Everytime men talk about their gender issues i see the same comment from women, let me give an example i saw in a feminist subreddit:

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As much as Megalia sucked, watching Korean men say that they're oppressed is fucking hilarious. Do you have to check public bathrooms and changing rooms for cameras? Do you have to worry about your drink being spiked? Do you make sure to wear a short under your skirt in case some creep tries to take a picture? No? Then stfu. Their number one argument is usually that they have to enlist, as if women don't ever go to the military. That's a small price for all this privilege.

As you can read she give a list of women's issues and say if you don't face them then you are not oppressed or disadvantaged. this argument is illogical. it's like saying to people with autism they don't have the right to complain because they don't have diabetes.

By using the same logic women can't say they are oppressed because women don't get mocked and laughed at for being victims of domestic and sexual abuse, women don't get forced to serve in the military, women are not considered unnecessry by family courts and don't have to spend years fighting just to see their childrens. etc etc ...

Dear women, you need to understand that women are not the center of the universe. women are only half. and the other half is men. yes men have problems and issues too. minimising men's rights issues won't make the world a better place for women. minimising men's rights issues and telling men to "STFU" won't make the world more egalitarian. to the contrary. gender equality will never be achieved until men's rights issues are acknowledged and addressed. gender equality will never be achieved until discrimination against men is condemned instead of making excuses for it like this woman did in the last sentence of the comment.