So today I met up with one of my old friends from uni (HB 9, but 11 in my head, I love this girl shes so fun and open, she looks a little like lady gaga so we'll call her Gaga from here on) for the first time in ages, and we had a massive discussion about dating and what we've been doing with people over the past year.

Anyways she was telling me about this guy she was in a study group with (we'll call him Luc), and how they started dating for a bit. Now Gaga knows nothing about "The Game" she's obviously a natural, being hit on 58 times a day.

She tells me that Luc was not her typical guy. Not so handsome, he was a little over weight, and quite plain in the face. However the way he behaved in study group attracted her. He was open, never treated her too highly and would jokingly tease her. The way she described it to me, the guy had game, good kino, neg, etc.

She tells me that over the course of a few weeks they escalate up to him being at her place on the balcony. At this point Luc cavemans it, lifts her up against the wall and kisses her. She loves it, and they escalate to bed, however my girl has some serious LMR skills and she flatly refuses sex, instead she lets him feel around the breastle areas and sleep over.

This is where our young Luc stumbles. She tells me that he would not stop fondling her. We're talking all night and she literally could not get to sleep. Her breasts were actually chaffed and sore the next day. Along with this she said his underwear was dirty.

So poor Luc has not scored but has put in a determined effort, she isn't too happy about the chaffing and undies, but he's got enough game that she keeps seeing him.

not long after, others in the group start telling Gaga how much Luc's into her and how serious he is about it. This puts her off a little but still Luc's game keeps her interested.

They go out one night to a dressup party where she coincidently meets her current SO, a good looking guy with natural game. Mr Goodlooking gets her number, but Luc's game is too good and they go home together.

They get to the door and her turbo LMR kicks in again. She flatly refuses him to come upstairs as they're both too drunk. She opens the keycard door, Luc pushes her out of the way and slams the door in her face. The door to her own apartment. At this point she tells him to go fuck himself and never speaks to him again.

So I thought I'd share this to you as it illustrates a few good points of gaming.

  • If you've got game you can get girls.

Ok obvious right but it shows that even if you're only a 6-7 like Luc you can pick up 9-10s if you play you're cards right. Looks aren't everything.

  • If you encounter LMR and can't get past it that night, it's not the end of the world. Also make sure you have clean underwear.

Luc still managed to keep her hooked with his massive game.

  • Being too cocky/funny can fuck you over just as much as not.

I think Luc thought that his slamming the door in her face would be a funny neg, instead it blew him out completely.

Hope you had a good read, I'll posit a couple questions... Is there anything else you learned from our little discussion and what would you have done differently in Luc's situation?