Plan for nun mode

__CitrusJellyfish · 2023-06-04T22:50:34+00:00

How do you plan on paying for multiple major surgeries without a job? Not trying to be snarky, just being realistic considering it may take you 10+ years to save enough (on top of paying for all your other general living expenses).

I would start with the weight loss goal. Increase daily steps to 10k, begin to track calories (intake) with MFP, join a gym and get a trainer to teach you basic lifts. Build a booty in the gym, loose some body fat, and you may find that you do not need the BBL or tummy tuck. Loosing weight and getting fit requires more time and discipline than money, so start there.

Dehydrated_Jellyfish · 2023-06-05T01:04:34+00:00

"get a tummy tuck, BBL, forehead reduction, maybe breast aug and get my jaw shaved depending on what the surgeon says"

Hard pass. All those have consequences with age. It's not about just being pretty but keeping looks with age. Plastic surgery rarely ages well, unless it comes with more plastic surgery.

Agreeable-Comedian24 · 2023-06-04T19:59:49+00:00

Some things on this list are great, and losing weight to be healthy is a no brainer. But plastic surgery, lots of make up, and even hair extensions are pushing it. If you look too fake you will attract the wrong men, even if they seem high value at first. You will also limit your options, ‘regular’ guys won’t be able to afford you. At some point your partner will see the real you, make up scraped off and fake hair removed. You need to happy with that version of yourself or you will never be happy.

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-06-04T19:57:38+00:00

I wouldn't do anything extreme to your appearance. Insurance almost certainly will not cover it, leaving you saddled with unnecessary medical debt (definitely not a wife material move) plus the procedures themselves can be so risky. I knew a woman who almost died getting a BBL.

Even hair dye and extensions can be taxing on a budget. Highlights are usually the most doable thing to keep up, so if you want to get something, get those, but the extensions shouldn't be necessary because hair does grow out. You're at a prime age to see good growth per month. Try a shampoo that's designed to stimulate growth. :)

I would add "get out of debt and stay there" and "learn personal finance starting with budgeting".

zi_ang · 2023-06-04T22:29:47+00:00

Too many things you’re trying to achieve all at once. This is high risk for exhaustion or mental breakdown. I’d suggest starting with one and carrying it through. (For example, it’s no small feat for anyone to lose 40 lbs, and accomplishing it will give you tremendous confidence for you to achieve the next item on the list)

northernbelle96 · 2023-06-04T20:58:02+00:00

Tbh this list reads like a generic "how to become that girl" list plus some pretty unnecessary borderline toxic points. It is lacking specificity and defines goals very broadly. It is also a lot to take on at once so you might end up not doing most of it and then put yourself down for not "making it" although it was unrealistic to begin with. What is your motivation behind each of these points?

Remodeling your entire body with plastic surgery and trying to become a completely different person solely for the sake of "getting a man" (bluntly speaking) is a very bad idea. It honestly sounds like you are just very very unhappy with yourself and lacking confidence, and no amount of makeup or new clothes or table manners is going to change that, you need to work on it from within. If you are truly confident in yourself and conduct yourself with grace and softness your physical traits don't matter that much really, as long as you are maintaining basic hygiene and take care of yourself to keep your body and mind healthy.

If I were you I would focus on developing basic healthy habits (eat healthy, drink enough water, work out/move your body at least 30min a day, get 8 hours of sleep every night) and glowing up from within: practice mindfulness, try to stop self-deprecating thoughts, treat yourself and those around you with kindness, etc.

MasterpieceFrosty938 · 2023-06-05T12:28:48+00:00

You can’t buy a personality. That’s what keeps a man. Work on being genuine and don’t focus on vain nonsense like all that

Ok-Mechanic9136 · 2023-06-05T03:55:18+00:00

Hi! I definitely would start slow. Habits are built daily. Doing too much at once will cause you to burn out and go back to old habits. I think in order to get things to stick you need to do it for you, not just men. That’s a slippery slope.

Start with getting a good gym routine and work on eating healthy. Working on being kind and sweet and going back to school sound great! I would be careful with surgery. I started with Botox at 26 then did a few fillers, nothing drastic, but I will say it can mess with your mental and can bring on a lot of body dysmorphia. Start slow and see how you feel. Losing weight will also change your face and body and you may find you don’t need to actually spend anything! Also, tummy tucks take months to recover from and you cant sit up for minimum a month to keep the stitches in tact.

I love the determination and new mindset though! You’re going to do great!

StructureNo3388 · 2023-06-05T05:05:45+00:00

Keep the points about going to the gym, reading the book, learning etiquette, and getting a job.

This is more that enough at one time.

Hopefully being successful with these points will lead to some of the others... such as losing weight, finding friends and hobbies, being able to buy clothes that work well for you and getting confident with makeup.

I would strike off all the points that require spending a lot of money up-front. Don't become fooled by industries that say you can buy a new personality.

You also don't need to surgically alter yourself or put fake hair on. At all.

Becoming 'kind and sweet' is admirable, but may require a lot of self reflection and even therapy to lean into. Finding yourself is a journey, acting sweet without feeling it is not genuine.

I don't mean to be rude, just concise. People can see insecurity from a mile away, and I don't want you to end up like that.

Enjoy your journey, your goals of self improvement are admirable, and you can achieve a life where you are truly proud of yourself if you take it slowly, be consistant, and be gentle with yourself.

Hugs!

CauliflowerElegant76 · 2023-06-05T13:04:04+00:00

Honestly, instead of getting all those surgeries, you’re better off staying consistent at the gym. Gym has many benefits and will boost your confidence and self esteem. Personally, after working out consistently for 3-4 months, I gained 4 cm in my hips while my waist stayed the same. It looks much better than a BBL and even my friends and family have noticed a change in my body. I pretty much have an ideal waist-to-hip ratio now and my self confidence has improved a lot. I finally know what it’s like to check myself out in the mirror.

I haven’t seen a single BBL that looks good. You can always tell they’ve had one bc the butt is saggy and jiggly and legs are not toned or muscular. If you work out, your body will look so much better than surgery. Plus there are many health risks with plastic surgery and some ppl go too far with it.

Looking good shouldn’t be the only motivation to work out, there are many health benefits and it improves mental health. Imo this is the one thing you should prioritize in your nun mode, everything else can kind of tie into staying consistent at the gym.

AutoModerator · 2023-06-04T19:51:25+00:00

Title: Plan for nun mode

Full text: Hi! I recently got out of a situationship and am ready to buckle down and become wife material.

Here is what I'm going to do:

Lose 70 lbs (I technically only need to lose 40, but I figure 70 will really make me attractive
become kind and sweet
read Home Comforts cover to cover and implement housekeeping in my day to day life
get a color analyst to profile me
get a job and possibly go back to school (I'm 25 with no college degree)
learn how to dress/buy nice clothes
learn how to do makeup, buy a bunch of makeup, wear makeup every day
get a tummy tuck, BBL, forehead reduction, maybe breast aug and get my jaw shaved depending on what the surgeon says
get a gym membership and start going to the gym
get hair extensions)my hair dyed
get hobbies and friends
learn etiquette and especially table manners

What do you think? Is there anything I am missing?

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TheFruitofKnowledge · 2023-06-06T05:40:46+00:00

A lot of these require a significant amount of money and you list many specific items that are surface level but kind of gloss over/are vague about the more internal items (become kind and sweet, get hobbies and friends).

Start with the health stuff, find a type of exercise you enjoy so that you will stick with it (counts as a hobby too!). Don't try to make too many changes at once. How are you supporting yourself financially now? Don't take out student loans without a serious plan. Maybe look at vocational schooling programs? How does one become kind and sweet? Make a point of deliberately thinking about others more and changing your thought processes to be more positive. Maybe journal about it. Stop worrying about the collapse of civilization and just live your life today.

If you're really itching to make physical appearance changes, try a small amount of affordable, light makeup (light blush, line upper lash line, mascara, this tinted chapstick). A different hairstyle or bangs could be more flattering for your jaw/forehead without having to do something so drastic as surgery. You can try on hairstyles online now. I wouldn't bother with extensions, in the time it takes you to make all these changes you could grow it out really long if you take care of it. Hair dye has to be $$ maintained $$ and looks crappy when the roots come in. Hair health is more important.

littlecloudxo · 2023-06-22T09:14:01+00:00

What’s your plan to lose the 70 pounds? How long do you think it will take you?

Title	Plan for nun mode
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