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[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie 93 points94 points95 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Scrotes calling other Scrotes "Kings" "Legends" for basically doing nothing.
[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice 105 points106 points107 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Funny how I've noticed that too. I work with a very old dude and he's always praising the other young dudes that didn't make it in our department - take that suckers!!!!
(I work in a very male dominated environment). When I came there, the dept leaders who are all men were very intrigued and tried to challenge my position and even question my competence- they all did that by asking awfully obtrusive questions which I turned around and asked them. Quid pro quo, ball owners. They also thought themselves to be better equipped to do my job. Which they are not. When I got there, they were butthurt because they all applied for my job but upper management hired me, an external and a woman - gasp!
For weeks they behaved like monkeys trying to figure out how to behave around me. I swear, their entitlement is fucking gross. I usually put them in their place. Don't ever let yourself be bullied by men because they will. Be nasty!
So my coworker used to praise the other boys and call them very competent ( in contrast to what I am for him, obviously). So I tell him, then go change departments if you want to be with the boys. I honestly find it horrible that they invited me by mistake in their footie group where all men do is push around a ball and get rage when it doesn't hit the mark. They didn't have the balls to evict me from the group but they have been silent ever since. I'm pretty sarcastic and ask them: what boys, no more footie? And then I add: please let me know when it's your next gathering, alright? I wanna bring popcorn. 💀💀💀 I'm that woman.
[–]MaingurlFDS Apprentice 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I tell him, then go change departments if you want to be with the boys.
Girl, I'm dead!💀
[–]blueboobs-FDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for being that woman! 🙏🏽 ☺️
[–]mothertunaFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A guy I dated years ago was definitely like this. He had other red flags but the way he was with other men was the worst. Instead of wanting to spend free time with me, he’d want to spend it with the boys. All his close friends lived within walking distance but I lived a bit further. It was so odd to me.
I get needing time with your friends but men who rather spend bulk of their time with other men don’t want girlfriends, they just want fuck buddies clearly and reserve affection/adoration for other men.
[–]Some-Air9442FDS Newbie 279 points280 points281 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Most cultures throughout history have had reproductive bi/homosexuality for men. That mean that they would f*** women to produce children (women and children were their property), but they would regularly have sex and romantic relationships with other men. They also institutionalized pederasty and usually practiced strict separation of the sexes.
This was true in Ancient Greece, China, India, African civilizations, the Middle East, etc.
The notion of romantic heterosexual love as the center of life is actually kind of new. Yeah, I know, I found this to be disturbing as well.
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple 72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
My exes dad always used to bring this up, he'd often say 'men were for pleasure and women were for reproducing'
[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Did he just throw it in random conversation?
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can't remember what the conversations were that lead to him saying it, but he said it on numerous separate occasions.
[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Men are for pleasure! You kids have a good time at the movies!” What a guy lmao
[–]Some-Air9442FDS Newbie 62 points63 points64 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Your ex’s dad was giving hints about his sex life. There’s a plague of men who are on the “down-low” who are married/have gfs but also have sex with men. It’s very problematic because they spread STDs this way.
Basically it comes down to this: men want casual sex and partying and they want the stability and economic benefit of free female labor (childbearing, household labor, free social organizer and counselor).
Women generally get no benefit from companionship with men; in fact they pay a hefty cost. This is why FDS is so important.
[–]Inside_Inside_8610FDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Women's reluctance to date bisexual men (although men on the DL are obvs not bi) obviously springs from the fear of catching STD's. Gay/bi men get really upset about it and refuse to acknowledge the danger for women. Always about "muh penis" and "your emotional labour".
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I reckon a lot of bi/gay men hide their sexuality to get a larger pool of pickme women, they know a lot will refuse to date them and they want the benefits that come with a heterosexual relationship, including the fact women are more likely to put up with crap that other men won't, women not only can provide offspring, but also perform more emotional and housework.
[–]Some-Air9442FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Basically bi/gay men are not gonna play housewife, so these men find a dumb pickme to do it.
[–]throwawayastrogirlFDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is why no man will benefit from me and if he does it will come with a price he will hate having to pay. Make it a lose-lose situation for them and they will leave you alone. No cohabitation, no lousy sex (only if he makes you come), no kids and no marriage; don't play his mommy or therapist and don't give a shit if he's struggling with something. Make yourself impossible to use and discard. Men don't love you; they love what they can extract from you at your expense.
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is my plan, no man is getting any benefits from me and I never want to live with or marry a man again that's for sure, it rarely benefits the woman.
[–]Technusgirl3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
My sister saw a movie that referenced this and she was quite disgusted when the guy said that they could only ever really love other men or something like that. She told me not to watch it. I feel really bad for women during those times, honestly.
[–]carmen_sandiegos_hatFDS Disciple 150 points151 points152 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Misogynists love men hate women. Not the same as how women support women. They actually love men.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 108 points109 points110 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
what's crazy is even when they have no real life male friends they will still abuse the woman in their life so they can brag to random men online
definition of a loser
[–]CloacaDiddlerFDS Disciple 142 points143 points144 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sending all our lurkers into a gay panic
[–]ceramicunicornFDS Disciple 88 points89 points90 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I don’t understand the part that says “honor is removal to the pedestal”. What does that mean? Does she mean it is “putting women on a pedestal”? But that doesn’t sound quite right either.
[–]ilovewinniethepoohFDS Newbie 96 points97 points98 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
“Removal” in this instance is akin to removing something from a place where you treat them humanely. Being placed upon a pedestal is something that is seen as great at first glance, and later is always shown to be problematic. A lot of women know the problems that come from being “put on a pedestal” by another man. Lots of problems, mostly involving inhumane and unrealistic expectations.
The term “removal” here is a direct callout of the language regarding the term “put on a pedestal”. Firstly, you don’t want to be placed on a fucking pedestal by another man, because guess what, the pedestal is always the size of a fucking teacup and it takes absolutely nothing to wobble, fall off, and “break” the ideals of the person who put you there.
Secondly, they did not simply place you on a pedestal, they removed you from your humanity and your right to act as a regular person. A regular person gets to act with freedoms, without ridiculous rules that makes them “unworthy”. The Madonna/Whore complex is especially relevant to this.
The post states that “honour” is erroneously conducted as “removal to a pedestal”, which is correct in that it is not honouring someone, and it NEVER will be.
[–]ceramicunicornFDS Disciple 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like this, it is very clear. Thanks.
[–]LuciferSpadesFDS Newbie 101 points102 points103 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its dealing with the Madonna/Whore complex.
I.e. the only time men show anything that passes for a semblance of respect or care for a woman is when they are placed on a pedestal, as a Madonna chaste and virtuous, perfect and unspoilt.
It's still not respect or love but it's the closest a woman will get from a man.
Any woman not on that pedestal is a whore and is to be treated as dirt.
[–]myeggsarebigFDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You ain’t ever told no lie, Queen!
I’ve been asking men this question (seriously) since I was a little girl, when I would hear the way my Uncles would talk about their wives. As I 5 year old, it was just simple logic. “Why are you married to someone you don’t like?!” I was too young for a complex answer but that question stayed in my little girl brain.
[–]throwawayastrogirlFDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This just confirms what I have been thinking about a lot: men are incapable of loving a woman, they can only lust after her. This was a game changer for me and now I can't even watch a romantic scene let alone a whole movie without rolling my eyes to the back of my head. Liberating.
[–]throwaway-fdsFDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm kind of convinced atleast 1/4 of raging misogynists are just repressed homosexuals. Nothing wrong with being gay at all, I know men treat other gay men very negatively. Maybe some violence would be reduced if men were more accepting of homosexuality and not tiptoe around their desires (ex: "it's not gay because the guy is dressed as a girl bro" Yes I heard this excuse..)
[–]IndigoTRFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao I noticed this when I was in high school and it doesn't change the older I get. The look they always shoot their lov- sorry -bro when they say something they hope is funny or edgy and want their approval. Texting their lover- omg my bad- bros play by plays of how they manipulated or fucked over an unsuspecting woman and wanting their validation so badly. Even the women they choose to date/sleep with need to be pre-approved by their lovers- jeeze, whats wrong with me! - their broooosss.
[–]Lost_Kale90FDS Apprentice 56 points57 points58 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so spot on.
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[–]carmen_sandiegos_hatFDS Disciple 150 points151 points152 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 108 points109 points110 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CloacaDiddlerFDS Disciple 142 points143 points144 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]ilovewinniethepoohFDS Newbie 96 points97 points98 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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