This is more for guys starting out or feeling like they've stopped making progress. Anyone with experience knows this already. Just feel like it needs to be reiterated because I rarely see it mentioned.

Guys, in the end, you have to be having fun. Your goal when you go out is to have fun. When girls see you having fun without them, they go nuts. Similarly, when all a guy does is go from girl to girl, he will look creepy, and probably won't have fun.

You can't put the pussy on a pedestal. You just have to have fun going out, and take every opportunity you are given to pursue a girl.

Take fishing as an example. If you go out on a fishing trip, you should be fucking around with your buddies, enjoying the sun, throwing back some beers, and having a good time. Then it gets extra fun when you catch a fish. But it's called fishing, not catching. If you're out fishing and the only time you get enjoyment out of it is when you catch something, you won't have a fun time. Now, that's not to say be a shitty fisherman who just goes out for the fun and never catches a fish (because no one will want to go fishing with you :P). You should be as well prepared as you can to catch a keeper, but you must be out there to enjoy the fishing trip!

Same thing goes with women. If you're out there solely to get action, you are doing yourself a disservice. So go out, and have fun above all else.