PSA: Do not give an "I like virginal girls" vibe to plates or prospective LTRs.

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SgtBrutalisk · 2014-04-07T10:18:38+00:00

I would say don't be pro slut if your looking at a potential LTR, be nebulous, vague. They know guys can be uneasy about this so don't let them pin you down on this, hint that you might be OK with it, tell them "truth about past relationships is paramount". If she drinks get a few in her and try to get her to spill about past relationships make her feel safe, give her a line about how you'll both forget when you're sober what was said but subconsciously you'll be able to trust each other more. If you have to give her something first lure her in by giving a fake story, something just enough to get her to feel comfortable telling you about her "most memorable" memories of encounters in her past.

Instead of using a line like "what's the worst thing you've done sexually?", frame it in a neutral or positive light, instead of "worst" use a word like "outrageous" or "kinky" or "most" if you want to be extremely vague. The trick here is to suss out if she's a slut because historically and statistically sluts can't be cured. This method of inquire can be done through sexual priming as well if you can get her aroused she may feel more open about discussing this and lay bare her fondest memories of her sexual experiences. If you want to know if a chick is a virgin this is the best method but when she tells you about how some guy fingered her on the first date or how she blew another guy in an LTR you're going to lose a lot of respect for that person and the relationship may never recover, the same goes if she expects her mate to be pure and you tell her something she doesn't want to hear about you; dread game doesn't work the same on the chicks that expect their husbands to be pure until marriage.

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[deleted] · 2014-04-07T13:11:02+00:00

i've noticed this too. if you want to keep having sex with a woman, making her feel judged for her past will ruin it. keep your judgement to yourself.

CarlsPudding · 2014-04-07T13:31:15+00:00

Always put forth an image of a new-age free-love sex-positive guy. That way they'll feel comfortable telling you all their deep dark secrets. You'll avoid wifing up a slut and you'll learn the truth about how dirty women really are.

redderthanpurple · 2014-04-07T08:30:11+00:00

OP, bitches always knew this. It's nothing new. We use game or what is commonly called "socializing" to find the faults and positive attributes to the plates we spin.

I have three plates that I regularly spin and groom to become perfect women. Before this though, I came across a lot of very obvious bar bitches. It made me realize that to up my game to achieve my end goal I needed to shut down the sluts & hoes and find a good way to approach in the day as well as f close during day time. Once this was set, it only became a matter of time before I found women I considered to be worth being plates.

In any case, OP, you are giving good rudimentary advice to new guys. They just need to know that bitches ALREADY know this and WILL lie about their numbers.

Proud2BGay · 2014-04-07T07:54:30+00:00

i personally like giving my plates a "full cycle wash and heat dry" vibe because i respect my kitchen

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2014-04-07T17:52:32+00:00

I have been downvoted on RP for this before, but I'll say it again: a promiscuous history in a woman doesn't necessarily bother me. What does bother me is a history of lying, unfaithfulness, sleeping with people that gross me out, prostitution (overt or covert), etc.

Having had X number of partners is not a big deal to me. A healthy sexual appetite is a normal part of adulthood and especially young adulthood. I had over a hundred partners before my wife yet I am faithful to her. Why should I worry that the number of partners she had would prohibit her being faithful to me?

And on the flip side of this coin, do y'all really believe that a virgin is less likely to cheat on you? Far from it. A girl who has had a few partners knows by comparison how good you are. The virgin-until-you type girl is always gonna wonder if somebody else could do it better.

Mine is an unpopular opinion, but I believe it has weight to it.

manofire · 2014-04-07T10:57:06+00:00

What feminists want is some form of sexual communism, where they can have access to the kind of dominant alpha males that their better-looking sisters can have whenever they want. Because the typical feminist is ugly and/or fat, they imagine to themselves that women who achieve great wealth and power because of their physical attractiveness are being brainwashed and ruthlessly exploited by some fictional "male patriarchy."

Feminists believe that by attacking male patriarchy, they'll be able to socially engineer a male libido that is sexually aroused by women who are old, fat and ugly; this will level the sexual playing field and give feminists access to the dominant alpha males every woman secretly craves i.e. handsome, rich guys.

JonFrost25 · 2014-04-07T14:02:22+00:00

While it's true that you never want to judge a girl, or come across as sexually judgmental, in front of a girl you want to bang. It;s nice to leave girls with a better understanding of the world, the sexual marketplace, and their place in it.

Of course this only comes out after many bangs, but I level with girls about what sort of woman I will eventually be looking to settle down with. This can be painful for them, but it's an essential reality check. It gives them a better chance to salvage what SMV they have left and build a decent life. Every time a feminist soul dies, an angel gets its wings somewhere.

Besides, pretending to be someone you're not (ie, blue pill) isn't fun. Once a girl is in your spell, she will stick around no matter what beliefs you hold, so you might as well be authentic.

mr_throwz · 2014-04-07T11:34:04+00:00

To answer the OP:

Women have always known this, and women have always lied about their number. When a woman tells me her number, I usually double it to get a better idea.

mr_throwz · 2014-04-07T10:41:15+00:00

A couple of weeks ago I got massively drunk with some coworkers and I actually told my manager when she was giving me a ride home "I would fuck you, but I would never have a relationship with you, cuz you're a slutty mcslutterson."

I think it really threw her for a loop.

aaron_the_just · 2014-04-07T15:56:55+00:00

I generally agree/amplify that I'm ok with a girl's slutty past, mostly because it gets her to be more honest and find out what her N actually is.

It always ends up being uncomfortably high, so then that girl's good for being a plate only but not much else.

As far as ditching them: dude, every girl builds an airtight legal case against her for ditching her.

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JesusJuked · 2014-04-07T15:59:17+00:00

Or be honest?

Nieben · 2014-04-07T16:49:36+00:00

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I lost a plate because I openly judged her about her relationship choices that she made while we knew each other.

Didn't care about her, though, because I didn't have any respect for her. Mildly sucks that I lost out on a bit 'o pussy.

mbillion · 2014-04-07T22:18:26+00:00

or be honest - the red pill is not a cheap trick used to lie your way into sleeping with whores. Part of being a man and handling your affairs appropriately is being unashamed to tell the truth in a respectful and tactful manner

[deleted] · 2014-04-07T18:08:45+00:00

I feel like we had a very productive weekend about not trying to seek women's approval.

This post suggests internalizing validation-seeking approval from women. We don't need their approval. Yes, women riding the carousel lowers their value. Just like being fat and poor lowers male sexual value, generally women do not care about making us feel okay about those setbacks.

SpinalArt · 2014-04-07T07:21:46+00:00

How is this not common sense?

Sturmgeist781 · 2014-04-07T12:44:11+00:00

Remember the Rule of Three:

A woman's cock count is three times what she says it is.

A man's pussy out is one-third what he says it is.

JonFrost25 · 2014-04-07T13:54:27+00:00

It's an interesting bit of game theory:

Put out non-judgmental player vibe --> succeed with sluts, repel good girls.

Put out "good guy" vibe --> fail with sluts, appeal to good girls.

It would be a hell of a conundrum, if there were actually any girls who preferred nice guys over players.

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Title	PSA: Do not give an "I like virginal girls" vibe to plates or prospective LTRs.
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Date	April 7, 2014 6:33 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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