My boyfriend told me I dont know how to treat a man and that's why he's always hungry and the room is a mess. He really thinks because im a woman I should feed him, clean for him, do his laundry, go to work myself, and take care of my children. As a grown man I think he is responsible for taking care of himself! If I cook for him it's because I want to but im not going to do it because its expected because im his girlfriend. Am I doing this wrong? Should I be in fact making sure my boyfriend is fed if I want to keep him?