Men exercising their options is such a stupid double standart.

RabbitNRaccoon · 2021-09-23T11:13:47+00:00

People can say whatever they want. The reality is, a marriage is a mutual agreement. If some woman let's her husband cheat, that's their business. If she leaves him, that's their business.

I do however take your point. A lot of the people in these spaces have little caveats carved out for them specifically and are usually hypocrites on multiple points.

My favorite is the claim that women only produce one egg, but men produce millions of sperm so men evolved to want to sleep around. Except at no point in history until the last few decades have men had this much access to women. The vast vast vast majority of men either had sex only with a wife or died a virgin.

So-called Alpha men were not fucking every woman in a tribe or in a town. That was not a thing at all pre-20th century. You had your wife or you had a prostitute. And most men didn't have access to the latter in rural communities.

So that point doesn't add up. If you're gonna sleep around, do it, but don't try to justify it, is my point

TheDrWinston · 2021-09-24T10:35:46+00:00

I personally agree with you. Again it's a moral compass thing for me.

However that's not how reality is. There are plenty of men and women who both explore their options. The redpill are like "yep same old shit". If I remember correctly since I left redpill space nearly a year ago. And red pill was on the premise that women were unhinged and couldn't be controlled without manipulation.

At the end of the day cheaters are going to cheat. The world is plagued with degenerates. I wish it was a criminal offense to treat your partners this way. We have divorce for a reason. There is no justification for cheating, just a degenerate act.

Maybe if porn didn't have so much cheating in it men wouldn't have such a fucked up worldview.

LadyKitana · 2021-09-23T17:51:02+00:00

Absolutely!! they try to justify it by saying women get emotionally attached therefore it’s worse. They claim because it’s just sex it’s not a big deal, that may be true in a mans opinion. However the pain and emotional damage it can do to a woman is devastating.

What they fail to understand or refuse to accept is a woman can have sex for physical reasons, the idea that women can be “ exercising her options” in the same way is a massive hit to their ego. They see women as their property! Men say women don’t understand men’s sexual drive but yet claim they know a woman’s🤷‍♀️

I don’t condone cheating at all, leave the relationship or have an open marriage. However if this is suggested men don’t want their woman with another man, they only want one sided open relationship. Fragile egos!!! But they never acknowledge swingers and cuckholding relationship which are a growing trend among couples especially high earning ones, but once again the idea of women being sexual is unacceptable to them.

rusty344 · 2021-09-23T11:38:51+00:00

What is with the standard of posts on here lately? Wow..

JUMPsuperstar · 2021-09-23T10:32:18+00:00

Why should a man not have options if a woman had options? At the outset of dating a woman a woman can be talking to ten different men at once. How is this fair to the man and why should a man not excercise his options? What does options have to do with cheating? How is options hypocritical? I can't believe some of you have me defending red pill coaches. Men having options and not latching onto one woman inherently as well as holding him to a higher standard and only going for women that show interest in him is good overall advice and one of the few positives from Red Pill.

BiWomanHealing · 2021-09-29T10:33:10+00:00

RP wants women to be literal property. Like a dog that can be chained in a doghouse when not in use. They don’t trust that we would be loyal without overt force (which is sad and un-true), and they also have this mentality that women exist to serve men, and so a man should be able to select a woman like a cattle on auction and fuck/breed her until the end of her “use” (when she gets too old, disabled, has “too many” emotional needs). Anything other than literal property-like ownership with no free will, they get anxiety and seek to control women.

free_mind_free_life · 2021-09-23T19:12:59+00:00

The men who have the possibility to "exercise options" are the minority. Most men I talk to (age 20-30), have a very hard time dating modern women, and don't even think about getting to the point of making out or having a serious relationship. Most men I talk to in that age group have just given up on women and focus on their own lives instead.

To the average man, receiving "serious" interest from a woman happens maybe once a year. From there on, the chances dilute rapidly: going on a date (without her flaking), second date, third date, and if you're lucky you get a chance at making out or a serious relationship. By then you're down to 1 in 10 or so.

Therefore, the average man knows how difficult it is to get anywhere with a woman. (No, I'm not saying that we should all be making out with eachother. My viewpoint is very traditional and against the modern way things go.)

Then, if those average men hear about women sleeping around, cheating for sh*t reasons, with the excuse of "I'm finding out who I am", "Don't be so bodycount-phobic it's just a number", I'm not surprised men are frustrated by that behaviour. And rightfully so.

Title	Men exercising their options is such a stupid double standart.
Author	Kr7731
Upvotes	32
Comments	33
Date	September 23, 2021 9:34 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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