I’ve been supporting my wife for several years now. Our agreement was to always to take care of ourselves financially. Well, that only lasted a month into the marriage.

Before marriage everything was great! Sex, adventures, just hanging out at home was awesome. After marriage, sex life has slowly tapered down to a weekly chore for her and we hardly ever do anything outside the house. She is always too exhausted, sick or “insert” issue.

I’ve tried to leave twice and each time I give in because I worry about her taking care of herself. I also don’t leave because it is my house and the prenup protects that. So, I end up staying because of her pleading me to stay and how much she loves me and how she can’t have a life without me. How she will change back to how she used to be. I know this is cowardly, but I get so torn. I know I am giving up a part of myself by staying and wasting my life away, but it’s hard to actually pull the trigger.