I want to cheat on my girl

IPiddledMyPants · 2022-04-21T11:48:58+00:00

If you stay with her, one things for sure. You can remove maybe from your name.

wj2smooth · 2022-04-21T11:59:12+00:00

Break up with her. Cheating is a slippery slope. Get the lust out your system if it’s making you unhappy but don’t string her along.

Ale_Raylee · 2022-04-21T13:14:57+00:00

Break up with her, she deserves better

MickDitten · 2022-04-21T11:51:54+00:00

Break up and let her be with someone who thinks with their head rather than their dick

FullbackBoi · 2022-04-21T12:20:10+00:00

Break up with her ASAP.

Men are, from an evolutionary standpoint, supposed to spread their seed. Stop thinking about getting in a LTR, and continue fucking around like you want to.

Why do you people even get in LTRs if you’re not in the right mindset for it? Do you like breaking people’s hearts?

Unique_Philosophy_40 · 2022-04-21T11:47:07+00:00

Ask for an open relationship or break up with her.

disillusionednow · 2022-04-21T13:44:55+00:00

Send her my way. I've been looking for a girl like that.

CommercialFig344 · 2022-04-21T13:30:13+00:00

Dude this is so toxic, work on your issues wtf.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-21T12:37:39+00:00

You have three options here:

See if your gf would be into an open relationship or at least to have threesomes with other girls.
Break up with her to focus on getting other girls (you could also wait to do this after trying option 1).
Cheat on your girl and deal with the consequences down the line when she eventually finds out.

If your desire to fuck other women is strong enough, then give option 1 a try, but don't be surprised if it negatively affects your relationship. I would advise against cheating, but reddit can't stop you if that's your prerogative.

My closing words: there are lots of women out there and even though you may feel like this is the one for you, you will eventually find someone else who is just as good, if not better (assuming your game is good).

jessiepc145 · 2022-04-21T14:45:46+00:00

You don’t need to break up with her like everyone here is saying. Realize that you’ll always have this feeling of more, I want more, no matter wether you’re single or in a relationship. Sit with it, meditate on it and realize that it’s a 3D desire that you don’t need to act on.

Or break up with her if you really want it

agileipa · 2022-04-21T12:11:56+00:00

I don’t know why you are feeling bad. It’s in your DNA. We are men, we are programmed to spread our seed. This one person bullshit was a society and religious construct that is rapidly failing if you look around. Don’t go against your nature. If she is in love with you, talk to her and see where it goes. Just be honest and true to your feelings. Life is too short to shutdown your true self

Both_Upstairs_8973 · 2022-04-21T15:51:58+00:00

Stay with her and still cheat. It's OK brother

MissionAd399 · 2022-04-21T15:19:40+00:00

Involve her in it

heretolearnsth · 2022-04-21T12:13:45+00:00

Keep her as an LTR & keep fucking around and approaching other girls at the same time .

why do you even overthink these stuff?

TheTruth221 · 2022-04-21T12:49:05+00:00

its going to come around

HowToStud · 2022-04-21T13:22:25+00:00

Tell her you want an open relationship or you can’t commit. She won’t want to sleep with other guys if she loves you and you come out winning. Now you can your girl can have 3somes and you don’t need to be ducking and dodging

EthicalSeduction · 2022-04-21T14:25:30+00:00

Look into Ethical Non-Monogamy. What you are feeling is pretty normal and while many people eventually choose monogamy, a lot of people don’t. There are multiple different non-monogamous structures you can and should look into. Polyamory is a pretty good one that you can steal ideas from and use what fits for you both. My suggestion…. If you cheat than you have to live with feeling guilty, which sucks and impacts other areas of your life. If you are up front about what you are feeling and give her the same freedoms, where you both do this together and are there for each other, then you will feel good about everything. And it can be very bonding when two people do this together. There are also lots of poly or non-monogamous groups you can join and even meet up in person.

2022-04-21T14:44:33+00:00

You don’t sound terrible. But don’t do it. Give the relationship a fair chance. And don’t do that to her. She’ll be hurt if she finds out. Don’t be someone’s worst memory.

2022-04-21T14:49:18+00:00

If you’re not sexually compatible and not getting enough sex from her, you’re likely to feel this way.

BackFlashy2939 · 2022-04-21T14:55:28+00:00

Communication is key, let her know what's going on, just like you are venting right now on the internet. If you keep her in the dark, you'll slip into the dark.

Shadow__Account · 2022-04-21T15:47:29+00:00

Its a normal Thing to feel In todays society.

gillmanblacklagooner · 2022-04-21T15:55:44+00:00

I’m pretty sure there’s some term for that instant feeling of regretting after ejaculating when you almost get sober after getting laid… be ready for that.

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-04-21T16:17:10+00:00

I am an older dude and I can tell you that women you can see having a future with are few and far between. Don't throw that away for some skank. I don't have a lot of regrets in life, but one of them is not marrying a decent woman and settling down.

Dark4ever3000 · 2022-04-21T18:28:56+00:00

I got this at 16 and have been with my girl for 3 years and counting. Point is I get you and the feeling. It dialed down considerably. But it comes and goes in fases mostly. If love is there, the closer you get to the girl the less you will feel it. But you need to comit and not just sit in the crossroads. On the other hand you can try your luck at asking for an open relationship. It didn't go well for me and in hindsight it was probably for the best. Good luck mate

bandsupjay · 2022-04-21T18:45:36+00:00

So just be honest about your intentions and break up. Youre the man. You’re clearly not settled down and thats fine bro you’re 28. But if you’re not ready to settle down you gotta be honest about that and let her know so she doesnt waste her time. Whether shes cool with it or not who gives a fuck

2022-05-02T22:57:18+00:00

That's a shit move.

Title	I want to cheat on my girl
Author	amiabadpersonmaybe
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	April 21, 2022 11:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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