Going to bounce this off the group real quick.

My exwife (finalized divorce April 2023) has been seeing someone new for about 6ish weeks now. She seems to be happier, which makes me jealous. (She is the one who asked for the divorce.) I told her yesterday that I’ve been having sexual fantasies and dreams about her and us, and that I wanted to be intimate with her IRL again, as that is something that we did very well together.

She told me yesterday that her and her new suitor have done everything but have sex.

Question 1: what does that even mean? (I couldn’t get this comment out of my head and heart all night.)

Question 2: what do I need to do to get past my intense feelings for her? (I’ve been with other people since our divorce and being with someone else doesn’t change my feelings I have for my exwife.)