How to flirt? What to say?

sk07ch · 2022-01-22T17:56:55+00:00

Flirting is playing. Playing with words, thoughts, pointing at things without saying them. Flirting is like humor but does not necessarily involve joking around.

But even more it can be maximizing entering the moment together. Creating an experience. Sharing admiration about a topic together.

Yuva0 · 2022-01-22T16:18:10+00:00

Scientist huh, how about you research me? 😉

Flirting involves having sexual tension btw you two. It involves crossing a line that may work on her or may not but you have to take the plunge.

You can go the oldie goldie route and say 'Hey, I like this and that' and she will says thanks. But that's about It. You need to create tension to go further.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-01-22T16:40:13+00:00

You said you liked her accent. That's flirting.

If you like someone, you don't need to flirt by the way. That's a myth..you can just ask them on a date, pretty straight forward stuff.

13Xxx21 · 2022-01-22T18:56:23+00:00

That's a good start.

Be playful not obnoxiously goofy or be the court jester.

Tell her you like her and that you want to know her better.

If she's really pretty avoid focusing on her beauty it will keep her guessing.

If you got her number don't blow her phone up with texts.

Call her in few days with a plan of a date nothing serious something where it's you and she, no movies or sporting events, a walk in the park, sightseeing in a museum.

Break contact 1st wish thank her for the good time be on your way.

foreignredcars · 2022-01-22T21:08:54+00:00

DAMN GIRL YOU SHIT WITH THAT ASS?

Melinored · 2022-01-22T17:08:05+00:00

Read "Conversation Casonova" or watch Based Zeus channel.

SooPenguins · 2022-01-22T18:00:56+00:00

you should check out social animal on youtube

stadiumrat · 2022-01-22T22:34:34+00:00

I learned a lot from the book "How to win friends and influence people". The title sounds corny, but there's gold in the pages.

One main point is to talk about her, not yourself. Joke around, let it come naturally.

TikTakTight · 2022-01-22T23:17:56+00:00

push and pull.

Tease and be kind

DonnySlime · 2022-01-23T01:42:06+00:00

Flirting is something you figure out yourself. Everybody has their own style and what works for one guy might not work for you. For example, being overtly sexual or throwing too many compliments might work with one guy, but it has never worked for me. I usually get in trouble and she gets mad if I am too complimentary towards. What works for me is not flirty at all and letting her do all the flirting. I usually just look at her and say thank you. I usually talk about the things I like. People have always told that I'm funniest when I'm not trying to be funny. I guess I just have a cartoony personality. The girl will usually at the random nonsense I say. If I do compliment her, I make sure the compliment is real and coming from deep down. Pretty girls get told their pretty all the time, but I might compliment her on her smarts, her fashion, her nails, and how she makes me feel.

Even though guys on here and in this community tend to run away from telling a girl how he feels. They do it wrong. Your not supposed admit your love to her. That sounds crazy, clingy, and desperate. It's best to tell her that she makes you happy or she makes you feel good or that you could tell her anything/be yourself around her. You could also tell her that she as always been sweet to you. Let her do all the talking.

Rymasq · 2022-01-22T18:45:00+00:00

"you're a scientist? we should uhh do some research together"

"research like what?"

"ohhh maybe human anatomy"

iiexistenzeii · 2022-01-22T17:38:32+00:00

here, read this by u/hunterpua he's a great coach and I love his posts.

froze_gold · 2022-01-22T23:33:08+00:00

Edit; Best advice ever: A charming person asks a lot of questions.

Talk about them. People - especially girls - always have something to share about themselves.

Flirting - its a paradoxical problem. Thinking about how to flirt will stop you from flirting.

Fumble your words, compliment something they had to put effort into. Feel what you feel about them. Smile, make eye contact, wink. If it feels good, ride with it. If it feels like you have to force a vibe then you're simply missing the part your sub-consciouness is picking up on - they aren't interested..

A simple hey can take you far, if they are open to talking with you and not being cold or standoffish.

YakubTheCreat0r · 2022-01-22T23:40:32+00:00

I usually make them laugh by being witty and with jokes. So far it works for me.

redeyerds · 2022-01-22T22:29:00+00:00

Your accent lights me up like a Bunsen burner

Tom1380 · 2022-01-22T18:23:26+00:00

Do people find italian accents attractive? I feel like the main thing separating me from a native english speaker is my accent, it kinda embarrasses me

nongo · 2022-01-22T18:34:42+00:00

A scientist? So you’re pretty and smart.

TexRetroTech · 2022-01-22T20:25:59+00:00

Start talking about something you like about her without saying she is hot or sexy, which is a red flag for most women. Something like her shoes, watch, jewelry. Compare it to your own. If you're smiling and positive and she reciprocates, your flirting is working.

AndreKnows · 2022-01-22T22:38:38+00:00

Flirting is something what you do when there is already some attraction, but not out of the blue on random person, this would make you look like a weirdo.

delabole · 2022-01-22T22:43:37+00:00

My go-to approach is to talk about a movie I've seen recently. And say I fancy one of the actresses. Then ask her what actors she fancies. If you are a girl, it works too, just make the obvious changes. Of course, there's no script from that point on...but another good continuation is to ask what actor/actress you look like or tell them who they look like.

tlthang · 2022-01-23T00:22:57+00:00

Hey girl, your accent is cute… are you from California, if not, you would like some California in you?

Title	How to flirt? What to say?
Author	Spiritual_Yak5933
Upvotes	114
Comments	43
Date	January 22, 2022 4:09 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/sa5q47/how_to_flirt_what_to_say/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-to-flirt-what-to-say.1268510 https://theredarchive.com/post/1268510

Comments