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October 26, 2018

I live with my parents at house so I can’t bring girls here. It was way easier when I was studying in college since I lived by myself.

Hotels are kinda expensive for me. This makes me reluctant to go on dates etc because I do know where to bring girls. My house is located 40 minutes away from the city and this fact makes me lazy to go out. Since I was studying abroad for 5 years I do not know any places to go out in my home town. I do not know the city that much.

That’s why I usually end up watching porn like a bitch, I am tired of this cycle. Work-Lift-Read-Porn-Sleep-repeat. I fuckin tired of this.

There many girls on my IG and waiting for my text messages but instead I just procrastinate by referring on no place to fuck.

What would u do in my situation ?

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Title Where to fuck
Author salamchik
Upvotes 58
Comments 81
Date 26 October 2018 03:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/135798
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9rlpbz/where_to_fuck/
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[–]MOSFETBJT57 points58 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do not do a mall. You can go to jail for it. Really bad idea.

[–]boy_named_su47 points48 points  (1 child) | Copy

Right in the vagina

[–]Shaka965 points66 points  (7 children) | Copy

Airbnb is my way to go.

[–]jakethesnake500022 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn that never in crosses my mind. So simple. Great find! Thanks for the heads up

[–]O_Duderino23 points24 points  (5 children) | Copy

How does that work, you can rent a airbnb room/house for one night only?

And how to approach the girl to do it? Like, "hey, i rented a airbnb room for 1 night only, you in"?

[–]eccentricrealist26 points27 points  (2 children) | Copy

Talk about high risk

[–]bigkids1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

High risk High reward

[–]ChadTheWaiter1001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]AlmightyPhoenix3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

dont mention that its an airbnb, maybe? by the time you have the airbnb rented id assume you already know youre getting laid and arent just blowing your money hoping you are, id probably rent it after approaching a chick unless youre just gonna go out one night with the aim of getting a stranger into an airbnb... in which case, after talking her up a bit maybe bring it into the "yo want to get out of here? i have a place nearby we can be alone" area

EDIT: another thought, see if you can rent an airbnb at any moment like a hotel room or if you need a reservation reserved

[–]neoda12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

lmaooo^^^ so true.

[–]Herdsengineers53 points54 points  (7 children) | Copy

Stop worrying about girls. Start worrying about launching into your own life as an individual and a man. Goal is to get out on your own. To accomplish that, you need means to support yourself, so you need a job that will pay the bills.

Can you get a job in the City that's 40 min's away? Is there a train to take to get there? Might be tough at first, but save some money, then move there, close enough to work that you don't need a car to save expenses? Something like a roommate situation?

Regardless figuring out an income and a living situation you can afford and sustain - that's first. Stop worrying about girls until you get that step done first.

[–]alaskanarcher22 points23 points  (3 children) | Copy

I actually agree with this but with the caveat that living with your parents is often a really sound financial decision long term and that it can be extremely mutually beneficial on a personal level, so long as you have a healthy relationship with your parents. I don't think it is anything to be ashamed of or a situation that you should necessarily rush to get out of if you can't actually secure your entire independence of living while saving for your future. Anything short of that is a recipe to eventually needing a handout, possibly forcing you back into your parents house at an even less optimal time in your life.

Many people do not have healthy adult relationships with their parents, so this certainly doesn't apply to everyone. A common pitfall is the fact that living with your parents can mean that they are literally taking care of you like they did when you were a child. That is certainly not a good environment for personal development. But that is a dynamic you can change over time. You can take on more responsibilities in the household, help your parents and generally reduce how dependent you are on them without entirely moving out.

Source: I'm young, live with my mom, and saving for my future. Reshaping my relationship with my mom has been a huge learning experience for me and also a huge challenge. My main problem isn't dependence but rather impatience with her personal dysfunctions. Fortunately none of those issues are toxic to be around. She is very supportive and always means well. We laugh with each other every day and I have learned a lot of better strategies for working and living with her that carry into other areas of my life. If you're lucky, no one loves you quite like your mother.

Edit: PS regarding your original question I don't have a good suggestion for this. I have the same logistics problem although I could technically bring a girl over if I wanted and even basically ask my mom to mind her own business. But frankly that'd have to be a pretty unique chick for me to even want to expose my mom to her. I don't need to bring any additional crazy home.

I do like the Airbnb option that someone else mentioned. I'm going to keep that in mind but I personally have no desire of hiding the fact that I live with my mom from any woman I'm interested in. Obviously I wouldn't open with that though haha. ;) Not really pursuing women at this point in my life anyway so not a big deal. Just one of the trade offs for living at home.

[–]Herdsengineers2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, I lived with my parents for a year after college. Was making good money, I just saved it and paid off all my student loans after that year. Then moved out to a roommate situation that was very affordable.

Even managed to get laid a few times, never at parent's house though.

[–]bosshawg5022 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is exactly what people need to hear. I'm currently in a very similar situation. I do still live with my parents but it's a very symbiotic relationship. They don't support me financially at all besides giving me really cheap rent and my mom cooks food quite often. I do my own thing and pay for cars, my own stuff etc literally all they do is give me food sometimes and a roof over my head.

I works out well because I'm pretty independent while getting a break on life for a little bit. And to be honest my parents would be in pretty rough shape without me. I fix most stuff around the house, and mainly their money-to-car situation keeps them buried. My dad runs his vehicles into the ground and they don't have the money pay to have them fixed. And neither of them can fix them theirselves. Thats where I come in. I save them massive amounts of money just being there to keep their vehicles alive, I have connections everywhere automotive related and get them deals on parts etc.

Basically I do all the hard shitty work that keeps their lives fairly comfortable and easy, and in return I get some meals, a roof, and greatly discounted rent. We get along, mostly happy, etc. it allows me to save money, them to save money, and we all lean on each other when need be

[–]alaskanarcher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's awesome! Sounds like a really good situation. I help my mom out in this way too. She cooks occasionally but since I lift and want to control my diet and eat a ton I cook most dinners now. I also am helping her build her own life, encourage her to get out of the house and build a life. She joined a weight lifting group for women her age and I'm super proud of her for that. Its not intense at all but it gets her out of the house and it's something. We also are working together to sort through decades of clutter in the house and are making great progress.

[–]miya3162 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wow...what the fuck have I been blindly doing?

Thank you.

[–]AlmightyPhoenix1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'd like to note that, although you should work on your career and that is indeed more important than random one night stands and fucking a bunch of sluts, you should also have fun. You can figure out an income/sustainable living situation/career while talking to chicks, having sex, etc., along the way. Career advancement is good, yes, it should be prioritized over banging random chicks... that doesn't mean you shouldn't have something else to focus on meanwhile or that you shouldn't try to get laid until you're out on your own.

Not arguing that occupation/living situation shouldnt be a priority, just wanted to add more thoughts to that for OP... ie, do what Herds said, prioritize your career and whatnot, just dont focus on it 24/7 365, theres nothing wrong with wanting to get laid in your off-time.

[–]Herdsengineers0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree. I lived with parents for my first year after college. Worked, paid off student loans early, etc. Then moved in with a roommate. During that year, I did get laid, it was just mainly at other girl's places. When they saw I was otherwise working a high paying job, fresh graduated, and paying off debt from school, there were enough that didn't bat an eye at living at parents given everything else that I didn't lack for options.

[–]neoda121 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

HMM I'm kinda curious as well now, Lets see how the experts are going to answer this 1.

[–]CainPrice11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get a job and get your own place.

Meanwhile, meet women close to their residences and have sex there.

[–]jakethesnake500029 points30 points  (3 children) | Copy

Ok, first off as you know already you need to get your own place. But back to your question...

1) do they have their own spot? That would be ideal. I am living with my ex wife as we try to sell our house and that’s the first thing I ask about: their place. 2) your car. Escalate in the car, it’s really easy to get a blow job and from there sex is simple 3) Could always fuck her in a bathroom stall 4) take her to the mall and fuck her in a changing room, go to a store that’s empty like jc penny. Tell her she has to be quiet haha. (She’s never quiet when you tell her to be) 5) could always go natural and fuck in a park, but that’s more summer time weather. Most women have never had sex outside so they will love it.

[–]salamchik[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am planning to acquire a car after new year. And yes that’s a great point. I doubt that girls here have their own spot. There no international students and most of the girls live with their parents as well. It would be great if I found one.

[–]_Ulan_ 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I am living with my ex wife as we try to sell our house

I feel you, that is not a good place to be.

[–]jakethesnake50007 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck it. The women I met have their own places and don’t care about my situation. They just want dick and I’m happy to provide that

[–]MallowPallow3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Car works. Put the seats down in the back.

[–]BitingInsects2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I took some big risks in the car back in the day. In retrospect, me and the girl could have gotten arrested and it's definitely not cool. Indecent exposure on your record. WHen I lived home, I'd just invite them over super late. I made it a normal thing to play music or TV loud in my bedroom - even without anyone over. So I would have the girl sneak in and have the TV on loud. I made it work... good times!

[–]agsuy4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

How much for a cheap hotel night? 50-50 is usually the way to go

[–]salamchik[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hmm that might be an option. But I doubt that girls here will pay. In the western counties that will work. But here, hell no

[–]philltered5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bwahaha AWALT. Your frame is everything. You decide how the split-up is gonna be like. You set the rules if you have really internalized the pill. Change your mindset pls

[–]Blazer21002 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Their place? Unless you are fucking girls who live with their parents too

[–]king_kay_5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I always do it at their place. My home is private. I don't know what the fuss is about seriously

[–]joeswo2142 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

28 male. Had to move back in with the old man earlier this year temporarily. Still bang 6's and 7's qu my childhood home. Frame overcomes all. But work on yourself and gtfo of your parents house at the same time.

[–]joner8889 points10 points  (7 children) | Copy

Why cant you fuck in your parents house ?

[–]MeanCaregiver14 points15 points  (6 children) | Copy

We have a virgin in our midst gentlemen.

[–]joner8882 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Why ?

[–]menial_optimist21 points22 points  (3 children) | Copy

Are you comfortable with your mother, father or siblings walking by your bedroom door and hearing you moan as you nut?

[–]joner8889 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

I live in a medium large house 170 m2 . So i have a infamous basement where i do my business. Lol

[–]That_Deaf_Guy26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

literal basement dweller.

[–]joner8880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Its like a 2nd living room. I dont live there

[–]thebadmanpuntdbaxter1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I fucked a chick in a field a while back. Just brought a few beers and blanket

[–]The_Lightskin_Wonder1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Im 27 and I still live at home , I only bring 1 girl home but the rest I can afford to bring to hotels, but even then I've maintained relations with women just fucking them in my car before parting ways.

I make good money and I'm lucky to have generous and respecting parents but, I also prefer to respect them and keep the in house pussy to just 1 girl.

I usually grab a room at motel 6 and crash there. Or I sleep at there house. I make about 4800-5000 a month though so I can disguise the night as a staycation. They cover dinner or something I get there room and drinks. Etc.

[–]Tachankers1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

car, or her place

[–]fretbord1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

im in the exact same boat. live with parents.

I have a few big / empty / dark parking lots I found near my usual date spots. so if it's going well, and I know she's down, I drive there to one of the parking lots - favorite one is a train station lot that's massive- find a secluded spot, turn the lights off, put on music, move both front seats forward, and we go at it in the back seat.

make sure you bring towels to lay out. one time I a girl squirted all over the back seat and it smelled bad for for a while. also, the away from the bodies will stain the seats.

use towels. trust.

ive also done it in a secluded park late at night over a bench, and in as school parking lot but I wouldn't recommend that.

[–]Lostitink1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

All you need is your car, seriously I’m in my 30’s and when I drive home to my parents. I hook up with chicks in my car. They like it, it’s exciting. You can always go to their place. Which I like because I can leave whenever I want. I know a lot of these guys are spouting off about getting you’re shit together but that’s not helpful right now. What you need to do is be confident and just escalate in the car. It works and generally if they want to fuck you they will either take you back to their house or just do it right there in the car. Obviously drive somewhere a little out of the way. Put up the sun shade

[–]orezavi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let the girl figure that out. You just work on attracting her enough.

[–]Slolum0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Get your shit together and move out.

Your post doesn’t mention how old you are, but a financially secure man is going to attract a lot more women than someone living with his parents.

[–]blacwidonsfw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In hs I just did it my car

[–]OfficerWade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why can’t you bring girls home? My parents don’t ask don’t care, better to ask for forgiveness than permission.

I once brought a girl to my uncles whom I wasn’t living with but just visiting for a concert. I brought a girl home from said concert and he said next time just give me a heads up so I don’t walk in on y’all. Ez pZ

[–]Psychological_Radish1 point2 points  (16 children) | Copy

I live with my parents at house so I can’t bring girls here.

Why not? You're an adult, and you're entitled to a sex life. It's time for a frank discussion with your parents about this matter.

While a 40 min drive definitely complicates things logistically, it shouldn't be a dealbreaker. You can always try to finagle getting back to her place instead.

And perhaps you haven't considered this...and it's just a suggestion...but maybe you should think about not relying on mommy and daddy and instead get your own place like a real man. Too many man-children out there extending adolescence indefinitely.

If you want to spend a year or two crashing with the rents in order to save money for a good purpose, fine. Just accept that getting poon is going to be more difficult.

[–]salamchik[S] 9 points10 points  (10 children) | Copy

I live in a Muslim family and my parents will kick me out if they will hear me having sex. I didn’t ask tho. Maybe I should try lol. You right, I would get laid if I had my own place but I can’t afford it now. It will be simply irrational. I am working with my dad and our house is huge that there could live 3 families. our house is big and rent prices are so freakin high. Based on that fact I would rather spend my salary on something else for now. Here back home it’s normal to live in a parents house until my brother will be an adult. After that I should move and leave the house. That’s a tradition. Anyways, as soon as I will get a chance, I will move to the city. That would make things so easier

[–]Psychological_Radish2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Then do what I did for a year and bang girls while away for vacation and long weekends. There are opportunities everywhere. Hell while I was helping my sister move into college I fucked a girl while I was there. Where there's a will there's a way.

[–]salamchik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

True. I should definitely consider that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

In which country do you live, and where is your family from? (I assume you live in the west)

[–]salamchik[S] 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

Nah bro I am from Kazakhstan.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Then don't listen to these western ass motherfuckers, they will not understand the burden. Best thing you can do is to get your own place.

[–]erthian2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I read something about guys living at home just generally having a harder time with women, and how much more confidence they had once they moved out. I hate to say it, but its the only real option.

[–]Thizzlebot2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ah yes number one country VERY NICE

[–]salamchik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Glad to hear that )

[–]EyeOfTerror1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Земляк, nice to see the Red Pill got so far. Although I thought Westerners would need it more than you do (I was born in Kazakhstan but moved to Germany at the age of 10).

[–]salamchik[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha nice to see bros from Kazakhstan. Didn’t expect anyone from Kz to be here lol

[–]officerkondo13 points14 points  (4 children) | Copy

Why not? You're an adult, and you're entitled to a sex life.

No one is entitled to a sex life. No one is entitled to jack shit from another person.

It's time for a frank discussion with your parents about this matter.

And parents will say, "this is our property so we are entitled to run it as we see fit."

Parents will be right, by the way.

[–]Psychological_Radish-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

And parents will say, "this is our property so we are entitled to run it as we see fit." Parents will be right, by the way.

Thanks for the input, hardo.

[–]officerkondo2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

You seem to be missing that something a man gets from being raised by his father.

[–]Psychological_Radish-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thanks for the input, hardo.

[–]bluechipmonk0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Salam)) ti v New Yorke zhivesh? Samoe luchshoe snimat Airbnb no nado zaranee planirovat libo sprosi esli devushka zhivet sama

[–]Scrummy6713 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice try Russia

[–]salamchik[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Салам брат ) я живу в пригороде Алматы. Зарубежом как раз таки в этом плане легче. А сейчас я живу с родителями, девушек водить некуда, а Машины пока нет. Вот и проблемка. Ты сам откуда ? )

[–]bluechipmonk2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

da ladno? Eto ti v osnovnom s russkimi mutish? Ya s Uzbekistana no zdes Uzbechki konservativniye.. mozhno konechno nayti dayushix no ne tak legko kak zarubezhom. Ya zhivu v New York s roditelyami i takayazhe problema, samomu zhit dorogo ochen no ya planiruyu perexat.

[–]salamchik[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

С казашками и уйгурками в основном. Очень не мало девушек гуляют и спят здесь, не так много как зарубежом но всё же есть. Я знаю в Узбекистане все построже, у меня девушка была с Самарканда. А так я учился в Канаде и жил один, там вообще можно на первом свидании переспать если хотя бы комнату снимать. Как машину куплю так наверно буду в машине это делать. Хахах Приятно здесь увидеть человека с снг )

[–]bluechipmonk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

С казашками и уйгурками в основном. Очень не мало девушек гуляют и спят здесь, не так много как зарубежом но всё же есть.

Lucky) V Uzbekistane vixod ot etogo tolko zhenitsa

[–]NexusReflexX-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

When two people wanna fuck, you can do it anywhere.

Top of parking garages, ive fucked out on a field at night time. Find a secluded area with a small chance of getting caught

[–]KillingIsMyBusinesss-5 points-4 points  (8 children) | Copy

I’m in the same situation, I’m 19 living with my parents, I need to get better at pulling bitches and bringing them to my house to fuck but I haven’t done that yet, I’m personally just gonna bring them to my house and not give a fuck what my parents think, for the most part I’m sure your parents understand how important it is for you to fuck bitches so just bring them home, fuck what your parents think, you need to get laid

[–]salamchik[S] 20 points21 points  (4 children) | Copy

Isn’t that gonna be disrespectful to your parents ? I mean even for me it’s going to be to hard to relax by knowing that my parent could hear me having sex with a bitch from a night club

[–]stylesm116 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]neoda1-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

dont listen to this beta.

[–]stylesm118 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Most parents view fucking in their home disrespectful

[–]XixsXarvyev 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

How is it disrespectful?

[–]stylesm116 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe it's just ethnic parents , but it kinda breaks the family vibe you have going on, unless it's like a girlfriend of the sort

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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