Preamble Alright seddit, first I want to thank you wholeheartedly for starting my growth into my best self. Little back story: Currently a senior in college, was awkward in high school, got my first girlfriend and lost my virginity in sophomore year of college. almost 2 years later, we broke up. My college has an almost 2:1 ratio of girls to guys, but I was getting nothing. 2 months after we break up, I find you wonderful people. In regards to the FR I am writing about, by this time I have read How To Win Friends & Influence People, The Game, and No More Mr. Nice Guy, in addition to what feels like half of seddit.

The Night I went over to one of my friends houses and was hanging out there when one of them mentions that there is a party nearby. I am immediately excited to go, but nobody besides the guy who mentioned it is even slightly interested. Their loss.

The Party I arrived at the party, no idea whose house it is, and I find it pleasantly crowded. By this point, I am 3 beers in, and I have 2 more in my coat and a full flask of rum. I'm also super excited about the party, because this is the first party I have been to since I started on my path to seduction. Needless to say, I am not simply bringing my A game, I'm delivering it next day air with full shipping insurance.

The moment I step in the room, I'm remembering my Alexander Technique, maintaining a smile, and kinoing every person I touch within 10 seconds of meeting them. I flirt with EVERY girl at the party. Anyone above a 5 is fair game. There are a bunch of little premade christmas present ribbons, the kind with tape on the bottom, on the table in one room. I was flirting with an HB6, and after using the shoulder spin, she laughs and sticks one to my chest. Bam, now I have a fun way to kino girls. I love the shoulder spin from the How To Kino series because it isolates, involves a good level of kino, and is funny. I place the ribbons on girls either when I'm opening or exiting, saying "You are a special present" or something silly like that, and they all love it.

The Approach after about 45 minutes of hugging people I recognize, flirting with girls whose names I won't remember, and completely blowing the minds of the few longtime friends that showed up ("Holy shit LordG, you are on fire tonight, what is up with you!?"), a girl catches my eye. HB8, long wavy red hair, big doe eyes, cute face. Can't tell her body to well because of a huge ugly sweater she is wearing (Damn Portland fashion!). She's in a 4 set with some of the girls I talked to earlier, and so I just join up and start talking. I have them all laughing at my comments and jokes, and I turn to her, lightly touch her forearm, and simply say "So who are you?" She says her name and I quiz myself by seeing if I can remember the names of everyone in the set. I'm not doing this quietly, I'm making myself the center of attention while I do it and smile the whole time. If I mess up, I completely own it and laugh about it. I actually almost get everyone's name right, mostly because they all begin with the same letter. HB8 and I keep talking, and her friends start to wander off, but I keep her focused on me using my body language.

The Seduction Once it's just her and I, I dialed it up. Kino on her hands and I kept the conversation flowing. At one point, when conversation slowed down and I she turned her head away, I lightly placed my fingers on her cheek (didn't use my whole hand by placing the palm, just used my fingers), and turned her head back to me, saying "I'm much more interesting than whatever is over there, honey. OOOOOOOOH BOY did her eyes light up. It was mostly surprise, but there was a definite spark of attraction. Her body language completely shifted after that. She still wasn't initiating any kino, but she was excited. We talked for 2-3 more minutes, when I decided that I should go for it. I turned to her and said "Alright, I guess I should go try and find my friends and see what they are up to, but before I go I'm going to kiss you." Immediately when I finish saying this, I go in for the kiss. Didn't give her time to say anything, but as I was moving in, I saw a smile spread across her face and she managed to say the first syllable of "okay" before I kissed her. I made sure to pull back before she tried to, gave her a wink, and turned around and walked away.

The Celebration I immediately went outside and jumped like a lunatic. I felt like a GOD. Then I immediately realized that I had completely forgot her name. I spend the next 20 minutes "nonchalantly" wandering around the house in a desperate bid to find her. I found her above the garage, then walked up and put my hand around her waist. Her eyes lit up and she began dragging me around the house trying to find an isolated area. I could have pushed her against a wall and made out with her anywhere, but I was entertained by our search. We headed to the garage, where a few people were playing the weirdest drinking game I have ever seen. The floor was covered in nails, and there was a stump in the middle of the garage. I can tell she is nervous, but completely vibrating with excitement. Within 30 seconds the garage is empty save for the two of us, and I grab her and start making out with her. On the floor. That is covered in nails.

The Number & Ride Home So after 15 minutes of this I realized I really need her name, and I sure as shit don't want this to be a one time deal. So I take my phone from my pocket, hand it to her, and say "You know what to do." She is confused and asks me what I mean, but I don't answer and simply spank her. She gives me her number, and I look at my phone and thank god she put her name in too. While we are making out, she says "I'm surprised that I'm doing this. I thought I was going to hook up with a girl tonight." Apparently, she is bisexual and wasn't looking for a guy at the party. We keep making out and discuss going back to my place, but I didn't push it hard enough and instead, we end up hooking up in the garage for 2 hours. No sex, but we certainly had fun. By 1:45, I offer to take her back to campus and she agrees, but she wants to find her friends first. As we wander around the house looking for her friends, every few minutes I throw her against the wall and make out with her to keep the tension between us high. Eventually, she finds her friends, they decide to walk back, but the girl stays with me. I also give one of my friends and his FWB a ride back to campus. For almost the whole ride back, they are making out in the back seat and I'm teasing HB8 in the front. When I get to campus, I drop her off and tell her I'll see her soon, and she agrees. Just before she steps out of the car, she turns to me and says "by the way, my chin is raw now." Apparently, we made out so hard and so long that my facial hair had rubbed her chin raw. And I shaved completely at 5pm that day.

Aftermath & Highlights

  • We are confirmed friends with benefits, and have hooked up multiple times since then.
  • I used the present ribbons as a novel way to initiate kino. Use your surroundings and be able to improvise.
  • Make yourself the party, be a source of happiness and excitement rather than looking for it. Emotion is infectious.
  • Seeking permission for flirting will get you nowhere.
  • Learn to read body language! It is possibly the most important part of communicating. If I hadn't been able to read her, I would have had no idea how she felt about what I was doing.
  • Don't save your seduction skills for one person. Seduce the room or the whole set and you will be successful.
  • By seducing and charming one person can validate you to anyone they know. (This could be phrased so much better, but you get the idea)
  • Don't worry about whether or not you are "in state." If you are, you will know. You can feel it coming.

Edit: Holy shit, I was not expecting a response this good. I thought that people would be turned off by the huge length (over 8000 characters), but you PUAs-in-training proved me wrong. This can be you. I had only begun my transformation two weeks before this FR. THIS IS POSSIBLE.

Unfortunately, since winter break started for me on december 16th, I've been back at my parent's house and there haven't been as many opportunities as I would like for improving my game. So after hitting this peak, I haven't kept my momentum as much as I should have.