It's so hard being a drunk, fat single mom who $o want$ to $tart a traditional family 😢🎻

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2021-03-21T16:09:40+00:00

Wanting a traditional family but producing the child first is fucking preposterous, in the technical sense of placing before what should come after. It’s dating, engagement, marriage then child. It’s not, fuck, fuck, fuck, then child, then dating then marriage.

YouSaidChicken · 2021-03-21T16:08:16+00:00

She made her choices. This is exactly what she wanted. Fucking willy nilly, spurting out kids she can't afford, being Chad's little cum dumpster, she just didn't realize life changes.

Oh well. I keep assuming I'll regret my decisions. Keeps not happening. Maybe I should have a kid I can't afford.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-03-21T16:37:47+00:00

"Single momma" you ignorant slut, a traditional family does NOT include little bastards from all the fornicating you did.

You've made your choices. Now live with the consequences.

Roauster · 2021-03-21T16:44:47+00:00

I think the final comment of never wanting a traditional family but wanting more babies is incredibly dangerous. That is how men end up paying 18 years of support. Not only will she ruin her next victim's life, she will also ruin her future childrens lives. This is why I don't date anymore.

One-Move · 2021-03-21T18:39:11+00:00

After a bad experience i will not date single mothers. Ok i told some after they asked what they would need to do for a relationship to put the other mans kid up for adoption, did not go well, the screeching intensified.

Martellus732 · 2021-03-21T17:27:55+00:00

I want traditional benefits but not the traditional responsibilities.

A "born-again tradcon" or TradHOT

loneliness-inc · 2021-03-21T16:36:54+00:00

Didnt know about the violin emoji. Thank you I'll be using it from now on.

Buchwild · 2021-03-21T19:21:32+00:00

Try being a man born with inferior genetics and you'll get an even worse outcome. There have been experiments where women disguise themselves as men on OLD and in real life to get the male experience and most of them get very sad and depressed at how they're treated. I'm convinced if she were forced to deal with the struggles of being a man she would be heavily medicated and suicidal.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-03-21T16:46:54+00:00

Strong, independent women?

GreatMidnight · 2021-03-21T19:25:25+00:00

Feeling insecure about your body? OMG you poor thing LOSE SOME FUCKING WEIGHT.

ShortWarrior · 2021-03-21T21:38:47+00:00

I want a traditional family, I want babies, I want my kid to have a sibling.

Oh, and I guess I want a husband or whatever.

imdaad_khan · 2021-03-21T19:00:23+00:00

Single mom here too it is super hard but it does get better 😊

Yep. It gets better when they eventually accept that they are P&D material and their “relationships” will never amount to much, if anything.

2021-03-21T17:16:46+00:00

I would bet my bottom dollar her father was either absent from birth or a complete pushover. Why? Because it is the father's job to correct bad behaviour. She is throwing herself a pity party for her own, dumb decisions. She should not post about her life being a dumpster fire, she should just be ashamed. The type of shame you only learn to feel when there is a father figure telling you basic things like: "It is wrong to be a useless b*tch"

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-03-21T20:32:30+00:00

When I see posts like this, my advice is to run. Those kids are going to grow up, and mama is teaching them to hate you. Eventually it will all collapse, but they'll drag as many of us down with them as they can

BanjoWalrus · 2021-03-21T17:28:37+00:00

Kinda blew up any hope of traditional by starting out nontraditional huh?

newtomtl83 · 2021-03-21T16:39:34+00:00

What a mess

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-03-21T17:30:16+00:00

Well, my insight, advice, and guidance would be to sober up, lose weight, and exercise, but I'm sure that's not what she wants to hear.

Old_snowboarder · 2021-03-21T19:33:58+00:00

My advice would be to invent a time machine, don't get fat and unfuck yourself.

happychickenpalace · 2021-03-22T01:44:09+00:00

If you are insecure about your body step out of reddit and exercise. It's not that hard.

42252252 · 2021-03-22T13:05:28+00:00

Here's some friendly advice: lose weight. It's that simple.

ImNot_Your_Mom · 2021-03-21T23:52:24+00:00

Her being overweight is not hindrance to confidence, it is hindrance to her VALUE for men.

2021-03-22T02:24:27+00:00

Lose weight, hope for the best

2021-03-22T06:36:44+00:00

Definitely the type of woman that’s going to end up getting her kid abused.

Strogen_Mikok · 2021-03-24T18:14:08+00:00

Its been said before ill say it again. Women want their cake and they want to eat it too.

They want to do whatever they want and blow their value to men away (literally) for a decade then do a 360 and beg for a traditional relationship.

From the man.

They want a traditional relationship, from the man, but are literally incapable of giving their half of the traditional relationship anymore and men have decided no deal.

Enough-Staff-2976 · 2021-03-22T01:38:29+00:00

What happens, happen. They made a choice, your body your choice. Right?

Blogginginvicecity · 2021-03-22T17:49:21+00:00

I want a traditional family more than anything.

I bet your son would have liked that too.

In the comments

No more traditional family for me, but I want more babies 🤮

2021-03-22T18:15:38+00:00

Fat, drunk, and single mom is no way to go through life, honey.

TheNoNonsenseMofo · 2021-03-22T18:22:32+00:00

Alarm bells are ringing. Those poor bastards she's talking to better run for the hills!

2021-03-22T21:21:21+00:00

"She's struggling with sharing her kids now that her relationship is over."

Newsflash, lady. They're the father's kids, too. Somehow they always forget that a father is more than a child support payment.

2021-03-22T22:04:08+00:00

Yeah. I've got some advice.

--don't drunkpost on Reddit. You'll go back and read this and cringe. Like I'm doing now.

--Lose weight.

--Don't view dating with an eye toward giving your 4 year old a half-sibling. You're gonna be damn lucky to find any man willing to date you at all, much less father a child with you, much less give you a "traditional" family.

--you had a shot at a traditional family. Where's the father of your 4 year old? Why aren't you with him?

--get therapy for your loneliness and Covid isolation related trauma.

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-03-22T22:11:36+00:00

No matter where you are in life, or how many mistakes you've made you can take steps to make yourself the best you can be - something that seems to never occur to these women.

reignoferror00 · 2021-03-23T00:25:40+00:00

You no longer need shots in the stomach if you contract actual rabies. Is there something in development to treat "baby rabies"?

2021-04-06T10:36:44+00:00

“It is super hard but it does get better”

What kind of logic is that? If you are a two now, will you magically become a 5 couple of years from now?.

Pie_sky · 2021-03-22T10:16:56+00:00

Single mom here too it is super hard but it does get better

How the fuck is it getting better?

Alternative-Ad-1464 · 2021-04-14T10:39:58+00:00

I have a simple 2step-plan
1. lose weight

dont be a single mon

calioilguy · 2021-06-29T18:41:58+00:00

So damn Sexy

It's so hard being a drunk, fat single mom who $o want$ to $tart a traditional family 😢🎻

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Title	It's so hard being a drunk, fat single mom who $o want$ to $tart a traditional family 😢🎻
Author	loneliness-inc
Upvotes	211
Comments	98
Date	March 21, 2021 4:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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