If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game?

reeeeadnendn · 2023-03-28T13:10:48+00:00

Pretty much, it’s already shown that the strongest predictor for attraction for both sexes was a partners’ physical attractiveness, which includes homosexual people as well. Not to mention in one study, men found 61% of women attractive, whereas women only found 4.5% of men attractive.

Anecdotally, sex workers often joke about finding most men repulsive and tune out frequently. In addition, lying about being okay with virginity/short height/small penises for the sake of facilitating the monetary transaction in their favor.

To conclude, the average woman has very little interest in sex with the average man; they want the top men, which is what gets them sexually excited. They can tolerate sex with an average man if they know him for a long time and tune him out.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-03-28T15:26:43+00:00

This is all true. It's why women demand comittment, emotional investment, provision, and time for them to have sex with average men but require none of those things out of good looking men in order to have sex.

infinitofluxo · 2023-03-28T14:28:07+00:00

The 80/20 rule is an approximation of the female behavior. They aim for the men better than them. 20% of men is wanted by virtually every women. But they don't want every woman, they take the best ones. Then the ones that can't have them will deal with the ones slightly under and it goes on until there is a mass of men that are unwanted and will have trouble wanting the bottom women because they are uglier than them, fatter.

In a perfect world, women would look at men horizontally, they would match the ones at their level and most people would find partners. The old traditions of marriage would force women to do it. Sexual freedom allows them to share the best men and have multiple partners and/or a high body count, so less men are getting a lot of sex from more women.

So if you rank women by their attraction power, they are all aiming for the top and the men ate aiming horizontally and under, men accept more women than women accept men so they are the majority of the sexless ones, or unhappilly single/want a relationship but can't find.

SoldierExcelsior · 2023-03-28T16:56:22+00:00

The rule is true but it's probably 90/10 now..a few men are sleeping with the majority of women untill those women settle with a betta in their 30s and 40s .

Some women will settle with Betas or Alphas in their 20s have some babies and finnancialy grape them it's called the praying mantis dating syrategy.

ComfortableOk5003 · 2023-03-28T14:56:56+00:00

Sex drops exponentially more in an LTR on the women’s side this is also researched/proven

platinirisms · 2023-03-28T12:57:19+00:00

Previous studies have suggested when you take into account relationship satisfaction, health, and finances, the age of the relationship has little to no effect on how often the couple have sex.

The reason sex drops off after the honeymoon phase is directly correlated to the fact these couples stop trying to entertain their partners and effectively stop ‘dating’ or stop putting in effort.

BufferG108 · 2023-04-13T23:47:36+00:00

It's called a "competition" for a reason; it really is zero-sum.

Title	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game?
Author	iliyb
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Date	March 28, 2023 12:42 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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