Update ( date with girl from gym)

the-me-an · 2021-07-11T17:33:09+00:00

Usually the easier the approach, the better the match. If you find someone genuinely accepts you from the first second, thats a gift. Happy to hear it all went well.

Hungry_Leave_2910 · 2021-07-11T17:22:17+00:00

Another brother gaining some confidence love to see it

eyesopen1111 · 2021-07-11T13:58:19+00:00

Well played! Keep updating us, this is getting good.

sergeiglimis · 2021-07-11T21:26:26+00:00

Her reading this: 👁 👄 👁

Bearhat9000 · 2021-07-11T14:46:33+00:00

Nice job man, a bit of advice though. Try "planning" your next date during your current date. It brings up more potential for topics of interest while letting them know you have them in mind in your future and also makes establishing the next one a lot easier since it's done in person.

Big props on the walk up though 😎

jwilhelm0618 · 2021-07-11T14:58:13+00:00

🖖🏽

rhino9299 · 2021-07-11T19:22:04+00:00

Bro! That’s awesome! I have the same scenario going on rn. I’m interested in talking to this girl at the gym, and I believe she is showing similar interest through a few expressions/signals. After talking about these what I think are hints with my friends, they confirmed this girl is interested and that I go and talk to her. But I’m also nervous to talk to her. How did you manage those nervous feelings man? Did you approach her in between her set?

nakalyae7 · 2021-07-11T13:57:25+00:00

I joked about how nervous I was approaching her

just why you tryna shot yourself in a neck man?

sirrhynocero · 2021-07-11T17:33:06+00:00

Read your first post, super happy for you bro! Live long and prosper

2021-07-11T19:27:12+00:00

Fuck yea brother FUCKKK YEAAAA WOOOOOO

rben2292 · 2021-07-11T16:33:38+00:00

Keep us posted!

Inner_Ad4595 · 2021-07-11T21:55:11+00:00

Nah dude your capping , your forcing yourself to like everything. Jk good luck dude

dibbsa · 2021-07-11T22:13:47+00:00

Congrats.. hopefully you have escalated things. Did you kiss her yet?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-07-11T14:07:59+00:00

Great job man, just have fun get to know her, no need to mention that she made you nervous

Popular_Variation170 · 2021-07-11T14:29:28+00:00

Awesome man. Did you kiss on the date or did anything romantic happen?

lightmightisright · 2021-07-11T23:40:15+00:00

Good looking guy game (basically strong compliment then hard close) at a gym wouldn’t work for 90% of dudes. Indirect question or a comment about something you notice (preferably with a funny twist) about the girl is a more realistic opener for most. Good job though

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-11T14:56:45+00:00

Joking and laughing and good conversation on a date is NOT a good date to women.

You need to escalate physically..

If you're not doing this - 99% chance this won't go anywhere.

Otherwise you'll end up in the "he's nice but didn't have chemistry" dreaded friend zone - and she'll never see you again.

And don't tell girls you were nervous about going up to her - that's a huge turn off to women.

NewCommonSensei · 2021-07-11T18:27:19+00:00

Nice 👍 hi five. Hope you chatted about your favorite star trek episode!

CenaSmackDown · 2021-07-11T17:26:05+00:00

That's good to know. I'm attracted to a lot of women that work out but don't want to deal with rejection. I'd rather just gain mass. I was thinking of joining another gym because it has a younger, hotter female attendance so I could practice gaming. Maybe I will wink at a girl or try a little harder next time I'm pumping iron

STD-Tyler · 2021-07-11T15:58:56+00:00

Good connection means at least kissing bro. Are you guys 15? Not hating but next dates learn to seal the deal or they won't consider you a man...

2021-07-11T16:38:41+00:00

Inspired

tired_demonhunter · 2021-07-11T17:55:40+00:00

Good job bro

tylerpekofsky · 2021-07-11T18:52:00+00:00

I just get so much joy from reading this

DatSexyFoxx · 2021-07-11T19:30:48+00:00

So wholesome, I'm smiling right now

C2_Evol · 2021-07-11T20:36:26+00:00

Definitely trying this next time!

2021-07-11T22:24:45+00:00

Congrats!!

VersionMobile9713 · 2021-07-11T23:08:56+00:00

Our brother is on the fucking verge of making it out. May god rest his kind soul 💯🙏

ikeepon · 2021-07-11T23:09:30+00:00

Live long and prosper!

Mysterious_Ad9166 · 2021-07-11T23:53:35+00:00

😲 wow

Vgrad3 · 2021-07-12T01:12:38+00:00

Live long and prosper 🖖

4025808 · 2021-07-12T01:29:53+00:00

I love these updates. Keep it going and keep us all posted. This is the sort of encouragement we need.

PuzzleheadedHandle48 · 2021-07-12T02:05:59+00:00

Nice man I guess you already read The Game

PM_kink_and_bondage · 2021-07-12T02:09:55+00:00

No idea how to approach anyone at the gym with EVERYONE has headphones on.

RyanpB2021 · 2021-07-12T06:08:53+00:00

But what did you talk about after the initial approach? I’m always worried if I make it past the first hurdle I’d get tongue tied and wouldn’t know what to say next

Title	Update ( date with girl from gym)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	847
Comments	54
Date	July 11, 2021 1:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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