I am SO sick of there not being ANYWHERE for men to talk of women abusers/liars. I have been banned from so many so called Reddit "help/care" subs just for even asking people tone down THEIR anti male comments-let alone me posting about abusive women!!

Alarming_Draw · 2024-01-02T16:09:38+00:00

Most of the "help" subs are just full of anti male hate with posts like "why do ALL men..." (then something thats bullshit and very negative and stereotyping-and it gets COUNTLESS upvotes and supportive comments).

Then you try posting ANYTHING even SLIGHTLY critical of ONE woman from your life who did anything bad to you and you get INSTANTLY banned for "sexism"...!!!!

And the same goes for so called phone "helplines". They are nothing of the sort-they are staffed by even more man hating women or self loathing men who literally will not let you say ONE word against ANY woman, EVER!! But just try calling up and saying some sexist thing against men and you'll get sympathy and warmth and kindness...(!!)

What the FUCK happened to the world? One day I just woke up and there it was-I suddenly found myself to be the hated minority, excluded from the world, from basic human rights, from fairness and from equality!! NO reason or justifications other than "Well YOURE a MALE!" - as if that justifies hating on me!

squeakh_lw · 2024-01-02T17:22:10+00:00

Nearly every online space like reddit and others are pro feminist and generally anti man as a result. They have infiltrated EVERYWHERE

At least men still have a few subs here on reddit they can go to like MensRights, LeftWingMaleAdvocates and Egalitarianism subs. There's also the ones in the links on the sidebar too.

Not sure about the MaleMentalHealth sub though, whether that is pro man or also infiltrated by feminists too.

A shame really that any woman who is bad has excuses made up by feminists to tone down or dismiss how bad she is or somehow the feminists find a way to blame men for it. Meanwhile if a man does something remotely bad or off the feminists go to town on it, claiming their points are proven and true and so therefore ......

MAN BAAAAAAD

As usual. We just can't escape this when the establishment, elites, politicians and the media are also pushing the feminist narrative.

Captainsignificance · 2024-01-02T18:55:11+00:00

Men were too passive while feminist were building their anti men society. We didn’t fight back, we didn’t even try to defend ourselves while women were belittling men, saying that men are not needed and even worst things. Many men were and are still supporting the anti men agenda. Sadly, looking at all the statistics such as college education, income, political power, organization etc - I see a complete dominance of society by women in two decades or less. Most men are retreating into their shells and have largely given up because of the constant attacks that tell young men that they are not needed, that they are evil and that they are the cause of all that is bad in the world. Unfortunately men are on the way to becoming the dispensable workers, soldiers etc - 2nd class citizens ruled by women. If you extrapolate current statistics into the future, this scenario is clearly the future.

Low-Storage3794 · 2024-01-02T17:25:37+00:00

As a female I was banned from many places and there is a real rabid gang of females whose sole job is to gang up and bully men it seems.

r_c2999 · 2024-01-02T17:30:08+00:00

dude tell me about it I went on the BPD loved one's sub and got banned, they are too controlling. they want you to obey the dsm when you're speaking about your abusive experience, idk shit about the dsm.

LettuceBeGrateful · 2024-01-03T04:56:37+00:00

The majority of established help/support subs are moderated by radfems who find it perfectly acceptable to shame and shit on men as a gender. They don't care, even when blatantly sexism like "all men wish they could rape" is written.

Then they tell us that we should talk about our feelings. Yeah, we try, then get told we're categorically predators and abusers.

UWontHearMeAnyway · 2024-01-02T20:09:51+00:00

This is a gynocentric society. Period. Everything revolves around women. They can blatantly decide towards men, downright hateful. But we can't even disagree without it turning into a huge ordeal. It's really like a dumpster fire. The best way to get rid of a dumpster fire is to let it burn itself out. Problem is, it might take a generation or 2. Once enough men go overseas to find wives, or straight out refuse to date, then women will die alone and miserable. The next generations will see that misery, and come back around to truth. Then, when they see happy nuclear families, thriving and fulfilled, they'll quickly flock, disregarding to failed previous generations of miserable women.

We men must come together though. Support each other in these terrible times. Give each other sound advice, and relearn how to take care of ourselves again, without the nurturing (that inevitably won't be given) that has been handled by women for a while.

In other words, they will be like that. We just have to expect it, and help each other. Become cold towards these modern day harlots, hateful fembots. The good ones we need to encourage though. So, don't turn away good women. They are still out there.

Ok_Application_5460 · 2024-01-02T19:05:17+00:00

We need to start reporting women's hateful and abusive comments. Trust me, they do it a lot with men's comments. Men, in general, don't really report womens comments like they do. If we follow the rules and know for sure the comments are abusive and / or hateful, we can report them. They will get their comments deleted and warnings/strikes.

We also need a word to combat "incel" they can't do anything about a word that we make up.

I was thinking maybe loosepuss or baggylips

So when they say "incel energy," we can reply with "loosepuss energy" or "baggylips energy" lol

Just an idea

SnioperFi · 2024-01-02T20:08:00+00:00

I was gonna make a post about this, but it’s crazy how much misandry has thrived on Reddit. This is from my experience, so if you wanna ask me for sources go look for yourself it doesn’t take long.

Nearly every sub relating to issues around men and women, minus a few select subs like the anti feminist sub and a few discussion subs, will mass downvote or otherwise just ban you for disagreeing with mainline feminist ideology or being a victim that is male. This also extends to many other non political subs too like the circlejerk subs which will also ban you.

This isn’t even going over the true cesspool of the feminist subs, which are massive in membership compared to the MRA subs. Some of these have had a misandrist echo chamber going for more than ten years. The witches sub for example is comically misandrist and the femcels who frequent it would never try and have their views challenged. TwoXChromosomes is similarly awful and full of femcels with prejudice. The “women only” subs also devolve into misandry after a short time. The MensLib sub is a feminist sub disguised as a MRA sub and pushes patriarchy theory and toxic masculinity. Multiple times I’ve seen male victims treated as lesser in the comments.

Finally, do you think during the 2015 ad cleanup they got rid of these blatantly misandrist subs? Or at any other point in time they got rid of these subs? Of course not.

Make-TFT-Fun-Again · 2024-01-02T20:31:30+00:00

Honestly whenever i need relationship advice i just go on an alt and swap the genders. People are way nicer and understanding instead of just “youre the problem, so do xyz and beg for forgiveness”. The difference is crazy.

CarelessComplex9170 · 2024-01-02T22:29:04+00:00

I’ve just set up a subreddit called r/MaleSurvivorsofAbuse for guys to share their experiences of being abused

RatDontPanic · 2024-01-03T05:42:13+00:00

We need subs for abused men. We create our own spaces.

Acousmetre78 · 2024-01-03T19:41:27+00:00

I agree. I've been silent most of my life which led to more abuse by women. I was never able to speak about what my mom did to me.

Rdo889 · 2024-01-02T18:08:56+00:00

Just stay offline man, talk with friends if you have to. Online anonymity exacerbates any debate.

Bascome · 2024-01-02T21:30:06+00:00

Those places don't know how to help you.

Finding help isn't the same as finding someone who will pay attention to you.

Help isn't being allowed to express yourself.

Help is good advice from a source you can trust that is relevant and within your range of ability and action.

These do not exist on Reddit.

IcedCanadiano · 2024-01-03T02:03:38+00:00

Try going into r/marriage or r/relationship or r/relationship_advice or r/AmItheAsshole

The answer is that the majority of mainstream reddit is populated by deluded miserable sexist females

ERiC_693 · 2024-01-02T22:13:17+00:00

Its good that you're seeing it. This started on reddit in 2010 or so. In 2012 i left reddit as i saw it worsening.

I came back in 2019 or so and can see male views totally suppressed on reddit. Ultra leftist groups run riot. Its leftist ideology that males are seen as the oppressors and therefore are no victims of abuse by a female. End of. We see this in domestic abuse narratives from feminists "wot mayl viktims?" Is the feminist specialty.

This goes to all male issues, theres no male issues. Its leftist ideology from universities and its in HR depts, unis, school teachers are like this as you see boys lagging and female teachers are hostile to any discussions on boys unless as perpetrators.

These ideologies are everywhere and white females love it. Why wouldnt they? They benefit from it all.

BrokeMacMountain · 2024-01-03T21:51:22+00:00

I just saw on the front page of reddit, a post from Twox claiming "all mens problems are cause by men, and the patriarchy, and are not womens problems. "

As ever men are entirely to blame for mens problems, and womens problems. But women are not to blame for anyhthing.

Successful_Video_970 · 2024-01-04T03:09:54+00:00

Seriously men out there. Things will change.Even those pussy men that pretend to be feminists because they’re actually too week to stand up for what they actually believe. They say one thing to us and one thing to another of their feminist wife or friends. Unfortunately most woman find men with no balls very unattractive and it will eventually fail and these week men will join us because they will end up having allegations of Domestic violence in family disputes when the woman are sick and tired of them and so it can’t last because we find these feminists as unattractive because they turn a blind eye to every bad thing a woman has ever done. They were Queens They were slave owners. There are con artists woman. There are woman who perform all forms of abuse but not if you are a feminist, politician trying to buy votes or a journalist reading some politically driven facts. It’s just men and we need to protect women and children. What a joke.

Successful_Video_970 · 2024-01-03T00:35:23+00:00

Hi mate. Don’t worry. Men don’t speak up because they’re scared of getting abused by these women for speaking the truth. Just remember that they’re upset with you and kick you of their social chats sites because they know you’re right and that the truth hurts and that if they were to do a census on the subject of feminism, domestic abuse, and the fact that men are all horrible that these feminists would get a real shock. Honestly if it keeps going the way it’s going these feminists won’t be able to find a man because eventually men’s balls will come back and more men like you will speak up. I do as I just had my kids taken off me for no reason apart from a narcissistic woman lying to a cop. I had proof of her lies with a video and cctv and no one was interested and cops say sorry it will never get investigated and these situations never go any further unless you have money to go to civil court like Johnny Depp. That’s why when these fact sheets with woman never lie in Domestic Violence come out it’s because you can’t get them charged with perjury. It’s a Woman’s World. Imagine we made a Barbie movie? The backlash from woman would be astounding and this is in everything in life.

Alarmed-Rent-5384 · 2024-01-02T19:45:16+00:00

Feel u aloot, there is aloot of pandering to women in media nowadays. They might say oh but in the old days there where aloot of pandering and haloes put on men and maybe thats true but now its like the pendulum has swung to the other side and its affecting men aloot. Plus its so ingrained in most people from movies and such wich makes fun of female abusers and downplay how bad it can be for men.

asianfoodtofulover · 2024-01-03T16:14:24+00:00

Domestic abuse and rape are not gendered issues. Feminists will sometimes try to tell you they are because women experience them more, but that doesn’t make it automatically a gendered issue by any means.

Lesbians actually have the highest rate of domestic abuse. Feminists will sometimes respond to it with “it was from a man.” I’m not sure if they understand what a lesbian is then. Even if a lesbian dated men before she came out, she still probably dated less men than the average straight woman so it doesn’t make sense why lesbians would be be experiencing domestic abuse more and not less if it was supposedly all from men.

avoidingpsychos · 2024-01-03T17:09:49+00:00

Last night, my daughter's mom inadvertently shared that she has a new boyfriend by sending me live photos of my kid and I can hear a man's voice in the background. My daughter also tipped me off on him a few weeks ago, mentioning his name. She's only two years old and can't communicate effectively. My daughter's mom put her in the situation of her having to reveal this to me... And then it turns out that this guy has been in her life for a year now. He was even at her birthday party last March and the mother hid it from me. All of her and friends and family were in on it.

I shared this situation in one of the "co-parenting with a narcissist" Facebook support groups and the post was declined by an admin. But any and every little gripe moms have with the fathers gets posted. I'm seriously feeling awful about this and don't know where else to go and thought I could share there, but it turns out that they don't care. I've learned that my place is to just shut up and deal with it. Like you said, OP, there's really nowhere where men can go.

Sam__Toucan · 2024-01-03T10:13:00+00:00

There are places, just not on reddit

Nasty_PlayzYT · 2024-01-03T10:36:45+00:00

The Tin-man discord is not a bad place to start, if you want to share your experiences.

Also, we should try and form more support groups for men, preferably online, considering anything physical will get shut down by "Feminists that believe in equality"🙄🙄🙄

gigachud1337 · 2024-01-07T22:28:24+00:00

4chan

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