I came to this site to try to help myself, and possibly help others who are going through or about to go through divorce. In many ways I look forward to reading the posts, and yet when possible I try to leave an encouraging thought. I have a love/hate feeling however. I'm discouraged by the natural of the martial system in the United States(have no experience outside of this country) and the Court system that I feel in many ways promotes the destruction of the martial vows and makes it so easy to just walk away.

I believe some are relieved by this and others, like me, left in dismay. I have always felt if it were not so easy to get divorced, more folks would think twice before making such a commitment.

So with my rant over, I wanted to wish all you that are struggling, to stay strong, work on yourselves to become the best you can be. Life doesn't end with divorce, but can sometimes feel that way. Don't feel shamed to seek professional help when needed. Best wishes...