Let's discuss about Male Sex drive and sexism against men .

walterwallcarpet · 2024-01-26T11:57:33+00:00

Are all men dogs, as the more extreme elements of feminism see us? Perhaps, within this contemptuous phrase, there is a grain of truth in how we are viewed by ALL women, who are more concerned with the reproductive aspects of sex. They don't seem to appreciate that our sex drive is essential for their business model. Man is born free, but is everywhere in chains - courtesy of his sex drive.

Well, at least we attempt to be HONEST dogs, devising systems of fairness and justice to the benefit of EVERYONE, not least women & children, whose relative vulnerability has always been respected by men. But, these days, we are seeing the results of female incursion into the realm of politics and law. Male deontic values are replaced by base, female utilitarian motives, with outcomes which are deliberately designed to disadvantage the male. The perceived female gains will, inevitably, be short-term. There aren't enough alpha males in existence. Soon, even they will find the 'harassment' laws insuperable.

Ken Jataimu 'We Won't Need Gillette When the Taliban Arrive.'

GuysItsGalxy · 2024-01-26T12:36:40+00:00

It's really funny this conversation still exists... Because women partake in casual sex far more frequently than men

Wouldn't that show it's not just "man horny ooga booga"?

On top of this if you look at the lgb community lesbians have more frequent sexual misconduct between each other leading the hypothesis to be down to experiences and circumstance

Are there people willing to just fuck anyone anytime? For sure

Are they only men? Definitely not

There's a correlation between being mentally ill and frequent engagement in casual sex, the distinction isn't clear on which causes the other or what not but studies do show a link, in which case most people engaging in frequent casual sex are mentally ill

On top of that those living in specific regions which view sex or nudity in general in a different light will come to another culture and just be baffled by how it's treated, some cultures frown upon nudity and some do not... And its shown those in which frown upon nudity or find it taboo are much more sexually charged causing the ever worsening sexual pandemic in the west.

Ultimately it will come down to many different variables but again as I stated women engage in casual sex far more frequently, leading to the conclusion it's not some inherent male trait

UnconventionalXY · 2024-01-26T13:48:05+00:00

A high sex drive doesn't correlate to body count if its expression is held hostage by women's choice and judicial suppression of breaking consent.

A low sex drive doesn't correlate to body count if there are no barriers to expression (eg a large number of frustrated men lined up to service any woman open to sex any time she wants it, but not vice versa).

Prostitution is not cheap assuming it is even legal in a location and wealth is often a characteristic feeding into womens choice to have sex, meaning its the least able to pay for sex who may need it the most.

Men can redirect their sex drive into an alternate release mechanism as a result of circumstance, but it's still often viewed as excessive by women who want to control it completely for their own benefit.

The patriarchy is a myth because men can not engineer a society where it is easier for them to get sex when women are given absolute control over men's sexual expression through consent according to only their subjective wants and not the objective needs of society. Consent is an ethical development of civilisation, but it is also a terrible power when it is abused as a tool of extortion and unreasonable choice by women, just like coercion through greater strength could be used as a tool of extortion by men in the past. Now men have no power to do anything women don't want and women do not have reason to moderate the power they now have over men: the imbalance in power is a recipe for disaster.

If subjective choice is not allied with reason and responsibility, as is the situation now with women, there is no limit on the expression of human vice: power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. You can see it in women not obeying the very consent laws they use to control men, to control themselves.

barkmagician · 2024-01-26T15:04:50+00:00

There are far more women who dress like perverts compared to men

Joker_01884 · 2024-01-26T11:24:21+00:00

Theories and studies say something but actions are very different.

Milk--and--honey · 2024-01-26T12:57:26+00:00

Men have higher sex drives but that doesn't mean they have no self control. Most men don't cheat on their wives even if they could

Aardwolfington · 2024-01-26T14:38:15+00:00

Every woman I've been with has had a higher sex drive than me.

It's actually kind of frustrating because it seems a lot of women seem to put a lot of their worth into being a sex object in exchange for the male being their dancing monkey, bodygaurd, therapist, and sugar daddy.

If they can't purchase all that with just their body it's a blow to their ego and sense of self worth as they see men as single minded dogs that will do anything for sex and if we're not jumping at every opportunity it must mean we're not attracted to them or are getting something on the side with some other woman.

For many it never enters their mind that we may want more from the relationship than the sex object we're so often accused of treating them as. What's sad is, I've had girlfriends who admitted straight up, they didn't even know how to be there for someone else. Meaning even many that might realize aren't even prepared to give more or even know how.

In the end, for me, I want more from a relationship than a high maintenance sex doll. No women can use sex as a tool to manipulate or have power over me. It's not that I don't enjoy sex, I most certainly do. But I crave a true emotional connection far more, and if a woman can't or won't provide that, the sex is meaningless to me anyway. Sex is not a weapon, it's a mutually beneficial aspect of any relationship, or should be, and I refuse to allow it be weaponized and demeaned in such a way.

adam-l · 2024-01-26T14:51:48+00:00

Read my book where I specifically discuss the issue of male vs female sex drive.

WildAsOrange · 2024-01-26T15:39:07+00:00

If women have lesser sex drive than men then why am I ridiculed for not being in the mood

walterwallcarpet · 2024-01-26T13:05:35+00:00

The high priestesses of feminism are dogs.

So unattractive that they know they'd never be able to snare a man, and get him to provide for them.

Their sole refuge is spoiling the game for everyone else, man and woman alike.

Youcantkillme11 · 2024-01-26T11:29:44+00:00

Women have sex when there’s something to gain.

Proof-Opening9174 · 2024-01-26T16:42:53+00:00

If women have low sex drive compare to men then why do average women (No sex workers) have higher body counts compared to men ?

Because most men can't get anything. Women find around 80% of men unattractive, so they'll reject the majority of men. It's easier for women to have sex compared to men.

If men have high sex drive then why body counts for men are very low ? Couldn't men hire many prostitutes for a high body count ?

Probably because most men don't want to hire a prostitute. Most men will simply jerk-off to porn.

Don't say that men are rapist because most women rape to but get away with it , the American female teachers are a big proof.

I wouldn't think it's just American female teachers, teachers across the world I'd extend it to.

If men have high sex drive then why so many men in their 20s are virgins but women are not?

Because many young men can't get anything. They get rejected in real life and/or in online dating. Women are the gatekeepers to sex.

If men have high sex drive then shouldn't men make a society where it would be easier for them to get sex ?

Probably because many countries are religious or have somewhat religious frameworks, which kind of demonize sex as a whole. Sex is simply between husband and wife, as many of them would say, but nowadays it's much harder for men to get into relationships.

Why it is so complicated subject ?

Most people don't think it's a complicated subject. Most people believe men have a higher sex drive compared to women. Men get less sex because they're not seen as desirable enough for women.

AbysmalDescent · 2024-01-26T17:32:40+00:00

It's very pathetic and hypocritical the way men are constantly shamed for their sexuality, as if it was inherently wrong for men to want to use their bodies while they are still young and able.

What's even more sad is how men are effectively attacked for being either more desperate or more opportunistic, when the reality is that we also live in a culture where sex is scarce for men, where men are not valued for sex, where women are pedestalized, and where men are judged/valued as men on how much sex they have and how good they are at it(women also often judge men on how much they are desired by other women, which plays into it).

Combine that with other possible biological factor, like the fact that men's hormones/sex drives work differently than women's or that men might be wired for diversity, and it really makes you wonder why people act with such intolerance, lack of understanding and hatred for the way men approach sex and dating.

queenAlexislexis · 2024-01-27T02:08:43+00:00

And this post is facts I know a cousin and she has more sex drive and is always horny and always think she’s entitled to men’s bodies

solar-garlic1776 · 2024-01-26T14:25:50+00:00

Both men and women (generally speaking) like sex enjoy sex want more sex.

The fairytale that men always want sex and women don't , come from way back to ensure purity in women, at least that's my opinion. And men are sex crazies feins was created for men to have sexual temperance.

In today's modern world, men still don't want to date/wife up a hoe. Many reasons for this, pair bonding, I know the kid is mine, ego. Ego simply put no man wants to date or wife up the village bicycle.

Now to answer your question, men (the 80%) want sex where men (the top 20%) and women (99.9%) can. This is the difference. Some want and some can. Those that can fuck everyone and those that can't are relegated to the beta bucks side of the equation.

On the bright side , the value of my dog and cat food companies is sky rocketing.

Scarce12 · 2024-01-26T20:47:41+00:00

It's a projection.

Feminism, in aggregate, has a developed Madonna-Whore complex and project this onto men. They objectify men, don't see them as sexual beings, and do everything they accuse men of.

The adage, "men need to do the right thing, women need to do what's right for themselves" applies to feminist philosophy on sex.

Have strong boundaries.

Puzzled-Intern-7897 · 2024-01-26T14:50:53+00:00

First: the idea that sex drive and body count relate is preposterous.

Second: You unironically used "Chad", like come on.

Male rights isnt about getting laid, its about having our crises of rights heard. Don't play into the idea of the left that, male rights is when male lonliness is cured with sex. Its simply harming the cause.

asianfoodtofulover · 2024-01-26T15:25:04+00:00

When you average out men and women’s numbers of partners, it would be equal unless you did something wrong, that should be common sense

Men are more likely to be virgins in their 20s because in the average couple, the man is older than the woman. Like say a 22 year old man and an 18 year old woman lost their virginity together, they’re different ages but they now have the same number of sex partners.

johnnywanker8 · 2024-01-26T20:33:08+00:00

its simple women have more opportunity to get sex. men find most women attractive to fuck. most men are trolls in the eyes of women. harsh reality of it. so yeah I do believe women have lower sex drive but more willing men to fuck.most dead bedrooms in married life stems from the women not wanting sex. I find women to be full of shit and gold diggers most of them are just prostitutes because they exchange sex for things and money. and there pussy smell but we must be happy. I am a male into femdom btw.

2024-01-30T21:29:21+00:00

If you’re an attractive man women will be mad you’re a celibate bachelor. You can’t please everyone in life.

Title	Let's discuss about Male Sex drive and sexism against men .
Author	Joker_01884
Upvotes	78
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Date	January 26, 2024 11:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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