Saw this post on r/teenagers, this is indeed not gender equality (I’m a teenager, not a pedo)

Wyoruski86 · 2022-02-09T13:52:39+00:00

Ahhh google the trash bin of the internet

tenchineuro · 2022-02-09T12:56:14+00:00

So yelling is domestic violence?

Parzival_007 · 2022-02-09T13:56:07+00:00

If you search MaritalRape in Twitter in India, a notification automatically pops out at the top of your feed saying Domestic Helpline for women. They just assume it's a man since in India you cant be both man and a victim. Also there isn't an official Domestic Helpline for men. Unofficial ones exist though.

To_be_a_better_man · 2022-02-09T14:02:04+00:00

Almost any internet search that involves behavioral differences between sexes will produce results that reinforce the feminist narrative.

Melkor7410 · 2022-02-09T12:58:46+00:00

Where's the image for the search result for wife yells at me?

DeathBingerover_9000 · 2022-02-09T12:49:22+00:00

Yeah

Sun-Kizzed · 2022-02-09T14:35:08+00:00

That’s so messed up. When you search anything suicide related, hotlines and support pops up. The fact these don’t give you the same search results is so misandrist…. People need to stop thinking women are so nurturing and innocent and realize how much men are hurting from this.

sofiaankhan · 2022-02-09T14:46:19+00:00

Another example of this was on international men's day. Every year on women's day, they update the Google Logo and keep it up for like at least a month.

What happened on 19th November you may ask? Nothing.

UnderstandingTop2608 · 2022-02-09T13:28:26+00:00

I you search husband/wife hit me, there is a domestic violence helping thing on both pages

CryingMadGirl · 2022-02-09T14:08:21+00:00

Yelling is not domestic violence… what counts as yelling? If I cough too loud could it be taken as yelling?

Yo-boi-Pie · 2022-02-09T14:43:25+00:00

Hold on lemme go grab my comment from that post since I was just there…

Yes it is. Your just stupid. (Since people are actually stupid I must clarify that this comment is a joke, except for the part where I say everyone is stupid that ones true.)

No_Employee_5755 · 2022-02-09T15:12:51+00:00

saw this to

Abstract_Knight · 2022-02-09T15:14:56+00:00

Average men: Yells at his wife, bc having a really bad day

Google: Wait, that's illegal.

w_cruice · 2022-02-09T16:40:31+00:00

For several who won't quite understand, aren't native English speakers, that sort of thing:

It is termed Passive-Aggressive. You hide your aggression behind a pleasant facade, and do something "nice" on the face. Strained example, but: A woman compliments another woman on her dress, say. "Oh, that's such a pretty dress! Almost matches your shoes!" Or, man version, "That was a pretty good throw... For a child." (Said to an obviously adult man. Often done between friends, but change the tone and context 1 degree, and the insult becomes primary, it's no longer teasing.)

The old phrase was, "They cry out in pain while they hit you." Example of police using this tactic here (Comic so I don't link to an "anti-police" site - but you can find PLENTY of stories on YouTube and news sources of REAL incidents.) https://quantumvibe.com/strip?page=316
and https://quantumvibe.com/strip?page=317

(Also, it's a very good strip to get some ideas of freedom, as in, An-Cap or Libertarianism. Very different from our world.)

Note in the "Bad Old Days" this was common. Nowadays, PUAs call it a "Sh!t test," but it isn't like the behavior is new. Rather, the environment has changed. Where a man could exert force in the past, he will go to prison now, even if he's a defender who was attacked with a weapon. (This has happened, man with knife wounds on his arms gets arrested. She is free. See also: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Winkler)

Consider the Duluth Model (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duluth_model)

"The Duluth Model [...] is a program developed to reduce domestic violence against women. [...] The program was largely founded by feminist Ellen Pence."

If you look at the Wheel itself, you find that it is constructed so that anything a man does, is recognized as violence. He talks to her? She's abused. He doesn't talk to her? Shes abused. She yells, she's expressing her emotions. He yells,he's an abuser. He controls spending? Controlling and abusive. She spends them to poverty? He is at fault. Too much time working? He's neglecting the family. Not enough income? He should be working harder to support his family.

The WHOLE THING is an insult, as you can often see female behaviors that ALL fit the categories, it's just never applied to them. Think "Tyranny of low expectations," the MOST paternalistic thing I've seen in a long time. At the same time as she's an empowered, strong, independent woman, she's a child that Daddy Government, embodied in the courts and police system and law maker's offices, must be protected. (E.G., two college kids get drunk, have sex. He's a rapist, she's a victim. Because she was drunk. But so was he. But that's not the point!!! REE!!! See: https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg for a laugh on that... This concept, not drunk hookups.)

In the old days, the woman sought safety in boundaries. Would he protect her? Calm her? Keep the family stable? So, she yells, has an emotional meltdown (mostly play-acting, mind), has a crying fit. The question is, how does he handle it? Is he a Simp, catering to her wants? Or does he call her on the excesses and inconsistencies in her behavior, calm her down, or establish limits and boundaries (E.G., she's screaming at him, and he slaps the wall - that's abuse. He can't make the decisions any more, she has to be involved, and like his decision. Or - abuse! any sort of limiting behavior by him is Abusive, per Duluth Model. Only If he does it. If she does it, it's OK.)

Most of life is an illusion, in the sense: You don't see who is pulling the strings behind the curtain, or making the decisions, or directing the flow of society, but the power of media has been known since WW2. All of the Silver screen stuff, the old musicals? It was what sold, but it also molded society. (See "They Live!" with Roddy Piper for a great satire on it.)

If you haven't checked out some of the old PUA stuff, might be good to take a look. Roush Valdez has gone 'round the bend (totally understandable, BTW, bad situation), but Krauser's Pickup Adventure, I think it is, or In Mala Fide (more on masculinity than PUA), or Becoming Alpha, or Donovan Sharpe (Youtube channel), or Dalrock, or YouTube channel "Entreprenuers in cars," look up TateSpeech on YouTube, definitely check A Voice For Men, look for archives of The Spearhead (Website was bought by someone and it's now unrelated content; try going back 5+ years). Better Bachelor on YouTube, Roma Army I think it is (she's a woman, mostly shorts, reasonable). Check out the film, "The Red Pill" for more info. Those are just a few I recall, you can surf to many more. (Note a few have some bad habits as well, don't just discard what's valuable. We learn good judgement from experience. Experience usually comes from POOR judgement. ;-) Mine has been costly in ways I won't detail here, but highlights are bankruptcy, foreclosure, short sale, legal issues, health issues, and abusive relationship. Avoid my mistakes.)

Title	Saw this post on r/teenagers, this is indeed not gender equality (I’m a teenager, not a pedo)
Author	JoinTheAstleyCult
Upvotes	283
Comments	48
Date	February 9, 2022 12:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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