Race and Seduction

westsan · 2012-10-18T19:03:02+00:00

From a brotha to another brotha, you should know there are some stats out there that say that our overall demand is generally low. (OKcupid stats but not sure of the finites/link)

You have got to go for the secure types if you want anything. I suggest coming off as the BBC and playing that character to the hilt! Only girls that have tremendous confidence will venture into taboo lands. I find this to be very true.

Also, if white girls are your fetish, go for Russian girls, Eastern European girls, British girls, Aussie girls, etc. -- all of which have varying degrees of jungle fever. These girls also do not have the preconceived notions about Black guys so you are far more palatable for them.

Go to the touristy clubs and day hang-outs, and pick up there. Women on holiday are ready to play and taste forbidden fruit. Play that card and play it well.

HilarityEnsuez · 2012-10-18T18:01:34+00:00

Why spend so much time and energy pretending to be something that you're not to women who aren't that interested and with whom it probably won't work out functionally? I know it's a challenge and it's fun but for almost every type of guy there is a type of woman who finds them highly desirable. I say focus on those. It sucks constantly trying to keep up a charade and in the end, nobody wins. Embrace who and what you are instead of trying to change for a specific type of woman.
source: Latino who has dated all races with high success rate

TofuTofu · 2012-10-18T14:31:25+00:00

Calibration, dude. If I say "Damn you got a fat ass" to some hood black chick, it's a compliment. If I say the same to a white chick in Iowa I'm a creep who just insulted her.

It's about how you dress, speak and present yourself. Just like with the workplace. Some percentage of the population will always not be attracted to certain races, so that will never go away. But with calibration you can curtail your approach in ways to be more attractive to the girl's energy level, upbringing, expectations and comfort zone.

Now that being said, you can use this to your advantage. If she sees you as "Wow, I've never met a black guy like him before..." it can boost attraction tenfold.

Being black has some great stereotypes here: Dominant, good in the bedroom, good rhythm, giant mandingo... Let her get turned on by all those stereotypes while pleasantly surprising her by going against the grain with other stereotypes she may have of you. Just think about it from her perspective. How can you blow her mind and change her perceptions? Figure that out and you've figured out how to game other races at a high level.

amacleod426 · 2012-10-18T17:50:15+00:00

Wu Tang Financial

I'll show myself out.

PuempelsPurpose · 2012-10-18T16:29:41+00:00

Awesome name, my Sammy Davis Junior, Jr. friend!

j_arbuckle2012 · 2012-10-18T21:58:37+00:00

Race only matters if you make it matter.

I'm an Indian dude, and I have quite a few more negative stereotypes to deal with, but I don't give a fuck. I'm fit, intelligent, good-looking, and interesting. If she doesn't see that then forget about her and find someone else.

Sangria_and_Soccer · 2012-10-19T00:10:20+00:00

Race matters only if you think it does. -Half-black/half-hispanic

nuanimal · 2012-10-19T12:13:09+00:00

There was a book called Freakonomics where they look at the world in numbers and human motivation.

They completely disected a dating sites user base. And they found that generally although most men and women SAID they would mind a partner of any race, they actually spent most of their time contacting profiles of the same race when there were suitable matches from other races. There isa caveat though that they just mihgt not have been genuinely interested - without any race bias, but that will not be easy to figure out.

That being said, as a South Asian male in the UK - I have had hit and miss experiences, though its the successful ones I choose to remember.

TomJane123 · 2012-10-18T18:23:30+00:00

Thought this said 'Rape and Seduction.' Left disappointed.

sillymallard · 2012-10-18T19:20:24+00:00

You're a fucking catch man. David DeAngelo has a great interview with a black PUA in his interview series. I don't know the name of the PUA off the top of my head, but find it if you can. It'll make you feel less self-conscious and more self-embraceable.

I'm South Asian. I used to think that white girls in the U.S. didn't like South Asian men. The problem is that most South Asian men don't know how to be sexually attractive like their white American counterparts. This builds a negative stereotype that girls use to guide who they find attractive. However, in real life and in real-time none of this shit matters.

lookiamapollo · 2012-10-19T07:24:02+00:00

What you have a BBC. They should be jockin' for ya bro. I dunno what's wrong? Embrace the mode they give you. Be irreverent to how they peg you. you can't diversify. Just play the field bro.

chesterjosiah · 2012-10-18T17:17:07+00:00

[permanently deleted]

RedErin · 2012-10-18T19:12:02+00:00

Once you get into a good conversation, then stereotypes will go out the window.

Basically, game works for anyone. All you need is confidence.

puaCurveBall · 2012-10-18T15:06:36+00:00

Read the sidebar. Once you have put most of it into practice, come back if you still have issues... I would guess that most of your issues will go away once you have a good understanding of game / seduction.

2012-10-19T02:28:27+00:00

White dude here.

None of this works on black chicks either. Boo-fucking-hoo.

noodlyjames · 2012-10-18T16:44:18+00:00

Women are crazy no matter the race. We all want more poon but this requires peace of mind sacrifice.

SinisterChef · 2012-10-18T17:19:48+00:00

Asian pick up line: I'm happy to see you're a member of triple A. (pause for response) Adorable, Asian, and Awesome.

Title	Race and Seduction
Author	JewpacShakur
Upvotes	45
Comments	40
Date	October 18, 2012 12:40 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11opp4/race_and_seduction/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/race-and-seduction.1341338 https://theredarchive.com/post/1341338

Comments