She's the one with the kid but the man has to jump through hoops.

slipkid223 · 2021-11-29T14:19:27+00:00

"Her time is valuable"

Apparently not valuable enough to stop wasting it on dating apps.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-11-29T14:26:36+00:00

Her time is valuable, it wasn't before she got knocked up by a deadbeat. But, we're not talking about that.

jmpires · 2021-11-29T14:30:42+00:00

So it shouldn’t be awkward to ask how much per hour, right?

SpicyPoaster · 2021-11-29T14:37:42+00:00

Just what every man wants, to compete with the single mother's kid for time with her. What a deal.

WeRAllOnThisBlessedD · 2021-11-29T14:44:17+00:00

I can almost guarantee that she spends most of her valuable time shopping on Amazon, drinking wine, and posting those stupid dancing videos with the text that pops up beside her on Instagram and tik tok about how she’s a powerful single mom who can do it all. And let’s not forget planning the next girls night out because mAMa nEeDs a bREaK. And if she has any spare time left, she’ll spend it with her child.

vegasbadboy702 · 2021-11-29T14:25:21+00:00

“Her time is valuable.” So a man’s time is also valuable. Good grief the arrogance of these women on apps never ceases to amaze me.

Sceonas · 2021-11-29T14:44:02+00:00

You can tell a single mom wrote that.

Joaquino7997 · 2021-11-29T15:50:42+00:00

I don't take too kindly to this sorta crap. But here we have it. And now I'll flip the script on this:

"Remember when dating a single childless man...his money, access and resources are all valuable, but neither as much as his time. You are taking away HIS attention from younger, childless and more vibrant women. Women whom are readily available and are less likely to cancel or not commit to engagements because of being exhausted because of her kids or not being able to find a sitter. So unless you're attractive AND pleasant to be around AND can throw down in the kitchen AND bang like a porn star in bed, don't waste his time."

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-11-29T14:46:48+00:00

So in other words, when she neglects her kid, it's the man's fault for "taking away time from her child".

ronoda12 · 2021-11-29T15:33:07+00:00

It is laughable and funny to watch women almost always choose the dead beat loser badboy to sleep with and then after becoming single mother wants a nice guy. I mean what does she think nice guys aren’t watching and making notes of her trash behavior? Pathetic.

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2021-11-29T14:38:49+00:00

All time is valuable because we all only have a limited supply.

And just because some streetwalker got knocked up doesn't make her time more valuable than others.

PlzSendDunes · 2021-11-29T15:57:33+00:00

That is quite a good indicator that she is manipulative. She is willing to guilt trip you even before you meet. I mean it could explain well why she is still single and shame that this kind of manipulative mom has a child who will be growing up being manipulated during his/her youth. Hopefully child will notice those manipulations and deal with them early on without getting to much psychological damage...

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-11-29T16:44:09+00:00

I love it. "You are taking away her time from her child"

Like she isn't making a conscious choice to devote the time that would have been spent with her child on you. Oh no, you forced her into this. She's just a helpless hostage who is going along.

HedgeRunner · 2021-11-29T16:21:23+00:00

It is quite sad to see how many women on apps are so delusional because it is men who spends way more time to get a match, not women.

Harry_Teak · 2021-11-29T22:26:24+00:00

That's why you pop by to visit when her little bundle(s) of joy have been tucked in for the night. Wouldn't want to monopolize her time, right?

She tucks the kids in, you tuck mommy in then split. Such is the Circle of Single Mom Life. It may not be the life they wanted but it's sure as hell the life they earned for themselves.

mustangfrank · 2021-11-29T21:20:15+00:00

In my young and dumb blue pill years, I dated single moms. But, if they had no time for me, they were gone. I didn't put up with shit like that.

Cristoff13 · 2021-11-30T10:29:48+00:00

This reads like something out of FDS. Your time is worthless. Hers is priceless.

I suppose many women think they want to be put on pedestals. But if a man does treat them like this, they won't be attracted to him.

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-11-30T14:02:38+00:00

Single mom: My time is valuable.

Also single mom: Creating a stable home environment before having children is not valuable.

Harry_Teak · 2021-11-29T21:46:50+00:00

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Itburns12345 · 2021-11-30T13:01:01+00:00

"Her time is valuable " Funny doesnt say exactly what fortune 500 company she's ceo of or what hospital she works as a DR for but who wants to be she lists her job as 'mommy and its the hardest job in the world'

IllegalCrabSmuggler · 2021-12-02T17:25:41+00:00

Wow, a 50 year old still gets her share of dick and love bombing, how far have we men fallen?

Hunk_Maggot · 2021-12-04T22:59:45+00:00

Her time is so valuable that none wants to date her anymore.

She's the one with the kid but the man has to jump through hoops.

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Title	She's the one with the kid but the man has to jump through hoops.
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Date	November 29, 2021 1:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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