I haven't visited this subreddit in a very long time, because honestly it hasn't been necessary. I'm not claiming to be some Casanova or anything, I just don't have a tremendously high sex drive and when I do get horny I feel like I can bring a girl home from a bar if I can't get a girl I've been hooking up with to come over. I guess my carefree attitude really plays in my favor, but that's a different post.

I decided to come post over here after reading part of a post on /r/entreprenuer that said, "Surround Yourself with Epic People. We all know we are the average of the five closest people in our lives". Obviously this is overly simplified but I thought about different times in my life and thought man that makes sense... Does it make sense for you?

When I went to college I had had sex with 1 girl. I think 2 different times. Didn't last very long either time lol. My freshman year I had sex 1 more time. I think in 2012 my number was around 7...

In 2012 I met some new friends who loved to party. One of them was always the drunk one, always struck up a conversation with girls, but also always first one ready to go home lol. He really embarrassed himself a lot of times. He didn't really care though and a lot of times he got laid. That summer was awesome. I met more girls than I ever had with those guys. I learned that when you're having fun you need to completely let go. I had sex in the bathroom at the pool!

Now I have been with over 30 girls. I couldn't tell you the exact number but I know it has been more than 20 in the last two years. I'm not as proud of that as I am of what my good friends taught me, how to CUT LOOSE. Rejection isn't that horrible. Me and my other friends shared some of our bests laughs at the expense of my drunk friend in paragraph 3 getting rejected. You might be thinking that's mean but he didn't give a shit. One time I got rejected by a girl and ended up going home with a girl who was standing nearby and laughing at me. Just smile, because life is pretty cool.

So the lesson here is not only to get friends that love to have fun, but also to try to enjoy every moment of this precious life. And also to remember that nothing is impossible, well, quite a few things are but you don't know until you try. If you read this huge scatterbrained block of text thanks for your time and post a question or comment if you're interested!

Edit: the post on /r/entreprenuer that I alluded to inspired me to make a serious positive change on my life not just to share this post. The post is called 10 ways you must fight for your right to a kick ass life, it could have easily been written for this subreddit but I think the lesson is much more important than how to get laid. I should have shared this when I poster originally:

http://businessandbootstrapping.com/the-10-ways-you-must-fight-for-your-right-to-a-kick-ass-life/