Nice guys CAN get laid

jsbach123 · 2022-05-10T07:00:43+00:00

The biggest fallacy in the seduction community is thinking the issue is nice vs assholes. Rather, it's weak guys vs assholes. You can be nice, just not weak. In order of success:

1 - Nice guy, not weak

2 - Asshole guy, not weak

3 - Asshole guy, weak

4 - Nice guy, weak

incognito3107 · 2022-05-10T07:09:20+00:00

You can get laid, but most women won't respect you and they can easily manipulate you to lose much money, time, energy and emotional balance for hopeless relation.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-05-10T06:31:20+00:00

Whatever is “Just another one” for a chad, is “the only one” for the nice guy

Sure they can get laid. But they have to wait in the line till their turn comes;)

xonbuhg · 2022-05-10T05:59:15+00:00

Yeah read the book No More Mr Nice Guys, it features bunch of nice guys who dated and married, but hated their relationships

asiandawgshy · 2022-05-10T05:56:26+00:00

🧢

reddit_boxing · 2022-05-10T06:16:59+00:00

Yeah, that's a no for me

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-05-10T09:54:08+00:00

Can be true for like milfs and older woman but generally nice guys are nice because they don't have enough confidence and social status to express themselves so that's the only way that they use to people like them and ofc girl can sense that from miles but it's true that they can get gf even though they probably aren't gonna get laid that much. A better way to look at is like don't be a nice guy, be a good guy

V-Future · 2022-05-10T22:26:20+00:00

If women only see you as a provider, they don't respect you.

Lesson in there.

neverbeenbetter4me · 2022-05-10T08:21:00+00:00

If you're a nice guy you can get laid, but the nice guy from the very beginning needs to "take the lead" women, even though the nice guy may not agree, want to be lead by the man. Regardless of what social norms may tell you

You can approach a woman with confidence without coming off cocky but you need to take the lead. When you start to hang out, whatever that is, you take the lead. You can ask a woman what they like to do, then you plan it, you tell her this is what you're doing and schedule it with her but, it's "this is what we're doing"

I just approached a younger woman on Friday night got her # and we hung out on Sunday a got things moving. Today, she had the day off and I was working in her area. I text her that I was going to come to her place real quick and say hello. She balked a bit 'I'm still in my pj's. It's not a good time" 'I haven't showered yet today have no makeup on" All I text back 'I'll see you in a minute' 🙂

When I started walking up she is outside of her door laughing and giggling thought it was cute acted embarrassed and we spoke at her door for about 15 to 20 minutes set up another time tomorrow to get together after work

As I was pulling away I got a text that said "that was super hot what you just did" What were we doing tomorrow?

Just take the lead

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-05-10T09:20:42+00:00

Yes, but there’s a difference between her having sex with you for whatever reason and her having sex with you, because she has genuine burning sexual desire for you and craves that validation that you want her too.

It’s a whole different kind of sex.

H8beingmale · 2022-05-13T03:01:14+00:00

its a debate and topic of discussion that will sadly never die

HeavyOpinion4573 · 2022-05-18T19:59:34+00:00

I don't know about that music women like to be treated like crap I treat them with respect very generous but I can't get a date to save my life

Title	Nice guys CAN get laid
Author	DangerousCup6635
Upvotes	12
Comments	24
Date	May 10, 2022 5:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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