In light of the influx of posts reeking of insecurity and asking why they can't get laid-- I've decided to detail one of the biggest losers I've worked with.

I used to work at a club and had the honor of working with one of the funniest-walking example of a guy that was a loser by all accounts.

To illustrate this even further- here's an example of the guest of honor:

This guy is a person of color. Balding with a receding hairline. On the spectrum. Broke all the time, but splurges on only the finest of weed. Would go out drinking with 10 bucks to his name. Has 3 kids with 3 different baby mamas. Drives a shitbox. Is an objective 6 tops.

So you have this colorful array of a walking mess getting laid like a warlord. What separates him from some of you is that he simply does not give a fuck. Or at least the appearance of it.

He will go up to girls and spout the dumbest, most inane shit possible-- but he will still approach nonetheless. Eventually this guy has amassed some semblance of "social proof" by being seen talking and hitting on these poor unsuspecting girls.

Of the girls that have any interest, he will escalate and ask if they want to go and smoke with him. Usually at his place. The kicker? He doesn't even have his own place. He lives with his aunt and pays very little for rent. All the while displaying all types of nice guy behavior such as spending what little he has on his extended family.

This fine specimen of a human being is at his prime age (30s) and is still working at a club while being borderline broke. Despite all this, he will still unashamedly try to get laid with girls at the very same club that he works at.

There are many like him in even worst circumstances that are still able to get laid. Hell, there are accounts of homeless guys on this subreddit getting laid. I guarantee all of these guys share the same attitude-- they simply do not give a fuck and approach. That's it.

So before you go on your own little soapbox here and start crying about why you can't get laid, despite not even doing the bare minimum (lifting and reading the sidebar!), just recall our prime example right here.

He may not have the best life trajectory-- but he sure as hell has some of you guys beat on body count, albeit certainly not in the best of circumstances.

Some takeaways:

Bare minimum efforts result in bare minimum results.

Have a DGAF attitude.

Approach. You can study all this theory, but unless you actually apply it (the sidebar)-- it all remains theoreticals.

Whatever label you think is holding you back from getting laid, just remember our guest of honor.

Edit: I should also mention that women are not a means to an end. For some of you, it's what holds you back from achieving more (or at least foreseen by some of you). Nonetheless, they do help with achieving power if that is your goal.

Edit 2: Fixed some formatting