The rise of lonely, single everyone; “A recent article… its thesis is that men are entirely responsible for being single due to their general uselessness and toxicity.”

VerdantMauve · 2022-09-22T20:50:42+00:00

And as much as men love male company we’re rubbish without women. Our lives rapidly descend into chaos without them. Men need women. They make us better people. They help point our moral compass and they smell nice.

What a load of shit. More tradcon bollocks.

Sr_Nunes · 2022-09-22T17:23:18+00:00

Nah.. I'm really well as a single.

delocalelectron · 2022-09-22T18:21:35+00:00

Well, that's going to make us rush back to the killing fields of matrimony, shame-faced.

Htrail1234 · 2022-09-22T17:23:29+00:00

So much for trying to find a partner in life. Think I need to crawl back under my rock....

OldEgalitarianMRA · 2022-09-22T19:34:02+00:00

What tradcon nonsense:

And as much as men love male company we’re rubbish without women. Our lives rapidly descend into chaos without them. Men need women. They make us better people. They help point our moral compass and they smell nice.

We are lost without women./s

spelczech · 2022-09-22T21:22:55+00:00

Women want men to be:

-Emotionally available

To what end? So you can throw it back in our faces in the next argument? For you to share it with your friends? For you to lose attraction for us, as we are now not the strong, stoic man you fell in love with? Or do you mean just listen to you and your problems without judgement or comment?

-A good communicator

Right back at you, ladies. How many men here have tried to get a partner to tell you what's bugging them only to get: "nothing", or you will find out from your friends something is up with your SO rather than from your SO directly.

-Share similar values

The only item on the list that is undeniably true. Couples with similar values have better, longer relationships.

dw87190 · 2022-09-22T18:45:13+00:00

The misandry dripping from this exceeds the sum of TwoX, Witches and FDS

oldaccountblocked · 2022-09-23T07:10:24+00:00

Im single now and since i dont have to waste money on nonsense bullshit anymore, my bank account is quite swelled now from all the money usually spent on bullshits i dont need. If thats useless, then yes, i am useless.

dshakes6628 · 2022-09-22T21:07:07+00:00

Crap like this is why the only women I’ll hold doors for anymore are older ones. These new young psychopaths can do so much without men let them handle it all. Not my problem what they’re mad about.

DecimatingDarkDeceit · 2022-09-23T12:48:38+00:00

Shaming / Chastising men back into the plantation / serfdom huh ? tradcons tried it, never worked

DavidByron2 · 2022-09-22T19:39:59+00:00

Men are responsible for everything bad, obviously. Standard feminist dogma that has nothing to do with the topic of relationships.

pappo4ever · 2022-09-23T08:55:32+00:00

Absolutely no remorse nor pity for lonely women. They consider us trash, they deserve what is coming to them.

Evolution will take care of them, they will die-off massively, and only good women will reproduce.

bbog_37 · 2022-09-22T20:13:43+00:00

When society collapses and it will collapse, the expectation will be that men rebuild it. Then maybe women start having an appreciation for men again but I won't be surprised if nothing changes.

Poet_2413 · 2022-09-23T17:35:34+00:00

The original article only refers to men who are unhappy with being single and feel lonely which appears to be a growing group of people. On the other side there is also a growing group of single women who are very happy about that, in fact they are the happiest subgroup. So it’s neither about men who chose to be single nor about unhappy women who desperately want to be in a relationship but about analysing why one specific group can’t seem to find a partner and feels bad an the other one don’t want one and feel good.

shit-zen-giggles · 2022-09-22T22:41:23+00:00

For the most part the author reproduces the situation correctly. His critiques of the primary reference are on point.

I find it somewhat disappointing that everyone here just jumps at that one paragraph that fell short.

Billy-Batdorf · 2022-09-23T16:52:30+00:00

why would you post something so gay in defense of heterosexuality.

Anih1list · 2022-09-23T17:43:11+00:00

The original article actually claims the OPPOSITE of what the linked response thinks it does. The original blames male loneliness on rising standards due to dating apps, and says NOTHING about toxicity. It proposes improving emotional communication and job skills, which is just a good idea in any situation. I actually have a problem with the idea individual action by men can counteract a systemic trend, but I can make that criticism because I ACTUALLY READ THE ORIGINAL ARTICLE

almostadaddy · 2022-09-26T03:15:49+00:00

Broken people come in both sexes, and many of these broken people like to blame the other sex for their own dysfunction.

I think that about sums it up.

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