How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?

ikeepon · 2022-09-27T01:43:12+00:00

If she doesn’t go out with you when you ask her out she ain’t interested. That’s the test.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-09-27T02:21:51+00:00

How do you deal with a woman that’s cold and closed off..? You don’t deal with them. You move on

5_7pickup · 2022-09-27T03:47:19+00:00

People are not playing hard to get. They are just not interested. You think she would be "playing hard to get" if it was Justin Bieber texting her? Or Chris Hemsworth? No.

Stop the cope. Take the L. Move on.

TruSiris · 2022-09-27T02:05:53+00:00

Offer value. A joke that can be turned into a subtle flirt.

Make comments that are relevant to her and tease her.

Pass shit tests.

And also know your worth and when to walk away.

Im not super experienced in all of this but these things have worked for me when I've employed them.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-09-27T02:49:53+00:00

"Hard to get" isn't really a thing. If she ain't tryin to meet in the middle on things, quit wasting your time.

Contango6969 · 2022-09-27T01:27:27+00:00

Unless she’s an actual 10/10 she can fuck off if she doesn’t act right.

Alienrite · 2022-09-27T01:09:56+00:00

Be kind and open and patient with her. Most likely she’s been hurt every time she’s been open and caring. Time builds trust and ultimately she will open and bloom for you. But may the world crash around your head if you use her openness to hurt her again.

As to if she’s not interested? When you offer a quiet safe place for her to rest and she ignores you, you are not the man for her. Smile and move on

barakamon1 · 2022-09-27T02:45:54+00:00

You don’t

Competitive-Link-912 · 2022-09-27T07:40:28+00:00

The ones that are trying to filter you and being a little aloof during texting will always show interest in person as well as almost never cancel a date. If they are aloof in person or cancel dates, bad sign.

If she is being aloof and not meeting bro move on. If she is being aloof, but very into you in person and willing to go on whatever dates you set she is filtering you and I’d say stay the course.

In terms of making them less dry, you really need to make an emotional connection and that only happens in person.

notsoslootyman · 2022-09-27T08:38:36+00:00

If I'm looking to open someone up I lead with charm and humor. A lot of women are on guard for players and fuckboys. If you're looking for hookups, you'll just have to reconcile that even if a woman finds you physically attractive, that's not enough. Move on. There's plenty of women looking for fun with a hot guy. They will want to be seen and take up your time on purpose. Slow to warm is workable. Closed off is a polite no.

revente · 2022-09-27T10:04:37+00:00

Maybe just put some pressure on them? Shut up and sit in the awkward silence until they start talking.

Striking-Panic3120 · 2022-09-27T11:16:49+00:00

I dont deal with that , I simply walk way

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-09-27T11:35:33+00:00

You approach her best friend/sister/mom and you make her watch.

Or just be emotionally vulnerable and connect on feelings.

Personally I opt for the former.

Distinct_Face_5796 · 2022-09-27T17:12:50+00:00

The only time a woman has short responses is if its online dating and she is a lot of different guys and is to lazy to invest. For instance I have tried online dating in different countries. Majority of the time it is love scams, but even the real women often will only respond with one or two sentences no matter what you say. Hard to build a connection when a girl is texting dozens of guys! I would suppose its the same for those that are getting short responses from girls in this country. She has a lot of guys she is texting and is to lazy to invest. I would not know since even if I go through thousands of girls on tinder I won't get any matches. I guess I should try to meet women in real life that share similar interests.

Title	How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?
Author	FaithInStrangers94
Upvotes	3
Comments	41
Date	September 27, 2022 1:03 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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