I am a 24 year old male so this isn't my definite opinion in the matter. With that said let's jump into it.

Marriage is a unit, a partnership, a bond meant to be definitive and pleasurable. Something you see grow and experience together, it is a decision made by two consenting parties and it is meant to last even after you're gone through the children both of you birthed.

Feminism claims ownership of it as a woman's choice neglecting men of their role and of their choice. It also robs marriage of its virtue which is the partnership between two people. Instead it focus on selfish desires and individuality in something that has always been meant to be a cooperation.

Women everywhere have been taught through our judicial system that they have a choice and the choice is theirs. Filling for a divorce when you know you'll more than likely get sole custody, a financial split and a monthly check is a much easier decision than to fix what you deem broken. This is how feminism has eroded the foundation of marriage. In any and all partnerships there will be good even great times but bad times will also be there and it is the duty of husband and wife to support one another. Unfortunately what we see in many cases is that family unit not working together instead we see a lot of ridiculous expectations being set by both sides and one side wanting to give it up looking for something better.

It is easy to fantasize about something better, we have a barrage of television shows and movies portraying idyllic and decadent lifestyles which is easy to be enamored with. Seeing the shortfall of reality will also make you long for a better condition but to get there you have to work together and support one another, splitting is the easy choice the hard one is sticking together and making your dream and aspirations come to fruition.

But here lies the biggest defect of feminism. They view a divorce as an empowering tool. As a way for the woman to punish the husband who wasn't obedient enough or who wouldn't bend to the whims and desire of his wife. A divorce is a punishment to a man for not obeying his wife in most instances. This is why feminism eroded the principles behind marriage by making divorce a punishment to good intentioned men which leave the marriage broken whereas the women leave it feeling temporarily empowered for being able to have such a deep effect into that man's life.

I fucking hate this broken system and this is why I joined MRA because it is time to restore some sanity into this world that is increasingly seeing men as disposable.