Has it ever worked for you if you asked a girl directly to come over for Sex?

2022-05-07T00:13:17+00:00

Feel like this’d work if you’ve already had sex or she was talking about it before you asked.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-05-07T00:18:14+00:00

Usually happens if you already had sex before, there's nothing that much between two of you and then you can ask it directly. I mean I'm usually not that direct rather like, I'm bored at home, I'm alone but I know a cool film that we could watch together. Not that direct but every single people know what is that mean

Contango6969 · 2022-05-07T00:34:44+00:00

nope. Anti slut defense wont allow it. Even the most thinly veiled shit like come cuddle with me can work though. women lol

InternPrestigious741 · 2022-05-07T09:03:53+00:00

Once. I matched with this forty year old yoga instructor on a dating app when I was in my early thirties (she was extremely good looking for her age), and I really didn't feel like being indirect in anyway, so I just told her upfront that I swiped right on her because she was fire as hell in those yoga pants and splits she was doing in the photos, that we should just have a long and hot sex session right now. She appreciated the honesty and it worked out.

It's a rare thing though I think, she was on the prowl for a fit younger man and my comment was in the right place at the right time.

Sea_Particular_9086 · 2022-05-07T02:52:34+00:00

Bedroom Olympics

caffeineratt · 2022-05-07T07:54:08+00:00

Funny story, I thought I did, and she did not think I was that kind of guy. So, when I clarified very carefully, it was cool to hear that she was also attracted to me. Given, I had already picked up on this interest during previous occasions, just never made a move until then. This all went pretty well, so you def can play your cards right to do it.

2022-05-07T13:34:41+00:00

You don’t need to mention sex. A girl knows that if she is coming over to your place that it is a possibility or probability that it can happen.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-07T00:22:16+00:00

naw, girls have always asked me to “cum over” & yes thats always worked for me😂

2022-05-07T05:02:31+00:00

Yes.

Live-Ad-6309 · 2022-05-07T13:10:40+00:00

I've been successful with the direct approach probably 3 times In the passed 7 years. It only works with a very warm lead.

kintsugi_htx · 2022-05-07T16:44:12+00:00

Yes. Last two LTRs I had both started off as a strictly hook-up or FWB situation only.

If I see potential for a long term thing, I have this method I run that will make them obsessed with me and have their group chat squad green light the pivot.

Used_Term_1093 · 2022-05-07T09:28:25+00:00

I've used this approach and it's gotten me laid when I was in high school and a handful of times in college. Looking back though, it's clear that some of them didn't have much self respect but I didn't care about that. I was young dumb and full of cum.
These days though, I feel that approach has a higher probability of receiving a harsh shutdown. This is a last resort type of approach that should be used in sure-thing situations with sluttier types that are highly disposable when there's nothing better around.
Side note; I read a comment saying that this may work on women you've already boned. This is true, assuming you weren't bad in bed.

joeyggg · 2022-05-07T12:34:35+00:00

Ya if they’re interested. If they say no, it’s not necessarily game over. There’s nothing wrong with stating your intentions. Sometimes they hold off because they’re not interested in casual sex or getting FWB-Zoned.

rhofire · 2022-05-07T13:24:19+00:00

Like has this directness ever turned a girl on or swayed a girl in your favor?

No, I don't ask for sex or try to sway girls.

But, I tell women when I want to have sex with them when flirting with them. And, yes, they have ended up in my bed.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-05-07T13:29:12+00:00

You can’t walk up to a random girl and expect her to come with you. But, there are some cases where a girl at the foam canon party on Ibiza has sex with a guy within 15 minutes of meeting him. Either way you need to build a. Connection, have frame and she has to be in that time of the month where she’s almost ovulating. Her argument after would be, it seemed like a good idea, he was cute, one thing led to another, etc.

But with an average dude, she wouldn’t do that.

SnooMacarons3748 · 2022-05-08T00:12:03+00:00

Unless you’ve already hit , no , and even then it can be funny. Go out and have fun . Talk to as many women as possible . You should be super talkative while out and having a blast . Alcohol always helps . Women are about good energy generally speaking . Make them laugh , make fun of yourself and them . Not in a serious way . It’s so much easier than peiple make it out to be

detroit87hd · 2022-05-07T08:47:48+00:00

Yes.

Just need a high interest girl. This is how some of my friends banged a tonne of girls when tinder first came out lol

''Hi. DTF??'' and if she replies ''yes'' (which many did) they'd just sent their address and then bang when she got there. No game required!

Need to be good looking, though

2022-05-07T11:34:02+00:00

Worked a couple times for me

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-05-07T12:55:57+00:00

2022-05-07T13:11:33+00:00

Yes.

2022-05-07T13:19:22+00:00

Yes. Several times

2022-05-08T11:58:44+00:00

Yeah a few times. These were girls that were really into me and we hooked up on the first date.

Title	Has it ever worked for you if you asked a girl directly to come over for Sex?
Author	ohropax
Upvotes	29
Comments	47
Date	May 7, 2022 12:11 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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