STBX and I have been split for a few months now. My gut had been telling me for awhile that she was done with the relationship. All the signs of cheating etc. Well she had me convinced i was crazy and there was nothing. Well over a few months of investigation i came up with this list about the neighbour we had that moved out at the same time as our seperation. You tell me was i crazy and assuming? 1. First day of seperation goes up to him and says "If you are ever single hit me up", then exchanged snapchat info and snapped every day since then inlcuding middle of the night. 2. Finding notes about him, where he now lived, his past, and his intrests, 3. Finding a note written in third person about how if they had any feelings for her to give her a shot (she never sent it and claimed her therapist had her write it to see if she had feelings and it proved she didnt) 4. Google search history from months back way before the supposed issues started searches such as "sex with hot neighbour when husband not home" "sex with neighbour after jog" (She was jogging a ton and would stop to talk to him nearly every night). When i asked about these they were just fantasies and the neighbour one is common so thats all that was... sure lol 5. Google search for "how to ask for an open marriage without divorcing" (Apparently this was because i had asked for it, when i know for a fact i never had) 7. Googling "second chance with crush/love intrest" during the middle of our seperation when she had stopped messaging him for awhile after i told her to stop. (Apparently those were about me... sure) She started up messaging him again shortly after again. Well my gut told me she was full of shit. So i did the logical thing. Collected all the evidence. Sent it to the neighbours girlfreind and told her to watch out. She made him block her on the spot. That was 3 days ago. And she has not been doing well since then, and suddenly starts texting me more and telling me how she never wanted this divorce (I gave her an ultimatium to commit to therapy with me or divorce and she chose divorce) Never backed down once since then. But ya "she didnt want this divorce" i forced her into it she says.

Anyways i know they say revenge isnt good but damn did it feel good to have the guy block her without giving her a heads up.

I have been feeling like shit and that i was crazy for not trusting her. Now though i realize my gut was right. I wasnt fucking crazy.

Hope you enjoy life STBXW