How would you want your husband to see you: she's so cute or she's so hot/sexy

babyegirll · 2022-10-27T15:58:29+00:00

I like that he sees me as both! I enjoy being able to be either or both whenever I decide. When he calls me cute I feel so submissive and loved, and when he calls me hot or compliments my body it makes me excited to know that I turn him on. I love knowing that I can be both and it makes me satisfied knowing I fulfill his needs that way I suppose.

undothatbutton · 2022-10-27T16:02:55+00:00

I am cute. I know hot women, who are just naturally hot. I wouldn’t want that burden. They get sooo much more male attention and most of it is not in a good way. I don’t even like the male attention I get already.

My husband calls me cute, beautiful, gorgeous, sometimes hot and sexy. Sometimes I intentionally try to be hotter or sexier, and I appreciate the extra attention (from him, I would never want other men’s attention like that), but honestly my husband constantly showers me with compliments anyway. Sometimes he calls me hot/sexy when I’m not ‘trying’ and I don’t mind at all, because I know he doesn’t mean it in any degrading way. He just genuinely finds me hot/sexy (and the other things he calls me.) He also compliments other traits of mine, like my intelligence, cooking, charm, mothering, etc. so I feel like it’s very balanced and sweet. I wouldn’t like if he only ever used more “sexualized” compliments.

Teacup000 · 2022-10-27T20:21:36+00:00

I'm on Team Cute until the clothes come off.

DarmakJalad · 2022-10-27T16:20:33+00:00

Cute! It’s a more holistic compliment and one I can identify with more than hot.

_Pumpkin_Muffin · 2022-10-27T16:46:27+00:00

Why choose? I want to be "awwww adorable" AND "You. Me. Bedroom." Both are important.

farachun · 2022-10-27T23:35:44+00:00

Cute on the street, Hot on the sheets 🥵

halloweeninstepford · 2022-10-27T21:03:28+00:00

I suppose both are ok, but I prefer being thought of as sexy. I look young for my age, which is a positive thing. But, I dislike being thought of as "young and cute" as it's usually meant in a condescending way. That attitude has never come from my partner, when he calls me cute it's a positive thing in his eyes. But to me, I'm a grown woman, I have an hourglass shape, when I'm dressed up to go out, I want to be sexy!

hissyyfit1 · 2022-10-27T23:10:44+00:00

Idk I don’t think hot necessarily brings temporary fun. Some of the longest married men I’ve known throughout my life referred to their wives as hot, even in their 60s. Plus for some people it does take effort to be hot but there are some effortlessly hot women out there and then you have to consider that “hot” to some guys can mean a moderately attractive girl (which also means cute to a lot of guys) who has an amazing personality or specific characteristics they like (like interests or something as simple as how they move/act, etc).

I used to really struggle with how I wanted to be seen because I’m short, thin, and curvy. My face looks youngish, I have a high pitched voice, and my mannerisms aren’t very sophisticated tbh. Like my body and my personality don’t really match so it’s been confusing trying to navigate but I think for me, I’d like to strike a balance between cute and hot. Hot doesn’t only need to be in the bedroom or looking sexy, cute can mean more than docility or meekness. My bf has made me feel so secure because he calls me hot and cute which makes me feel like the whole package, so to speak :)

mihapiha · 2022-10-28T15:07:13+00:00

Personally I differ between a few terms when it comes to women, and I feel that most men understand these differently as well.

"She's cute" means she's got a youthful appearance, usually means she's cuddly (or rather, I'd want to cuddle with her), she looks like she needs and wants protection (which hits something men desire), but it's the opposite of "sexy". Meaning both are visually pleasing but "sexy" would be more "mature" in look, something that says she's decisive and looks like she already knows what she wants. So rather than cuddly and cute, you'd be quite serious with "sexy" because you get the feeling she won't like you being youthful, playing around or something like that. "Cute" is really good.
"She's hot" means body only. That just implies a sexy figure and most women can choose to become sexy by undressing. Even those who're "cute" can be sexy when they want to. The natural energy is just more of a sexual desire, than anything other. So while I'd want to cuddle with "cute", I want to be quite more dominant and take care of of "sexy" for an hour or two. What happens after sex, is a bit of a problem with women who are "just sexy". You have to find a connection point with a woman beyond sex for proper relationships.
"She's beautiful" means nothing really. Anything and everything can be beautiful, even a painting or her character. So that's a term men tend to use to describe her in a positive but vague way.
"She's pretty" means she's really really beautiful in a very objective way and meets a ton of beauty-standards. It's basically a "modest" way of how men tell other guys that he hit a visual jackpot. - Oh and it implies things from the neck up. So it implies a very beautiful face usually.
"She's attractive" means "she's perfect to me the way she is, and I don't care if you agree or not". It's what I think any woman should want to hear from her own man. If he says that, it implies that you (and you specifically) have features which he may not even be able to point out, but which lifts you ahead of other woman for your man. It is something super subjective to him, but that one thing he goes crazy for, and he really won't care if other guys or family agree with him or not.

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Title: How would you want your husband to see you: she's so cute or she's so hot/sexy

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inthacut12 · 2022-10-27T21:01:26+00:00

Mix of both. Whichever part of my persona I identify with that day ig 💅🏼

jenna_grows · 2022-10-27T22:28:26+00:00

My husband? Hot.

Everyone else? Cute.

breemakin · 2022-10-27T23:30:22+00:00

I am both adorable and sexy lol

gd_reinvent · 2022-10-28T01:28:29+00:00

My boyfriend sees me as precious.

Title	How would you want your husband to see you: she's so cute or she's so hot/sexy
Author	19000israa
Upvotes	45
Comments	17
Date	October 27, 2022 3:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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