[43-F] Why do I only find chads who want to pump and dump me? I don't know, I think there must be normal people here, chads without "a boner..." all day. I just want the embodiment of celibacy to be with me and my cats

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-03-22T13:54:48+00:00

She wants a man with respect, just not self respect.

She went and made herself a single mom just after hitting the wall at 30. Bought a couple of cats. Got covered in ink. And went looking for long term commitment ... on an app.

Honestly, what was the plan out of all that? Once more for the slow ladies - we don’t want other men’s kids. It’s such a simple concept. Why oh why don’t you understand it?

mustangfrank · 2022-03-22T13:31:13+00:00

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I am the mother of an 11-year-old boy.

Tired of the nonsense that they propose to me in this app. Why am I still here? I don't know, I think there must be normal people here, men who are not "with a boner...", excuse me, all day.

If so, don't even talk to me directly, please!

Hoping there is some decent guy, with scruples and respect, to talk to me. Is it useless to try to find someone like that? Every day I think more yes.

Again, another single mom, with cats using ASD lingo wants the embodiment of traditionalism and celibacy but shows swipe right to chads in a hookup.

If you are a sane man, meaning you're horny as usual, you're not her type.

Anti-Slut Defense

If you are only interested in sex or you are looking for one-night stands, hit the X.

Many of the women you find browsing profiles on dating apps will use tricks and lies to tell you that they are “not easy women” by using a particular language. In this way, they stand out from the rest of the women, leaving them as if they were all sluts, except for them, who are the exception. This pedestal is, in simple words, the first Shit Test for the average man, because when she finds an alpha, she will neither make this clarification nor will she pay attention to having said it, she will go to bed with him in the first minute, it's always like this.

Women have something that is defined as conditional femininity: when they are in front of a real male prospect they are sexual, feminine, submissive. But when they are in front of an effeminate prospect, they are masculine, dominant, aggressive, entitled, etc. These women use what is known in English as Anti-Slut Defense. This female mechanism is based on the idea of running as an exclusive candidate; a candidate that not everyone, or a very few lucky ones, have easily accessed (or never accessed, too) and have used it, giving the image of chastity, because in reality, by the age of 21, in the modern times many have already tasted enough Diego Pollagrande by then.

The only thing a woman has to offer of value to a man is her sexuality, and if she is a virgin or frugal, the more chances for her to succeed in her goal. It is for this reason that women will never confess to you about polygamy, or the number of men they have slept within their prime of fertility, or the things they have done with them, no, that would be bad publicity and would go against the survival instinct since, for a man, sexual exclusivity and long-term trust in his partner is very important if he agrees to submit to a sentimental relationship or create a family with a woman.

Very few men of inherent worth would be willing to accept the demands of someone who is basically telling them directly that they have practiced polygamy and submitted to all types of chads because that appeals to them. That would generate an image of total distrust, one in which the man would think it would be a big risk to mess with her, if she has changed her entire life of prospects so easily, what security would her bring to him? None. However, this is not a problem for the average male either, since this one, even knowing her history, is capable of believing that he will be able to change her, that he will be able to fix her, therefore, even so, he will willingly accept, and in exchange for the sexual favor, any project that she proposes. Only alphas do not agree to these women for various reasons, but they will not be willing to give up any woman they have graced with their exclusivity to others, so if she demands relationship commitment from an alpha or average male, she has to give his sexual exclusivity to him in exchange.

In this forum, we already said that women create rules for betas, but break all her rules to be with the alpha, so the use of the Anti-Slut Defense tactic, like the classic Shit Test, is a fairly common example that we can see when women put requirements on certain men. The goal of the rules is simple: weed out the low-value men to find the high ones. Facing towards society, she will always want to give an image of chastity, purity, class, because the competition between all women is so intense (100% of women always compete for the top 20% of men) that they believe that selling themselves «as virgins» to high-value men this will work. The truth is that no man of value will be deceived by such tricks and even less so by women who are already over 24 years old. A man who is of high value already sees in these women his first weakness: they are no longer considered of value because they need to be sold as virgins, that is her first great deception. She denotes that she is either entering the final stretch of her sexual peak or has already passed it by becoming a Post-Wall Woman.

deckran · 2022-03-22T14:49:31+00:00

The truth is, at that age this woman is already set in her ways and life. There's no changing her mind about anything, building something new with her or anything to invest on. She just wants the man to come fit into her frame now and basically be her beast of burden. The "respect" she mentions is just code for you to treat her like a queen while she treats you like a peasant. No wonder she only gets pump and dump. What sane man would want that much responsibility without any authority?

SCCock · 2022-03-22T14:13:18+00:00

Tats and cats. I've seen enough.

Hayekr · 2022-03-22T15:06:25+00:00

If you lower the contrast in the photo (which was conveniently taken with a light source behind her), you can see the heavy wrinkles/wear and tear.

I guess we should be thankful she is in the small percentage of 40+ year old single moms that isn't at least 30 lbs overweight; but as always, their photos are a carefully produced work of fiction in some way.

Llawgoch25 · 2022-03-22T14:58:45+00:00

"Hoping there is some decent guy, with scruples" On fucking Tinder? Seriously? You're just as likely to find a "decent guy with scruples" on Grindr

APathWellTraveled · 2022-03-22T15:09:46+00:00

"Why am I still here?"

Oh you do know. You want time, money, and resources from whatever man you can drain. You want to absolve all personal accountability. You want all your standards to be met and expect a man to hold you to no standards.

The cats are are a great fit.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-03-22T15:29:51+00:00

No fertility left, no youth left.

A baggage, emotional and a child plus a baby daddy.

Old as hell, offering her decline.

She's at the very bottom of the totem pole, in denial that's the case. Using shaming language, gross!

Her real SMV is pump and dump at best.

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2022-03-22T16:19:10+00:00

"Why am I still here?"

Because she's addicted to that sweet, sweet dopamine rush that comes from validation and the joy of ghosting all those betas.

Enjoy your cats lady.

SpiritualEnema · 2022-03-22T14:01:22+00:00

I don’t know about you, but the more cats I see in a woman’s dating profile, the harder my dick gets. Jesus, do any of them even try anymore. This one is even somewhat attractive too, minus the smoking and cats. Nobody who smokes has teeth like that. Dentures at 43 possibly?

What was the old saying? Women with tattoos who smoke are the easiest of them all.

Also her profile says “perro” but where is this dog? Im confused. I’m sure there is boxed wine just out of one of these frames.

You know what they say; garbage in, garbage out.

vtec__ · 2022-03-22T13:49:32+00:00

where is the dad..

Joaquino7997 · 2022-03-22T15:36:53+00:00

As psycho as she looks, she HAS to be lying about men only approaching her "with a boner!"

She's (probably) lonely as hell and is just making shit up to make herself believe that she is one with high value.

Hell, her own cat looks as if it wants to make a getaway from her crazy ass!!

badredditjame · 2022-03-22T18:17:29+00:00

She has that "I am absolutely psycho once you get to know me" look in her eyes.

V_M · 2022-03-22T18:13:53+00:00

Old lady who smokes = short term relationship

macabre but people whom don't take care of themselves don't last long. She's already rockin replacement teeth.

Note also how she fuzzed the metric fuck out of her picture so you can't see her wrinkles "because of the sunlight" but you look at the kitties in the sunlight and you can count the individual fur hairs, so its not a lighting or camera problem, its a filter app.

Also note her "ransom note" lists nothing that she provides, only a long list of things that need a man's money and food.

For you non bilinguals, take a wild guess what 'salir a tomar algo' means (hint it involves spending your money, of course, at a bar, of course)

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-03-22T23:00:22+00:00

Yeah, there's a software filter used for sure. Her eyes are huge like an anime character. Nobody has eyes like that!

Old_snowboarder · 2022-03-23T18:19:27+00:00

Had a kid at 32 - bet she got herself Billy Beta to use as a wallet and sperm donor then realised that poor Billy didn't give her the tingles and left him to find Mr Perfect only to discover that men with options aren't impressed with single mothers.

b_lead · 2022-03-22T21:43:53+00:00

She missed the bus, should of made it work with baby daddy.

CisgenderPig · 2022-03-23T01:08:38+00:00

At 43, you should be glad you even get attention from me to empty my nuts.

jadedlonewolf89 · 2022-03-22T19:14:26+00:00

Because you played the game of lust, which has its own set of consequences, anyone who wants something serious takes one look at you and your situation and says he’ll no.

8erren · 2022-03-22T20:31:41+00:00

I sometimes think this sub verges on mean spirited misogyny and I tend to not join in. But FFS this woman says she owns a dog when it's 2 cats. Why is nobody talking about this?

Hero_Of_Memez · 2022-03-22T21:02:22+00:00

I feel bad for that cat, and especially her son.

Cristoff13 · 2022-03-24T01:53:59+00:00

As we've seen, women use their dating profiles for all sorts of things other than just finding dates. This one is using hers as a ego boost by humble bragging about how she still gets so many men trying to screw her.

Braucifarian · 2022-03-24T02:39:21+00:00

She thought Chad would always be there to bang her out and possibly commit one day. But now Chad's no longer want her as she aged out for the fun in bedroom time. Now she's finding out guys that aren't Chad's don't want her either as that is a high mileage vehicle with a ton of deferred maintenance.

Ari9000plus · 2022-04-11T08:31:37+00:00

Yes....for you it is useless to try and find someone "like that"...thankfully the store shelves will never let you down...they will always be full of cat food and box wine...

droden · 2022-03-25T10:01:42+00:00

She wants an asexual emotional tampon atm fun/validation token dispenser.

Unit614 · 2022-03-26T11:03:57+00:00

Ain't fuckin' around with a source of headache, sorry. Have a bad day, Trash.

2022-03-29T19:29:54+00:00

Why am I still here?

Well you are a single mother and outside of being used as a fleshlight you have nothing more to offer.

datboi3637 · 2022-04-09T19:36:34+00:00

Something about her eyes is ringing alarm bells

[43-F] Why do I only find chads who want to pump and dump me? I don't know, I think there must be normal people here, chads without "a boner..." all day. I just want the embodiment of celibacy to be with me and my cats

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