucker!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:42 PM
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Eat her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:40 PM
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Is he BI?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:38 PM
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Q4A - Why is the ass so close to the pussy? Does God simply enjoy torturing us?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:38 PM
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Women demand stuff from politicians all the times. They get nice words and some small cosmetic change which looks nice. You guys got the right to vote in 1919 because women became a significant workforce. Work = power. Some politician was simply there to exploit it. Also you are the primary voting body, and male politicians are still getting elected, AND they still haven't solved your issues. 100 years later? WTF? And you feminists say this is patriarchy? 100 years primary voting body and it's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:26 PM
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Roses are brown, violets are brown I really wish dog would stop shitting on my lawn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:02 PM
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-Maybe "not everything is men's fault" thing. Which I do fully admit sounds a bit extreme. Just try saying all men are assholes and all women are assholes and watch the reaction. -Within the manosphere some men think Tate is a messiah, some think he is just another shitlord. I think he is secretly gay. Every man can find his place within the manosphere. Except white knights. -Men need to get frustrated into doing things, once they do they get shit done. Politicians "starting" revolutions were ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:58 PM
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Happy cake day my man!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:33 PM
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"Manosphere" is composed of a bunch of different camps which have their own thing. Their only thing in common is these are not eating feminist ass, which makes them literal nazis. Men's right is trying to change the system and achieve objectives by gaining public support. They aren't achieving anything though. Other ones achieve objectives using different means. For instance TRP philosophy is to just ride with the flow, yet this movement is achieving the greatest change while not even trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:32 PM
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Things I learned from PPD women. Women do not have dating struggles. They are strong, always desireable and hot queens, wall is a stupid myth, they are the gatekeepers of sex are financialy independent and don't need your stupid commitment. Also you should stop whinning about your dating struggles because they are nothing in comparison with female dating struggles. Women don't want to date guys with high-N preference, and if they did they could just lie about it. And although your preference doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:24 PM
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Manosphere doesn't need public support. It was clear from the begining that there is no sense in trying to achieve objectives by becoming popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:03 PM
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Energy-wise trains and ships are most optimal ways of transportation. However if the girl in question is not in the port or on the train station these can be ill suited. A bycicle is also a good alternative which drives A to B. Planes are most optimal time wise for covering great distances. Cars for smaller distances. It really depends on where you are, where the girl is and what kind of optimum you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:58 PM
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Well women are doing it too behind our backs. I'm being opressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:53 PM
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LOL if I had a $1 for every time so.eone lied to me! I would build a penis shaped rocket and a cowboy hat! Oh wait Bezos already did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:48 PM
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Yes because, people do need to vent. If a bunch of people are venting their frustrations behind closed doors. Who gives a shit. If you disable those vents, bad things tend to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:46 PM
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Just don't go there then. I do not go reading FDS. Why would I? It would just make me feel bad. If those women want to hate guys, sure go ahead... shitty "dating strategy" if you ask me but go right ahead. I also do not visit women only gyms. You guys do you. You guys stay out of male specific spaces, we like our privacy when we have all that secret gay sex I shouldn't tell anybody about. It's when this shit leaks into "public" spaces where people are unwillingly exposed to it that we do have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:41 PM
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Ofc 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:33 PM
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In this sub. And also in this subs men are being called all kinds of derogatory terms for expressing their sexuality. And there are female dominated subs such as FDS and XX even relatipnship subs where the same thing is happening. I myself had ben called all kinds of things simply for expressing views which weren't hateful or anything. Somebody just didn't like them. But if we go putside where people are not anonymous and "touch the grass". IRL nobody called me an inc3l ever in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:32 PM
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How? We do not have slut shaming marches. We have became tolerant with female sexual behaviours. We do not shame them for it, we do not shame them behind their backs, we do not deprive them employment opportunities. If we do feel an "ick" we do not shame unless we are directly negatively impacted, and we use it just as our dating preference. Obviously some people will, but you always have some -ists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:20 PM
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Some guys say they are OK with high N women. It's an individual preference and that's the risk you take. Simple as that. Women are not sexually repressed in any significant way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:12 PM
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I wouldn't call it a poor impulse control. I do have lots of porn on my PC but also terabytes of movies, series, music, photos. It's digital media, storing it doesn't require lot's of space like physical stuff does. We do get to stash a lot of shiny things. And if one day there is an apocalypse. Which just shuts down the internet, and nothing else. We can survive with our stashes for a couple of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:10 PM
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Cold approaching a woman and asking her out was a perfectly normal thing. Now women are vocaly shaming cold approaches and calling out guys who do it creeps. And that is not repressive? But even having a low-N preference is sexually repressive. Dunno, seems like a shitton of double standards to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:04 PM
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When I was young, with hormones raging... yup I did it as well 😬 Everybody I know did. And yes it is pathetic. But some of us do grow out of it. Some don't. You know, some mid 30 women still play teenage games too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:00 PM
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It's completly normal for every fucking animal to walk to a female and say in their specific way "I want to fuck you". When repression becomes internalized it's just another social decorum. 100 years ago women weren't fucking around because of social decorum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:56 PM
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This! So much this! 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:53 PM
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So most men are most pathetic men. Guys do lie a lot to get some pu*** 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:52 PM
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Go ahead and openly ask a stranger woman to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:50 PM
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There was a study involving university students and it involved speed dating setting. Participants rated each other and had to actually date their picks. The results were very well distributed, much beter then the results on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:49 PM
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I do know this is truth for women. Most attractive women in the world have almost perfectly average faces. But most attractive men all have those square jaws and shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:26 PM
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Men are being sexually repressed all the time for everything. The only thing for which we do not get repressed is having lots of sexual partners. World champions in victimhood Olympics whine because they get sexually oppresed for having too much sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:23 PM
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I had a study saying just that, but people kept pulling hairs because MuH 80/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:21 PM
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I only befriend women which are already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:12 PM
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I'm just thinking... where are all these hyper-religious men being all virtuous, charitable and doing all these religious stuff? Like when was the last time they sacrificed a goat or ten to the God? Is it possible, that maybe they are just using religion to sexually repress women, while at the same time they themselves are not doing any of the hard religious stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:10 PM
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I'm just trying out pickup lines. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:05 PM
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I don't know what to say man, I really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:04 PM
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Marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:02 PM
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The more we know, the less we are confident... up to a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:01 PM
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Skyrim belongs to the Nords!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:00 PM
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" Staying abstinent until marriage is the absolute bare minimum, not "religious fanaticism". " Someone actually said this outloud, unironically and I think I had enough internet for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:59 PM
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I have never used these... games to inflate value, neither have I used sex or money or whatever for power play, nor have I chased women above my league. I want a relationship where partners are pretty much equal. However I was on a receiving end of these games and power plays, including attempts at using sex as power. I don't like that. You say that having sex doesn't eliminate anything. I disagree. Women say that they do not want a slut shamer for a partner so I don't see what's the big issue? …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:57 PM
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Was nice talking with you. Bye 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:50 PM
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" Staying abstinent until marriage is the absolute bare minimum, not "religious fanaticism". " Someone actually said this outloud and I think I had enough internet for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:41 PM
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LOOOOOOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:39 PM
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I do agree, and that's why I prefer relationships in which there is no power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:38 PM
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Tehehe. Men this and women that... the part which sucks is that you guys don't really understand tha some men and women have more in common between themselves then with their "camps". Some people feel the need to wear a dress and use 76 different pronouns. But I would look horrible in a dress, I prefer cargo pants please do use male pronouns aaaand yes I can fix stuff, kill spiders and open jars. I'm afraid of mantises though... will still squish them. Also most of my GF's were BI, not that I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:37 PM
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Think about me as being more like you. Emotionaly sensitive, empathic... girl stuff. I'm just packed in a brutish looking body. And I have to keep up with my appearance. Is your ego stroked because you make your partner cum, like mine is? Do partners have to fake orgasms with you? Because in the sex department I am more like a woman. A horny woman. But... I can't show that. So it's really like having sex with a lesbian. And lesbians never complain about their sex life. Except for lacking one ofc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:06 PM
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Certainly. As an example I'm 37, in this age group high N is higher, but also N can be too low. If 37yo woman is a virgin and wasn't a nun... something seems off. Also previous relationships are important. Lack of a previous stable relationship... something seems off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:57 PM
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Yup but, when I had to fake, women were really, really bad at it. So bad that I needed it to finish quicker. And you can't tell a woman she is doing it badly because they get super insecure about it. If we were being perfectly honest most of you guys... Well you wouldn't have such inflated egoes when it comes to sex. So yay. Also you wouldn't want to have sex at all. So nay. Again, most men don't really have a technique. And don't care because you guys fake it instead of shaming it 😂 I only have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:46 PM
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Meh, it happens to everyone. Just make sure to confess your sins. 😃 You will burn in hell for doing butt stuff though 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:38 PM
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Eeeeew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:36 PM
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They were coming back to appease my ego? So nice of them 😁 You guys are fucking awesome 🥰 So women would also do other things to appease my ego too? They'd tell me I'm special and smart and handsome. They would treat me like a beautiful prince I am 😃 And would never, ever, ever shit-test me right? Also I made women cum more often then they did me. I actually faked a couple of times not to bruise their egoes 😶 The guardian of the sex is the one which needs it less. Which also depends on how much …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:36 PM
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8 out of 10? I hope you follow the "thou shall not kill" 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:24 PM
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Let's say I want to get married, and I make a prenup which states that in the case of cheating or paternoty fraud she needs to pay me $$$. Now she needs to sign it 😬 Well prenup suggests that I do not trust her. Sucks right? But she doesn't have to make me sign anything because law already protects her rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:22 PM
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Oh an egalitarian. You guys rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:14 PM
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I'm going to believe you. But some women make guys wait for other reasons. And I'm filtering them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:05 PM
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I've had women come back just to get fingered. After the breakeup. They weren't coming back to fake orgasms. It is a big part of my ego. Yeah some guys did sleep with more women then I did. But how many of those women experienced multi-orgasmic experience? Orgasm gap suggests not many. I am super confident about this, and you only get to poke inner insecurities. And guys having an ego because they make women cum? You guys should want that over guys having an ego because they fuck a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:01 PM
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I really like when women can't stand the thought of not being able to manipulate dumb men. If your orgasm faking is as good as your virtue signaling then no way in hell am I getting fooled by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:42 PM
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Umm... youre a guy. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:38 PM
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CVM which managed to change my mind Some good and well argumented discussions, no shaming and trashtalking. This is how a CMV should look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:35 PM
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You know your life goals 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:29 PM
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Yup. That's a really interesting case, because we "manospherians" disagree all the time, but we do not tear each other appart. Like... red pill, black pill, MGTOW, trad guys are not leading a "holy crusade" against each other. The rip in the femisphere was started by transgender people... which are arguably guys with tits. Since the whole movement has to have a single narrative, and anyone different is nazi, they tear each others throat to keep the narrative going in their favour. And to avoid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:27 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:19 PM
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If my religion was offering "buy 2 get 2 free" would you consider converting again?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:18 PM
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For me personaly i is not the most important thing in a relationship. Feelings are. I want to love and feel loved. Also turns sex into love making... which does sound cringe but... making love > having sex. In the past I had experienced just that sometimes when the relationship started by having sex. So in my opinion the best way to find feelings is to... well start with sex. Offcourse maybe it's just by a random chance. And maybe there is some unknown reason (my looks, behaviour...) which reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:16 PM
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Question for guys which want a religious virgin wife. How religious are you guys? Like. If you are a Christian do you follow closely 10 God commandments and avoid doing any of the 7 deadly sins? Do you go to church every Sunday? Would you become a martyr for your religion? Why don't you just pray to Jesus to send you a virgin girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:08 PM
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Yup. She wasn't a religious fanatic. Still highly religious by my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:03 PM
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Feminism and lefties tend to adopt common values so they have more allies and a bigger movement. Opposive views within the community are shuned. You have to agree with everything otherwise... otherwise you are a nazi. Manosphere is a shitload of different camps with differing opinions and members often argue between other. Some guys adore Tate, other guys think he is a shitlord. These camps share just one thing. Feminists think they are nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:01 PM
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You can keep on living even if the life doesn't have any meaning. A hammer is built with a purpose, with a meaning. It is made to hit nails. I wasn't made by a higher being that has a purpose for me. OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:55 PM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:53 PM
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I do agree but I think it's easier to find a matching personality if things start with sex. Because power imbalance can ruin a relationship between two otherwise matching personalities. Starting by having sex means there is no power imbalance in the sex department. Assuming there are no significant other imbalances neither partner doesn't get to get away with doing disrespectifull things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:50 PM
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At the same time feminists whine when men act like feminists. Both sides wants for other side to shut up, listen to their problems and do as told, then whine like brats when they do not get that. Personaly, if someone doesn't care about my problems, I don't care about theirs. Super easy and effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:40 PM
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Sorry for sounding arrogant, but there is no way around it. I wish you the best of luck myself, and if you wish I can send you a link to a very good fingering technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:20 PM
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Heavily depends on how old you are. 18yo wanting a virgin partner. vs 30yo wanting a virgin partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:15 PM
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Maybe you are the arrogant one for thinking your partners were better then me? Maybe do a better job veting guys? Or be more pro-active in teaching a guy to make you cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:13 PM
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The ones which started with sex worked out just fine. And only one of those ended because our relationship had deteriorated to the point of brakeup. Rest of them ended due to outside factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:11 PM
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I can because I made all my partners cum. Even a friend which was just like you. With the risk of sounding arrogant, maybe I'm just better at it then all of your previous partners? If I do meet a women which despite my all effort does not climax, I will stop making these claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:04 PM
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We are not a monolith. Some do, and with the exception of organically grown relationships I would argue this is a more sucessful strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:47 AM
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Well let's just agree to disagree as two grown up adults. Lol, just kiding, this is internet. Food fiiiiiight! 🥭🍍🍏🍐🍌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:44 AM
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Finding a good sexual partner is easy for you, because you are smart at veting, and you are not afraid to take the initiative. Congratulations! No sacrasm intended, really good job. But hook-up orgasm gap suggests that you are an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:41 AM
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I can't be 100% sure offcourse. Women do have vaginal contractions when they orgasm, these are hard to fake. Also... not bragging, I'm very good with fingers, multiple women had described my finger work as best ever. I don't think that any woman would need to fake. Women do have a hard time cuming from PIV sex alone, but if you masturbate their clit (with fingers) at the same time... the problem becomes making them cum before you do 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:35 AM
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I'm not implying that men are worthless, just that our commitment is not as worth as it was in the 19th century. Because women have jobs. So now both of our commitments hold value. And both of us are valuable as sexual partners. Not a perfectly ballanced situation offcourse... but that's another story. My point is that we need to play both these cards right. And so do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:29 AM
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I myself am more of a romantic guy, I value love over sex. However, probably because of the way I look and behave, women do not see me as someone who is romantic, and are quite surprised to discover that side of me. If I just seek romance, I fail. This is perhaps why this approach works better for me... in order to find love I have to look for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:20 AM
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Overabundance of things we like doesn't lead to happines. Most of us love food, so eating a lot of food we like will make us gappy right? Well a lot of obese people are depressed and feel like shit. Playing video games feels awesome. But playing video games all day... excess dopamine fried receptors, well poo now what? Abundance of willing sexual partners, so much validation... but which one to pick? How about heroin? My sister was an addict and trust me, don't go there. For the past two weeks I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:16 AM
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I had both. My current relationship started, well we banged like animals. I feel validated by my partner, my partner seems happy with me and we are building up this relationship, growing closer together. The relationship before that, she kept me waiting to inflate her value, wasn't happy because she felt more valuable then me, then I found out about her previous hook-ups... I didn't felt happy with a partner that feels so much more valuable then me, expecially since that sense of value was infla…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:58 AM
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My past experiences are pointing out that this is a better strategy for me. Can't say it's the best strategy for everyone. So far I had 1 good relationships for when I was looking for a relationship. Also lots of wasted time, effort and feeling like shit. And several mutualy satisfactional relationships which started by by just banging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:49 AM
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Disagree. Height is sexually attractive. High N doesn't make a woman sexually unattractive, on the contrary it signals sex for low effort which is a green flag for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:43 AM
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I would politely disagree. Women do have a higher/lower libido, but also higher/lower impulse control just as we do. So a woman can have high libido, but also high impulse control, meaning that she is horny but she can wait. Once in my life time I was with such a GF. Religious and high impulse control, and an absolute unit in bed. She would never cheat on me, but religious differences caused brakeup. However women with low libido, and women which don't finds us that sexually atractive will often…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:40 AM
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The ones which do have easy acces don't because "gold cock" syndrome. I consider myself to be an a bit above average guy. And on a really good day even a liteChad. I do get results, but admittedly it's a hard work. I do make the effort and I always make a woman cum. However even though I'm not a Chad I had rejected some women which had slept with me. Because I'm not desperate and if I find woman to be sexually incompatible... what's the point? Women tend to think that if they are sexually satisf…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:28 AM
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Exactly. I had gotten interest from women before, obviously not all women find me attractive, because they do have different taste for men. So rather then just spreading my "investment" around, which does feel like a rigged game. I save my investment for women which find me attractive enough to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:10 AM
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Ummm... OK if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:07 AM
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Exactly. Women achieve orgasm in just 40% of hookups, so easy to find a hookup but 60% chance to get "blue balled". But also not all of those 40% will want to keep having sex because men do have options as well. Expecially the ones which can get hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:06 AM
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Doesn't ensure yes. But starting a relationship and waiting for sex doesn't ensure sexual compatibility. And we invest much more time and effort to discover that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:37 AM
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Men which really are insiting on a virgin in modern times should visit a therapist. However I feel like men on this sub expresing this preference are just doing so to get back at "hoes", to make them look cheap. Given the chance they wouldn't mind eating "hoes" ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:32 AM
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Well I feel kinda like an idiot 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:26 AM
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It did matter why but... Might as well leave it to eggheads to discover why and in the meantime we will just wash our hands prior to surgery? Am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:56 AM
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Yup, back in the 80's HIV decimated gay population, and it's not even an easily transmitable disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:06 AM
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Duude, it's a debate sub, relax a bit. I was seeing a therapist, but we started dating 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:02 AM
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Is a champion for men. Expecially older generations... almost all of our heroes were also womanizers. Except Superman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:18 PM
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I'm not seeking for an advice. I know very well that I can't just ask women for sex. That stuff is just writen to show how society thinks dicks are dirty. I do wash my hands before taking the piss because I don't want to touch my beautiful piton with dirty hands. I don't wash my hands afterwards though MUAHAHAHA DICK TERORIST!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:01 PM
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Liberal use of ducktape!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:09 PM
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I hope it will be a worldwide change. I know that they earn $$$ on their unique chargers/cables, but a lot of people refuse to use Apple products due to compatibility issues so this could be a win for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:01 PM
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In EU? They have to 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:51 PM
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Oh... more of them? 😶 Do try, but don't spend yourself too much trying to cheer them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:50 PM
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Better not because when women scream "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!" I scream "I HAVE A BF TOO AND HE IS A SURGREON 😝!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:38 PM
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Yes cultures can change, but you can't change older people. And when society does go through a rapid change ysually one generation gets thoroughly anally banged. Just look at Eastern Europe 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:25 PM
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Yup. Submisive guys end up paying a dominatrix to... not have sex with them. People spread their ideological gospels as truths, but some things are fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:22 PM
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All pornstars are one big step-family. 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:17 PM
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I myself bring a lot of energy into the workplace, and usually there are 0 problems with the atmosphere. Time does fly faster when you are having a good/fun time. I did had one miserable sealf loathing, always negative cowoker who loved creating drama, spreading negativity and pessimism. And he loved when people loathed him. I tried really, really hard but ended up switching jobs 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:15 PM
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Skeletal remains reveal that guys break fingers all the time. And they heal on their own. So I had enough of this HVM, LVM B.S. We fucking rock!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:12 PM
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I cried like a bitch in front of women after hitting my pinky toe against a counter three times in one night. I'm fairly sure it broke the second time 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:09 PM
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Dude you can't just burn that kind of thinking. It's like when people develop avoidant/anxious attachment styles... and that's it. That's what they are for the rest of their lives. Because you can't change things at the foundation of one's personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:04 PM
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So the legend is true! People can change their mind! 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:57 PM
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I care more about sex/dating debate then sex/dating itself. This subjects is like an enless rabbit hole. You think astrophysics and quantum mechanics are difficult? Try to get a woman to speak honestly about sex 😂 If I lose this... I don't know what then 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:49 PM
1

Well damn, I often approach strangers just to start funny conversations and kill time 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:42 PM
1

You are just afraid that dirty penis might touch you 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:37 PM
2

Have the best dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:35 PM
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MMF sex is ten times better then MFF sex. Bite me 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:33 PM
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Places in which women have to be covered have their own bucket of issues. In western world women can walk naked in the middle of the city without causing an uproar. Guy doing the same is a terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:48 PM
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Women themselves shame and indoctrinate guys into thinking that dicks are dirty. Then complain about being shamed for being "dirtied" by dicks. 75% if gay men are openly gay, and just 19% of bi men are openly BI. A lot of BI guys stay in the closet because women feel they have been dirtied by getting the dick. This slut shaming is your own making blowing you vack in the face, and you can't see it because "how do we blame the men for this".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:45 PM
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We get bombarded by pussy pics because scams, onlyfans... nobody is grossed out. Nobody gives a fuck. Women receive dick pics... no bacteria on dick pics. Are upset about it, keep venting on the internet because guys doing it are creeps. Guy walking around the town nude, not threatening anyone. Everyone is grossed out, people call police, it ends up in news. Hundreds of videos online in which women walk the streets nude. No panic, no police, no news, people are curious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:33 PM
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It looks stupid because lots of women can't look past "men are to be blamed for everything". But let's add the part which is invisible to you. Women tell men their dicks are gross. Doesn't look stupid anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:25 PM
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The only problem with this is that women are the ones doing most of the dick-shaming. Can't blame the men and evil Patriarchy for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:22 PM
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Call me crazy but in the real world people talk about N privately inside their circle a lot. Expecially women. And the biggest s* shamers are high N guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:32 PM
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I think that "dick is dirty" analogy works much better. Just ask a hetero guy to touch another man penis. Surely no reason to feel grossed out about touching a key? Also a gay bottom feels icky, but a gay top is danger... no key-lock analogies can explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:14 PM
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Why do men flock around big tiddied streamer girls? Because they have big tiddies. We do have baby formulas, so even a woman with no tits can feed a bunch of kids but... big tiddies! How about tall guys? In the past guy grew big if he had enough food. So enough food to feed the kids + great defense against the barbarians! Today... everyone can defend and feed the kids, the trick is finding a guy which is not going to pump and dump. Yet women flock to tall guys. You say that we should be better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:08 PM
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If I have lot's of sex with lots of different women in pre-condom times, I make a lot of kids. So congratulate me motherfiluckers, worship meeeh! In modern times I can spend 20 years on casual sex, without creating a single offspring. While some "beta loser" found a girl, married her and already has 2-3 kids almost grown up. But I am a HVM, superior sperm bull muahaha - because reasons? If we were evolving while condoms were around we would congratulate that "beta loser" for sending three kids t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:43 AM
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Anyone who disagrees with me is an X...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:12 AM
2

Aaaaawwww 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:54 AM
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Rate me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:41 AM
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I thought it lost it's popularity because people have to walk?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:40 AM
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I have never sent those kinds of pics to anybody so please do not crusify me for what I'm about to say. It's a completly natural thing to do. Almost all animals in existence have their junk hanging around. And some animals are happily waving it erected around to say "I wanna fuck you". They do not shame each other because of it. We do shame men for everything about our penises. Like if I touch my junk, do not wash my hands and give you a handshake... I'm a terrorist 😁 Because in our culture dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:39 AM
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We do live in a culture where a nude man in public is a terrorist. Woman is not. We have to wash our hands after taking a piss because we touched our dirty terrorist and now our hands are dirty and we can dirty everything. Yet nobody cares about washing hands before taking a piss and touch our pepe. Directly asking a stranger woman to have sex with us? Terrorism! Yet completly natural in animal world. Sending dick pics? Once again terrorism! Women sending pussy pics? Noice. Oh but if I accept th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:33 AM
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There is not enough soap in the entire world to make a dick clean 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:26 AM
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I remember one scientist running the simulation in which everyone was given different attributes. AND there was random luck which could add or take just +/-5% at each step. In every simulation different competitors were at the top. In just slightly different universes you get completly different bilionares, singers... etc. In each one Elvis is the king though. The thing is that sucessful people tend to attribute all of their succes to their skill. For instance there was a social experiment in wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:13 AM
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Reported for even suggesting that we were made by dirty penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:05 AM
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Personally I would like to live in a world in which dick is not dirty. And having sex with lots of people is neither applauded nor shamed. But to change this we would have to tackle the source, the idea that dicks are dirty terrorists. Because telling us that dicks are dirty and everything that dick touches is soiled, and telling us that women touched by a lot of penises are not soiled... just doesn't work. You can't expect us to swallow that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:04 AM
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Our feelings are often only logical if applied on small comunities, tribes. And... lack of condoms. Like, my need to influence the world is just a waste of time and effort because I live in a country numbering millions. But if I was living in a tribe of 100 people... I could change some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:56 AM
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The ideal outcome is that masturbator has a shaming fetish, and OP discovers he has a fetish for shaming people. This could be the begining of a beautiful relationship ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:49 AM
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I do love coconut. The best cake I make is coconut and chockolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:44 AM
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I never tried those, so I can't shame you. Consider yourself lucky 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:42 AM
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I know right? There is something disturbingly wrong with our species 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:25 AM
2

Vanilla is among top 3 flavors of almost everybody, yet very small number of people list it as their favourite flavor. Vanilla is the safe choice, a BB among the flavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:23 AM
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Women are not rocket science. They seem complicated because they say a lot of contradicting things. But once you learn how they communicate, they are fairly simple creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:21 AM
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Cinnamon toast crunch ofc. Anybody disagreeing is going to be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:19 AM
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Whisper "shame, shame, shame" in front of his doors louder and louder. If you have a big bell use that too!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:18 AM
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First 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:03 AM
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I do agree, when it comes to shaming the best thing to do is just grow thicker skin. But if you were shamed as a kid, that shaming can shape your whole personality and have a negative impact on your entire life. Like those same men which are slutshaming, were once shamed into thinking sex is dirty themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:23 PM
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I think that OP is correct. There is much more shaming being thrown at men then at women. To the point that we even get shamed for having a preference because... women feel that male preferences are sexually oppressing them? Heck we get sexually shamed for having an opposing political view. I myself do not cate about these mental gymnastic about shaming rules, because the goal is obviously to be able to shame men, while women get a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:09 PM
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So slut-shaming is OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:57 PM
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The answer for that question would last at least one semester. Yesterday an algoritm has predicted that I want to buy a new laptop. I was thinking about buying one, I havent said or texted anything about it. It has figured it out somehow, and is now spaming me with laptop adds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:50 AM
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Most of these OLD talks ignore those algoritms. We are not offered swipes at random. I have made a female account on Tinder just to do some testing aaand, yeah it keeps offering these male instagram models and businessmen. No wonder it's 80/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:51 PM
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Yup. If we apply evolutionary pressure on men, but not on women then shitty genes remain in the population because every woman get's to have children. Even if just 1% of top men get to procreate but all women do. Well women with less education have more children, so within a couple of generations civilizarion becomes idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:43 PM
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If I had to describe it, I feel like all my emotions are toned down, positive and negative. But not too much, just enough. Before negative emotions could overwhelm me. Now they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:33 PM
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You do you. I lock myself in the room when I have sewing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:26 PM
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Usually I can't stop bashing myself for days. Sometimes longer. On antidepressants "well this sucks, anyway".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:23 PM
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You can't just leave that dust accumulating on the cabinets dude. You need to clean it up every 5-10 years. It's OK to skip a decade sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:19 PM
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Doing chores doesn't get us any sex, it keeps the house clean and functional. Just avoid doing stuff which makes you look as a sissy, and try to do more manly chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:16 PM
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Flat out wrong. Evolution works when both genders are subjected to evolutionary pressure. If evolutionary pressure is applied on males but not on females the quality of genes will actually deteriorate. Like, let's say only the top 10% of men get to procreate. Women with low impulse control and lower education make more children, then women with higher impulse control and college aducation. Next generation is more impulsive and less educated. You can increase the pressure on men having only top 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:12 PM
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My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:12 PM
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Sure, to prove evolution it is much easier to work with species that breed fast. Like bacteria. Sadly those would also make shitty speciments for studying psychology 🤨 But even making it more clear how much and what parts of our behaviour are influenced by DNA, how much is learned would go a long way. For instance research does suggest that primates are genetically hardwired to be afraid of snakes and spiders. How do genes manage to hardwire that fear? Also men become horny when they see a nude …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:10 PM
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So women trying to change men instead of changing themselves is misandry then? Because I have a bad news for you, there are a lot more of "men should" flying in our direction, then the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:48 PM
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Made me thinking. Do we even have any male terms which are not demonized and used as slurs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:45 PM
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I would also add that the big problem with humans is the ethics of experimentation on humans. If the subjects were... rabbits. We could do all kinds of behavioural experiments and grow them in all kinds of enviroments to see how much of their behaviour is influenced by what. But .eg growing a bunch of kids on a deserted island is out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:04 PM
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Entire psychology is founded on speculative stuff with dubious scientific backing, that can be used to promote any agenda 😁 Because we are trying to analize the most complex thing known using a set of very blunt tools. It would be wrong to simply "cancel" the whole field, because it (mostly) works and is producing positive results. Using it to promote agendas has to be called out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:56 PM
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Dating apps do not favour women, they simply change the dinamics by making the cost of approaching almost zero. This means that men are facing fiercer competition from other men because now best looking guys can approach hundreds of women each week, and married men can approach other women while standing rigjt next to their wives. This is working in favour of women which are looking for casual sex. But I would argue that it is working against women looking for serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:45 AM
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As long as people are open and honest about it, not a bigot, because we can't control what we feel icky about. Like if I tell you that I get the ick knowing about past sexual partners, and that I don't want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:42 AM
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Cam Damage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:41 AM
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I can will it into getting hard at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:32 AM
2

I know right!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:30 AM
2

No teeth 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:27 AM
2

Getting a blowjob from a girl, or a guy or a grandma feels the same right? Just shut off your brain bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:16 AM
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OK boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:13 AM
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I thought about it straight away, the pattern of behaviour is familiar. Once he ensures it is over, he is gone. And she will find out just how caring he is. Still makes me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:10 AM
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He is being supportive, or being there to ensure she ends the pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:58 AM
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I know a guy in 40's which is actually a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:54 AM
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It's illegal to sell sex in just 3 and buy sex in just 5 EU countries. Everyone else had it legalized, and some countries had it regulated as well. In Europe we become legal grown ups at 18, no restrictipns after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:45 AM
2

Indigo is the bestest color!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:27 AM
2

I don't think I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:18 AM
2

Am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:12 AM
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I find Wikipedia to be a decent source of information for things which have nothing to do with anything social. This page and it's edit history was what showed me just how f***** up their editing process is.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:10 AM
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And Indigo is the bestest color.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:03 AM
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I know that other people think it is degrading so I hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:02 AM
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It's the observer effect, happens all the time in quantum physics and with my sexuality. Observation of phenomena changes the measurement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:01 AM
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Yup, my solution to discrimination is lying. I don't think sex is degrading, and I don't have the MW co.plex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:54 PM
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Because finding an accepting partner is extremely difficult, and I'm not getting rejected over this again. Straight people do not get me, gay people do not get me and... I don't even know anyone IRL who is BI. Hey, my family doesn't know and we are having a loving, healthy, mutually acepting relationship. Except for my asshole brother who I'm never ever speaking again. If we were all taking whats on our mind all the time everyone would reject everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:52 PM
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Nothing to cut out really. I can have sex with women and with guys. Don't need to do both of those to satisfy some urge or something. It's like, man can have sex with all women, but when in a relationship he doesn't have to go around cheating. I have been hiding it for my whole life and it's not weighting me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:32 PM
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I'm honest with myself, because I know I won't discriminate against myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:15 PM
2

It's really not. I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:08 PM
3

No I won't. I don't like being discriminated against.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:07 PM
1

I knooow, most guys are like that. I guess it becomez frustrating with time. I doubt I will, but it's OK. I can't feel mad because people feel the ick. I can't force them not to. All I can do is work around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:05 PM
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No it's not. I'm awesome and I love myself 🖤 Also never had a partner complain about the sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:00 PM
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Being alone for a couple of years, and being dumped for being BI feels shittier then doing the shitty thing. Therby by the law of how much shitty things feel, it's OK. Shhhh 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:58 PM
1

Thank you, and it's OK I'm used to it 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:50 PM
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Dude, It's totally OK. People are being dishonest and lying in dating all the time. The only shitty part is they are so bad at hiding it 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:47 PM
2

Can people really cheat without it influencing their relationship badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:45 PM
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My sexuality is fluid, when asked directly I turn heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:37 PM
3

Dunno. They say they do not have a problem getting awesome guys to commit, so it's really beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:34 PM
6

Yes it is immoral, but I decided it's OK. Nobody is going to find out 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:32 PM
3

Not true. I only expect women with high body count to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:28 PM
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That's just the thing, I don't have to repress anything. I can sleep with a girl and I can sleep with a guy. I don't have to sleep with guys to express my sexuality. The ick part is the only thing influencing a relationship. Me fooled around with a guy? LOL good one! There I just omitted information again without lying 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:25 PM
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Women keep saying they can just lie about it. IF the ick is the only thing which would affect the partner, no harm done as long as he doesn't find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:10 PM
1

It would be best to find someone who loves every part of me. The only problem being that I have a hard time dating as it is. No need to tank my chances to the bottom of Mariana trench. Is lying by omission really thaaat bad when the only damage is coming from the information itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:04 PM
0

I never got an offensive DM from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:35 PM
2

I have seen way more women throwing slurs on PPD then men, so I wouldn't say men are the ones lashing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:30 PM
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From my experience, girls do like me way more and even approach openly when I am in a relationship. So there is truth in that. But it never made me feel like "upgrading" just uncomfortable at times. Poor guy was expecting to smash a bunch of girls 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:22 PM
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I thought domestic services were retirement homes 😄 Anyhow our abysmal life expectancy is one of the reason why we are a smaller burden for the society. More women work in retirement homes, and more women use them because we died 😁 Go team men!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:12 PM
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I'm with you on this one. If I found out my GF cheated on me I would dump her because of the loss of trust. If I found out she tried to cheat, but got rejected... daaamn now I don't want her either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:04 PM
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Nope, it is 100% legal to "sell" and "buy". It is illegal to pimp, organise, brothels are illegal. Sex workers can only be self employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:34 PM
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Family, sister, friends. Who gives a shit, past is past... can't change it, no point dwelling over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:31 PM
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Yes. Men are dirty and everything penetrated by them is soiled, corrupted, dirty, degraded. Conservatives are open about it, liberals are virtue signaling acceptance and diversity but in secret it makes them feel the ick. There are more conservative men and more liberal women. Women will whine about male preference for virgins and low N women, but they themselves feel the ick for men degraded via penis penetration. One penis penetration makes a guy icky. No point in reasoning with the ick. Only …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:27 PM
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In my opinion Belgium has a great system. Prostitution is legal, pimping is a crime. So they do not work for anyone, they do not have to split profits, or pay protection Since prostitution is legal sex workers can call the police, often work near police stations. They pay taxes, have medical insurance, pension fund. Human trafficking is minimal, because there is no market for it. Men would rather deal with willing sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:08 PM
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You said that r**** are natural right? Yup, people assume that everything natural is wonderful, so if you say that out loud you sound like some maniac. But natural things often suck. And anyone who disagrees should spend a night in the forest. Nude. During the winter. Also collera is natural. So is starving to death. And a society in which everyone stops repressing their urges and gives in is very in touch with nature and a really shitty place to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:00 PM
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It's really hard to diversify the discussion when one side is mostly just virtue signaling and pushing their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:51 PM
2

Big companies entering the prostitution market would make things worse for everyone, expecially sex workers. Min wage, 40 guys per day norm and a bottle for taking a piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:49 PM
2

Great post. I bet it will get deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:46 PM
2

I bet this is why 3.7 milion single parent US children are being fed by food stamps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:45 PM
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If the male side of the oopsie doesn't earn a living wage, or is unknown then society has to step in or those children are going to starve. Why is this not consider anti-social behaviour is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:44 PM
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That infrastructure needs maintaince and rebuilding. US is not the only Western country in which the ifrastructure is failling. In our country huge infrastructure projects are failling not because of finances. But because companies can't secure a workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:39 PM
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Women also use more health care services and domestic care services than men. You think that men are well paid for their most dangerous professions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:30 PM
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Oh I'm not blaming anyone but myself. I was a sucker for believing stuff women said. Fixed that mistake long time ago. Anyhow you shouldn't compare with people living in another time on another part of the world. If I temember correctly we didn't even had a gym, we did had a war and artilery barages though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:10 PM
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You guys got dating advice? For me it was mostly trial and error. For us men were dirty, sexuality was dirty. Women were angels, those which were openly sexual were slut-shamed by other women... they were "different". 1996 I was already 21, internet came yay. Around that time I realized that women were just hiding their sexuality. They were shaming women which were doing openly what they were doing secretly. However I had to experience on my skin to trully realize what women are capable off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:02 PM
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Yes. I haven't came up with "personality matters the most" on my own. That was feed to us by virtue signaling women. If I say that today people call me autistic. But I had a mental evaluation recently, and other then ADD everything is a-OK. Had a talk with my friends about this subject all of us laughed because back then we believed that shit. If I knew how much physical attractivness matters, I'd start hitting the gym when I was 14. By the way Dylan from Beverly Hills 90210 was the bad guy of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:27 PM
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The part about todays common knowledge being flat out denied in the past is so true. A couple of years ago, saying that AF/BB is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:20 PM
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Using celebrities and rich people doesn't make a good example. All I see is another rich guy cheating on his wife. Anyhow, veting guys just decreases the odds. Like, if you are walking on a road, a car is probably going to hit you. But it can happen even if you walk in a pedastrian zone. A guybwhich was hit while walking in the middle of the road doesn't get to whine. A guy which was hit in the pedastrian zone does. Anyhow I'm glad he got fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:07 PM
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Well ugly people are less likely to find a mistress. They don't cheat because they can't 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:02 PM
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PPD women can say whatever they want but. I heard so many women IRL saying how much they prefer male friendship and male friends groups. I myself find communicating with stranger men a much more pleasant experience then with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:00 PM
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This kind of virtue signaling can be very damaging. I am BI. That doesn't mean I need to have sex with guys, I'm STD free .etc. I just can have sex with men and women. Basically my BInes doesn't influence my straight relationships in any negative way. If I know that women are grossed by it, I can happily hide it for the rest of my life. If women virtue signal their acceptance and I come out. I just shot my already bad dating life into both knees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:52 PM
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Progressive women will say they don't mind men being BI. But most of them lose interest once they find out. It's just virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:42 PM
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This! I am a BI guy and I'm still in the closet. Why encourage me to be more open if other men and women are going to discriminate against me? It feels like being a sacrificial lamb for promoting someones agenda. Become more open minded and then tell me to be more opened. Offcourse that would mean that women have to change, and that is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:40 PM
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ADD is ADHD without hyperactivity. It's more like a dreamer doozing away 😁 oh look a shiny thing... where am I? 😂 It does create serious problems. Forgeting things, doozing off, lack of internal clock... .etc. But using it as an excuse is what creates boxes of garbage all over the house. There are great coping strategies to deal with it. For instance I often leave a glass or a plate somwhere and forget about it. But as soon as I see it I take it... I can't leave it for later because I will forge…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:50 PM
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OP we do have sex to get validation! Otherwise we would just bang goats and this sub would be a much weirder place!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:09 PM
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Yes but enjoying a cup of coffee together provides as much attention as having sex. Someone deciding to engage sexually with me provides much more validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:56 PM
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I have ADD so my partner was in charge of planing and reminding me otherwise chaos would ensure... for her. Chaos is a natural order of things for me 😁 We had our more favorite chores, for instance she enjoys cooking I enjoy cleaning dishes. Usually we would split the chores evenly but. Sometimes I would finish my chores faster, and I'd help her out with her chores so we can watch a movie or something. Sometimes I would come home drained by a physically demanding jobs so she would pull extra. Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:42 PM
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I do enjoy some attention, but I can get said attention just by talking with a woman. Having a cup of coffee or watching a movie together and my daily need for attention is met. I do not need said attention coming from multiple people. Casual sex is all about validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:54 AM
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It's getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:16 AM
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If I start running naked on the street I'm going to get a shitload of attention. Probably even an article in the local news. I won't feel validated though, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:56 AM
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I'm on the phone, so I really don't feel like finding proper scientific studies. I hope this article is enough. Based on statistics, men who have engaged in infidelity are more likely to remain married than women who have been unfaithful in some capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:54 AM
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Yes. For hundreds of milions of years we have evolved while condoms did not exist. We are emotional beings which use logic and rationalizations to achieve our emotional goals, fullfill our emotional needs and feel happy. But we can't rationalize ourselves into feeling happy. Chad feels happy when he fucks different women. Since women use contraceptives he doesn't achieve anything, rationally he is just wasting his time. Yet he decides to waste 10 years doing the thing that makes him feel happy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:41 AM
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LOL, cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:22 PM
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No. I stoped using tinder more then a year ago. Met my therapist when we started having therapy sessions, because I was suffering from depression at the time. We found ourself in the same social circle at an underground rave party. So we started going out, as friends. Then we did the dirty on her couch 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:43 PM
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Just validation. Neurotypical men do not crave for attention, too much attention feels off-puting and suffocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:34 PM
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3! 3! 3! 3! 3! 3! Well 2 too but 3 is critical. Way too many guys just keep putting up with a bad relationship that some women have a relevation when a guy dumps them. Women treat guy like crap only if guys enable them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:20 PM
1

Or just do the Thanos trick with the gaunlet?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:02 PM
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But I did and I am dating at the moment. I'm not going to shit anyone. It was hard getting the whole socialization thing rolling again. Really really hard. But it is still better then Tinder and other dating apps. Anyhow I started dating my therapist 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:01 PM
1

Guys in Victorian times wearing wigs and lead based makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:54 PM
2

I changed my underpants two days ago and my SMV value doubled! Guard your GF guys, smallstar is coming to town!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:53 PM
1

If she makes me feel like dating her, I would date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:51 PM
1

So purge?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:49 PM
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I intend to propose with my late's grandma vintage wall clock hanging on a chain necklace. Classy. Very heavy and bad for her back but classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:48 PM
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Sadly due to people socializing less and less Tinder examples are becoming more relevant then organically meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:46 PM
1

Sure just. In my opinion simplistic engrawed steel or platinum rings look better then extravagant gold/diamond ones. Check out these.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:41 PM
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Yup. One such women told me something about tattoo's being satanist. She has a whole history of cheating, and apparently I'm bad because I have a tattoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:36 PM
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I blocked several such women on FB because they started posting religious puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:32 PM
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I'd rather spend 10K on a honeymoon and get a nice looking $200-300 ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:30 PM
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But people don't know that Eastern, Western and captive Bonobos display different behaviour. Meaning their behaviour and society depends on the enviroment. Just like human behaviour does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:28 PM
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Only when women keep dating assholes and keep saying they want to date a "nice guy". Virtue signaling too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:23 PM
1

I think it was after some Andrew Tate thing. Either way this sub has leaned more torwards "manospherian" side. For me it feels weird seeing men hamstering about things which were disaproved years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:06 PM
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The first step is recognizing the problem. But your point is a much more interesting one. We are probably the most sexually repressed species on the entire planet. No other species has this much complications and disfunctions with relationships and sex. Shaming female sexuality is still happening all the time. It's just not as open as before. Men and women talk shit behind the back all the time. Male sexuality is super represed and it has been so normaluzed that people do not even comprehend it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:44 PM
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My dog is my best friend. Nothing to feel sad about. I do have friends which I love very much but. Well first of all I did not buy my dog, I found him on the street. Also dog doesn't love you because you bring food. If you do get a dog one day, and you two get along, you will get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:19 PM
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B.S. brothels are fucking awesome. But guys which are in for validation are going to get disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:15 PM
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Bang, bang. There RP is gone 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:14 PM
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Red Pill is the path of Philosophy and Reasoning and Critical Thinking. So by it's own definition people which follow RP content as a gospell are not Red Pillers. People which keep thinking criticaly about everything, including RP are Red Pillers. Don't forget to leave a like and subscribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:13 PM
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Because... becoming a single mom is such a shitty scenario, that anyone not in the top 10% earners would be an idiot to willingly chose it. Credit cards are just a huge waste of money, so not being able to get one is not a handicap. Credits are a great way to get into the debt trap. Also who needs a credit when you can buy a house with one year worth of income... just save the money and buy one. Adjusted for inflation women in 60's are outearning women in 20's. Also adjusted for inflation men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:07 PM
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I am willing to chase after a woman if I think that she would make a valuable partner. Majority of single women in my age bracket (35-40) do not leave such impression. IF they do want to be chased by me, they need to step up their game. And for women which will say that they do not want my ugly inc3l ass... I had chased a woman which has displayed value and currently we are in a relationship. If she was just sitting on her ass thinking "I am the prize, the qween" while getting fat like hell I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:13 PM
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Yes, but when you say women want a man which has a mix of alpha and beta traits... these are normal women. They always seek a valuable partner. Yes they can try with guys out of their league when younger, then shift to less attractive guys when older. Some might even settle with a guy just for comfort. But they always looked for a good alpha/beta partner. Women with MWC or AF/BB don't. They look for a fuckboy or a virtuous partner. I would really like you to meet one such women, and have an oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:58 PM
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Yes but, I need to make you feel like you can seduce my character. If I write a character which is too good, you will feel like she is out of your league. I will brake the character, to make her bellow your league. So you can approach her, and seduce her. Then you can fix her. So I'm selling you a scenario in which you end up with a 12/10 girl that doesn't seem cheap and unbelievable. That will be $9.99 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:50 PM
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Back in the 50/60's it was more affordable for US women to be single Moms. Gender pay gap was 40% (today 23%) but housing, food, health insurance... all basic necessities were way more affordable. For instance median price of a new US house in the 60's was about $20K, today it is over $500K. So back in the 60's a woman earned a house in one year. 2022 woman earns a house in +10 years. Similar shit with health insurance. By all metrics modern women have less economic freedom then women in the 60'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:42 PM
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Oh, but you haven't heard my origin story. It's so dark and mysterious 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:58 PM
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Because they are being writen by professional writers, and act in heavily scripted scenes? For instance, I can write a dark, tortured girl, which seems beautiful under the dirt on her face. In this state she is approachable, because she is two leagues bellow you. And you can approach her, fix her and end up with a 12/10 GF which loves you! But it only works because I wrote that shit for $$$. Women do not pick dark, tortured hobos off the street. Because there is no proffessional lighting, script…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:56 PM
1

I share the sentiment and iften take breaks myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:47 PM
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That's why I avoid partners which do not find me attractive even though they want to settle with me. I do not want a relationship in which I will do everything right, and she will still end up feeling resentful. And it is so hard to reason with them. Like if I say "I am leaving because you do not find me attractive, and I don't want a relationship like that". They say "but I do find you attractive", "I will find you attractive with time", "but we would make such a great couple"... It's like, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:44 PM
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Are you trying to say that it's OK for men to leave their wives and children in a forest in the middle of the night to find another younger hot girl? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:31 PM
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A lot of people are married with children and are having kinky sex. So I think it's a super smart idea to outright vet people which are giving us the Virgin Marry act. Expecially when we get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:12 PM
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A lot of guys incorrectly say that MWC is wanting a woman which is a Madonna AND a "slut" for them. Only recently did I find out that MWC is thinking that Woman can only be a Madonna OR a Whore. So... yeah, now I can make the connection. Also previously I thought I have the MW Complex. Now I know I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:07 PM
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Because he is narcistic with some serious ego issues. The only important thing is that he appears as winner, if he gets divorced, people might think he is not the most sucessful guy to ever walk the surface of the Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:49 PM
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Yet women which earn less money have more children on average then their higher earning college educated sisters. WTF right? Money is not the biggest issue when raising children. It's time and effort. Swedish govermen found out that the biggest incentive for women to have more children wasn't giving them lumps of money. It was giving them extra long paid maternal leave. In our country new law gives women 3 years for their third child and... it started a small baby boom. 😁 It makes perfect sense,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:44 PM
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At her peak she was a 3/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:26 PM
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Yes, yes most women end up single with children because thats what they want. They are still super desireable, but remain single because they aint need a man in their life. They still have their OLD profile active, because... reasons. You do realize how similar this sounds with MGTOW's cope? If these women are not getting approached by guys willing to comit, then they don't get to say it's due to other side being ugly. And guys asking them out is not the same as guys willing to commit. Nobody is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:25 PM
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So how come there are a lot of single women with children? If those children are made by Alpha Fucks then there is just going to be more and more Alpha Fucks genes around, which are not willing to take care of their own kids, let alone someone else. Also you are ignoring that it's not just about the genes. Kids raised in single parent families do divorce more and earlier. Today even kids know about the AF/BB and RedPill, 30 years ago we were playing in mud as kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:55 PM
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I'm not saying that all man and women have a MW complex. Most of us have a desire for a partner which is "giving their best to us and no one else". A lady in the streets but a freak in (my) sheets. A partner which rejected everyone else and gave everything to us. A guy which is tough for everyone else yet carring and loving for his partner. This is often wrongly labeled as a MWC because we want a woman which is a Madonna AND a "Whore" (for us). MWC is when Woman can only be a Madonna OR a Whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:47 PM
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Yes but these alternative sexual strategies usually have a niche within which they are sucesfull. Let's take a strictly monogamous village of 100 as an example. One woman decides to pull an AF/BB and she is more sucesfull then her strictly monogamous sisters. Her AF/BB strategy gave her chiefs genes and a BB provider. Next generation 49 women try to pull AF/BB. They all get impregnated by the chief but... there is a great shortage of men willing to be a BB. Not only that, but a lot of men have l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:18 PM
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😯 CimZim you are back!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:53 PM
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Their relationship made me feel sucesfull for staying single 😁 I do think it's a good thing for them to be together because they really deserve each other. It would suck if the two of them had ended up ruining the lives of two good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:34 PM
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OK, lets then just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:25 PM
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Not literally the same but... it's the same thing 😂 It is bad, and it is unfair. I think that this should be considered a mental disorder rather then just complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:23 PM
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Great minds think alike 😁 Hopefully this one is not going to turn into a shitstorm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:20 PM
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In my experience the "alpha fuckboys" are the ones which degrade their sexual partners in front of their bros. While "betas" hold their partners in high regard. For me the only degrading thing about sex is using women for sex while leading them on. And the degrading thing for men is using us for favours, money, time while leading us on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:18 PM
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Same. I myself do have red flags and I do inform my partners about them. For instance I never had a long relationship, but a bunch of shorter ones. There is a reason for that which is fixed. Women have the right for that info so they can make an informed decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:11 PM
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That does exist, and it is not a part of this complex. For instance my sister in law has used a lot of sex initially to get my BB brother to commit. Then she reduced the supply of sex and used sex for trade. It's a textbook example of a transactional relationship because they openly trade money, favours, chores and sex. As for MWC I'm writing this because I know people (men and women) which are like that. They can only separate people into these two categories. When I meet people like that I enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:07 PM
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I never left a woman because of her past. But I did left them because they lied about their past. Like... if I tell you I abused drugs in the past. But I'm a different man now. Red flag, but not really a deal-breaker on it's own right? vs I lie about never using anything, and you discover on your own I was a drug abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:44 PM
2

Well men can simply cheat on their wives. I mean it's just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:39 PM
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No! It's a choice I'm not able to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:36 PM
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Nope. There is comon misconception that MWC is when man want's a woman which is a virgin for everyone else and a complete slut just for him. That's not MWC... thats what most of us want. Most women would also like a partner which has rejected every other woman but is a complete simp for them. Well good luck finding such a partner for any of us 😁 But... In MWC and AF/BB since sex is degrading for women there really is no ideal partner. If partner is loving and caring then they can't be sexual, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:32 PM
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They, men and women with this complex see sex as degrading for women. Yup, men with MWC can't degrade their virtuous wife by doing anything non-vanilla. Because that would turn her into a slut for them. Women with MWC never seeked a loving partner which they also find sexually desireable. Because they think sex is degrading for women. If they have non-vanilla sex that will turn them into sluts and their partner wont love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:21 PM
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Any time I express an preference on PPD I get labeled as all kinds of shit by women. Double standards my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:06 PM
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So the only way for you to be sexual is with someone who is not a relationship material. And the only way to receive love and caring is to repress your sexuality. Because you think men consider sex is degrading? But most male fetishes are not at all about degrading women. And you can find a partner which is loving, caring while at the same time doesn't find sex degrading for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:04 PM
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Popularity and tabooesnes of fetishes by gender I'd argue that more women see sex as degrading for women then men do. Or women see sex as more degrading for women then men do. It does make sense for a woman to lie about her sexuality to get the BB. But... why would she provide her BB with starfish sex then? It's not like her BB will leave her if she is wild in bed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:53 AM
2

In principle I think this is a-OK. However there is a lot of room for abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:46 AM
1

Madonna-Whore complex and AF/BB are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:43 AM
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Yes! This is one of rare cases in which I do openly and publicly shame people for their shitty behaviour. And IDGF if someone thinks what I'm doing is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:42 AM
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If my standards are too high, then yes I am risking staying alone for the rest of my life. However I did had abusive partners in the past and I know that staying single is not the worst outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:30 AM
2

"short men are literaly invisible to women" 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:56 AM
1

So men shorter then 6'ft can just walk into women dressing room. Seems like a good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:47 AM
2

number of previous sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:44 AM
1

Yes they are. But I would add that the part of the problem here is that most women on PPD simply deny all female bad behaviours, and point to bad male behaviours. Since we can't connect these equivalent bad/good behaviours we can't understand and empathise with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:11 AM
1

Prolonged paid maternity leave has the biggest impact on the number of children. Not lump sum payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:15 AM
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If Bezos had hired a maid for $5 per hour, then said maid doesn't get to share his sucess. Bezos married, so his wife doesn't get $5 for her "services". They are a couple and she gets to share his sucess. Since he became one of the wealthiest men on Earth she gets to become one of the wealthiest women on Earth. If I was Bezos, I wouldn't complain one bit about this outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:08 AM
1

If women cheat on us, we might end up raising another man's children. If men cheat on you that risk doesn't exist. So duh men are more insecure in this regard, and are more likely to divorce cheating partners then women are. It doesn't mean high N people are going to be a bad partner, it means they are more likely to be a bad partner. Thats why it's a red flag, not a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:54 AM
0

Men don't read magazines anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:17 PM
2

A) Getting into a relationship with any woman is inherently insecure. B) You should try creating a stable and happy relationship with a cluster B partner. Oh would you look at that!? t's much easier to create a stable and happy relationship with some people. Maybe we should vet out partners which are highly impulsive? C) Don't make things personal. It says so right there, in the rules => I come here to debate about general dating and relationship things. Not my personal problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:13 PM
1

Yes we only "notice" attractive women. Also we do have different tastes, so almost every woman is going to be noticed by someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:11 PM
2

Yes! It's the same thing. Most men want a woman which is a virgin for everyone else and a slut for them. Most women want a man which is tough for everyone else yet caring for them. This is normal, those are our ideal partners. But people with the complex, they only see people as AF/Whore OR BB/Madonna. AF/whore is good for sex but not for a relationship. BB/Madona is good for relationship but not for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:06 PM
1

To settle doesn't mean to be unhappy. I'd really like to date Scarlet Johansson, and my current GF is making me happy. I don't feel like missing out because she is not a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:28 PM
5

I don't really need a logical reason to find someone hot. Our urges are not super complicated, they do not take the state of ovaries into account. I find 20yo women most attractive, because they look most attractive. Hot looking 20yo which is infertile for medical reasons is still hot.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 12:59 PM
7

I disagree. When I was in early 20's I was really good at sex. I do not want to brag with the details, so just trust me bro. The problem is that it wasn't reciprocated. I'd get tired of getting a half-assed HJ after providing an multiorgasmic experience and leave. My exes would sometimes call just to have sex.And I would reject them bacause masturbation felt like a better experience then having sex with them. So I had no problem finding relationships in which I would please women and I myself wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:35 PM
2

Yup if she did I would be in serious trouble. Me finding other women hot is everyday life. But if I start cheating on her, she is in serious trouble. You think that she would admit if she had dirty thoughts about other man? I'm not saying she does, but if she did she would lie about them. Modern women do cheat as much as men do, and when they do they lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:53 AM
3

Yup. If men get to cheat because we feel stronger urge, then... well then wife gets to cheat but only if she really wants to fuck that guy badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:29 AM
2

I fully agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:24 AM
1

Sorry, what is MWC?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:23 AM
1

I do agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:08 AM
3

I am living in a smaller town where people are more socially connected. Already had multiple dates in which women were dishonest (not just about N) and these details pop out. Usually my female friends are the ones which tell me. Dishonesty itself can feel like a bigger flag then the actual past. The real dealbraker is woman giving me the virgin Mary act, and then I find out she has trashy past. My current date has N on the high side, but she was honest about it, said it's part of her past, did n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:59 AM
2

I think that most of us are looking for a stable partner, and these preferences do go both ways. A guy with a high N is a cheating risk. I am living in a small town where people are more socially connected so we don't really get to hide our past for long. And discovering that date was dishonest about the past is often a bigger red flag then the past itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:44 AM
1

Why expect for men to take their serious problems seriously, when they get lost in that abundant meaningless noise? Part of me is glad for the whole abortion ban thing, because I hear more valid problems, and less negging about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:27 PM
1

Cool, give me Chad's genetically superior offspring so I can raise it. As many as you can, I need those genetically superior little hands to work my farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:16 PM
2

I just had called out a male equivalent of such behaviour. For every example of female bad behaviour, we have a male equivalent. Just pick any one you want and I will provide one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:03 PM
2

I do find slutty women more sexually attractive, but do not pursue them. My biggest problem in dating are probably other men chasing casual sex. Because it's hard to compete with guys which don't care what happens the day after. They can go below their league, lovebomb, promise river and valleys, lie about everything...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:56 PM
1

Well some guys do use their low-N preference to indirectly slut-shame. A way for undesireable men to show women how it feels being undesireable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:46 PM
1

All we can do is point out it exists and avoid becoming a BB. But there really is no point whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:43 PM
1

I am assuming we are talking about a marriage partner. A person I decided to spend the rest of my life deserves that kind of treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:40 PM
2

I actually agree with you. Never asked anyone to have casual sex with me, even rejected one night stands. It was always in a relationship. I prefer not waiting for too long because it kills passion. But also I think it's better to "built up" for it, then to do it straight away. Is it so wrong to want women which are like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:39 PM
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Having low-N preference is not slut-shaming. It's not like I'm going to approach random women on the street to inform them their N makes them undesireable. Heck when I breakup, or wish to stop dating I usually make up some reason which is not going to hurt. Unless the person hurt me really, really hard. As a guy I am unesireable by a majority of women, and some women find me hot. All I can do about it is accept it and not let it frustrate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:52 PM
0

So... if guys should be shamed for prefering low-N women, because it makes high-N women feel bad. Should women be shamed for any preference that makes some men feel bad? Or maybe we should simply accept that some people like us, and some don't. And stop feeling bad because some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:32 PM
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Do you think that slut-shaming is OK? If not, I myself am interested in the criteria you are setting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:48 PM
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If I decide to not hire you because of your N-number, size of your boobs or any other job unrelated thing. I shouldn't just be shamed but I should be legally sanctioned. But my dating and sexual preferences? Just think about it. Would you want me to date you or have sex with you because I'm shamed into doing it? Would you want to be someones means of virtue signaling? How would it make you feel if I date you because I need to fill my dating diversity quota. How would you feel if someone shamed y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:16 PM
2

Yes. Women are afraid of rejection, so when they do approach they tend to approach guys in their league. If only guys approach they simply pick the best (duh).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:58 PM
4

Naaah. I have no issues whatsoever with high n-count colleagues, friends, sexual partners. As long as their behaviour doesn't create dramas, everything is a-OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:52 PM
1

I'm a BI guy and there is absolutely nothing homo about my relationships with close friends. Not everything has to have a sexual component. Being bros is one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:47 PM
1

Yup. Seen other users do it too... why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:39 PM
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Well slut-shaming is making women feel bad for behaving in a way we disaprove off. And we shouldn't do that right? It goes both ways. You shouldn't make us feel bad for our preferences. Even if you dislike them. The only thing you can achieve is for us to lie about our preferences. But if women think that our preferences are X and our preferences are Y, you end up with butthurt women and single men. Nope. Women have to play by mens rules, and men have to play by womens rules. Necause women do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:36 PM
1

Well, not with me. With her guy ofc 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:29 PM
1

No they are not. But if said girl has a problem with men having phisical preferences, then she is a hypocrite. Like if I only date women with large bosoms, what right do I have to whine about phisical preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:28 PM
2

Breeding is like the only natural thing about sex. I would argue that everything else is a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:22 PM
1

I'm really into kids, and I know it's off-putting so I hide it. But it's not like I'm seeing women as a walking incubator. Like... I love hanging out with my nieces, but I'm not pushing my sister to make more. I don't see her as a niece making machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:21 PM
3

He sounds like a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:16 PM
1

There is nothing hypocritical in male preference for low N women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:15 PM
4

Sadly these dating apps have it in their best interest for people to stay single, and keep paying the app for the longest possoble period of time. But lets say users pay when they get a sucesfull match. So it's in the best interest for the app to match us with compatible people. Those algoritms would match us with just a couple of compatible people. Instead they provide an endless choice of people with which we do not stand a chance for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:12 PM
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I think it is relevant because courts are not always just. Like there are examples of innocent people getting the chair. And there are examples of people getting unjustly divorceraped. But arguing that this outcome is unjust because she did not earn 30 bilion $ because she was just a wife... Did Bezos earn those ~100 000 life earnings in wages? Because he was just a CEO, it's not like he did ALL the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:00 PM
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That's OK. If it was just about sex, men would just hire sex workers and this sub would have 7 users. Aparently men also want girlfriend and even wifes. They even want to have childten with them 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:34 PM
2

Hey I got shot a couple of times and I do know that being single is not the worst outcome. So hell yeah, I am glad for dodging some of these bullets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:29 PM
1

Hey, I' not telling you guys what guys to have sex with, date nor pedestalize. Nor which women to pedestalize. You guys do you. Now you guys are really loud about men slutshaming women. Because slutshaming represses women sexuality. And yet here you are trying to repress my dating preferences by shaming me for being a misogynistic asshole. Shame on you for shaming me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:19 PM
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It's actually not due to high N itself. I want a stable partner for a LTR. It just so happens that every high N case was a red flag on top of the iceberg. Usually there are other red flags as well, all of them due to low impulse control. Such as lots of tatoos, debt, children with lots of dads, drug/alcohol abuse, sharing bitchy quotes on social networks, highschool dropout... etc. And the iceberg is messy life filled with drama. Which I'm not a great fan of. If I were to find a high N woman whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:03 PM
1

He was cheating on her even before she got sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:53 PM
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I wouldn't. If she was sick for +2 years I would ask for her permission to start using sex worker services. So just sex and nothing else. If she says no, fuck it... I'd have sex with my hand. And if it was the other way around same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:52 PM
0

Group masturbation in 15 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:48 PM
12

She is a Princeton barchelor. How big was said hedge fund when they got together? Amazon hasn't even existed when they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:29 PM
0

I'm a BI guy as well anyhow. Don't mainsplain to me what being nice means 😁 Women like when guys break social rules. How much... well some like serial killers, some like guys jaywalking. How many women openly say "I like guys which DO NOT listen to me? And they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:19 PM
1

Don't make it personal. This is a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:11 PM
2

Women were liberated and financially secured in the past century, soooo.... yup 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:09 PM
1

Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:08 PM
1

Hey, you can lie about it or get women to accept it... no point in doing both of it at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:07 PM
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I think that she deserves every penny. They got together while he was a nobody. If he remained a nobody she wouldn't get shit. While they were together he became one of the richest men on the world and she deserves her share of that success. Also it's not like Bezos became homeless. He has more then enough money to build as many penis shaped rockets as his hearth desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:06 PM
1

Red Pill doesn't try to influence women into accepting anything. It just teaches what the rules are and how to play the game. But a lot of Red Pilled content creators do, and that's low penis energy. Like... a true high value man can succesfully play by women rules. He doesn't need to change those rules to be sucesfull. A self proclaimed HVM asking for a right to cheat is just cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:59 PM
1

Your right to decide. But if all women were thinking like you, then "town fucboy" would be a virgin, and he is not. Whatever the fuck he is doing, it's getting a lot of women to spread their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:47 PM
0

Nope. I think that James Bond (although fictional character) is a super cool guy because he bangs a different hot woman in his every movie. Also he blows shit up. Because I'd want to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:44 PM
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Nope. Like engineers are mostly men, and their job is pretty much solving problems in a rational and logical way. However most of them became engineers because as kids they were passionate about building some cool (and dangerous) shit. Like a submarine, an axe thrower, balista... Take a bunch of boring ass engineers give them a junk yard and a budget to build whatever the fuck they want then watch them turn into kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:40 PM
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Nothing hypocritical in any gender cheating, just a really shitty thing to do. It would be hypocritical to say that one side or gender has the right to cheat and other doesn't. Anyhow women do have the right to have any preference to men they want. If they find high N value men as low value because they are more likely to cheat, thats just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:34 PM
2

Yes, that is a hypocrisy. Even though we pedastalize high N men, that doesn't mean they are a good deal for women. And I get your point of view. If I was a woman a high-N man which is more likely to cheat, branchswing, pump and dump... would make a bad relationship material for me. Because I myself seek for stable relationship and am not interested in high risk high reward games.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:31 PM
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Yup, just as many other behaviours we do have our own version of female AF/BB. We will also chase harder for sluts because once we bang them we don't have to deal with high expectations. But when starting a relationship we can't set too high expectations which will come back to haunt us for years. Also makes it harder to compete with guys that want just sex... It makes sense for a woman to delay sex in a serious relationship to not look cheap. It makes sense for a guy to get frustrated when he f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:21 PM
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Report me to mods for posting a sex and relationship post into a sex and relationships debate sub. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:12 PM
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If high N woman manages to settle with a good guy, that's not really my business. I'm just glad for dodging those bullets myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:08 PM
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It is 100% up to women to decide what is a good sex and good relationship material for them. If they decide that high N man is valuable partner, they don't get to whine for us deciding that low N women are high value partners.Because we can turn this table around and call them hypocrites bacause we find low N women valuable and they do not find low N men valuable. Everyone gets to have their preferences. People can vent for them being unfair, because quite frankly they are. People have the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:06 PM
1

It was hard as a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:59 AM
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Nope. I'm just saying they do make sense, not that it is fair. Women preference fot tall guys makes sense. Because tall son will be more attractive then a short one. It's not fair though. I don't need your approval for my preferences. Just stop painting them as hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:58 AM
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I disagree. I think it is a good thing to reveal our preferences so men and women are properly informed about the rules of the game. Like, how many bitter men are out there because they thought women like nice guys. They are bitter because they were misinformed about the rules of the game and they spent time and effort only to get hurt. Yes. I want to have quick sex with you but I will respect you less if I get it. Saying that openly is much more fair to women then some virtue signaling B.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:48 AM
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Some do but there is really no need to. Men just as women are emotional creatures, we do have a more rational and logical approach to life. But at the core our motivation is purely emotional. We simply want to date, marry, have sex with who we feel like to. Logic and fairness do not need to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:42 AM
2

For sex no, I actually prefer high N women for just sex. I had ended relationships with multiple women after finding out about their sexual relationships. For high N number as well as for relationships with men I considered trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:39 AM
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I always flirt with other women just because I really like teasing flirty communication. As for cheating I managed to ressist a very hot and horny woman for six hours while I was drunk and she was naked with me in bed and grinding her pussy against me, so I guess I passed the ultimate test.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:34 AM
4

Yup, through being right and wrong my understanding of the society has increased. Feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:18 AM
2

Analogy doesn't matter, slut shaming is socially acceptable because. Women will shame men all the time, expecially to repress their unwanted sexuality. Women deserve same treatmen as men. So if one doesn't like women racking up the N count he is free to shame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:15 AM
2

Because other people in dating are lying. Being honest is like bringing a knife to a gunfight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:19 AM
2

The key is having male friends, start hanging out with them, create a network of friends. That way you will meet women by friend proxy. Also having common friend is a big green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:18 AM
1

Superficial impulsive women are the ones which follow after their primal urges. And Red Pill is great in picking them out, because Red Pill is built upon those primal urges. The problem is, superficial impulsive women make bad partners. Red Pill is not enough to pick up a woman which would make a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:04 PM
11

Do you actually feel bad for losing a debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:46 PM
2

I would add, couples often divorce but stay together for financial reasons. Or never marry. For instance my sister is a single Mom with 3 children. In our country she receives generous goverment support. Her ex husband is bankrupted. 1/3 of his earnings will be collected by the goverment for the rest of his life. Because he will never earn to pay back the taxes he owes. They are still living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:25 PM
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She ran straight into an echo chamber to get a cup of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:24 PM
1

Only Bruce and Emma knew about the affair. James and Bruce wife did not know. Said affair ended and Emma started dating James. Should Emma tell James about the affair before their relationship became serious? Afterwards Bruce wife finds out about the affair and she makes it public. If you were James, how would you react? P.S. IRL it did end up as a super shitty situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:30 PM
1

I do agree that living with parents has a negative impact on the character for men and women alike, but a lot of young people simply do not have a viable alternative. In Western world average age of moving away from home has been heavily increasing and has reached +30 years in some countries. That age is heavily corelated with housing prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:05 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:22 AM
1

You got that part right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:08 PM
3

The scary thing is that we get used to those speeds and lose the realization of how fast we ate really moving. A crash at 30mph / 40km/h seems slow until you hit the wall, then it hurts a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:49 PM
1

While they sit in the back, like the princes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:47 PM
5

I'm currently dating my therapist. So all you women which say "wE ArE nOt YoUr ThErApIsTs" 🖕 Suck it!!! 🖕 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:45 PM
1

Brother of the man she's currently dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:16 PM
2

Sorry I will try to be more clear. Bruce and James are brothers. Bruce is a married man. Bruce is secretly cheating on his wife with Emma. Bruce and Emma stop seeing each other. Emma starts dating James. She doesn't tell him anything about her previous afair with Bruce. James finds out about the afair because Bruce wife tells him. Emma starts dating James.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:15 PM
1

Affair - a sexual relationship between two people, one or both of whom are married to someone else. Married people are also cheating, but if one participant is single that participant is just having an affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:08 PM
1

How would you react in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:59 PM
1

It happened prior to the current relationship. Partner was single and was sleeping with the brother who was married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:54 PM
1

That's the part which bothers me as well. This is not just sexual history. An analogy, if a guy is convicted rapist does he get to hide that from his partner because that is a part of his sexual history? Do people get to hide HIV because it's also a part of their sexual history?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:46 PM
2

And if you were in said man position? Your reaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:16 PM
3

I met a woman which was so trashy that my opinion about women increased. Dunno how to explain it properly. It's like I have seen the worse there is and now I notice good things in other women. She turned the contrast knob to 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:00 PM
1

Wait, they do this with the intent of growing their clit? 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:54 PM
2

Dang my evil mastermind plan has been foiled again! Well better luck tomorow 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:45 PM
1

I knoooow, it really looks like a small penis, even has the "head".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:23 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:22 PM
1

It works kinda like that. I'd dare to say that males are modified females.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:22 PM
1

Turner syndrome, just one X.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:20 PM
1

Yup but genes on both X chromosomes are identical except for slight variations. 1/2000 women have just 1 X chromosome, they are sterile, and their life expectancy is a bit lower. Otherwise they are fully functioning humans. Y chromosome is like additional blueprint for making men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:17 PM
1

Yup. Your sister was married and your BF had an affair with her. Before he was with you. Decided not to share that with you. You find out on your own while you two are together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:13 PM
2

Let's say it was your brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:11 PM
2

Meh, it's OK no need to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:10 PM
1

Lets say you have a sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:10 PM
1

Genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:09 PM
1

LOOOL! 😂 Let's say it was your older married sister though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:07 PM
1

Damn sorry, I'm typing on my phone 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:04 PM
1

Ever saw a giant clitoris? Because it looks like a small penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:03 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:02 PM
1

Q4A - You find out that your partner had an affair with your sibling before they started dating you. Do you think that they had to disclose this information before you started dating / things got serious? How do you react?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:02 PM
1

If you think about it we probably share a lot of enzimes and proteins with bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:57 PM
1

Men have nipples. No use for them whatsoever, but every male gets a pair of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:55 PM
2

I really like this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:50 PM
3

Lot's of people behave like men and women are two entirely different species, but we are more like two slightly different variations of the same thing. We have only 200 different genes. All same hormones, just different ammounts of them. It's not like women are emotional and empathic and men are not. Women are just a bit more emotional and empathic. Men are horny, and so are women just less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:45 PM
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Lots of brain processing poweeer, but my memory sucks ass. And yup I can easily get overwhelmed with too much options. I will often just pick something to cut the whole process. Not partner but eg. cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:29 PM
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I think that I subconsciously knew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:26 PM
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Yes! I'd spend an hour deciding what to watch on Netflix because too much options. And then while watching the show I'd feel like I should had picked the other one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:23 PM
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Dunno how it works for you. When I have to pick between just two women I'm having a brakedown.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:20 PM
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Croatia. Our boomers lived under socialism, free state appartments, secure jobs, paid summer reasorts... etc. Our millenials get to pay the debts, pensions for boomers, universal health insurance, huge buerocracy left over from socialism, 25%VAT. 10% of population, mostly millenials had fled the country in the past 10 years, so shit has hit the brick hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:18 PM
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Overabundance of options. Schwartz maintained that an overabundance of options can actually lead to anxiety, indecision, paralysis and dissatisfaction. Intuitively, it would seem that having a large number of options should mean that people could ultimately make a choice that satisfied them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:11 PM
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Guys which do not have as much choices don't end up feeling like they had to settle, even if their partner is not the ideal one. Women which had plenty of options keep asking themselves could they do better. Offcourse women will go mad at the idea of having limited choices but... Schwartz maintained that an overabundance of options can actually lead to anxiety, indecision, paralysis and dissatisfaction. Intuitively, it would seem that having a large number of options should mean that people coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:10 PM
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I am from another country so different experience I guess. There are countries in which milenials got mauled hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:58 PM
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I myself am good with children, but I could never truly replicate female nurturing nature. Other than that I feel like modern women are downgraded in every other positive trait which made them special, and same goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:08 AM
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Stay together for a nesting cycle. Now some people do divorce when the kids are about 14, which would make them biologically young grown ups. But I have seen way too much couples separating while children are just 4-6 which is leaving before the "nesting cycle" is complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:52 AM
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I can play that game too, so I started dating her and my therapies are free. When women say "we are not your therapists", well mine is 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:50 AM
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I think it's due to PFAS also known as "forewer chemicals" because they do not degrade in nature and their concentration increases with time. [Rainwater everywhere on Earth unsafe to drink due to forever chemicals ](https://watereurope.eu/rainwater-everywhere-on-earth-unsafe-to-drink-due-to-forever-chemicals/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rainwater-everywhere-on-earth-unsafe-to-drink-due-to-forever-chemicals)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:28 PM
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Weird because boomers had it easy, and these times seem shity. Maybe these generations are the strong ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:22 PM
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It's harder to eat healthy and get enough activity with modern lifestyle. When I was working in the office and had to commute I didn't had time to cook healthy food and work out. Since becoming self emoyed and working from home I became fit because I could fit good food, excersise and enough sleep into my routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:19 PM
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I myself have my set of principles. Not dictated by the society, religion or someone else. Just a set of principles which feel just and right. So I tottaly get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:13 PM
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Because women are full of B.S. they rarely approach guys and face rejections. Chads do the approaching, play the numbers game and get rejected all the time... they simply keep trying. Only a very small % of men get approached consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:30 PM
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Because you have values.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:25 PM
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Taking the L?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:24 PM
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Why did you chose not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:04 PM
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Hey, I'm a guy and you are correct 😁 Guys which want just sex are the ones which will initially put in the most effort. Because they just need to get to the sex part fast. They don't have to worry about setting too high expectations which would come back to haunt them in the long run. They will treat women like queens because they just have to keep the act for a short time. A guy interested for a LTR is not going to simp hard, because he is thinking in long run. Can't spoil a woman with which yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:59 PM
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I love a good debate, even when I'm proven wrong. Wouldn't block anyone for debating in good faith. But some of these "debates" are just poorly camuflaged insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:37 PM
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Sex with my therapist. We are banging and she wanted to say something dirty so she said "I want to be your mom". Instant de-erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:31 PM
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I don't know how it feels to take care of a grown man child. But I sure as hell did experience a very damaging relationship. Here is the relevation. 4 worst relationships in my life I was approached. Because narcists feel attracted to me. So if I just sit on my ass and wait, thats all I'm going to get. If I am proactive, sure I risk rejection. But I get to pick. If woman doesn't want a grown manchild, pick one which isn't. A lot of guys are living alone and they obviously do not need a mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:09 PM
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Personaly I'd like to ask people to suck my dick, but I doubt it would work 😁 Yes games are annoying but if I want to avoid shitty women and get the good ones, I have to play the game as well. Because women are going to hide their bad sides... duh. So will men. "Survivorship bias" - Women which do take an active approach are way more likely to find a good partner. Women which just sit and wait for someone to chase them...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:11 PM
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I was afraid of getting hit until a piece of machinery hit me right in the face. I figured out that no man alive could throw a punch at hard and since then no fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:03 PM
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They say that guys age like wine. It's not because we become more physically attractive, but because we get our shit together, become stable... become good relationship material. This is not true for all men offcourse. And it is true for some women. Even though your looks may start to fade a woman which is good relationship material past her 30 is gold. A woman which is a mess and her looks are fading is the one hitting a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:54 PM
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Have you ever IRL heard a woman say "he dumped me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:32 PM
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So you asked guys out, and with that experience you had developed a game with which you get to date attractive men? Which I assume is much better then just waiting for guys to approach you? If both answers are yes I'd say you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:24 PM
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Yup generalization. No point arguing about this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:10 PM
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"are you trying to say that xxxxx? You are such a xxxxxx!" They are not trying to debate at all. All they are trying to do is silence their opposition by discrediting the personality behind it. It would be refreshing if these attempts were a little bit elaborate. But it's just repeating the same pattern over and over again. When I write a new post I can already predict the answers from these people. "you are wrong because you suck asshole".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:58 PM
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At the moment dating a 5 which wants to fuck me. She feels jealous about my ex which was an 8. I consider her an upgrade :) Can't tell her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:32 PM
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Women in the US gained voting rights back in 1918? they are the largest voting body with larger voting participation then men. They are the primary voting body. So women living today did not spend a second living in a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:29 PM
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Never said so. When I talk about men and women, those are generalizations. I don't feel like I have to point that out every time. Because if we were all the same then all of our dating problems do not exist. If everyone is the same, just pick one randomly...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:22 PM
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When I say women, that's a generalization. I do not feel like I have to point out every single time that all women (and men) are not the same. Also I highly doubt that woman which has the balls to ask a guy out will end up single. That's the funny part. Women (generaly speaking) which feel valuable, feel confident and are way more likely to ask a guy out. Women which feel insecure won't. So ironically I got asked out by women which were 7-8/10 and they were chill about it. Women on the lower end…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:17 PM
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I disagree. Approaching a person does signal that we think we are of same or lower value, however that's just the first step. Like if I ask you out, that doesn't mean I'm desperate for you, and you can treat me like shit. It means that I am interested in you. If you try treating me with disrespect I can just leave. And I had suprised women by leaving mid date which messaged me asking for an explanation. Staying single is better then being with a person that makes our life worse, and worse then b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:07 PM
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The top less then 0.1%... And majority of women would not throw themselves shamelesly at them. So newsflash, men and women are not monoliths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:50 PM
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A woman walks into a bar with some of her friends. She engages in a long, steady scan around the room, ultimately fixing her gaze on a man she finds attractive. Gaze is important here, and a key component of signaling interest. The woman maintains an extended gaze at the man until he notices her, she smiles, then she breaks the gaze, returns the gaze again, smiles, and again breaks the gaze. A woman interested in a man then might primp or self-groom, fixing her hair a bit, adopting an open body …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:47 PM
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I had seen women humiliate themselves publicly chasing after top tier men. Have you ever saw guys throwing their shorts at popular female singers? I saw a line of women backstage waiting to be selected to be used by the band.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:41 PM
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We ask women which are not interested into us all the time, and then we try to create that interest. We risk. Even if a woman is not blown away by my looks, personality does mater. Same goes for you guys... I have fallen madly in love with woman that wasn't as good looking but was 10/10 personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:36 PM
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If women are not afraid of rejection, how come you are not asking guys out? Just find the hottest guy you can, and ask him out? If he rejects you, eh no big deal. Yup. I'm only chasing after things that are adding value to my life. I'm not waiting for them, I'm chasing for them. That way if I do end up single, single was the best outcome for me. If I just wait for people to approach me, THEN I have to settle for whoever wanted me. Or settle for being single because I was too afraid of rejection,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:29 PM
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No it doesn't... do I have to point out that I'm speaking about women and men in general terms? When people say that men like watching sports, I do not feel the need to point out that not every man likes to watch sports. It's just a generalization, most men like watching sports, some don't. The fact that I don't like watching sports doesn't mean majority of men don't. The fact that you called your BF out doesn't mean the majority of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:16 PM
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Never said it doesn't happen at all. Chads are the ones chasing women and making advances. Not the other way around. Only a very small minority of men are actually being chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:08 PM
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Nope. The other user is assuring me that women never approach me because "it's me". Why the fuck are you guys even assuming that I was never approached by a women? How would you feel if I start assuming that every woman on PPD is a single mom which can't find a man because her N is 2547? By the way I was approached by women. But just two times directly, usually it was "beating around the bush".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:05 PM
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I did not block you, did I? So I did not count that as shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:48 PM
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They will do low risk things. Like giving the guy a stare then look away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:47 PM
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If there was a rule prohibiting women from doing anything that men can, women would protest about it. Men ask women out because women are terrified of rejection. Woman would rather go out with a trashy men which is chasing after her then risk and ask out a man of higher quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:38 PM
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Expecting us to not block other users is expecting too much. I am here for debating in good faith. However for every such debater I get several "debaters" which resort to low effort shaming to promote their narrative. My tolerance for such behaviour has reached 0 If you are wondering why men are flocking for various manosphere spaces, it's because they grew tired of having to endure this shit over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:33 PM
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In some fantasy world in your head yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:25 PM
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When a woman wants to get married she doesn't propose. She asks her man when is he going to propose to her. So even though she considers him as valuable partner, she will still not ask directly, because fear of rejection. Why would it be any different when it comes to asking out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:20 PM
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Not SMV but partner value. And thats pretty much what is happening. Men know their partner value and they refuse to chase. Women are afraid of rejection and they refuse to chase. Not men are so bad that women would rather stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:10 PM
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I'm seeing right through your attempt to shame me for having an unpopular view of women. You guys keep shaming us all the time for like everything. And you make a whole movement to stop slut shaming? Why? Can't take a little shaming? Are you a weaker gender so you need special treatment? This is a debate sub, not a shaming sub, so debate in good faith or GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:03 PM
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I have been thinking about this for some time now. Yup, the society is not falling apart because everyone is not getting their dick sucked. The core issues here is lack of socialization... which is kinda ironic since we have the web connecting us all. And it's basically a feedback loop, lack of socialization is making us more and more socially awkward and reluctant to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:49 PM
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He really shouldn't. But he sure as hell is going to be annoyed when women deny their selective nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:22 PM
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I fully and wholeheartedly agree with OP. If we just want to bang then a whole bunch of her traits doesn't really matter does it. She just needs to be fun. A tated up woman with daddy issues is actually more attractive for a quick bang because... no waiting time yay. But when we want to start a relationship, then men and women want a STABLE partner. Because nobody wants a partner which will leave and leave the kids, or take the kids. High N number is a red flag because person appears as an unsta…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:38 AM
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Aged like fine vine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:23 PM
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Can't because that's how my mother tongue is spoken! Lot's and lots of pronouns. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:37 PM
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Yes, karma got it all figured out! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:25 PM
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Sorry if my English is not perfect, when you can speak 6 different languages it's hard to use a proper form in any one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:04 PM
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This entire town should get demolished and rebuilt using only trailers and RVs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:51 PM
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Sometimes people on reddit provide a good debate 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:50 PM
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Local drama. Girl is leading a guy on and using him to inflate his value because he is orbiting her. Everybody knows her story is B.S. but puts up with it. Same girl is having an affair with an married guy, which is leading her on promising to end his marriage. And he is using her to inflate his value, making fun of her chasing after him. Doesn't stop there. That guys wife is cheating on him with... well the majority of the local community. So everyone is making fun of this wannabe Chad behind h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:46 PM
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Because after taking the red pill men do tend to switch their behaviour. I will avoid saying to anti-social behaviour, because it's not actively harming society, but more selfish behaviour. Some of them spend their time on chasing women for easy sex. Other check-out. These kind of men do not "build bridges".
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/22 01:16 AM
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For society Red Pill.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/22 12:26 AM
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I know a guy which has been blessed by DNA Gods ten times over, if he was staring in a superhero movie Henry Cavill would be his sidekick. And he can pick women with zero effort. I remember him making an advancement on an 8/10... he was drunk, said the creepiest shit, puked a bit and he scored. So yeah, one small percentage of the population has it super easy. I'd say not even 1% maybe 0.5%. And they say just be confident dude. Well fuck those lucky bastards. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:40 PM
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First of all, the Red Pill philosophy is basically just critical thinking. And Red Pillers did not invent critical thinking, they just adopted it. Meaning that we should also think critically of Red Pill materials... always seek the truth. Second all Red Pill materials are on the sidebar and are 100% free. If you decide to spend cash on some self proclaimed guru coach, or watch some self proclaimed HVM youtubers and just take their word for granted that's just blue pill all over again. You faile…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:27 PM
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Women are way more about pre-selection then men are. They think that if a lot of people want you that makes you valuable. So even if they wouldn't want to touch you with the long end of the stick, they still want you to find them desirable. And they often play stupid games to get orbiters or get the appearance of having them. Which if you think about it is stupid as fuck because men are not big on pre selection. We want a girl that we find desirable, doesn't matter if nobody else does... if anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:52 PM
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Weed makes me even more anxious :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:24 PM
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I had a really negative emotional experience yesterday, usually this shit would occupy my mind for a couple of days and scar the hell out of me however... Currently I'm on antidepressants which raise my serotonin to normal levels, and I can manage my emotions like a normal grown up man so I was more like "well this sucks". And this opens up a whole new perspective for me because so far my behavior was very much formed around preventing myself from getting hurt and adding to my anxiety. This kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:48 AM
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Because people like to think they are better then that.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 05:20 AM
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Because if you do keep trying you get better at it you will see progress. And eventually you will make it. However if every failure feels like shit... it's easy to just give up altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:22 PM
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There is a healthy dose of it. For instance if a woman which has a fetish for abusers thinks you are not attractive... should you care about her opinion? If a person compares you with the best there is, and compares himself with the worst there is... should you care about their opinion? But there is also an unhealthy dose. If I don't care about anybody then their opinion of me doesn't matter. So immunity to critiques and rejection, but also accepting loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:46 PM
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They are but, they are not the ones doing the approaching are they? I do remember one video in which 3 women were challenged to approach guys on the street and ask their numbers... any guy they wanted. And let's just say that if women were the ones approaching all of us would be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:35 PM
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It's not just about rejection, but everything that makes you feel less worthy. Your "bucket" can get filled with shit your parents say long before you start dating. Some people are walking around with filled buckets and anything that get's thrown into them can result with an emotional outburst. It's not just about not internalizing new stuff, it's also about emptying the bucket by deconstructing old stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:46 PM
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My first strategy for dealing with negative emotions was avoidance. And that ended up with depressions because I hated myself for being so weak. My second strategy was to not care, to mentally switch myself off. Whenever I was faced with negative emotions I'd just stop caring. And it worked, it worked great. Until it didn't, my motivation disappeared and I ended up having the mother of all depressions because I was directionless with no goal in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:37 PM
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There is no other way to stop getting anxious You are incorrect. Also adding more anxiety on top of the anxiety you already have is a nice way to fuck up your confidence even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:31 PM
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I find spending time reading ... extremely demoralizing and emotionally exhausting. Well most men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:29 PM
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Yup. Source: I made myself not care about the outcome, which made me immune to the rejection... however since I didn't care about the outcome I also didn't feel any happiness with the positive outcome. So I lost all of my motivation, turning myself into unalive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:26 PM
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Yup OLD has almost zero emotional cost for men. I can send 1000 messages and if nobody bothers to answer I'm not going to lose any sleep over it. But one nasty reject IRL can scar me. However our chances on OLD are crap, because... well everybody can send 1000 messages with almost zero cost. And the ratio is about 4 men on every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:24 PM
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I do think that modern way of living is causing an epidemic of anxiety. At the same time I also think that modern way of living requires us to be more confident then ever. We are less social, there is less opportunity for organically growing an relationship... my father and grandfather did not had to cold approach strangers. I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:18 PM
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What do you suggest a guy with anxiety do then? Either seek professional help to deal with anxiety, or the DIY approach. If you do solve anxiety issues then there is no need to fake confidence, you actually become confident. This doesn't just help with dating, it helps in every area of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:08 PM
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When I get drunk my brain get's very generous at handing out high SVM scores. I did some things which I'm too ashamed to talk about, even anonymously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:50 PM
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A small minority of men get's consistent hook ups using OLD, so for them it makes every sense using them. Majority of men are better off uninstalling though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:48 PM
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Naaaah. One person always ends up wanting more. I'd hate to be that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:46 PM
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I do consider FWB to be a form of relationship. So while I do not judge women for having FWB's I do not want to date them. I only date SINGLE women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:20 PM
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If you do have a FWB I won't even bother making advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:16 PM
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I had rejected one night stands on multiple occasions. There is something deeply disturbing about exchanging bodily fluids with someone I just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:11 PM
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Women contribute to climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:07 PM
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Depends on the context. In my personal opinion, majority of cases in which men are called out as being insecure are shaming attempts. Like, if you do not want to marry a high N woman, women will call you out as being insecure. But... you should feel insecure about it because it's a high risk marriage. Would you call a guy insecure because he doesn't feel confident about playing soccer in a minefield? Because that insecurity is saving his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:37 AM
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Low key trying to shame women for preferring tall guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:16 AM
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Humans require some struggle in order to be able to feel happiness. If all our needs are met and there is no challenge we start chasing the high and become deviant. That's why ideally men should struggle to get one woman, and shouldn't be able to have more then one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:13 AM
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I do pay for sex and I think it does produce a positive outcome. It resolves sexual frustrations so I am not angry or bitter due to the lack of sex. Sure it's not lovemaking, but sexual workers I visit are better in doing sex things then almost every GF I had. Also since I'm not a slave for the pussy I am able to avoid entering bad relationships because I place much more weight on women character.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:56 AM
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Women which want to be single mothers can cheaply get sperm from the bank, pick between athletes, professors, 7ft guys and conceive. However very small percentage of women actually does that. So my guess is that overwhelming majority of women did not plan to become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:50 PM
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Disagree. If I could have sex with an endless stream of supermodels, I would never fall in love with a girl next door. Because my standards would be way too high. But since they are not, every girl next door has a CHANCE. A world in which average Joe doesn't have a chance to find love is a shitty world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:05 AM
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I was thinking about this some time ago. Like... we do want stable partners for long term relationships. Women with low impulse control are more likely to cheat and jump at every opportunity for sexual gratification. High N, lot's of tattoos, debt suggests low impulse control. These are red flags, but not dealbrakers. Low impulse control is the dealbraker. I have never rejected a woman just because she had a high N, or tattoos or debt. But because usually behind those red flags there is a charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:43 AM
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Because men do not want to be just attractive to women, we also want to be respected by other men. If I had to pick between being a guy that has 10 million female fans, and is being made fun of by other men. And a guy which has 1 million female fans, is respected by other guys. I want to be second guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:56 AM
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Stop spending so much money on status symbols. I know way too many guys which drive luxury cars, are failing to pay their utilities and have nothing on their savings account.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:17 PM
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When ever someone says that men statistically have more lifetime sexual partners than women, men on PPD fire back that that is impossible — every time a man has sex a woman has sex too. Women do lie about their N number even in anonymous surveys. It should therefore even out.So why does that thinking not apply to more single men than single women?Hmmmm??? Perhaps more women consider themselves to be in a relationship then men? Soft harems?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:53 AM
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Yup, hypergamy is not a bad game, just one with a higher risk and higher reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:48 PM
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It's only bad if you end up as single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:35 PM
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Because you shouldn't base your life decisions on shit people say on internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:33 PM
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So proficient in communication that they can't clearly state what they want...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:13 PM
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This is one reason why I believe “shite tests” are in fact integrity tests. Don’t be manipulative about it but see how the person reacts to a slight challenge of opinion or teasing. Precisely, it's a test of integrity. If a person acts with confidence I will test to find out if it is arrogance, or legit confidence. If a person displays insecurity... there is nothing to test is it? In that case poking that insecurity is just being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:50 PM
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A test to find out if somebody is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:46 PM
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Except I haven't presented anything, as a matter of fact I hate status/wealth symbols. She asked my friend, my friend told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:00 PM
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No, shit-tests exist to find out if the person is full of shit. Example. A girl described herself as deeply emotional, she said the personality matters the most, however I got some subtle gold digger vibes from her. So I told her I was broke, and suddenly she lost interest. Shittesting this girl has reveled that she was indeed full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:54 PM
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In some cases girls friends and sisters warned me about their... flaws. I myself warned female friends about my male friend... flaws. And when I say flaws, I do not mean those small flaws, I'm talking about major character flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:29 PM
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Nope. I have decided to cut relationship with all people that behave like assholes, and I still have friends. If you think that all men behave like assholes, maybe it is because you feel attracted to assholes? Or your social circle is filled with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:22 PM
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Frankly her N number doesn't even matter all that much, because every high-N woman I have dated had other issues which disqualified her as a LTR material. If she is impulsive and has low restraint, it's not going to just inflate her N number.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:23 PM
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I ended up in an abusive relationship and ended up feeling bitter and angry for a couple of years. What changed that was the realization that I picked her. Here are some tips. Overly charming person is most likely going to become overly abusive with time. If he behaves like an asshole toward other people, eventually he will start acting like an asshole toward you. "I can fix him" no you can't. Yup those shit tests exist for a reason, do use them, smart men use them too. Finally if you do decide …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:09 AM
1

Even worse there is a video of him licking pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:21 AM
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You need to gradually lower the dosage then get off them, and you get back to being your normal self. The cool thing is that once you get to experience how it feels to be free of anxiety, it's a great motivator to become a less neurotic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:15 AM
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I take Escitalopram (Lexapro/Cipralex). It basically raises the Serotonin levels. It helped me with racing thoughts, anxiety, focus and mood. It does make me emotionally colder too. It does take about 10 days to kick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:07 AM
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For Bonobos N number doesn't really matter, because males do not help with raising the young. If woman is fine raising the kids alone, she can have any N she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:50 AM
1

Maybe I already dealt with my traumas and do not like revisiting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:37 PM
1

Empathy makes you feel anxious, so you act to relieve that anxiety. As hard as it is to admit, every time I donate to charity it is to make myself feel better... because people in need make me feel anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:52 PM
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Do people really do this? Yup. Offcourse every time I say men, I'm referring to the majority of men, and same goes for women. There are neurotic men and calm women. I myself am neurotic when it comes to human relationship, and chill if the house is on fire. Like I literally worry more if she is silent then if the house is being engulfed with flames.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:49 PM
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Well I'm problem solving oriented, I don't need to talk about the transmission, I don't need comforting... I need to figure out a way to deal with that problem, then fix the problem and then I will feel comfortable. So I am quiet, distant, because I'm problem solving in my head. If you ask me "what's bothering you" I will tell you it's the damn transmission. And... that's it, no need for therapy or hugs, I'm already working on it in my head, just leave me be. If you tell me to open up my emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:44 PM
3

You should write that on your OLD profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:52 PM
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I cannot handle silent treatment So you ask for comfort. Us guys are very similar, except we tend to ask "Is everything OK?". Silent treatment produces anxiety "Is it about me", "did I do something wrong" .etc. When person opens up and expresses his/her issue and frustrations with something else we feel relieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:51 PM
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People with which I do have a relationship (friends, family, girlfriend) are entitled to certain things from me. Strangers are not entitled to anything. As simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:39 PM
2

In that case, this game sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:34 PM
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When women say they want a man to show more emotions, they express a need. They are not asking to be our psychotherapist, what they are asking is for us to comfort them. Women are on average higher on neuroticism, anxiety. So when men act emotionally distant and closed because something is bothering them... like a car related problem. Women tend to thing, "does he love me, did he found someone else, is he cheating on me?". Everything would be much easier if women were able to properly communicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:33 PM
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When women say they want a man to show more emotions, they express a need. They are not asking to be our psychotherapist, what they are asking is for us to comfort them. Women are on average higher on neuroticism, anxiety. So when men act emotionally distant and closed because something is bothering them... like a car related problem. Women tend to think, "does he love me, did he found someone else, is he cheating on me?". And she want's comfort. However she can't ask these things directly becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:32 PM
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Just about 1% of population are psychopaths. And about 25% of prison population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:15 PM
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I can't either because for me sex is never just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:50 PM
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It's not. In my personal opinion the only acceptable thing that we could do is nudge, influence, subsidize introverted people into socializing. For instance a way in which the town is build does heavily influence the number of social contact a person experience during the day. Think stroad vs walkable streets or malls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:47 PM
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If you are 100% sure that your actions are not going to hurt your partner then it's OK. But in a practical sense, I can't see it happening. There is always a risk of finding out, of getting STD, and even if that doesn't happen mutual love/sex life is going to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:40 PM
1

I think porn gave men this disorder. I have a nice piece in my pants but watching porn made me too feel small.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:35 PM
1

You know you have a problem when other people are nicer to you than you are to yourself Right in the feelzs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:31 PM
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Dumb psychopaths act like psychopaths all the time. Smart psychopaths act like anything but a psychopath when they need something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:31 PM
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Red Pillers are hilariously stupid if... Yup. A lot of RP men think that acting like a psychopath will make them Chads, but psychopaths enjoy success because they are not acting like psychopaths. So these wannabe Chads are shooting themselves in the foot. It's not just about having sex with a woman, it's also about inflating own value. Guys are not going to lovebomb in public... however they will lovebomb in private, then act like cool assholes in public. I do know how psychopaths work, I grew u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:28 PM
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3. I've had this happen multiple times as well. The person which I liked was just an act, and I don't like the real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:21 AM
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Yes but dating market is brutal for some men, and men do drop their moral values when struggle becomes too hard. Hungry people are less charitable, and starving people will kill for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:30 AM
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A lot of guys decide to ignore that part in which psychopaths are extremely focused on mating, and jump straight to the easy part... acting like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:23 PM
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It's a scientific study. Take away whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:21 PM
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So women like having kids with Psychopaths? Or, psychopaths have more children because they have extreme focus on mating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:15 PM
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Corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:19 PM
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Woman is going to fuck a broke ass bass player which has no potential in his life if he is fun and makes her horny. A smart woman will do it secretly so her social standing doesn't take a hit. And then she will marry a high value manager which doesn't make her pussy go moist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:44 PM
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Yup. It's actually super simple, when horny women behave just like guys. The only complicated part is seeing through all smoke and deceptions to figure out what makes them horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:37 PM
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You are ignoring the whole "I can change him" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:25 PM
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Doesn't have anything to do with value. When women are horny they want to fuck. Super simple, just like men except we get horny easier. If she is in a relationship with a guy and doesn't have sex with him. She could be a virgin which feels anxiety. If she has a high N then she is simply not horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:24 PM
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Are you familiar with the hashtag #NotAllMen? If radical feminists say that men are rapist, and men point out that NotAllMen rape, radical feminists accuse them of derailing the conversation. So we have the same problem here :) And I do agree, these conversations could actually go somewhere if we avoid using these blanket statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:05 PM
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I am 100% behind you on this one OP! Men and women are engaging in tribalism in which they defend their camp and attack the other gender camp, and this "it's other gender's fault" is preventing us from being constructive and fixing a lot of issues. Examples: Hot coworker is wearing sexy clothes and flirting with managers, she get's promoted while her female coworker which has earned more merit is being sidelined. Women will accuse male managers because "it's men fault" and they will completely i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:16 AM
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When women say they want men to open up their emotions, they actually want for guys to shower them with positive feels and attention, or for some dramatic backstory. They don't want you to actually open up your traumas and insecurities... eeewwwww.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:30 AM
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Horny woman does not withhold sex for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:27 AM
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If you wanted to fuck him... you'd fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:36 AM
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Woman fucks a guy which treats her like shit. Woman vents her emotional trash to all other guys. Woman goes back to fucking a guy which treats her like shit. Just say no to this toxic abusive cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:21 AM
1

OK let's try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:03 AM
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Say "OK" and walk away... because how in the hell is anything else a better course of action?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:02 AM
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No, nope, that's not how you do it. You can't plan sex, that just ruins it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:31 AM
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Or women care about their looks to be attractive to men, and are simply being (again) dishonest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:22 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:19 AM
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On average men do weight more to begin with, so it's about the same weight gain in %. But men are not the ones being dishonest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:18 AM
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I dated exGF friends after being dumped... several times. Every single time I just walked away from it, I didn't bad mouth, I avoided even talking about her. You play your cards right and her friends might think that she was dumb for leaving you. Especially if she keeps badmouthing you, because you were able to just let go, and she didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:04 AM
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I'm afraid of dying and leaving my dog alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:32 PM
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Offcourse but. I reserve the best treatment for women which are proactive and not selfish in bed. Like I had a GF which was really into it. She gave me a handy job in a public place without me asking :) Sometimes I would edge her for +1 hour and I enjoyed pleasing her. GF's which were selfish in bed never got that kind of a treatment twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:31 PM
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Women care a lot about social standings and perceived value. If you gracefully respond with a simple "OK" to being rejected, and just walk away, that signals you do not consider her to be above you. Sometimes they will want to talk some more, to get some closure... but actually to attempt to inflate their value... just walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:24 PM
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If I make her multicum a couple of times and after that I get a half-assed handjob, guess who is cuming first next time? Tip: not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:13 PM
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if the guy doesn’t give head, I’m not fucking him again, if I know he won’t do it beforehand, I’m not going to fuck him at all. You just answered every "man doesn't make me cum" whine in the history of humankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:09 PM
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My grandparents had it super hard, my parents had it easy. But, different country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:01 PM
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She looks like his mom :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:58 PM
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If they lack self-awareness, they get to enjoy the life of blissful unknowing. I wish I could be like that. Less introspective, less observant... heck dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:56 PM
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Well yeah like, for every female justified whine, there seems to be a similar male equivalent. I had met women which were so desensitized that you can't make them cum with PiV anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:48 PM
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I'm fine with sex trafficking sexual traffickers after a trial. Let them repay the debt to the society with their butts. Give the earnings to their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:41 PM
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Meh. World is filled with selfish, self-centered people which spend waaay to much energy on virtue signaling. On reddit masks tend to fall off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:38 PM
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Why don't you take a peak at r/lingerie then tell me what paints a nicer image :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:37 PM
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What if it's followed with a dick pic? :) EDIT: Obvious shitpost, couldn't help myself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:27 PM
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Maybe he is happy with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:26 PM
1

The cheapest ticket to France from the United States found in the last 72 hours was $15 one-way, and $336 round-trip. The most popular route is New York John F Kennedy Intl to Paris Charles de Gaulle and the cheapest round-trip airline ticket found on this route in the last 72 hours was $418.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:25 PM
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Photo from late 90's
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:21 PM
1

Pfff... you can travel abroad on a budget if you are willing to sacrifice comfort and be flexible. Last minute flights, airbnb/hostels, using public transportation, finding deals for various tickets, eating cheap food from supermarket...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:16 PM
1

Porn does create unreasonable expectations. But so do romantic novels/movies...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:13 PM
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What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:11 PM
1

Hugh Jackman, Emmanuel Macron. I wouldn't say unconditionally, but men can certainly be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:11 PM
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Honey I accidentally bought this strapon in the supermarket and I can't find the receipt. And now I feel like a complete looser because of it. If it was used... I guess I wouldn't feel bad about it. Takes out lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:02 PM
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My dog can be headstrong as fuck... and I prefer it that way. I like that he doesn't listen to everything I say. The only common thing between pretty much every dog is that they are loyal. Your dog is not going to stop loving you because you got fat, or he saw a better looking human, or you lost your house. Heck your dog is perfectly happy living a hobo life together with you. You do not have top workout and act to get that love, like you could be a complete failure in life... dog still loves yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:49 PM
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New idea. Every time you get fucked 1 is added to your N. Every time you fuck somebody 1 is substracted from your N. So now there is a whole new market of high N women looking to peg guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:05 PM
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Yes. I love my dog even though he bit me like 7 times. <sup>I did bite him back though.</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:02 PM
1

Gotcha. I avoid reading books, so I guess I'll just watch the season one then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:01 PM
1

So women found a counter to getting pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:00 PM
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"I can fix him".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:59 PM
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I want my woman to dress like a slut from time to time. Panda eyes makeup makes my pepe go hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:58 PM
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I'm not like those other girls. I'm a gamer gurl and I like anime. My favorite hobby is playing games wearing just sock while hundreds of guys watch me on my cam and drown me in attention. -Real gamer girls which actually enjoy playing games, do not feel called out by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:51 PM
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I just don't understand... why deny it? I myself workout because it feels great when a woman "eyes me out". If I was working out only so I can look at my hot body in the mirror... that would be disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:48 PM
1

"The Handmaids Tale" Is it one of those cringe woke shows, or a guy can watch it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:54 PM
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If I say I feel lonely and then I get gaslighted for saying it. Then I feel lonely and angry. Maybe stop assuming that all lonely men also want to subjugate all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:52 PM
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Women, on an average, gained 24 pounds in the first five years of their marriage. When researchers compared women who stayed married throughout the duration of the study to those who went from married to divorced or separated, they found that divorce was associated with weight loss and an increase in physical activity. I mean they are doing it for themselves... if they are more attractive they get to pick a better ape for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:39 PM
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The ones which lose the most are the ones which had everything handed to them on the plater due to their looks. The ones which weren't chased because of their looks, don't lose shit once their looks fade away.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 05:17 PM
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And do you seriously think that women are loved unconditionally? No you are not. Like, how many men would love their wife if they find out she is cheating on them? How many men are OK with an open relationship? How many men leave their partners after finding out about her sexual past? Our love for women is conditional. I know that doesn't sound as romantic as some people want it to be. But conditional love is healthy. And unconditional loves tends to be a huge clusterfuck of toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:23 AM
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After experience, it is of my belief that the only truly unconditional love is the one a parent feels for their child, (if the child is lucky enough). If your partner acts like an asshole you will probably flip them the birdie and divorce their ass. That's conditional love. Well majority of kids start acting like little assholes once puberty hits, and we stick with them. That's unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:15 AM
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After he cheated on his wife with three different women Proving the point that men love women. In his case maybe a bit too much. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:09 AM
0

Well women see feminism as a positive thing. But feminists had described men as horrible creatures. They say "all men are rapists", some feminist called for killing of all men or culling men. They made a #Not all men, because if you make a hashtag then you are right "eyeroll". And only good man were simps willing to lick their boots. In comparison Andrew Tate is a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:06 AM
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Because single women usually have children, so they are not lonely. Just broke. Single guys keep telling me how lonely they feel. Single moms keep telling me how broke they are. And they ask me to borrow them money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:10 PM
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Because, if your wife sleeps around you might end up raising someone else kid. If your husband sleeps around, someone else might get stuck raising his kid. That's why wives are more likely to forgive infidelity, and men tend to bail out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:22 PM
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I myself never got the tingles for the most visually attractive women. It was always a woman which was fun and not ugly. And a bit of anecdotal evidence, the most popular girl in the whole campus was below average looking, outgoing and she had a great sense of humor. But such women do tend to be ousted by other women :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:33 AM
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Because RP philosophy is to "Enjoy the Decline:" And it takes an amoral approach. Rather then calling out woman for their bad sexual behavior, it calls out "women are angels" B.S. Rather then trying to "fix" women, it teaches men to behave just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:13 AM
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​ https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3936-fake-lie-detector-reveals-womens-sex-lies/
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 09:39 PM
3

Real men<sup>tm</sup> can keep their dicks in their pants for a couple of weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:01 PM
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He told me he has a preference for dickladies. Dunno why he feels shy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:59 PM
0

So... I guess I should beat up my postman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:21 PM
1

Everyone looks bad with those white wigs. Instead of using fully white wigs they should had used platinum blond.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:19 PM
3

That "99% of ADHD people are fake" guy had it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:25 PM
2

Women argued about guys low-N preference a gazillion times. Women also say that guys should be more open about their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:19 PM
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Because I find casual sex more disgusting then prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:11 PM
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because their vagina is telling them those guys can garner resources in the future lmao. this is what cuck culture actually looks like And majority of sexless men are either students or college educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:09 PM
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Tell your bros here to stop posting about it. I'd ask you to tell your girls to stop posting annoying things as well. But we both know it's not going to make any difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:57 PM
2

Well you went and made a post ...mansplaining why arguing this preference makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:54 PM
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Everything else being the same, prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:16 PM
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Great because I don't feel the need to justify myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:07 PM
1

I just watched a 9/11 documentary today. Firefighters are in the lobby and every now and then there is a large "thud" sound. It was from the bodies falling on the roof of the lobby :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:06 PM
-1

Well I'm glad you found something to feel enraged about without scrolling too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:57 PM
1

How much was woman nr1 paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:55 PM
1

Used sex toys and high-N women are two things that disgust me. By all means do explain to me in a rational and logical way why I shouldn't be disgusted by high-N women, and then surely my feeling of disgust will disappear. (it won't).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:53 PM
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I do agree but the point is. We can't talk women into not being disgusted by us. All we can do is accept that some women are disgusted by us and decide to be open about it or hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:51 PM
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People aren't sex toys I just used sex toys as an example, but OK, just to please you. Men are people, most women are disgusted by BI men. and most are okay with their partners having some past. Some past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:44 PM
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I don't use sense to decide what to feel disgusted about. I just feel disgusted by some things, and I avoid doing those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:36 PM
2

Here you go trying to use reason and logic to argue what should I and what I shouldn't feel disgusted about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:34 PM
1

Here you go trying to use reason and logic to argue what should I and what I shouldn't feel disgusted about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:34 PM
1

Never said they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:28 PM
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Would you buy a second hand sex toy? Rationally and logically there is no reason not to. You can wash it disinfect it and you get a sex toy for a quarter of it's original price. But you are not going to do it because you feel disgusted by the idea. Well a lot of men feel disgusted by high-N women. Trying to argue against that feeling using logic and reason is a lost cause. With this I consider the subject of preference for low-N partners closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:59 PM
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It does. High N guys are more likely to get divorced as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:34 PM
2

That church believes that you can only go to heaven if you are married and that women will only be allowed into heaven if their husband calls them through the veil. Seems legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:32 PM
2

Women are more likely than men to lie about their sex lives, reveals a new study. Women’s coyness about their sexual behaviour was unveiled by a US study involving a fake lie detector test. In surveys since the 1960s, men typically report having more sexual partners and than do women – a statistically impossible feat. For example, British men boast an average of 13 partners over a lifetime compared with an average of nine partners for women. Scientists previously explained this anomaly by sugges…
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 02:13 PM
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Paternity tests were banned in Germany as well, for the same reason "paternity tests destroy families". However the law was changed several years ago.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/22 12:36 PM
1

This post sounds like a huge cope. I dare OP to post his picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:13 AM
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I think that theory makes much more sense, because I fail to see how one men can defend a harem of 17 women against 16 horny men. It's not like every 17th man has such superior genes that he is a fucking Hulk. Also X chromosomes are much more resistant to being deleted, because daughters get XX, sons get XY. X chromosome get's deleted if there are no children at all, but Y chromosome get's deleted if there are no sons. So even if everybody has exactly 2 children Y chromosome diversity is going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:58 AM
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The reason why she's so angry about it does elude me, however. Took a peak into her profile, she has ADHD. People with ADHD tend to take themselves way too seriously. So “who doesn’t take themself too seriously” means "not you".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:20 AM
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I'm not walking away from uncomfortable situations, I'm walking away from toxic people. Also I actually prefer if people do not see me as a sucker knight in shining armor which will deal with their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:11 AM
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I simply cut all relationships with people which behave like assholes, so... nothing to be coward about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:40 PM
1

Maritime Engineering 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:08 PM
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I enrolled maritime engineering and had to work on the side 😶 Ever saw a guy sleeping on his feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:57 PM
2

Excuse Me Sir, Do You Have a Moment to Talk About Andrew Rousso?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:10 PM
5

Student life in movies - Frat parties 24/7, everybody is constantly getting drunk/high and having sex. Student life IRL - So much studying for exams that having full 8 hours sleep feels like a monumental achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:04 PM
3

37yo got diagnosed with ADD a couple of days ago. I feel great :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:57 PM
2

A lot of gay men have a fetish for straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:53 PM
16

So I asked a girl to go on a concert with me, and she did. However while she had enjoyed my company I didn't enjoy hers. I'd like to simply tell her that we are not compatible, so we can part our ways peacefully. However in the past in this same situation several women ended up creating a lot of unnecessary drama. They tried to emotionally hurt me. Tried to make me feel less worthy then them. So I'm skipping that part and just parting our ways. Sometimes people are simply not compatible, it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:50 PM
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I like me too :) <sup>sometimes</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:30 PM
2

First "demand" is a weird word since there's no Customer Service for dating. Nobody can actually demand anything. Because it sure as fuck sounded like demands. Second, why do you care about other people's standards? Let them either crash into a wall or be the exception I don't ask these people about their standards. They start talking about them on their own. As such they make it my business, and they open themselves to my critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:29 PM
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Don't write it down, instead use filters if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:26 PM
3

The more you depend on your youth in your life, the bigger that wall gets. Goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:25 PM
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Rant. IRL a lot of 30-40 people express their desire for a real<sup>tm</sup> traditional man/wife, while they themselves are certainly not real<sup>tm</sup> traditional people. And this shit is really going on my nerves. Examples: Indebted gambler and washed-out fuckboy which by the way has an serious alcohol issue DEMANDS a traditional wife. Now I'm assuming that this traditional wife would also have to work, because that guy can't even support himself. And if she has to work and support his as…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:20 PM
2

If all men are the same... what's the point of dating? Just pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:41 PM
2

You can't call us all hypocrites because men are not a monolith. We do have different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:24 PM
1

And it's men fault!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:17 PM
6

Hypergamy is about status/wealth. I'm guessing you are trying to make an argument that we are just as shallow for wanting better looking partners. Well we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:16 PM
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Or all it took was one person liking you that was popular that suddenly made other girls more attracted to you. Happened a lot Preselection is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:55 PM
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Also women which are raised without present fathers. It is acknowledged (daddy issues) but... WTF are we supposed to do about it? There is no point in telling other men not to be abusive and pump'n dump because these kind of people generally don't give a fuck about anything but themselves. If we suggest that women should make any change to their behavior we get described as inc3ls, nazis, fascists. Also women tend to become super defensive if anyone suggests that children raised by single Moms h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:42 PM
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If half the population freezes to death the shortage of natural gas will be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:06 PM
2

People lose lives because various outlets spread lies. For instance tobacco industry had spread lies about the dangers of smoking for decades. We have fossil fuel industry spreading lies about climate change, green industry spreading lies about nuclear energy. Plastic industry spreading lies about recycling... etc. All of these lies do end up having a cost in life quality and lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:48 PM
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Some of the guys do want to have the cake and eat it too. I'm all for paternity DNA tests but for entirely different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:40 PM
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I heard a lot of women suggesting that guys end up single because of their right socio-political views. It seems it's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:59 AM
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Where have I said that they want doormats? I was referring to OP saying that men want doormats. The survey didn't even had "subservient" as a quality. Wanting a dependent partner is somewhat concerning though. Do you want your partner to stay with you because they have no choice or because they want to be with you? Don't want a partner which doesn't have a choice. I do want my partner to think that leaving me is a major pain in the ass. Because when people get into a heated argument, at that mom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:12 AM
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In the media students spend all their time having frat parties and banging, but... My college experience. Male dominated and female dominated fields. Dorm is separated into male and female parts, I shared a room with three other guys. Most of my energy and time was spent on college. For a majority of students sex life was getting lucky sometimes. Some guys had GF's, some guys didn't fuck anything for years. After drooping out, for one year I worked a minimum wage job at McDonalds, lived with roo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:03 PM
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Why didn't you look for a good man when you were younger? A good woman because I'm a guy. I did start dating seriously when I was 20. But... it's complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:16 PM
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Well if you read it carefully you'd see that there are vast differences in what men want for a wife and a daughter. How much vast? They want their daughters to be more independent, more strong, and more intelligent than their wives. How much more independent, more strong, and more intelligent? The conclusion is painfully obvious. Would be if the writer presented these numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:24 PM
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Well, I don’t think they actually convince anyone, but they certainly try to. All the talk about “the wall” and lonely cat ladies etc. You need to find a good man to settle down with in your early 20s because by the time you’re in your late 20s, it’s too late. I told my niece that she should find a good man before 30's, and if I had a time machine I'd share this advice with my younger self because it's a great advice. The dating market in 30's is a huge dumpster fire. And high value men don’t ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:20 PM
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Abby didn't do anything wrong, however if I find out a girl has an f-buddy on the side I immediately drop the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:20 PM
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OK, I'm guess I'm dumb then. Still not dumb enough to see this data and conclude that men want doormats for wives...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:16 PM
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A bunch of guys said they prefer women like that. But never once did I saw guys convincing women to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:12 PM
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Still, nothing here suggests men want doormats for wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:54 PM
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72% said intelligence is a top quality for their wife, and 34% said sweet is a top quality for their wife. So how come men prefer doormats for wives if 2/3 prefer an intelligent over sweet wife? Also why are there 106% men? Of course men prefer dependent women and independent daughters. Because we want our wives to stay, and we want our daughters to move away one day and start their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:28 PM
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Men dont want their daughters to be doormats like they want their wives to be. 2/3 of men prefer intelligent wife over charming wife. ratio is a bit different when it comes to daughters. Some feminist outraged, claims men want doormats for wives. Nobody gives a fuck because feminists get outraged for stupid reasons all the fucking times. In unrelated news sugar prices rose 2%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:22 PM
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College student killed in national park by woman pretending to be stranded motorist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:18 AM
2

6 inch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:55 AM
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Google "flirting".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:35 AM
1

Well, unless you are a fucking Apollon, you need to make a woman horny. So try to create sexual tension early on, and if it doesn't work, just move on. You can slowly open up after you are already doing dirty things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:07 PM
2

I don't find rejection damaging at all anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:19 PM
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Stare right back, pull out your dick and start masturbating. If he chickens out he is a soyboy beta sissybitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:17 PM
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Millennial. I get my opinions about women from IRL behavior of women. As for the Feminism. Nothing wrong with it's ideology, however in practice it looks like poo, smells like poo and probably tastes like poo... so I'm inclined to think it's poo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:09 PM
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Conservatives like to watch cuckold porn, feminists degrading porn. Straight homophobes secretly enjoy watching gay porn. I think all of that is basically "dirty kink", some people get their high when doing forbidden dirty things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:44 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:20 PM
3

Hiking, camping and basically doing guy things together... Is our therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:30 AM
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And men don't like their women fucking other men. I fail to see the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:40 AM
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How about a "guys emotionally open up" week?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:35 AM
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Men are also emotionally driven and seek emotional validation. We are simply less open about it (because duh), but behind every decision we make there is an emotional reason. Like what's the point of having protected sex with lot's of different women? It's certainly not to spread our genes? Could it be... emotional validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:34 AM
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