In a healthy relationship you should be able to discuss anything, especially situations where disagreements will arise and both parties will need to compromise for the betterment of the relationship. That being said, there are some instances (such as incorporating toys in the bedroom) where compromise isn’t really possible and 1 side has to give in order for things to work.

In this hypothetical scenario, let’s say the man isn’t very kinky/adventurous in the bedroom, but he’s willing to give into your wants and desires in order to satisfy you for the sake of preserving the relationship, women shouldn’t feel obligated to reciprocate in kind because he already consented and will have a much harder time finding a new sexual partner than a woman would.

Moreover, if a woman is seen as the more dominant figure in the bedroom, (ex: you’ve incorporated penis sleeves, dildos, orgasm denial, forced oral, dirty talking about hotwifing), offering to explore his kinks would essentially kill the mood you’ve established.