This girl in a Facebook group was asking for advice naming her child because her husband didn’t agree with a name she really liked. Then one lovely lady suggested this...

lorenzo156 · 2020-11-03T11:40:48+00:00

So compromise is hard to do?

MrChibiterasu · 2020-11-03T17:13:26+00:00

Men have just as much right as being parents as women do. This whole “we do all the work” mentality is fucking disgusting and needs to go away.

aad7990 · 2020-11-03T10:19:32+00:00

Thats like going around telling women they cant drive cars or live in house's because they had no part in building them. Cant go shopping because you only earned this much money. Cant use the cell phone because you didn't build it. Cant stay in the house or use the toilet because you didn't build it.

SCUO2020 · 2020-11-03T16:52:29+00:00

Must love when women call out other women for their wokeness.

road_laya · 2020-11-03T16:37:22+00:00

To a narcissist, compromise = losing the power contest

Scouts_Go_Deeper · 2020-11-03T10:20:17+00:00

He never had to deal with all uncomfortableness...

dude probably couldn't deal with the discomfort* of her "yass queen" pontificating and fuckin' bounced.

Sigouin · 2020-11-03T16:57:51+00:00

Hell yeah, a girl who sticks up for her man, now thats a keeper. I wish i had an ex like this

michaelfowler · 2020-11-03T10:28:21+00:00

Respek al wAmYn

fatpieceofshite · 2020-11-03T15:39:36+00:00

Funny it takes two to make a baby or pay for it but only one to name or kill it.

Yato_Dharmastato_Jay · 2020-11-03T12:28:22+00:00

Found the Keeper

Dopecombatweasel · 2020-11-03T11:36:51+00:00

We have to deal with their shit for 9 months and work lol

SleepDeprivedUserUK · 2020-11-03T18:12:51+00:00

"fuck the man"

Oh daddy judge, I need the income support plz 🥺

FunkyReedus · 2020-11-03T19:22:27+00:00

Imagine starting your childs life by getting aggressive over the name with the father

slayer991 · 2020-11-03T17:00:19+00:00

Holy hell, it's not that difficult. When my ex and I were picking names, we each threw out names until we came to an agreement on a name.

Fanboysblow · 2020-11-03T18:55:32+00:00

That's exactly how lonely women in the 50's think.

MyNameIsChrisHansen8 · 2020-11-03T20:02:46+00:00

Wow what a miserable cunt... I would love to hear her bs to that level-headed reply.

InspiredBlue · 2020-11-03T22:32:41+00:00

I’m all for women calling out other women for their bullshit

uberduger · 2020-11-03T23:36:50+00:00

The sort of woman that says "I did all the work, I get more of a say in things" is 100% gonna spend the next 15 years answering every request to do something she doesn't wanna do with "I carried him for 9 months and pushed him out of me - you fucking do it".

RIP father of that child, as he's got a long road ahead of him.

delidl · 2020-11-03T22:00:06+00:00

Thank God my father had something to say in giving me my name. My mum wanted to name me Diederik.

2020-11-03T17:14:13+00:00

My body, my decision, now pay me child support.

ThewannabeTemplar · 2020-11-03T23:03:45+00:00

I've told several people this. If the laws of nature would've allowed it, I would've taken all that pain and suffering if it meant my love didn't have to.

TheBlackMobster · 2020-11-03T15:32:02+00:00

Guess who's mad about being lonely...

You guessed right, its her.

vPetko · 2020-11-03T23:44:06+00:00

She must be fat and never gets attention

Latin-Danzig · 2020-11-04T00:54:07+00:00

Sounds alone, bitter and toxic. Avoid.

Typical_Dawn21 · 2020-11-04T05:42:55+00:00

r/entitledbitch

thetripleb · 2020-11-03T16:39:52+00:00

Technically the man got hard so he had to do the "hard" work in the first place.

I'm here all week. Tip your waiters.

Adernain · 2020-11-03T20:04:33+00:00

My GF's sister is like that. She thinks because she is the one who carried them and is also raising them, that she has the call for everything, including names. She chose some very fancy names that are super super rare in my country. Her husband lost his father some years ago so it's a big honor and also a tradition to name a child after a deceased close person.

All this despite the fact that he is the one that works for like 10-12 hours a day to support them, while she is at home raising the children. I mean each to their part but come on. We men aren't the ones that decided that we can't give birth and feel the pain.

ronoda12 · 2020-11-04T01:30:11+00:00

Marriage was a cooperation. Filthy feminist trash like this have turned it into adversary.

Sir_Donkey_Lips · 2020-11-04T07:29:33+00:00

"Im having some very personal issues with my significant other, let me ask the stranger of Facebook what they think"

We live in such strange times.

mkraven · 2020-11-03T17:27:51+00:00

That would be a sliperly slope... so if the man makes more money (usually true) does he own more of the house? Does he get to spend it on whatever he wants and ignore her needs? I bet you then that woman would be up at arms saying that's not fair. Fucking idiot.

poisonedkiwi · 2020-11-03T17:40:55+00:00

Sure us women have the physicality of dealing with the baby, but it most definitely is NOT a cakewalk for the man. He has to deal with all the pregnancy shit coming from the woman, plus most likely having to work and continue functioning like this extra stress isn't there. Its not a one person job Karen, and it doesn't only affect the woman. Someone else mentioned the driving to get ice cream cravings in the middle of the night, its shit like that and more. It builds up.

cjzj_1288 · 2020-11-03T16:47:53+00:00

Its like the idea that you can't be "proud" of something that isn't a choice... like being white, or from America

stockboy96 · 2020-11-03T17:37:57+00:00

She wouldn’t be where she’s at without the man. End of story.

Rae_Rae_ · 2020-11-04T05:40:21+00:00

I have seen my son once since he has been born because his mum thinks like this. She literally sent me a video saying that if the woman carries the baby then the dad has no rights.

Like if I could I would absolutely form that bond 100%

StampedeJonesPS4 · 2020-11-04T09:07:37+00:00

Found the single mom.

Smacky_Da_Frog · 2020-11-04T22:15:38+00:00

Compromise: Men name the male babies, women name the girl babies. That way no man has to go through life named Diederik or Jesse.

El_Profesore · 2020-11-04T22:22:55+00:00

Last time I checked, TWO people are needed to make a baby

But maybe something changed...

11bNg · 2020-11-03T17:33:31+00:00

And women wonder why they end up single moms

2020-11-03T16:51:10+00:00

Shes an angel

ohhfasho · 2020-11-03T17:21:07+00:00

Who asks the public what to name their kid? I feel bad for the kid

MyDamnCoffee · 2020-11-03T19:31:46+00:00

I disagree but i will name all my kids because i said so.

PurpleHawk222 · 2020-11-03T20:17:49+00:00

They are both going to be parents to the child, both should have the right for a name that they both like or they should make a compromise like getting to choose the middle name or getting to name the second child if they are planning to have one etc.

Baroness_9V · 2020-11-03T20:46:28+00:00

I've given birth TWICE and was indecisive about names until it was time to make it official. Any help at all is great, I don't care if it's even someone ELSE'S man!

Bamboozle-noodle · 2020-11-03T21:36:02+00:00

This denies the fact that pregnancy can psychologically and physically impact both parties. Both parties can lose sleep, experience stress, and experience physiological changes. It’s incredibly ignorant to assume pregnancy impacts only the woman

nickeltini · 2020-11-03T22:15:20+00:00

This person has obviously never dealt with a pregnant woman

Ibeprasin · 2020-11-03T22:57:34+00:00

Who was catering to her cravings and working to support her?

Fist4achin · 2020-11-03T22:57:43+00:00

Such an ugly way of thinking and even the donor sperm from the clinic would avoid her.

Mentalmidgett · 2020-11-03T22:58:34+00:00

Bitch then you dont need any help at all. Go pay all the bills and raise the kid by yourself. Yeah I bet that wont happen

Senlui · 2020-11-04T01:10:08+00:00

Another drop in quality, if it was ever there...

raymond_redditor · 2020-11-04T03:33:16+00:00

I'll bet my money that the one who originally replied is a blue/pink/whatever hair land whale.

Blakk_Jesus · 2020-11-04T06:21:37+00:00

It's almost like she forgot who was with her and taking care of her when she went through all that pain.

V0latyle · 2020-11-04T07:18:20+00:00

I guess she got pregnant without his help too.

AL_SONiC · 2020-11-04T10:08:19+00:00

Bet her dad named her Karen

dragonslayerDemon · 2020-11-03T18:02:50+00:00

I never knew pain (that you chose to have) was hardwork

henrysmyagent · 2020-11-03T20:00:30+00:00

As a father, if someone tried to kidnap my children they would have to kill me before they could lay a finger on my kids. They are a part of my body, my soul.

They did not come out of my body, but their mother could not possibly love them more than I do.

After extensive conversations with my wife, we agreed on their names. I would never insist on a name she hated, or demand a name without her input.

When did relationships become a zero sum game?

splitm82 · 2020-11-03T17:44:35+00:00

Some people are still serious children lol zero maturity and they just either want that GOTCHA moment or they are like we are women so we do blah blah blah and you’re a man so you can’t do x,y, and z sooo ha! We are the best!

punannimaster · 2020-11-03T18:19:46+00:00

yea but we have to lift rocks and fight off sabretooth tigers..

lovemaderare · 2020-11-03T18:26:01+00:00

They should just let the kid name itself when it’s old enough to speak. Problem solved.

KALbrosky · 2020-11-04T00:10:56+00:00

Yea and don’t forget who put the baby in you in the first place...

Cybernetic_Phantom · 2020-11-03T17:24:37+00:00

Lmao this kinda people who think like aren't are high in quantity. Saw a Facebook post asking what women did and more than 90 if not 99% stated child birth as an achievement 🤷🏾‍♂️

PrincessOctavia · 2020-11-03T17:25:46+00:00

Its so difficult to be considerate of others

2020-11-03T18:07:02+00:00

Nice she thinks that way, then she needs no support from a man neither

2020-11-03T19:30:18+00:00

A typical menopausal feminazi Karen.

TitaniumGoldAlloyMan · 2020-11-03T19:39:20+00:00

Well, sorry Karen that I had no control over getting a Pepe instead of a vagaga.

MyUserNameIsSkave · 2020-11-03T20:16:57+00:00

And who will have more change to have a shitty name this way ? The child. If we follow this logic, the men generaly have a bigger wage that women, so women should not have the right to use money without the authorisazation of the men. Hi wait that should be sexist.

The_Brain_Fuckler · 2020-11-03T20:47:10+00:00

My ex-wife named my son a name I hated just to spite me. She admitted it to my mom.

JCPunch94 · 2020-11-03T20:55:20+00:00

I'm glad it seem that they are at least talking about it

funnydeadpool · 2020-11-03T21:06:19+00:00

And also how did she get the baby? Bone marrow?

CrispyEminems · 2020-11-03T22:52:09+00:00

Can guarantee the original commenter frequents FDS

CalFromManc · 2020-11-04T01:48:50+00:00

ItS iN mY bOdY mY rUlEs!

scottierush · 2020-11-04T02:26:50+00:00

Holy grammar, Batman!

ChaplainAsmodai · 2020-11-04T02:34:41+00:00

The cut off "your opinion" feels genuinely threatening. I don't know whose side they're on, and I'm scared to find out.

GregWithTheLegs · 2020-11-04T02:58:20+00:00

Whatever happened to having half decent grammar? This was incomprehensible the first two times I read it.

2020-11-04T03:18:17+00:00

Wow some faith in humanity restored

numberthangold · 2020-11-04T04:46:20+00:00

I absolutely cannot stand the idea that people think that fathers are somehow lesser parents because they didn't physically give birth to their kids. It's such a disgusting way of thinking.

Sir_Puppington_Esq · 2020-11-04T04:49:58+00:00

Who gave her the opportunity to carry the baby?

Resident-Leader · 2020-11-05T17:56:56+00:00

Guys can’t stop a woman from taking a child in a relationship, some expect them not to name their babies fuck man lol relationships must suck

Shurdus · 2020-11-05T18:03:55+00:00

I mean the man goes to the authorities and report the child including the name. So the wife can lay down the law all she wants, but... Yeah.

kuruman67 · 2020-11-05T23:07:57+00:00

Not to mention that he’s much more likely to be financially supporting that baby.

ChocolateTuxedo · 2020-11-07T09:21:30+00:00

That woman that replied deserves a fucking medal. Woke women are the best.

2020-11-07T17:48:39+00:00

She does all the pushing over a number of hours and he does all the working for 20+ years

SomeClaudetteMain · 2020-11-08T04:06:56+00:00

we love to see reasonable people

A-Australopithecus · 2020-11-09T11:08:18+00:00

I who gave you the fucking ingredients to make the fucking child? Oh yeah, the man. If I gave you eggs sugar and butter for a cake, and then you didn’t offer me the choice to take a slice, I’d take them entire cake away. My ingredients, if you aren’t gonna share you can’t have them.

Suckoutfrts · 2020-11-11T15:33:43+00:00

You can tell shes a lonely bitch

baconmaster687 · 2020-11-11T16:56:04+00:00

Women claiming all the responsibility for producing the child and then wondering why the man walks out

ClownfishSoup · 2020-11-11T19:32:49+00:00

Well, that's what middle names are for. You like "Ashley" but he likes "Maria?" Name her Ashley Maria. Done.

bagelbagel44 · 2020-11-12T03:57:28+00:00

you can just see at the bottom “yourr opinion”

canabilisimo · 2020-11-12T05:28:03+00:00

Aye fun fact I red this at 71 percent

therealandy04 · 2020-11-12T23:50:30+00:00

I’m glad the mom is the way she is. We need more of her

just_some_casual · 2020-11-17T16:43:25+00:00

Just like a old joke i know : in a Divorce trial to see which parent get to keep the child/ren , the judge asked to the mother why should she keep her child/ren and she responds "well when because i kept it inside my body for nine whole months and struggled to give birth i think i should keep it" then the judge asks the father the same question and he responds " your honor , if you insert a penny for a drink that has been inside a vending machine for months , the drink its yours or is it of the vending machine? " . The judge concluded that the father should gain the custody.

inhuman44 · 2020-11-20T21:06:23+00:00

If she "does all the work" then I guess she can pay all the bill too right?

BoNgMoNsTeR89 · 2020-11-21T15:35:09+00:00

That bitch has probably never seen a dick in her life. Unless she named one of her cats richard

2020-11-23T21:17:52+00:00

the closest to a dick this girl has ever gotten was a bad dragon toy

nickiscool06 · 2020-11-24T18:15:46+00:00

You know shits serious when they use the 💁‍♀️

LardKnight · 2020-12-27T06:58:01+00:00

You realize for you to name that child that man had to stick his dick in your ungrateful pussy

escalopes · 2020-11-03T17:34:48+00:00

That's alway the case. Men supposedly shouldn't have an opinion on abortion because it's not their body (even though parthenogenesis seems to be quite rare...), men shouldn't have a say in how to name a child because they didn't carry the baby during pregnancy, men shouldn't have a say for this or that etc

Always the same shit said by toxic assholes

CheapOpposite · 2020-11-03T16:53:42+00:00

Who the fuck is naming the baby then? Not the mom, if you feminists want “Equality”

KTOD486 · 2020-11-03T17:21:57+00:00

So is the bad person the first comment?

2020-11-07T17:51:22+00:00

She does all the pushing over a number of hours and he does all the working for 20+ years

2020-11-10T14:43:41+00:00

Nigga just don’t have a kid or adopt one. Two very simple solutions. Idc when girls tell me like “oh I have to give birth it’s so much pain” like nigga just don’t have a kid it’s easy. Second I leave the house I’m getting a vasectomy because fuck that shit

2021-02-20T00:11:27+00:00

Or a man who literally carries it in his dick his entire life

L0CAHA · 2020-11-03T19:21:00+00:00

Who picked the apple and got mankind kicked out of Eden? Who got punished with the pains of child birth? A woman.

DuhhIshBlue · 2020-11-03T21:32:52+00:00

"Your opinion" bitch stfu it's not an opinion it's the truth.

o_kai · 2020-11-03T13:59:39+00:00

Why can't she just compromise with him? She can decide the first name, and the name he wants can be the middle name/s.

thisismenow1989 · 2020-11-03T16:50:03+00:00

If men were given the choice would they even have kids to begin with ? Usually it's the women in the relationship that persuade their partners into having kids, is it not ?

CassetteTaper · 2020-11-03T18:51:56+00:00

That is the new "I have no logical argument but I wanna sound so cool and authoritative" move, saying "that ain't it, sis." If you see someone saying "that ain't it," chances are they ain't too bright.

Comments