Guys shouldn't wait for sex. If a girl makes you wait just discard, or sleep with other girls while "waiting".

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-02-22T11:19:58+00:00

Removed for low effort

januaryphilosopher · 2022-02-22T10:10:11+00:00

Only if you want to date promiscuous women and having sex early is something important to you personally which you are willing to give up a woman you otherwise really want for. You also shouldn't pretend like you're not sleeping with other women while "waiting" and please, if you "discard", do it tactfully and don't pressure. You're just not sexually compatible is all.

AutoModerator · 2022-02-22T09:44:57+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-02-22T09:47:36+00:00

Depends if you want a relationship or just sex. If you just want sex, then yeah of course.

Also, not all guys can afford to do this. The guys who can do this are already doing it.

accountantladyreads · 2022-02-22T10:20:29+00:00

This is terrible advice. Most women who want to wait because they want a relationship are not going to stand for this. When I was single I certainly would not have

PirateDocBrown · 2022-02-22T10:47:07+00:00

If she's the one for me, she would make me wait no longer than any other man.

If she has had a one night stand before, our first time should also be a one night stand.

If her shortest time ever was month, or 6 months, it's not unreasonable for her to ask that of me as well.

But if we are meant to be together, she needs to be at least as giving to me as any other guy.

crookedsummer2019 · 2022-02-22T10:22:41+00:00

Make it clear that you are looking for fast sex. Find like minded girls looking for the same. Hook up culture is alive and well in many places.

AreOut · 2022-02-22T10:47:37+00:00

Women don't make only guys waiting for sex but also themselves. Imaging going out with someone for months only to see you are sexually incompatible? That's lost time for both not just for him.

Also most women who make the guy wait for sex are having the sex on side, I remember that one girlfriend was having sex with me in our breakup phase while she started dating the other guy, she started having sex with him only when I felt sorry for the poor guy and stopped having sex with her lol. Of course she considered that not cheating because she didn't have sex with both of us at the same time, how fair of her!

AquaChip · 2022-02-22T11:05:54+00:00

I’ve never met a man like this in real life who wasn’t only looking for causal sex. No man looking for a meaningful relationship acts like this. This is how i know y’all only talk tough shit online. The majority of y’all can’t act out the shit you say online anyway because y’all are timid in real life lol. People in life are far more nuanced than, “discard, if no sex on the first date”.

A man who is ready to marry isn’t going to discard a woman he is really compatible with because she wants to wait to until they’re in an exclusive relationship to have sex. I know y’all dream about this happening but it isn’t. The dating world is shit. He’s not going to “throwaway” a woman he clicks with and if he does he doesn’t have the traits of a good partner so she dodged a bullet. Never seen it happen.

It’s hilarious because you all try to act out fuck boy behaviors without the social skills, roster or tactical awareness of a actual fuckboy and you end up looking awkward and falling flat on your face. But, hey! At least you showed those silly women who are giving away sex indiscriminately, right? You’ll be alone in 6 months because you’re still throwing away women who don’t fuck you on command and she’ll be in a loving relationship with a man who didn’t mind waiting a month.

sebwiers · 2022-02-22T11:09:55+00:00

You wanna be that guy. So don't waste time with girls you aren't that guy for.

Why are you even going on a second date if you aren't? Isn't figuring that out the point of going on a date?

logiauser · 2022-02-22T11:22:56+00:00

I’m not that desperate and would rather get to know people first. I’m not marrying them (unless they are exceptional) so their past is irrelevant.

BuddUgly · 2022-02-22T11:04:34+00:00

She's fucking some other guy while making you wait.

Title	Guys shouldn't wait for sex. If a girl makes you wait just discard, or sleep with other girls while "waiting".
Author	Additionalparties
Upvotes	3
Comments	108
Date	February 22, 2022 9:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/syjn1y/guys_shouldnt_wait_for_sex_if_a_girl_makes_you/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/guys-shouldnt-wait-for-sex-if-a-girl-makes-you.1103553 https://theredarchive.com/post/1103553

Comments