Trying to get with a 9, but she is hesitant to meet because she knowsIi slept with her two roommates.

cheddarchexmix · 2010-11-29T05:28:44+00:00

Oh, man. I use this line all the time:

"LOL yeah, we're like the the Capulets and Montagues now, you and I!"

I LOVE THAT LINE. So good. Shows education, wit, and sense of humor, and references a very romantic (albeit tragic) tale.

Try that and see how she responds and post it here.

Enthusizer · 2010-11-29T03:38:00+00:00

This chick knows whats up. She knows what your deal is. You need to calibrate your game a little differently for this one.

I think you should run standard game but maybe you should be disqualifying yourself a bit more to this girl. You need show her that you know that "its never going to work out" between you two. You need to set the frame that both of you know that there is not going to be any sex going on just because you two meet up for drinks.

EDIT: Of course, when you go out for drinks run standard game, with much focus on "push" more that "pull". Maybe 60/40 push/pull

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-11-29T03:25:07+00:00

What's that story about the "Chess Club," the guy who sleeps with all of a woman's friends because she won't sleep with him, and then finally she gives in?

freshity · 2010-11-29T03:14:13+00:00

This feels like solving a crime mystery.

philosarapter · 2010-11-29T18:08:16+00:00

How about the ole' bait and switch? Get a mutual friend (preferrably a wingman to you) to get her to come out with him. He just so happens to bring you along, not "knowing that you two knew each other". You hit it off with her, he suddenly "doesn't feel so good" and needs to go home, in the process you construct a reason why she has to stay over your place. [and obviously you can't stay at her place, because of her roommates]

Viola.

2010-11-29T19:05:14+00:00

I think you are golden. Just continue to game her, but don't push too hard or show too much interest. The fact that she knows you fucked her two roommates (you are preselected out the ass) and is still corresponding with you warmly behind their back imo means that she is attracted to you even though she knows she shouldn't be (b/c you are a player).

This will workout the best for you if you happen to just run into her one night without her friends around, though that may be tough to do.

Though it will prob be tough to get her to meet up b/c she would have to rationalize that in her head which she prob won't do.

Enthusizer · 2010-11-29T03:40:41+00:00

I'm in the same situation with a girl right now except only one room mate.

gadafgadaf · 2010-11-29T16:36:51+00:00

you gotta be careful of this situation. she lives with these girls and any type of falling out will put her living in a hostile environment. she knows your philandering so that's a minus already. the problem is right now she's the flame and your the moth. You are going to have to approach this the old fashioned way. acquaintance to friends to dating to lovers, if you've played poker before you know about slow playing your hand to lure in the prey. that's what you have to do now. you really can't start seducing her over the internet but don't give up that connection. try to progress from email and have her contact you over phone and text msg. she doesn't want to get involved with you because of her friends, you gotta be on the fence then about how you treat her, im sorry but there is no easy way with this one but you have to isolate her from her friends without making it look like you are to get any progress with her.

Barney21 · 2010-11-30T00:02:39+00:00

I've had oneitis myself, but never with a chick I never even met.

This is ridiculous. I suggest you try meeting 20 girls a week for the next 6 weeks.

ChemicalRain · 2010-11-29T07:05:51+00:00

Tell her: "Don't let your friends keep you from being happy."

AMerrickanGirl · 2010-11-29T12:28:27+00:00

If this girl has a grain of sense she will avoid you like the plague.

dave_L · 2010-11-29T04:12:49+00:00

You already got 2 out of 3. If you can't get the 3rd... fuggedaboutit. Ate a couple slices of papaya & you will.

onebit · 2010-11-29T09:25:33+00:00

you need to have a friend try to rape her and you can save her

Title	Trying to get with a 9, but she is hesitant to meet because she knowsIi slept with her two roommates.
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Date	November 29, 2010 3:08 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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