Thirteen year Anniversary coming up. We are in early parts of starting separation both of us just paying attorney retainer this week. Want to get through day safely and quietly grey rock style. Two young girls that don’t know what’s going on yet. That will be another hard punch in the side for a later time.

STBXW ultra high emotions can snap at any wrong thing said or done master manipulator immunity to apologize. Any suggestions or ideas to help get through this day safely in effort to carry on the Civil path would be much appreciated.