I would consider myself a "nice girl", and I realize that thought process of a nice girl is getting me in trouble when I'm dating. Started dating a guy and wanted to keep it slow, but I was unintentionally doing all the wrong things. I realize now I need to hold my standards even higher than I ever have. I'm ending a dating situation with a guy I've been seeing for two months, and while I'm sad. I mainly stayed because I was lonely and wanted attention. I have way more self work to do, and I'm happy to say that I realize I need to stop being so fucking nice. These guys have to work for you, and I always thought that was a "bitchy" thing to do. The nice girl approach is done, this is my final time being "nice, accommodating and chill". It's gotten me fuck all and I know what I want. I'm headed back to the drawing board and therapy. Thank you FDS, the old me is dead. A new era of baddie is getting unlocked.