[serious] Why do black men love white women but the reverse isn’t true?

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-12-05T13:48:42+00:00

No threads about race.

stormcloakporn · 2021-12-04T18:36:52+00:00

Black women have some of the most overt and exaggerated feminine body types. Most black women I see are curvy with hourglass figures, full hips, big round ass, big titties, full lips,etc…this is “masculine”?

White worship, white colonialism, and internalized racism. Whites globally dominated for a long time and obviously colonized many different countries throughout Africa and Asia.

White is unfortunately a standard of beauty that is thankfully wanning. A lot of POC, esp older generations, mentally put white people on a pedestal.

For my generation its different, white people are the butt of jokes and smearing. Young POC will call out and question other POCs for dating whites. I personally know a lot of non-whites who are not all interested in white people. They idea white people are the epitome of beauty is just wrong imo and pretty gross.

SwaySh0t · 2021-12-04T18:00:59+00:00

Most black women don’t like white men. It’s all preference.

Special-Thought945 · 2021-12-04T18:07:45+00:00

Body type could be a guess. I would say most white men prefer thinner women (not saying all, but I think more than half). Black men stereotypically prefer a curvier body type. Black women tend to be curvier. White women tend to be thin or curvy.

Devourer_of_felines · 2021-12-04T18:21:29+00:00

Vast majority of black men who are married are married to black women…

AquaChip · 2021-12-04T18:28:59+00:00

Black men don’t love white women. More than 80% of married black men are married to black women.

rufinishedrudone · 2021-12-04T18:29:06+00:00

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Mustbeaight · 2021-12-04T18:28:27+00:00

Huh?? Foh. Black women are just as attractive to me. But I’m just a black guy so what do I know. 😒

I’d rather be with a black girl but unfortunately they’re even more stringent with their requirements.

YouRanAway · 2021-12-04T18:39:36+00:00

Do yourself a favor and stop worrying about what attention whoring, insecure women on social media say.

stormcloakporn · 2021-12-04T18:47:26+00:00

Isn’t talking about race against the rules? Mods gonna axe this post or??? Cuz this shits gross and weird 🤮

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-12-04T18:05:45+00:00

Because black people are usually more masculine in appearance and personality. Most men don't want masculine women but women want masculine men.

Basic-Distribution14 · 2021-12-04T18:09:50+00:00

Black men want what white men have. Always been that way. They desire to sleep with the oppressors woman . Makes them feel powerful. Also the fact that white women have more privileged positions in society. They want to reap the benefits by getting to white women's hearts.

Virtual-Jackfruit243 · 2021-12-04T17:59:33+00:00

I've heard they like us for different reasons from real hair to "fun" personalities. Either way it's all fetishes.

rufinishedrudone · 2021-12-04T17:55:19+00:00

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SylvestorTalone · 2021-12-04T18:05:39+00:00

Blacks are the most masculine race, this goes for the men and the women. For black men this is an asset in the dating market, for black women it's a detriment. It's why they have this reputation for being difficult, disagreeable, and combative .

Black men look at white women and see women more feminine than their own, white men look at black women and see women more masculine than their own.

rufinishedrudone · 2021-12-04T18:24:39+00:00

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boomershack · 2021-12-04T18:19:08+00:00

ow lord...

NockerJoe · 2021-12-04T18:47:47+00:00

I've seen plenty of those pairings. Hell after I broke it off with the first girl I dated she found a white dude and they seem fairly happy together. I never really gave it much thought because if you hang around enough people in mixed crowds you do see mixed pairings.

On a cultural level black men are sexualized as being physical and well endowed, but black women until fairly recently never really had an equivalent thing going for them. Black men have this weird mystique that isn't really rooted in much objectivley on a macro level. Its the same reason asian men do worse in dating than asian women even though again, the stat differences aren't that great when you measure anything objective, or disappear entirely in many newer stats.

LeaveThisPlanet · 2021-12-04T18:00:14+00:00

White skin is absolutely beautiful, so they are right to be attracted to it. ♥️

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Orange_Paisley · 2021-12-04T18:17:59+00:00

What about Robert DeNiro?

E-2-butene · 2021-12-04T18:25:46+00:00

I mean, some white women like black men.

Dismal-Manner-9239 · 2021-12-04T18:27:53+00:00

Umm, I don’t know what y’all are talking about. While dating and sowing my wild oats I found women who were independent attractive, and that trait crossed all skin tones.

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neetykeeno · 2021-12-04T18:57:42+00:00

I have always suspected that the male world loves naturally pale skinned young ladies because pale skin ages badly. In other words...if she says she is twenty eight she isn't some forty year old stringing you along. Guys just instinctively feel more sure of the youth value involved. Black women boast that black don't crack...alas that's good when she is forty but not something that is entirely of advantage in every possible way in her younger years. Pale skin is also favoured because it flushes with emotion easily and that's also something that gives sureness of what a person is dealing with.

Now waiting for someone to call me racist.

goatismycopilot · 2021-12-04T18:58:22+00:00

It depends on where you live. I am in the south near a majority African American city. Off the top of my head I can think of three black women I work with and know reasonably well who are married to white men.

You would think in the south there would be fewer inter racial couple but I know several.

This post is right on the edge of trolling because of the shitty way it framed.

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2021-12-04T19:01:42+00:00

White women are overly represented as the ideal and most feminine in culture.

rufinishedrudone · 2021-12-04T19:06:26+00:00

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Liberal_On_Guns · 2021-12-04T18:15:35+00:00

The reverse is not true. Most white men hate black women and are grossed out by the idea of dating a bw

Not true at all. Plenty of white dudes would hook up with a bw as long as she's attractive. They just happen to be less attractive on average due to obesity rates and single motherhood. But put a beautiful bw in front of me and I won't hesitate.

But regarding the reverse, it's largely cultural. The idea of "corrupting" or "turning" white women in the US has been fetishized for decades. Not even just looking at the pornography, but you can talk to white women with a black boyfriend. I have, and she said she was uncomfortable at first because he told her to say "I love big black dicks."

Aaaan I'm not hating to be honest. If I were dating a black chick, I would probably lean into the race thing too. It's taboo enough to be hot without being creepy or off-putting. I'm too possessive to say "Tell me you love big white dicks," and I think that could definitely make a girl slightly uncomfortable, but I would most likely say "Come and bounce on this big white dick" or something like that. Idk dude, it's just hot. TLDR: Plenty of hot black chicks that could get a white dude if she wanted.

Another uncomfortable truth is that black people are way more likely to hate on other blacks for dating out. White people have been taught from birth to reject racial tribalism of any kind since the 80s/90s, and to be utterly colorblind, and to fear being called racist.

Glarkin42 · 2021-12-04T18:31:22+00:00

White and to a lesser extent caucasian are genetically more beautiful in my eyes.

From a purely aesthetic viewpoint east Asian women can potentially be attractive but I wouldn't have sex with them.

Title	[serious] Why do black men love white women but the reverse isn’t true?
Author	rufinishedrudone
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Date	December 4, 2021 5:54 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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