Pull back gone too far

GlitteringPause8 · 2022-07-18T16:48:31+00:00

Stop playing games and following random “rules” (that 80/20 bs you mentioned). That’s so stupid and immature. Hopefully she has moved on

Various-Replacement · 2022-07-18T15:31:03+00:00

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eszibit · 2022-07-18T16:37:52+00:00

bahaha, i'm actually glad this happened to you, maybe you can learn something from this. play shitty games win shitty prizes.

ChutiyaChutney420 · 2022-07-18T17:56:40+00:00

Talking to people shouldn't have you calculating ratios and do math on who texted how much and in how many days bruh, that's so fucking mechanical and emotionless

detraxx22 · 2022-07-18T15:35:07+00:00

Don't see the point really. She is probably out for someone else

burakbenxd · 2022-07-18T17:33:18+00:00

Just reply like a normal human lol people don't have time for games haha

br4hmz · 2022-07-18T17:00:32+00:00

Pulling back means you shouldn’t begging for her attention 24/7, not neglecting like that

modsRlameIRL · 2022-07-18T19:22:12+00:00

Why are you even pulling back if she hasn’t done anything to deserve that?

Don’t be a dick. Message her with intentions of plans to do something, before you loose her for good. You don’t play games with people you treat you well dum dum

I’ve done this before myself tbf, it’s silly

ReorgAtty · 2022-07-18T16:30:31+00:00

In my mind, you abused it. Nice to fall back a bit and let her chase, but no one is going to do that forever. You have to give a little too.

In my opinion, you should text her like your normally would and not even reference the fact you haven’t spoken in 5 days. Just pick up where it left off. If she asks, say you were slammed with work or something like that.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-07-18T17:12:38+00:00

I usually only do that after the first time we bang to see if they're even interested in going out again, as well as not becoming annoying but after a few times of banging there shouldn't be any guess work

auxmygawd · 2022-07-18T17:21:20+00:00

The problem is you obviously abused the pull back. If she’s already initiating most of the convo’s you can just keep it going, no need to fall back.

Also in some cases there are also women that know they’re hot and have a lot of “boys” in line for them. They will rarely reach out cause they don’t care about losing one guy. The best you can do with those girls is just ask them out once a week and never message and call. She will see you like her but not smother her like the other guys with unnecessary texts/calls which will push your value in her eyes as a guy that has his shit together and tries to make time for her atleast once a week. Worked for me and can work for you too.

-Mavs · 2022-07-18T16:09:46+00:00

I believe in the pull back.

I think it’s your turn to send her something but pay attention to the response if it takes hours, etc and take it from there.

Ultimately, if she turns down hanging out then it’s time to worry.

grindforthegold · 2022-07-18T17:48:38+00:00

you can do it a little but if you keep doing after you have sex she’s gonna think you don’t care and just go for someone else . once your in a relationship in my experience those things don’t really matter the girl actually wants you to care

grindforthegold · 2022-07-18T17:48:46+00:00

you can do it a little but if you keep doing after you have sex she’s gonna think you don’t care and just go for someone else . once your in a relationship in my experience those things don’t really matter the girl actually wants you to care

onepunchmang0 · 2022-07-20T01:50:49+00:00

You used it well in the beginning but every once in a while you have to be the one chasing a bit.

Title	Pull back gone too far
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Comments	37
Date	July 18, 2022 3:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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