So we’ve been communicating decently lately after being divorced for a year. Decent except for not telling me where my oldest daughter was going to college or that she moved to Tokyo. She decided to tell me after it was done. Or not telling me about graduations etc. Likes to say that everyone does it.

We had some cell phone accounts to change this week so we met then and at my youngest sons baseball game. But she was distant and cold. Started talking like I was a piece of trash like right after we signed papers. I thought it was strange.

Called her up to tell her the kids can come over Saturday and she said she was busy. I told her Sunday was good and it was going to rain so go ahead and relax and I’ll bathe the kids and feed them dinner at my place and she could pick them up when she wanted. She said she had something to do.

So I always pass our old office on the way home since it’s a straight shot to my apartment. It’s still there but nobody is using it. They might have a party up there or something since the first floor is an office and the upstairs is a living area w/ bedrooms etc. Nobody is usually there though.

Drove up the street on my way home last night and all the lights were on with her car parked in front and another car in the car port. And there they were. Drinking and barbecuing with my kids. They saw me so I had to choose to keep driving or stop. I naturally stopped. Looked him in the eye and said hello. Asked her where my youngest son was and she said inside. Told them to have a good evening and drove off. Destroyed.

If it was a year ago, I might have BBQ’d him. I’m still shocked I was able to keep my cool and say hello. I got no hello back though. 😂

Had to drive by this morning on my way to a job and the cars were still there so we know what happened.

I’m more worried about the kids and what is going on in their minds.